A Real Day in the Life of an INFJ

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[@LanaBlakely]

The intro took like 9 takes because I was laughing so much at how weird I felt pretending to watch someone when I was actually just staring into my wardrobe. Lol. What's your MBTI?

[@briandsouza7854]

GJ! 👌

[@Aastha-Sharma]

😂 thankyou for being loyal 😊

[@minecraftstation6422]

@@thefernwehtype same!

[@pinkz1135]

ISTP - T

[@tucaycryslyng.7413]

INFJ-Turbulent ❤

[@samennaheiress8076]

Me as an INFJ while watching this : mind occasionally drifting somewhere else.

[@Mello_noona]

Omg i just snapped out of it and read your comment. 😂

[@samennaheiress8076]

Greetings fellow INFJs ❤️

[@kelvin2736]

I call it adhd

[@samennaheiress8076]

@@kelvin2736 maybe 😁

[@PainKiller225]

my mind went to create a new diet real quick,I snapped out of it then I drifted thinking about how I could help a friend with her problems:))

[@hsin-yehtsai13]

everyone wants to be infj's but only true ones know how exhausting and draining it is to be one 😔

[@tom7914]

I'm not an infj and I really really wouldn't want to be one. Having known an infj extremely well for many years, I honestly say that to me being the person that I am ( I don't know what type of Myers Briggs I am though) it seems extremely exhausting

[@austinmaez7862]

Just to get this out of the way, yes I am an INFJ. Whenever I see these videos or read the comments I always end up rolling my eyes because of the constant “ooooh INFJ’s so rare, so special..” its all just a little much don’t you think? Being an INFJ is extremely, extremely exhausting. I wish so much that I didn’t notice or perceive the things that I do. So many other types can go through an entire day or even conversation without having their brain analyze and pick apart every single word choice or fluctuation in tone of the person they are conversing with. Or worse yet, being able to instantly see that someone is lying or being deceiving then trying to explain what you’ve perceived to others and being met with blank stares and in the end not believed. Being an INFJ, for me at least, can be just too much. So to those heaping adoration upon INFJ’s just remember that the grass isn’t greener in the other side.

[@jamiemcgee6104]

I agree with you and I am an INFJ I totally agree with you

[@klaudinegarcia8932]

Yeah, I was wondering who the hell wants to be an INFJ?! 😅 It sucks to be misunderstood! 😓 At first I thought there's no way I'm an INFJ because it's "rare". Then I started to suspect that I am one. And then when I found out I am I was actually disappointed! 😅 I'm like... can life get any harder for me?! 😂

[@hfrick1782]

Klaudine Garcia Finding out your an INFJ is like eating cotton candy. It’s sweet when you first take a bite, but it upsets your stomach the more you eat. It’s probably really cringe worthy that I’m bringing this up, but I can relate it too Frozen 2. I love studying and discovering new things about myself, but sometimes the more you know, the more you hurt. “Dive too deep and you will drown”

[@CleoraAleise]

It’s hard being an infj in this world

[@sarahkuhn566]

Especially these days. I’m so exhausted.

[@farheenmonsur4852]

Enfj im off by one lol

[@OuterWorldMovement]

Ye. Everyone thinks the same these days like robots. Unlike us were different! I'm INFJ-T btw

[@farheenmonsur4852]

@@OuterWorldMovement ooo turbulence hah I got turbulent friends too

[@OuterWorldMovement]

@@farheenmonsur4852 yup it's most of population these days lol

[@samanthapasielski2506]

"I wonder if I'm the one overthinking sometimes, or if everyone else is just UNDERthinking" Yaaaasss (from another INFJ)

[@frozenfire2634]

i am enfp and can totally relate to that statement

[@antondeannova7016]

@Tyler Gibson hi buddy ... may i ask ...? so which profession below is more appropriate for the ISTP function ... mechanic or electrician ... give the logical answer based on the function of the ISTP thank god bless ...

[@archiedenisu7727]

Every detail, even the smallest is important.

[@hellfire4946]

I think its both🙄

[@amruthavalli1260]

😭😭😭me

[@FrankJames]

Great video, Lana! Insightful and beautifully shot. Though if I made a day in my life it would just be me in my apartment 😂

[@LanaBlakely]

Thank you Frank! Haha, I'd totally watch it. :-)

[@lindsayjeanchannel]

Introverts spend most of their time at home anyways so it would at least be accurate 🤷‍♀️. I think your subs would be into it (Do it FJ) !

[@minecraftstation6422]

@@lindsayjeanchannel I am with u ! Who else?

[@maja2393]

Awe how cute! The two mistypes are bonding

[@minecraftstation6422]

@@basic-decaf wait...infp? Pls state what u noticed from him to say so

[@Darthv1der]

The shortest sentence to describe an INFJ is having a "happy personality and a sad soul"

[@slowlivingbhutanese]

That’s so true

[@minecraftstation6422]

Have to agree ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ

[@ela2611]

Never felt more exposed in my entire life 😅

[@sruthibalaji1651]

So truee

[@burakdemir7497]

This would be the only sentence that would summarize every INFJs if we needed to describe them only in one sentence. I also saw this in, I believe, one of Frank James' videos.

[@slayyjal3591]

I don't know if all INFJs do this but I like to re-watch every show or movie that feels like home and I have to finish a new story book or a new show or movie as soon as possible because I can't stand the fact of not knowing something ,I want to know ,I want to understand, I want to be aware and I want to feel and experience everything.

