A Day To Remember - End Of Me

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Song stream by A Day To Remember for "End of Me" from their album Common Courtesy. 2013 ADTR Records / 2013 ADTR Band LLC. All Rights Reserved
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Directed by Shane Drake

[@VirtualLionelMessi]

There was a brilliant comment here once which explained this song so well and it's too bad it's not in the top comments anymore. This song/video is about this boy who is doing the same thing over and over. Even if it's harmful for him he can't stop doing it. The aged man is the future boy who ends up all alone and dies in the end, because he wasn't able to change. Personally I find the idea brilliant because change can be so hard sometimes. We tend to do things over and over again just because we're afraid of change, even if we know we need to change. We're weird creatures sometimes :)

[@alexmadrid165]

VirtualLionelMessi dude!

[@tf_merkzzzsecurity8747]

Just amazing comment brilliant idea i could relate to this song because i smoke over and over again and i listened to this song and it made me change and im proud of it

[@Elbasura774]

right, thats why that guy just keeps smoking

[@lintxxxxx]

VirtualLionelMessi you've ressurected the brilliance. And you've made a point....a pointed aspect of our fallen human nature. We don't just do the harmful.... we also don't do the good. And many times we watch ourselves doing... or not doing... almost helpless. Almost. It's a thought to consider when we come face to face with handicap people who often times are at the mercy of their syndrome. Our excuse is far more flimsy. But there is hope! Romans 7

[@migue8109]

Thanks awesome that the feeling and what the lyrics mean are the same

[@dannymadrigal5112]

Why do these bastards want to make me cry.

[@petedabrave7098]

Funny...

[@brookiiiiiie]

SAME

[@jacobnyeki305]

Danny Madrigal because they were hurt so many times and they try to help

[@yousefthaeer8312]

Same bro

[@endserenading333]

Bad day?

[@skylarreneebrowning887]

I honestly cant stop listening to this song. My best friend, Andrew committed suicide recently and this was his favorite song.I have always loved this song, and I showed him A Day To Remember, but now this song has a deeper emotional connection to me. Rest in Peac, Drew {6.24.15}

[@JuliaHonles]

skylar browning R.I.P. :(

[@thatcoloradogirlvail5069]

That's scary to me cause my exes name was Andrew and he told me one time he wanted to commit suicide because of me and I cried for days

[@JuliaHonles]

I'm so sorry you had to hear that. That's really heartbreaking D': ThatColoradoGirl(Vail)​

[@rockstargirl3904]

I'm sorry that happened :(

[@danielmitchell5008]

He passed on my birthday 2 years ago.... My best friend showed adtr to me that day..... Ouch

[@lolipopsicle151]

“Don’t say that it’s not fair you’re not the person you wanna be...” hits hard.

[@user-dw6td6dw7o]

Не один я такой, кто зашел послушать эту песню в 2020.

[@thedarkknight2424]

"I know I wasn't perfect but I kept trying till I forgot why I stayed" Is pretty deep too

[@kurtmay7690]

The most powerful line in this song is a simple one "I get it no I get it, can't help those who don't wannabe helped" ive been in that position of refusing help now the pain of seeing those who don't wanna help themselves is heart breaking I lost a baby when I was 19 I genuinely believed that would be the end of me, I wasn't seen by friends for months this song is so deep for so many reasons

[@TantoBrownBear]

Maybe the stair scrubbing is just trying to show that he did the same things over and over in his life, things that didn't make him him happy. The love of his life left him because of him never changing his ways. The X's on the wall are days that he wasted in his life doing things that served no purpose. He knew from an early age that he was wasting his life but never/could never change. He finally *realized* that he had wasted his whole life, which is when he "meets" his younger self, and he committed suicide thinking there was no where to go but down..... as in down the negative stairwell that he had been working on his whole life? Just my thoughts.

[@TheChaoticTaco]

Agree with you there

[@Unidentified11000]

Sounds pretty logical actually, however: I don't think he commited suicide at the end. I think he just passed away because of his bad lifestyle.

[@TantoBrownBear]

Gijs Dekkers I just thought he did because of the vertical scar on his wrist but you could be right.

[@TheChaoticTaco]

Maybe it was that he was reflecting on his past while he was asleep. Well. Dying*. But yeah, possibly it was that he was dying and realizing his bad choices as a younger person and reflecting on all the things he lost. Then when he gets the bat and stuff, it was him mentally taking out his anger as to what he was doing with himself. The X's could be how long he was trapped in his thoughts. Idunno. I guess the thing about these videos is you take away from it what you feel you relate to. There's never really a right answer :P

[@Unidentified11000]

TacoDown Good thoughts indeed!

