A patient discusses her decision to seek Medical Assistance In Dying

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@PlutoTheGod
@PlutoTheGod 7 жыл бұрын
she looked and sounded really good for 82, as well as for having cancer. very well spoken
@missdaisy5736
@missdaisy5736 7 жыл бұрын
PlutoTheGod ...She said she devoted her life to developing her mind. She has a Ph.d. That means she is a doctor within her field of study. She appears as being a lively person. Not just well educated but able to articulate her situation and clear desire to end her life while she is able to leave feeling fortunate and ready to pass. Dignity is all anyone can ask for at the end of life. I'm glad she was able to make the choice.
@LittleboyWearingglasses-lz4xd
@LittleboyWearingglasses-lz4xd 7 жыл бұрын
Basically wants iv Dilaudid to get her thru. Or morphine. Or fentanyl. Or all. I don't blame her... one bit.
@jeffdarnell3154
@jeffdarnell3154 6 жыл бұрын
PlutoTheGod I thought so also!! I thought she was in her 60's...and just eaten away with cancer. I had an Aunt that looked much like her, and she was 65.
@Matdildi
@Matdildi 6 жыл бұрын
no it's ashame , when someone is so trully dissapointed she/he doesn't really wants death to finish , but it's the frustration it talks when she says she prefer death ,she can't think straight at all , the people are supporting this I just wanna ask :''where's your heart ?'' really? where did it go?
@irisheyesofbelfast
@irisheyesofbelfast 6 жыл бұрын
Mary Crystl Where's your heart? This lady is COMPLETELY with it, COMPLETELY in her right mind. She's tired of suffering and you think it's wrong of her to want a peaceful death before she gets worse, becomes even MORE dependent on people? She is not doing this because she is depressed and has given up on life! She is very sick, has suffered enough, has had a good life, fulfilled life and has made an educated decision about HER LIFE! She wants to go while she still has some dignity. I have been an RN 27 years and have witnessed some horrible deaths, my own mother being one. I understand why people want to do this and I can be compassionate towards them for making this choice and wish more people had this option. Wish it would have been available for my mom because she suffered horribly in the end. Absolutely ridiculous to say this dear woman is not in her right mind.........
@MitchellWiggs
@MitchellWiggs 5 жыл бұрын
Never would have thought she was 82. What a bright and brave woman.
@bradlygilbert41
@bradlygilbert41 3 жыл бұрын
Stunning even, amirite?
@coreybentsen7794
@coreybentsen7794 2 жыл бұрын
She looks 182
@papantypapagiannakis3468
@papantypapagiannakis3468 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful and brave lady😥
@drk7031
@drk7031 2 жыл бұрын
She sounds in her 80’s . My granma is 87 and mentally sound .
@schoomzer
@schoomzer 2 жыл бұрын
@@drk7031 Your mentally sound grandma should tell you that there is no possessive apostrophe for 80s.
@grabmyass4739
@grabmyass4739 7 жыл бұрын
she's so graceful and intelligent, I genuinely find her to be a breath of fresh air.
@joerotter2873
@joerotter2873 5 жыл бұрын
@Asa Olsen What's the success rate of that and not a bias study or he said she said. Cause ai know to retards that said they had cancer when they didn't
@mydogsioux
@mydogsioux 5 жыл бұрын
Asa Olsen your statement is ridiculous.
@rhondawilliams5859
@rhondawilliams5859 5 жыл бұрын
Oh Honey, Keep fighting!!!!!😍 I have breast cancer 😭 and I know what you're going through!!!!😑😑 We must keep our faith in GOD!!!!😘
@rhondawilliams5859
@rhondawilliams5859 5 жыл бұрын
@@joerotter2873 HOW COULD ANYONE LIE ABOUT HAVING CANCER?????😑😑😑 I HAVE BREAST CANCER 😭😷 AND IT'S HORRIBLE 😭!!!!!
@teresaolszanka112
@teresaolszanka112 5 жыл бұрын
And on what basis you've come to this conclusion??@Asa Olsen
@igot2picklesheyheyhey566
@igot2picklesheyheyhey566 7 жыл бұрын
My father recently passed of stage 4 metastatic melanoma. He was in horrible pain. It hurt him to even touch him slightly. He had a tumor the size of a cantaloupe in his stomach that was extremely prominent due to him being all skin & bones near the end. He was absolutely miserable. No matter how much morphine he was administered or how much ativan to calm him, he would moan in pain for hours until he passed out. Then he would wake & moan for hours again. I wish medical assistance in dying was available to him, he didn’t deserve to die that horrible death, no one does.
@irisrose4732
@irisrose4732 6 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss and for the fact that your father went through that hell. I watched helplessly as my beloved mother suffered for a long time as she died of cancer. She's my soulmate and the whole experience messed me up very badly; this happened on Valentine's of 2013. You're correct, first and foremost, that no one deserves to die in such a horrific way, and secondly, their loved ones also shouldn't have to be witness to that torment.
@decadentnight
@decadentnight 6 жыл бұрын
My grandparents suffered similar fates with mesothelioma and diabetes. I wished the same for them at some points in time, it's should be available and free.
@fenixlarue5904
@fenixlarue5904 6 жыл бұрын
Aradia X I’m do sorry . I experienced this same with my mother recent
@theconcorden
@theconcorden 6 жыл бұрын
Aradia X, Im so sorry to read this! :-( Words cannot express... that's way too sad and unfair :-(
@cynthiaarons9373
@cynthiaarons9373 6 жыл бұрын
Aradia, very very sorry to hear your story. Everyone should be allowed to die with dignity - not to be suffering as your father did. He is in a better world now. I hope you are coping well after witnessing such suffering of a loved one. God bless!