[@prilissa1338]

I do this too. My friends think it's insane but they are already used to it. I guess it's because of the euphoria we get when we like something so much

[@rayanalla8102]

So happy to know I'm not insane or alone 😭😭

[@seriuna482]

I’m opposite because I can’t handle the fact that I don’t know and understands other shows. If I watched it once I’m done analyzing it and move in to my next target

[@vitoralves9606]

I do that too but its,s very exhausting. I feel like i want to Embrace all the existing knowledge.

[@lizmiller342]

Same 😱

[@jamilahal-baloushi1496]

I’m an INFJ as well and I’ve never met another INFJ so it’s so odd to hear that people have the same thoughts as me

[@christopherqueen3194]

I only know for certain that I’ve met one other INFJ. And my 5 year old grandson totally appears to be an INFJ. Otherwise, I know of no others.

[@RyanMDanks]

Same! I've always felt like I was weird. The last few years of the MBTI becoming more popular has been enlightening.

[@lunabtxt]

ikr

[@antondeannova7016]

hi buddy ... may i ask ...? so which profession below is more appropriate for the ISTP function ... mechanic or electrician ... give the logical answer based on the function of the ISTP thank god bless ...

[@tigerex777]

My twin sister is also an INFJ

[@annarosalyn7372]

Being an INFJ, I’ve always felt the need to downplay HOW much I care about other people because I feel others find my emotions “too intense.”

[@LanaBlakely]

I'm sure you're not alone in that!

[@Jay-pe4gx]

OMG sameeee Thought I was the only one who felt like this. I don't wanna seem like a weirdo

[@namrataagarwal3279]

Well i cn relate alot

[@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983]

Omg yes. And I remember practically EVERYTHING about my friends, but I always down play it because I don't want them to be freaked out or think that I am obsessive. In reality that's just the way that my brain works 🙃

[@tasenova2717]

Yea, and then when friends tell me that's not possible, "it clearly is or you wouldn't have yelled at me just now for trying to help you"

[@monicaloe9072]

Me being an INFJ, impulsively clicking this right away

[@RonArcayos]

Same lol

[@winonaevergarden1981]

Same haha

[@akashkhushal6505]

This speaks to me on a deep level XD

[@user-tk3ii9zh3e]

Same! It’s finny that we’re all attracted to the same kind of people even on the internet

[@yusratahreem7468]

INFJ means?

[@Thomastorr]

I'm an INFJ, and I would never go to a park alone and walk around. I stay at home all day, and I'm 100% and completely energized. Getting on one video Zoom call for 30 minutes zaps the energy right out of me.

[@staple6451]

I agree. When I do go out the house I always wear headphones even though not many people are around. I never go to the park because I am terrified of running into someone I know. I hate going out at night and try to avoid it as much as possible. Zoom calls are so exhausting for me because I have to pretend I’m happy when I’m not.

[@Thomastorr]

@@staple6451 I dread zoom calls - they're the worst. It seems like everyone is staring at you, and you have to tell yourself they're not. Exhausting for sure.

[@yuucola4145]

For me, i like to take a walk in park without wearing any headphone or earphone because i like to observe the surrounding and that is the moment where my mind start going crazy with so much thought in my mind (basically I'm daydream while I'm walking because i got lost in my thought 😅). And just like Lana, i often wondering how's other people life? Are they happy? Are they sad? I wonder if their childhood is fun?. Sometimes when i saw beautiful things, instead of taking pictures of it (like normally people do), i will stop and admiring it. But i do agree with met someone that i know, i hate that. But i rarely met them in park nearby my house so it's fine.

[@antondeannova7016]

hi buddy ... may i ask ...? so which profession below is more appropriate for the ISTP function ... mechanic or electrician ... give the logical answer based on the function of the ISTP thank god bless ...

[@binijeongyeon]

Same if i will go on a park for sure im wearing a hoodie amd proscastinating busy on phone

[@starlightdust2469]

And with this maybe people can understand why we “don’t talk” so much, we’re analyzing the environment. Also people can finally understand where my tendency of daydreaming comes from

[@OuterWorldMovement]

Yup!! Couldn't agree more.byakugan!!! Lol.tho I'm infj and I analyse alot but.......I also talk heaps aswell. When I'm with people I wont talk for a while and when I'm finished analysing I would talk like a human.

[@gavinmansfield1476]

So true

[@bast7860]

seeing what all the other infj' s think makes me feel at home

[@jessicarose1991]

When INFJs are around people, they actually do talk quite a bit if the environment calls for it since we have Fe as our second function. We are known chameleons who blend into our environment, so if others are being loud, we will instantly pick up on that and match the volume of the people around us. We can easily sense what's going on in our environment because we have Ni as our dominant function, so our two top functions work together beautifully in this way. This is why INFJs are so hard to type if you see them out and about.

[@robertedwards6994]

Did anyone else find it hard to accept themselves as an introvert? Teachers at school say things like "needs to come out of his shell" or "despite being quiet, he did well", etc

[@abrahiemdash7676]

Nothing wrong in being introvert It's just your nature it doesn't mean there is something wrong with you if the other people said so Introverts get their energy when they are alone Extroverts they get their energy from being with people Thats it

[@SweetSerenadeXyWem]

Yeah I've been struggling with it for years, but I'm also shy and I feel like that's more the problem than me being an introvert. Anyway someone once said to me: it's good that there are quiet people who are good listeners. Imagine everyone wanting to be the center of attention, then we would probably not get anywhere. But still it's hard to completely accept the way we are. Hopefully we'll be able to, bit by bit.

