A Southerner Reacts: Breakfast with the Whittakers (Part 2)

Mark and the Soft White Underbelly team are back in Odd, West Virginia to see how the Whittaker family is doing and show some of the home improvements made possible by Mark, his team and generous GoFundMe contributions.
To make a donation to the Whittakers, Mark has set up a GoFundMe which can be found here www.gofundme.com/f/bwf4r-help...
Our original reaction video can be watched here: • A Southerner Reviews -...
The video reviewed in this episode can be watched here:
• Breakfast With the Whi...
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[@kathycolon3410]

Mark is doing a great job, he’s not laughing or exploiting them, he’s helping them come out of their shells so they can open up and let all of their viewers , fans and people that are helping get to know and understand them. So far he’s doing a great job ! God Bless you Mark 🙌

[@kingcosworth2643]

I'm blown away with how much personality oozes from Ray without being able to speak a word.

[@edyharris7773]

Oh yes .

[@barbarajohnson9050]

Mark is amazing… I’m glad he asked about the parents, I was also curious. It was nice to hear about their background The house, outside and inside is much better! Such an amazing change. A lot of junk has been removed.

[@CB_-xu7rc]

Now that's family. These people didn't asked to brought into this world. They just need a little help like most of us in one way or another. What Mark is doing is great for them. I assume he's asking the questions a lot of us want to know but wouldn't ask. That being said, it doesn't matter now. They are family and clearly stuck together. My prayers for all of them to remain healthy and happy. ❤

[@edyharris7773]

No I disagree , mark is just treating the Whitaker's normal !

[@edyharris7773]

I think Ray is some what aware of woman ,

[@edyharris7773]

I agree

[@carol-xv3zf]

Also your constantly interrupting the video.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Sorry Carol...That's the nature of these type of videos. I a sorry...

[@jamjamlove3634]

Mark asks questions we want to know because to help someone is to understand them so you know what help their need. In fact I wish he asked them more questions like how they were brought up all 16 kids when did Lorraine stop talking and why ray don’t talk. Trauma is not easy to talk about but it’s how one becomes free and start healing.

[@stacyray25]

Mark ask all the California folks about their parents and family as well. I think he does a great job asking tough questions! He is curious as we all are about people that are not like us!! I think that is why marks channel is so successful is that he asks the difficult questions!! Mark is amazing!!

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Agree Mark’s work is amazing. He brings the untold stories to life.

[@ralphcantrell3214]

It certainly does look like EVERYBODY is trying to cash in on the Whitaker's newfound popularity, including a plethora of "lesser" KZbinrs who are using Mark's original footage.

[@carrieblackman8582]

😂😂😂

[@ryankenealy4837]

💯

[@ruethais-williams1021]

Thanks to Mark for his study of this unique family. His insightful questions have provided answers most of us have no knowledge of. Inbred subcultures exists and we need to know more about them. ♥️

[@bobbilindsey]

i think mark did an amazing job with everything he has done with this family even his question s he did awesome job

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

I commend all of Mark's work. He gives a voice to the voiceless and documents stories no one else will. His ability to bring these stories to life is remarkable and he deserves all of his accolades.

[@juanitabrooks1811]

There's nothing wrong with his ??? He asks everyone where they are from & about their parents or childhood,,its natural questioning 🤔

[@sunsetstormx]

This is a completely different situation. These people are very unique and special and you have to relate to them in a different way.

[@kingcosworth2643]

Exactly, they are questions you would ask of anyone, is he is treating them as equals and not as 'simple folk'

[@nancyvrba2179]

They do the best they can. They seem like a happy family.

[@livingthedreaminvegas]

Kenneth probably takes them grocery shopping and helps out. If it wasn't for Kenneth, a stranger would take advantage of that family and the funds.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

You may certainly be right. I do hope that is the case.

[@jamjamlove3634]

Larry is the one that takes them grocery shopping doctors appointments Betty said it. Larry just just doesn’t like being in front of the camera but Betty said Larry really helps her but Kenneth does do the cooking in the evening chop wood etc

[@TommyLove-ck7tw]

I think you are over critical. Mark is responsible for them having what they do. You are taking advantage of what Mark has done by your reviews.Lets face it you are making money off of them also.

