Heartbreak Advice To LET GO & (Finally) Move On… (life changing)

[@AaronDoughty44]

Would you like me to answer one of your questions in my next KZbin video? Text me your question here: ➡ www.AaronDoughty.com/question

[@redmixed9584]

Thanks Aaron. You have no idea how much this video means to me at this point in my life.

[@rainspiritflower2385]

Aaron, please do a video for those of us recovering from early and recent trauma who have no friends or family at this point in time and are in danger of becoming the dreaded word,“ shut in” as you’d be helping a lot of people. Thank you💔 by the way, 60 really is the new 40 so no ageism please. Some of us will be making love to the day we die❤

[@Sibelcik]

Rumi quotes can still heal broken hearts, after more than 800 years! They are timeless. Here is another one for you, from Rumi: "Don't grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form."

[@haleyloving3575]

This is a great quote and so true . Thank you so much I needed this today.

[@888opulence]

Abandonment....heartbreak...betrayal....painful

[@dailypsychology01]

This video really resonated me. After personally going through a breakup in January I’ve had to really learn the meaning behind if it’s meant to be then it will be. Everything is neutral with no built in meaning besides the meaning we give it. Sometimes you love someone and unfortunately it just does not work. Sometimes it does work. But the important thing we have to remember is to keep moving forward because life is a journey. Let go. And as Aaron pointed out, keep going until your heart breaks open. Thank you for this 🙏🏽

[@Teresatoole21]

Me in January too! I feel this

[@AaronQuinnMusic-2024]

Very well said! 😎☺️🙌🙏

[@iamgoddessoflove]

Take time to heal from a breakup! Rushing into a relationship will only lead to more pain and heartache because you may not be ready yet. Healing is a process! Processing those emotions, doing your shadow work and falling in love with yourself again, will take you one step closer to attracting a healthy relationship that you deserve. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@Pas-t8z]

Today I let go of my best. There is no going back. Thank you universe.

[@robynszeliga6113]

My boyfriend died in a freak accident a few days ago right after he left for work. I'm heartbroken. We were talking about our future the night before, moving to land and having a child. I see a midwife tomorrow and I'm so lost. Thank you this has helped some.

[@dianaschoen4485]

Im so sorry!🙏😔❤️

[@Natalie-fo9pm]

I’m so sorry your going through this .

[@robynszeliga6113]

@@dianaschoen4485 thank you. It's been a journey....it will be for a while......

[@robynszeliga6113]

@@Natalie-fo9pm thank you. It's a hard hard journey. I think I'm still in shock.

[@gina-yh8hv]

So true! "Please choose me and prove I'm enough."

[@nativechique7589]

It comes n goes after the relationship I think

[@tino5735]

I needed this message. I've been struggling to let go of a woman I recently dated. I told myself all kinds of stories about her and the energy really was familiar from a couple different aspects from childhood. I also found this woman after I had put all sorts of energy and work into myself. I thought I finally found something that could turn into love, then she left out of the blue. I felt like all the work I did was for naught and that I was still broken and unworthy. But it's her stuff, not mine. The key to healing all of this is reclaiming my own energy and being vulnerable until I find the thing that works.

[@jebrock6820]

Same with me.

[@mzcolorsandhearts1521]

I remember the exact moment my heart broken open. It was absolutely life changing. ❤️

[@Godisfirst21]

That is one gorgeous home you live in. I'm very happy for you.

[@christalmoodley7419]

Turn your Pain into Power ✊. Thank you Aaron.

[@cspeegle06]

Jesus Aaron. The story I’ve been holding is “that is my child’s mother”… I suppose I wanted my dad to fight harder to keep our family together. 🤯

[@AaronQuinnMusic-2024]

The whole day yesterday I just knew today would be a life-changer! We share much more than a name my friend. Thank you for this gift of awareness. I’m taking my life back, today!

[@jebrock6820]

Heartbreak is the worst! I feel exactly the way you’ve described…what is wrong with me? And why don’t they want me anymore? What did I do? I can’t stop blaming myself for someone else lying/playing me for a year.

[@Godisfirst21]

I'm 50 Darlings.....it never stops breaking. It hurts no matter how spiritual you are. You have no control over break up pain.

[@splinx1819]

What a limiting belief😂👍

[@thejeff2469]

You can only control what you do with it

[@Godisfirst21]

@splinx1819 you are so right. That was me a year ago. Not my belief today. God bless you.