[@collinruiten4944]

Not at all really. It's been enlightend knowing how i really feel and function. Also what a lot of people don't see is that Introverted types are usually more succesful. Don't look at charts on salaries Look at all the entrepreneurs out there A good chunk guys that are on the forbes list are introverts. Bill Gates Elon Musk Waren Buffet But if you don't like business Creative people Look at a bunch of KZbinrs A lot of them are introverts aswell as they live in their on bubble. Be happy. It's a special thing. I don't like going with the grain I like going against it and doing it my own way. INTJ -_-

[@threnoidia]

For a while I played the extrovert because I saw "shy" as a fault, and recently realized "shy" is a part of who I am. Definitely feels weird to accept. As long as you aren't staying stuck inside your comfort zone or being quiet out of fear I think we'll just have to accept that some people can't understand us - including teachers.

[@klaudinegarcia8932]

Yup!

[@gabrielgrigore526]

Isn't it funny that we're all the same but at the same time not at all?

[@nathan2813]

Yes, so funny I forgot to laugh! :oD I've often reeled at how I can have SO much in common with a girl - except for just one little thing - but that's all it takes for her to put me on the bus. >:o(

[@Perry_Neum]

It's hard to label people.

[@lebohangmofokeng4480]

Gabriel Grigore yeah

[@mememeome]

Yes, sometimes I feel like my husband I are the same, and other times I think of how we’re so different from one another, then I go back and forth on that though lol

[@nathan2813]

@@mememeome That's because we humans are so complex - there's a million ways we can be either the same or different. That's why we need computers to instantly tell us how incompatible we are instead of taking twenty years to learn it the old-fashioned way.

[@ainhoa2378]

As an Infj, I screenshoot everything. Ended up not having more space on my phone and not even one photo is a photo of mine.

[@shrishtisachan2830]

Story of my life...🤘

[@lizmiller342]

I can relate 😅

[@kosumin7906]

I screenshotted this

[@karri17]

@@kosumin7906 same...

[@Elovexxx]

Didn’t know this was an infj thing

[@elephanty8857]

When she said, "I want to help others, but i dont want them to feel weak" that is exactly what goes through my head. I was listening to this while working, and my head turned so sharply when i heard that. Lol

[@shugabahfilawegenoni3996]

I am INFJ. Knowing more about this personality type has helped me to be more kind to myself. Thank you for the thoughtful presentation.

[@thepoeticone9739]

Same

[@jesslynwijaya29]

❤❤❤

[@TechLead]

INTJ is basically the same, except cut out all the stuff about people & feelings.

[@w13rdguy]

Savage! 😂

[@hannahmathilda7101]

Fe poLRs...smh 😑

[@woah3108]

I love you TechLead. Please kiss me and I will summon a frog for you my master.

[@sonyafirefly3879]

My sister is an INTJ. She's the best.

[@trisblackthorn1122]

My personality keeps fluctuating between INFJ and INTJ. I don't know what to call myself and though I get INTJ in the quiz more often, I identify myself more as an INFJ.

[@user-sh4hu4du6t]

As an INFJ, I don't know how I describe my mind. It's like the mixture of analytical, poetry, art and many more. Our minds are too mixed that sometimes my head hurts. It's like overthinking and reading people is a normal thing to me and us. Thinking and feeling deeply at the same time is so heavy, it's like a blessing and a curse. Sometimes I hated that I'm the only weirdo in my family, I feel so left out.

[@Quoteslv]

Oh man this is so true. I feel so relieved that I'm not the only one. Thank u sooo much for sharing.

[@rironarirona]

The same 😢

[@abigailclouser8621]

“..because as much as I want to give a helping hand whenever I can, I wouldn’t want to make anyone think that they’re helpless or not capable of taking care of themselves.” ME ME ME

[@Kasia_Luna]

I'm an INFJ as well and the overthinking element of my personality is really both a blessing and a curse.

[@stevechristie2569]

Miss Luna are you single?

[@cedricburkhart3738]

I find it hard to believe you really over think things People have caused me of over thinking. But it doesn't seem like thinking much I mean every thing in this world is complicated and there are so many connections between everything.

[@Kasia_Luna]

@@cedricburkhart3738 How can you judge someone else's experience? But either way, you don't have to believe me.

[@cedricburkhart3738]

@@Kasia_Luna I really can't I just over think in a way that other people don't even use the term. It's my ges. I can't say I know maby more detailed thoughts go through your mind then I think maybe you do over think things compared to me. I thought it was weird how little a lot of people think they just seem to live it's really strange.

[@cedricburkhart3738]

@@Kasia_Luna The only way for me to know is if you demonstrate what your over thinking looks like.🤔 I hope I didn't offend you by being presumptuous. But whether I believe you or not it's not really useful to me because I have no example. But a lot of people's idea of over thinking is just thing's like worrying and wondering why there friend didn't text them back. It seems like it must be more peaceful for people who don't question there core beliefs. Some people can't see the world form a nother word view it's really. It really puzoled me when I found things like that out.

[@unnecessaryrandomvideos3956]

Who's an INFJ here aspiring to become an entrepreneur and contribute to the world?

[@maggienoodle]

heck yeah ;)

[@klaudinegarcia8932]

Me!!!

[@ferrum6979]

Count me in let's do itt!

[@unnecessaryrandomvideos3956]

Wooo! I am not alone T~T

[@ferrum6979]

@@unnecessaryrandomvideos3956 what are you planning though? I would love to support y'all

[@tasenova2717]

when you figure out you're an INFJ and realize it's exhausting being you, become friends with an INFP and realize that being one isn't all that bad. Could be worse lol

[@Gobble_de_Goop]

Agreed!!!!! I am an INFJ and my younger brother is INFP. He tells ME that I'm the "difficult" one. Wow really?? Hahaha.

[@BookWorm2369]

they have a serious tendency toward depression those infps....

