A fool for daddy [Hello Counselor / 2016.12.05]

[@HenryRoss123]

I know the son isn't mean spirited and doesn't deliberately mean to hurt her but I just can't help feeling terribly bad for the mum. Mothers devote their lives to their children but I don't think he understands that yet.

[@lisalapuz8254]

Why not both father and son lived together since they compliment each other. The husband is ungrateful to the wife thats why the son copies it

[@avarisun8383]

I can relate to the son because, I prefer my dad over my mom too (but I wasn't as extreme as the son and would side with my mom when my dad was being ridiculous). My mom and I never got along when I was in my teen years. I was fat and not smart (I have a mental disability). My siblings are both smart and attractive. My mom would rarely buy me clothes because she said they didn't come in my size. I am 5'5 and used to weigh 75 kilos. (I ended up fat because I got very sick and the medicine the doctors made me take causes the patient to gain weight.) She never called me pretty or smart while I was growing up but would compliment my siblings constantly. She never made my siblings clean but would make me do household chores everyday. My dad was the only one who stood by me. He may have never called me pretty but he never insulted me about my weight or my grades. Whenever he saw me feeling really down, he'd invite me to go out with him. When he heard my mom complaining about why she won't buy me clothes, he'd buy them for me. People forget that there are two sides to the story and kids have a favorite parent the same way parents have a favorite child. We are most likely to be kind to those who show us kindness. My relationship with my mom has gotten better but I still prefer my dad over my mom.

[@IsmaAragto]

Avari Sun That’s horrible- your relationship with your mom and how she treated you. However, I don’t belief this case is that extreme. He’s ungrateful, disrespectful and mean-spirited to his mom and his justification was she didn’t praise him when he did well in exam or she didn’t give him money. He sympathizes with his dad for his difficult work but dismisses his mother’s work, which is equally as hard. The whole family need therapy if you ask me.

[@fe5398]

We have some problem. My mom do that to me. She told me do chores. And She never buyed me but buyed anything for my brother. I never get praised or help. Cause of that i feel drepessed. Try to end my life on that time. But later on high school i find my mom care about me. she just dont know how to do it. She often praised me when talk to other people. She cried when i go to college far away from house. Dad told me it. She cried when i came home late. She love me as much as my brother So after thay i know People tend not see somehing near them. They need people tell it. Thanks to my dad and brother they always tell what my mom thinks when i can not see it

[@sadstory18]

i love how taejoon always get up naturally to help the guest

[@rosezra8047]

boy, you should love both of them equally.. you'll regret it later when one of them passed away..

[@God-if9xx]

Facts 💯💯💯

[@AiEnma23]

I really like that the up10tion's member of brown hair participate in this reality because from what I watched so far idols normally stay quit (unless the other asked for their opinion) and prefer to not say anything but this guy was really sharing his thoughts

[@norasiahkarim705]

I usually don't like yeonga cos she goes overboard sometimes but her words carried so much wisdom in this concern! love it!

[@LoLoToTo920]

I feel bad for the mom. Mom's do so much and having her only son treat her that way is a little ungrateful but I also can see where the son is coming from ... kind of. I feel he took that comment in a negative light, which I can understand also. How old is the son anyways? I must've missed that detail. Anyways, my parents are very similar to them. I can understand why he was hurt from that comment from the mom - my parents did that too but maybe it's just me but I feel like he took it wrong. I'm sure the mom did not mean any harm. My parents also don't give out compliments often which taught my 5 siblings and I to be humble. And when they did give compliments - they really meant it. He took it wrong in my opinion, I mean I get it, he deserved a good job, well done but I also get where the mom is coming from also since my parents were the same. I didn't know when I was younger, but I know now, they just wanted us to stay humble and work harder to continue bettering ourselves. They would always ask why I didn't get 100 even when I got a 90 or something. Instead of hating them, I just worked harder to get that 100. He should really be grateful for having a mom who does all of those things we never notice moms do. I hope he changes because he's going to regret it one day. He'll understand one day, I hope. (:

[@ODIRION]

I feel bad that the mother has to suffer like that, working multiple shifts and on her hands and feet all day.... Even when I have one long day, I lose so much energy and it takes me a while to recuperate, I hope she takes good care of herself. She reminds me much of my own mother (minus the misplaced love lol). And on my parents' 25th anniversary, my Dad planned a suprise trip to Paris for my mother, and even planned something fun for us to do while he was gone, and my mom was so happy that he took such a great weight of stress off of her shoulders and created beautiful and happy memories for all of us. I can't imagine that he just neglected her on such a special day while they've been together for so long, and only created sad memories and more stress. Hopefully the family is able to become closer and show more love and care towards eachother in order to become joyful and feel relief from the daily grind when they get home everyday.

