A must watch for all in-laws.

Your freedom is only until the other person's nose.

[@RaviChandran-gt1xl]

என் வாழ்க்கை என் அன்பு நான் இப்படித்தான் இருப்பேன் இது என் தனிப்பட்ட சுதந்திரம் என்று சுயநல வாழ்க்கை வாழாமல் கொஞ்சம் மற்றவர்களின் அன்பிற்கும் உணர்வுகளுக்கு மதிப்பளித்து வாழவேண்டும் நாம் எல்லோரும் காட்டில் வாழும் காட்டு வாசிகள் அல்ல. நாம் படிப்பு என்பது வெறும் பணம் சம்பாதிக்க மட்டும் அல்லாமல் ஒழுக்கம் பண்பு மறியாதை அன்பு பாசம் மூத்தோர்களை மதித்து நடத்தல் இருந்தால் தான் மனித பிறவிகள்

[@sunnyme8128]

Does all this apply only to ladies?

[@justinyesudoss5369]

@@sunnyme8128 not only for girls... Ellarum ipd than irukanum.. Ravi chandran 👍

[@kiruthikamurugan5581]

@@sunnyme8128 well asked... Bcoz boys settle in safe place n give all responsibility of their parents in our head. They do whatever they want go whatever they want but we have to be slave n follow all this bu**t rules... 💢 Even in return they don't ask girl's parents r well or not...

[@janetsamansu5246]

Once married they should live separately for their own privacy.

[@MahendraBabuRajendran]

What if the situation that the parents are patients and needs 24 hours assistance. But still they (parents, in my case my dad) continue doing what they are doing. If we leave them alone (can't in my case), we have to take the so called "blame" from the society. Good thing is I am not married. Hope I won't!

[@kiruthikamurugan5581]

@@MahendraBabuRajendran good decision to not make any girl suffer...

[@priya-lo4xz]

Hi kirtanya I am your great fan of your speech!!!I just wanna to follow your foot print of your voices !!!hats off to your bold speeches!!! By listening to your videos I get mind fresh ,it brings inner peace!!

[@shifanasherief4339]

Hi kirtanya... it's been a month listening to Ur videos... I can c some changes in me... am a mom of a 2yrs old bby n doing my UG.. was feeling terribly depressed n suppressed to balance my education n family... coz mine s a love marriage n v both r frm different religion.... so v had a lot of pressure frm our family regarding the religion of our son... so cudnt speak out at times... n so whn I get too tensed, I burst n shout out..bt nw after watching Ur videos, I decided to speak out in a gentle manner instantly instead of postponing my responsibility to explain... nw am feeling so Gud n able to balance everything... nw am enjoying my life inspite of having so many work loads... Thank u so much for Ur urself videos...

[@sharone1986]

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[@priyankamanoharan4746]

Exactly these mil even go to extend in separating d couple if they cant control their dil. Sick.

[@kiruthikamurugan5581]

Well said mam... In r house they even dont allow me to sit on sofa equally.... After many years i stopped behaving on their rules n start to be myself...

[@nandinikannan577]

At least u r understanding mam. It's happening in most of the houses. If it is happening for the daughter it's different.

[@preethinarendra634]

Problem between mother in law and wife

[@ranjanaraja4982]

Supper Mrs.Keerthanya mam but intha video information youngsters than paapanga periyavanga epabume nambala control pandrathlaye than irukanga namakunu sila aasaigal virupangal irukunu yaarume puringika maatukaranga u r speach always cute and best speach thanks for all mam

[@amsk4200]

Thanku so much ma'am.. am now facing and suffering from the same problem coz of my in laws. . And in my case my husband is hearing their words and avoiding me now😢 I love him so much but doesn't value tat coz of thr words that I dont ask them coffee need etc etc etc allll... n telling I dont value them respect them n all. Now I felt more difficult to b with my in laws n so my husband is avoiding me now. I dont know how to face this.. I am not working also they dont allow me. plss ma'am if u can suggest me solution for this plsss.

[@ashadharanendrakumar9829]

Hi Mam! Please include English subtitles to all your videos since I am a beginner to Tamil language. Very interesting facts to know and pass to all the people I know..

[@hariniprakashsai8044]

Sooo true💯💯💯

[@siddeswarans9111]

Thanks for a lot

[@vimalajohn7576]

Madum mamiyar samaikiradu ok... But marumagalukku olunga food kudukalana.. Avangalum avanga son muttum nalla istathukku sappittutu.. Marumagalukku restrict pannittu... Nanum en paiyanum mattum nu soldra veetla epdi adjust pandradu madam

[@venkataramanamoorthy5967]

Great! Could you give a lecture on self esteem.