[@haihai5293]

Hahaha the funniest comments ever, im infp 🤣

[@chihiro7277]

Im an infj and my best friend is an infp and we literally have such a great bond..its a blessing to have her in my life

[@haihai5293]

@@chihiro7277 :-)

[@larinzewar5846]

I'm an INFJ too as well. I always overthink the micro smallest things of my life. Its both good and bad!

[@adrialee8149]

Yep!

[@bradm1813]

That’s exactly how I put it too! Meditation 🧘‍♀️ and deep inner pondering on ethics, humanity, the universe and who I am can be 👁 opening!!

[@lukkatami3652]

The worst compliment: "you're just overthinking it" In my head: "ya no this time I'm actually under thinking than usual"

[@darkbuddha3307]

LMAO deadass.

[@deltaradiance9034]

Lol

[@minecraftstation6422]

Guilty of that

[@katielatta9100]

FOR REALLLLLL

[@Jayshreeusedtomakevidoes]

On point😅🤣

[@anthonycallender6492]

"Serious in a playful way" - infj

[@beybrain7896]

Even though I’m INFJ, this quarantine has made me try to disconnect my emotions from everyone around me as a way to cope and stave off the feelings of loneliness. I’m numbing my extroverted feeling by playing with my hobbies and just tinkering with my toys on my own in the meantime.

[@heyheyvicky1498]

How is it going? I'm feeling great since january, all off a sudden, now doing my all my passions and learning new stuff, not minding being alone anymore :)

[@beybrain7896]

@@heyheyvicky1498 I’m doing fine! I’m glad that you’re getting along well!

[@youniversalbeyoutifull2843]

I've been yearning to be left alone. I can't seem to do anything when I know someone might be watching me when they're really not (my family. just my mom and sis). Idk I just feel drained when I'm with people even tho they're just my fam. I would love to have at least just a week alone by myself far away to sort myself out. I have lots of things I want to do and learn. But I just can't seem to do it when there are people. I don't have a room of my own so yeah. it sucks. but meh.

[@cosmics1708]

me as well😭😭 i related to all of this except the super caring parts because my fe is suffering

[@Ramounskee]

I also play with beyblade.

[@simonecodispoti84]

Does anyone ever had also this feeling of nostalgia for lives he has never experienced?

[@ayay9423]

a lot :))

[@JigokuChou]

"Thats not what we do all day long" *laughs in psychology major*

[@ZinahG]

Haha I wonder how many of us are actually psychology majors. It would be an interesting research to conduct if it hasn’t been already. I am too one of the INFJ psych majors!

[@Nomnamnomm]

I'm doin bsc psychology too an infj

[@lousilvia9361]

Lana, as an INFJ this video brought me so much comfort and I came back to this a few times as I was feeling down. To be understood and in such a poetic way is a gift. I think this might be why your life advices always resonated so much. Would love to see more INFJ videos in the future ❤️ Hope you’re having a wonderful day.

[@John-ru7kk]

Wow, so many INFJs here...Did you read Carl Jung's book, researched about vultology? If so, congrats for being awesome. If not, give up on this, the internet is full of biases....

[@gymbro718]

Me(an INFJ):gets bullied in school Me(an INFJ): befriends the bully

[@youniversalbeyoutifull2843]

We be like: I am sad you lost your way. How can I help?

[@eirinie418]

Hahahahhah accurate

[@VikasKumar88821]

True ☺️👏💜

[@cho_rden]

accurately~ boom 💥

[@Lu-hu6wu]

As an ENFP you have no idea of how much I actually understand and relate to INFJs. I love the way you guys are, think, view the world and feel things.

[@MikeShawTV]

As an ENFP I so agree. We get INFJs. It often surprises them. Also, they can see past our many masks. Not sure how I feel about that :-)

[@whotao-tf1gw]

i love all enfps. they are beautiful people.

[@happilyeverafter1528]

Me too !♡

[@happilyeverafter1528]

@@whotao-tf1gw Thank you very much. ☺

[@Khiarika1]

@@MikeShawTV Wait. You guys got MASKS?? I didn't get one. That's bullshit. I'm calling HR.

[@AnaCarmo]

My best friend is an INFJ and she's literally the best thing that happened in my life ❤️ As an INFP I can be so impulsive and emotional and she helps me think and keeps me balanced.

[@kaylaakm]

Me too im an infp, and shes an infj 😄💞

[@filmfauxtos]

Ah I'm an INFP too! Also have just checked out your channel, great content!

[@anushkashanbhag6631]

Hey there fellow INFJ😂

[@AnaCarmo]

Time Well Wasted Thanks, dear! Omg I love being an INFP, feels so good to find people like me here! ❤️

[@sahrha9814]

I'm an INFP too, and my psychologist who is an INFJ helped me soooo much, she actually saved my life.

[@Calspro]

"I wonder if I'm overthinking sometimes, or if everyone else is just underthinking." call me out then.

[@unnecessaryrandomvideos3956]

Ha! Carl Jung said, "Thinking is difficult, that is why most people judge." Thinking is your thoughts being creative, it matters only how you use it.

[@musicalmuskan4968]

Your narration is literal poetry. Do you have a podcast? Your voice sounds perfectly fitted for a podcast

[@Zayindjejfj]

When your plans to go out get canceled and you're actually happy to stay at home..... Existence is pain.

[@saba4495]

EXISTENCE IS PAIN JERRYY

[@Perry_Neum]

Stay-at-home order? Hold my coffee...

[@saba4495]

Hannibal Lecter I want that coffee

[@Perry_Neum]

@@saba4495 Okay, I will set it six feet away, but you have to come get it.

[@saba4495]

Hannibal Lecter Nice, thank you.