@rebeccawiesenthal579
@rebeccawiesenthal579 7 жыл бұрын
Even she is sick she looks beautiful for 82
@andrewhume3090
@andrewhume3090 6 жыл бұрын
Rebecca love she's stunning.
@petervirnuls7879
@petervirnuls7879 6 жыл бұрын
I thought that - she looks strangely good for her age.
@LoweringMyProfile
@LoweringMyProfile 6 жыл бұрын
Most definitely. It goes to show that even when a person is faced with a terminal illness like she has the beauty still shines through. Very classy lady.
@zweij
@zweij 5 жыл бұрын
@piggypigpig wtf they are being honest
@teapea85
@teapea85 5 жыл бұрын
What are you talking about, she looks dead, dont be so patronizing
@sickoako6463
@sickoako6463 Жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert, I would've loved to talk to her all day. I love her. She has a beautiful mind. I wish more people are like her. God bless her soul.
@shade5554
@shade5554 3 жыл бұрын
She may have passed on, but she will always be alive here, in this video.
@scottclouse2513
@scottclouse2513 6 жыл бұрын
We all just witnessed an Angel speaking.
@ContactingTheDead
@ContactingTheDead 5 жыл бұрын
Scott Clouse , I wouldn’t call someone who denied the belief of God and the afterlife an “angel”.
@hejminvan
@hejminvan 5 жыл бұрын
@@ContactingTheDead that's the most fucked up comment I've read in a long time 🙄 Fuck religion
@LaurieAinsworth0309
@LaurieAinsworth0309 5 жыл бұрын
You pompous moron! How dare you put this lady down?! I would simply call herself sensible, and not a self-righteous imbecile like YOU
@Ilmksmxo
@Ilmksmxo 5 жыл бұрын
@@ContactingTheDead she didnt deny anything. She knows theres more out there after death than what we think we know while we are here on this earth. After leaving the order she clearly grew as a human being and expanded her mind and realized No one on this earth has the right answer or the right God.. None of us could possibly have the answer.. Be good be kind and love... Your comment sir is one of sarcasm and hate... Towards someone who doesnt deserve it She IS an angel She always was one... And this world was lucky enough to have her.... Sit down and go cry in a corner Come back when you have something positive to add
@amandalynnagain
@amandalynnagain 5 жыл бұрын
@@ContactingTheDead so YOUR god, only, owns angles? Okayyy (eye roll)
@Lindamorena
@Lindamorena 6 жыл бұрын
I wish it were possible to adopt elderly people
@dogmama45
@dogmama45 5 жыл бұрын
God bless you, Sweetie!!!
@Jj-mc9rf
@Jj-mc9rf 5 жыл бұрын
Become a live in Carer
@victoriatucker6271
@victoriatucker6271 5 жыл бұрын
Work in assisted living homes.
@alexlulz9256
@alexlulz9256 5 жыл бұрын
she dead tho
@renehay77
@renehay77 5 жыл бұрын
What an amazing idea. My mother just went into long term care and there are people there who never get visitors and have no family.
@zg6879
@zg6879 3 жыл бұрын
Damn, she’s sharp for her age. In her age and illness, she’s still completely there and thinking for herself with clarity.
@elisalukasik6334
@elisalukasik6334 7 жыл бұрын
She was so incredibly intelligent. I wish I could have studied under her.
@anon4041
@anon4041 2 жыл бұрын
I recently lost my dad suddenly. And now I’m having trouble accepting death is inevitable. These videos are comforting and knowing that we are not alone in the end.
@oliverwhisper
@oliverwhisper 7 жыл бұрын
Such an incredible woman.
@discosteve8666
@discosteve8666 6 жыл бұрын
Teaching at 82, sharp as a tack in what is presumably her last interview & the presence of mind to understand the choices she has. More power to her! I really hope to achieve the same.
@reenh462
@reenh462 7 жыл бұрын
Brain cancer took my beautiful mom. I miss her deeply.. No one should have to be in pain and suffering.I feel so bad that this woman has no loved ones. :-( She is so beautiful and strong..
@mipanterita19
@mipanterita19 7 жыл бұрын
my parents die from cancer too, my father bfrom brain. and i am just rrecovering from chemos. yes she is so beautiful and strong. i was not able even to talk while i was in treatments
@brendar9363
@brendar9363 7 жыл бұрын
She said she had no family but a close circle of special friends. I don't believe she had no loved ones.
@bec775775
@bec775775 7 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for you & your mum.. I feel it too. I lost my grandmother & partner from cancer. Both were very traumatic for them and us, loving and supporting them. And both of them would have gone sooner before it got so bad if they had that very basic right.
@nikkikidd8428
@nikkikidd8428 7 жыл бұрын
I agree, she is beautiful in every way possible. I would love to have known her and I would have loved to be able to comfort her in her last days. I have a feeling that she has probably comforted many people during her days. I bet she would have been someone whom every conversation was interesting, sincere and thought provoking.
@bec775775
@bec775775 7 жыл бұрын
Nikki.. agreed. She is a stunning representation of the best a human can be, what a beautiful & strong woman. An example for us all, and such a great advocate for choice lying with the individual and not the "law". Bless her. She speaks what the vast majority of us wants.. choice & control of your life path.. whether short or long term. All around.. this is an educated woman speaking her heart, which promotes giving people choices about how they continue.. or choose not to. Having the choice is the key here. I know someone who now has the tools & resources to make the choice.. and they live on today. Empowering ppl with the choice may actually save lives.
