A 15 year old daughter that has to go to the hairdresser after school [Hello Counselor / 2017.05.29]

[@shara6802]

this lady.. she digs her own grave every time she speaks...

[@Shimmysoup]

Right🤣

[@urayahayahauraAAA]

Basically she just want a slave to help out with the work with less salary and her daughter was the perfect candidate

[@qraee]

Her sons look like they don’t like her either lmao I’d leave the house Okay after watching the second part, I found out those aren’t even her sons 💀💀

[@heidiguo977]

LMAOOOOO

[@minminarmy9725]

I got so mad I slapped my screen😂😂

[@TamaraJung]

shes so convinced that shes right. this is basically child abuse and it makes me so mad. instead of resolving this on the show itself maybe they should consult social services? she's an unfit mother. its agonizing

[@Taeyangsmissingjacket]

Tamara Jung this is actually serious and going on the show will not bring much change given the mother's personality. I hope the right authorities take proper action.

[@liskookfeelsdejavu2156]

This is child labor :c

[@pat3449]

Her two brothers look spoiled.

[@huisi9snsd]

That is scarlet what my parents does. Somehow I've gotten use to it :(( it's tiring. I can't even stay awake for exams. My friends exclude me when they hang out. And when I ask them, they will just say" even if we invite you, I don't think you could go"

[@karlalalap7585]

YGBangtanXoxo I think that may be what it is, like a cinderella situation, the two older brothers are spoiled and get to go to extra lessons while the youngest daughter is forced to work for little to nothing in return

[@cookie7253]

Girl: "what am I talking about?!" *slaps herself* Everyone else: *PARENT MODE*

[@user-zw6cu9yv2h]

i was looking for this comment😂

[@noorfatima1442]

@@user-zw6cu9yv2h me too i am going to comment about it but than i see this so i am commenting here

[@marissa6952]

Time stamp?

[@maniiboo_rml]

Flower_M 1:47

[@takahiro5528]

Was thinking the same thing

[@animecatgirlcutie001]

Her daughter deserves a better mother

[@angelnumber9665]

my gash so trueee..

[@claudiadyah2220]

and money...

[@himlaz_2398]

Neko Trash true and does everyone in Korea look like a model

[@nugu3169]

darnell vlogs no

[@bubblelife3688]

Amminah nobody gives a fuck about your opinion 🖕🏼

[@armyismyfamily8914]

Lol I can't stop laughing when she said "I don't she's lying through her teeth"

[@artemisronela6101]

Me too.. HAHHAHA XD

[@pinkey6885]

🤣🤣

[@arianneestacion3748]

i just kept wondering about how awkward it was as they go home after this

[@Othmanmessaoud]

She probably beat the living shit out of her daughter for making her look like a fool on tv.

[@floralstripes8001]

@@Othmanmessaoud That sounds abt right. The daughter said she was scared of her mom

[@emmad.8815]

I feel like this show is more for exposure of problems people have to face than actually solving the problem unfortunately the

[@seoseo5504]

@@emmad.8815 agree tho. They just exposing and talking about guests problem but never solve it. Whenever I watch this show I always feel scared bcuz it will getting worsen, the victims will get bullied even more.

[@eahschoreo]

Or the ride back home😗

[@amiiraabdulle336]

Not surprised why her former employee left.

[@justaydontstray2002]

Amiira Abdulle I was reading the comments and this one is the best😂

[@nylamcneil6980]

👏👏👏

[@NatsuDragneel07]

👏👏👏

[@requiemforamerica8432]

The mother is a real life stepmother in cinderella

[@chigen]

True that

[@00mlk56]

except that she's the actual biological mother of the poor child...

[@iliketonyandjiminlikeilike1173]

RequiemFor America 3k likes

[@toesocks6616]

for asian girls, yes it is indeed

[@tuansohtuwaemudo4771]

RequiemFor America I think so

[@meiphoriaediting6348]

"I struggle more than her" You're a mother! That's your job! My mom puts me first than anything even tho shes a single mother! This woman doesn't deserve to be a parent, a parent that tries to play the victim when theres a situation with their child is not really mature enough

[@sephocookie7393]

Perents should be working harder than the children bc one day they will also have children

[@anushkapandey8588]

@@sephocookie7393 not necessarily, most of our generation is not as brainwashed into wanting children and most even lack sex Ed.

[@khalidaafzal9638]

I am actually glad I have a nice mother. I can't imagine living with her especially if she's a single mother

[@jiuccio]

What kind of mother that comparing her life with 8th grade child? The mother definitely revenge all her anger to her child

[@miapeaiamaria8329]

Same

[@fredge4023]

I'm seeing all sorts of red flags with this woman. The biggest ones probably being that she sees her own problems as more important than her children's problems ("menopause beats puberty"), and she feels like her daughter is somehow competition ("she can't win against me"). As someone who grew up with an abusive parent, and has been in multiple abusive friendships, these are things that make me yell at everyone to stay as far away from this woman as possible.

[@marinsollie599]

THE BAFF My mum for example. I moved at 18... now I'm great ...I just miss other people from my family ... Because I'm far away. She used to make me pay clothes and food with the money I was making as a child selling handcraft and other things .. plus cleaning the house and so on ... For example if I broke something I had to give her the money. I decided I would be better by myself since at that point I was sustaining myself.

[@got7noona733]

marins Ollie what 😱 😱 😱 you're mom doing this to you? Omg I can't believe that 😢😢😢 I hope one day you become a great mother to your children

[@歐悠-y1n]

What's menopause?

[@tofugoreng23]

Barbie Au when you stop getting your periods

[@tenzinkophy3065]

THE BAFF so true .I help my mum in restaurant but she always denies me to work there even though Gud employees are hard to find in our area

[@ostaniawhestalis8416]

may i say that the girl is so beautiful.

[@baewuxian]

aika fuwa she really is

[@angieadwoa452]

aika fuwa honestly! she kinda reminds me of hwang jung eum

[@beam9939]

Seriously! When she first came out I immediately thought she had the face of someone who could be a celebrity. I was beyond pissed when she called herself ugly. Like how bad did her mom ruin her confidence? She's tall too

[@YanYan-nx1mm]

she is really really beautiful omg. She can be a model!

[@iffahtaufiq1176]

For me she looks like OMG's YooA.

