A Man Can Compromise For 20 Years Just Because He Can't Be Alone - Mariam Adeyemi

[@surakatolatunji1591]

When my wife died 4 years ago, leaving five children, what was in my mind was how to take care of the children. They must not miss their mum. If I marry again, my attention will be divided and I may not be able to fulfill my dream on my children. So, my problem was taking good care of my children till when they became basically independent. About sex? Hmmm. When my wife was still alive, she used to tell me that, sex depends on ones state of mind, I didn't believe her because I always thought that it was an excuse to avoid sex at times. It was when she died, and I was in grief and fear, that I knew sex depends on your state of mind. Some men, who remarried told me about their horrible experience with the new woman. Then, I also think that, can another woman replicate the closeness and familiarity with my late wife. There is nothing more soothing than having a wife you shared same mindset. I don't think I can remarry ooo, because I can't deal with double life. I can have a relationship with some understanding and not remarrying and starting all over again.

[@tpshalom]

Jesus is your comforter. Your statement is a good one of an eye opener. I remember when a man told another man that said he couldn't do without sex. The man said if the doctor says, "Your wife will lose the pregnancy, if you really love your wife, you will manage. Society portrays most men as dogs, which is not true. I am proud of you already. Dealing with 5 children for a couple is not easy. Thank you for prioritizing them. This coming from a man has done something good to me today. Father, please provide your special daughter for this man🙏🏽 men like this are rare. My friend has 2 girls and has not had sex for 1 year since his wife died. He treasured her. Some men are just special.

[@celestinaekeh7772]

so what of if is the woman is the owner of the property?

[@KigaliKidogo]

It's not everyone that engage in sex outside marriage. It's devilish to tell someone to have sex outside marriage but not marry.

[@joycechikelue4274]

Have your own life aside your marriage...PERIODT.

[@KinlyAmbongha]

I am staying single after I lost my husband because of my children

[@autocadessentialscourse]

Anyone who does not want to remarry should not FORNICATE. It is HARAM.