A FALL DAY IN THE LIFE WITH A CHARMING ABODE AND JASON

[@ACharmingAbode]

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[@mckenzieta777]

#2, #2, #2🎉

[@peggycrowley9534]

My Dad's dementia gave him a break from lifelong anxiety . He was not tormented by worry. He was the sweetest, kindest man and just became sweeter and kinder. Since his short term memory was almost non existent he truly lived in the moment . He knew us all. Jason and you are a precious couple.

[@marikotrue3488]

That story makes me cry. My grandparents did not have that experience, their personalities changed. Thank you so much for sharing that story.♥

[@MrsBeasleys1111]

❤

[@bornwithbsguards]

My mom was always a huge worrier too. But with dementia she has let that go. 🙏🏼 Her anger however got worse. But a medication called Memantine is helping. I am so grateful for that

[@cathywhite169]

I just love Jason. You take such good care of him with a smile on your face and love in your heart. Stay strong.

[@lilianemann1441]

I've been told that any time you make renovations in your home, it is best to make changes that work best for you rather than worry about what a future owner might want. There is no way to know and a new owner can and will make changes that they want. Good luck, Leslie.

[@dinahrogers5230]

Excellent point! Having other tubs (for guests or littles) is your get out of jail card! Go for it!

[@dinahrogers5230]

Sorry-three comments! I greatly enjoyed your makeup routine. Thank you! And I appreciated Jason’s update. You both are so fortunate to be each other’s Person. ❤

[@rhonaklipp]

I vote for option #2 and make it a luxury shower. That would be a great resale option.

[@lindakuyath9282]

Leslie, first: an easy number 2 on the bathroom choices. As long as you have a tub elsewhere, you are fine on resale. Second: Jason, we love you and admire you for sharing your journey with dementia. You are truly an inspiration to many. I enjoy you both sooo much!

[@tammymuren6378]

I so enjoy Jason’s fabulous sense of humor and quick wit.. 😆😆.. God bless you both, you’re an inspiration to many🥰

[@mamasteink199]

Leslie, you are so great with Jason. So loving, patient and kind. Bless your family.

[@ourtinycabin5077]

Option #2 sounds like the best choice!

[@brendabeckham13]

Option 2 on your master bath. Most homes now only have a tub in guest bath and huge walk-in showers in the master. I think it would look great!

[@karenmays8889]

❤️🙏no one can truly understand until they go through this. God bless you and your husband.

[@lornabarrett5388]

It is so wonderful that your Jason still remembers that he loves you. My husband became empty of emotions. We had been childhood sweethearts. And always said we had “true-love”. Bless you both ❤

[@creativemair]

My husband has no awareness of his dementia. I am so sorry you are going through this at such a young age. My husband is 78 and I noticed something was not right when he was 70. I have gotten caregiver help through the Veterans Administration so I can get out!!!! It helps so much!

[@lilolmecj]

I think that the respite care for you is great! In Washington state families who have a family member that needs continuous care/supervision, the state pays them an hourly wage which is cheaper than a facility. Those $$ can be used to pay someone else as needed for respite. Because no matter how much you love someone, everyone needs a break , and time to run errands, have lunch with a friend, or go to the dentist.

[@jonimosteller8946]

Our Master has just a shower . We have enjoyed it so much and if I feel like soaking use the hall bath. If you haven’t used that tub for 21 years, you don’t need a tub in that bathroom at all. No one will care and they’ll still buy a beautiful house. Also # two is what I would pick too.🙏🏽😍

[@marthatibken7146]

It's so good to see Jason. It's so good that he can talk about memory issues. Stay strong ❤

[@triciapapapietro3558]

My initial thought before you even mentioned it, is option 2. I get the whole “needing” a tub, but as long as there’s one in another bathroom, I feel that would be fine. I know whatever you end up choosing will be beautiful.

[@terrijsm]

I would do option 2 also my master only had a shower but main bathroom had tub and shower so it was fine as long as there's a tub in the house

[@jenniesmith6999]

Option #2 for sure! You will love how opening up that wall transforms your space and you do NOT need a bathtub (I only used mine for washing babies and dogs 😄) ! Can't wait to see how it turns out! Also I just ordered your fall essentials makeup! You didn't mention eyeliner, what do you use for that? Your eyes always look so beautifully defined but not "made up". God bless you, Jason and your family.

[@janicemoore9797]

I'm from Eastern Canada. I follow you all the time. I'm 61 years of age. It's just my husband and I. I just said to myself, "she's so good" with a slight tear in my eye. You really are. God Bless.