[@mangosocks7710]

Y’all definitely know she got whooped when she got home

[@elhamhemat572]

yep, the same thing happened to me. it got worse nothing better.

[@devilsadvocate6323]

@@elhamhemat572 what u mean same thing happened to you??

[@elhamhemat572]

@@devilsadvocate6323 my parents were forcing me to work in their clinic, they were also beating me up. but after I went to gym and told my dad if he hits me after this I will defend myself and he broke his arm while hitting me. he stopped it. now we are friends.

[@devilsadvocate6323]

@@elhamhemat572 I'm sorry for what you went through😔😔 and you have no idea how happy I am that you're no longer in that situation.

[@elhamhemat572]

@@devilsadvocate6323 yep, now I am sponsoring them to come to America, I will work hard to give them a really good life because they are my parents and I love them. they were ignorant but I am better than them.

[@achanwahn]

How does this kid pass classes? Does she not have homework? I had hours of homework, but at least I was able to relax & do my own thing for a couple hrs. :/

[@jakesbestie8024]

achanwahn her mom probably told her to do her homework in the salon

[@redacted4196]

In some schools in Korea there is a hour dedicated for studying. Probably that's when she does her homeworks.

[@Reecane95]

They don't have homework until 8th grade

[@elizabeth_jasmine]

@강세진 is the afterschool hours the academy stuff they do in those hours if it is in the video when the mother said the brother was in high school and does after school classes and and expression was at the top of the girl saying I want to attend it too😭😭

[@reno8494]

@@elizabeth_jasmine lmao that's not all. The mother is fuxking dumb . She made her daughter work as many people think a boy has higher chances of succeeding (which is fkn wrong). That's why they put much more effort into their sons unlike their daughters(ignorant shits do that anyways). She's fkn sexist . If she was my mother I'd hate her for that one reason. Unless she made me AND my BROTHERS work, then it'll be fair.

[@Soapmink]

“Menopause beats puberty” lady you dont have active hormones anymore. Your daughter is a teen full of now active hormones bc she’s growing. Tell me how menopause beats puberty???

[@raixx4699]

@Y /N Actually Menopause can be a very painful and new thing in a women's life. I've seen some that have felt like a different person because of it. Though i don't agree with the mother Menopause can have a big effect in a women's life

[@WildVee]

Both phases have effects on women's lives, menopause being quite life changing for some. Though not one or the other should be considered as less painful/more painful, or important/less important, as it can vary from woman to woman and they can both be difficult for some women.

[@JJ-yu6og]

Your interpretation of that is not accurate. That's why language interpretation and translation are so difficult.

[@keyanna4272]

lol she shld read the comments HHAHA

[@Wania-qw6yo]

the stress is gonna affect her brain’s growth since she’s still actively developing, poor girl

[@chenswife8971]

I can just tell the mom is lying.. she gives me a weird feeling.

[@harajukubutterflyyy]

to me it seems like some Korean moms don't like their daughters as much as their sons.

[@amyrhee2810]

yes, in korea back in the day boys were much more favored. For instance when my great aunt was younger, whenever her brothers hit her, her grandma would not take her side. But now the equality is getting better :)

[@lol51679]

My situation right now. :(

[@yoongs3878]

Thats typical Asia. everywhere. not just Korea. Her mom sees a better future in her son and thinks that her daughter should just work at the beauty salon after she finishes school and then get married.

[@vulpi2069]

yoongs excuse me

[@ghd_tmd9685]

boys are just considered more important because when they grow up they will lead the family and do outside work while the girls are just set off to the side to do housework and produce children. Not so long ago in Korean if the wife didnt have a male children or couldn't have male she would have been kicked out of the house

[@matcha_]

She's so adorable. I would love to have her as my sister or daughter. She's also so sweet and hardworking. Kids like her are hard to find nowadays. I hope her mom realizes she's raising an angel and lets her live her life.

[@XenanKayriRedFrost]

people who have not been in poverty does not know what they're talking about :(. I'm on the mothers side but some of her ideals were kind of stupid but still it's harder not being able to help your mother than helping her.

[@lyncabigas4340]

Kayri shut up

[@Hibescus]

sometimes, I wonder, after the shows, what happens? does the mother hit her for exposing her?

[@_hypnxtized_6862]

Probably. if I was the girl I wouldn’t want ANYONE to know that I get treated like a slave by my mother. Because if you think about it the more people knows about it, the worse it’ll get.

[@NelleBear]

​@@_hypnxtized_6862 omg no. That's literally the worst way of thinking about this. It's the message abusers want their victims to think.....that the abuse will get worse if they speak out about it or seek help. We need to spread the message that speaking out and getting help is almost always the best thing they can do for their situation.

[@limousinecar230]

If i were her mother, i stopped giving her meals afterwards, it's money we're talking about

[@yujutheworld]

@@limousinecar230 there's a special place in hell for you

[@Jadeddoxy]

@@limousinecar230 Ffs what's wrong with you my guy-

[@itsausername333]

The little girl is so pretty, do well in school and go succeed further in life than your mom lol

[@celestialgalaxy8948]

"When children don't work they don't appreciate their parents' hard work." Girl u were just watching tv and sitting while ur daughter do all the work 😂🙄 srsly also it's not fair for ur daughter cuz She can't even play with her friends.

[@shaimaelys2856]

Hahahaha

[@tanvisinha7502]

Chaimae Bahamma your profile picture fucked me up

[@shaimaelys2856]

tanvi sinha lol why ?

[@tanvisinha7502]

bangtan girl I think back then she/he had a hair as their profile picture and I kept trying to remove it before I realised it was *pArT oF ThE ScReEn*

[@ightimamoveovertoadifferen8116]

Celestial Galaxy I don't think she has any

[@gudetamacx]

this woman acts as if her and her daughter are equals. yes, you do have it harder than her, thats how its supposed to BE. you're the mom and you're supposed to raise her and offer her a stable home and a fun childhood so that she grows up well before she goes off on her own. this made me so mad bc how is she going to expect her young daughter to do all the things she does, on top of all the household chores, AND do well in school and study as well? that lady is sitting on her ass watching TV while she works her daughter like a slave. 100% not okay and the fact that she's laughing tells me that she doesn't understand the severity of the situation.