[@tylerpeyton9532]

People get so upset when bands let their sound evolve over time. It's still cool listening to the old stuff we all fell in love with, but that doesn't mean you can't still fall in love with the new stuff. We expect these bands to just to keep screaming about being angry, but they grow up just like us. The songs become more reflective and deeper, but we can still relate even though we aren't teens listening to them anymore. This has happened to almost every band I listened to back in high school, but I'm glad they are all still making music and living their dreams.

[@theThomas1a]

I know right... Some people just can't expect that and are total dicks about it..

[@dominiquesparks1480]

I agree. 👌

[@Ddgolem12]

People fear change. Plain and simple. As fans, we either need to embrace the change, quit listening, or moan about the past. Im a casual fan of ADTR, so maybe I can't say much. But what you say about bands growing up is true.

[@theThomas1a]

Zach Dillon it is. Some people can't embrace it. Many people also don't the like the new sound of the band "The Offspring", Dexter Holland, the singer, was with the band when they formed in '85 when be was 20. Now he's 49 and of coarse him and his band's music isn't going to sound the same. And as a quote from one of The Offspring's new songs "Those days go by, and we all start again. What we had and what we lost, it's all memories in the wind. Those days go by, and we all start again."

[@antoniovales2110]

And either way, this is one of the few soft songs on common courtesy. The rest was amazing, even this is good

[@TylerG60]

I could listen to this song on repeat all day and never get sick of it.

[@celestialhimelucy]

That’s exactly what I’ve been doing! It’s addicting and one of the best songs.

[@joshuakelm773]

Listen to Miracle. It will blow your mind

[@jessicasuzanne___]

Same This band will forever have a special place in my heart

[@MrMetalMan]

One of those "Take an aimless drive on a dark rainy night" kind of songs. I love it

[@Natei]

Destroys me everytime, This is one of the best ADTR songs IMO

[@STARDESTR0YER2]

Yes this one and “You be tails I’ll be sonic” is mint it’s Doomer generation material before doomer was a thing, relatable content down to a T

[@Jerbrousky]

Been listing to this song since I was 14 now I’m 27 and it still has the same damage just in a different way. Different trauma.. I’m not sure, wow how time flys

[@gowolveriness]

@@Jerbrousky yeah same, crazy how fast time goes by

[@FroglikerWanderer]

"End Of Me" I took some time away For understanding of what brought us here today Oh, you'll be the end of me I'm never happy like we were happy I'm never sad like we were sad Oh, you'll be the end of me You know me all too well And I can't suppress the memories You're gone and I can tell That I've lost more than you'll ever see Don't say that it's not fair That you're not the person you wanna be 'Cause Oh, you'll be the end of me I know I wasn't perfect, but I kept trying Till I forgot why I stayed Oh, you'll be the end of me Yeah we lost all meaning We lost the magic So good luck to you on your way Oh, you'll be the end of me You know me all too well And I can't suppress the memories You're gone and I can tell That I've lost more than you'll ever see Don't say that it's not fair That you're not the person you wanna be 'Cause oh, you'll be the end of me (you'll be the end of me) I get it, no, I get it Gave more than I took back, oh well (took back, oh well) I get it, no, I get it Can't help those who don't wanna be helped You know me all too well And I can't suppress the memories You're gone and I can tell That I've lost more than you'll ever see Don't say that it's not fair That you're not the person you wanna be 'Cause Oh, you'll be the end of me You'll be the end of me...

[@CouldBeBaked]

I've said it once, and i'm gonna say it again: Let people interpret the song how they want. There's no right or wrong way to perceive the song. Everyone will look at it differently. That's the beauty in the world. Everyone has their own opinion. If you don't like someone elses view on the song, dont bash them for it, just move along and listen to the amazing music that ADTR has put here for us all to enjoy. Thanks for reading, if you did. Bye :)

[@mcallisterbeagley3780]

Most meaningful comment about music thx for posting this comment to help people understand that difference is bad and people have different interest and that nobody has to be the same thx man sorry this is late about 6 years

[@idrinkmilk282]

It can pertain to any situation that fits the description. That’s the beauty of music. Art even. You interpret it based on what is going on/has happened in your life.

[@progressional1659]

good comment, some people just have to use their ego to say so-so is wrong/right, music is art, and art is in the eye of the beholder.

[@barrygregory911]

Couldn't have said it better myself

[@TeeMcbee1]

And that is what makes art art. We forget that a lot

[@jkissinger2]

I cannot stop listening to this song...

[@tommyjames5290]

Same man

[@parisyanez6063]

Jack Kissinger The teen in the video, Arthur is a good friend of mine. He's really talented.

[@wildanwishall]

Jack Kissinger I love this song too

[@chey705]

+Jack Kissinger same...

