I love how they offered help and not make her feel bad over something she doesn't understand
@hot_whelzАй бұрын
its because of the context with out it they would be like get lost
@F.M-1Ай бұрын
Loved their empathy like she didn’t mean to appear offensive but her phrasing was super problematic like “black people doing styling their hair like rope” is a bit messed up😭 but they offered help instead of taking it to heart and I really liked the dynamic they displayed in this scene
@XyruzaАй бұрын
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@jillcooper6371Ай бұрын
Culture is to be shared not hoarded.
@cesaruribe2487Ай бұрын
@@jillcooper6371FUCKING THSNK YOU!!!!!! FINALLY SOMEONE GET IT!! One of my favorite things growing up was having my best friend ( BLACK BTW) would want to participate in my sister quinceañera party or him learning Spanish, I loved sharing my culture with him, as in turned he turned into hip-hoop and rap and stuff.
@dgervais7527Ай бұрын
I love how she was uncomfortable but she put the discomfort aside for her sons joy
@drumkick2315Ай бұрын
Yes, that is a real touching scene in this series I liked a lot.
@ryukageazrinАй бұрын
It puts tears in my eyes damn
@ChubsrealYTАй бұрын
What’s fucked is that Collin tries to make her seem like a bad person.
@yasiegonlastie5483Ай бұрын
@@ChubsrealYTwait how
@jakemandude7974Ай бұрын
Jesus Loves you He died on the cross for your sins and if you repent if your sins and confess with your mouth His is Lord and son of God you are saved. God bless😊
@Kingk-One.10 күн бұрын
That woman is such a great mother. she put her son's happiness first.
@julenpixelparadox4 күн бұрын
And then loses all character development 20 mins later
@princegobi59923 күн бұрын
Isn’t that the bare minimum though?
@PydroAJ2 күн бұрын
@@princegobi5992 it feels like the bare minimum but you'd be surprised by how many people didn't have this blessing growing up
@134567891012 күн бұрын
Yess she is!!! :)
@jessy77962 күн бұрын
that makes her a great mother? no it makes her a mother. you guys praise the most basic things it’s so sad
@lillieeverett990410 күн бұрын
Mom was awesome. She was willing to leave her comfort zone to make her son happy.
@joannejasny7505 күн бұрын
I am amazed that people find this exceptional, it is what mums do. Bless you honey, son was thrilled❤
@finnpeters78675 күн бұрын
@@joannejasny750um it’s a movie
@joannejasny7505 күн бұрын
@@finnpeters7867 doh
@y2ktora733 күн бұрын
mind you she sent him back to a white barber shop because she thought his hair was ghetto…
@MrJamberee2 күн бұрын
Was her son to stupid to know what cornrows are? Mom had to act like she was helping a 6 year old?
@SavantPeteАй бұрын
Respect to the mom bringing her to hairstylist familiar with his hair
@MontagedАй бұрын
I have respect for her just putting herself in such an uncomfortable situation. A lot of people have a hard time adjusting to new things and admiring that they have no idea what they’re talking about. She tried, even though she knew she didn’t know much, and that takes some real character to do
@trashboat6818Ай бұрын
@@Montagedshe turned out to be racist and told her son he looks like a thug after he got the cornrows
@Jahs3ybrownАй бұрын
She said he looked like a thug after this
@AG-yj1jvАй бұрын
Exactly. She wanted for him what he wanted.
@Azeral7Ай бұрын
@Montaged she likes BBC that's why she's so conformable doing that
@MatalinaBylerАй бұрын
That mom is trying her best, humanity at its finest
@hunterlepageАй бұрын
nope, not if you see the full thing
@afrobanditx2972Ай бұрын
Right after this she calls him a thug and worse
@KassKat519Ай бұрын
@@hunterlepagewhat movie is this?
@DeepDownInTheOceanАй бұрын
@@KassKat519 Colin in Black & White
@DeepDownInTheOceanАй бұрын
Watching the whole show will give you a complete opposite impression about her.
@stormimiller29234 күн бұрын
When I was pregnant with my biracial daughter, I had no clue how to do her hair. I had weird pregnant dreams about not being able to do her hair. I cried to my friend, who told her daughter I needed a head to learn on. Her beautiful daughter would sit there for hours and hours letting me learn how to do all kinds of hairstyles while I was pregnant. Most patient 8 year old ever, I love that girl and her mom!
@Ohhiohh4 күн бұрын
Coalburner
@Emo.Clown.20083 күн бұрын
Hell yeah! ❤
@justinfowler12712 күн бұрын
Sounds like papa bounced 😅
@bootercup00115 сағат бұрын
Legit this is so sweet ❤
@karenbourgogne11004 күн бұрын
i saw this white woman's post on insta showing her black baby girl going to school, and all the comments were like "oh she has matted hair you need to take care of it" the woman said she doesn't know and she wish she knew how to take care of it and she felt so guilty. then all the people commented hair routine she could use, she was so happy
@moonyxxstars23 сағат бұрын
rare good insta comment section
@user-ud9dh1zn7hАй бұрын
Thats a mom right there
@nickpossum3607Ай бұрын
In every since of the word!
@edwardhosmer5726Ай бұрын
@@nickpossum3607what??
@freecashattaАй бұрын
na that’s a mother
@jareddimatulac45Ай бұрын
@@freecashattaIts the same.
@diablohernandez6040Ай бұрын
@@jareddimatulac45but it feels more endearing
@mjnari022Ай бұрын
The innocence of a mother when all she knows is that she loves her son, that was touching.
@doridawa6064Ай бұрын
Exactly, the mothers love ❤
@Ka-kai29 күн бұрын
Beautiful!
@nevermind415629 күн бұрын
If you watched the show, she already called the braids ghetto and that he looked like a thug.
@mjnari02229 күн бұрын
@nevermind4156 was that after he got the braids or was that before he got them
@BuckyBarnesATL29 күн бұрын
@@nevermind4156that was before though right?
@EricaHansberry6 күн бұрын
People in interracial relationships racing biracial children, let this be an example for you. Expose them to both sides and allow them to show up how they are most comfortable. And prayerfully they won't grow up to have an identity crisis. This video is just (chef's kiss)
@sor81044 күн бұрын
No
@pbwbrian534 күн бұрын
@@sor8104Love your open mind.
@Supersquishyawesomeness3 күн бұрын
Yeah, I’m struggling to see the positive in that image obsessed environment. If you have biracial kids have them interact with the more positive influences available. I know black people in every line of work. Let them look up to doctors and lawyers not the ball players. Teach them hard work and dedication instead of looking for that easy bag. Everyone goes through several identity crisis in their lives. At his age every month is a new one.
@LWms5173 күн бұрын
This is the way my sister raised her two boys! They are 46 and 48 now and I'm a proud auntie!