[@ManecaKaye]

i can't understand why the mother is too persistent to defend herself while everyone in the show is already trying to say that she's completely wrong and heartless.

[@ixiiifaie1249]

Maneca Kaye I dont know if I should feel pity to her brothers. they seems like a little ambarrased that the family problem being discussed in public. on the other hand, I believe her brothers didn't really being supportive or helpful that she can have someone to rely on. that's why she resort to bring this to the public and have them to help her out. regardless when the show over, the problem will continue once they reached their house. I don't want to imagine the treatment she will received in the next few years.. oh gosh thinking bout this really make me sad. pity her~

[@syah2PM]

IXIIIFAIE those guys are not their brothers,but their regular customers

[@beam9939]

Yep! Her brother and father both said they wouldn't come since it's not their problem. Thankfully these boys were kind enough to come and one of them even filmed the video (They're her brothers friends btw and much kinder than her brother it seems)

[@oAndi3]

Maneca Kaye And she makes it ten thousand times worse for herself by confirming what they say and saying something worse. That is so terrifying, like she thinks this is okay.

[@classicnowaar]

Maneca Kaye guess you should've been there lol

[@waterysnowy]

Yes children should be disciplined and help out around the house. But this woman is seriously just taking advantage of her own daughter, and she doesn't even think she is wrong. She is on this show digging her own grave.

[@justahuman9273]

MidnightFlower13 that's pretty much what Vonnie Lynn said^^

[@AyAReI00]

Vonnie Lynn i'm pretty sure SHE knows she Is abusing her child but off course is playing dumb

[@kaytea5958]

Presenter: Do you make your son work too? Mum: No, he’s in Highschool. Honestly this made me very upset for the girl, I’m not sure what country it is but it’s the same for most of Asia especially in Japan and Korea for the male children to be favoured. I feel a lot of empathy for this young girl, her future is more than working in a salon. Her mother is exploiting her own daughter for cheap labour, childhood are our most vulnerable and important years. Many mental traumas we gave during adulthood stem for childhood. Your daughter has all the time to be an adult when the time comes, but she only has 19 years of being a teen, or as some may even say 18. Let her be a child, let her be a teen because it’s very limited compared to adulthood and you only get one experience. She needs to be mixing with her peers, going to eat out with her friends and going to the park and not worrying about only have an hour or two to spend with them, and even then she might not go out with her friends altogether since she is so tired from being worked. I hope the daughter put her foot down, but I really doubt it in Asian societies. South Korea has especially come a long way do not get me wrong, but they still have major issues with gender, plastic surgery, and overworked idols. “She can’t win against me” I can’t believe the words coming out this “mother’s” mouth. Families shouldn’t be competing it’s extremely toxic and needs to STOP. What is this? A game of who deserves more pity? I used to have the same with my mother but under different context, she used to compete with my body and say things like “My waist is really small, but you have broader shoulders like Amanda (her sister)” and it’s a very harmful environment for young girls to deal with any competing whether it be with body, or pity etc My heart goes out to her! ❤️

[@SonGoku-wp8ru]

Kaytie tbh from what I’ve seen from chinese movies girls was not allowed to study nor laugh they are just to sit still and look elegant

[@rosie7901]

Son Goku girl same lol I watch to much Chinese drama

[@xxcrystal_editsstudioxx5894]

My dad treats everyone equally lol, but there are 3 girls and only 1 boy and he’s just 3 so it’s natural to pay attention to him more.

[@reno8494]

@@SonGoku-wp8ru lmao no. They do everything now. We're in the 21st century dammit.

[@toniakinsanya]

African parents are exactly the same lool (not mine thankfully) but a son is always prioritised over daughters. Daughters are expected to grow up quickly whilst boys are babied into adulthood

[@ri-kp2pv]

I'd be scared to go home after this

[@jisoo3718]

Iridiam Barron HAHAHAHAHAHHA honestly

[@iamnotpasta4408]

I wouldn't go home after this. My mom would kill me before I could make it.

[@sikksthot6213]

I wouldn't even dare to go on there. My mom would literally cut if I'd try to do this 😂

[@Jaxnay219]

Iridiam Barron HAHA SAME!😂😂😂

[@Jaxnay219]

Literally though I would just go home with someone from the panel like I'm not going home for me that would literally be considered suicide 😂

[@cinnarenaroll1292]

i mean if it was just having her daugther come in for 30-60 minutes to fold the towels for the day then that'd be fine but there's no reason for her to spend 8+ hours there every day????

[@terrytvshat2103]

just tell me why + school like the girl doesnt get rest... or enjoy her life..

[@codycat6]

TerryTVs Hat TERRYTV

[@beam9939]

Not to mention school, studying, and even chores at home on top of all that. I really wanted them to ask how much she sleeps because it's probably not much.

[@bluekirby711]

Also when she's in high school and still working it's gonna be hell on her grades and she'll resent her mom if she wasn't able to pass her college exam because of her. It seems as though she never gave her son to do anything

[@vatanakpanhaly45]

Gina Kang typically Asian family. I was the same when I was in school but fortunately I have pretty good grade and my dad help whenever I don't get enough time to study.

[@toestud3791]

Of course she doesn't work all day, she has to study and revise, if you don't want an employee, you don't force your daughter to work for no reason. Just because you get stressed out doesn't mean you can't work alone.

[@AkiraAlexisSoyra]

Yes. 😟

[@shimpiyaa]

She doesn't even think how stressed her daughter must be.

[@limousinecar230]

Doesnt matter, girl is useless for school, so might just give her work instead

[@myisaraahmedmiss4056]

@@limousinecar230 wdym??

[@cyn0303]

"When children don't work, they don't appreciate their parents' hard work" GEE I DIDN'T KNOW SITTING ON YOUR PHONE AND WATCHING TV IS HARD WORK. This ain't a mom, it's a boss, she deserves a better mother. That girl is just a child and needs room to grow like a normal kid. It's fine to make your kid so some chores here and there and maybe work for about an hour, but to spend 8+ hours is just fucking crazy. This is basically child abuse.

[@vampyo]

That is basic Child Labour. She doesn't even pay her more then minimum wage! You're right shes a boss, not a mother. My parents work less then her daughter does, and my they work 2 jobs every day!