[@wiolettaw6611]

same

[@blackvault97]

The story behind this one is awesome! ADTR!

[@neverdia1]

what's the behind it ?

[@blackvault97]

neverdia1 its hard to explain but the kid is dead the whole time if that helps a bit

[@Simperson123]

You know sometimes a relationship goes from Have Faith In Me to End Of Me

[@alguiencool7604]

:,v only the truth

[@BaileyJams]

you're not wrong there

[@battleborn1055]

MemeHowell best comment for this video right here

[@thekiminthenorth504]

MemeHowell so true

[@mightyporthos72]

MemeHowell this song ties in losing my best friend and being close to my friends and finding a new one.

[@cailondelano6239]

Man this song is literally one of the best of all time for me. The feeling the realness the emotion the hurt. I love this song

[@thekiminthenorth504]

same...just love it..!!

[@hanafi7959]

🙂

[@mlua02]

I can't believe I have never heard this before.

[@d3adbutbreathing]

Welcome!

[@ArtThouLivid]

I found what director have said about this music video: "End Of Me” by A Day To Remember is a dark video about the two male members of a family dealing the loss of the female figure in their life. Director Shane Drake tells the story of a teenage son who has taken on the burden of responsibility for the family since his mother left. He spends most of his time alone and his only interaction with anyone is when he has to take the lit cigarette out of his sleeping father’s hand, taking a drag for himself before putting it out. He takes out his frustration of the walls, appearing to count the days since his mom left by drawing X marks all over his room. As the song intensifies, his emotions boil over, and he begins the react more violently to the situation by taking a baseball bat to his bed. All of this builds to an unexpected twist ending that’s super fun to see people try to figure out in the comments on KZbin."

[@ayeayerongaming2485]

Everyone has their own story about this song/video but for me.... I literally lived this music video. From 12-19 my mom drank like a fish to pass out after my Gma died. My grandpa,sister, Dad and aunt all left but forgot me in the process. I considered suicide hundreds of times, begged god every night to not let me wake up the next day. I have a few scars. Some from myself and some from her. I felt so alone and forgotten, so much so that as an adult I can’t be alone, I literally hate it. She attempted suicide. And that part of the video where the paramedics rush in really hits home because I remember that, I felt that. Some days it feels like I made it all up, and some days the wounds feel as fresh as they were then. It still really messes with me from time to time. Now I’m 27 married to a beautiful woman with 2 lovely children. Life couldn’t be much better. Like I said it seems so distant at times, and other days it feels like I’m still stuck. I survived. I pulled myself out of the deepest of depression, and honestly now a days no one even has an idea of what I went thru because I don’t show it. I’m happy and smiling all day. I’m positive constantly all because I refuse to be anywhere near the place I was then. This video really hits home and the song as well. It reminds of the bad days but also reminds me I survived because I was meant to do something meaningful in life.

[@laraibashqeen7932]

so dramatic ! your words left me speechless. i mean i got so much in my life which i'm not happy about either but to be honest my troubles are nothing as compare to you. i must thank to the every God.

[@justace3]

Hope you’re still thriving bro! 🙏🏼

[@thanosgeorgiev2856]

4 years later, and i only have one question. How are you doing champ? How are your children and wife? Hope they are healthy and happy

[@lilycraig35]

I sat there and played from 3:00 to 3:03 over and over again, remembering my friend that would smile to hide her pain, and deny all evidence that would show that she wasn't okay...

[@paulac.5898]

Cheer up, girl! BTW nice photo you got.

[@lilycraig35]

Thanks. I like yours to!

[@lilycraig35]

sandun rashmika :) I love seeing Life Is Strange lovers! (I love her to)

[@paulac.5898]

the feelings :')

[@norbertprummer9960]

+Paula C. that game made me cry like a little bitch

[@MyShadowsDie]

My wife is divorcing me.. and immediately I go To ADTR. I’ve cried a lot of times today, including now.

[@ciby200]

How are you feeling now ? Is it better after 4 month ?

[@PhoenixAscending]

Hang in there brother

[@MyShadowsDie]

@@PhoenixAscending I KNOW THE BOIS GOT MY BACK! I’ve met a lovely lady and she’s my girlfriend now!! I’m much happier than I’ve ever been my dudes!! #ItGetsBetter

[@PhoenixAscending]

@@MyShadowsDie that's great my man 👍

[@atastro8723]

@@MyShadowsDie damn, that was quick

[@werdism]

Spotify literally had this as my number one listened to song for years now.. It is in the thousands and for good reason.. I probably watched this video on repeat for hours straight while blackout drunk crying my eyes out.. I am now 8 months sober and still enjoy this song just as much.. In a better place now though! ❤️

[@PatSporrerMusic77]