@tammyshuttleworth4465
@tammyshuttleworth4465 5 жыл бұрын
OMGNESS, @ 2:05 when she said I HAVE NO FAMILY broke my heart💔 into a million pieces. HUGS FROM Canada🇨🇦❤
@rubyneedville
@rubyneedville 7 жыл бұрын
82? She looks young and she is so precious.
@micheller2283
@micheller2283 6 жыл бұрын
She did not. She looked older and sickly.
@at5756
@at5756 6 жыл бұрын
She is so precious .
@denisepaulsenful
@denisepaulsenful 5 жыл бұрын
She looks young? Are you kidding? My mum is 84 and healthy. She makes this woman look like a cadaver.
@ms.williams6009
@ms.williams6009 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 lies!!!
@kingjames5990
@kingjames5990 5 жыл бұрын
😞
@jfhfhfhhhdjfhf563
@jfhfhfhhhdjfhf563 3 жыл бұрын
She sounds so alive and alert but yet she’s so close to death...God is shining through her and giving her strength in these moments.. wish I could have been there to give her company during her final days. When she mentioned “if I had a family member..” my heart broke for her. No one should have to die alone.
@meghamer3065
@meghamer3065 7 жыл бұрын
Wish I could hug her.
@marykoshy9299
@marykoshy9299 6 жыл бұрын
Meg Hamer yes same here i want to hug her so badly
@cynthiaarons9373
@cynthiaarons9373 6 жыл бұрын
Sad that she is alone. At least her friends have not abandoned her. Clearly a very good person. She needs a lot of hugs!
@wisdompoints
@wisdompoints 5 жыл бұрын
@Meg Hamer, please put me in your prayers as well. I am battling with lungs cancer at stage 4 and the doctor said i have a few weeks to live. I wish I can live again,
@nayeli020991
@nayeli020991 5 жыл бұрын
Me too 😢
@vnqy920
@vnqy920 5 жыл бұрын
Katherine Creamer how’s it going?😔my prayers go out to you❤️
@ImNotADeeJay
@ImNotADeeJay 6 жыл бұрын
Prolonging life when you have a disabling/degenerative condition that cannot be reverted is pointless, but it take guts to make such a difficult decision. All my respect and admiration with this brave lady.
@msjujuz266
@msjujuz266 2 жыл бұрын
@Green Rose not if they don't want it.
@derrickburgess4407
@derrickburgess4407 7 жыл бұрын
I could not tell that she was 82.. I would say 65 plus. And she speaks so well. God Bless her beautiful soul. I pray she went peacefully surrounded with friends.
@stellaorvad2519
@stellaorvad2519 7 жыл бұрын
Derrick Burgess When you are this sick ..it is hard to look at anyone and guess their age.Cancer is the Cruelest disease along with Alzhiemers and Dementia which at least with Cancer you get to say your goodbyes to loved ones and friends. Just to clear this up Hospitals end our lives earlier now by starving the paitients and upping the morphine thank god...and they DO NOT TELL the families I know from personal experience here so no one has to worry ...they Starve you to death..no food water drips in your arems and overdose you on morphine. ..look out if you are in hospital and they put that velcro box on you VELCRO BOX = a Quick death..
@anacatarinan6245
@anacatarinan6245 7 жыл бұрын
Derrick Burgess The same I was very surprised hearing her age. I wouod.give her 65 max!
@junbh2
@junbh2 7 жыл бұрын
It's hard to tell age when someone is that sick - the overriding physical impression is of the sickness rather than of any particular age. I remember visiting a friend in the hospital a week before his death from cancer, and he looked decades older than he had a year before (he was only in his forties but he reminded me of an elderly man).
@livinwithlymedaily5974
@livinwithlymedaily5974 7 жыл бұрын
junbh2 They're saying she looked YOUNGER!
@junbh2
@junbh2 7 жыл бұрын
+LivinWithLyme Daily LOL, yes, and _I'm_ saying some people much younger than her look OLDER.
@joannedinsmore2712
@joannedinsmore2712 5 жыл бұрын
If an animal was this ill, we would show compassion and help them to pass on. Why are we so cruel to each other?
@martinacaffrey4411
@martinacaffrey4411 3 жыл бұрын
Because we need to protect the vulnerable who could be persuaded by nefarious relatives that their lives are not worth living.
@kenny995
@kenny995 3 жыл бұрын
@@martinacaffrey4411 these people who are ending their lives are terminally I'll, aka they have no chance of living. They are going to die no matter what. So they can suffer until the end or they can pass peacefully on their own terms.
@My3AndRay
@My3AndRay 5 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful human being. Absolutely humble, graceful, intelligent and kind. It must’ve been an honor to know her.
@selinabaez6258
@selinabaez6258 5 жыл бұрын
I could listen to her talk for ever. She is so graceful and very intelligent. She would be an incredible teacher to have!!! And a friend as well!!! Bless her.
@PK-sc2vn
@PK-sc2vn Жыл бұрын
Wow, what an honest, intelligent and incredibly brave lady. I hope that i can face the end with such dignity. I hope she passed peacefully and pain free
@mysticparanormal1762
@mysticparanormal1762 4 жыл бұрын
Man she spoke so well she was razor sharp in the mind! What a lady!!
@jackofalltrades3139
@jackofalltrades3139 7 жыл бұрын
I am so moved. She is a beautiful soul. She is able to articulate her thoughts and feelings so clearly and succinctly. I wish I had known her. God bless her.
@gowdsake7103
@gowdsake7103 6 жыл бұрын
well thats nice accordiong to your fucking delusion GOD did this to her nice huh ?
@andrewhume3090
@andrewhume3090 6 жыл бұрын
Jack Of all trades she's phenomenal. She's so beautiful....philosophy makes you beautiful.