[@painpatientsaddiction3640]

Of course he is

[@lsteber9774]

Who knows...perhaps these people are angels among us, trying to teach us about caring, about love, about giving, about acceptance and so much more. Sorry, today is the first I've seen/heard of the Whittakers so I had a lot to say!

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

So happy to learn that you’ve discovered this family. Mark has done amazing work to bring their story to life. Thanks so much for you comments!

[@lfirehorse7225]

Front porch sitting is a major part of my life here in Alabama. I believe it's just our 'thing,'

[@sandrabugler9813]

Your questioning the presence of Kenneth. Its a big family and maybe they all want to be together. Mark is a smart man and can see what's going on and you're just casting shade on the situation. I find you to be offensive.

[@dawnemyers5056]

I think Kenneth is moved because the help MRk has started. Before they met at Walmart Kennsth said he hardly ever seen the family and now Kenneth is next door and don't miss out on anything Mark does for them.

[@bearlyhumanindahood1351]

He has allot of background with them. You want to be Mark.

[@dianemalone9496]

Kenneth was raised in the same environment. He needs support too! We have no idea what Kenneth has been through in his life. Looks like he's helping the family in many ways. God bless them all 🙏

[@dorothymoye207]

My first time watching this....if there is negative "blowback", as you refer to negative comments, you richly deserve it, sir. The ONE thing that ruined this for me, was your endless criticism of Mark.

[@carol-xv3zf]

you really should not project your feelings and emotions, on these films, and how upset you are about certain things, or why bother showing them.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Ok. Thanks for your comment.

[@Supraordinare]

Mark is definitely out of his element. He is definitely from LA. My parents and grandparents born down south moved upnorth here in Indiana. It would be nothing to see 5, 6, 7 family on the porch. It was funny. Cars would ride by in awe of what was going on and it was a typical day. Those who knew us would stop by to say Hi or just honk and wave. Miss those days

[@sharonschumaker8873]

Amen

[@bearlyhumanindahood1351]

You sound very jealous. Thet love Mark and seem eager to answer his questions. Sounds ridiculous. Ray adores Mark.

[@debbiehatfield9565]

I don't care what anyone else says Mark is very professional they love him. Mark you have a big heart love you so much great work excellent job 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Mark was NOT laughing at Ray, he understands them more then you'll ever k own, the are very comfortable around Mark and why not bring up everyday things don't treat them different. I love your work Mark ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

[@mindy7638]

I think you should open your mind a little bit more. Maybe you were bullied when you were younger if so I'm very sorry about that. I feel Mark's questions about their parents. Is a way to get them to open up and talk a bit more. Just because they might have been related doesn't mean, they were bad, Mark could be getting them to remember when they were young and happy, when they kids and didn't have as many worries. At the same time he's opening our eyes about different people from different places. Heck I'm up in northern ontario canada. And I've been watching the Whittakers from the beginning. They're a truly sweet caring family. When Mark asks about Ray and girls, there's no shame in that, he's an adult, he's a man. Probably felt more included to be asked such things. The giggles you heard was more like when a 5 year old surprises the family by saying yes I gotta a girlfriend. It's sweet, it's surprising, it's endearing. Nothing about it is to make fun. At least thats the way I seen it. Mark also had no way of knowing Betty was sexually abused. And he left it alone. But if certain subjects aren't disgust than how will others learn and be able to provide assistance if possible. If no one knows of the hardships other suffer?

[@Danimal77]

Betty wasn't sexually abused. It was Lorraine that was sexually abused.

[@okeydokeya]

The Whittaker’s are a happy family. We cannot judge them by the way they live, that’s all they have ever known. People expect this family to live with standards that the average American family lives by and this will never happen. Accept them for the way they are. Mark does a wonderful job of educating people about what happens in the real world. He is a photographer, not a social worker or minister. I am certain he has never experienced or understands their way of life, so one cannot judge Mark on how to talk to the Whittaker family. It’s easy to sit back and criticize, but it’s another thing to actually do the hard work Mark is doing to educate the rest of us! Keep doing what you’re doing, Mark!

[@lsteber9774]

I don't think Mark intends to be disrespectful with his questions. I think this type of family situation being rare these days, people like Mark truly want to know how these things can occur in modern America. His language and questions should include very simple words as well as a minimum of words, maybe as one would converse with a third or fourth-grader.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

I totally agree! He means no disrespect for sure. It takes skill to communicate effectively with cognitively challenged individuals. I don’t judge him at all how he interacts. I call to light, but he is doing amazing work.