[@lindsayjeanchannel]

*"I wonder if I'm the one overthinking sometimes or if everyone else is just underthinking"* YES! I often ponder this myself. I knew a video like this was coming at some point! Welcome to the INFJ club Lana 🤗 (congrats and I'm sorry haha).

[@nathan2813]

It depends on what you're thinking ABOUT. If it's ten minutes on what to say in your next KZbin video that 2,000 people will see, it's probably justified. If it's 20 minutes on what to have for breakfast, it's probably not, lol.

[@lindsayjeanchannel]

@@nathan2813 Very true, and I tend to do both 🙈.

[@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983]

Wait- Is that a reference to David Badurina? I love him 😂

[@lindsayjeanchannel]

@@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983 It is! 😁 he's awesome.

[@minecraftstation6422]

@@lindsayjeanchannel thx for making me remember him... Now I turned my notifications for him 🙂

[@KhushiYadav-su1or]

Me as an INFJ imagining the whole day out being in my room😁

[@dinagalall]

I feel stuck while everyone around me is pushing forward!

[@lobolunar1049]

I'm recently feeling like this also

[@helenawoods]

It’s SO complicated being an INFJ. We INFJs are a super complex and underrated bunch! We seem deep and serious on the outside but feel like a “candy store” on the inside. Nicely worded, love this metaphor as that is exactly how I feel! ✨

[@MsDoryLinda]

Hey Helena, I didn't know you're an INFJ. I'm an INFP. No wonder I can always relate to your videos 🧡 Nice crossing paths with you again 🤗

[@helenawoods]

Ms Dory Linda ah wow!!! That’s so neat! Love INFPs -my husband is one! So nice to see you here and connect with you Dory! 😊💕✨

[@MsDoryLinda]

@@helenawoods oh wow!! How awesome 👌 I think INFJs and INFPs relate so well together ❤

[@leiasart4610]

It's important to remember that other types can have very similar struggles or other struggles, like INTPs for example. :) I wouldn't say we're more complex than other times, just more confusing and often paradox.

[@madhuvanyadav1872]

Can anyone tell me what is INFJ ?

[@auralunaa]

No matter what personality type you have, you're special, not just INFJ's 😄

[@leiasart4610]

Exactly! :)

[@znuntius4789]

You are right, everyone wants to feel special, so they assume their personality as infj, all personalities have their own strengths and weaknesses, the only thing is that infj's are just a little rare thats all.

[@thabassumzulfikar8463]

@@znuntius4789 couldnt agree more.

[@am-xr4ve]

Yes, I think everyone should be reminded of this fact. I have known my personality type for almost a decade now and although in a way I feel kinda unique because I'm an INFJ, I didn't let it become the forefront of who I think I am. I think we're all unique because we are in different circumstances and lead different lives and that is what makes all of us special.

[@auralunaa]

A.M. B. Yea, I feel you. I’m an INFJ-A, but I don’t think these labels should be a reason to make one feel more special in that regard. We are all completely unique and perfect just the way we are 🕵🏼‍♂️

[@user-jp7hu3jh4e]

I took the test on many different websites, and got INFJ. I finally feel identified, I have not met other people like me, and knowing lana and ppl in the comments have similar personalities to me is so comforting, because I always feel like I should pretend Im someone else.

[@nyang438]

ohmyogsh this is me - i didn't believe i was an infj so i repeatedly took the test on multiple days and websites and i kept getting the same thing, and like, i get how im an infj, but inside i feel like im not, like i feel like im a socially awkward anxious overanalysing extrovert (not to say every infj is socially awkward lmao) but i look up to infjs a lot, and i kind of dont want to be one yk like i feel like i was brought up introverted because, with strict asian parents, i never went to events or met ppl outside of school even though i like ppl (extroverted me) and now as ive gotten older, im a bit more reserved and like, i still like ppl, but yrs of like, semi-isolation-ish has made me how i am today. and i hate it lmao

[@virajreddy3667]

It's easy to tell everyone that you are an INFJ but it's really difficult to being an INFJ😩😣😞😞😔 **only true INFJ can understand**

[@vrath2423]

telling anyone isn't easy either. we often get told we're just attention seekers... and it hurts.

[@MrJoon360]

INFJs have a happy personality, and a deep, beautiful insightful soul.

[@proven1125]

I wouldn't agree with happy personality

[@vicentarodrigues1107]

like hitler

[@TMD_Football]

I wouldn't say happy, I say we seem calm and peaceful at the surface level, but we tend to think quite deeply about things which is a blessing and a curse, as it can cause a lot of internal conflict

[@adiiqbal8010]

"Don't you wonder what was going through the artists mind at the time of its creation?" As a huge music and art fan this just added a whole new layer of the beauty of art!

[@shivamchauhan5388]

"The person we most yearn to understand is often ourselves." The reason what brought me to this video.

[@nandinijindal7416]

"here, let me grab all that emotional baggage while i'm drowning in my own" that one hit home soo hard 😥😥

[@manasprabhu8915]

Imagine being this pretty, intelligent and humble.

[@rudig5698]

🥺

[@user-bv5sq9dy7w]

Lol can’t relate

[@user-lx7ul5ft7y]

Lana is a naturally gorgeous girl. Charming in the way she speaks.

[@jamien.5528]

You’re gorgeous and smart and unique just the way you are. After all there’s only one person like you in the whole world! Trust me when I say that nothing good comes from comparing yourself to others.

[@madelinebrink8399]

I agree completely! She has so many attractive qualities and like, when I watch her videos , and I'm sure others feel the same, I'm like, "aw omg she is so cute I feel so blessed to see such an adorable little human being adorable," it's just so special. Love this channel!