@micheller2283
@micheller2283 6 жыл бұрын
@@gowdsake7103 shut up. Seriously. She said she was agnostic. That's all you need to know.
@Bh-jn8xl
@Bh-jn8xl 7 ай бұрын
Bless this sweet angel, i hope you're resting in paradise. ❤
@Kingjamesbible161
@Kingjamesbible161 5 ай бұрын
We don’t know if she is or not big I hope so to but while we are alive we don’t have to guess or hope Christ left the Bible so we can know for sure through our free will to accept or reject him biblical account on eternity I’m order to enter beach after death one must’ be born again Trust by faith that Jesus is God and he proved that by his virus birth his death burial and resurrection so if anyone belive that they will go to heaven for eternity right away after death
@srounds86
@srounds86 7 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful woman. She's really given me peace.
@moespaws16
@moespaws16 5 жыл бұрын
srounds86 same. I’m fighting a panic attack and her voice is calming me
@tulips21
@tulips21 Жыл бұрын
Hats off to this courageous lady, 82 I can't belive, she looks so young, I wanted to hug her❤❤❤
@Rogerthatx10
@Rogerthatx10 3 жыл бұрын
When she said she had no family to make the decision, that was so gut wrenching. Sharp as a tack, even though in her 80s. Cancer is so cruel.
@Plootyhooter
@Plootyhooter 8 ай бұрын
Im so glad I got to see this and listen to this lovely lady speak. When my time comes I hope I have the same dignity and grace as her. ❤
@brengz7663
@brengz7663 6 жыл бұрын
She was such an amazing and intellectual person. Spoke so vividly and composed. Brave indeed.
@MsDee409
@MsDee409 5 жыл бұрын
Such a sweet and lovely woman. I'm so sorry cancer took her. 😢 May she rest.....
@tanyaharris3834
@tanyaharris3834 3 жыл бұрын
My nanny died of cancer an I miss her so so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏😥😥.,and u are so bueitiful 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥❤❤❤❤❤❤
@djolivierastro
@djolivierastro 7 жыл бұрын
what an admirable & humble lady may she rest in peace
@teresaolszanka112
@teresaolszanka112 5 жыл бұрын
She will. She clearly lived in peace with herself and she will be in peace after death
@bettyboo8214
@bettyboo8214 5 жыл бұрын
I am so moved after watching this.What an intelligent articulate lady.i hope she had a peaceful passing.
@little_dee1995
@little_dee1995 5 жыл бұрын
She is very bright and especially well spoken
@JuanNgtse
@JuanNgtse 6 жыл бұрын
shes so strong at her age. So articulate, she have such a clear state of mind. Incredible person.
@wisdompoints
@wisdompoints 5 жыл бұрын
@Juan Ng, you are very correct in your observation. please put me in your prayers as well. I am battling with lungs cancer at stage 4 and the doctor said i have a few weeks to live. I wish I can live again,
@ericalukonis8353
@ericalukonis8353 7 жыл бұрын
She's a remarkable and lovely lady.I hope she went peacefully.
@yulandasmith3382
@yulandasmith3382 5 жыл бұрын
She’s like a rainbow 🌈 sweet energy an spirit well spoken an at peace she is a bundle of joy is such a empowerment of Courage an wisdom God has his hands on her.
@cynthiahawkins2389
@cynthiahawkins2389 7 жыл бұрын
I am guessing that this brave, dear lady is gone Home now. Our mother recently died at 95. We home cared her and would not have missed the opportunity to witness and love her, for anything. Every death is different. God bless you, sister.
@wisdompoints
@wisdompoints 5 жыл бұрын
@Cynthia Hawkins, please put me in your prayers as well. I am battling with lungs cancer at stage 4 and the doctor said i have a few weeks to live. I wish I can live again,
@dominique9314
@dominique9314 5 жыл бұрын
@@wisdompoints God keep you safe...
@janibaldonado9173
@janibaldonado9173 5 жыл бұрын
Katherine Creamer God Bless
@SIMRAN_2307
@SIMRAN_2307 5 жыл бұрын
God bless you.. I hope you are well
@KaliKali-hv9bt
@KaliKali-hv9bt 5 жыл бұрын
@@wisdompoints are you ok?
@je5077
@je5077 6 жыл бұрын
An amazing example of how beneficial it is to have these services so people can pass on with dignity and with their minds intact.
@issystar96
@issystar96 5 жыл бұрын
What a precious angel. I wish I could give her a big hug ❤😢
@frankpasqua7706
@frankpasqua7706 6 жыл бұрын
amazing bravery never met her but she'll be a part of me from now on
@wisdompoints
@wisdompoints 5 жыл бұрын
@frank Pasqua, everyone who watched this video understood she is brave. I listen to her and her personal decision. It gave me the courage not to entertain any fear in my own situation. I am battling with cancer of the lungs at stage four and the doctor said I have just a few weeks to live. Please put me in your prayers to go to heaven when i die.
@josephromo1059
@josephromo1059 7 жыл бұрын
I could listen to her speak forever
@mariaparker7545
@mariaparker7545 3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful woman .. I so admire her and hope I end my days with the same dignity as her... RIP precious lady!
@MicheleMJJ
@MicheleMJJ 7 жыл бұрын
What an amazing lady. God Bless her.
@brama100
@brama100 7 жыл бұрын
She just said she's agnostic, and that was probably the polite way of telling a religious Dr that she does not believe in God. And here you go bring up something stupid that she doesn't believe in. Where's the logic?