@UnderoathHasMyBrainКүн бұрын
I'm fully black and still grew up with an identity crisis. I was forced into environments just like this one when I just wanted to be *me*.
@erexshawn696 күн бұрын
I love Mary Louise Parkee sm! She's probably one of my favorite actresses. Her portrayal of Teresa Kaepernick is absolutely touching.
@Tiredtimee2 күн бұрын
what movie is it
@ThekutekristiКүн бұрын
It’s too bad he didn’t respect her the same way.
@krystalleightv23 сағат бұрын
NANCY FREAKIN BOTWIN BABY
@nnekaokonji663815 сағат бұрын
@@TiredtimeeCOLIN IN BLACK AND WHITE. It's a series on Netflix
@Tiredtimee15 сағат бұрын
@@nnekaokonji6638 thank you
@kimberlykennedy5331Ай бұрын
I had a young black boy in foster with us for a little while. I was so clueless. We were in the aisle at Walmart with African hair products, and there was this younger black lady that I asked for help. She was so sweet and generous with her time. She talked to him about his style and needs. She pointed out what to buy and even gave me details on how to use it. I still tear up about it. No ridicule. Just 2 moms supporting each other. He was recently adopted. 😊
@zuzannabrzezinska896Ай бұрын
Aww 🥰 I’m so happy for you guys!! Wishing all the best for your family and the boy ❤
@Thamazgha-nimazighenАй бұрын
Your story is great but what I don't understand is why do you people always have to flaunt what good dead you've done? Oh I adopted a child praise me! That's the vibe you're giving off seriously. And for the record no I'm not attacking you for adoption it's a great thing to do. I have 5 kids 3 biologically mine and 2 adopted so I know what it's like . But again why always flaunt your deeds? I've noticed this patern specifically amongst whyte americans but also other whyte in general. Never understood why.....
@gregorybower2759Ай бұрын
I dont think she was flaunting and fostering is way different than adopting. @Thamazgha-for-imazighen
@michelecrutchfield6885Ай бұрын
That’s wonderful ❤❤❤❤
@Thamazgha-nimazighenАй бұрын
@@gregorybower2759 No sure she wasn't flaunting. Same way that all the other whyte american comments I see all over youtube doing the exact same thing. Maybe it's a cultural difference idk but sounds like flaunting to be. If she would have said this in my country people would think she's weird and flaunting....and I feel the same way. But hey I might be wrong who knows I just find it very strange since it seems like a pattern?
@sebastianmaker679828 күн бұрын
"I don't know what I'm doing" is such an amazing phrase to hear a parent say. Admitting it, asking for help, reaching out to the community around them instead of just thinking they know best no matter what. There was just something about that line that made me tear up.
@Kdotstan28 күн бұрын
You cried to a clip of a movie on yt shorts? 💀
@tal299228 күн бұрын
@@Kdotstan mf watch leaves from the vine and you'll cry too
@chipta820728 күн бұрын
@@Kdotstanso did I 🤷🏻
@Kdotstan28 күн бұрын
@@chipta8207 tf 😭🙏
@saskiasofia28 күн бұрын
@@Kdotstanyou’ve never cried watching a movie?
@odurs3 күн бұрын
It's so heartwarming to see people coming together to help and support each other, especially when it comes to learning and understanding different cultures and backgrounds. So much kindness and empathy in this video, it's truly uplifting.
@coconutsciencegirl92329 күн бұрын
A good mother. She was scared and didn’t know what to do and asked for help. That’s real love.
@deniseengle42693 күн бұрын
I wouldnt say scared.....just utterly out of her depth....
@mariahchill960120 күн бұрын
A parent who TRIES for their kids is so powerful and wonderful
@yaniquedawkins850518 күн бұрын
😢 touching
@seamossperfumes79318 күн бұрын
❤❤yes my heart melted
@XXPYR0XX17 күн бұрын
It's called a Dutch brade
@Grouptherappy17 күн бұрын
yeah and the ones who treat you as their slaves arent
@isabeldiogo279716 күн бұрын
Yeah but later in the show his parents say that the cornrows make him look like a thug and that he can’t get them anymore
@HOTAStudiosАй бұрын
This is how society needs to be. Instead of tormenting her on stuff she doesn't understand, they introduced her to their culture. They celebrated their culture and shared it amongst others like it was meant to be.
@Toramai-pi8wxАй бұрын
But here’s the thing people tend to appropriate that culture. Pluck things from their culture that have great significance to them and make them “cool“ meanwhile they still get penalized for that piece of culture that white people made cool. I understand that not all white people understand the prejudices or are aware of them, but the thing is is that a lot of white people when pointed out these fallacies tend to get very angry and defensive. They pull out the arguments of “I’m totally not a racist.” But instead of trying to actually learn about the culture and learn about the biases and prejudices that had permeated through the centuries, they tend to want to bury their heads and pretend that they are enlightened because they treat Black people semi nicely when they’re not thinking of stereotypes.
@itzwilliamdk8525Ай бұрын
Thing is braids was used by us nordics back in the viking age and prob longer back Edit: I love how this comment upsets so many people😂😂😂 its too easy to trigger people with a little comment that means 0 like i couldn't careless for what kind of braids they are i just commented for fun😂
@journeyoflovelightАй бұрын
I cried reding this. thank you.
@HarlonnaАй бұрын
@@itzwilliamdk8525 this is what we’re talking about when we say y’all love to steal things lol. No offense but This is why we gatekeep.
@technus147Ай бұрын
tf you talking about? if anybody stole it, black people stole it from the nordics@@Harlonna
@chickenКүн бұрын
The support and kindness in this video is truly heartwarming, a great example for all.
@indianamargaret20328 күн бұрын
The Mom is so nice🥺 And the Hairstyle looks great on him.. wow🥰
@Tendy.DS1812 күн бұрын
What a mom. She’s trying her hardest to be the nicest person she can be and help her son
@a_n_u19 күн бұрын
Do you know the movie name?
@Tendy.DS189 күн бұрын
@@a_n_u1 Colin in Black and White
@carlyleezpeleta31637 күн бұрын
A mother’s love.. so strong ❤
@SADNT6 күн бұрын
Didn't she force him to get rid of them later because it made him look 'unprofessional' and he almost got kicked of his baseball team aswell
@chili_015 күн бұрын
I really liked her until she hid his prom photos because he had a black date😢
@TheBirdManOfAzkaban23 күн бұрын
Admitting that you have no idea what you're doing, and you need help, is a sign of a truly strong character. Doing it for somebody else is a sign of true love.
@twicekpopertrash868521 күн бұрын
Or maybe start thinking about that before having a child would be a option too
@lhr883321 күн бұрын
@@twicekpopertrash8685Well, is good she decided to be his mom, because that is Colin Kaepernick’s story. The outcome was successful.