[@ematsevonur]

i bet her son will understand when he grow up one day. he's still young.from my opinion, i can see that he's rebelling from his story. i do feel sympathy (just a little bit) when he claimed that he only need some complements from her mother, but i believe that he should still shows his love towards his mom. and her daughter should not spend time more with friends. family first! and mostly husband always feel like they are the one who work hard to raise their family, yes absolutely i agree with this but without mom, who's gonna take care of your children, foods, clothes, house and anything about house chores? and for all husband, please dont make your wife worry like getting home late. it's just a simple things, but answering the call and say, "honey, i want to spend my hobby so maybe after couple of hours i'll be back". if your wife doesn't agree, you can just discuss. like spend your hobby twice a week or on the weekends. i really hope that they'll just fine sooner.

[@힘내자-b7n]

영상 끝부분에 사진찍는 모습을 보니 저절로 흐뭇해지네요ㅎㅎ

[@chickenbutt8599]

thank god for hard subs and bigger font size

[@Daria-ii5wd]

쟨 장가 못가겠다.. 엄마한테도 저 태도인데 이대로라면 자기 와이프 앞에서도 진짜 중간역할 못할듯

[@309kimtaeyeon]

What a brat. The way he treats his mom indifferently, is unacceptable. If you like your father more, you shouldn't neglect your mother. Your mother gave birth to you (its life or death). He is so ungrateful to his mother. There are people out there who lost their mother at a young age, when giving birth. He may be a kid but someone need to step up and teach them on how to be grateful.

[@Paulinhanunesm]

I can understand the son honestly, his mom doesn't give much attention or praise to him to she wants it from him.. love is give and receive, and the dad is giving it to him, also the dad doesn't nag like the mom does...

[@zarailly]

Aww that was so nice at the enddd

[@alysiaborn9844]

I think they're both wrong. It's not okay for him to say those things to his mom and not help her but I also kinda get him. When you don't get praised and she thinks you will get arrogant because of it is just weird. {For me} My mom praises me even though I have bad grades, saying I will do better. When his dad does praise him, of course he will grow closer to his dad and like him more while the mom just pushes him away by not praising him. I do feel bad for the mom, don't get me wrong but I also get it.

[@nailah.7796]

I can relate to the son so much. My parents are exactly like that and at times I tend to favor my father more but I still love both

[@klairen5771]

This boy is so childish it's infuriating! I guess you can excuse it due to his age and poor role model in his father, but seriously! He needs to realise how cruel he's being to his mother. I hope the father will make changes too, it's ultimately his fault the son is like this.

[@drummerJunJun]

ㅋㅋㅋ 아들녀석 귀엽다ㅏ. 그래도 어머님의 입장도 이해 해드림~

[@Launibu]

I wouldn't allow my child to speak to my spouse the way the dad lets the boy to his mom.

[@cherylmedeiros6287]

Well she complains that she does everything but she has 2 daughters that don't do anything. Seems like it's all about the son and him proffering the dad. Get them girls to help out!

[@AmbiCahira]

I think I know how this happened. He was the smallest child and only boy in a house full of girls so he had noone to really relate to while dad was at work so dad coming home was a highlight of the day to finally have another guy to be with. Daddy of course being the hero, but maybe even more so if she was the disciplinarian during that young age. Then on top while he was small, if dad stayed out late and the parents argued he could have been scared that daddy wasn't coming home so he had some separation anxiety about it and so he attached even more so that he would keep coming home. I bet he was too small to remember and it turned into a habit of self reassurance after that.

[@juliabae4751]

"You know how someone's cold outside, but warm inside?" Me:...Yes..Min Yoongi.. 😎😎😎

[@RM-dd3yq]

BT_S A_RM_Y Agree 😊

[@iffahnadhirah5771]

uP10TIONNNNN💖

[@iffahnadhirah5771]

jiyunnie is there a law saying that people cant write up10tion here? BTW i typed it before i watch the whole vid. is there a problem?😒😒😒😒😒😒?