[@seaslife60]

You two are the *loveliest* couple. I'm so sorry you've been dealt this hand in life but I can see your love, humor, and faith will somehow see you through it. God bless you both! I can't wait to see the final results of your bathroom reno and your grandbabies' room. ❤

[@alj770]

You're right second option is best - kill the wall, frankly ditch the tub altogether and make a huge tiled walk-in shower. My friend, an artist on the East Coast, has one and it is gorgeous and SO EASY to use ... You have a LOVELY home!!

[@jessicasmith307]

I’m Kelsie’s age and I just adore you Leslie. You have such a warm, inviting, welcoming, vibrant, kind personality. I love how you show your personality in every video. You’re genuine and I feel like people are drawn to you! Loved this simple video of your day in the life 😊

[@norapeterson6331]

It's so cute that he was sitting Indian style on his rocker recliner. You are always so sweet and loving, and take such good care of Jason. You guys are wonderful ❤

[@janwilliams6517]

I am always amazed Jason can do so much with tools. My husband has FTD and has had it for years. He functioned well until 2020. Now, he doesn’t do well with any repairs. Taking trash out is a major upheaval for him. My brother died today from chemotherapy given to him for his brain cancer. He rang the bell a couple of months ago, but the chemotherapy really knocked his body out. He died peacefully this morning in hospice with his devoted wife and daughter by his side. In the last seven years I have lost both of my parents and my only sibling now. I take care of my husband also. It has been a sad, sad day for me. So enjoyed your day in the life. You and Jason continue to be on my prayer list.

[@helenadomenico892]

I like 2nd option for your bathroom. Ensuite don’t need tubs. As long as you have one tub in the house for kids

[@lindaga820]

I vote for option #2 . I just love you both !! You can tell that Jason is a very intelligent man with a quick wit and you Leslie are a beautiful loving , caring wife !! Thank you both for sharing your days with us . That casserole looks yummy !!

[@9330krivers]

Yes, Leslie. My husband who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s two and a half years ago is very self aware. His short term memory is gone but like Jason he is still very much aware. It surprises his doctor.

[@TraditionsByTheSeasons]

You are superwoman, I don’t know how you do all that you do. It’s nice to see you and Jason together. :) You are so pretty and I love how you did your makeup and hair, perfection, friend! TFS, xoxo ❤❤❤

[@peachBloom]

Jason is so very intelligent. Close to genius, for real.

[@MarilynDean-i5b]

Nice video getting ready for a day. Seeing Jason, and how witty he is amazes me. I think he has a great constitution about not worrying. Staying busy as much as he is capable is great. Leslie, your personality is so cute and a very supportive wife. Prayers always for you both.

[@dena-mo118]

Leslie, so appreciate you and Jason sharing about his dementia. Also embarking on dealing with my husband and the same. Saying "thank you" seems inadequate to say. You are so helpful in all you vlog. ❤

[@langdonr33]

Had the ‘Farrah’ style for years! ❤️❤️

[@bellteacher8699]

Several years ago we took out a jacuzzi tub that I basically dusted every week and we put in a large shower with a bench. We LOVE it! We also have another bathroom with a tub. I think as long as you have a tub somewhere, it's fine. Go with option 2. Make your house beautiful for YOU and don't worry about resale. New people will change things regardless, and something you thought was awesome will be gone! That's just how it is. We are in our 70's and we did put in a stylish S curved grab bar that doesn't look like an institution. It's like a rail. That was a good decision and it was easier to add it during the remodel, than to try and add it later. Good luck, have fun picking stuff out, and share some pictures!

[@sheilasherwood9125]

Your makeup is BEAUTIFUL!

[@bettyfenwick6337]

Option #2. Don’t worry about the tub. Do what makes you comfortable. New owners will probably change things around anyway. I upgraded my bathroom and left the tub out. I put a nice shower in and couldn’t be happier.