[@Godisfirst21]

@thejeff2469 I'm learning to put God first in my life these days and my belief is that what I can control...are my thoughts.

[@thejeff2469]

@@Godisfirst21 I'm glad you're doing better. Just coming out of my worst heartbreak but coming out stronger and wiser

[@misschiff5904]

Thanks Aaron, I needed this video 3 months ago, been struggling to deal with the rejection after being lead on by this person.

[@jacksoncox2343]

That Rumi quote is spot on and the most powerful relationship quote I’ve ever heard. This is a great video man, thank you for the work you put in making these videos.

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

Remember that your greatest talent is so much more powerful than your biggest fear.

[@kimasmes]

good timing. since I still do not get over her after 3 years. Saw your advice at first 2 years ago. Here we go again. Thank you for your vids. Greetings from germany!

[@Zentwitch]

God i hope it doesn’t fucking take me 3 years

[@ElliottPiano]

Thank you Aaron for being here for us .

[@monicaconway9935]

The cleaners in the background - priceless ! Love you Aaron - you are getting me through a difficult time. Bless you, and thanks for all your thought provoking and soul searching content - I am trying to implement everything you preach to heal and find inner peace. Thank you. Lots of love! X

[@autumnwolf884]

Thank you for making a heartbreak video I’m having such a hard time moving on I don’t understand why😒💔

[@pakistanimukbang5752]

What you seek is seeking you rumi

[@SRILANKANCHRISTIAN]

After going to your videos i start my own. trying to change my heart. Letting go everything. Thanks.

[@madhurimaroy1348]

I am going through a heartbreak and rejection now. And trust me whatever you said in your video I felt the same. I had the same feeling. I was not enough. I was not worthy etc. thank you Aaron for making this video, to come forth and talk about this issue , those feelings . It’s important for someone to normalise to talk about the vulnerability after heartbreak. Thank you. And after watching your video atleast I am feeling that nothing is wrong with me.

[@vanessahannam787]

I’m so happy I watched this, I teared up with the shadow work about childhood!

[@maliaeyler1450]

Today I am realizing that any being (Divine or human) of love wants you to be more aware of their love for you than you are of your shortcomings or weaknesses. God is sending someone into your life who is going to bless and help you. 💕🤗

[@rainspiritflower2385]

I sure hope so!!!

[@gloriam8493]

I love ur honesty,

[@yourfutureisnow6480]

The crack is how the light gets in.

[@jalynmwesigwa9204]

I like your confidence thank you Aaron more blessings on what you doing and teaching I changed completely I don't want him back he distructs me alot I moved on I accepted that nothing will workout I moved on Aaron I do what u teach me so that I regain my energy back and I did so however I will never forget him but I accepted and moved on yes

[@tinkerbellUK]

Sometimes the connection is deep.. we love people in different ways

[@Godisfirst21]

My heart hurts.

[@shinoyashino7995]

Nice clarification 🤔 that makes a lot of sense. Finally, I understand how we have such feeling as humans.

[@jayswindle9860]

I needed this i just got dumped by my girl on Valentine's day this year she was my first love. But this helped your the best man ! 🙏🏼

[@Iris11music]

This video is everything. It changed my life.

[@mitusj8538]

I want to breakdown and cry now 😭 😭 😭 Thank you Aaron ❤

[@julierobillard6630]

Thank you for this Aaron. I keep attracting myself to these videos because the messages inside of these are so relevant to my blocks in feeling secure and consistent love inside.

[@meem-5934]

Wallah you don’t know how much u helped me , thank u so much ❤️

[@esf24896]

I guess I need to listen this video everyday to put that in my mind

[@rebeccagrace1509]

The part that I finds hurts my heart the most: that side of us that's only brought out by that (missing*) person... truth: different people bring out different parts of us😎 "Better to have lived and lost... than never to have loved at all"...🙏🏾🌌😇 ~Shakespeare💌🕊

[@divinesparkcreations]

Thanks Aaron!💚💎🪷

[@tamimnoory2023]

Thank you so much your videos are uplifting and helped alot those in their spritual journeys !

[@millysmanifestations]

I’ve been broken-hearted for 5 months now I am ready to move on now, once and for all

[@haleyloving3575]

You are awesome , great coach

[@laurenx8961]

I wish I could thank you because you have changed my life 💜☮️

[@renee4460]

Thank you for this video. Still trying to get over my ex has been hard. Enjoy listening to you.