[@내꿈은헬창-i3g]

웬만한 대한민국아빠들이 저런취급당하는데 엄마가 당하면 고민이네 ㄹㅇ 대한민국 ㅅㅅㅅㅅㅅㅅ

[@babybobo8736]

Although the son could have done better I understand where he is coming from. His dad doesn't talk much and his mom seems like she would express it if she was angry, mad or something. Taking his dad's side is his way of protecting him. Granted he could have helped his mom so she wouldn't nag her husband for not helping her and make both his parents happy. And maybe he and his dad get along very well (like even if they weren't related they would be friends type), I'm like that with my dad. I hope nobody stops the dad from playing at the music café even if it's that late.

[@marcelinogustanto8056]

if i become like her , i'll pretend to be death and see what'll happen . such an ungrateful son !

[@fe5398]

How about left her son alone. Mom go to somewhere for vacationm let the son know how hard her work to be. Do chores is hard more than work. I am working. I have work 48 hours straight. But still it never as hard as do chores.

[@gwldenclwest1125]

"A fool for daddy"

[@fatifousseni1446]

I got whooped and scolded for coming 2nd or being amongst the top 5 in class. I came to understand that its jut because my mum wants the best for me. Now I'm highly competitive as a result.

[@thattannielilpawtouchedbyt771]

Sometimes,,,, parents should discuss in private and solve their misunderstandings without letting their children listening to, that will disturb children thoughts...

[@mundanemonday46]

Just watching this made my face flush red, idk why, but it’s just so idk.

[@Jellybeans101]

When u give birth to an ingrate *clap them well*😤

[@loveboysankhil8882]

I love to be in this Family apart. i love it so much.. But as i don't got a dad present from my childhood i really wanted to feel and have present of dad love too.. And as i we all three sibling only boys without girl we Awly apart of mom. And as I'm the youngest of our family my mom and me we always a side each others when we have argued.. Love you mom you the best person in this world for me.....😘😘😘😘

[@뭘봐야-g2i]

나도 초등학교때 아빠만 찾았는데 주말마다 모임갈때면 따라갈라고 했는데 꼭두새벽에 나가셔서 별로 못따라갔었던

[@monstagd677]

The son is a brat and the family takes Mom for granted. I hope they treat her better.

[@starswafa]

without his mom he wouldn't be alive

[@jesslimited9689]

i think this family got problems..

[@aekoksal]

aah that comment about "moms are strong women are weak so forget she is a strong mom, she is a woman too" !!!!! I mean I love Hello Counselors but that comment is so so wrong. And people should stop feeding to the idea that women are weak. Women are not weak period. Sure moms are strong most of the time but that saying is just wrong. I am so so dissapointed that Youngja said that but i know she means good so I still love her but I mean that comment is just so belittling. Maybe the meaning was lost in translation. Lets hope! :)

[@julianna9020]

He locked his mom in her room?!!! Wth

[@chimchimff9333]

pd1o1!!! SAMUEL DIDNT MAKE IT :(((

[@LightskyDae]

WTF I found son to be so mean. Just think as the mom you work hard for your family and take care of them, but to have completely ignored and treated rudely by son

[@animechannel82]

Selfish and no empathy for the mother . All family is mean to the mother.

[@gwajadanji]

일부러 힘들게 애를 가지고 낳은건 엄마인데 아빠 편만 드네. 불효자식. 이런거보면 그냥 입양해야돼. 낳지 말고.

[@jalo7289]

She got two other girls. boys will be boy so he feels better with his dad. the girls can be with the mom

[@thegreenarrow8286]

While I agree with the mom in one aspect the son shouldn’t be like that to the mom but maybe he’s more with his dad in things is it’s only him and dad In a house of women

[@reibubbles2505]