[@jackiel.6410]

Definitely go with Option #2. In the area I live in, most new homes have big walk-in showers and no tub. As long as your guest bathroom upstairs has a tub, that is all you need for resale. Thanks for this video. It is my favorite type video as we get to see Jason too and get to see how you spend your days.❤

[@bohdandouglas8929]

Thank you for sharing your day with us. I pray for you and Jason often. May the Lord continue to be your strength as you and Jason go through this difficult valley. Deuteronomy 31:6 (NIV) “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” 🙏Julie

[@leek7987]

Enjoyed the video. I am mid 60 and watching the Golden Bachelorette. I have, off and on, watched the Bachelor and Bachelorette over the years. What stands out to me is the HUGE difference in the way the contestants of my Golden Bachelorette generation treat each other. They are so kind and caring towards each other. So different from the hate and drama on the shows with the younger generations. It feels that people are quickly moving in the wrong direction and I am thankful to a part of MY generation. Has anyone else watching the Golden Bachelorette noticed this?

[@klw8771]

Same here @leek7987! These people of our generation are bonding, sharing and caring for each other..no petty dramas, in fighting or backstabbing. The men are all becoming friends & are APPRECIATING community & togetherness, their TIME left on this earth & learning & sharing from & with each other! Huge difference & I’m luving it! 💗👱🏼‍♀️👨🏼‍🦳Survivor watcher too but that’s a whole other thing. ;)

[@tmaffeo]

Oh yes for sure my hubby and I love love it 🌻🌻🌻

[@BarbaraJaynes-js9bj]

I like Option #2 (with a private area for the toilet, if possible). Thanks to Jason for giving us an update. His sense of humor is so wonderful to see!

[@ellef4812]

Hardly anyone really uses their huge master bathroom tubs - even the standalone ones. You've got other tubs. I'd most definitely go with option #2. You will not lose resale. I wouldn't plan for future owners of your home. YOU need to enjoy your home now. God bless! Thanks for your cheery content! Love your personality and your sweet sweet demeanor. ❤

[@maurafornataro3911]

Totally agree with everything!

[@singerjo5791]

I use my huge master every day.

[@juberoma2429]

With Jason’s sense of humor, it’s priceless to see him sitting under the picture of ‘Kramer’! 🙂💕

[@judyfry9902]

Option 2 is my choice. As long as there's a tub in another bathroom you should be fine.

[@sharonsomers5513]

Option two sounds good. Make sure you get a built in bench it will help with Jason later on. Thanks for Jason sharing some of his story.

[@ImaQuilter]

I rather like the walk in shower, vanity, closet and new tile in option #2. Its up to you and what your needs and wants are. Your house is beautiful, so whatever you choose to do, I know your style will finish it beautifully. I just love your videos, and look forward to everyone post. Be blessed, be well, and be happy Leslie. 🙏❤🤗

[@CindyDriggers]

We love you Jason

[@susanpetrella3413]

Peace be with you. You are a great caregiver. Hugs

[@jeanieyelton1564]

I love option #2. Jason looks good. 🙏❤️🙏. Love the doggies. So sweet. 😊

[@drdtexan]

My brother was diagnosed with early onset dementia at age 52, he is now 59 and he is not aware of what he is going through. Although he gets frustrated, angry and super stubborn when things happen. All his life he has been a happy guy with a sense of humor and this disease is slowly taking that away. So sad the changes that are coming about

[@MrsBeasleys1111]

❤❤

[@amandarogers5711]

I think option 2 sounds great! The carpet definitely needs to go lol. I think people will love the walk in shower and it shouldn’t be an issue since you have other tubs in the house. So exciting!

[@tracymcdonald5771]

Hi Leslie, my 57 yr old husband has early onset dementia and he is very aware and super frustrated when he can’t do things and is aware he can’t. His short term is awful, long term is good. His depth perception isn’t good and getting worse. The most frustrating I think, for him, he can’t follow simple instructions, no concept of left or right, up or down and his sight is not good. Have been told by drs. their vision can be tunnel with no peripheral vision. It is definitely not an easy road and wouldn’t wish on anyone. Thanks for your channel, good to know others situation. May God bless you, Jason and your family 🙏🙏❤️

[@cheriejones854]

I love Jason sense of humor. Prayers for him and you Leslie

[@voicesinyourhead4204]

You have an absolutely beautiful home x

[@monapargee4678]

Seeing Jason with you brings great joy to my heart knowing Jesus is holding you both close and will never leave you or forsake you. We also continue to pray for you two and your family as you trust God's plan and purpose throughout this faith walk. Sending much love dear friends, 💙🙏💙

[@Mmmcalber]

Jason's smile makes me so happy ❤

[@sarahvanrunkle2430]

Option 2. OK back to watching your lovely video 🙃

[@ruthwarren8685]

#2 for the master bath imo. You mentioned you have other bathtubs for the grandbabies,etc. We have a large master bathroom with a walk in shower and a useless jetted tub. I’ve never used it in the five years we’ve lived here and hubs has used it once! Also, I love peanut butter on my French toast! Thanks for sharing your ditl! You and Jason are a very special wonderful couple! ❤️❤️

[@shannonwelsh5830]

I love watching the two of you building the bed together. Making memories ❤

[@00clgordon]

#2 sounds really nice! :). Love seeing the pups in the videos 🐶. Have a great weekend!