@moneymanifestation950521 күн бұрын
Most racist thing I've ever seen 😂😂this can't be a real show
@dominicmcfeeley414221 күн бұрын
Another woke fake b.s.,,
@Futurotropi21 күн бұрын
💚
@TarotTEE7248 күн бұрын
That’s really how things go. Just ask we aren’t as confrontational as ppl like to think. Just be yourself and be respectful it’s when y’all OVERDO it when y’all start saying offensive things
@anci3nt_moon57810 күн бұрын
“MAKE SURE YOU GET HIM SOME TEA”-🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
@0hMyLife3 күн бұрын
Actually, it's "Yeah, make sure you get him some tea t....." The conclusion of that sentence would be Tea Tree Oil, fyi.
@bumblebxnny25 күн бұрын
She’s so sweet, she admits she has no idea what she doing but tries her best to make her son feel heard. My mom did the same, had my black aunties teach her how to deal with curly hair 😊
@vernardbrown-rv8nc24 күн бұрын
Blacks don't have curly hair...our hair gets kinky and Thick.. biracial children get curly hair
@justoutchea24 күн бұрын
@@vernardbrown-rv8nc some of us have curly hair. You're just being nasty.😂
@z00019xz23 күн бұрын
@vernardbrown-rv8nc I have curly hair and I'm fully black I don't know what you're yappin about
@darkvampx23 күн бұрын
I know we need more moms like this even though she was probably raised differently she's trying to get used to new things and that's what matter about her 😊
@kaiibethat..475823 күн бұрын
@@vernardbrown-rv8ncyou’re loud and wrong. I think it’s so funny how you whites don’t have a clue what you’re talking about and yet still decide to have an opinion on it. if you don’t have the right information, don’t go spread around do your research then maybe you could talk about it
@alcomcАй бұрын
Thats a true mom. Understanding and no prejudice, im sure she will raise her son right.
@Weeniewarrior15Ай бұрын
She said he looks like a thug right after the clips stops she means well though but it’s just a different in culture and perception of professionalism
@kaitlynbrooks869Ай бұрын
What show is that
@destrom6845Ай бұрын
@@kaitlynbrooks869this is the short series about colin kaepernick, bro. I watched it on netflix a few years ago
@jcflores1774Ай бұрын
There is always prejudice to an extent. What matters most is understanding and getting through it.
@footballislife47Ай бұрын
@@kaitlynbrooks869it’s called “Colin in black and white” I think
@VitoMasseria9 күн бұрын
She went out of her way to do whatever it took to make her son happy, and everyone involved was so welcoming. Loved this!
@nelliethelin7 күн бұрын
I love how she is trying everything to make his son happy
@timbit8670Ай бұрын
This is an example of a great mom who loves her son and amazing people who understood what she was trying to do and helped
@soonerthanlater820629 күн бұрын
@AdamFontenet ahaha they wont see it that way. this is real to them all. babble on babylon.
@reez172829 күн бұрын
Where’s the dad?
@newman_LaRue_Jr29 күн бұрын
@@reez1728this is Colin Kaepernick which was adopted love it
@jaa-vl7cs15 күн бұрын
@@reez1728 Working? At home? Not there? Why does it matter why the dad is?
@missamylynne8629 күн бұрын
Everyone's praising that amazing mom but no one's praising that kid for turning to her with thank you i love you on his lips. So many kids don't notice what we do for them.
@leiwilliamson409828 күн бұрын
Amen!
@IslesYankeeLady28 күн бұрын
The character is young Colin Kaepernick. This is about his life.
@comptegoogle507128 күн бұрын
@@IslesYankeeLady Is this what's the movie called? 😊 Thanks in advance
@maxbombel87728 күн бұрын
"These damn kids." - every generation
@Clover_Stone28 күн бұрын
@@comptegoogle5071 The movie is called "Colin in Black & White", currently airing on Netflix. :)
@MissCarrieH4 күн бұрын
The face the mom makes in the end is so precious! 🥹💖
@crystalmyers27706 күн бұрын
I can’t wait for the continued seasons . I really enjoyed watching Colin Kapernick’s life’s story… I always loved him as an athlete. he always carried a peaceful spirit.
@MaryJaneUncensoredКүн бұрын
What show is this?
@Ernie1978Ай бұрын
A mother willing to be in a situation she wouldn't normally be in order to make her son happy. And everyone was helpful and kind. If only this was our everyday world.
@PROVOCATEURSKАй бұрын
Looks like he is someone elses son.
@DebB90Ай бұрын
Then some of who walk I to" a bad neighborhood " wouldn't feel scared bout rollin' up because they hear Zs girl can do it for less. 😂
@merficvalmar4671Ай бұрын
Yeah, it is so cringe that they always have to put in some form of racism, even when performing normal mother/father, son/daughter-stuff... Hollywood can't do without it any more 🙄 This would be so a nice story, but they just can't write drama without racism...
@larissa-je8dcАй бұрын
@@merficvalmar4671completely agree it’s really annoying to see it in every tv show movie and cartoon
@ambriaashley3383Ай бұрын
It is!! It’s just not always on the Internet. But this is going on in your community right now.
@mauricegary319425 күн бұрын
As a parent, that "Thank You." means everything. 😊
@Think4yourself800023 күн бұрын
🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤
@ammarazizi996222 күн бұрын
100%
@yeahiisaidit75753 күн бұрын
This is what I love, she is allowing him to explore n understand his other side, shes genuinely trying, " you wahme bless shorty like yuh boy like AI" no he wants braids like Allen Iverson..🤣🤣🤣. She's too cute.
@P0PR0KK3 күн бұрын
Black People Are The Friendliest People I've Ever Met. They Treat Each Other Like Pure Family. It's Beautiful...
@UnderoathHasMyBrainКүн бұрын
Idk what black people you met, but I might need an introduction. Because this was NOT my experience as a young black girl.
@really2345Ай бұрын
My sister who is White adopted a seven day old Black baby. When he was an infant, she walked into a Black salon because she needed to learn how to take care of his hair. He has recently graduated from university and is a jazz pianist.
@quirogatnonerrat3214Ай бұрын
🎉Congratulations ❤❤
@joppyjipplesigot2nipplesАй бұрын
Awesome! Great to see people who are ready to help helping! So many kids in need
@tekh07Ай бұрын
How hid hair looked though did she learn well?? That was crazy jump he 7 day old then graduate.
@wideawakeandaware-22Ай бұрын
Beautiful! And congratulations!!
@danisverseАй бұрын
@@tekh07 IKR I was like wait, we are missing a whole inbetween story or nah? welp XD
@Lyricgrr27 күн бұрын
its kinda sweet when someone genuinely tries to understand what something is and people embrace it and help them out. its heartwarming.
