A Day in the Life of a Japanese Hikikomori (Shut In)

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#Japan #Hikikomori

[@SeanandOreo]

COMMONLY ASKED QUESTIONS Is Nito reading a script? Yes. Nito wrote his answers out in English since he is not quite conversational. He uses grammarly when he writes, so he won't sound quite natural. I wanted him to speak Japanese, but he felt it was too embarrassing if Japanese people watched it. How does Nito afford to live? Hikikomori are usually supported by family. In Nito's case he was originally supported by his Aunt, but is currently living off his savings from Doujin sales. How does Nito get groceries, haircuts, etc? Nito gets delivery for groceries. He leaves once every month or two for haircuts (and presumably yearly for the doctor). Where can I find Nito's game? Thanks to everyone who funded his Kickstarter campaign, Nito made $34,000 in sales! We're so happy that this video gained so much traction. Thank you to the kind people who donated to make it possible for him to finish and publish his game. Below are his links Steam Demo: store.steampowered.com/app/1179890/Pull_Stay/ Discord: discord.com/invite/dS4xBTg Twitter: twitter.com/EternalStew

[@user-ht4ii1wi6u]

Oh my gosh thank you so much!!! I just cant wait for this game to come out!

[@wcpportfolio]

Thank you for such an interesting interview and to Nito also for participating. I found it of note that he said he doesn’t feel lonely much. I think it’s because he is always keeping his mind occupied. He is always concentrating on his task which is a bit different than other hikikomori that I’ve seen. The other documentaries I’ve seen focus more on those who are mostly unable to take care of themselves and lack motivation to be productive. His case is a bit different. In terms of productivity it seems like he is more productive than a lot of social people I know..

[@SeanandOreo]

I agree. I believe there is a saying "Those who have a why can overcome any 'how' "

[@vkmtahgi]

how did you link up with Nito?

[@SeanandOreo]

@@vkmtahgi I found him in a post for help on Reddit.

[@limesquid4585]

this dude the second Corona happened he was just like "Oh no, anyway"

[@ChaosBW]

What's Corona? Alcohol? What happened to corona?

[@lilaciiaa]

@@ChaosBW covid19

[@nikolastumanov3806]

@@lilaciiaa R/Woooosh

[@NarutoUzumaki-ur5nh]

He Can still get infected from the food he will get?

[@StockedShelves]

@@NarutoUzumaki-ur5nh oh no how scary, he might get a mild fever, cough a bit and be short of breath for a week or two.

[@vladyslavanufriiev1224]

-What do you do? -I stay in my room -Great, that' a very responsible behavior during the pandemic -What pandemic?

[@Nobinobita007]

Lol

[@hihowareya6861]

Literally me

[@riccardorociola3521]

Lmao

[@lestatg8]

Hahaha ... makes sense Btw he is a shut-in guy, but definitely not a neet...

[@cheems3311]

What is neet ?

[@timogord]

I have a friend who have been Hikikomori for about 4 Years, he never get any job or go to college in his entire life. I was helping him to find a new job but he keep refused and ignoring me. One day i started my own small business selling street food, he was my first employee. My God, i never thought he was really good at his job and helped my business to grow bigger, he even invented half of my store menu. He spent his time at home researching new recipe for my store. Now i owe him big time. This Hikikomori people it's not useless or lazy they just don't trust other people and sometimes push themselves too hard. I would love to hire them as my employee and friends.

[@alexiere]

Thank you for being such a good friend. 👍

[@MickeyMishra]

I hire my freinds too. 😁

[@Artur_without_the_H]

Post a video of your store

[@trottinettesauvage]

Thank you for not abandoning giving your friend a chance

[@gre8000]

Massive social anxiety or insecurity is what keep this talented people from doing what 'normal' people suppossed to do. I can say that seeking medications from psychiatrist or getting help from peers can change these people lives. Being shut in is a form of mental health issue, not "lazyness".

[@leokimvideo]

Amazing, he would have breezed through the Pandemic unlike everyone else

[@HappGamr]

Hey i watched your videos they are very entertaining 👍

[@HappGamr]

Why do you not have the checkmark?

[@tophat8742]

Your videos make me nostalgic man have a good day

[@tophat8742]

@@HappGamrthat’s odd he already has 1mil subs

[@divijdomah6285]

Wdym he would? He did breeze through the pandemic like its nothing

[@amichael3401]

"I'm eating on my chair because while I'm eating I can browse the internet" *Me with a mouthful of chicken sandwich watching this video* my man

[@Rainbow__cookie]

He should just get a bigger table So he can sit at his desk and eat

[@amichael3401]

@@Rainbow__cookie It's Japan, square footage of living space gets really expensive. Like imagine NYC rental rates on steroids, it's THAT expensive. That being the case, homes design is often extremely efficient.

[@emmalol5202]

Man i could really go for a chicken sandwich right about now

[@somnorila9913]

I read this before watching the video and i thought it's not so weird. So i thought he sits on his chair while eating and browsing not actually using his chair as a table. I mean, the chair is near a table what the hell?!

[@somnorila9913]

@@Rainbow__cookie Maybe not enough space or not possible or whatever may be in his mind. Did you see how he "repaired" the chair's arm rest? So maybe he's not so bright either? Like, just move the keyboard sidewise, rest it behind the monitor or something and you have enough space for a couple of plates.

[@bunnybunnz]

He took: “I want to be alone for a minute” and extended it to ten years.

[@SatanAzerath]

My guy

[@garf5484]

I want to be alone for 10 years

[@Kan_ofc]

@@garf5484 extend it to 100

[@bunnybunnz]

i made this a day ago and it’s blown up I-

[@nenidetic]

@@bunnybunnz you- want to be alone for a minute?

[@wintaaaaa]

Update: He has now moved to Georgia and he is now there learning Georgian and working on hopefully finish his game this year.

[@iqraasif1515]

Man that's a huge jump. May I ask you how do you know this?

[@gammagamer3864]

based gorgestan

[@rosenrotohh9627]

I hope he is a changed person now and seriously working hard with the opportunity he's given by kind Georgian people.