@gowdsake7103
@gowdsake7103 6 жыл бұрын
What a cow your beliefs say your gawd been an gawn an done this amen cletus and elly may and the piggy
@itsdefinitelytrue7600
@itsdefinitelytrue7600 3 жыл бұрын
It's really nice that all the comments I read were filled with love❤
@sergeantrock7566
@sergeantrock7566 6 жыл бұрын
God bless you, lovely lady, your voice is so peaceful and tender.
@wisdompoints
@wisdompoints 5 жыл бұрын
@Sergeant Rock, you are very correct in your observation. I listen to her and her personal decision. It gave me the courage not to entertain any fear in my own situation. I am battling with cancer of the lungs at stage four and the doctor said I have just a few weeks to live. Please put me in your prayers to go to heaven when i die.
@sscrystal1085
@sscrystal1085 3 жыл бұрын
That interviewer slow af he doesn't catch her exquisite humor: "I'm 82, my parents have died"
@ruchi_teomura1
@ruchi_teomura1 3 жыл бұрын
I think he restrained himself on the account of being polite on an off chance she was being serious.
@officeofqueenbee
@officeofqueenbee 3 жыл бұрын
I think she was just giving a realistic picture that her age does not permit her to have parents remaining at present, nor does she have a family of her own.
@sscrystal1085
@sscrystal1085 3 жыл бұрын
@@officeofqueenbee I get her sense of humour because my granpa was also pretty caustic, one time a beggar said "please, sir, I'm an orphan" he replied: "I'm also an orphan " (he was pushing 80 somethings)
@jillnunnen1815
@jillnunnen1815 4 жыл бұрын
Crying buckets....watching and listening to this amazing, courageous, lady. So graceful even in suffering. May she rest in heavenly peace. God bless from Liverpool, England.
@whemmings5737
@whemmings5737 6 жыл бұрын
This lady is beautiful and someone for us all to look and learn from.
@lisaclark616
@lisaclark616 2 жыл бұрын
A pillar of strength, courage, and beauty. Going out on her own terms. Going out like a soldier. May the Good Lord Bless her. ❤
@jnwd1723
@jnwd1723 6 жыл бұрын
I'm 55 and in terrible health. Chronic pain, thyroid disease, horrible dental issues I can't fix that are giving me more pain and I'm not able to eat normal. Lost my ability to drive which I loved, walk unaided, sing along to my favorite songs, Help other people, clean my house, assemble furniture, knit, write, or to go outside in the sunshine soaking up the warmth. I miss taking care of my pets and playing with them. I tried getting a doctor to come to my place to give me my meds as it's too difficult to travel anymore. I used to play piano. I used to be this happy go lucky person and very independent. I liked helping as many people as I could but I can barely help myself. I'm on disability. Losing manual dexterity. Muscle. It's hard to accept not being able to do those simple things. I was always able to rough it. I had the physical strength to do many things.When you have your health that in itself is a cause to rejoice. Your health is a blessing. I never cared about money or material things. I'm lamenting the days when I was able bodied, not in pain or disabled. I believe in God and accepted Jesus as my Saviour real young. I know when a Christian dies they are immediately with the Lord. The Bible says to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. God has seen me through many tough times. I'm not perfect but I ask the Lord to forgive me. I can only lean on Jesus to bring me through every day. When you're young and feeling physically strong you can take it for granted. I know many times I have. I remember when people would say to count your blessings but I never understood that because I was okay in my health. It's when your health gets so bad that you finally realize what really does matter. I wished I'd really appreciated the many blessings I had and thanked God more often and with sincerity. I wouldn't want anyone to experience what things I'm going through. Cherish your health while you have it. Take good care of your bodies by eating healthy, exercise and staying fit so you can do things you love. I wish I could back up the clock to 2012. I was doing good. I didn't have alot of money but I could handle that. I was able to get by on very little and I was content and very happy. I live with someone because I can't live on my own anymore. I have to depend on others for help. That's hard to do since I could do for myself. You feel like life's just passing you by. You see others doing what you used to do and it bothers you. You wish you'd been born with the disability so you that's all you've known and grown up to adapt to doing things. It's a whole new ball game though when you lose capabilities and you're going downhill. Please don't take anything for granted. If you're able to drive, walk, eat normal and not in pain give thanks to God. If you find yourself grumbling and complaining about trivial matters, realize and be thankful for all the many things you're able to do. So many are suffering debilitating illnesses and disabilities and their quality of life isn't living but they're really just existing. If it comes my time I just want to be in a comfortable warm bed with adequate pain medication and given that medicine they use to anesthesize you where you just fall asleep and you feel no pain or discomfort, just peace. I hope anyone hurting so bad from a terminal illness that you are receiving compassionate care from people who really do care about you. I hope you have family and friends for support and most of all that you accept Jesus as your Saviour and make him #1 in your life. I want everyone to be saved and have that close relationship with God and that you will have eternal life which God promises in John 3:16. If you died in an accident at least you know you'll be with God eternally in no more pain, no sorrow. God loves us and gave his only Son to take our sin away. We needed a Saviour and God provided a way for us to be redeemed and have our sins forgiven so we could have that assurance of knowing that when we die here on Earth, that's not the end but a wonderful beginning to spending eternity in heaven in joy, no more sorrow, no pain or sickness. God will give us new bodies. There's going to animals there and it will be beautiful. Surrounded with love, happiness and God's beautiful place for us. I hope anyone reading this will accept the fact that God loves you and whatever bad stuff you did in the past or present, He will forgive you if you ask. The Lord desires a relationship with you as any loving father would. You don't have to clean up your life before coming to God. He already accepts you as you are and will do a mighty work in your life. He knows all things about you and can make your life beautiful again. Jeremiah 29:11 tells us He has a good plan for your life if you just trust Him.