[@MarijkeViolin]

In the Sherlock series, Sherlock mentions his "mind palace" when he's thinking deeply. As an INFJ myself, I like that word! 😊

[@johnypanta6208]

Fun Fact: Sherlock is an INTP-A in the series.

[@rinrin1912]

Yes umm Sherlock is not a Feeler

[@oleksandras8300]

It's so refreshing seeing someone having the same thoughts on life, people, purpose and overthinking! I absolutely loved the video, it made me feel like I'm in my own head (again) 😂 It's really exhausting at times, but I'm learning to love my thoughts for they are mine, unique and mostly beautifully philosophical. Now I think of the analysing traits of INFJs as a gift and it's beautiful to be reminded that there are others out there who lose themselves in their thoughts. Thank you for the video ❤

[@mila3432]

Girl, this was a work of art & wow i felt like this encapsulated the infj so well esp the “imagine being wired to be like ‘here, let me grab all that emotional baggage from you although i’m already drowning in my own’ ” 🥴👏🏽👏🏽

[@ArtsyIslandGirlJamaicanVlogs]

I'm energized when alone, but I find that people tend to misunderstand this and they internalise me wanting to be alone as me not liking them or people in general. After socializing with customers through out the day I must be allowed to do what I want in my lunch time🤣. Understanding from an introverted Jamaican vlogger 👋 stop by sometimes

[@holyguacamole1579]

❤

[@quintuplebanned4267]

Artsy Island Girl oh my God, yes you do. You definitely need to be alone after dealing with customers. That was the most draining job I ever had, it did me in. But when I eventually became a professor I had no issue with interacting with the students, I really enjoyed it, unless I had too many classes..of course I left the college teaching behind when I became disillusioned by the corruption within academia. Loved the students, hated the corruption structure of academia, and all the massive egos.

[@maxeen1974]

Too true 💓

[@puppyaspureasmilk3790]

I've gotten myself in a lot of trouble before...cause I've got this new friend and at first we would talk to each other like 24/7 then I suddenly stopped and she was like "you don't want to be friends with me anymore, do you?" and I was like "no, I just felt the need to not talk to anybody." and said sorry, I won't do it again and stuff but I can't help it and we had an argument several times because of it 😂😂

[@thisquietone8158]

Your voice is very calming. And it's almost like you're speaking my thoughts.

[@rimamuryantinahutagalung]

So, basically INFJ days are like the scenes in Amelie the movie?

[@derealratos6332]

@@AnimangaGirlChii same. Just admiring and appreciating nature and the world can bring me a sense of fulfilment.

[@Wikky98]

@@AnimangaGirlChii omg..so truee.. just a small walk and sitting in coffe shop, watching other people, makes me feel like I didn't throw that day away

[@g.c955]

Interesting to hear another INFJ's inner dialog :)

[@AlgarielMaldonado]

Yes, my 5 inner dialogs and I agree.

[@awkwardlyperfecttiktok8910]

as an INFJ I can relate to every second of this video!

[@znuntius4789]

In a way yeah, we are still all different whether infjs or not

[@thisisgeorge2117]

I loved an INFJ for 14 years. She was my wife and we had 5 kids. I am an ENFP and we enjoyed some of the best conversations one could hope for. But it’s over now and I miss her a great deal. I loved her immensely and gave all I knew how to give. I made mistakes along the way, and she could never let those go. Dear INFJs, do you Easy on the rest of us. Not everyone can manage to do things the way you do. Have mercy on us. Try to find the person who will always love you no matter what and see the value. Look for the person who is always happy to see you. Look for the person who you can so easily talk about everything and anything with. Love, forgive and start every day with a fresh opportunity to try to do better. I love the INFJ and wonder if I’ll ever feel right with any other, because she was my world and my life.

[@thisisgeorge2117]

K B thank you for your kindness. I’m not in pain regularly any longer, but truthfully I may never be the same. I wish you all the best of course. I am ENFP the supposed INFJ elseworld mirror. Love and appreciation for you all.

[@thisisgeorge2117]

K B my ex now has an infp. According to her he’s emotionally safe. But she has also hinted that there is no “push back” and that the she misses the intellectual side. INFPs are lovely people in many ways. My middle child is one and she is very sweet and compliant. She is however flighty and though smart in her own ways, she is not the go to for intelligent conversation. Personally, I don’t want a person who is so laid back romantically. Some engagement and some sense of independent thought. INFPs are like the natural hippies of the world lol. They are wonderful grease to the gears also being that they go with the flow. I get along with them very well, but boy do they lack grounding. Forgive me, just my opinion 😀 I like opinionated people. My ex does too, until she doesn’t. She once got into a philosophy that I believed to be dangerous. I made that clear. She exclaimed “If you loved me, you would find out why I appreciate this instead of just attacking it!” Sometimes the person who loves you most will sound the alarm if they think you are headed for a cliff. At least that’s how I see it. Are you with an infp? Thanks for chatting with me! Ultimately a Romance needs a friendship at the core. Through the long term of any relationship, there are seasons... you can’t always feel romantic feelings. Life is full of twists and turns. Seek someone who will love you through it all and who will remain your best friend. My INFJ just couldn’t get back to “feeling” in love. And then she came up with every possible excuse to convince herself that divorce was the only way foreword. Suddenly, the two people who shared a 14 year deep conversation, connection on major likes and dislikes, shared 5 kids and much more were now “incompatible”. That makes no sense. In the end I feel she controlled the narrative and made up rules to fit her feelings as things went along. When I dig that up, I do feel the pain of it. If you promise someone your life, stick with it. There is no greater treachery than to abandon your post. Forgive my intensity... just an ENFP outputting my thoughts.