[@HaEl1213]

Really awesome ma'am Make more videos like this ma'am... Am feeling tortured with my in laws husband wants his parents he wants me to do everything for them(his family) feel like slave I have lost all my freedom...

[@mariathomas9723]

Cent percent true

[@dorafarzo1877]

Very good msg for everybody

[@shivanethiagarajhan5053]

Mam really awesome video...... U gave a different perspective of seeing things around us...mam...

[@sumansuman7265]

Adv Happy New year 2019 frnd God bless you for success...

[@ahamedulla1]

i would like to learn about psychiatry . please recommend some book names

[@long-termjournal8055]

❤❤❤👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@padma.k2017]

Hai mam ur motivation super elmy life has some problem bt ungala contact pani direct pesa mudiyla plz one time

[@nandakumar60918]

உண்மைய சொன்னா 2சைடுமே ஏத்துக்கமாட்டாங்க!, 2சைடும் சப்போட் பண்றத விட்டுவிட்டு, எந்த சைடு கம்லைண்டு வருதோ அந்த சைடு எரிஞ்சு விழுங்க!, கம்லைண்டே வராது. அவங்க அவங்க வேலைய அவங்களே பார்த்துபாங்க. அப்புறம் 2சைடும் நீங்க மட்டும் அன்பு செலுத்துறத வளர்த்துகொள்ளுங்கள். எது எப்படியோ, நான் உங்கள நல்லா பார்த்துக்குறேன். எல்லாவற்றுக்கும் நான் இருக்கிறேன் என்று நம்பிக்கை ஊட்டுங்கள்.

[@Nancy-ce3pq]

romba Arumaiy 👌👌👌👌👌👌Mam

[@sara-hx1cv]

Correct sis...

[@moniquesathiyamoorthy2792]

God bless you 😍

[@bharathivenkatachalam1722]

Mam ennku marriage ahaki one half years ahakuthu but still Enna la.peace full la iruka mudiyala sapita kuta thoonla matakuthu. Payem thn adhikama iruku ennala Inga irukgavea pudigala. Nan yatha work pannalum athula korai kadu pudikaraga mam. Daliyum 😭 irupen. But mudiyala ennala. Actually communication nan panrathu illa laws ketta pannalum problem varuthu... Evagala yaruma ennku pudigala .avaga yarumea sapityanu ithuvarikum kattathu illa plz solutions madem

[@shivasankari7824]

Very nice

[@Hannah-hg7xr]

Inlaws will never get satisfaction !!!

[@priyaraja9898]

True

[@kirubaI-dg6il]

100 percentage correct mam

[@sreeharshan2014]

True

[@venkateshsethuraman8326]

In my opinion, I could have at least told the wife once about the old man's simple expectation instead of asking him to change his character. That could have saved his life and made him to live for a few more years. I'm sure every responsible father have been making many sacrifices in their life for their kids. I belive in life, it is all about making simple sacrifices to our loved ones and caring for them. Some elders are like our kids and sometimes we have to meet their simple expections《like serving food...》instead of advising them to go and have it themselves... I would like to share a small real story. My friend’s father used to go for a walk everyday morning at 4:30am to avoid road traffic in the morning. Later he understood that his daugter in-law doesn’t like to swich on the lights in the early morning and his son advised him to stop from waking up early and go once they fully woke up. The poor old man adjusted his decades of routine and decided to walk at 7:00am. But the rush hour trafic doesn't want to see him next day... who should have adjusted here in the joint family? And what is our advice for those daugther in-laws doing purposely to torture in-laws to get rid of them from their life? Hear both side of the stories (even our own friends’ family..) before we share our thoughts to public..or share our thoughts by quoting appropriate examples... Btw, I’m still in early 40s...

[@justinyesudoss5369]

Crct bro... Our parents expect a simple thing... Nowadays adjustment is big issue in a families... Even a consultant psychologist doesn't understand the old man's simple expectations then how the common people can do..? Selfish society.. Ella vishyamum eppave Google la mattume kedaikathu mam..