@alniahjohnson849424 күн бұрын
It's not kinda sweet... it's definitely sweet... and despite what the media tries to portray, this is how these interactions often go
@Kelvinllovejr24 күн бұрын
It's how it is when you're learning a new language and there are genuine people who try and help you because they applaud your effort and/or went thru it themselves.
@AngryAlfonse24 күн бұрын
This is how the world should be. If everyone gave everyone the benefit of the doubt, instead of assuming the worst intentions from everyone around them, we'd live in a much nicer world.
@trishhenley484824 күн бұрын
I went to Africa a few years ago to visit family and let me tell you those are some of the kindest people I've ever met, went with my sister in law to get her hair braided and when we got there she asked if I wanted to get my hair braided as well and one of the ladies was so super nice about doing my hair, they don't care what color you are there they will do your hair any way you want it, wish more people here had that same attitude
@pathunter700323 күн бұрын
@@trishhenley4848 it’s not the same in the states, a real African is kind…
@maryford43465 күн бұрын
That was so nice of them to sincerely help her n what an experience he will never forget…😊
@timothynorman96211 күн бұрын
Building confidence in our children is a hard job we “parents” all try to deliver. I’m glad she asked for help. 😊
@monikabarman428321 күн бұрын
"Everyone can be a mother, FEW can be a mom"
@FatherFreeman18 күн бұрын
I kept saying that to my cousin who spent thousands on in-vitro
@K3chiGJonz18 күн бұрын
What??? 😂
@bydruxy517417 күн бұрын
Mother and mom are the same 😂
@Cookiefiendz22317 күн бұрын
Don’t get it and if anything wouldn’t it be better to say mother instead of mom
@kkorr_it17 күн бұрын
@@bydruxy5174they mean that any woman could have kids, but only some try her hardest for her kids
@INTELLITHINK29 күн бұрын
Beautiful. She brought him where he’s never been before and belongs. That’s love.
@claudiocaldo266829 күн бұрын
This clip is racist af, because he has black skin he has to dress and have braids like black stereotypes?
@noodlem500029 күн бұрын
Belongs?
@dannylewis2429 күн бұрын
@@noodlem5000 where he belongs is crazy😂😂😂
@mantecastotch426029 күн бұрын
It’s a barber shop not a prison relax
@dannylewis2429 күн бұрын
@@mantecastotch4260 duh...
@TheindBOROG4 күн бұрын
Mom was clearly uncomfortable but was willing to put that aside for her child. Went to someone looking for help with an example (even if a bit misguided) found a professional and once again put her own comfort aside. That’s a good mom, and the people who helped her are also quality examples of good people. I know it’s a show but it’s good to see that representation I think.
@lerandzotibane31503 күн бұрын
I feel the need to rewatch this.
@tenishaadams337822 күн бұрын
As a black women. I love this. She didn't understand, she put herself out there despite her fear of getting it wrong and possibly judgent but she did it anyway for the love of her son... and they did not judge and spite her for being a different race. This is what we need. Patience, understanding and no judgement 💞
@Dolphinboi21 күн бұрын
Why would they judge her for being white? If anything it’d be the other way around . White ppl ain’t oppressed
@angelicajohnson988721 күн бұрын
If only it was like this all the time tho
@thikhor823020 күн бұрын
Women didn't even know what cornrows are, it's either she grew up under a rock or in a very white gated community 💀
@nikitakellermann601220 күн бұрын
God bless you
@St4rsii3419 күн бұрын
I'm always getting judged for not understanding black people. It's so hard to just wonder innocently without being called racist and insults. :( i love yall black ppl sm you guys are so pretty, i just want to know more abt yall since you guys are amazing and so fun!! 😭😭 (also im Latina so like i know but i dont KNOW if that makes sense)
@Rockas36018 күн бұрын
This is fucking GOALS for fostering and adopting. No shame and no shitting on the fact that she is white and doing the best for her black son. She is putting her shit aside for him. BEAUTIFUL! 🎉
@oober369016 күн бұрын
They looked at her like she was stupid and with judgmental sighs.
@jordanw136916 күн бұрын
@@oober3690 No they didnt, you literally made that up. They helped her with no problem and it made her son happy, why lie?
@n_kennedy301516 күн бұрын
I think he was her biological son. The dad must been Afro-American.
@oober369016 күн бұрын
@@jordanw1369 I'm not. That's what I saw.
@oober369016 күн бұрын
@@n_kennedy3015 ok, let me watch again. maybe I misread things.
@JasonMattson-pj4qp3 күн бұрын
As a white, bald father of mixed, non white kids, I can relate. My house went from bland and plain, to seasoned and cultured. Food be too good. Beef patties with the bread, brown stew turkey neck, Rasta pasta.
@paulaaras12076 сағат бұрын
A great woman. Although she had no idea what she was looking for and was embarrassed, she did everything to make her son happy.
@muratcamofficial24 күн бұрын
i am an adoption child (now I m 44)this video Iet me remember what she did for me and how much she did love me and everyone of you understand why I cry. there are some angel mothers in this world.
@squido-fg9ue22 күн бұрын
bruh crying in the club rn
@kristinasportal22 күн бұрын
Makes me cry because I should have adopted but I chose to try and fulfill dreams that others had for me. Not my own. Now I’m 55, disabled and I wasted my life chasing achievements in my career. A lot of us Gen X females were sold a lie. Or maybe just me. IDK anymore.
@mymmhd58822 күн бұрын
🫂🫂🫂
@Nymphadora45uvyu22 күн бұрын
@@kristinasportal😢
@AliKhan-pb7ny22 күн бұрын
I’m glad she loved you unconditionally like a son. That was your mother
@tree_limbs22 күн бұрын
I had a boy in my class this year who was adopted by white parents (along with his two sisters). Once on a field trip his dad came along to chaperone and stood around talking with the other two moms who came (both of them black.) He was complaining about not being able to find an affordable place to get the kids' hair done. The moms were really sweet and gave him the names of the places they go and even offered to have him over to their house to teach him how to care for the kids' hair. I really loved witnessing that. I had some really great kids and parents last year.
@keeleemoreno533521 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@HyBrad21 күн бұрын
Awesome story. ❤
@xydoit202421 күн бұрын
I am glad to read this
@Hale8R21 күн бұрын
Such a wholesome story. It restores my faith in humanity. Thank you for sharing it.
@nikip916121 күн бұрын
This!❤❤❤❤❤
@leticiawilson40065 күн бұрын
I love that she was willing to step outside her comfort zone for her son. ❤
@valeriegonzalez43826 күн бұрын
what an amazing mom. and i'm glad they helped her so she could make her son happy.
@nettyperez7611Ай бұрын
When a GOOD MOTHER would go the distance for her kids it MUST be recognized and celebrated by EVERYONE.
