A lesson learned from Korean BL "To My Star" S2 E7: love is not a waiting game, nor a guilt trip.

[@KhushbooSingh-um1zd]

When Seojoon said "I give up"..I don't why but it felt like some kind of satisfaction bcz since the beginning he was trying the best to save his relationship and he was the only one who was trying..I feel too sad for him bcz relationship is not about only 1 person its between 2 persons so why only one should try to save it..I hope he find his reason of happiness and comfort soon..

[@dece020]

I felt his pain while saying those words. I can see it in his eyes and yet he still wished him well. He must have been bleeding inside, but he braved it😢😢😢💔

[@lakshmidevi0123]

lol...only if seojoon has been less busy and gave Ji woo time instead of "car". Not trying to start fanwar but even I won't like to be in a relationship where I feel lonely from inside all the time

[@andriius21]

@@lakshmidevi0123 yeah there is no need to be in a relationship if you are feeling like that but if you really care about someone you try to make things work and the first step is talking not disappear leaving a note… that was totally unfair for Seojoon 🥲

[@KhushbooSingh-um1zd]

@@dece020 Same here 😌

[@lakshmidevi0123]

@@andriius21 I can agree on that much but as you know JW personality he doesn't talk much

[@lonael6699]

When I say To My Star is the best bl in the industry to this date, is because of the acting, cinematography and storytelling. Season 2 is literally one of the best dramas in general, the different emotions that were portrayed by these two characters in every episode are just unreal. I had high expectations for this season and it really exceeded it... ofc without mentioning their insane chemistry .

[@Lasha_1106]

I love how some of the comments are totally about the drama and not either pity on Seo Joon or Blame on Ji Woo. Both have it hard, trauma doesn't leave you with much choice, so does love. It's on them. The way they are portraying their characters is like witnessing something 1st hand. The way this 2nd season is written, is way to real. What happens when the rainbow is gone and the clouds have settled. Its another part of the same story, and its much deeper than whatever goodie goods are shown and expected from a season 2. Outstandingly written and conveyed ❤️

[@Eliza7887]

❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@mccnbinnie9840]

Seojoon being trying his best to get through to Jiwoo and show he cares for him deeply. I feel sadness when he said he's given up but some was satisfied and relief. It's time we see Jiwoo fight his demons and go get the love of his life back. Seojoon and Jiwoo endgame 😭❤️

[@Eliza7887]

Wow, are we watching the same show? This season 2 exceeds my expectations. The story, the details, the acting, I cried several times; for Jiwoo. Hope he will see the light and open up about everything he bottled up for too long. I love every second and I need to rewatch several times to see everything and understand the deeper meaning of what is happening. Congrats to the whole team and I can't wait for Sunday, but I don't want this to end.

[@branrubaba6256]

It’s amazing what pride can do to people. This show really took relationship is maintained by 2 people to the realest level

[@wingardiumleviosa693]

I don't know why I feel such a relief when Seo Joon said "I give up". Love yourself more Seo Joon.

[@elixir6793]

Although a lot of things have happened, I feel like i understand jiwoo. This man has already gotten hurt before and abandoned. He doesn't have many friends and felt like a failure or felt like he was inferior to others for a long period of time. He finally found seojun and began dating him happily, but the more things went on the more he realized that he was literally only living and existing for seojun. And i think that's what drove him over the edge. He doesn't have friends, he doesn't have family, and seojun helps him w basically everything and buys him things. he felt like he was useless and without meaning. He felt empty waiting on seojun all these nights and getting prepared just for him while seojun has friends who wish good things for him. he's just there to welcome seojun home after a long day, at least that's what he felt. so i understand where his loneliness came from. This all unconsciously grew into hatred towards seojun or some sort of resentment for feeling like he only existed for him. Do i think he did the right thing tho? no. he could have handled the situation much better if he just talked to seojun about all of this. They could have fixed things. and maybe if he still wanted to break up he could have done it in a nicer way. Jiwoo has been known for running from his problems since S1 and it's very prominent this season as well. they both feel wrong and I'm reallyyy curious abt how this story will play out and how it will end. Wishing the best for this series!

[@Landrobje]

You explained it beautifully! I hope all the people blaming Jiwoo and telling Seojoon he's better off without him will read this, so they understand why Jiwoo acts the way he does

[@dece020]

"All this time i was plagued with an unknown GUILT and confusion. The more i realised Kang Seojoon did nothing wrong, the more confused i became." The ball is on your side now Jiwoo, what are you going to do about it?