[@monishasaravanan2733]

Mam I have a lot of fake friends Nan ethusenjalum avvagaluku hurt aagatha mathiri. Uosichi panren but avvaga romba selfish irukaga Nan romba sensitive plz ithuku ethachum video poduga but I have good supporting family and one true family frd

[@premadevan1428]

monisha saravanan no worries

[@prabu7965]

monisha saravanan unga family tha unga life take care sister☺☺☺

[@gopicse5274]

Super

[@gowrajan1]

Hi Kreethana enakku oru chinna doubt. Avangalukku 70 years aagidichi oru sila vishayatha avangala maathika mudiyama kuda poi irukkalam. Aana avar antha Ponnu vellaikku poratha thadukkala. Kaal Mela kaal poduratha thappa ninachikar ok antha ponnukkunu room irukkum Ila athula Ava romba comfortable a kaal Mela kaal pottu konjam neram relax panni irukkalam and avar irukkum bothu apdi utkaruratha avoid panni irukkalam. Veetla Ava kolantha irunthu iruntha dai sapdiya innaikku school la ena pannina apdinu kandipa ketu irupa 70 vayasula avarum kulaitha maari erupar avangala saptingala antha Ponnu oru varathai kettu irukkalam athula onnum thappu Ila ok marumaga than ketkala antha edathula magan kuda kettu irukka maaten antha avar Ku pbm a irunthu irukkum. Avar pondatiya adakki Vai nu sonnar Thana apo avarku sariyana vilakam kuduthudu irukkalam intha paiyan anga avaroda karutha uthasina paduthinathu than thappu nu nan ninaikuren

[@shifanasherief4339]

gowthami rajan kolandha ndradhu apo dhaan ulagathuku varudhu... adhungaluku life experience illa.. apo vituta avanga vazhi maari poiduvaanga. adhaan extra care... aana periyavanga experience irukuravanga... avanga kolandha maari Na, edhuku periyavanga sonna kettukanum nu solraanga?? kolandhaiku Ena theriyum nu kekalaam la. Kaal Mela kaal poduradhu just example dhaan. ipdi indha vishayathula restrict panravaru, neraya vishayathula panirupaaru. avar avaroda wife kuda yavalo years happy ya irundhurupaaru. adhu maari than maganum irukanum nu yan nenaikala? Andha ponnu thaniya pogalaam nu sollaama, vela mudinji vandhadhu, avaruku table la saapaadu eduthu vecha la. adhu yan avar kanuku therila??? ellarum Manasa vitu pesi, adhula irukura unmayaiyum nyaayathayum accept panirundha indha problem ae vandhurukaadhu

[@shifanasherief4339]

gowthami rajan kandipa neengalum konjam vayasaanavanga nu dhaan nenaikuran.. namma vayasa vitutu nyaayatha paarunga... Namma sandhoshathayum mathavanga sandhoshathayum sethu keduthutu vaazhuradhu vaazhkayae illa... yedhaavadhu thappa pesirundha mannichidunga

[@gowrajan1]

shifana sherief hi ma I am just 27 years old and I am staying with my in laws even I too facing pbms I won't against Kreethana reply consider both a side

[@gowrajan1]

It's my point of you and antha old man Mela mattum than problem irunthu irukkum nu ninaikuringala

[@gowrajan1]

shifana sherief mannikura alavu nan periya aal kidaiyathu at the same time you also having a valid point. I just shared my doubt regarding the situations. Not to hurt anybody.

[@chitravicky2878]

Mam neenga lawyer ah.ungakita pesanum.enaku fmly pblms irukku.suicide pannikalama nu adikadi ninaipen.but en son gnabagam atha thadukkuthu

[@balaramu6487]

Hats off u mam

[@fouziyahassan3830]

really supeb

[@priyaramesh2202]

Semma

[@rickybhel410]

Awsum and cute face mam u have

[@VishnuVishnu-gu8ie]

Nengaa Enna padicherukengaa mam

[@TheSurya9397]

excellent kirthanya. I see Bharathi s puthumai pen in you. God bless u.

[@sudhakarpalanivelu4694]

அருமை !

[@dhivyagovindasamy244]

World common pblm

[@BrindhaSify]

How to contact you mam

[@VimalRaj-cq6pr]

Good mam

[@TwinAkAs]

super mam

[@manojmj4430]

U so very cute

[@arvinthmbbs365]

sprrr mam

[@gajendranvenkatesalu6858]

இந்த வயசல எப்படி இவ்வளவு ஞானம்? படிச்சாமட்டுமே வராதெ.

[@kadhirchander2160]

nice ennala mudiyum

[@sathyabhuvi5987]

Madam super But ithella sona unaku attitude nu soluvanga aptipatta ulagam ithu

[@sakthipeddaelachagiri6422]

Super