[@cloudcirrus5515]

The chair that Jimin threw in Boy in Luv MV yes tru

[@manathnop3355]

I didn’t know going to school getting good grades and doing good deeds wasn’t hard work

[@Liz-uv3fz]

Manath Nop She's talking about the mother not the child. How could your comprehension skills be so poor???

[@cl03cl]

Mhm

[@irenewilliams5993]

The ladies reaction on the right hand side at 5:44 is priceless

[@Sam_A_Sam]

i came to the comments looking for the number '5:44' and sure enough it was here LOL

[@nonya-honestly231]

I've never appreciated my parents (mom) more than after watching this video -all i have to is vacuum and sometimes help clean the kitchen.

[@s9angela]

@Nazareth F same, now I feel like nothing cause I don’t even think about helping my mom 💔😭

[@janabroflovski2572]

I only need to tidy my room...

[@pradeeppulintharakunnel3531]

Me too.... I feel so bad coz all I do in the hoise is wash dishes and sweep the front room and my room... Actually the rest of it... Both my parents split up to do it coz I'm now in tenth grade and as it's online lessons and exams always... They do most of the chores so that I xam hav enough time to study.... I'm honestly really thankful for them now..

[@ravenclaud7536]

This show looks pretty cool. Is it just for helping teens? The stage looks so comfy and welcoming. That mom on the other hand... Wow...just wow. That poor girl.

[@KittentheFennecFox]

Raven Claud It's for any age. There was one lady that was probably in her 70's on the stage because her 38 year old single daughter wants to be a rapper and her mom wanted her to stop that because she wanted her to get married and have kids. It was so funny you should watch it.

[@ooodette51]

Šämmï I REMEMBER THAT EPISODE LMAOOOO THE MOM WAS SO FUNNY SJSNSIJS

[@nickyella91]

Raven Claud i guess it is a pretty good show but it depends on the issues that go on and how they handle it to me the show is alright but can be a bit rude and bad sometimes

[@pastelcataclysm]

My mom's a hairdresser and over the years I've spent some time in the various salons she's worked at. When I'm there I sweep the floor, fold towels, and one time I even helped apply color to a client - but I never did this on a regular basis and she didn't make me do nearly as much as this poor girl. I rarely go to the salon anymore now that I'm in high school and I hope this poor girl doesn't either.

[@Jay-xr6dc]

So basically the mum didn’t wanna keep paying for an employee so gets her daughter to do it and uses being a mother as an excuse.

[@xlongyujax]

I'm so glad that the mother was exposed on this show. Koreans are brutal at telling the truth and i'm pretty sure everyone of her customers/people are chewing the mom out if they saw the show. Anyone know any follow up on this story?

[@dontcallmeoppa8592]

now i feel thankful to have my mom as a mom tbh, my mom is like angel to compare with this cruel mom

[@marisol4045]

Dont call me oppa same

[@probablyyouroppasgirlfrien3870]

Yes. My mom hates it when I'm doing chores.

[@swadhicooppen6799]

Dont call me oppa omg same

[@muffinmonster2634]

I wonder what happened after the show when they got home😧 oh God

[@silent_queen9849]

tho this is old, seriously that's what i wonder. i hope her mother din't make things worse for the kid.. or treat her way more worse.. it din't look like she was convinced completely with her daughter's concern or wanting to change for the better...

[@faye2313]

Same. I thought about it too.. And I feel so bad for the kid. The way the mom speaks and acts. She really is scary

[@silent_queen9849]

@@faye2313 ikr. It's scary that in that age you look upto someone that too your own mother and she treats you this way. it's terribly sad.. She just wanted an employee who works diligently while she lazes around watching tv. i wonder why people have kids if they are this selfish and dont care about anyone apart from themselves.. She isn't even paying her daughter the proper labor wages. She just wants her daughter to work that hard for almost free.. *sigh* this concern managed to piss me off to a high extent among so many of the concerns. such parents are a disgrace and makes me feel so grateful and blessed for having good parents..

[@amnahassan6598]

Silent_queen 98 same we are blessed to have such parents. Cuz otherwise i work at my home for my mother and since im the only daughter and have two brothers its my responsibility to help her in everything and b4 she even asks. My mom raised us alone while my father left us behind for his stupid vacation and couldn’t come back bcz of visa issues. My mom managed to raise us alone and our family even helped us...sometimes here, sometimes there. Life was hell until i met this guy into my father’s role and who is now my stepfather. I feel really blessed to have such a mother like her and to meet an Angel like my stepfather. I Respect moms a lot but this lady is really evil.

[@Rhetzelle]

the kid should leave her mom and ask for publics help I'm sure lot's of people will help her

[@misssushi7853]

uhhhhhhh my mom works as a dress maker and a mother as well. she's like a "single mom" of 4 children since my dad is always away for work. she does all household chores too. as kids she let us play a lot. I am very thankful and will always be proud of my mom. so whenever I feel tired or unmotivated to work and do household chores and do errands... I just thought of my mom and say "this is nothing compared to what my mom has done."

[@lucydaniel2699]

The mom basically makes her daughter work because getting someone else would mean she had to pay them at least minimum wage. She's obviously being manipulative in her twisting the truth and claiming to be the victim. The daughter is clearly scared of her. The mom is forcing far too much work on the daughter (not to mention the bs of not forcing the sons to have a share in the work) while being idle. This maybe because she wasn't allowed to work when she was younger and isn't used to having to do work but it's still unacceptable behaviour. And she then controls her kids from going out? Someone please get this woman some help and give these kids some proper care

[@IrisRiedel6]

Lucy Daniel and she says that she works much harder. well no shit woman! you're an adult and this is a child and you've been making her work since grade FOUR? dafuq

[@petuniaolgapicklewrinkle3441]

preach.

[@omgoppar5777]

exactly. its never wrong to get your kids to help out a bit, but going overboard is too much. you have to let them be kids and enjoy their childhood while it lasts.

[@comradeleppi2000]

When i watched this i accidentally cursed this "so called mom" and my mom heard that and scolded me for calling a elder woman like that and i showed her the video then my mother started cursing her and said i don't think you were wrong.. lol.I felt my mother is one of the most beautiful and strong, independent woman i have ever seen.. she is a single parent who take care of me. She don't even allow me to go for part time job even when i insisted because she thinks it affects my studies. I am happy and proud of her. I realised how lucky i am to have a helping & loving mom when i saw this video. I am scared for that girl, i know my comment is late, but still.i wish they show a video of her present life

[@wallflower.y]

I hope she gets scouted to become a model or an idol. That way, as a trainee she can live away from this unhealthy home. She's so hardworking, beautiful, kind and humble.