[@pugpreslar711]

Love option number 2

[@ksm5509]

Option 2 for sure!

[@55MissyLou]

I think option 2 is the better option. You take care of Jason so well, and I hope you are giving yourself me time, too.❤

[@NinasHere4U]

First off I want to say that you are so beautiful! Great video, seeing Jason is always wonderful. God bless you both, always! ❤

[@nancycampas9144]

I think you have to ask yourself how often you would actually use a tub….but option #2 sounds nice. It may make your bathroom look really large. Option #1 believe it not, can make a huge difference. Paint and flooring really make a room look completely different without breaking the bank. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@hcmeijerink5510]

Option two, love the idea of a walk-in shower! Best for Jason too. You are amazing Leslie.

[@jackiekerr4792]

# 2 is best option to me!!

[@melonnieolson562]

Option 2 sounds like the best option for your needs and aesthetic.

[@gamielesley6769]

You know what Lesley? You are simply amazing and precious to God and all of those who watch you you minister to us beautifully. Your life speaks volumes of God’s love and all that you do please know that and praise him for making you so unique and beautiful For being who you are in Christ and all that you are to your husband, your family and to all of us who watch you blessings bound to you and just know God loves you special love from Lesley in Maryland✝️💆🏻‍♀️💝

[@kristineblackwell1499]

Hey there! Love your attitude about your husband’s care. I like the 2nd option

[@wyneverett6509]

I’d go with the middle option. I removed the tub in my place many years ago and I never regretted it.

[@janicerepass6996]

P.S. I know you're busy but you seem to be running at full steam ahead through cooking, building, making your face up, etc. Take a moment and breathe! Take good care of yourself. Good to see Jason.....he definitely hasn't lost his sense of humor.

[@pattycarosi9618]

I say options 2 sounds like the best in my opinion. What ever you do I know it will be beautiful. I love seeing Jason and see his humorous side. Leslie you are a great caregiver. Thank you for sharing Jason with us. Your dinner looked very delicious. It was nice watching you get ready. Your hair is so beautiful. Loved how you did your makeup I am going to check this out. Thank you. Have a blessed week. 🙏♥️🌴

[@arc8731]

Thank you for posting this video Leslie and Jason! Love you both!!

[@maisieh.8620]

Definitely #2. We took out our only bathtub and love our walk in shower. We did move the plumbing and it cost $32k. We love it and aren't worried about resale.

[@nicgeorgiapeach]

So great to see you and Jason working together. Love your banter! Option 2 for the bathroom is my vote❤

[@Kimbertola]

Leslie, my mom has vascular dementia, and I’m also always amazed at the way she is (sometimes) able to describe the dementia. For example, this past spring she got a head-cold which really set her back, gave her apraxia (of speech & gait), etc. She was trying to find the perfect word to describe the apraxia, and she said, “It’s like…a blur between my brain and my legs, my brain and my mouth…” I’m always wishing I had a film crew with me to capture her observations because I think others would be intrigued to hear her description of the experience. It sounds like you have that too with Jason!

[@kathyf7862]

It's so great to again see Jason and his delightful sense of humor! Best wishes on the bathroom remodel!!💞

[@CarFreeKC]

I think option #2! A really nice big shower might not be a deal breaker for the right buyer considering all the other great upgrades you've done to the house.

[@mhelen7360]

Leslie, you and Jason are such a precious couple, and I enjoyed this day in the life. I barely cook , and am not the person to ask about remodeling. However, I love to watch anything that you two do. Your hair, and makeup, were lovely by the way. I wish I could have moved that fast back in the day when I was headed off to work! Y'all are always in my prayers. ❤

[@Jen195152]

Even though it’s more expensive, I like the idea of doing away with the tub completely. The huge walk in shower would be awesome. I really don’t think the lack of a bathtub would be an overall deal breaker. Even when you are older, a shower is so much easier !! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@julieperkins1904]

I vote #2! Thank you for sharing ! Jason looks great! Enjoyed your hair and makeup routine.