[@SnehaSingh-ir6lu]

This episode was one of the most heart-rending scene of this series.😍 Packed with emotions ❤️❤️

[@blbromance9337]

They still love each other....love can't be separated....please Ji Woo, love yourself and don't hide anymore...so you can love Seo Joon back

[@yoemy9870]

sometimes "love is letting go". let it be a meaningful memory for a lesson.

[@AuroraIvashkov]

Finally. Seojoon should go back. Jiwoo needs to sort out stuff on his own. He needs to learn to love himself first before anything. Seojoon is so tunnel visioned onto himself and his love. It's cute but misplaced. Since they can't communicate, it's better to stay for now.

[@AuroraIvashkov]

*stay away

[@b.erisblackexo-l1503]

Love is letting go. I can't wait to. binge watch this series. I have tortured myself for too long waiting for all the episodes.

[@rinichawngthu7988]

"I give up" Idk why but that hurts me so much! I'm still hoping for a happy ending that they and we deserve

[@Aminaidrissa1995Idrissa]

To my star is best ❤❤❤❤

[@DruviGovind02]

I saw one comment saying this is why you don't ask for season 2

[@Weareallmadheretoo]

I'm enjoying it but you're so right 😭

[@mistimukherjee7607]

At this point they should just stay far away from each other and focus on their individual careers . Both have a friends group/support system . They need to work on themselves for a long time before even thinking of getting back together.

[@kittiemamba]

When the security is not coming from inside but the other, it’s hard to maintain- no matter how much love the other person showed , it would never be enough. Jiwoo is living a life in the country side, he has his own restaurant, his friends who stand by him, and he felt neighbor’s love and support to him too.. through others’ love, he finally find love inside him.. maybe we can never love the other before we truly love ourselves 👹👹

[@Annie-jf2wy]

KSJ is the only one trying in this relationship and it hurts. 🙂

[@moonside3880]

Pls.... Next episode JW u need to make it happy for u both!

[@gidi1951]

Still hope for happy ending.

[@carolnuwahereza7982]

Am so proud of my baby for giving up👏👏,,it's abt time he started putting himself first instead of fighting for someone who's so egoistic and hurts him all the time 🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@yoemy9870]

I hope they don't get back together as lovers. Because this kind of relationship will not bring happiness. For the bond that they call love, One will always try to understand whether he likes it or not, And the other will keep stay because of guilt. Kang So Joon deserve sameone better. And Ji Woo needs to accept and love himself first, before giving his heart to someone else. Believe it or not, love is not a feeling that will last forever, because what comes next is the responsibility for the commitments that have been made together.

[@yoemy9870]

Communication is needed so they can understand each other's situation. but for love as a lover which means they have to be together is not easy. as I said above. worry about hurting each other again, Will make them, whatever they like it or not they will stay And accept it. And it will hurt more in the end.

[@yoemy9870]

Yes, God decides everything. And this is a series that writer decided too 😊. All I said if something like this happens in real life it will be hard. That's maybe some can happen well out there. But mostly it will be difficult. And for me Love is not a game. Love is love, about two peoples, two minds, two hearts and two personalities. So if you ready to love you must be ready to open minded and communicate well.😉

[@yoemy9870]

Like you and me right now. We have a different view of love. You with all your thoughts And me with all my beliefs. In my opinion, before you accept and love someone, you must accept and love yourself completely. And if JW feels leaving SJ is the right move, why is he still hoping and waiting for SJ's to come. And after SJ came even to the point of begging for love, what all JW did was ignoring him. whereas in reality peoples have a high ego. Let's say JW realized his mistake. Because he doubted SJ's love, then who can guarantee that he will change from his insecurity? Like you said, SJ is top star that means his life and times depending on the job given by the company. SJ was doing his best from the beginning and it doesn't enough for JW. The question is, how much hard work must SJ do to get JW's love? while he has a job and a responsibility that he carries.

[@yoemy9870]

Actually, you don't need to delete it because everyone has the right to have an opinion. And what needs to be done is understanding. Because problems in life are not arithmetic, which has definite results.😉

[@Alexavian]

Loved season 2!

[@dmiserv2093]

Sad that To My STAR going END this week 🥹 I like the season1 so I’m waiting For Season3 cuz season2 kinda missing part of S1&S3😁

[@lisamarc5002]

Lol 😂 you need to stop no more season 3. I had enough !!