[@nevenagavric29]

arisa_ girl its not any better being a trainee tho

[@aurelialucinus744]

arisa_ how... how in he he'll is hat any better? She wants to work less hours not more hours. She wants to go out not have her privacy and personal space invaded. XD

[@wallflower.y]

@KarKar MuddaPuckar but she'd be working for herself, which is very different? and actually sorry, I watched the full episode after watching this clip, and she actually said that she wanted to become a producer in the future so none of my comments matter haha sorry XD

[@wallflower.y]

@Nevena Gavric sorry my english isn't very good, I don't understand what you're trying to say sorry, do you mean she'd still be working long hours as a trainee? If so, yes of course, but she'd receive at least minimum wage as well as success. Whereas slaving away for her mom... and the unfair treatment between her and her brother... is not a healthy environment to grow up in. As a trainee, yes it is very competitive but she'd be pushing herself to be better and that is very different i think..

[@onlythegracee]

I'm not sure you know all the dirty details of being a trainee. While not every company is like this, trainees many times becomes salves. Their pay is in their housing, food, and training. By contract, the company sets an amount of money for living and training costs and takes it out of the pay. Many times, trainees work to the bone to make it as an idol in very poor conditions for over 10 years. Then, even when they make it, they don't see their fairs share. The company takes more out of their pay for costumes, stages, and concert costs. Only if you're the top top names can you become rich as an idol. That's why so many singers try to make it as an actor. Even actors are overworked, but that's a different topic. This is a good article to go into more detail. www.eatyourkimchi.com/kpop-slave-contracts/

[@elishaperalta2474]

I hate it when her mother always smile and laugh when the hosts are giving a proper advice and defending the girl, there isn't even a funny thing about what they say 😒😒 I mean she is not taking the advices seriously and just laughs it off.

[@karlalalap7585]

she may be laughing to try to lighten up the fact on how neglectful she is, if she laughs with the audience she'll feel less embarrassed that she's being called out for this

[@ayah2114]

"he's in high school" TAEJOONS FACE LMAO

[@sophia-cy9ne]

I actually yelled when the girl slapped herself

[@areyoulistening6367]

Is it bad? I actually do that a lot to my self, it's like that way I can snap back to reality

[@autumnmae5001]

belut bakar 😂 yes

[@myme8208]

@@areyoulistening6367 It's not really good. Our faces have sensitive skin. You harming yourself and getting your face some germs lol.

[@kanamerodriguez3881]

Well..slapping yourself helps with blood circulation at least a bit but I also wouldn't recommend.

[@ineselmabrouk5887]

@@areyoulistening6367 physically, it's not good for your skin bc touching it makes it oily and it brings more germs to it as My Me said, but mentally (in my opinion), when you slap yourself after making a mistake I find it to be a sign that you're used to physical punishment, it's more understandable if you're just snapping yourself back to reality but if you've just made a small mistake and you slap yourself, for me it just looks like you're filling in for someone else

[@jasminejohnson5130]

I feel so sorry for this girl, she wanted to help her mother from the kindness of her heart and now her mother is abusing her kindheartedness :(

[@mei-pr8ov]

She shouldn’t be comparing her life with her children’s. My mom does that too sometimes but the thing is we lived in different times, and standards are different, learning styles are different, life is different. Just because you worked at a market when you were young doesn’t mean your children can handle it or work at a market when they are that young.

[@탄히-v3q]

Bruh the mother doesn't see that she's wrong,poor kid.😥

[@xKrimmySan]

"menopause beats puberty" that's an actual thing people believe?

[@isabelburrows9889]

Sanakuu I'm guessing by the reaction of everyone on the show except the mother its not!

[@xKrimmySan]

Lol, thanks for the astute observation ms. Burrows! I'm still honestly shocked that the mother believed that at all.

[@fishcat7112]

Sanakuu Ikr. I could tell the audience probably didn't believe that so it's just the mother that believes this nonsense(in my opinion it is nonsense).

[@busycrying]

I think that's pure BS her mother made up.

[@GenerationNextNextNext]

In Korea, the elders are right and the youth is wrong. So menopause beats puberty.

[@DreadfulRain]

She is like Cinderella but the “step” sisters is brothers but I’m sure her brother felt bad

[@sherriv4860]

Her brother probably feels bad. My brother feels bad when my mom is mean to me.

[@sunflowerinyourheart]

Her mom is so cruel! She doesn't even feel sorry. Her daughter does almost everything in the salon. But she has to do the household! She is a crazy mom! You can ask your daughter's help sometimes. But DON'T exploit her. You are so mean! I feel so sorry for her daughter. She is a kind and smart girl.

[@afrofairy5355]

Her mom is really trying to no reason with her and that really irritates me . Also the little girl is absolutely gorgeous .

[@aw2141]

1:46 I love how everyone went *parent mode*

[@ilovdoggo]

You know when you're watching too much 'Hello Counselor' when your Mom speaks to you and English sounds like gibberish.

[@GenerationNextNextNext]

You got a amen from the back!

[@kannabby]

a while back when my life was pretty shit I used to watch anime 24/7 and honestly almost responded to my mum in Japanese sometimes like I completely forgot what yes was in English :,)

[@kannabby]

Zara Gill Some things are better and some thing are worse but overall I’m doing better now 😊 thank you!

[@axcealn]

One time I was absolutely obsessed with like Korean dramas and anime until one point when I went to school everything I heard sounded like gibberish; I legit didn't snap out of it for 3 days.

[@cherahsBroll]

😂😂😂😂

[@reongg]

i honestly want to know what her brothers has to say about this, their face looks like they really pity her idk

[@y3z31]

And the sad part is that they aren't even her brothers

[@jandinguyen4616]

yeah, shes alone in her shit family, theyre not her brother

[@sanaisgay1495]

@@jandinguyen4616 what do yall mean theyre not her brothers? u mean biologically or???

[@silent_queen9849]

@@sanaisgay1495 they aren't her brothers.. they are the regular customers at the mother's salon.. The girl is shown telling in the complete episode video that her dad and brother refused to come since it's only her problem. That's what she told :( one sorry excuse of a brother honestly!