That's fucking awesome man congratulations! Just keep taking it one day at a time - I'm rooting for you 🙂 Music is so fucking powerful and can truly save us and make us feel understood in our darkest moments when nothing else can

[@CindyValencia]

I agree with the person below, love does make you go blind. & i never knew or acknowledged how blind i went until i was sitting in a dark place and realized i gave up my career, myself, dignity, confidence to try to make something unfixable work. Sometimes it really is best to let it go. I think everyone thinks that "they're the one", that they can't bear a life without the other person. but things change man. They truly do. & it's not until you find someone else that the feelings grow just as strong. What i'm trying to say is, if you're ever in a position where you know it's not healthy for you, respect yourself enough to walk away. It'll hurt tremendously the first few days but one day you wake up and feel free, no resentment, no love, no bitterness, just free. That day was today for me. & AdTR helps alot in realizing and coping ❤

[@DaveTheDaveMan]

Cindy Valencia Your story

[@matthewbailey8588]

Thanks for sharing! Wise words

[@lewislawrence8408]

Cindy. Recently I looked over my life since nearly dying in hospital, realising the light was dimming the more I remained stuck away from everyone as I took my rage out on the staff after four months of being at rock bottom without tasting fresh air then just before my fifth month they let me go and those moments where I held my family brought my light back. To cut a long story short. Find your light and fight like hell to keep it from going out. Stay tough

[@timdev615]

@@lewislawrence8408 Good to hear you're doing fine now pal

[@xsomerandomchick69]

lets appreciate how good of actor this kid is

[@iseladeanda9180]

9 years ago and this song still hits hard today!!! ❤

[@Bucboy1001]

One of their best songs to date. So refreshing to know they're from Ocala, FL - right down the road from where I live.

[@gsteel98]

The best song they've ever had in my opinion

[@nerdgrljensworld390]

2019 and these guitar riffs and vocals still kill me!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤘🏻

[@Parker-zd2qz]

This song is phenomenal. In my opinion, one of their best.

[@baseddroid]

Majority people seem to be interpreting this song with there tragic heart break stories and exes, which is fine, but to me this is basically about wasting your life away and never stepping up to change.

[@greenFuneral]

it really changes the tone of the song when you interpret it as if it's spoken to you by yourself, the desperation really comes through honestly

[@Sixclickz]

Could be both. Such as letting a breakup consume you to the point that you never move on and thus waste your life away instead of accepting change and moving on.

[@ScovilleJumps]

Yes I perceived it to myself as stepping up and changing yourself, being who you truly are and stopping the bullshit because you only have one life to live and you don't want to live it the wrong way.

[@blackclouds4893]

ADTR - End of Me (Lyrics) I took some time away For understanding of what brought us here today Oh, you'll be the end of me I'm never happy like we were happy I'm never sad like we were sad Oh, you'll be the end of me You know me all too well And I can't suppress the memories You're gone and I can tell That I've lost more than you'll ever see Don't say that it's not fair That you're not the person you wanna be Oh, you'll be the end of me I know I wasn't perfect, but I kept trying Till I forgot why I stayed Oh, you'll be the end of me Yeah we lost all meaning We lost the magic So good luck to you on your way Oh, you'll be the end of me Ya know me all too well And I can't suppress the memories You're gone and I can tell That I've lost more than you'll ever see Don't say that it's not fair That you're not the person you wanna be Oh, you'll be the end of me You'll be the end of me I get it, no, I get it Gave more than I took back, oh, well (so back away) I get it, no, I get it Can't help those who don't wanna be helped Ya know me all too well And I can't suppress the memories You're gonna and I can tell That I've lost more than you'll ever see Don't say that it's not fair That you're not the person you wanna be Oh, you'll be the end of me The end of me

[@williamryder8722]

this song has been on repeat for the last few days. fml. I hope shit get a better. been struggling for to damn long.

[@mikuohatsune1883]

I don't know if your still there or whatever but trust me, it gets better. hang on

[@Twins98]

Mikuo, thanks

[@marcbunschoten4424]

Bro believe me everything gets better :)

[@stevenmclaren2371]

Nope

[@julietaklaar60]

4 years straight I listen to this song a couple of times a day. This is the song that has marked my entire life the most.

[@PeterGriffith2599]

at the age of 17, I listened to this song on repeat in the same depressed state as I am now at 27

[@cielo4191]

So it's been six years since this song came out and I just found it. I've been a fan of them since 14 and I am 30. This literally is how I feel about my relationship with my father. He beat people, attempted to take life in general (others, himself, animals...) But he kept swearing he loved all of us. I let him go at 24. When this song came out. If I didn't he would have been the end of me. I love him so much. It hurts every day that I can't talk to him. But if I do I'll fall back into being under his dangerous thumb. I can't do it again.