[@thisisgeorge2117]

K B wow! I just loved hearing all that. So VERY INFJ. All the things I loved about my wife I just heard. But honestly with a more healthy perspective. I noticed you have considered the spiritual aspects. At one point she was the same, but her pursuits led her to atheism. I encountered my own struggles and deep questions and for a time was on the fence about spiritual things. But for me, when I look at the world, I see beauty. Beauty that reflects such subtle nuance and creativity. Chaos does not beget such order and boundless beauty. So, now my heart has turned back to my Faith. I am being restored even if I endure the pain of loss of my families undivided identity. She seems to find it easy to “fall in love” again and again. Not me though. My love is hard to break and though I love people easily, that deep and committed love that flowers from am initially romantically inclined love doesn’t spring up easily. I watched her do and say the same things to another, and it felt as though it defrauded what she had done with me in the past. I take love very seriously. I take vows and commitment with severity. I am not a perfect man. I fall and stumble and have my own struggles. My INFJ seemed to want some level of perfection that I was not yet, though I practically worshiped the ground she walked on. INFJs are wonderfully talented and deep people and I appreciate their many gifts. But try to recognize in others that we are equally as loving even if we do it differently. Remember also, that even if you are understood, that the person who loves you may still believe you to be in error. It’s ok to disagree... that’s part of being human and a free one at that. If ever you want to have a chat I would welcome it. I promise that I am able to talk about all the things you mentioned. My INFJ loved all of those topics. However, I may buck things. When it comes to science, I favor Tesla over Einstein. I tend to doubt very heavily modern science as I see a religion within it (scientism). I have my own deductive reasoning and study history carefully. I will not be told how or what to believe by men with white coats. 😋 It is truly nice to make your acquaintance! I am finding it stimulating and of a very good variety of conversation. Oh how I love deeper conversations. You don’t scare me at all!

[@KD-xl9hd]

OMG! My boyfriend is also ENFP and I’m INFJ!!! 🥺❤️

[@thisisgeorge2117]

K B Katie, I can be found on IG if you have that. From there we could continue. So much you have expressed that deserves ample consideration and discussion. I would write here, but perhaps we can link up there. My IG handle is @georgedoesdesign see you there Katie!

[@RyanMDanks]

I love this. As an INFJ myself, I've always struggled to find a way to create content online because other examples are extroverts and I never felt like there was a space for me in video. You're showing in all of your content that there is. Thanks for the inspiration!

[@orthopraxic]

It s very exhausting for being myself. But dont want to be anyone else either

[@aliyahkairomonroe]

same

[@natemarx4999]

Lana is the only KZbinr that legitimately makes me smile ear-to-ear.

[@angelmathew1400]

Ashey BestDressed!

[@jovanakesar]

@@thefernwehtype Ahh, love Jonna!

[@lana8008]

When my name is also Lana 😏

[@khpatil19]

This was beautifully illustrated - the cinematography, your soft voice - I was so immersed in the chain of thought narrated that I was startled when you appeared to mention your sponsor.

[@CarolineOxfordIntuitionHub]

You've capture the day in the life of an INFJ so well!!!! It was like you were peeking into my mind. So glad this channel was randomly (or not so randomly thank you lady algorithm) suggested in my feed 😀 It wasn't until recently that I started to realise my inner dialogue was quite unique - but I wouldn't change a thing!

[@jj19900508]

INTJ here. I can relate to a lot of this living inside my head and pondering about what goes on behind the scenes. INTJ and INFJ share the same dominant introverted intuition and inferior extroverted sensing functions. But I see the world in much more of its mechanical form and less about the stories of individual humans that roams around. I see people engage in small talks where they take turns to politely listen to each other rant about stuff they couldn't care less about. I see people preaching their likes and dislikes without trying to have a deeper understanding of the system, its problems and inefficiencies. I see policymakers driven by political dogma instead of exercising practical wisdom. I see people in their self-serving nature, exploit the system and letting it fail while others work hard to preserve it.

[@tamara2384]

INTJ here, while I do agree with you, I still find my self wondering about the stories of individual people and how life has treated them.

[@sonyafirefly3879]

It's funny, because this is true (I'm an INFJ and my sister is an INTJ), but in a lot of ways INTJs are more deeply emotional and better at helping people than INFJs. My sister can help people with her Te, which means that she can make broader plans that get the problem sorted out more quickly. My need to be genuine doesn't allow me to do that; I feel like I'm being manipulative, and I'm more about helping the person understand themselves so they can make the changes through their own decisions and power.

[@sophiaredwood5825]

Dangggg... I never looked at it THAT in-depth, but thoughts like this do cross my mind too much to just be random. ENFP here; never thought I would connect to an INTJ in terms of thought process and perceiving the world. Is it a Te commonality, even if I have it third?

[@celestegobbi1704]

This video is amazing. It feels like your thoughts are complementing my own: I’m deeply invested in thoughts, but they’re mostly regarding my own inner world or how a person may be feeling, rather than their own story. It’s almost as if you gave me a window to see reality through the eyes of a dreamer without losing touch with it. I don’t know if I explained myself correctly or in a comprehensible way.

[@junusomari1519]

I’ve never heard of INFJs before but never have I heard someone describing my inner life so accurately... seriously I pondered many times if there are others... so thank you for this video! By the way I’ve discovered your channel not that long ago, but since then I really enjoyed your videos and gained a lot from them... thank you Lana and keep going!! 😊💪🏻

[@loudi1703]

Just stumbled across your channel , binged - watched your videos and I just love how instructive and calming your videos are. KZbin really has become a platform of learning and developing yourself thanks to people like you ❤️❤️❤️

[@michellec8714]

I'm an INFJ and I can relate so much! Overthinking is a huge issue for me.