[@elhamhemat572]

no, they don't, this is my life story, the only exception is that my dad would have beat me too if I didn't work or play. my sisters had a maid to work for them and they were always taking my parent's side.

[@harrybo_1]

At 6:30 I said out loud: "That's right girl, you tell them!"

[@xxkpop_foreverxx691]

I told my mom about this and she said " thats good shes trying go teach her daughter " and i was mad lol

[@graciacayatabrtarigan906]

Same to you, And try to said, her mom doesn't give her time to study, just buy cloth for the brother, don't give her to make own dream, and then my mom change her mind.

[@anushkapandey8588]

Please do something about your mom, she doesn't seem optimistic or open minded

[@sadzy4848]

I swear taht is something my mum would say

[@mlj6453]

I hate when young women go through puberty and people love to say this is the phase when they start complaining about everything, which is false. they are growing up so as they are seeing things differently some will start to voice their concerns of what they do and do not like. therefore this young girl is valid in her complaints. i hate when people make it sound like young women whine for no reason when her mother an older woman is mean asf. how she treats her daughter is the exact reason why children would run away, be depressed & possibly attempt/commit suicide.

[@ridd43]

Johnson Makalae I don't think they were talking about her being a female and going through puberty they say stuff about puberty everything a young person comes on this show so I think it's a Korean thing to think that puberty is the age of rebellion...but I guess that's a whole world kind of thing too. don't worry tho they say this about boys so they aren't being sexist or anything.

[@mlj6453]

Ridwana Mohamoud yea but I was moreso talking about the mother. even moms in America say things like that which is weird.

[@forestlymph]

Johnson Makalae They say that to guys and girls.... because it's puberty.... puberty does that to humans....

[@beam9939]

Yes, but her mom is using her going through puberty as an excuse for her starting to complain when anyone with eyes can tell she's tired and now that she's older she can tell she's being exploited there's a big difference in going through this in elementary school vs middle school

[@staystaystaywithme6456]

Johnson Makalae puberty is not an excuse. experiencing puberty is what it is. right.. her mom is just too.. 😒😒😒😒

[@littlem1ssdiary]

I hope the girl is doing well after the show, hopefully her mother won’t blame her for consulting this on TV

[@najwamustafa6339]

LOL i lost it when she slapped herself bcs i always do the same thing as well XD

[@Byllion]

Nurul Najwa you know life is getting hard when you have to slap the sense back into yourself 😂

[@iffahtaufiq1176]

SAME!

[@yoshinguyen3731]

Nurul Najwa ikr!! I just had to watch that again

[@preciouskookie1092]

Same!! I slap myself so often.

[@CheerUp2]

Oh damn i always cringe when i see people do that lol

[@nellisouki5407]

what the fuuck..? in Germany where I live, the girl would be taken away from the mother by the government immediately! and the mother would probably end up in jail or something. this is slavery. I think it's important that kids help their parents a bit with something like doing the dishes or doing the laundry or walking the dog, but THIS is nothing compared to what is good for a kid. her mom is not only distroying her free time, but also their relationship, the girls social life, her body (for example the chemicals) and probably also her school career. parenting done great....😒 that girl will leave her home as soon as she can and never ever come back. (hopefully)

[@marinsollie599]

Nefi Vardou she will leave for sure and probably her mother won't care about it. Unfortunately she will have a much harder time doing everything by herself ...and without high school grades.

[@spacecherry]

Ik i live in germany too one time i saw a baby token out of his home bc of his abusive mother they were my neighbours btw

[@3xtentacion303]

Nefi Vardou yo I live in Denmark and it’s kinda the same here

[@noemiheng7985]

Nefi Vardou dude if you have Asian parentsthis is what happens to you

[@amess2639]

Nefi Vardou but the German government sucks though, they take children out of families for no reason, but when there are abusive parents they don't care and wait until the child gets beaten to death

[@itsmoome]

if I was the daughter's friend I would go to the hair salon and help her while chatting with her

[@GenerationNextNextNext]

Some friends, right?

[@HotBunnyKookiePotato]

Maybe her mother dont allow her friendsss u know

[@HotBunnyKookiePotato]

Sincerly your CHAd Maybe her mother dont allow her friendsss

[@liarot9420]

be careful her mother might exploit u too lol

[@thatcookiemonster4108]

Would your mother allow that tho?

[@Lyonessi]

She's like the Korean Matilda and Cinderella and her mums the step mother

[@sunflowery12]

I seriously don't get it, she wouldn't make her sons do any of this. I seriously cannot stand parents that think their sons should not do what they make their daughters do.

[@godiseverything2872]

sunflowery12 yeah pretty disgusting

[@ajcreator1516]

sunflowery12 just like sexist americans

[@caitkat3739]

sunflowery12 lel i relate a bit but i have a younger brother but nows hes a spoiled brat ;-;

[@nicknadi6946]

aj creator Not just Americans are sexist obviously...

[@CheshireCat478]

yeah my friends little brother was agressive, annoying, and a trouble maker but her mom still spoiled him and lets him do what he wants, while she has limited freedom and gets treated negatively... although that's a different sort of situation

[@ninavictor9983]

2:47 Choi Tae- Joon’s face when she said dead pigeon

[@euniceong595]

Doesn't she know her responsibility as a mother ?

[@Kt-cn2rq]

AstroAT / NCT TRASH some that do this she lucky she has 15 lol I'd save it all then leave when I'm 18 lol.

[@91noi]

i wonder what fate she will face once they back home...

[@mmm-fi4kp]

i was thinking the same thing

[@Kariiiiiii]

gone omg im curious too

[@edlyngonzalezbaez8730]

runnnn

[@mstkdona]

she might get one or two hit😭 if her mom that type

[@91noi]

mstkdona i dont think she will be get hit just one or two...in public they will smile but when we back home their smile totally disappeared..

[@hannahw6561]

It’s always hard when a sibling gets special treatment, esp when it seems gender based. In addition, the mom acts like she is in competition with the daughter, therefore trying to make her suffer. Idk though, just seems strange and sad.