@hotpocketdeityАй бұрын
You have not watched the movie
@FkkdjKkcmdkdmdАй бұрын
Real the mum made him take them out 😭@@hotpocketdeity
@homohomie736929 күн бұрын
@@hotpocketdeitywhat’s the movie called?
@andyparky271629 күн бұрын
@@hotpocketdeityis it about that black lives matter NFL guy? He did his part didn't he to get those multi million dollar houses for owners of the charity 😂 Making videos comparing the draft to the slave trade lol I can already imagine the movie No thanks
@BlueCollarRedneckLifeАй бұрын
Mom deserves an award. I have a relative who is in this same predicament and she was humiliated by some people but she kept trying and finally found help. Long story short. She is the grandma to 2 beautiful girls who are mixed and she ended up with full custody of them and they have 4C and 4B hair. She knew absolutely nothing about it and reached out for help many times until she found a salon that specializes with curly and coiled hair. They showed her everything she needed to know, how to help take care of the girls hair and made sure she could do simple hairstyles to help. The girls where only 6 and 4 at the time and now they are teens and still have grandma do their hair bc she has learned how to do so many styles for them
@user-us6lh1jd9lАй бұрын
That's beautiful!🌹🌹🌹
@13_bluejay51Ай бұрын
That’s so sweet❤️🥺
@ArbidarbАй бұрын
What's 4C and 4B hair? I've never heard of anything like that.
@kimberlyanni1Ай бұрын
I’m in this now. Trying to buy and apply the right products for my beautiful granddaughter. I so don’t want to ruin her hair.
@speck213Ай бұрын
@@Arbidarbright now I wanna know what mine is
@georgemason49214 күн бұрын
This actress hit this roll. 💯
@tamarduncan442610 күн бұрын
AT LEAST SHE ASKED, SOME DON'T...AND WE DO GET AGITATED BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS JUMPING UP TRYING TO HAVE MIXED CHILDREN AND DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT US. 😢
@ivanhall6482Ай бұрын
I fucking love that she was honest in her ignorance, but was willing to be so uncomfortable for her baby ❤❤❤
@MalomferiАй бұрын
And in the same time, how do you want to learn if you don’t admit and accept that you DON’T know ?
@PreciousMoselyАй бұрын
shouldnt be uncomfortable around. black ppl
@LaurArt_UKАй бұрын
@@Malomferi That's literally what he said. Honest in her ignorance = admitting she doesn't know.
@anids1988Ай бұрын
@LaurArt_UK I mean would you call a baby ignorant cuz it doesn't know?.....I feel like calling someone ignorant is a insult honestly, when she is just trying to be there for her kid in a world she k ow nothing about no? So I wouldn't say ignorance is the right word here..
@voidcritter4Ай бұрын
@@anids1988 Yikes. The term ‘ignorant’ can be an insult, but doesn’t have to be. And just because *you* find it as an insult, doesn’t mean it *is* in this context.
@hellhoundaxelАй бұрын
For anyone wondering what this series is called, the name is “Colin In Black And White”
@jayal.769729 күн бұрын
Thank you
@kgalligan29 күн бұрын
Thank you
@omegabeast217929 күн бұрын
Thank you
@HeatherJohnson111129 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@user-df6rz7xo9w29 күн бұрын
Thank you
@TFD-sn5nt4 күн бұрын
Shout out to this mother that is willing to step out of her comfort zone and has the courage to change
@Biggest_Mike2410 күн бұрын
I like how she went through the awkwardness for her son’s happiness
@HeatherJohnson111129 күн бұрын
This makes my heart happy. Everyone helping each other help both mom and son understand his culture and I’m guessing she taught mama a few tips on how to keep his hair healthy. This is HUMANITY. We need more of it. On all fronts, all creeds, religions and ethnicities. We are all one. ❤
@reggiesolomon220529 күн бұрын
He was in awe being around his own
@Mrmanatee4729 күн бұрын
This movie made his parents look extremely racist. And push the narrative that his parents only adopted him to be a sports star like training a horse. Why tf would 2 white people adopt a black kid if they were closeted racists?? All this movie was for us to push an agenda that white people are “oppressors” when in reality it just keeps black people in a bubble
@kirstenbaillargeon949329 күн бұрын
Colin is white too, his mom is letting him embrace all of his races@@reggiesolomon2205
@stickfigureofacat47929 күн бұрын
@AdamFontenet May I ask what you mean?
@davida561729 күн бұрын
except that braids can't be claimed XD Venus of Willendorf is likely the oldest known sculture with braids but still cant be say braids are from austria XD. But we get what you mean. We are all one
@DanversdiaryАй бұрын
I love how no one really judged her because of course she doesn't understand but she's trying and she's being respectful, letting people who understand it better take over That is truly amazing mother❤ Edit: it's actually hilarious that people are arguing about this comment💀💀
@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049Ай бұрын
She has had at least 15 years to start understanding. It's not too late but it was definitely late. She really did the bare minimum.
@PROVOCATEURSKАй бұрын
They judged her. You don´t know people at all.
@garrisonwhaley-sharp7676Ай бұрын
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 I have seen bare minimum parenting. This was not the bare minimum.
@margaretjohnson6872Ай бұрын
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049disagree.
@animeobssesent101Ай бұрын
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 have you watched the show yet?
@BlessedLady-ug8dy5 күн бұрын
The mom gets an A and a big thank you from Collin. I can feel the love 💓😘💓😘💓😘💓😘💓😘...she has for her son!!!
@Elisa-ol2zs3 күн бұрын
Love of a mother is so priceless
@MrDjsmooth87Ай бұрын
The sincerity behind her actions, though out of her comfort zone she still gave this to his son. There's never shame in being uncomfortable and seeking understanding outside of your own. These are super respected moments. ❤
@JohnDoe-qp9qb29 күн бұрын
You know it’s a movie, right?
@Yuiaka29 күн бұрын
a movie that has deep meanings and is CERTAINLY educational.
@Siren0X029 күн бұрын
Her
@galauceha29 күн бұрын
@@JohnDoe-qp9qb what is the name of the movie?
@telalong525425 күн бұрын
that mom never slowed down to find what was needed. i got chills. i'm 79 yo. my son is 39. i'm white his father was black. he died when our son was 3. thank you, thank you, thank you for posting this.
@PawsitivelyQuestionable24 күн бұрын
May all the good tidings come your way
@osilagomba729924 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@kayla983924 күн бұрын
You look stunning for your age!!! A true gem❤
@Int0th3s01l24 күн бұрын
Drop the skin care routine you look AMAZING for 79!!
@YourSenpaiZoro24 күн бұрын
I know you cried man while posting your comment. 🤗
@ferassmouaget889910 күн бұрын
The boy is so great full and happy and joy full ❤❤😊😊
@staciebrooks69358 күн бұрын
I love this. She had no clue and wanted to make him happy. Good job MAMA ❤❤❤ I love videos like this
@jacquelinerodriguez-wh7ukАй бұрын
I love how they all helped that mom to bring her son closer to understanding himself and the community connection. That’s love we don’t get as much recently and we gotta bring back.