[@nick95productions]

Tired of the grief ? Anxiety? Heart break? Disappointment ? Heart racing as soon as you wake up? ….. The son sets you free from this

[@LoriSings65]

I hope so

[@Paintedportraitph]

Heart racing as soon as you wake up. How did you know. I wake up my heart racing fast. Even if i didnt dream about her or anything sad. Like my body just had a rest but my heart was awake the whole time fighting

[@sunsetoverl.a.1014]

This video was so amazingly helpful! Thank you, for this!!

[@thecunningslug]

You've helped me so much since my breakup a month ago, thank you Aaron 😊

[@jacksoncox2343]

Thanks for the video today Aaron! Hope you have a wonderful rest of your day

[@craftinggoodvibes4182]

Ok this video really made me stop and think. I’m newly separated from a 16 yr relationship marriage to a man that I’m very much in love with. But this video made me think. Think I may need to watch it again. Why are we so quick to blame these things on ourselves …? Loved the information and I feel as though you have really opened my mind. Thank you

[@JezTam]

Just when I needed this.

[@linahome1417]

Aaron I have learn that now, my heart are 🦋 always and life is short so I leave it and hope that I find someone how whant to share this with me and be with me. I don’t need some to take care of me I wan’t someone who wan’t to share life with me and have good life❤️from 🇸🇪🇬🇷

[@monicav.6702]

Thank you so much. This makes sense. Going through a break up.

[@Mikelk71]

Thank you 🙏 I needed this - this morning I am so dealing with this

[@sarae.2753]

You are not alone

[@Mikelk71]

@@sarae.2753 thank you and I realize me going back over and over again is me avoiding the pain, heartbreak, sadness, shame, regret that I need to walk though

[@cristianaradu72]

you helped me so much... ty aaron

[@noonevincecarterfan]

Great great points! Like accepting a short term painful surgery and rehab instead of keep on using painkillers. I flat out love your analogies!

[@shellpicken3874]

2nd time today heard this quote makes sense

[@stanzband]

This is actually really - on point !

[@marychapmanMJ777]

This is brilliant and so well explained. Thank you Aaron

[@marychapmanMJ777]

Sorry I am in England ❤

[@7Earthsky]

Powerful stuff.

[@reticulizeta7351]

thank you for this video Aaron!

[@R_I_L_Y]

Hey Aaron great video. Can you make a video about how do you know if you moved on. Like what does moving on feels like? Do you still think about the person every once in a while or at all?

[@Nutz4Lutz3624]

it wont cause you pain when you do

[@mj1111]

💯 Needed to hear this. Thank you!

[@melaniewingar7520]

Thank you thank you thank you

[@dobiminarikova]

Amazing POV, thank you!!!

[@stephaniea.7350]

Damn this dude is dope, his videos are really helping me out. Hell yeah brother 😎

[@desi5726]

Thanks Aaron! I needed to hear this 💜

[@dejavous_diaries]

It's so difficult to forget all the dreams and plans you had together! Everytime I am trying to feel better someone from relatives or friends try to ask me something about him and I feel like I want to scream loud and cry and all those pains refresh again! I wish all friends and relatives of people who had break up, understand them and just stop talking about the breakup repetitively or asking about your ex!!!!

[@dwittlief]

I'm going through this now. Exactly the same from the male perspective. I went through an unexpected hard breakup recently and those dreams and plans we talked about keep randomly making appearances in my head and they knock the wind out of you. I think this is one of the most difficult parts to deal with.

[@dejavous_diaries]

Hey Man, I feel you, it's so hard but you'll make it, if you don't contact her either you will reconnect or you will be healed. The feelings have not completely disappeared in my case after almost 6 months but I don't have nightmares anymore and even talks of my friends and relatives about not bothering me anymore. I wanted him to come back and I made the mistake of contacting him several times. Although it's difficult, I recommend you to keep calm, do sports, and try to focus on your routine! And the best is to not talk about it with others. Talking to others about it especially in the first months, is like an open wound and talking makes it difficult to be healed!

[@dwittlief]

@@dejavous_diaries Thanks for the thoughtful reply. I'm surprised by how long the distress is hanging around. I reached out a couple times and although she responded I regret it. Sticking to it this time and good to know about not talking about it. I usually do not feel better afterwards.