[@tjayart8683]

If she will have her daughter work in their salon she should have her sons work in there too. It's bad enough that the daughter do all of the works from their salon to their home -- being forbade to hang out with friends, be a teenager and enjoy her youth was worst. Bad parenting, look at the daughter, she's too skinny, the food she ate went down fast bcos she has to 'work' and do the household. It's really bad when a kid started helping a parent and be exploited --then blamed for volunteering.

[@floralstripes8001]

I would cry my eyes out had my mom decided to do this. I'm not kidding, unless I volunteer to do it I will find ways to run the fuck out of there

[@JustThatLauren]

Ugh I hate that too.

[@toesocks6616]

It is normal for asian family. They favour son over daughter. My brother didn't even bring his plate to the sink. Let alone help with the house chores.

[@johnsmith2875]

This is not a silly topic for a show, this is straight up child neglect/slavery

[@avilenne]

She enjoyed her life but she isnt letting her daughter enjoy her life.

[@bean4967]

No fun and only work really can damage a kid mentally. Theyre not like adults. & theres a reason y child labor is illegal. also Its sad tht her friends dnt even ask her out as often anymore bc they alrdy know she cnt go. As someone who experienced this herself (not to the girl's extent but) its rlly stressful, sad & lonely (especially at a young age) The girl seems like a genuine kind kid (most kids these days dnt do shit to help ik bc I have younger siblings myself) not only tht but I feel like the mom is pretty biased. I mean, the brother doesnt even help @ all?? & hes the older sibling so tf

[@HyLo-rule]

雨 雨 y do you typ lik this

[@iChewMayoi]

@@HyLo-rule JSKSJSJSJ I-

[@OnyxBizarre]

Am I the only one wondering how she can study correctly, focus on her schoolwork and get good grades while doing all this work ? she is fifteen, she is supposed to study hard, not to spend all her time working like an underpaid exploited employee ! I am going to be a mother and I certainly would never ask my children to do that, especially at an age when they are supposed to study.

[@brbchoking1941]

Julia 이약사 李若思 OMG watch lee eui woong's interview there in hello counselor, they have the same situation is really blood boiling

[@javieragalvez4583]

Julia 이약사 李若思 I totally agree but kids should still have responsibilities in the house so they become independent. This mom is clearly taking advantage of her power and became lazy because her mother didn't ask her to help. Lol

[@OnyxBizarre]

javiera galvez that's a possibility... but still, for me the priority should be to study.

[@sar_rifier]

Julia 이약사 李若思 omg is that yves saint laurent

[@OnyxBizarre]

gayahegao Pierre Niney as Yves Saint-Laurent yes

[@mai4645]

the mom is a narcissist and it’s so sad that whenever the daughter points out a problem she gaslights her by comparing her struggles to diminish her daughters. If she continues to do shit like this i don’t think she’ll have a good relationship with her daughter and will probably be cut off once she becomes an adult. i understand the daughter so much i hope she can get a better environment soon

[@xsveli573]

The two customers are really attractive holy crap (I thought they were her sons lol)

[@pandatalk7821]

xsveli ikr

[@lalala8462]

Where do they say that they're customers? I'm pretty sure they're her sons cause they talked about an older brother although she doesn't mention having siblings. Also, they seem so young.

[@xsveli573]

lala la In the full episode they say that they're customers of the hair salon. The little girl has one older brother, she invited him to come on the show but her brother didn't want to go so she invited the two customers instead

[@lalala8462]

Thanks for the clarification!

[@nperez2856]

@xsveli who is the guy with white shirt next to the little girl?

[@nancychen8509]

I have worked everyday after school since I was in fifth grade. Everyday after school till 8 and 12 hours on every Saturday at a restaurant. Don't get paid, have to serve people, sweep the floor, mop the floor, wash the dishes, wipe the dishes, clean the table, set the table, answer the phone, clean the toilets and the bathroom. And today as a sophomore in high school, I still work with no pay. It reallly sucks.

[@GenerationNextNextNext]

I had a similar life. I left home early. However, I know what hard work is now, and life isn't nearly that hard if you don't want it to be.

[@wasiandoll2006]

the fact that the girl handled the situation more maturely than the mother really says something

[@ajjosh3808]

These two boys beside the mom were honestly cute Lmao

[@ssinzssazm]

lmao especially the right one LOL

[@ajjosh3808]

ssinz7 ssazm330 I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE LMAO

[@ssinzssazm]

:3

[@ijlaalahmed6964]

I'm ded😂

[@soaringup1035]

The mom makes me rage even though its like 2 am at night. You don't exploit your daughter simply because she helps you out of kindness? Indeed kids these days need to be like the girl, more helpful and mature and understanding. But I think her mother took it too far, she's still a 12 year old kid who needs her own time alone and with her friends to properly grow up. Let her enjoy her childhood and not ripped her off what she truly deserves. Also, regarding her older brother, I already feel some gender inequality going on... I hope the girl gets her due rest and to live her life as a child with proper memories made.

[@cinislover222]

debszzire its sad...Im the same age as her and I know how she feels...my mom basically does the same and doesn't let me play with my friends and tell me to do chores :(

[@sossnoss]

Jiminie _ Babo what are your chores

[@owllaree]

12 and in 8th grade????????????????????????????????

[@purushothaman8538]

5:43 that girl's facial expression LOLXD i can't...

[@missER14]

lol

[@jofx4051]

(ﾉﾟ0ﾟ)ﾉ~

[@KantanRyouri]

Again.. daughter has to do everything and it's her job and she is supposed to do them while sons don't have to do anything as they are busy with school. As if the daughter is not studying at all. sigh.

[@John616919]

The laws in S.Korea are so old, if this happened in Europe or USA, the child could get an emancipation and the mother would go to jail. I know that she's her mother, but in our actual society this things cannot be tolerated anymore, she doesn't see her child as a mother, she sees her child as a worker, and she has the view that her child has to return all her efforts of growing her working free for her. Such a disgusting mother, when the daughter will hit 19, I don't think that she'll be kind to her mother, and she'll regret it for being such a jerk to her self children. Or maybe not and she'll just continue his hair salon perm business, and forget about her. I'm so sorry for this children... The authorities should do something about it...

[@duph4018]

When she was biased towards her sons it mad me pissed since I'm also a girl.

[@kellyphung4472]

this is so sad but so funny. I only cook rice and rarely clean or dry the clothes....i feel so bad for her ;-;

[@TheChickenRiceBowl]

Kelly Phung How is this funny?