[@kingcosworth2643]

The Whittaker's don't appear to find the questions disrespectful, they are answering them happily.

[@Monica-gene1]

Not from the south but my mom up until the day she died this year would never let anyone go home without something from the garden or whatever she cooked. We were not poor but she was a good soul!

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Amazing testament to your mom’s character. So cool!

[@cathybutler5291]

Mark is asking the questions we all want to know….

[@meganmccampbepl1321]

I think Mark was just trying to learn about them and was just asking questions that most people normally ask when trying to get to know each other. He just ask them in more of an interview style than a conversation format. I don't believe he meant any harm.

[@sheilaburnett3370]

Well I grew up in East Tn very poor. An outdoor toilet had to walk a distance to even go! 3 room house, I am the baby of 7 siblings. Didn't have hot water in our house and there were cracks you could see it snow from the ceiling. We heated with a wood stove and coal if we were lucky to purchase it. But it made me Who I am today appreciating life. When I saw Betty give Mark's sister the squash I knew she was very sincere and it made her feel good to give something. I am and have been a care giver for the Department of Intellectual, Developmental, Disabled individuals most of my life. I think when you have been poor you want to give more than receive. I now have 2 developmental disabled adults that live in my home with me that I care for. I like to think I can make a difference in the quality of life. I enjoy watching the Wittickers family, and see the journey they are on. They are a close family who care about the other and Betty appears to be the mother figure. I can't wait until the next episodes and see them advance if only a little at a time. I do feel their private sexual life should be kept private as much as possible. I wouldn't want anyone tell about my privacy.

[@AllBetsAreOff-zt7xx]

You seem to be a lovely person, inside and out.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

You also have an amazing life and have given back to society more than any of us can imagine. Your work is so challenging and difficult and it takes someone stronger than most to do it. I commend you and your entire life story. It is people like you that give me hope that good, self-sacrificing people still exist. Your comment about the squash resonates so strongly. I remember the first time I watched the video and saw Betty giving the squash and feeling so proud about the Appalachian culture. We always share our table, garden, back, and anything else we have with our neighbors. They have so little but still want to give Mark and his assistance something straight from the garden. Thanks so much for your comments and tremendous story. You have brightened my day and I hope others are challenged by your amazing work.

[@maryowens8763]

Thank you for telling your story. I was raised exactly like you, every bit as poor, and when I tell people they don’t believe me. I believe growing up poor makes a person really appreciate what have, but at the same time it make them want to help others which I have done many times.

[@sunsetstormx]

I truly appreciate what you shared. I love the IDD community. Personally i worked in special education for over 10 years and group homes with adults. My heart just loves to help and support and listen to that population. I'm hoping that I find some new opportunities in my life to do those things again. It's been a long time. Thank you for all that you're doing for these people. It really touches my heart to read your story.

[@louisewright2231]

I strongly admire Mark, he is a humble guy. And the assistant that just comes along with Mark and his in and cooks breakfast for them, she doesn't mind the shape or condition inside they're home, I saw a segment where Mark is trying to help them buy a lot nicer home. Or at least help them out with the financial end of things. Lots of love to the Whitaker's and Mark. Keep bringing those videos Mark.

[@briangunter4038]

Problem is you're jealous of Mark and all you do is put the guy down you tell him how much you love the guy then you put the guy down everything he says the other type of kid that can pick on at school and you hide your mother's basement

[@donadavis1178]

You can see some of the hurt on bettys face. It is their way of protecting timmy and lorraine

[@tammytellez3481]

I can’t wait until Mark goes to visit the Whittakers again this spring it’s still too cold right now, I think about them often… Marks the BEST!!!

[@Danimal77]

He did and he took them out for haircuts.

[@kingcosworth2643]

I have seen families living in way worse conditions than these people. It's not great, but it could be much worse.

[@janmurphy9554]

Mark, My heart goes out to this Family. My heart is with Betty. I pray she will stay healthy. I love his courage to help. Mark is a great Man to do this. God be with them all. God is Good Amen.