@lovinavargas-carriedo2698Ай бұрын
My best friend is Black and I'm hispanic/white. I bought her clippers and taught her how to shave her head because that's what she wanted and she was using scissors to try her best. I won't touch her hair with scissors, but she used to let me help with her twists sometimes. I'm not confident in sectioning, but I love that we get to style and play with each other's hair. It's easy to shy away because something takes more energy or is unfamiliar. And it's easy to make someone feel like an idiot for not knowing what's basic practice for someone else. It takes just a little effort, but it's not too hard to be kind to others and to want to help and not make someone feel bad for existing in a space that's new to them. ❤
@BackStagewithThatTheatreKidАй бұрын
We all need to share and spread more love.❤❤
@NovarchareskАй бұрын
Community connection? No, you mean ‘black connection’. Because only blacks can understand blacks apparently.
@emmie462827 күн бұрын
@@lovinavargas-carriedo2698 Movie name ?
@cynthiacook4200Ай бұрын
This is a mama that loves her son, and this was a sweet young man that was willing to help her. I wish the whole world could be like this where everybody helps everybody.
@Yoshinari-101Ай бұрын
And then she called him a thug after 🥰 Truly the sweetest 🫶
@thenameskatelyn2198Ай бұрын
Watch the show his mom is the biggest hypocrite
@atlimodiba6414Ай бұрын
Say it load dear
@reginazefanya769729 күн бұрын
@@thenameskatelyn2198what show is it
@lilsilverkitsune10 күн бұрын
This made me smile and want to cry when she said I don’t know what I’m doing She is trying so hard for that boy and admitting she has no idea ❤
@Snoppysbluu7 сағат бұрын
I've met her once, we talked and she seemed really sweet, I really wanted people to meet the one I did. She's really problematic, I wished she would be who she wants to be and not who she thinks she needs to be....She has always been on the screen and was never given a choice to be herself and that's what's happening now...
@rrodz1447Ай бұрын
I love it how she asked for help in a respectful way, not assuming she knows, not discounting anyone and not expecting they would help her automatically. A lot of people phrase their questions with horrible assumptions and then get offended when people don’t respond with servility (not civility which is what you get when you’re civil in the first place.)
@tinarussell665629 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. You are awesome....❤❤❤❤❤
@alfredfreedomjones510529 күн бұрын
Servility! Thanks for that word
@MetalMadame91Ай бұрын
This actually made me tear up because it reminds me so much of my situation. I was attacked at 14 which resulted in me becoming pregnant. My plan was to give the baby up for adoption but at my 8 month ultrasound I asked to see the baby and I immediately fell in love with my daughter and chose to raise her. I'm white and I grew up in a town with a very small black population so I knew nothing about what my daughter's hair needed. We eventually moved to a town with a much more equal black to white population and some girls from school took me shopping to show me what I needed to buy to keep my daughter's hair healthy. One girl even came to my house to show me how to properly moisturize her scalp. I hope they know how much everything they did meant to me. My daughter is 17 now and actually does hair herself, she loves braiding and has a few clients that she regularly braids.
@ChyarasKissАй бұрын
I hope you got justice. You must of had a lot of family support to be able to keep your child at 14.
@zebrafigs8450Ай бұрын
You have a beautiful story.
@bartho5212Ай бұрын
Your story is incredibly beautiful. I am in tears.
@user-rg5tj9mi2yАй бұрын
LO🎉THAT YOU KEPT YOUR BABY AND YOU ARE NOT ANGRY WITH HER GODS BLESSINGS ON BLESSINGS ON BOTH OF YOU
@MsLauraLove626Ай бұрын
That's a real af mom right here... You def took the worst moment of your life and turned it into the best creation possible. Very brave of you and wise to know at such a young age that no matter who the father is, that's still your baby! That's just so beautiful! So so good on you and your daughter for not letting that monster define who you are and what your future holds. I pray God continues to bless others through y'all's light.
@charlestonthomas86854 күн бұрын
THIS MADE ME CRY THE LOVE IN THIS WORLD!!!
@young__blacksmithКүн бұрын
“That mom was awesome!” wait till you see the rest of the show 😂
@Alalpog27 күн бұрын
Mom is 12/10. The discomfort, humility, and love. Amazing. Edit: removed man.
@OtiRoti26 күн бұрын
I don't think she's a man but I agree
@Madz-Life26 күн бұрын
@@OtiRoti 😂😂😂
@cybertube00326 күн бұрын
@@OtiRotithen who is the man?
@iiitsnaomiii25 күн бұрын
idk why but the phrase "removed man" is so funny to me 😂😂
@taktika476425 күн бұрын
What did that man do to you so you removed him?
@bronwynreijnders720528 күн бұрын
I was listening to a reddit post some time ago about a dad who had a mixed daughter with 4c hair. His wife had died recently and he had NO IDEA how to care for her hair, because that was mom and daughter's ritual and bonding time. A teacher at the school noticed the girl's hair becoming unkempt and helped her. The dad showed up after school to ask the teacher to help him learn about his daughter's hair, and to thank her for helping his little girl. Eventually he got connected with a local natural hair stylist and learned formally how to do hair for his daughter. He did her hair for her graduation. Guys, I was sniffling in my car. It was adorable.😊
@fenderpleb294226 күн бұрын
god that is so wholesome. bless that father.
@carasomebody647725 күн бұрын
Aww you told that very well I’m tearing up on the porch😊
@Kawzdxs25 күн бұрын
Wait wait omggggggg that’s so sweet
@hannanna100425 күн бұрын
sounds like the short film “hair love”!!
@oksusususupernova25 күн бұрын
@@hannanna1004 I thought so too! Such a sweet story🥹
@jenjacekk2 күн бұрын
Beautiful, everything about this video... Beautiful ❤
@Justme-bx5xkАй бұрын
RESPECT to all the comments that truly understood! Gives me HOPE!🕊💙🕊
@barjee8965Ай бұрын
That understood it's a show? did you watch the scene directly after this one? lmao XD
@markphelt6395Ай бұрын
Hope is all we got
@red3yekinggАй бұрын
@@barjee8965what’s weird is trying to start shit in YT comments lol
@juliahengstermann193Ай бұрын
What's the name of the show?
@markphelt6395Ай бұрын
@@juliahengstermann193 it’s the Colin Kaepernick story
@eternalindifferenceАй бұрын
Part of being a good parent is enduring personal discomfort in order to not force your kids into the exact same mould that you where made in. She knew she was probably doing so many perceived weird ass stuff but they felt her good intentions and remained helpfull. Well done everyone and her for being humble.