@donnafranks-oldpathhome
@donnafranks-oldpathhome 6 жыл бұрын
jn wd Hello, God continue to bless you I pray. Praise the Lord Thank you. .... God can give this lady and / or anyone a witness when we pray. HE LIVES, HE LOVES .
@jnwd1723
@jnwd1723 6 жыл бұрын
Donna Franks thank you Donna. God bless and watch over you too.
@DandyBeingTandi
@DandyBeingTandi 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Very good advice to give. I have chronic illness also and I understand grieving all the things you can't do anymore. I strongly believe we still can teach and help others, in whatever capacity left to us, and you did that today. God bless. 💗
@jnwd1723
@jnwd1723 6 жыл бұрын
Tandi Caldwell Hello Tandi. I'm sorry to hear about your illness. I hope whatever it is you are dealing with that you're getting proper and enough adequate help to have some good quality of life. I mean with me situation and the stuff that's wrong, if only like my teeth were still in great shape but had to live the rest of my life in wheelchair and from there see about taking care of one thing at time like my Hashimoto's Thyroiditis and the nodules, then my forward slipped disks and bulging disks in my lower back crushing my nerves causing pain all in my lower extremities and then tackling the radiculopathy/peripheral neuropathy in my feet. Basically, being able to eat well, getting proper pain management going on the rest or if I needed surgery I'd consider it. I'm saying I know I could still enjoy life if my teeth were the one thing that wasn't messed up. I miss diving into a huge steak or salad, munching on chips, that good healthy Raisen Nut Cluster cereals, hot wings, I'm torturing myself by writing this stuff but you know.....I'm mean of course if I had my druthers I'd want 100% health but if I was wheelchair bound, needing pain management, seeing how much was fixable I'd try. Having to get around by wheelchair on pain meds but having good dental would up my quality pretty close to perfect considering everything. I'd be able to go places and get out of this room. I wouldn't be a "shut-in." I mean it's not like I had any plans to conquer Mt. Everest. Life would be great again. I could eat normal, build up my upper body strength, be more independent. Play piano, I would do one of my favorite things by going off somewhere by myself in my different wheels and put my favorite songs on my cd player and sing away like I use to ....just rock out without a care in the world. I could do whatever crafts I liked doing. See about going back to work again, I could do laundry, Yay!. Go see my kids and visit them at with work. Basically, I'd be really living again, I say that with all sincerity. That small bump up a notch would be like heaven to me. I could help people and animals, I wouldn't be down in the dumps. My normal personality was I loved laughing, joking around, making others laugh just being my crazy self. I had a blithe spirit and was able to easily let things go, I didn't hold grudges and basically was pretty laid back, easy going, I wanted to get along with everybody. If only that possibility was doable I'd do it. Thanks for your kind words. God bless you too and fill your heart with hope every day. That would be great to have your situation improve. I hope it does~take it easy :-)
@DandyBeingTandi
@DandyBeingTandi 6 жыл бұрын
jn wd Thank you for your kind words! I believe I was meant to read them. I have Hashimoto's as well and understand the debillitating fatigue and effects it has on our body. I have Dysautonomia, (a form called Pots or Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome). It is a disorder of the autonomic system that controls blood pressure, breathing, heart rate and body temperature. There is no cure but just managing of symptoms. I can't go outside or I overheat and dehydrate, and I run IVs myself at home. Occasionally I have real good days and can go places without fainting! I have 3 children ages 24, 23 and 17, as my disorder didn't get bad until the third pregnancy. I wanted that little boy though, and couldn't dream of abortion as suggested. It was worth losing my health. I think about my condition worsening, and that is scary. But I try to stay in the moment and appreciate the little things. Thank you for replying. I am on Facebook and Instagram under the same name. Hang in there!! 💗💗💗💗
@charleswildman137
@charleswildman137 7 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful soul! I hope I can face that point in my life with the grace this woman did!
@outstanding411
@outstanding411 7 жыл бұрын
I do believe it is a personal decision and that we humans should be able to die with dignity and grace. In Denmark they also allow assistance for dying if you have a mental illness which is incurable as of yet. Ending suffering . You wouldn't let your beloved pet suffer so we shouldn't let humans suffer either. She passed with dignity as that was her wishes. God Bless
@clm0208
@clm0208 3 жыл бұрын
Nice. I wish my place have it legal too...
@flowerpower9541
@flowerpower9541 3 жыл бұрын
I personally feel that mental illness is as valid a reason for this choice as ANY
@titifolol
@titifolol 7 жыл бұрын
A lady in every sense of the word and at her age I think she's more than earned the right to decide when she's had enough, we only have to look at her to see she is gravely ill and not likely t live it out.....god bless for telling us you story Madam and thank you for being so brave.
@AG-xl4hy
@AG-xl4hy 6 жыл бұрын
I'm sure she impacted many lives through her own journey. Such an eloquent and graceful woman, until the end.
@BecD1983
@BecD1983 3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful woman. I hope she’s resting as peacefully as possible. My mother has made the decision to stop all treatment, and only has days to live. I really admire strong women. Also, f&ck cancer.
@kimrobinson6163
@kimrobinson6163 5 жыл бұрын
At that age she is , well spoken, smarts Beautiful, Thank for ur story God bless
@deezo22
@deezo22 5 жыл бұрын
God bless her! Such an intelligent woman🙏❤
@esmeraldamontalvo9948
@esmeraldamontalvo9948 3 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful soul very humble and glad to hear what she had to say and I don’t even know her. So much wisdom thank you for sharing💙💙💙
@F30Beamer
@F30Beamer 3 жыл бұрын
My grandma is 83 and she still goes to the market all by herself with heavy bags.