[@dmiserv2093]

@@lisamarc5002 😂😂

[@isabellegilerot551]

Seojoon is so sad and i find jinhoo's attitude so cruel..I really don't understand the reason why Jinhoo left Seojoon and he even told he no longer love him anymore.. Seojoon didn't deserve that 😪

[@imstilllapperman6552]

This scene is so heartbreaking.. 😢

[@kyungkyung2523]

맘 아프게 왜그래 ㅠ ㅠ

[@mbuwirnina6226]

"Love is never enough" there are other things that make up a relationship. If you don't love yourself, u can't love another.

[@kimjeon2188]

This is so sad. I'm confused, so confused. What is the problem? Why can't you just accept him again?

[@marialeonoraicaro9299]

Gagaoolala please make another follow up to this bl to my star 2 i like these two actors i want to see and watch them again please…thank you be safe God bless🙏🏻❤️🤗

[@blissfullmii]

This scene makes my heartache,so sad 😪

[@dianaosazenaye1313]

Love should just love

[@tamyamorim806]

Happy Ending, please 😭

[@BoiFluffyFurry21]

For me this is okay. It thought me something about how a relationship really works in the first place. Personally I've watched alot of BL with just cute moments, and small struggles that it feels like a dream. Not bad if you want fantasy, just that if feels those we're not enough. Just for entertainment, and No lesson I can take from it. This show however showed how realistic things could be, and isn't always pretty. Communication and sacrifice is the key to a real relationship. Plus as said in the title "Love is not a waiting game or guilt"

[@nda884]

Gemes deh sama ji woo, seo Joon semangat kamu harus bisa move on dan balas acuhnya ji woo nanti

[@betterdaystocome3853]

I’ve watched this series with anticipation each week but it feels like it has been stuck from the start. The blame is on me and the writer(s)!

[@yankithakuri7969]

Please don't give up..

[@BTSisMyUniverse68]

He's giving up because JW has been treating him like garbage. How long was SJ supposed to hold on or wait fie JW to get his crap together, he's been treating him like filth. He did the right thing for now

[@lakshmidevi0123]

@@BTSisMyUniverse68 JW did the right thing. It is better to leave a person if you feel lonely with them or things don't work

[@dece020]

@@lakshmidevi0123 did the right thing but didn't do it the right way

[@dece020]

@@BTSisMyUniverse68 he fought a good fight. Pleaded, gave it all, got trashed each time, got back up every time. He braved it all like he always does with everything.

[@belle7bella]

There was a scene in this episode i think when Ji Woo looked at a photo frame by his bed and went to sleep looking at it !! Whose photo was that? His parents?? Or Seo Joon's??

[@theshikakufox]

Finally SJ! I thought the same about JW. He hasn't put in any work into the relationship. It's SJ who makes the time to be with him and wants a life with JW. I get that JW's ex was trifling, he had low self esteem and he thought that behavior was OK but it's not. I wasn't surprised he met up with her nor surprised how she did him dirty because both of them were hurting. It took too long for SJ to finally give up and I'm ecstatic that it was said with confidence. He wasn't agonizing over it for too long and accepted the truth that this is the end. Unfortunately for JW, he thought SJ coming back for the show was a sign but that was SJ taking responsibility for bringing the crew out in the niddle of nowhere! 🤣 I had hoped there would only be 5 episodes of pain and the rest how they worked back to loving each other. All in all, I'm glad I watched it. Hugs from Orlando, FL. ☀ 🌴 🏖

[@nithyabajjuri2591]

Can you guys believe that they both were in the same series tale of nine tailed

[@kikikyu8699]

I think, because jiwoo insecure if his past time about his parent dig up to public.

[@art_account]

Why did he leave tho? Anyone can tell me? I didn't watch this season. Ll do.

[@suibianslaopo]

Only a few hours more !!!

[@traceyannmiller1287]

There were no reasons for him to be lonely. Seojoon would leave his set whenever he gets a break to spend time with him

[@paritoshsinghal3153]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@nurulh6927]

I know the storyline is fantasy and fake but when i read the synopsis I immediately knew there is no future in this relationship. Celebrity being gay in korea?? If this is in the west country I totally understand it but korea?? Ermm… thats why its really hard for me to pick this series to watch. Half of my brain said this is just fantasy and the other half said this is not logic. In conclusion, I didn’t watch the full series just watch sneak peak here and there

[@julymedina4943]

😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢

[@greciaaltuve1824]

😞

[@yasminachusete9162]

Ooo😮😍😍😘😘😘

[@doraemon419]

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