[@rainerdolinschek9722]

I fell in love with this song from the first time my ears were graced by its amazing sound.

[@AndrOMOrph]

this video explains the way I feel and what I've been through almost perfectly, I don't cry anymore. but every time I see it I want to.. I'm in foster care because this is practically what happened. I'm 17, it's almost over. although I don't have anyone anymore left in my family to go to, and I'll be on my own, I live to make others happy, and I enjoy doing so. :)

[@maple7872]

You are clever man. Hope you are fine. I wish you happy life

[@bobafatty111]

I know that this comment is 6 years old, but I hope you found your way in life. You seem like a good person

[@yusahara]

I hope you are doing much better :)

[@wholeftmealone]

❤

[@LordXenuSaves]

Still with us brother?

[@sarahsila2731]

Easily one of my personal favorite ADTR songs. I love the entire Common Courtesy album - A masterpiece.

[@FlamingoBriefs]

Probably one of the deepest songs this band has ever written, which isn't a bad thing at all. Good job!

[@BigWillThePrince]

What scares me the most about growing up is that ill make mistakes and end up like this and look back when im 30 or 40 and realize I wasted my life. Im valedictorian of my senior class so far but what does it mean. It really doesnt mean much 5 to 10 years down the road. I have some much hope and dreams I just hope I find the right way to live it all before I die. Being 17 sucks.

[@bryannedeff]

Live your life and do not stress the rest. No regrets

[@ekojmart]

take it a day at a time my friend. Take small steps and set smaller goals that will eventually lead you towards your bigger picture. But don't dwell on not being a success yet. 17 is the perfect time to still be thinking about where you're going.

[@shaelexwoolbin4995]

you sound like every whinny pissy teen, go out there and do what you want, it's not hard. the key to success is having the resolve to do it.

[@artisticthief23]

In the end we only regret the chances we didn't take. Live the life you want to live, if you don't then it's not your life. I'm in the same boat my friend. I feel the same way, even four years later. You never shake that feeling, but don't feed that doubt. I believe in you.

[@justghosty666]

The best thing you can do is attempt to follow your dreams no matter how risky they are. I'm in the same situation you are in, I just graduated a week or 2 ago and I'm going to follow my dream of being a movie director no matter how risky it is. I COULD get a safe medium wage paying job and I COULD live my life not worrying too much about losing my job but then I'd always be wondering what if I had followed my dream. Our existence is so small in the universe, why attempt to live "safe" if your just going to regret it and not be happy

[@akuma9901]

This song speaks volumes. My girlfriend just broke up with me a couple nights ago over text message. No real reason was given. She has a rough background. Depression, anxiety, trust issues. She cheated on me even. I still stuck around because I love her more than anything else. She was always used, and beaten, and taken advantage of in her previous relationships. When her and I got together, I promised her I would never do anything to hurt her and I would protect her so she didn't have to know that pain anymore. I made her number one in my life. She always took priority. I think I'm just venting at this point, but this song makes me feel understood.

[@latinoheat74]

+The Raging Demon Bro i was in your position last year, I know it's tough to let go, it was a hard few months for me to process my own thoughts and after letting her go(she broke up with me), she rushed into another relationship 2 months later and it absolutely killed me, I was so angry and upset that she had let me down like that, after all I did for her, I really beat myself up about it, but now I look back and see that in fact I made it out easy and in the better state of mind. Things will get better.

[@punkrockstarz2]

dude That fucking sucks!

[@reshys]

+latinoheat74 So I'm not the only one. She broke up with me and next week she already had another person, when I did everything, I pushed myself to the limit and everything, just for her and for the sake of us, but I guess she didn't appreciate it.

[@ihatelols]

+The Raging Demon Mine cheated on me, i have to leave her. Undescribable feeling of emptyness, sadness, sometimes anger, confusion..

[@akuma9901]

+Tha Man i figured everything out. She was already seeing someone before she left me. she's been in two relationships since leaving me a couple months ago. she's not a good person, but I can honestly say I never loved anyone more. Just worry about you, is all I can say. Someone will find you worth fighting for eventually. Keep your head up, everyone.

[@dekapitatora]

this song literally saved my life

[@nouraa.9463]

Every time I hear this song, it gives me chills. This song is so bittersweet, I can feel the emotion flowing through it as it's being sung and played.

[@evannniesen460]

I lost the name for this song and haven't heard it since 2014, I'm really happy I found this song again!

[@breathJONNYstay]

2019, still crying 🤘🏼

[@kriegsfuhrer1517]

2021, still crying 😭

[@jd921515]

Been listening to ADTR since 1958! Hard to believe it’s been almost twenty years. I only get happier with their music. It keeps getting better.