@netterboosicily4040
@netterboosicily4040 5 жыл бұрын
What a brillant, well spoken, brave woman. BRAVO👋
@maryspencer2727
@maryspencer2727 5 жыл бұрын
God bless this beautiful Lady! An angel for sure!
@MissNurkie
@MissNurkie 6 жыл бұрын
Such an amazing lady, an inspiration in every way. Intelligent, poised, beautiful. Bless her.
@liamspinks8512
@liamspinks8512 3 жыл бұрын
More women like that in our world ,and our kids would stay crime free god bless her very positive and lovely person
@gwenb.4179
@gwenb.4179 5 жыл бұрын
She doesn’t sound like an 82 years old woman and despite the physical chemo effect, she still look young for her age.
@ImbibingChina
@ImbibingChina 6 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful soul, and mind. Her clarity and vision is astounding.
@aishamah8173
@aishamah8173 7 жыл бұрын
It's sad not to have someone on your bedside when you're dying😢
@jnwd1723
@jnwd1723 6 жыл бұрын
Aisha Mah I know. I would want someone with me to hold my hand and pray.
@freyaaldrnari6086
@freyaaldrnari6086 6 жыл бұрын
Aisha Mah we all die alone
@suesmith3744
@suesmith3744 5 жыл бұрын
I would not want my family to watch me die TBH ....
@karlakh
@karlakh Жыл бұрын
What an lovely and intelligente woman she was. May she rest in peace.
@777Petunia
@777Petunia 6 жыл бұрын
What a brave, beautiful woman.
@amberpreece1008
@amberpreece1008 5 жыл бұрын
My grandfather died of brain cancer and to see him slowly lose his memory and forget things truly broke me, im glad for him that it wasn't a very long suffering for him and i only hope that for people who truly want MAID should be able to make that decision.
@RobotSatellite
@RobotSatellite 6 жыл бұрын
what a beautiful discussion. Great relational skills by the doctor, and wow what an intelligent and elegant woman.
@tonypaul2857
@tonypaul2857 6 жыл бұрын
If the world was full of people like this woman it would be a better place to live.
@brandonwilson2732
@brandonwilson2732 6 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful human being.
@fortherAch
@fortherAch 7 жыл бұрын
She’s beautiful. ♥️
@wisdompoints
@wisdompoints 5 жыл бұрын
@Rachel Berens, inside she is, good things do not stay instead the bad ones stay. cancer is bad, I am battling with cancer of the lungs at stage 4 and the doctor said i have a few weeks to live. Please Rachel put me in your prayers
@SonofGalahad
@SonofGalahad 7 жыл бұрын
What a lovely and unique woman. Her abundant intellect combined with her pragmatism is a joy to behold. I do hope that she was able to enact her wishes as she described. With what appear to be her full faculties intact, no overt sign of depression or lack of affect, and a mindful and proactive approach, she embodies the common sense that should guide those who advocate for the right to die with dignity for themselves as well as others. It would be hard to find a more crystalline display of a sensible approach to MAID.
@elizabethreed5648
@elizabethreed5648 7 жыл бұрын
SonofGalahad Exactly
@pamelaculp3917
@pamelaculp3917 7 жыл бұрын
She was blessed to have lived a long live and had the choice to end her suffering my Daughter in law died of cancer at 30 she suffered at the end but fought so hard to stay for her kids. How wonderful it will be when the day comes that cancer can be cured.
@bigmort6916
@bigmort6916 6 жыл бұрын
Pamela Culp cancers can be cured already. But who makes money from fit and healthy people? ..... not the big pharmaceutical companies...they make it from the sick and dying...you’ll never get the cure that’s already there, it’s not worth the dollars it’s written on.
@umaimauneeb
@umaimauneeb 4 жыл бұрын
Mam how old are the kids, who is looking after them??? , i m 36 really worried abt my kids, i m not well for few months, weightloss upto 10kgs
@SHAYUPIVER
@SHAYUPIVER 6 жыл бұрын
Bless this lady ❤❤🙏 I pray she finally found her peace in the end.
@MissDelaware
@MissDelaware 5 жыл бұрын
She is so eloquent in the way she speaks. She seems like such an intelligent woman.
@katrina9799
@katrina9799 5 жыл бұрын
What a special woman, I'm sad that she's gone.
@jeanettesteed3326
@jeanettesteed3326 3 жыл бұрын
I want it as simple and small as possible. - bless her heart, what a lovely lady
@dindinsdone44
@dindinsdone44 6 жыл бұрын
A true angel. My heart breaks for her. Hugs to an amazing woman.
@wisdompoints
@wisdompoints 5 жыл бұрын
please put me in your prayers as well. I am battling with lungs cancer at stage 4 and the doctor said i have a few weeks to live. I wish I can live again,
@dindinsdone44
@dindinsdone44 5 жыл бұрын
Katherine Creamer hugs dear. In my prayers for sure.
@christinahernandez464
@christinahernandez464 3 жыл бұрын
Very beautiful and sad story and most of all what a brave woman.
@claudioinove2710
@claudioinove2710 4 жыл бұрын
She’s admirable and clearly learned everything about life !
@tyna1342
@tyna1342 3 жыл бұрын
Blessing and peace to this beautiful soul.
@MM-uv3zd
@MM-uv3zd 5 жыл бұрын
Awww she's such a kind soul.shes so lucky at being 82 and still have a very sharp mind and just grateful for everything.I understand and respect her decision may she rest in peace.
@crb1959
@crb1959 5 жыл бұрын
What an inspiration. A mentor. A path-clearer. A hero.