[@judysteadman799]

Mark has been sharing this Precious family for many many years. He's awesomeness with everyone. ❤❤❤ so very grateful that go fund me has helped this family. Clearly he loves them and they love him.

[@jaberone1]

Mark is doing a good job. We want to know how they think and what they feel. We don't want your opinion. Here to see the Whitakers and not listen to you. This is part of their life which is fascinating.

[@kingcosworth2643]

The Whittakers obviously feel comfortable enough to discuss their history , even the bad stuff, with Mark, they didn't at the start. Like you say, they don't look back, so discussing it I doubt rattles them to much.

[@sheilaburnett3370]

I would love to go spend some time with them to offer support and help in anyway I could.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Yes, they need so much support. Happy family but needs help.

[@barbarafollett3430]

Sorry, I don't like your commentaries, I have watched this from day 1, Mark is a amazing, kind, caring person! I think he is great, and I will not be watching your broadcasts any more......

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Barbara: thanks for your comments. Milton Friedman would approve.

[@barbarasledge963]

Add me to the list. His man comes across as him being jealous of Mark. You know nothing about these people other than what you've learned from Mark.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

@@barbarasledge963 thanks for your comments Barbara. You are free to choose but I imagine that whole reference went over your head. Have a great day. Cheers from Saigon.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

and you obviously don't watch the videos. I credit Mark and the work his done on so many occasions and tell the viewers to go to the GoFundMe page. You are just a troll... an uneducated troll who would do well to read up on Friedman and other great authors.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Maybe Barbara can be the next Karen. Take a breath and enjoy life for a few minutes. Find some joy and love and embrace it. I wish you the very best even if you hate me and my commentary. :)

[@edyharris7773]

Mark is doing a WONDERFUL JOB !!!

[@darleneriffle2151]

It's very nice you're helping them people God bless you

[@destinyranee8300]

Born & raised in southern WV & I must say people judge us a lot but there’s not a lot of places in the US and meet nice simple minded people who have a close family that actually put the electronics down and just be a family but here in WV this happens alot. Not everyone is inbred in our state also, nothing beats a simple life home made meals growing a big garden frying up green tomatoes drinking ice tea setting on the front porch on a cool evening with family. I’d give my last penny to do that with my momaw & popaw again it’s the simple life the new generation never gets to experience due to being glued to a game system or phone it’s a shame. I pray this family gets donations and live a happy healthy life and more help is provided. Take this video and really look at the big picture they are happy together happy with what they have don’t want for nothing not worried about a thing. Please don’t judge they didn’t ask to be born into this lifestyle but they are making best with what they have it’s beautiful. Love these videos hope he continues to update us through the years. ❤

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Destiny, amazing commentary. I’ve been to WV many times and it is some of the most beautiful country in the entire world. The state has some of the hardest working people in the world but least rewarded. In many ways WV keeps richer states powered and empowered while others benefit. Cheers from Vietnam.

[@kingcosworth2643]

I think this part of America is the last place in the Western world that allows the freedom to live a simpler life, and the landscape is gorgeous as well.

[@kathyskalby5890]

There is nothing wrong with any of the questions Mark is asking. If you notice if it's a question they feel uncomfortable with they will not answer.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Kathy, many thanks for your comments and for adding to the discussions.

[@wendyjones8949]

Growing up in SC I remember sitting on the porch with my grandparents talking, drinking lemonade or drinking tea and watching the cars go by waving at those we recognized.

[@karenrunaas9738]

The guy is doing a wonderful job on interviewing these wonderful people.I think the questions he asks r appropriate they may seem too personal but we all like to know what their lives were like growing up, that's questions any reporter would ask.I think hes doing a great job and helping them financially I feel is wonderful,he has a good heart.He is very respectful and really likes these people.He had built a great friendship with this family.Keep up the good work u r awesome and very careing and giving.Thank u for all u do for this family.Things like what ure doing for this family makes God happy to c.keep up the awesome work.I love watching the videos.God Bless this family and the reporter.

[@kingcosworth2643]

Exactly, to learn about someone you have to dig a little, and nobody has to answer if they don't want, in the earlier videos, there was a lot of answers that Betty kept very basic as not to devolve that much. His questions are fine. And asking Ray about girls is fine, Ray may be simple but he's still a human male, who is interested in women, and it's a question you would ask a 10 year old child to illicit a blush, if there is a girl at school they like. He's treating him as an equal.