[@wintaaaaa]

KZbin Channel is called Nito Souji

[@MaxHayes-hk5sh]

That's fucking great 👍

[@obamabinlaggin5607]

This is wild. For anyone who doesn’t know Tokyo university is essentially the Harvard of japan. This dude graduated from the most prestigious college in Japan and chooses to live like this.

[@Jlezy]

Goes to show how F'ed their work environment is

[@marianaazevedo11]

It's not really a choice, since this is basically a mental disorder

[@Rexxar582]

Seems to me he doesnt want to work under a company, he has my respect for that

[@charlesskogen7988]

@@Jlezy What does that have to do with their government? A bit confused. No shade, just curious.

[@Jlezy]

@@charlesskogen7988 I said work environment, not government

[@mochardiansah7452]

Let's see. He's a writer, a game developer, a good artist, speaks two languages. He is not lazy, doesn't have anxiety problem, and wants to make a connection. He just can't fit to market demands and looks like he is overcoming it.

[@mariebernier3076]

He must have anxiety, otherwise he would have left the house.

[@chauncyjohncastro7541]

We all know he's part of the problem.

[@mariebernier3076]

@@chauncyjohncastro7541 If someone has anxiety to the point that they aren't leaving the house, 'he' isn't part of the problem but I'm sure that things can improve for him if he gets counseling. I have phone counseling, 2 times a week. Others in Japan could do the same.

[@mariebernier3076]

@@chauncyjohncastro7541 and no offence, but you look like you're about 12 years old...?

[@chauncyjohncastro7541]

@@mariebernier3076 Having anxiety means you're part of the problem.Why else would he improve it?Also I'm 16 if you're wondering,none taken.

[@RoboLobster3000]

We have these in America too, they're called Discord mods

[@theguywhoshere]

America walmart version

[@FeBreeze.]

except they don't have a "real" job

[@al_wax]

Or Reddit mods

[@user-yb3sy8pn9m]

USA* america is a continent.

[@onepushupman]

hahhahaah

[@ragedgrunt]

"It's not easy to understand why someone would want to live this way" speak for yourself i'm ready to join him

[@salahoussous7041]

as a software engineer its honestly impressive that he built a game that good all by himself

[@toffeelatte6042]

It's just unreal store assets chucked together.

[@NOBLE-wo5rr]

@@toffeelatte6042 you do it then

[@Avora227]

​@@NOBLE-wo5rr I am here from the future and he hasn't done it.

[@aromatic8565]

Bro said that good. Did we watch the same trailer?

[@aromatic8565]

@@NOBLE-wo5rr You're asking him to drag a bunch of assets and produce the most random, unfathomable game possible? Bro said "you do it" like it's something difficult...

[@GouAndSotsuWereMistakes]

Wow, even if he's shut-in, he's more productive than most people.

[@norici6246]

Hey Satoko

[@ihaveadream7858]

@@OliveMule the mere point is he is contributing to society. But he def needs help.

[@OliveMule]

@@ihaveadream7858 you dont get it either. Look it up

[@ARSEN11324]

@@OliveMule yeah introvert

[@cultureddawg7860]

So trueee

[@sadiesfied]

He taught himself English, learned how to code, and worked hard on his game in his own home! Respect for Nito!

[@asitpurohit_108]

What the use , if u do one day die ,within 60 year , all achievement gone, rather living in jail like him , better to explore world, it's a unnatural living, worst then animal....you learn things ,do coding but not in.cost of family , social life and friends

[@ruhaimisyakir2876]

@@asitpurohit_108 not everyone life for the same purpose

[@sponge260]

@@thesunshinegirl_1343 look at the man, he isn't comfort with it, he's just made a habit of it. He is basically just living to survive at this point. He seems lonely and sadly gets very little interaction in the year even if he wants it. This may have started out as a comfort thing, but it has evolved into routine. He can't go out into society even if he wanted to because he would be shunned for his lifestyle. I had very limited interaction for a solid 2 years and it sucked. You get sick of yourself, you don't know how to talk to people. You can't be understood because you're too low and mumble, you get flustered easily, you overthink anything that happens, you literally just sit for a while out of sheer boredom but you can't do anything about it so you just find a way to fill in the boredom. Granted I never got to this level but I was able to last 7-12 hours a day without saying a single word, which is not normal. I have gotten much better at it now over the last few years and I am so much happier in general nowadays.

[@shadyshelby8361]

No he was just reading, he can't speak English

[@sadiesfied]

@@shadyshelby8361 you can CLEARLY tell that he has been working his hardest to speak english.

[@hotfightinghistory9224]

He seems like a genuinely valuable person. The stability he's created for himself is not to be mocked.

[@Malevolence460]

Never heard that phrase before, but wow that’s a beautiful way to describe him and I completely agree

[@z4molxe690]

Yeah, its sort of impressive how much stability his routine and life has. I feel quite sad for him though, for his social situation, im an introvert but this seems legitemally painful

[@Chadius_Thundercock]

@@z4molxe690why would you feel bad for him? He can leave anytime he wants, it’s his fault for being miserable by locking himself in doors.

[@Jlezy]

So its his fault that the work environment in Japan has got people killing themselves over how stressfull it is? Lets also not forget that not everyone is born social, some people find it extremely hard to socialise, whether its a mental disability or just how their personality came to be over the years. Thats not to say that i support lazyness, but its not always the persons fault that theyre in the predicament theyre in, a lot of times these people make a genuine effort to break out of their shell, but it either takes a long time, or it unfortunately never happens, which is a darn shame @@Chadius_Thundercock

[@friendofzeus]

All people are "valuable" regardless of anything.

[@kitchen1126]

Hi im japanese. He is so much more talented than people who are concerned as HIKIKOMORI by "normal" japanese. HIKIKOMORI we discussing(and criticizing in incredibly most of case) are people who earn to small money to live alone, of course no spouse, share the house with their parents due to they have no money. Thus, the atmosphere in a house is dim and tense. Parents worry about their decendant, and HIKIKOMORI have a concern about future. The case of worse, HIKIKOMORI can't do anything but sleeping and eating so totally depending on their parents, or in some case domestic violence are seen. Moreover, the worst is the time their parents broke limit."dragger" will come home. dragger demolish the door and literally drag HIKIKOMORI out of house. Dragger promise their parents to make HIKIKOMORI suitable for japanese society. But who on earth can do so magical? In fact, some of HIKIKOMORI were found dead several monthes after. All over the world, please remind, what you saw is light side. And inevitably, light has a shadow.