@KoolA1dАй бұрын
I like where you are coming from but she prob had been saying no bc that shi looks awful, not because she didn’t know about it and was too embarrassed to ask haha. And she was right to say no - it looks f’in awful. You ever see a leading surgeon, or a lawyer, someone in the top of their field, rockin corn rows? Naw man. You think Obama rocked that shhh get your head checked. If my neurosurgeon walked in rocking that shiii in peacin’ the f outta that bish. It’s not racist. It’s only a lil better than a white boi rockin a bowl cut or a mullet. She was right to be like no. I ain’t sayin lil homie finnin to be next Obama, but as a mom she wants the best for her son, to have the best opportunities in life, even if that shii not gonna happen
@BaDGuygamingstudioАй бұрын
Thank you for this, i am going to be a new parent and I literally had not thought of this and it would be so crucial for us.❤
@yuhhhgetintoit6899Ай бұрын
The fact that current society would even look at her weird for asking these things is honestly beyond me in the damn first place...
@johnthomas1928Күн бұрын
i absolutely love this clip.... and his mom!!
@ladychoclatstar5 күн бұрын
🎉🎉this is great! A mother's love shows through!
@SunShinesBlessingАй бұрын
Cosmetologist of 24 yrs in a military city… this used to happen often! Parents… please don’t feel bad because you don’t understand ur child’s style or ethnicity! Everyone is learning, when you see someone with a clothing style or hairstyle that you like, simply stop them and start a convo! The black community is generous with info! We love helping others. I can’t count how many times this has occurred near my shop!
@kneegerman2076Ай бұрын
How can you not understand your child's ethnicity? 😂😂 it iterally your child. Unless you are a weirdo who adopted someone not of your race
@lorijohnson1478Ай бұрын
You can't learn if you aren't schooled. Always ask. ❤❤
@dawnemerson3604Ай бұрын
❤
@davidbrown312Ай бұрын
The world needs more people like you. My father used to say" what life are you living if you just can't help someone.
@ocsjc13Ай бұрын
Thr black people I come across get annoyed when you ask them where the bathroom is
@JB-bm1toАй бұрын
Good mom. Not making excuses, doing what she has to in order to educate herself on meeting her sons needs in all ways. Wish more moms of biracial kids did this. I love youtube for teaching me.
@anaytpr29 күн бұрын
Oh he has two adoptive white parents. And iirc later in the show she stops being "nice" about it
@Bejeweled13Swiftie29 күн бұрын
@@anaytprWhat’s the show called?
@anaytpr29 күн бұрын
@@Bejeweled13Swiftie colin in black and white
@hannahlashley-bobb816629 күн бұрын
@AdamFontenethe didn’t want it cut in the first place, if you watched the show, he really wanted his hair braided but that wasn’t allowed in his sports and his parents told him it made him look like a thug.
@isthatcreed938629 күн бұрын
not what she was doing😂😂
@jeoffreyauscia6841Күн бұрын
His mom smiles like Eddie Redmayne
@Mm-fl6tj9 күн бұрын
This made me feel sad then happy that his mother allowed her son to embrace his culture.
@black_wolf929 күн бұрын
Why can't society be like this?! No judgment, just support & love! Edit- Holy Cow! I should've just said bring the hate!! For the couple positive comments, thank you. And the likes, just wow. That being said, I don't believe in fantasy. But an honest wish is just that, a wish. I know what the reality is. It saddens me from the comments, just how many people were angered or triggered by such a simple statement....
@roxywyndham29 күн бұрын
There was a lot of judgement in that support, judgment is what got her to figure her life out and care about her son’s needs. It’s didn’t come natural it was learned.
@black_wolf929 күн бұрын
@@roxywyndham OK, if you're referring to the whole movie, I understand. But my comment was to the clip & there wasn't any judgment. So??? I stand by my statement. Why can't society be like this instead of the bullshit we have.
@David-yo5re29 күн бұрын
It would be like that if not for some people pushing the hate and racist ideals on us. The government does not want us getting along. As long as we are fighting each other their misdeeds and criminal activities are not being noticed. They push the hate agenda to keep us distracted. They are afraid of what We The People can accomplish if we are United.
@iamable10629 күн бұрын
@@black_wolf9society will never change, there is still that thing out there, it's horrible
@ron420229 күн бұрын
@@black_wolf9 I think what theyre trying to tell you is that there is not such thing as support without judgment. Before we get a polished rock, it starts off as a jagged and uneven. But yes, in an ideal utopia, everyone would know the right thing to do and we would not have to face such hardships. Though, I feel thinking like this is terrible. To try and obtain the untainable, it aint gonna work. To also answer your question, society is large and varied. We learn by generation, sadly. It takes time to be kind to others. I mean, look at the lgbtq+ community. It took us years to be somewhat accepted and we're still demonized for being ourselves. Though, the things happening in the movie, it does happen. You just dont hear about it because not everyone wants to share their lives to the internet.
@cherylpemberton167628 күн бұрын
When we got our first Black foster child, my daughter (then a teen) thoroughly interrogated all her Black friends on how to care for her hair; she then used HER MONEY, they went together to a shop in San Jose (about 35 minutes away), and got her what she needed. Then SHE did that girl's hair EVERY DAY!! She's even taught other foster parents in our area how to do it. I am VERY GRATEFUL & PROUD of my daughter!!!!
@user-kp1pv9qg9j28 күн бұрын
If you ain't black get some other kids. You'll never understand them.
@cherylpemberton167628 күн бұрын
@@user-kp1pv9qg9j, I don't understand what you've written. Please explain? We feel we have been enriched from the foster children we've loved; they've given us more than we have them, and we're grateful to them all! I'm Gramma to a lot more children now too! You may never know this joy of being in a store and having children run up to you and call you "GRAMMA!" They laugh and say,"I'm ????'s daughter or son!" Oh... What a feeling! They tell me how much they loved coming to my ranch and riding the horses most!
@dannyyandall931128 күн бұрын
@cherylpemberton1676 ignore this ignorant f*ckwit ⬆️ it's not about YOU understanding your daughter's culture & heritage it's about your daughter doing so IF she chooses to. I have friends that their foster parents have a different heritage & they've supported him when he wanted to learn his culture & he loves them for it & when his sister DIDN'T want to they never forced her to because she didn't want to & they supported her decision as well. Thank you for being a foster parent y'all are awesome.
@stolensweetroll366827 күн бұрын
@@user-kp1pv9qg9j that was soo sad I almost fell sorry for you
@uniquenewyork332527 күн бұрын
@user-kp1pv9qg9j as long as they are culturally aware and dont make the child feel insecure about being different it's fine
@Alv-1n2 күн бұрын
she got that "good doctor" vibe
@IslesYankeeLady28 күн бұрын
This is from the series “Colin in Black and White,” which Colin Kaepernick made about his life. Those are actors, but it is autobiographical
@TeffyBabyy27 күн бұрын
Thank you!! I've been going through these comments for 20 minutes trying to figure out what the movie/show is 🙏🏼 your an angel
@rb-pk8ds27 күн бұрын
Thank you!!