[@yelendrano]

**PISSED OFF RIGHT NOW**

[@dianexx4599]

yelendrano everything that has been featured about people who think they could get away with anything Piss me off

[@softglow9]

I'm trying _so_ hard not to burst from this woman's thought process. The child needs a _proper_ teenage-life, I could not bare with that amount of work. GOD, am I more grateful than ever.

[@tropicalcarol]

Then when I say people should make psycho-technical tests to be allowed to have children, I am exaggerating...

[@TheJazzydarling]

what a horrible mother, i work as an assitant in a hair salon and i know how hard and stressful this job is.. if she keeps treating her daughter like this will lead to resentment and time that u cannot turn back. get actual staff to work for you shes in middle school for christs sake.

[@kaykay4086]

She’s my new bias in an unborn girl group

[@jtetsuya]

lol the mom's comments are just validating the daughter's side, that's crazy how she doesn't see any wrong with it all.

[@dahyuntzuyu5035]

Dark

[@shua8675]

her mom is pissing me off honestly

[@tamymanabe]

bro the thing that stresses me the most and makes me sad is that she has to do everything while the sons don’t do anything like even basic household chores, it makes me so sad and angry Sorry for my bad English

[@luvmywon]

Honestly this is my mother, she makes me do everything she does and when i ask her why my brother isnt doing the same thing like me, she just keeps on saying “you are a girl” “girls are meant to clean and be responsible” and i tell her its unfair, she starts talking about how when she was young she’d clean and live alone….. times changed mom..

[@rebe_eka]

This is actually me except my parents own a takeaway and restaurant. I've been helping out there everyday ever since I was about 8 years old, I'm nearly 14 now and the restaurant still has another 10 years to go. I help out from 5pm to about 9/10pm but I have to wake up at 6:20 am everyday for school so I'm always tired :( I also have to do all the housework at home too, as well as cook lunch for my older siblings even though I'm the youngest. My brother never had to do any work too. I never got paid until about a month ago and I had to do extra work for it. The pay isn't even consistent either because I just get the tips from people sitting down to eat in. I have to serve the people and sometimes stand up for hours but don't get any tips.

[@marwah1072]

rebe_eka that really sucks man! you would think the 'men' in the family would atleast do the outside work so you would only have those chores. but you have to do both :( hang in there honey

[@ze8545]

rebe_eka Aw... I wish parents could understand ones that are going through difficulties, but hang in there! maybe one day you are able to explain your difficulties to them, better if they could show emphaty

[@lexykellycaines873]

rebe_eka I

[@Hriatloh_Unknown]

What's the name of the cute guy next to the young girl?

[@nurulaisyah7877]

Keimah Sailo its taejoon

[@grandmadonut1269]

Nurul Aisyah who's the blonde guy next to the red/orange hair girl? and what her name? the red/orange hair?

[@mintams7139]

Chloe Min the guy's name is roy kim

[@grandmadonut1269]

Mintams Nguyen thanks!

[@vtaehyungg6304]

Keimah Sailo you make me cringe

[@thebrownhijabi]

The way she basically said my struggles outweighs hers so she shouldn’t complain is unsettling to say the least. YOUR THE MOM, that’s your job bruh

[@gloria2817]

how can be there is a cruel mom like this??? She doesn't even feel sorry to her daughter!!! i will run away from home if i have this kind of mom 😤

[@samhue4194]

its normal. Westerners can't relate to us asians. I always help my parents with their work. Its nothing wrong. The fact that only her daughter is working is because her son decided to go to prep classes and thats why he doesnt get time to help her out. But what I understand is her daughter voiced her opinions late. You also have to understand that asians favor male child a lot. Its hard to swallow this fact but it is very true.

[@shiararuiz5171]

sam hue but it is wrong not matter what

[@jandinguyen4616]

@@samhue4194 Im an Asian and i come from a "not rich" country, but this is wrong okay? she have to do so much work when her mom treats her brother better. itsn fair, and illegal as weel. and like u can see, her brother even not good at study. what about asian? asian children can be hurt by their own family and no one care? stop talking about what asian have to, i never wanna be an asian cause my childhood is suck. we have to change this shit, our junior are going to get childhood-inner-abuse just like us. i dont want it, thanks

[@isopodwif3]

i don't care what anybody says, this is basically child labor! The mom is a sad excuse of a proper mother and I wish her child the best, hopefully she stops working under her mother and rebels eventually. This isn't healthy, the girl's mother is awful

[@theadrenalizedartist6843]

Omma needs to hire an employee. When the little girl said, “she’s lying through her teeth” I am like “yep.” I wouldn’t want my daughter exposed to chemicals in the shop at such a young age.

[@oppajimin1795]

If it wasn't ramadhan, i would have written the worst comment here. but im gonna stay calm

[@tinybookclub]

afra same

[@oppajimin1795]

ikr she is an actual bshsjs

[@nodamekira8580]

afra Hahaha, me tooo

[@oppajimin1795]

Suga Kookies With No Jams its a time where Muslims, fast (dont eat or drink from sunrise to sunset), at this time of the month we try our best not to commit any sins or bad actions & sayings

[@almdurrani1236]

Permacore relax. don't call anyone fake Muslim and don't tell them thier fast IS not valid.That's only for Allah to decide. Secondly it was a joke.

[@KaraCee]

Her story's kind of similar to Lee Euiwoong's! HAHAHAHA

[@aoaluvme]

LMAO I wish people of korea can realize that euiwoong is actually very talented...

[@KaraCee]

hwiyoungsfather yes, he is really talented ;-; I wish his rank would go up to the top 11 in the upcoming episodes. 😭

[@aoaluvme]

true

[@nab7658]

i'm about to comment wkwkwk

[@withloveyhan]

Kara Cee omg ikr. their only difference is euiwoong's working at 2 shops😂

[@michellekuras]

My heart breaks for that young girl. I've no idea why everyone was laughing when the mum kept digging a hole for herself. It just kept making me angrier. I pray this young girl has a lot more freedom now and can focus on herself and have fun!! Gahh

[@MsZeldasaga]

If this was America there'd be fights, people throwing the f word around. This is the most non aggressive confrontation I have ever seen. It's so refreshing