[@karensands3423]

U keep criticising mark but wot southerners helped until mark done his video's

[@laswan5]

Betty said nobody came to see them or help them anymore and then Mark came around about TEN YEARS AGO. Helping them. He said it took awhile before they let him get to know them.

[@debrad7616]

How is he supposed to get to know them with out as you say prodding? No matter what he asks the answer is yes or no, nothing else. What would you be asking?

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Thanks for your comments Debra. Have an amazing day!

[@suzannspann6923]

Mark does a great job. He is letting us know that they are real people and gives us their backstories. If you looked at the Whittakers you would see that they enjoy talking to Mark. Mark has been able to help them so much by giving us a good understanding of this family. In my opinion, your comments are the worst thing here.

[@suzannspann6923]

I got here thinking I was watching something on Mark's channel but now I see that you have a few of his on your channel. Also, they seem to be the ones with your highest views. Dude!

[@louisewright2231]

A legend he is, i agree I love the one where Ray has a knee thats bothering him poor guy just wants somebody to pay attention to him. Take him to the doctor's. But then again Ray probably doesn't like to go to the doctor's. Love to all.

[@PennysLifeWithLove]

So why are you doing a go fund me on the Whittaker’s? Mark is already doing that and doing a great job

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

I'm referring people directly to Mark's GoFundMe and giving him all the credit. He is the driver of their support.

[@kingcosworth2643]

Asking 'If you would of liked a boyfriend?' is the same as asking someone if those chose a different path in life, They are not career people, family is all they have.

[@ladonnagaither2279]

You're never to late to learn sign language...that would be so neat for them !!

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Agree totally. I would love to see them all communicate effectively. I think Ray would have an amazing story to tell even if it is at his cognitive level. Would be brilliant.

[@kwpp7]

I don't know that he could learn sign language, but I think both Ray and Timmy would benefit tremendously from learning how to use a speech device.

[@Septemberwitch24]

But you do have to have the mental capacity to learn‼️

[@ottelisezipporah-isadora8070]

Mark asks the questions that people want to hear. That's why the Whittakers get the help that they do. The more people know about them, the more empathetic people would become. I think that Mark treats the Whittakers with respect and he is a good journalist. I think that your perspective on Mark in this area, is off.

[@SilentEchoes91]

They're all lovely but Ray is my favorite lol he's made me laugh so hard 😄 Like when he was showing Mark his chew and then hacked 🤣 oh I lost it. Sorry if this sounds mean I don't want it to. Ray is a legend 🙌

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Ray is a legend of legends. It would be so difficult to get mad at Ray. He is so innocent and just does Ray stuff.

[@AllBetsAreOff-zt7xx]

@@GlobalNews-and-Reviews Ray Ray lives in the moment. The rest of us should be so lucky.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

@@AllBetsAreOff-zt7xxPreviously someone mentioned how great a fishing buddy Ray would be... To a southerner, no greater comment is ever needed. Somone who can just go plain fishing with... What a testament to Ray.

[@SilentEchoes91]

😊

[@debbiehatfield9565]

Mark is God Send he sees good any soul God Bless You Mark you will be very rewarded thank you so much 🙏 🫂🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Their entire team does amazing work.

[@martiwest2594]

Overthink things? Are u trying to kid us right nor dude? I thank God I was never a victim of this horrible afflication. Aren’t u sir? I simply detest when I ask a question in which I already know the answer!

[@bettybailes2157]

I watch them every time this comes on and sometimes I'll even watch it twice

[@georgeself5476]

Where are you from in Australia? And why are you reviewing Mark’s US videos?

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Was born in Athens, Tennessee. Spent most years before college in Etowah, Tn. Went to undergrad at Hiwassee College and UTC. Then left for Chicago and lived all over the USA and World since then. My parents still live in that area and my brother lives in Knoxville. So, there is that. I have spent a lot of time in Australia and have had a lot of Australian colleagues but my heart will always be in Appalachia. Trout fishing on the Tellico river. Shopping for Christmas in Gatlinburg. Backpacking portions of the Appalachian trail. Eating mamaws biscuit and gravy. Helping papaw feed the cows and bailing hay every summer. Canning corn. Jarring kraut. :)

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Anything else?