[@OuterWorldMovement]

Yes,same for me. Sometimes when my parents or relatives go out.and they don't come back on time,I start to overthink and start thinking bad things that could've happened to them.

[@ReynaSingh]

The best way to live is by being authentic to ourselves. Thank you Lana!

[@briandsouza7854]

Agree with you on this one!

[@slowlivingbhutanese]

Couldn’t agree more

[@minecraftstation6422]

Nice advice 👍🏼

[@danawitdada6701]

OMG your voice is so calm and relaxing

[@jameshall1782]

Thank you so much for this video. You just summarized the same thoughts and feeling that I go through daily as well. It is so helpful to see others think the same way. Those shots of the streets are so amazing. I could stare at them for hours just taking in the beauty of the people and buildings at the same time. Thanks again. It meant a lot.

[@lucasjunior7207]

i'm so really happy that i found this channel, like it has making me be a better me

[@NRizki]

Thank you, Lana.This is an accurate representation of what's going on inside my head 24/7. (I'm an INFJ-T btw)

[@pineapple4578]

I am an INFJ as well and this video perfectly illustrated my inner world. So much resonance. Thank you Lana

[@raracinta]

as an ENFJs, i relate a lot to this and your content. i'm glad we met, lana.

[@1tecito]

As an INFP I think an INFJ friend would be ideal 💛

[@nielle_ong]

That't true i have a best friend for life INFP although she's very outgoing with her thoughts she always supports like hey that's right and whenever I'm overthinking😊

[@SanjaySkar]

This is so well done that I felt like someone else is explaining what's inside my own head! 😊 Thank you for this!

[@JewelGlowASMR]

I just discovered this channel. Her soft voice is like a natural asmr. It makes me calm. I enjoy her videos.

[@bradm1813]

Thanks Lana! I love hearing the thoughts from a fellow infj; makes me feel more human/normal :)

[@illustrateddot]

Literally my thoughts throughout the day is 'what can I do now to make my life more purposeful'. Constantly thinking for the future, and never letting myself relax or unwind. Can be frustrating yet also rewarding so I wouldn't have it any other way 👌

[@fromaudreykao]

this is honestly the most beautiful video i've seen in a long time 🥺 i'm an isfj, yet i still relate so strongly to this video - especially what you said about turning bad dates into counselling sessions for the other person 😅 as always thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts with us, lana 💕

[@rohygge9671]

I do wish I knew more INFJ's in my real life, as an INFP I relate so much to many of these thoughts and curiosities. I understand now why your videos always feel so comforting and fascinating :)

[@marziation1]

Omg people here actually understand me :"")) people around me, they don't..

[@Infj_s]

Being an INFJ, I really appreciate this. I wanted to laugh and cry at the same time. Absolutely beautiful 😭✨

[@maryblue8643]

6:15 -6:30 Just let loose and be in the moment ..."if I cant even pass a bright purple flower, a beautiful building or a drawing to admire it, how much more in the moment can a person be?" This.

[@BookWorm2369]

We can be present but it doesn’t last long

[@taleswithtiff]

Thankful I’ve come across this, beautifully executed & well-spoken, as if your thoughts could very well be my conscious. As an INFJ, your voice is very soothing & I can feel the depth of all the existential questions I ask myself on a daily basis as well. Grateful to come across your channel! ✨

[@SepiaDragoonGR]

As an INFJ, this video drew me in to take a look after countless others that failed due to my arrogance that no one understands me. No one really gets me. Then the intro to this video happened. You could, and i'm not over exaggerating, make a romantic movie or mini film with the amount of intricate ways you express. This... is what i'm going through... I see someone who does great work, with steel effort and commitment, and even if it doesn't yield them favorable results, i lift their spirits as high as they allow me. You have talents, pursue them!

[@vibewithzahra]

I'm an INFP, but still here. 🇵🇰

[@carolinah2130]

Same here! lol

[@gravityfalls8758]

Yey!

[@alexriffel1843]

Idk if infj or infp, but not that i care anymore, just love to see beatiful minds speak and feel sad and joyful at the same time

[@laceyryan8498]

“It’s like we’re 8 billion small worlds walking around in one big world.” Wow

[@cedricburkhart3738]

You just have one world inside you? I thought most people had more but I guess not.🤔

[@fatimazahrah3995]

this video was a breath of fresh air! as an infj i related to everything! you seem like a wonderful person!

[@denielkailabine6614]

Your voice is so calm. I love it. Subscribed.

[@mafxot]

For some reason your voice is really soothing and nice to listen to.

[@BensonGitau]

Hi Lana, Thanks for the incredible videos! I actually was inspired by you and other creators here and decided to finally start a KZbin channel. I love the KZbin community already. I am looking forward to many more videos.

[@valentinaramirez432]

The painting thoughts was so accurate. I think about that all the time, but with my dreams. This was so relatable and beautiful, thank you

[@tracym2246]

Great video....thoughts running all day and trying to make sense of all of them. Keep up the good work!

[@marvelarraya1040]

Love your content, keeps me positive all day 👍

[@Nikki-qi4ki]

I've totally embraced my INFJ status and as a counselor in training it's helped my to better understand and sympathize with my patients :) Thank you for talking on the subject!

[@amandagarcia9022]

Such a pleasing video! Visually and personally ✨

[@ana-maria448]

So true. You described it so well. That overthinking and contradictory ideas and trying to be honest to ourselves.

[@deltharramorghal8130]

"I wish I could paint with my thoughts alone..." Been dreaming of this for so long now. Wouldn't it be amazing to do such a thing?

[@LanaBlakely]

It'd be awesome!