[@sigsegvtle3714]

Sensei say wise words. American Joe appreciate your wisdom.

[@pj9940]

this guy knew covid was coming 10 years before we did and said *eh*

[@nannoslonglostfriend9497]

We have to learn from him. We keep on going outside

[@oceanman975]

Your pfp looks like that scene from the mask where he falls of the apartment and says "HEY MAH IM ROADKILL HA HA!"

[@protoxpire0]

he knew covid is coming. just not when it's coming

[@paris2777]

Anyone smart would know a virus was coming, past experiences show that a pandemic comes every 100 years or so.

[@adisadewa1337]

This guy is grandmaster ar work at home and physicall distancing

[@TheRealGuywithoutaMustache]

"Being able to draw cute girls gives you more opportunities in the market" Words of wisdom right there

[@waterig9781]

Why tf are you literally everywhere I go

[@grxvitea]

hello again

[@Jaydens.Motivation]

Everywhere I go, I see his face

[@shamtherecommender8066]

Can someone tell me what are the character from and name

[@kenmatree.3167]

It’s weird people keep calling out people because they saw them in the comments section, but it’s true I’ve watched so many videos and ur always there posting funny comments Also, nice name

[@elizabethwall8063]

All I see is a very creative, talented person who isn’t interested in the rigid path society wants him to follow. That kind of independent spirit is highly valued in a lot of places and is nothing at all to be ashamed of. In fact, it’s unique people like this who make the most difference in this world.

[@mannymoo]

I agree

[@jackedkerouac4414]

I think it's more weird to conform to some arbitrary notion that having lots of friends and going out all the time is normal. It becomes mundane and routine just like any other lifestyle

[@Originalman144]

Office environments in the US are the most toxic places in town so I can imagine how this guy felt when Japanese office environments are more rigid and everyone is a tight ass.

[@Biscuity_hole]

​@@jackedkerouac4414 I agree, i thought i was the odd ones out and felt like an outcast for not having the same thing as others. But it's just how i've always been, i'm never comfortable with that and i think i understand that's fine, as long as i'm not hurting them

[@jackedkerouac4414]

​@@Biscuity_hole Nothing is wrong with you. You live according to your values and it doesn't have to meet anyone's standards or expectations.

[@smzig]

He's talented in art, game design, and programming. He supports himself and doesn't mooch of public assistance. I don't see a problem really. I mean isolation can be a sign of an issue but only if it severely effects ones ability to live their life. Nito seems to be satisfied with how he's living.

[@Itried20takennames]

If he is cool with it….it’s fine. But often it stems from the insane pressure of social and work culture in Japan, which could put even those with normal mental health may despair, be beaten down and end up self isolating. And in a less harsh culture, many would prefer more social interactions or friendships. The work culture in Japan is so difficult that if you graduate in a bad economic year and don’t get a job within a year of graduation, you are often shunned by the professional work force for the rest of your life, as there is a strong preference for hiring new grads only. And even if employed, there are strict hierarchies in which more senior workers or managers are rarely questioned (ironically, Japan work places often use outdated tech like faxes and older software, as their is resistance to change). Then add in grueling work hours, a culture of public shaming for any mistakes, etc (or so say some YT videos, O don’t know personally).

[@MacDeece]

Everyone: “omg I hate lockdown” Nito: “First time?”

[@foufoufun]

I like that meme with the muppet looking at the camera from the side and then staring in front of him with a caption that says: "When you found out your normal daily life is called quarantine."

[@LadyCoyKoi]

When it happened I welcomed it. After five months, I wanted to go back, and regret it. I had forgotten what a nasty cruel species humans are. They're so judgemental and a bunch of condescending schadenfreude, especially towards those slightly different than themselves.

[@kittenmimi5326]

I'm literally locked in the house

[@foufoufun]

@@kittenmimi5326 Need help?

[@Syndra_maximoff1]

@@foufoufun yes

[@rootinesttoot1433]

When he turned the camera and said “let’s eat” he looked so pure lol

[@bashbeats9428]

Imagine if he said "niggas gotta eat"

[@thatcringeythingyoudidin6t792]

@@bashbeats9428 no💜

[@helfrae]

that's what I noticed to...

[@bashbeats9428]

@@thatcringeythingyoudidin6t792 :(

[@unounounouno2876]

Yeahh

[@avocadoarms358]

I really feel for this bloke, he seems like such a kind soul…

[@beganitdidnt6535]

kind and ugly bad combo ur gonna get stepped on

[@M0RPHOBIA]

This made my evening. It's so heartwarming to see this and to read that he got that much attention and appreciation for his work. Wishing him all the best.

[@turo87]

Learning English, drawing, writing, game dev work, exercises. This guy is amazing

[@SeanandOreo]

He is a hard worker with a lot of creativity.

[@lusterTJ]

@@SeanandOreo Ironically all the qualities of the most productive and socially verse people out n about, getting on with life. Thank you for producing this and lots of appreciation and thanks to Nito for the insight into his chosen lifestyle. I'll definitely support his game

[@twixxtro]

anime artist

[@nagihangot6133]

He's reading from a script.

[@yse2010]

Nito did all the things that most people fail to do everyday =w=... I feel embarrassed

[@flowerface3913]

I don't understand why he apologizes for eating a snack. That made me sad. He's so intelligent, talented, and humble. Please eat as many snacks as you're hungry for, sir.

[@louismendes4743]

societal shame, it's not just a japanese thing but certainly more pronounced there. He doesn't generate income, or, in his own understanding, contribute to society. I'm guessing he feels guilt and shame for just existing at this point. Which likely makes it all the more difficult to go out and interact with other people.

[@beckystrong311]

@@louismendes4743 that has ruined my day

[@flowerface3913]

@@louismendes4743 I'm sure you're right. Honestly, my heart hurts for all the men all over the world who feel like they're worth nothing if they're not making a lot of money. It's a capitalistic lie that causes isolation and suicide.