[@factspirate99]

I pray that anyone of whom stumbles across this video decides to take a stand to change their lives. Even if you are doing great, push it to the limit and ensure that you live this life to the fullest in whatever way you percieve that to be. Spread happiness and understanding, use logic and never give up!

[@fakin_it4034]

I’ve heard this song so many times, I listened to it just now. It’s always made sense- today it hit me- I’ve wasted my life away-

[@MrSparkblast]

I cried

[@MrChristamouse]

+Brenda Puente Same

[@alexmedina7266]

If they had to pick.. the Realist Raw.. breakup song. 💔 This Would be It . 💔 #1 .

[@sundontshine2391]

+Alex Medina :(

[@Tronir]

+Alex Medina Damn true..

[@akuma9901]

if the song made you cry, that's because you can probably relate. if someone wronged you, don't waste tears on those people. Someone out there will appreciate you.

[@shaunagrace1308]

This song still hits me deep, like a blow in the chest! Music speaks what some of us cant reveal….

[@romanflores5505]

Shit I still listen to this guys since 2008 they have been getting me through the tough times. It's weird, and don't laugh,, but I feel like I'm growing with the bands music like the rate of my emotional growth is parallel to the maturing of their sound and lyrics. I love this band. McKinnon is definitely and idol of mine.

[@hellsing5062]

All us broken people, with our broken stories and a broken song to get by with. Feels like home. Even hell can get comfy once you've settled in.

[@user-bb4vi1tc1o]

Oh. My. God. This isn't a song, this is a masterpiece.

[@joshhowe1693]

I never thought ADTR had it in them to make such an incredible video. Not a criticism of them, i've always liked these guys, but their videos have always been on the silly side. I'm glad they've made a video like this. One of the best music videos i've ever seen.

[@HaloStation9]

They've made at least two others. Not trying to be rude, but there are a couple more. Have Faith In Me is one and All Signs Point to Lauderdale was another. This one spoke so much more than the others though.

[@joshhowe1693]

Chris Hailey That's true, but they're not on the same level of feels as this video.

[@tromaniac]

Josh Howe also agreed lol

[@HaloStation9]

That is very true.

[@yeetsmith1105]

it needed to be said. ADTR is god tier, but they always put out music videos that do not do them justice. this is a complete 180 degree change.

[@user-jj9kp3dr2f]

Hello from Russia! This song is so awesome !

[@klassikproductionz8051]

Hello from America and your comment is awesome.

[@user-jj9kp3dr2f]

klassiK Productionz ow, thanks)

[@anton8852]

Самая любимая песня уже 2 год)

[@ukraine_urban_art648]

да, и клип тоже.

[@ukraine_urban_art648]

severe anal trauma зачем матерится-то?

[@user-gu2cz7de4i]

listened to this back in 2014 and loved it, complettely forgot this song existed till now.. depression hit me so hard, finally realised the meaning behind this video and song, I could relate. Life sure is a pain.

[@Shadow1589]

I come back to this song every now and then. It reminds me that I have to keep going, its the only way things will change. I left my home a year ago. I have an amazing family and friends down home, but the past kept bringing me down.

[@EvyaCore]

ADTR FOREVER

[@fogdood6868]

A lot of people see the video as the man's son but I think it's the same person, and the woman that left him was his wife. After he dies, he's wearing a white shirt just like the teen boy and they have the same scar, so he was looking back at himself from a long time ago and now.

[@tixa1ify]

that's my opinion too

[@minnish5593]

you're right

[@minnish5593]

+AlphaLeader772 oh I just looked up the meaning behind and ADTR said that was what it was about don't remember the source so who cares I think the meaning of the song is more important anyway

[@sufferinsilence5817]

Yeah I think the scar thing was supposed to confirm that it's the same person, just at different ages.

[@petesakecs1304]

you're right

[@nargizquliyeva7475]

Can't help those who don't wanna be helped. Love this song!

[@kurtmay7690]

Such a powerful lyric

[@darla4042]

If you have ever loved someone that deeply.....

[@michaeloverton923]

Yes my wife who died 6 months ago at 34 im 36 my life was forever changed for the worse im broken 4ever

[@NARLYgirl]

This song reminds me of when I was obsessed with somebody important I knew. He found out one little lie I told him, but it was a pretty substantial one due to the circumstances. I wanted to die when he basically made it clear that (unless I attend his events and pretend to be someone I'm not, which is worse,) I'll never see or talk to him ever again. He was a close friend of 3 years. So that, being found extremely close to death from a poor choice I made a couple days after that, 2 of my other friends dying in the same week as that, and realizing how much I've squandered my time and money since graduating high school years early made suicidal matters more intense. But each day, with every waking hour, I'm striving harder and harder to make my time important and meaningful because I'm too young to give up and die now. As much as I love this song, I refuse to let someone who, in retrospect, wasn't as good of a person as I made him out to be, be the end of me. I've let go of my obsession, now time to let go of the rest of this depression.