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Happy New Year and cheers from Vietnam.

[@sunsetstormx]

I love the heart of the man who is showing this video. What a beautiful soul. I'm on the same page. I feel sad and grieved with Mark asked these questions. It just hurts my heart.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Appreciate your thoughtful feedback. Have a great week. Best regards from Vietnam.

[@sunsetstormx]

@@GlobalNews-and-Reviews Awe, thank you. I see an empath in you. Thank you for your kind comment about this precious family, especially Ray.

[@davidpaesch1433]

I love Ray because he is so real and innocent, sweet man!!!!!!!

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

A contagious smile from ear to ear.

[@martiwest2594]

First of all I am not a man, Brilliance, marti is the short version of Martha not Martin! I just love people that comment about Anything without doing any sort of research, you sweetheart are that person.

[@martiwest2594]

And u have my pity Te I agree with u about ray is with historical challenges He’s more of a man than any of my husbands were

[@bryanbradley6871]

Someone should teach Ray, Timmy and Lorraine sign language since they can't speak and it would definitely be easier to teach them instead of speaking

[@roylivingston9085]

I believe a speech therapist could help them alot.

[@bryanbradley6871]

@@roylivingston9085 i think they might be too old, sign language would be much easier for them because they don't need speak

[@briarrose5208]

Speech therapy might help Timmy. He enjoys learning. Lorraine can speak clearly! She is just shy and quiet. This happens in large families, even those of normal intelligence. One or two members will just be very quiet and let others do most of the talking. I don’t think Speech therapy could help Ray. I think the part of his brain that is responsible for speech didn’t develop properly. He seems to understand most of what people say. Maybe ASL could help him communicate better. Then he wouldn’t get so frustrated. The porch looks much cleaner than it used to. I wonder who cleaned it up? And the Whittakers all look happier and healthier. I think they’ve been eating better since Kenneth has been helping with the cooking. I don’t think he’s been mooching off of them, or if he has, not much.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

This has been said a lot. I’m ignorant on sign language and it’s applications. So many comments have mentioned it that I think it would be interesting to see if it can help them communicate.

[@maryloufangman4086]

It would change their life! Just signing feelings and objects would be enough.

[@lsteber9774]

You are an incredible narrator for this. It is clear you accept and respect these people as they are, as well as understand there are serious genetic(probably) issues and challenges in each of them. I think it is very clear you are on the side of this amazing family and understand them much better than the average person would.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Thanks you for this comment. Having received so much negativity about the videos I so appreciate your feedback. Thanks for watching and seeing the actual message of acceptance and love toward this family I was trying to get across. Thanks so much!

[@sunsetstormx]

I agree I think this narrator is totally amazing. He's an empath. A very caring man.

[@lfirehorse7225]

@@GlobalNews-and-Reviews it was an awesome way to deal with the subject matter: a family who is very different from most of us, yet seem to know how to BE A Family better than many of us. Great job! I agree with you on how some subjects were addressed, even though I like Mark's work.

[@jesterbargus333]

I understand what you mean about Mark probing into the family’s history, but I do understand as well that I mean for better getting to know the family, someone has to ask these things. If anything what I can find annoying a bit is that he asks certain things over and over and over again. And at times draws attention to the family’s conditions. Even once telling Betty that she too must share the mental ailments that affect, Lorraine, Ray and Timmy. Or even more noticeably telling Kenneth: Your eyes are off, while true, there are other ways to say it. When it comes to laughing about Ray, I doubt at all it was mean spirited. Ray is of course a grown man, but with the way he perceives the world it’s no different than asking a child “Do you have a girlfriend?” Yeah some will laugh at them, but it’s a matter of education. Those of us who have a bit more respect towards our neighbors, our laughs come from a place of tenderness and warmth, we laugh at how adorable and innocent Ray is.

[@jesterbargus333]

I correct myself on one thing, he doesn’t imply that betty must share the ailments. Mark actually makes it a fact that she’s mentally ill. That is not right.

[@kgoody3834]

Mark said Kenny didn't get a penny from the go fund me he cuts wood for a living and most likely gets government assistance!

[@lisakrueger5309]

Yes, he works hard for a living.

[@jojoperez6454]

I, for one, am interested in each one's perspective and description of their parents, I learn quite a bit about a person by listening to their memories of their parents. I have grown to love this family because of the questions that Mark asks.