[@Fermion.]

@@flowerface3913 I don't think capitalism is solely to blame. All throughout human history, adult males would be ostracized if they didn't contribute. I think because of that, the guilt is more of a deep-seeded instinct, felt by all men, regardless of culture.

[@flowerface3913]

@@Fermion. the suffering of all people can be traced back to misunderstanding, randomness, or greed. Most commonly greed. Greed is the root of capitalism. So when I say capitalism, I don't mean the few modern systems that actually claim that title openly. I mean the system of greed that's been killing humans and the planet since long before the Industrial Revolution.

[@Syneptikz]

HIS GAME IS RELEASED one week ago.

[@Kalolelo]

Aww, he’s so sweet and smart. Nito, you work so hard! I pray things will work out for you! ⭐️

[@insertname5009]

“Drawing cute girls is a must and being able to draw cute girls puts you more opportunities in the market” Never have I been offended by something I 100% agree with

[@Liauw2806]

Furry makes much more money it seems. I sometime wonder if i should do furry just for the money but i think my stomach won't be able to handle it.

[@user-fu4wy5il5v]

Imagine if someone asked him to draw their waifu and get paid by them

[@pastas181]

@@Liauw2806 scat+furry pays even more

[@myrmecii578]

@@Liauw2806 Wait do people actually really like furry?

[@Liauw2806]

@@myrmecii578 Many do, more than you think, and they can be pretty militant about it.

[@soupreme3764]

This guy: isn’t lazy even though he doesn’t rush out of bed and sits on the computer all day My parents: impossible

[@emmamullen3256]

I'm doing a PhD and my family thinks I'm lazy and don't do anything just because I do it from home on my laptop lmao

[@DreadNawght]

Actually showing your parents about hikikomori is a good way to be taken seriously.

[@phatnum17]

Impossibruuu!!

[@yeeterskeeter4282]

i would like but it’s at 420

[@soupreme3764]

@Nigga Vader lazy for your body I agree, but lazy as in non-productive is what I mean. In a work sense

[@han2868]

thank you so much for sharing your story! i hope your game gets a lot of traction! also, your english is very good! ありがとございます!

[@Kahrowleen]

I Know this video is old, but I really appreciate you shining light on these people, I can relate to this person in certain aspects and sometimes you just need a little recognition for what you can actually do. Not everyone is outgoing, or work well in traditional workspaces or are superb at marketing.

[@iliaaaaaaa]

"being alone for a while is dangerous. it’s addicting. once you see how peaceful it is, you don’t want to deal with people anymore"

[@OtterThanMost]

I think it’s an interesting phenomenon. For example, after forty days in solitary confinement, prisoners beg to stay there, when previously they begged to be put back in gen pop.

[@constellation3164]

shit, this cuts deep

[@mrdave777]

Very unhealthy!!! I don’t like being around people but we’re community beings.

[@iomd4527]

@@mrdave777 facts we are definitely social beings

[@SpliffyHusk]

@@iomd4527 yup, one thing I do struggle with though is staying in relationships. I got my friends I go out with and it’s nice to keep that social desire in check. But I’ve been along for so long that I know I’ll have to compromise on time with relationships. Hooking up really is the only thing I’ve been content with.

[@shiraya318]

He graduated from the University of Tokyo which is the best university in Japan and nr. 25 in the world ranking and he still couldn't find a good job. His senior even had to extend his studies for 1 year to be able to find a good job. This just shows how competitive and hard the Japanese job market is. And it also shows how intelligent this man is.

[@Rk_-qi2ih]

he would be chillin if he moved to america

[@leeroychiu5970]

@@Rk_-qi2ih America is a shithole imo. With our current president and his policies not only that but current politics and cultural differences America would just be way too much to handle. I love and hate my country but honestly it's pretty bad but I'm not saying other countries including Japan don't have their own major issues or benefits.

[@leeroychiu5970]

@@Rk_-qi2ih Not to mention the general disdain and belittling of Asians here. As an Asian American living here on and off due to military circumstances when I went to school the kids, staff and generally those around me outside of school who weren't family made spiteful and blatantly racist remarks at me without me knowing what they meant at the time, of course sometimes I would catch this but still I really hate America for the general lack of respect and knowledge most people have. (Sorry for getting a bit deep and political over a little remark just really couldn't sum it up in a sentence or two)

[@Sam-tx5py]

@@leeroychiu5970 is there really distain here though? I don’t really see or hear any racism around my peers (high school) but I do know it happens to others, the closest thing I have seen was someone who is just a dick to everybody in the school. Edit, I’m also Asian so I would generally hear the same stuff

[@commentbot9510]

No wonder he didn’t like Japanese work culture

[@depaki]

a full time freelancer. rarely do people have as much drive to do so many things alone as him. he's using all of his time towards his goals. respect.

[@HerrHoppenstedt]

Although, if i understood him correctly, he isn't fond of the Japanese work culture and ethic, he still is a workaholic. Just on his own terms. As long as his lifestyle doesn't cultivate a deep depression, i see no big issue here.

[@Crankis63]

Game is released!

[@sp1nk1ck53]

What's perfect is the fact that the game he's making is exactly the types big KZbinrs like playing

[@ddean1]

happy wheels?

[@raquannunez]

Would love to see Dunkey play

[@sheepyleepy..2806]

genesis onion browser

[@TheRealBillix]

Go wishlist the game it does the most

[@Krenisphia]

This man isn't a typical hikikomori. He actually does things, basically self-employed.

[@ekopradja5974]

Yes he isnt typical Hikikomori who hoarding garbage and only playing videogames , but by definition he is Hikikomori because he never or rarely leave his room

[@Terrakol]

In japan, they has no self-employed term thus they called them hikikomori. You know.. That asian stereotype that they should get good grade to work at some high lvl company of some kind, thats why that self-employed is non-existent, atleast that stereotype is applied to east Asia region tho.

[@TheIncomingVirus1]

You obviously didn’t bother watching the full video. That was address near the end.

