I love this… I hope this is true. I’ve noticed men like to feel needed and thus attract needy women.. I’m sure this is not all men, but it has been my experience that men found me unattractive because I was too independent. And I don’t mean, bitchy and bossy and high maintenance. I just mean, I have a high degree of self resourcing and I do not display neediness, and I know what I’m worth. I don’t demand or need external validation. Sure I need help (as I have recently broken my leg, clearly I would need some support and assistance to get around and do some things in the state ) but I’m not needy… There’s a lot of confusion around this. I’ve been told I’m too confident which they didn’t mean as an insult like I’m too bossy or bitchy, just more that I don’t seem to really need anything. And that was a turn off. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong if I’m doing anything at all wrong. Just really confusing to hear a message like this and pair it up against the reality I have faced