@artificiallyunintelligent453727 күн бұрын
Damn bro he did his foster family dirty No wonder he feels the need to prove his blackness to people
@susanriddle940827 күн бұрын
Thank you for the explanation
@shawnbbunbbbybbb394227 күн бұрын
Weird because she seems like a good mom and he seems to be very grateful to her so I’m wondering where he’s extreme hatred for white people comes from… oh yea money
@curtiswickham644914 күн бұрын
I was adopted along with 6 of my other siblings! My parents fostered over 200 kids in 30 years and gave every last one of them everything they needed and could ever want! They are angels and if there's one thing I know, they don't ever give up on kids!
@mackenziedill417514 күн бұрын
They sound like the most amazing people ever that’s crazy ❤
@itszycn948013 күн бұрын
That is so amazing, your parents must have been wonderful people.
@Ryuko1513 күн бұрын
WHAT. 200???
@daviddiaz886313 күн бұрын
That’s Whatsupp! God bless man
@itzastralz103013 күн бұрын
200 KIDS? They ARE the adoption center, man
@Shogun4599 күн бұрын
That's what LOVE really is. She's a CLASS ACT.
@remy22334Ай бұрын
The fact that she was trying to understand and the fact that others were willing to help her out, if more people were like that this world would be a better place
@craigjones7343Ай бұрын
To many people just want to hate. They have nothing but hate rotting their souls.
@AddyGoesPlacesАй бұрын
Honestly, I believe most people are like this.
@craigjones7343Ай бұрын
@@AddyGoesPlaces most people are like this. Unfortunately too many people believe they are not and it feeds their distrust and bigotry
@gabrielleaugustin1019Ай бұрын
@@craigjones7343that’s because hateful voices are the loudest. Society has a middle ground and more empathy than we believe. However, we do need to be better listeners and interact with people different from us without judgement
@davidbrown312Ай бұрын
The world needs more people like you. ❤
@dreamof_meАй бұрын
If anyone is wondering what the movie is called, it’s a netflix movie called Colin in Black and White *edit:typo
@millbut2Ай бұрын
Thank you
@mailingstewart6737Ай бұрын
Thank you I was waiting for someone to post the name.
@Lunaris3-in-1Ай бұрын
Do you know how long I was scrolling for this
@RunescapeProАй бұрын
Thanks, you did a better job of informing us than the dumas that uploaded this. All he typed was #movie in the description because laziness/couldn't be bothered to credit a simple movie name that he blatantly rips off. Wouldn't be suprised if this channel had every clip uncredited like this. Edit: Yes, every clip is uncredited with just #movie like we can read minds or sum sht. Yup, he doesn't care about his audience, while his audience comes together to figure it out the name of movies he should of put in the description in the first place..................
@WrenTheGreyАй бұрын
Thanks so much!❤
@lorraincassesso16113 күн бұрын
very handsome son and mom , well what can i say !!! made her boy happy
@FIVforlife9 күн бұрын
Representation at a young age MATTERS. Seeing and being around other people like you can have a massive influence on shaping your cultural identity, personality, and perspectives.
@user-ps1ft1hy4j8 күн бұрын
It can also be a deadly trap.
@FIVforlife7 күн бұрын
@@user-ps1ft1hy4j Curious as to how so?
@FIVforlife7 күн бұрын
@@user-ps1ft1hy4j curious as to how so, Marc.
@user-ps1ft1hy4j7 күн бұрын
@@FIVforlife We were a foster family that also adopted some children of all colors. One had come from a terribly abusive background. He fit in well and loved us and we loved him, so we adopted him. All was well until this Hawaiian boy went to elementary school in Hawaii. His Hawaiian "friends" harassed him relentlessly, he told us, for having anything to do with white people. Soon he began telling my mother not to walk him to school anymore, because it would set his "friends" off. Eventually he began to fold to the pressure and become more and more alienated from the family. He spent as little time with us as he could and kept his distance from us in public. By the way, I lost quite a few friends over the same thing. They told me they couldn't be my friend anymore because they were tired of their friends and family hitting them and shouting at them and belittling them for having a white friend. Anyway, eventually my little brother went from an adorable, innocent, and by the way very smart boy, to a petty thief, thug, alcoholic drug user. He died in a drunken car crash. The newspaper published his obituary and commenters online said things like Good riddance! and that he was a thug and an awful person. Don't think your "in-group," even if it's racial or ethnic, is your ticket to acceptance and that they will always(or perhaps ever, who really knows?) have your best interests in mind. If you find yourself unsure of yourself, as we all do, especially when young and our self-identities are still forming and very fluid, don't go looking for the easy answers in peer groups, whether they be politics, religion, race or ethnicity, or sex or sexual identity. Too many people are ruined by trying to fit in, or being told they don't. And even if they finally do - what is the quality of those particular people you're fitting in with at the time? You have to keep thinking in life. Or at least not stop. And you're not going to find easy answers in just identifying with a group. That won't solve anybody's problems. But it might create problems from nothing, or make problems infinitely, devastatingly worse.
@user-ps1ft1hy4j7 күн бұрын
@@FIVforlife This is really terrible. I gave you a true and heartfelt example from my own life, including my own brother's death, and the tube heartlessly deleted it. It took a while to write, too. It's not that I am not responding and in an honest way. It's that some blinkered, foolish corporate stooge is interfering to make sure I don't. Understand that I legitimately tried to answer your question but was forbidden. That's the way our overlords allow us to live now.
@theoldraeАй бұрын
I'm in tears. "It felt like me". That hit me in the chest.
@user-ri7lq6qi7k29 күн бұрын
Fist bump
@ryangethard857529 күн бұрын
Fist bump 2
@-Zer0Dark-29 күн бұрын
Epic virtue signal. You get 10 minority points for this. 👍🏻
@supersaiyandio122329 күн бұрын
I have a question if all African-Americans had different hairstyle and clothes say more like white people wouldn’t he still feel like he belongs
@theoldrae27 күн бұрын
@supersaiyandio1223 they do all have different hairstyles and clothes. Protective styles, like the braids in the video, are unique to that type of hair, but it's the cultural significance that matters. He was with people who were treated as he is every day. The stylist also used slang that originated in Black American culture, something he may have heard before but hadn’t yet been able to engage with personally.
@GamaDaGreatАй бұрын
My mom is Caucasian/Mexican and went through the same thing when her and my dad divorced. Bless her heart she tried her hardest and I’ll always love her for that