[@legendliz]

Hes just speaking to them like he would speak with his friends. Treating ray as an equal. Ray is more smart than you give him credit for. I don't see the problem with asking questions and bantering like he would do with friends.

[@lsteber9774]

GlobalReveler you are a very wonderful guy. It is clear you sincerely, and genuinely care about everyone in this family. You show a lot of insight into, and human compassion for these sweet people who do not understand nor even recognize they are different. Lastly, as a Kentuckian, I too have wonderful childhood memories of our family sitting on the porch and talking to neighbors after supper and on weekend evenings.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

I miss those summer evenings with my grandparents (mamaw and papaw) just enjoying the time and drinking sweet tea. Sometimes it be after I mow their yard and I’d be covered in grass but I’d sit their until the mosquitos drove us inside. :)

[@lsteber9774]

@@GlobalNews-and-Reviews Yes, yes, yes. I wish more people understood and experienced the absolute joy of life's simple pleasures.

[@dranepipes2078]

Completely agree with you, Global Reveler! We're Southerners too! Yes!

[@LINDSAY-ub4yq]

It's more $ for them and if they know anything It's how to get freebies and keeping it in the family.

[@sherilynnantz7977]

I’d hate to think what may be going on with Kenneth when no one is around

[@kingcosworth2643]

Remember, what most of the country deem as 'traumatic' these people deem it as 'normal' They are not rattled, you know when someone is rattled.

[@paulaainsworth3681]

Ray.... he is why I wanted to be a special ed teacher. Nation wide, services were passed with Public Law 94-142 in 1977. Before that many children were kept home and not educated. The rural-ness of where they live has a lot to do with their lives and its all they know.

[@stevenericlutz]

I tend to agree with most of your criticisms here. Also agree that Mark has done more good than bad.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Thanks for your comments Steve. Appreciate you adding to the discussions.

[@bryanbradley6871]

Actually they just answered it in this Video and it was our beloved Ray Ray. 17:00 pay attention very close and they said it around 17:00 to 17:20 They said Ray physically "took" a woman long ago

[@kingcosworth2643]

@@bryanbradley6871 You should listen closely, they said that was the allegation. Easy to pin something like that on a simple person who can't speak, nobody knows if anything happened. Conviction without evidence causes real issues.

[@sharontree7272]

kenneth isn’t mootching. he is helping this family. a lot

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

I hope you are right and it may be unfair to criticize Kenneth. I do hope he is helping the family a lot. I think it probably can be said that Larry has helped and continues to help (driving them wherever they need to go and being across the road since the beginning of the series)...

[@meganmeg]

Well said. Kenneth is one of the family as well. He appears to be a lonely soul and have challenges of his own. Not one, other person in that family, appears to have a issue with Kenneth. He himself said, he chops wood seven days a week for them. I believe him. For a man of his age that is no easy task. I agree with you.

[@singlewhitefemale1707]

What's wrong with asking about their parents?? It's a Major part of this family. It may be incest, but they are still their parents. Nothing wrong with asking how they were. The way you criticize Mark with your questions leads me to believe you don't like him as much as you say. Doesn't matter though. Mark still continues to help this family. He's done more than anyone else and will continue to do so.

[@karenaguilar8116]

Curious, why do you recap Mark's interviews? These can be watched on the Soft White Underbelly channel.

[@melissal5645]

Who is this guy?! I don't care what your thoughts and feelings are. Let Mark do his interview with the Whittikers, and stop talking!

[@AdrienneAdkins-Davis]

I would like to know what you`ve done for the family. Your criticisms of Mark are unwarranted. Mark asks the hard questions because he wants to know where they come from so we can all be more compassionate and understanding. Ease up on Mark!

[@janelleblaylock2715]

THey need help to get the bathroom in sanitary condition

[@laswan5]

Go help them then. They've lived that way forever. There's a lot of people okay with living that way.

[@susangoodman6638]

I’m in Kentucky and we definitely sit around on the porch

[@sherilynnantz7977]

Larry is a good brother

[@Judymotto742]

Mark Latia is Rock star ❤

[@kingcosworth2643]

I think asking about the parents is fine, knowing about them gives everybody a better idea of who these people are, it's about getting to know them as a family as well.