[@jamesburr3791]

Wow iam so sorry

[@jamesburr3791]

Indeed

[@bernadettelewis3999]

I remember going thru a super hard issue for a period of time. I thought I'd never get out of my head but I worked hard to distract myself and get thru each individual day. Eventually life started to feel more and more normal till I basically forgot I ever had a problem. Also, idk if ur religious, but praying and asking God for help really got me thru. I felt like He was the only chance I had of escaping my problem. So there's a few suggestions for you. I promise everything will get better. I'll pray for you :)

[@michaelbarron1512]

***** Yeah that's true mate it is

[@sniperfection]

Well glad you found out your friend was a total jerk before investing to much time on him. Having to deal with the loss of two of your friends must have been extremely difficult. I'm glad to hear that you are recovering from your depression, surround yourself with people who love you and aren't going to drag you down. You have been through some tough times and yet you remain strong and continue to push forward. Hope all goes well in your life, keep on fighting, the best is yet to come.

[@MikeBrown-vo2ze]

my god, so much feeling to this song. i bet it was hard for the singer to reflect this memory in his life. I'm watching and almost cried for the guy.. damn dude, keep strong

[@M_DanielNY]

"I know I wasn't perfect but I kept trying till I forgot why I stayed" Man this song reminds me of my ex girlfriend. When she went away for college, I always had this thought that she might cheat on me but I always kept telling myself, hey maybe she won't. But in the end she actually did. And I forgave her because I loved her so much that I really wanted a future with her. She would get drunk at her friend's house an a hour away and she would drunk call me to pick her up an hour away. I would because I felt bad. She didn't go back to college but instead she went to a community college. She did started changing for the better I guess. Fast forward a year later I started changing I wanted to be left alone everything she did started annoying me. We always fought about the stupidest things. I didn't want to brake up with her because I felt bad. But in the end she decided to go to the army and we broke up. But I guess what I'm trying to say is that love makes some people so blind that you're willing to forget people that don't deserve it. And sometimes you should end things sooner because sometimes things won't change. Sorry I just felt like telling my heartbreak story haha.

[@trxpicvldoe]

Exact same happened to me mate.

[@SabiFu]

something similar happened to me, though I didn't forgive. because you're right.

[@wingfan777]

I've got three exes that fit into these lyrics.

[@aegisletum1167]

something very similar happened to me last week xDark

[@TheMarnman96]

Been there before too brother

[@Hopium500]

From all the shit I hear on the radios nowadays I come across this gem, it's honestly a breath of fresh air........

[@dero2480]

I was thinking the same

[@serhatmuratasbit206]

Agree

[@daltonsanders323]

So were all just gonna pretend we didnt see this guys name?😂

[@hatemslama2285]

i've known my best friend for 10 and a half years, i felt like i loved her a couple of months after i met her, but i never told her. we stayed friend then became best friends, she was always there for me, listened to every problem i had, helped me out on every situation i've been through, i was so madly inlove with her, i've decided to tell her, but some random guy came into her life and asked her to marry him, she said yes. i've never been more fucked up in my life like i am now and i regret every minute i spent thinking about wither tell her or not. now we dont talk at all and that's killing me. some people might call this gay, i call it sharing cause it helps.

[@1998devyn]

Hey man just remember if it's meant to be it will come back to you. I'm sorry bro. Hope everything clears up eventually

[@baptisteroche8977]

damn thats sad dude, but stay strong, find a woman that loves you for who you are, and if you think she's the ONE, don't fuck up this time and tell her everything

[@bradwainwright5231]

hey man, i know what its like, my girlfriend who was my bestfriend broke up with me after 2 years for a guy she knew for like 3 months, in the end i realised it wasnt worth the effort. if its any good it'll find you dude

[@Iamwhatyousayiam]

Usually i don't say things like this cos it's.....gay. But, maybe she wasn't the one for you. Maybe there's someone better out there, but just got to keep searching that ONE.

[@hanzohasashi5603]

+Jahenoor Rahman theres a lot of "ones"

[@mr.lefthanded]

May the fourth be with you. 5-4-2024. Come on, let's get back to the best music ever. Let's bring this back harder than ever.

[@sotirissavva6720]

If this doesn’t play at my funeral, I’m not going

[@punkichick]

This music video... restores my love for music videoes. It's not so often when a music video tells a story anymore. To me, a music video is part of what makes the lyrics come to life and ADTR did a beautiful job bringing the song to life.