[@BabsLongfellow]

Option 2. We remodeled our large 1992 bathroom in 2014 (also had carpet and a jacuzzi tub😂). We eliminated our tub (which we never used!) We had a bench with storage drawers under it built in, and it looked fantastic. We had two other tubs in the house. It was never an issue when we sold our home in 2020 with multiple offers.

[@robincooper9323]

When I shower I tend to get cold if the curtain is not pulled totally closed. When I think of those really large walk-in showers, I think of how cold it will be in it because there is no curtain and the second thing I think about is what a lot of work it would be to clean it! I would do option #2 but without a tub. You have others. Not a deal breaker.

[@chrismurrell1102]

If you have a tub in another bathroom don’t worry about it. Option two sounds great

[@jeanstover5938]

No tub! Option two We just built out and left tub out of master. For resale if you have a tub in another bathroom you will still have great resale! You two are AMAZING! Be PROUD of yourself and who you are for your husband!

[@KAStodgell]

I love how in tune Jason is. I know he has an on button for the camera. You are his blessing. I love survivor. Darling bed.

[@velmacoen4485]

That bed is darling!!! What a grandma!!!

[@helenhosler7923]

Regarding your bathroom.....think of the future. When we built our home, we thought about rolling a wheelchair into the shower....so the shower is wider and there are no doors and there is a large built-in bench seat. We're so VERY GLAD we did it. We do not have a tub. Also we don't have a toilet closet.....it's open with hand rails on both sides. The shower has rails on 4 sides.

[@DonnaAnders-w4d]

Jason is so funny, I love when he agrees to be filmed. You are so calm and patient with him. He is very lucky to have you. Leslie I would go with Option 2 - we hardly ever use our tub but the shower is used multiple times a day. Having security grab bars is always smart and wider doors for later down the road. Don’t you just hate carpet in the bathroom? Loved watching you do your makeup you have a beautiful complexion.

[@jenniferw1595]

Option #2! Much love to you and Jason and the doggies🫂🙏🏼💗

[@brittanycharlotte1809]

I think #2 is the way to go. My last 3 homes only had a shower in the master. The thought is that kids mostly take baths, and they will use the main bath. Can’t wait to see what you choose!

[@Alice-xw7qu]

Easy, peasy ! Omit the shower in the same room with the toilet, and put it where the garden tub is (plumbing is already there). Enclose window but leave 12" h x 5' w window for privacy and light in the shower. Where the current shower is now, install built-in cabinets all the way to the ceiling (easiest and cheapest way); or better, switch the toilet where the current shower is and enclose it for total privacy and install built-in cabinets where the current toilet is now. Leave the sink area, just update with new cabinet, sinks and faucets if desired. New lighting, of course and NO carpet ! No matter what, you have such wonderful taste, when you are finished, it will be beautiful.

[@carolehenderson9185]

2 is great!

[@jo-annmaruszak9885]

Jason looks good but I know it is not as easy as you make it look. I’m just at the beginning of this long road but it has already made a difference in my life. God bless you both. And I hope HE will bless us as well ❤

[@angelac2807]

Love watching you guys Leslie. I don’t know anyone suffering from this but it is heart-wrenching to watch, so I can imagine living it. I was wondering, after watching for a while now, and hearing you talk about the way things were and how he hurts your feelings sometimes…does this disease cause people to lose their empathy? I see him hurt your feelings and you tell him but there seems to be a disconnect with what that really means. Much love and prayers from another Christ follower in Dublin, Ga. USA. 🥰

[@angelac2807]

*can’t imagine living it-I meant to say.

[@kerryforman8129]

Number 2! As long as there is a bathtub somewhere in the house it won’t effect resale!

[@robinweiss1681]

I absolutely love your channel. I am so happy for both of you that Jason is still able to do so many projects and small tasks like taking care of his birds. You two are amazing and i always look forward to whatever content you put up.

[@BettyLove-t1k]

Jason, I’m so glad to see you! I love you guys, and I enjoy your show. Take care.😊

[@lauravannevel5183]

Option 2!

[@fireflyc1]

I love that you and Jason can still do projects together ❤

[@louiseperry6920]

Option 2, walk in shower perfect and you don’t need the ‘dust collector’. Tubs are good for babies, not needed in the master bathroom. Walk in robe more essential! Loved this video Leslie seeing the love between you and Jason 😘😘

[@julievegh3744]

#2 Sounds like a great change for a well deserved makeover. Good luck. God bless you n Jason n your precious family. 😊