[@Monica-gene1]

I feel bad for the dogs 😢

[@johnharrison6745]

The dogs seem LOVED though.

[@EuleneWages4644]

Why ??the dogs R fat and happy.they r not on chains.they are very protective of their owners.im sure if the crew weren't there theyd be running in yard or woods.

[@seichorn4079]

give me a dumpster, 2 guys and 2 hours and I could make a huge impact on their living conditions.

[@tracyborchardt152]

I like the way you're sincere in your comments, real respectful. I've watched other soft white underbelly episodes plus all the episodes with the Whittaker's and I agree about the questions Mark asks, some of them might be to detailed. He should just relax and let them talk to him. I'm from Texas and even though I don't live in the country I have sat outside on my porch with my family just enjoying the time, the quiet, the beauty. Maybe since Mark's not from the south he doesn't get it.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Tracy: Thanks for your comments. I'm glad that you noticed that I'm not being hypercritical of Mark as his work is phenomenal and goes well beyond his Whittaker's series. Much of my commentary is just talking about it like I would with friends or family. I very much appreciate your perspective and positivity. I don't fault Mark for not understanding the culture and I am simply adding to the discourse so we all learn together. In other videos by The Soft White Underbelly, Mark introduced topics that I have no clue about and it was highly educational. We learn from each other when we can have discourse without taking offense to every word that is spoken. ...and yes, I remember growing up and spending hours and hours during the summer sitting on my grandparent's porch drinking sweet tea and swatting the flies away. We live in a beautiful world and its great to be outside and breath the fresh air.

[@susandouglas5710]

I would love to meet this wonderful family😊❤

[@LawnBunny777]

Marks only interested in salacious details. Being a narcissist he doesn't really care about anything else. Very exploitive. He's fooled so many people. Your analysis is spot on

[@Monica-gene1]

I love Ray!

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

I think we all do!

[@davidpaesch1433]

I lived all over this country and I have found most people living like this will give to you and share with you what little they have.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Very true.

[@sharonschumaker8873]

I know ppl like this .hill ppl are the Greatest they,ll give the shirt off there back .they will invite you in to eat etc

[@user-uo4cy3id6d]

You said in the beginning lets not over think this! Why are you tearing apart everything Mark is doing for these people, theres probably more love on that porch than most have ever had in their lives..

[@janmurphy9554]

Yes that is what we did. Mark needs to make his questions . Make his sentences more on there level. It would make it much easier.

[@giaaziel6204]

I hope Mark is watching closely and keeping tabs on their money . I wish he would buy them a new mobil home with more rooms and bathrooms. I feel when it comes to big purchases , Mark should pay for it with the Go Funding money ! 💯💯💯👍

[@SP-ej4tb]

I remember an episode when Mark asked if their parents were brother and sister. I think.

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

Yes, I believe Betty was asked and never really answered... Likely does not comprehend the question.

[@glennjohnson558]

I unsubscribed and did not give a like for listening to you drone on and on and on about one male. (Who you confuse with Larry alot.) If you made a statement and move on would be plenty. Painful to listen to repeat after repeat. You might learn from the critique.

[@jamjamlove3634]

@@GlobalNews-and-Reviews if he don’t ask the questions how are you going to know them. Come off it these ain’t animals. You talking about how mark is asking them questions when to know one you must ask questions about their lives past present and then future. I don’t like how you are criticise mark for wanting the views to know and learn about this family. They not animals in a zoo or children clearly you can see and hear that they want to speak their truth. Ask ray about dogs? Not girls but didn’t ray reply how he had a girlfriend? You annoyed me if you’re criticises of mark

[@GlobalNews-and-Reviews]

@@jamjamlove3634 Thanks for your feedback and assessment. :)

[@pipsmommy]

I agree that Mark has been a very positive influence on their lives. Most of his questions are appropriate and help us understand their living conditions. Some of his questions make me feel uncomfortable because they cause the family relive painful and or emberrasing circumstances.

[@2036livy]

It's amazing how much Timmy looks like his Uncle Kenneth

[@WendySamples-zl7bq]

Well ray needed the ice broke so to speak rays got a sense of humor. My god that may be where rays mind was for all anyone knows.

[@happyinharned9583]

seeing a grocery haul would be interesting. or see what Betty makes for breakfast for them all.