[@Terrakol]

@@TheIncomingVirus1 i watches till the end. I said about the general Japanese opinion which they even said that stereotypical hikikomori is someone who is rely on their parents to live on, & all that. I didn't said that he was bad on doing what hes doing. What i'm trying to say is tha how bad the general japanese's (or atleast the older one) opinion about hikikomori is all about

[@vince14genius]

He graduated from the fucking University of Tokyo, I’d call him an elite

[@alexharris-ui4ss]

Pull Stay looks amazing! Buying now💚

[@plentyofpaper]

I found it interesting when he said he's not the misanthrope type. While not on a hikikomori level, I do like to keep to myself. I've spent many years trying to branch out socially, without much luck. Like Nito, it's not really driven by a dislike of others. It's just that whenever I do go out, I eventually started asking myself: "Was that better than staying at home, petting my cat and playing some video games?" The answer is almost always "No."

[@renatocorreaarrieche]

They laughed at him before. Now, the entire world adopted his lifestyle

[@npc4416]

he was ahead of his time

[@lhianugrina2640]

Yup.. Thanks to corona

[@npc4416]

@kade 🍚

[@coc5989]

@@npc4416 🥢

[@geert574]

Just as long as Amazon delivery boys show up right 😆

[@Agent13226]

This guy's more productive than a lot of people who go outside.

[@iguoyrxayananikihs9505]

*who are hikikomori.

[@matasa7463]

Bro works on shit and gets paid, he's a working member of society to me. I mean, it would be nice if we could coax him out for a drink or something, but he's got his reasons for being a recluse. ... one does hope he will try to expand his culinary world, same breakfast for 10 years sounds like some kind of hell.

[@HilmyA.S.]

Did you just attack me

[@EGO.BReAKERR]

@@kk-qu1zc the type of pepole who think being succesful means not being a virgin, getting gf or etc. are usaully the type of pepole who have no skills or anything interesting about them other than being fast talkers, being good at talking or managing to get a girlfriend. Such small minded pepole shall never state their rotten opinions like this to media and/or other pepole to discourage them. Why I'm stating my opinion now? Becuase I really feels sick that there are a lot of pepole who think like you. Keep opinions like that to yourself, please

[@stevenjon1347]

@@matasa7463 I can understand why he has the same breakfast. I've been more or less a recluse of sorts for the last year and I tend to eat the same thing everyday. Provided what you eat is nutritious and there's at least a little variety, a consistent, healthy and relatively unvaried diet is sustainable in the long-term. Recluses tend to favour routine and find comfort in it so I'm not surprised this would extend to one's diet as well.

[@sparkbike]

You don’t be sorry for the snack. You earned it. You break down the misconception of the stereo type of the Hikikomori. All the training and hard work will pay off. Respect!❤❤

[@yahngtoonzentertainment4470]

It's like the story of The Tortoise and the Hare. Others go about their days rushing here and there working endless hours. This man never leaves the house, but something tells me he's The Tortoise that has and is accomplishing more than others rushing around in this rat race. If he's happy, and doing more than you are, what's the problem? Envy? Bless this man.

[@ai8893]

coronavirus **exists** this guy: im 4 parellel universes ahead of u

[@hellsonion514]

him: finally, with everyone else inside i can go outside without being bothered by them.

[@ravehlb]

lmfao

[@bphcx]

But when he finally go out, he will disintegrate

[@zarrowthehorse]

@@codyzachary3047 Is that so, Sarah Harry?

[@74KU]

@@hellsonion514 As a western version (and somewhat less extreme) I totally agree, the virus has been about the best thing going.. didn't lose any friends or family because I have none! Finally my life choice has been validated!

[@BayuAkbarK]

"Drawing porn is not fun for me. I can't find the meaning of life there." Nice words to meditate.

[@kingmystery8425]

Weeb be like:draw!! Draw!!!

[@miyukii2507]

I don't want to be horny anymore, I just want to be happy

[@khangvinh4656]

My man has the ability to horny but chose not to. A god in disguised😂

[@firstnamelastnamethirdname]

That's my life Motto. I could draw porn but don't want too, because in the end what benefit does it give me? Horny. Being Horny doesn't make you happy.

[@benhaley9811]

I needed to hear this in 6th grade

[@louisev.r8614]

Wow, he's learned so many skills by himself! I will support him by getting his game when it's out. It's fascinating to learn about the creator behind it.

[@itsmyremoteviewingjourney6656]

Good Luck buddy finding a job, I agree, you are quite productive, and you have learnt new skills! very awesome.

[@LKelz]

I was expecting someone who plays video games all day due to depression and not working Instead . He speaks two languages , published two books ,and is working on developing a game to further his future I wouldnt call him a shut in though . He is trying to be an entrepreneur. Its gonna be hard . Best of luck

[@abidist]

529 likes But no reply Does nobody need to say anything

[@Enetsu]

@@abidist I guess everyone agrees so there is nothing to talk about

[@zefiro87]

Yes trying since 10 years with no success and living off with the aunt's money. At a certain point he has to rendezvous with reality and acknowledge that he is failing and to get out since the money will run out soon and he will be evicted.

[@christopherqu7383]

@@zefiro87 its not that easy. lots of hikkikomori also have mental issues. also he said that if he is unable to build his own dev team, he will look for a job

[@za.monolit]

only two?

[@Crabtree1844]

The dude is more productive, in isolation, than most minglers I know. He's a game dev, cooks his own food, he's economical, he's teaching himself English, he exercises, he's alert, takes charge of his life and choices without apology. I'd like him in my corner of friends in a heartbeat.

[@tyronethechef4606]

Boiling a handful of vegetables isn't considered cooking

[@plebmarvin3108]

I live similar to him and humans like us only have 1-4 really good friends at maximum :D

[@Crabtree1844]

@@tyronethechef4606 That's according to what your mother/school taught you. Quantity i.e. "handful" does not have the monopoly to be considered cooking.

[@Crabtree1844]

@@plebmarvin3108 Good for you! It is better to have 1-4 really good friends than a multitude of 'fair-weather' friends who do not add value to your life.

[@TheRedRaven_]

But lacks vitamin D. Nearly all of it.