@forgottenpixel
@forgottenpixel 7 жыл бұрын
I wish everyone who opposes the 'right to die with dignity' movement gets a chance to see this video. This woman is incredibly educated, well-spoken, and has a vibrant way about her. She is not suicidal. She's not clinically depressed; she probably has tons of ups and downs but that's not the same. She's going through all the right hoops to have the choice to plan her death as she planned her life for so many years. All of those are talking points I have heard people use who are against this. They say, "Well, next we'll just kill off everyone who is depressed or has gone through a bad week/month.". When I hear that, I know they just don't understand. They've likely never even been in the immense pain of a chronic illness that sometimes can't be quieted down by the 'best' of meds/therapy; let alone been on a terminal journey. Thank you (everyone involved) for sharing this.
@JaneDoe-xx6hp
@JaneDoe-xx6hp 3 жыл бұрын
She is such a smart and brave woman, I hope she died peacefully and happily
@ferneche
@ferneche 7 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful woman.
@afenismama
@afenismama 3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful person she is❤
@Narlee2226
@Narlee2226 6 жыл бұрын
God bless you ..what a beautiful lady
@TheCaribSpice
@TheCaribSpice 6 жыл бұрын
To think she's 82 but with cancer. She is so intelligent and behind all that suffering is a beautiful, educated soul. I am so sad she has no family. Rest in love, lady.
@timepperson3284
@timepperson3284 7 жыл бұрын
My biggest fear is not dying but dying alone....
@nopeynope7378
@nopeynope7378 5 жыл бұрын
Why?
@Kala_S
@Kala_S 5 жыл бұрын
Why so?
@smudgy264
@smudgy264 5 жыл бұрын
Kala Stephen The OP comment was a year ago but i have the same fear. It is because your last moments dying alone there is no one there to talk or hold or say goodbye. When i die i hope to hold the hands of the people i love one last time. If you are alone you have no one
@teresaolszanka112
@teresaolszanka112 5 жыл бұрын
The reality is that everyone dies alone. You may have people around you but you are still alone with the experience of dying - it is something that's impossible to share
@the7thwreck
@the7thwreck 5 жыл бұрын
You have yourself. You’re never alone! It’s made out to seem bad, but that’s other people’s points of view of you. There is nothing to fear about having yourself! Embrace it! Otherwise you may just accept the company of anyone...just so you’re not ‘alone’.
@barelyaninconvenience
@barelyaninconvenience 6 жыл бұрын
what a beautiful woman,so calm,so accepting,such a great lesson in humanity to so many dissilusioned people,bless her
@chrismullan7191
@chrismullan7191 7 жыл бұрын
such a strong lady, bless her.
@wisdompoints
@wisdompoints 5 жыл бұрын
@Chris Mullan, you are correct in your observation about the lady. please put me in your prayers as well. I am battling with lungs cancer at stage 4 and the doctor said i have a few weeks to live. I wish I can live again,
@TynaMetzner
@TynaMetzner 6 жыл бұрын
What an amazingly intelligent and humble woman. An amazing speaker and advocate for this end of life choice option. Wow, what a wonderful interview!
@bec775775
@bec775775 7 жыл бұрын
What an intelligent, eloquent & beautiful, inspirational woman. We need to LISTEN to the educated & affected people of awful illnesses & give them such a basic human right - the right to choose when enough is enough & say goodbye on their own terms. I want this right for myself & my loved ones. I want this right for this lady.. my heart breaks watching this woman have to plead her case for a choice that should be her so her own. It's such an important yet very basic right that we all should have, yet government legislation's driven by religion & those who really have no understanding of the situation rule, & impose the restriction of CHOICE! Why should I not have, or anyone else have, the right to choose that I/you/they want to end their life & instead of embarking on a devastating & painful battle. If you have no fight left, the "rules" are that you must keep fighting. Ridiculous.I'm going to bring up the old "you can do it for your pets, but not for your human loved ones" argument.. why? If we have so much respect for life, why don't we for death? That's also a monumental & important part of a life story. I know I'd rather be remembered bowing out early whilst cognitive, happy & in control than resembling a person in incredible, pain, crying for relief or days/weeks living like the already dead. How traumatic for loved ones to witness not to mention the trauma the "victim" must experience. Although you have no family beautiful lady, I hope you do get your wish, & are surrounded by friends who love you. You are an inspiration for speaking up, & for tolerating the battle of fighting for your choice & right. Many choose the illegal option that is flagged with darkness.. "suicide", because they have no other option. Therefore they do it alone to avoid implicating loved ones in a "manslaughter" conviction. It shouldn't be like that.
@bec775775
@bec775775 6 жыл бұрын
I stand by this. Here in Australia, one of our huge campaigners for giving us our choice just lost his life. And he did it in a hospital, because that was the only way he could do it if he wanted to be with family & loved ones. He had his Nembutal, that would in Australia still mean being alone if he used it.. anyone near him would be prosecuted for manslaughter. He went to hospital & refused treatment. Thanks J for fighting so hard for us all. So much respect mate. He at least saw it through to Vol Euth being passed into lower parliament.. I think that's a huge achievement Much respect & love JF.. u did good
@marrop2760
@marrop2760 6 жыл бұрын
a family friend jumped out of his hospital window & committed suicide while hospitalized for cancer - he couldn't take the pain/discomfort any longer.. so what did hospitals do? make sure windows could only open so far...they are perpetuating evil in every sense of the word with Religion being the culprit..that is none of the Establishment's business.. our lives are our own to decide what we'll do with them..
@gloriamaryhaywood2217
@gloriamaryhaywood2217 6 жыл бұрын
Bec Fos Agree entirely with everything you said except for the comment about this lady having to plead her case. She said that she was expecting her end of life measures to take place the day after Thanksgiving....and that she would be surrounded by her close friends and her personal doctor of many years.