[@andersonrubens5363]

Uma das melhores musicas que já escutei em toda minha vida... obrigado!

[@missindependent1864]

I've been waiting my whole life for a song like this.

[@m.g.9508]

I love the acoustic guitar at the beginning and how it sets the mood for the rest of the song. That guitar was the one thing that caught my attention.

[@Redfang248]

Honestly this was one of my lest favorite till I saw the video today.

[@DaniloGuarniero]

same here!

[@mikeo.4203]

Yeah the video really made the song better it almost felt like they also re-recorded it

[@cristianoronaldog.o.a.t4590]

You guys need to understand that relationships under 18 hardly ever work out. I have been through it.. please do not worry everything will eventually happen in time to come. :)

[@brolygito]

This is just one of those bands that I can always listen to regardless of how I feel or what mood I'm in.

[@OgProliferous]

This song really hits way to close to home.

[@EUPHORIAARTS]

This song literally has deep meanings. I have watched this video like so many times but damn , i still love this video and this song. One of their best works out there #adtrrocks!

[@justondement4458]

This song always hits home. It hits me pretty hard every time I listen to it

[@brecompton6143]

Took me a long time to listen to this song without breaking down crying. Its such a beautiful song

[@chadbanks8054]

This band will never get old! I love these guys they will probably always be my favorite band.

[@kyleboys7881]

2019 and this song keeps getting better and better as time goes on.

[@ewsabely]

MEU DEUS EU AMO MUITO ESSA MUSICA tomara que toque ela nos credito final da minha vida kkkk

[@3dgar7eandro]

just brilliant!

[@lesliemora6704]

I listen to this song every time I want to cry. Such a good song for these difficult moments..

[@followthewater]

this seriously sent shivers down my spine, one of my favourites on the album, great job guys!

[@floweredinfebruary]

wow such an incredible video. It really made me think of this song in a different way. I know there are different opinions of what the music video is about, but i just wanted to give my opinion... I think it is about a son and father who are dealing with the mother leaving them. The Xs on the wall mark the number of days she has been gone. The son and the father are living in this mindset of grief and sadness and cannot find a way to escape which is symbolized through the house. The son is able to let out his anger and frustration and eventually allows himself to heal."I can't suppress the memories.." When he lets himself feel the emotions he has been holding onto he "moves on". His dying could be a metaphor for letting his depression die and starting to live again. When he leaves the house the father senses he is gone and looks for him. When he is doing so he remembers that he has to live for his son and lets his depression die too. They climb the stairs together to start the journey into their new life. The scars on the hands show they were both hurt in the same way. By feeling rejected by their mother and wife. And the son scrubbing the stairs symbolizes how healing is sometimes a hard and grueling process. Sometimes it can seem impossible, but you will get through it and you will see the light again.

[@DavidTorres-rn5we]

This song makes me cry every time I listen to it. I love ADTR and this song is definitely on top.

[@user-tq7sm1sl9k]

Hello from Russia wonderful people who love this music)

[@sofdrink]

This is beautiful. Rock can be beautiful in so many ways.

[@sailboatcrew7239]

This video is awesome. Perfect for the song. I think it just means that our biggest mistakes are the chances we don't take. God only promises us today, so live your life to the full with no regrets.

[@danielgibeault8060]

"I know I wasn't perfect but I kept trying till I forgot why I stayed" That lyric rips your heart out and makes you cry a river 😢😢😢

[@DylanN44]

this is the song I've been looking for all my life

[@chrisdix7037]

Personally, I love this album more than their older stuff. I like hearing Jeremy's normal singing voice and I also like hearing them sing about things in their lives.

[@LaidToRest216]

A song I can listen to on repeat.

[@dustinreed8763]

Listened to this for the first time a few days a go and my soul resonates to the melody of this song...Pain is all I hear

[@Skoopman]

I've listened to this song so many times. And i still just got goosebumps and my hairs still stood up. That's amazing honestly.

[@siwkwdjdfjdie5744]

La busqué durante 3 años, nunca la pude encontrar, y hoy por fin la pude encontrar. Me sacó una lagrima.

[@ricsmith22]

Love this song.. I can relate to it like no other

[@deamon506]

The high lead guitar's tremolo right before the big chorus in the beginning sounds so good.

[@kurtmay7690]

In my opinion this is a song about a a person not just a man who loses everything and eventually it gets too much I get like that sometimes this song is very relatable in a line from this song "I get it no I get it" can't help those who don't wanna be helped" 😔😔😔

[@abczyxw4763]

2022, song still hits hard just like it did when it first came out.

[@kylemcintyre3056]

Just discovered this by accident on Tik Tok of all places....what a gem

[@KRYTEK-141]

i just started balling my eyes out.... that the first time ive really cried in 4 years