[@Chamchamcham10]

Looks like the game just released recently as early access and the reviews have been good. So good luck with that my guy, hope your hard work developing the game pays off

[@n0madfernan257]

Thank you for sharing your story nito-san

[@imjozen]

I feel a connection to this guy... a creator trying his best, disliking the modern employee's lifestyle, and not yet achieving success. I hope his game does well and he finds the success he's looking for.

[@rainieowo]

I can relate to him too

[@LumpySpaceJenny]

Same here.

[@andyh.7428]

I feel bad for him. Gonna donate some money to his kickstarter to show support

[@ryanc2286]

@@andyh.7428 You're a cool person

[@hyrum0425]

Yea I agree

[@epicplayer999]

This guy has, basically, already adapted to quarantine before any of us.

[@AWPanzer]

he is a really advanced man

[@kevindelima5713]

In the World War Z book there's a character who lives like this guy, just a lot less productively, and he basically didn't notice how the apocalypse was affecting his city until his parents stopped feeding him.

[@AWPanzer]

@@kevindelima5713 Igual en un apocalipsis el escases de comida seria grande, estaba jodido de todas formas

[@nuclearcatbaby1131]

I’m American and I live this way too

[@crippzilla]

Yooooo, his game is scheduled to release next month! BIG UP!

[@ReapThySorrow]

Nito, i hope your successful! I nothing but, success on your game!!! You seem like a decent, person.

[@jandaruma5284]

this man spent his 10 years at home alone, still speaks better english than english teachers of japan. he's a genius.

[@VMAnime]

Japan people so genius v:

[@suiken3149]

He can draw, write and even develop games too. I'm impressed.

[@VMAnime]

Yep but it took him 5 years to release the game

[@Nhan_nguyen271]

@@VMAnime but it was self learn so quite impressive :D

[@VMAnime]

Yes I understand that he is really amazing.

[@hereticwaffle5514]

This guy is like actually a n inspiration. Not in the “oh yeah I don’t ever want to leave the house” way but like a “he can do all this without ever leaving yet some people can’t at all. And HE is the one who gets mocked.”

[@snoopdoggthecertifiedg6777]

this

[@theunknowman12]

Society

[@misst.e.a.187]

Bless him, he seems like a really nice and together person.

[@itstheboyz07]

Entering and graduating from the university of Tokyo is definitly not by chance at any means. I don't know what to say about Nito's life but life is always unpredictable. No one can really predict what's gonna happeen in the next few years, good or bad. However, I truly admire the attitude of Nito, he's definitly living a not so easy life. Still, he just keep working on his projects and looking forward to his future. That's amazing, it is not something a loser would do, he's gonna make it one day. Wish you the best Nito!

[@NitoSouji]

Thank you so much Sean for making this happen!😊 Actually I was pretty depressed when I checked my footage. Because, you know, I didn't know myself how my hikikomori life looks objectively. If felt a little bit miserable, to be honest. But your fantastic editing shows me with sympathy, I was so relieved! And also I want to say thank you to all viewers, especially folks leaving such heartwarming comments here. I highly appreciate them!🥰 Arigatou! ヽ( ´ ∇ ｀ )ノ

[@SeanandOreo]

Thank you for taking the risk! We're really happy with the final result. Hopefully you will find some traction with this video!

[@jacopogggg]

I wish you good luck with your game, Nito!

[@NitoSouji]

@@jacopogggg Thank you for your kind words, Jacopo! ヽ( ´ ∇ ｀ )ノ

[@jacobc499]

Hi Nito! You're so incredibly talented and interesting as a person. You taught yourself how to draw, make a game, learn English and so much more seemingly on your own. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you achieve your hopes and dreams. You're amazing, keep it up my friend! ❤️

[@RedPunkBoy92]

Thank you for sharing your Story. I'm highly impressed that you developed the game all on your own plus learning english to accomplish your goal. The Game looks very interesting and i'm looking foward to play the full version next year! I wish you the best and enjoy your snack. I don't know what it has to do with being a Hikikomori, but a Game Developer/English learning Student/Illustrator who is doing his exercises definitely deserves an eclair, or two ;)

[@Daniel-wz4th]

I had severe social anxiety and didn’t leave my house for 7 years, now I’m 23 and recently I lost 80lbs and pushed myself to do my driving lessons and got a car and now I have started college. I’m slowly but surely getting better and getting my life back.

[@mourady.650]

I sure do not know in what country you are or what you came through, I just want to pat on your shoulder and hope life is treating you well. Cheers

[@Daniel-wz4th]

Thank you so much for the kind words guys 😭❤️

[@aservant1284]

Lets go man

[@kingcosworth2643]

Good work dude, picking yourself up by the bootstraps is not easy, but you are the only one who can do it. One step t a time and make sure you are heading in the right direction. There will be a few stumbles on your journey but don't let them bother you just keep at it one step at a time!

[@chaechae242]

Ye but forreal i’m suffering too from social anxiety and depression, don’t mind the last reply I made

[@moonmun]

My man has a healthier lifestyle/schedule than me xD Props to him! I hope he keeps up his best! His passion/ambition/discipline is honestly inspiring.

[@JT-qw1cn]

I find it quite admirable how after failing many times and being told he's a failure by his society, Nito continues to alter his work strategy and never gives up. I think that is what it's all about at the end of the day.

[@alexandredias9240]

Huge respect for Nito! He taught himself english, code and how to draw! Everyone deserves to live their lives how they see fit!

[@alexandredias9240]

@@vaibhav475 wtf?

[@triettruong8200]

When he's successful, people will call him a nerd genius, exceptionally smart. But for the time being, he's a hikikomori.

[@auradzrts691]

Yes, and every parents will tell their childs: why you always locked in but can't produce or make an earn for yourself. Look at this guy, he can make something! Damn...

[@r4nd4r8nch2]

THIS+

[@campkira]

true hikikomori don't come out and talk with people... thy just want to disapear...

[@redefinedliving5974]

Hahahaha the truth in this cruel world

[@waituntil]

Same for people with big dreams; until they make it.. they are being labeled "delusional" and that's it

[@Malevolence460]

Man I love this guy! I wish him the world, he seems like such a chill person

[@Emanuele_Polisena]

I wish him a better World

[@jazzyphizzel]

Highly creative person who can pivot and adapt. Awesome work Nito

[@SeekerLancer]

"It's not easy to understand why someone would choose to live this way." Really? Have you not met people? They suck.