I've seen cases like this before. Yes the mom works hard and cooks, but I have a feeling she's a cold person who won't stop nagging 24/7. I wouldn't be surprised if the dad got that hobby just to get away, he comes late because he dreads going back home to that tension and nagging, his hobby is an escape. He feels that his son is an ally/friend, the only person in that house who can understand him, and I think the boy feels the same for his dad. Maybe the mom has good intentions and truly loves her kids and her husband, but maybe she can't express her feelings in a warm and pleasant way. My mom used to be like this too, my dad also came home late because he couldn't stand her psychological abuse anymore(though he loved her deep down), and she did it to us kids too. I understand the girls want to spend more time with their friends too and not with their mom, because my brother and I felt the same, we hated when we had to go back home to screaming and insults. In my case mom didn't cook, clean, do laundry or anything else besides the 9 to 5, it was my dad and I who did the house chores. When we met with relatives mom was very manipulative and always put us in a bad light, she blamed us for everything and our relatives believed her and ganged up against us, no one believed us because they were under her charms. I remember a relative once pulled my sleeve and scolded me "why aren't you helping your mom at home? You are old enough to do the house chores, don't you understand how hard she works?!? You need to help her out!" I was so angry, I wanted to tell them "she works 8 hours a day, just like anybody else and then comes home and sits on the couch watching TV until night comes and goes to sleep! She won't even move to get a glass of water and we have to cook for her and bring her the food on the couch cause she won't move!" but I was a good kid and I just shut up, I knew they wouldn't believe me anyway because they didn't know what was happening in our home. Anyway, my mom changed in her 50s she's better now and we get along better as well. But she's alone. My brother still can't forgive her and she divorced my dad after she cheated on him, even though he forgave her, he couldn't match the other guy. I still talk to her and see her because... well, she's my mom and the only one I have. I don't know if this case is similar to mine, at least the mom is working and doing house chores, but maybe she has trouble expressing her feelings. But I wouldn't rush putting her on a pedestal and consider the son and husband as bad, because I don't know exactly what's happening in their house, maybe the truth is somewhere in the middle. But looking at it logically, people are drawn towards pleasant people, right? If neither family member want to spend much time with the mother then maybe she makes them uncomfortable somehow... I don't know.

[@tangy8213]

Aw

[@icedmocha5264]

I also prefer & love my Dad more than my Mom.

[@MidnightAshess]

i would just get a divorce tbh

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Humbolteto koiapnepe le to humkiya kare fidlake to kar raha tha apni bat bola khud peleto kiya kare humne jo kharabhai uski ak bat bolisab ko chid kiyo bola agarlake nahi karta good nahi samjhata to teensal se yah hoo rahta mai nahi per koi batbolu turant apna hi samjhlete hai humne kitane sare lakediya bas jaha folt bataya sabko mirchi lag gai pahle to bataya nahi jabkhud jana to mirchi humse kabhi kisine sach bat nahi batai hamesamujhe murakh hi samjha fir bhi sapot hi kiya kisi dusre ko jagahhumne abhi tak nahi diya humto sirf akeemjante the bad me sabdhiredhire judte chslegsye humne kabhi kisika diljanker dildodna nahi chaha eske bad ab pura wald ko karo oder deker gayab warker ko kamme kahi dikat hogi to woto bolega hi jiska hai kam to esme hume kiya galat kardi nahi bat mane fir bhi kam kiya abhi bhi kar hi raha humkisi ke piche nahi padte bhul wahi jo aapsab ka nam deli liya sorry kalse sabka namhum khachara me dal diya ab kabhi nahi aapsabapnanmmere phonse sunoge bay bay good bay youare go aut okkab nikaloge chintana karopanch deker ho jaunga koi fultki juban nahiak mard ki juban hai bhulhui jo aapsabka namteensaltak liya aapsabko badnam ki hume mafkardena humaayastaip ke aadmi haina esliye bahak gaya tha sorry ok

[@루인-t6u]

그냥 이혼하세요 위자료 듬뿍받으시고

[@skinnylegend9782]

WTF IS WRONG WITH THAT WOMAN

[@k2480114]

내아들이라도 싫음

[@wastedeveryday4884]

Lol...my mom is like that..but i never treat her like that...whatt???just because ur mom never praised u..u treat her like trash..

[@윤예림-m1e]

남편 아들이 어떻게결혼했어누구랑살까어떻여자가......

[@오늘도살자A]

예전에 애들 한테 따뜻하게 대하지는 않았지만 나이 들고 객년기 오니 관심 받고 싶다느 건가.

[@gwajadanji]

과거에 한번 있었던 일에 집착하고 계속 되뇌이는것도 정신병입니다.