[@KidneysHurt]

Everything that I need and want is at my home.

[@foursoup7922]

Totally agree. If i could earn enough money from home i would do it too lol

[@pepsiman4418]

I literally read this comment right when the video said this LMAO

[@krahzeekat6164]

I had to reread this comment! You're right.

[@sophiefilo16]

XD

[@laianainlove]

Me, who hasn't left the house in a month: you know, I'm something of a Japanese Hikikomori myself

[@Ysekai]

That was funny, I got the reference!

[@zapolem]

one month?, those are some rookie numbers xD

[@incognitojon902]

I leave the house from time to time but I usually stay inside

[@skedos4498]

Underrated comment

[@BudakGilerBass]

month ? rookie.

[@TerryClarkAccordioncrazy]

He works in a private office and has no soul crushing commute to work. Many who have toiled at the corporate ladder for decades haven't achieved what this man has.

[@jamie.777]

I have been doing IT [information technology] work since 1996, first 10 years I worked inside the actual data centers [server roooms], than I was in soul crushing cubicle Hell driving 🚗 every day to work [even doing construction side work on days off in my younger days], I waa only allowed to work at home during heavy snow fall, than COVID came and my new job is work from home ,same IT work but salary, 4 days a week, never leave my home. I LOVE it

[@tw8464]

Truth

[@KennethRachel-xi7dv]

That game looks awesome and the beats are super dope 😎👍🏻❤

[@laylac]

Aside from being a hikikomori, I see a successful individual who’s well-spoken, organised and resilient.

[@StyloCrayon]

Yes indeed.

[@DirectorBird]

Resilient to what?

[@ehname1]

Depends how you define success

[@kubo6978]

@@ehname1 being content or happy with what one is doing for a living Plus, the man can speak very decent English

[@tsin27]

Resilient to socialising 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@emmalol5202]

This guy has better English than Japanese voice actors, holy crap

[@logumbogum950]

"It's like a weird jumble of different dialects"

[@AirConditioner89]

@@logumbogum950 that perfectly describes English

[@IdaeChop]

yes

[@ccliviolin]

I mean he did graduate from the university of tokyo (the best Japanese university)

[@spitfirewardog7260]

@@logumbogum950 nice reference

[@pseudonym3690]

I've seen this video when it came out and wondered if his game would ever come out. Now it's scheduled for release this month! I hope it becomes a success!

[@MrMannyhw]

This guy is amazing!

[@Eric-zs6rd]

He doesn't fit in the Japanese expected model of how someone should live their life, but you fit in well with Western ideals of how to live. He works hard and dreams big, he just doesn't want to do it as an employee of a company. But you can see how by he keeps a steady schedule and routine to try to improve himself, learning English and teaching himself how to program, how to draw etc he isn't looking for an easy way out. Best of luck to you Souji

[@froggie5624]

But doesn’t most people do this (in japan I mean)?

[@AntonioGarcia-wn7ut]

You said it, I think he would fit in more in America

[@froggie5624]

@@AntonioGarcia-wn7ut, nah I think he is like the majority of Japanese humans.

[@slugger7512]

@emille mcmillan i'd rather be a corporate slave than be working on my own making no money whatsoever

[@L._.A-06]

@@slugger7512 it’s the difference in life views some people are ok making little to no money if they are enjoying what they do which is impossible as a corporate slave even if you start off doing something you like

[@csoniah4432]

He is managing himself better than most people I know

[@ameilioracryptos5298]

Lol

[@mackdaddydeathjam]

Fax

[@gavino9718]

Thats bad

[@Aviationgeek21]

Cool but know one cares

[@ThePandaAgenda]

Find me one western shut in who came to the realization that their stupid fan fiction wasn't something the market wants to read!

[@LittleBeanTeemo]

that game looks dope af! i would love to play it :)

[@cappiblancness9089]

His English is beautiful! I was shocked when I heard one of his largest obstacles was learning English. Wish I could be a friend for these folks that find it difficult to socialize. Respect brother.

[@elizabethlehuta]

Ironically he's the type of person I like hanging out with.

[@jeronemedina6412]

How can u hang out with him if he's stuck in his room. Hahaha.

[@ashebull123]

@@jeronemedina6412 online. Like how most of us us socializing these days especially cause of the pandemic.

[@andyog8252]

Lizzy pls be my friend

[@HyDucks]

Exactly

[@clichepuff2010]

Same lol

[@EpicLebaneseNerd]

this man is keeping to himself, not bothering anyone, not causing harm, decided to stay away from all the bullshit of the world and avoid drama, still is being active , learning, working and developing, more people should be like this guy, and i wish him well.

[@viereck-aos]

reminds me how monks in various cultures would live. going on with their spiritual routines, isolated from the rest of the community and other worldy botherings.

[@CaptainObvious0000]

@Normie King people should never be like this guy. if he's not depressed now, it's just a matter of time.

[@Yolo942]

Well said.

[@subplantant]

@@CaptainObvious0000 I've spent 25 years on stage, teaching and lecturing and I wanna be just like this guy from now on lol

[@TheCocoaisCongealed]

@@CaptainObvious0000 Not everyone is like you. You are too caught up in yourself and are projecting, thus causing erroneous judgments. You can be alone without being depressed. Maybe it's dispositionally dependent or some genetic particularity, but being alone doesn't mean one is lonely.

[@dankcentral4542]

Please make an update on this guy, I literally cried so hard watching this because I feel this mans emotions.

[@andresreborned8622]

he moved out to georgia, so he's fine. You can search his channel called Nito Souji

[@Jacopo_Bindella]

I've been a shut in since 1999, I can relate. Best wishes for your projects and take care. Bye from Italy

[@Wigglytuff-gk7vz]

I'm basically at home sitting in front of a computer ever since I left school in 2004 with a few months of interruption working odd jobs in between, I guess I'm a Hikikomori too then lol

[@Jacopo_Bindella]

@@Wigglytuff-gk7vz yes, you are. It's been 20 years since you left school. Hikikomori usually abandon studies reached high school. We spent the best years of our lives alone in a room.

[@whynot9899]

I hope this guy finds success. He seems like a kind person.

[@--__6725]

@Supreme Wendy’s I hope you also find success for being kind.

[@andrewprincic2825]

MTTM 2 I hope you find success for being kind to someone kind

[@grimmrockbro3597]

@@andrewprincic2825 I hope you find success for being so kind.

[@jonboyo7513]

@@grimmrockbro3597 I hope you find success for being kind to someone who is also being kind

[@ronaldodekopio]

@@jonboyo7513 im here to break the chain 👍🏻

[@MrOllitheOne]

He's like YandereDev, except he actually seems to actually get shit done. Plus he sounds like a decent human being, so that's nice. Actually nevermind, he's nothing like YandereDev.

[@EnmaMusicProduction]

You're right. Mentioning him like YandereDev is an insult to this Decent man. This person is a model citizen for the modern age where everyone is kind of distant and directionless

[@blackkat2018]

@@EnmaMusicProduction and not a pedophile

[@Komobear]

@30 years old virgin Magical girl I agree. Mentioning such a hopeless situation on such a wholesome video is kinda gross. The cursed name is bad bad

[@tylerbrown3135]

Yanderedev aged to match his personality while this Japanese guy seems to be a good person

[@NCKRDDL]

My mans dont deserve this comparison

[@JustSomeObject]

Congrats on ur game being out on steam early access Nito!

[@philipsheridan8514]

Hi Nito! This is Amanda, on Philips account. You are the first Hikikomori I have heard of that speaks English. I am very impressed that you have spent so much time learning my native language, and you speak well! I wish you the best of luck on your game development!

[@camper1427]

Pull Stay got 4.5/5 rating from steam rating ( just demo btw). He basically did the game by himself. That's quite impressive for being an hikikimori.

[@camper1427]

@@ssxxszs6570 thanks, it's a typo byw

[@erdniealinik]

No its not even released stop spitting out lies

[@camper1427]

@@erdniealinik True, haven't check that properly. But it got demo.

[@erdniealinik]

@Aravind Krishna i indeed do have steam "buddy". and i also have a functioning brain unlike you "buddy"

[@erdniealinik]

look at those previous comments :D this nerd thinks he is just better than people here LMAO

[@Kirayy9922]

Being Alone is addicting. Once you know the comfort it gives.

[@kcx2678]

I couldn’t agree more. This pandemic has made me isolate myself and enjoy it.

[@giveitupforbeabadoobee]

true i apparently hate human interactions, so being alone is just fine for me lol

[@SHRIIMPSUCKS]

I like being alone nobody is bothering you, interrupting you, or just getting in your personal space but from my experience there's a certain point where I just want some type of human interaction it always goes away but it always comes back too

[@Kirayy9922]

@@SHRIIMPSUCKS I usually do have that too. But I got drained easily. So I usually talk online.

[@FarrelRvno]

sure it could be peaceful at Times but for some it really hurts especially when your lonely when your celebrating something or being lonely in special days and events like that, personally wanting to be alone and being lonely has a different meaning to me at Times i want to be alone just to shake off my pain and stress and at other Times i don't like it being alone or lonely when i could've used support from friends or family

[@VaporPC88]

His Game just got released on Steam!!!!

[@wolfguy1234]

He seems so sweet, bless him

[@PsychoticSalamander]

i just played a bit of the guy's demo for his game. its actually really good especially for a first game. id be willing to pay money for it :)

[@dld6959]

Cool.

[@Pyri_Aml]

What's it called?

[@PsychoticSalamander]

@@Pyri_Aml its in the description

[@Pyri_Aml]

@PsychoticSalamander Thank you so much! I'll try it right now

[@maddnar7320]

How about the porn that he make, maybe if someone has the link, im really thankfully if that person can share it, of course this is for educational purpose, it really helped my research.

[@The20ali20]

It's astounding to listen to the way he speaks English. His use of sophisticated words , honesty and clarity is just pleasant to watch. He is a great example of someone who chose isolation not out of being lazy but out of the fact that he just didn't fit the specific society expectation. Thanks for sharing a video about him

[@kcannon333]

it sounded like he was reading a translated text when they were talking with each other

[@RadimentriX]

@@kcannon333 yep, feels kinda "fake", i guess they had the interview in writing or in japanese and recorded this afterwards?

[@abbemai]

maybe he’d written a script beforehand ? it does seem like he’s reading something out

[@hyperkon9807]

that's the type of behaviour you can expect from a programmer

[@joangordoneieio]

You are such an inspiration. Doing this video was beyond brave; mad respect. As an artist I know how deeply personal sharing your creations is. Im sure your story helped more folks then you will ever know. Always look up

[@sieltan5618]

sean: "doujin means independent dis--" me: "he draws hentai"

[@askyourmama5862]

Doujin basically means homegrown Most of the porno is homegrown independent japanese comics so that's why people thinks doujin means porno and stuff maybe 🤔

[@zonger5787]

@@askyourmama5862 Ngl dude I think it was a joke? Maybe you new and wanted to teach or didn't know? Or I am wrong and he thought doujin was hentai. Anyway this is still the internet so I gotta be "that guy"

[@elliepredator_fan1111]

And Yaoi.

[@dark_lumi]

​@@zonger5787 doujin does not mean hentai, it is an "unofficial work" to put it in better terms. they are right in that it means independently made by usually just one person, a doujin artist. you might think that doujins are just hentai but that is just what most doujins end up being due to demand, not what it literally is.

[@poke6983]

@@dark_lumi well said

[@FG-bn3qq]

Guy: *makes cool art and games and supports himself financially* Society: "That's cool bro, what studio or company are you with?" Guy: "I work from home alone." Society: "UNACCEPTABLEEEEEEEEEEEEE"

[@SeanandOreo]

10 YEARS DUNGEON!!!!!

[@kenmatree.3167]

Lol

[@jmckendry84]

This isn't just working from home alone. He's totally isolating himself.

[@ipalognotya2990]

@@jmckendry84 lately i dont blame him

[@jaddagher2116]

UNACCEPTABRUUUUUUUU

[@senko_exe]

nito's game looks so fun! I want to support his life and buy it~ 😊😊