[@dejavous_diaries]

By not reaching out I don't mean that one of you is good or bad, it just means that when you calm down and you give time to each other, everything gets more clear, and if you want to talk to each other after a period you can do it in a better way. Anyway, no problem, I'm just good at giving advice and in reality, I couldn't stop contacting him, and I just pushed him away 😅

[@cristinab7381]

Such perfect timing! So beautiful. Thank you!

[@memeplay4881]

wt a timing. she jut left me after 3yr without any reason. I feel like dying

[@dianaschoen4485]

🙏😔

[@sarastarski]

Interesting quote! My heart had been shuttered into thousand pieces in 2017 and since then I don’t let it to repeat it… looks like I should…

[@vickyG46]

Felt that

[@JitterBob]

What I really wanna figure out is what you’re supposed to do when your ex, who you still love, keeps texting you and keeping you on a hook. It’s like you don’t wanna ignore them… but engaging feels like manipulation because they’re just unsure of their own emotions and keeping you as an option.

[@nativechique7589]

No contact

[@7Earthsky]

Slowly ghost them inch by inch until the time they have with you is so precious to them that you are the the star of the show; not a cameo; which no offence, you no doubt are now.

[@isakkasi]

Thank you ♥

[@brittanycovington8778]

Thank you Aaron

[@harrisonwheeler9608]

Your words have helped me tremendously throughout these past few months. Also I dig the asvr merch. New drop fire

[@_Matilde96]

How to let go and move on 100% after a relationship with a narcissist? When he was with me he was always into other women !always! texting them secretly doing things behind my back . Now everything’s over we blocked each other he still sometimes stalks me on fake accounts but it doesn’t matter it’s over. Now I’m trying to focus on myself love myself stop comparing myself to others…I even did a bad list about him to remind myself how he hurted me..just doing me. Unfortunately I can’t afford therapy! But I’ve been to break ups before it’s way way harder it’s been 4 months and still I have very difficult painful moments thinking about how he doesn’t even care and how he’s just living his best life with other females (even my friends or girls that I know) I don’t know if he’s doing this to hurt me . But honestly it hurts . How to let go in a narc situation? Ant tips?

[@dannydenn9228]

thank you

[@caseyb2309]

Thanks Aaron!!

[@SRILANKANCHRISTIAN]

Thanks

[@Quest_10678]

So well explained. Thank you very much 🙏🏻

[@Iamawesome11]

Hey, I really want to move on n its already been 6 months and I m moving forward,,but my current problem is that I keep on seeing his name everywhere and he is constantly on my mind which really irritates me....😖😖😖😖...plz anybody help

[@andipandi9826]

My ex divorced me and I am emotionally stucked. He has been asking to date me casually. I said no

[@nativechique7589]

That's the compassionate thing to do for yourself to heal . It's hard

[@Wittylee8828]

Am going through a heart break and am really tired 😪

[@raniamohamed733]

Aaron aren't we every time are heart gets broken we got away from love more and more because now we knew how much it hurts, she's not right about that

[@arthurb8924]

Exactly!

[@austino1114]

It’s just so hard to apply this mindset.

[@SunsetDreamms]

Thank you. 222 🤗

[@Ashley-ps8ej]

Anyone have advice? I thought I manifested my partner I wanted. They fit my list but then changed and became awful. But my story was so strong that they were my manifestation since they showed up exactly when I wanted a partner for an event to go to and spend summer with exactly when I said my relationship partner wanted story. So knew it was a manifestation of that. So it's hard to let that person then go when they So closely fit all I wanted. Yet also had those few things that didn't fit that were enough to end it. Also many times like that one..I think highly of myself overall to date so it confuses me when my partner I manifested doesn't see the greatness I am and could be or does then doesn't anymore. It's like how can you let me go I'm willing to work on things want to do everything with you. Trips dates and adventures I've shown them love and care and always been there ...so if I think highly of myself how can't they? And why does a manifestation seem perfect then in a month turn bad

[@_.A7777]

Good question. I believe, as Aaron stated, that it has something to do with possibly a childhood trauma/ energy that sits on your back burner that has never really been dealt with or addressed or allowed to come up & let out. You're still calling the same energy to yourself. Take back your energy like he says, & pour it back into yourself instead of anyone external. Don't be the chaser. Be the chasee instead. I wish I could offer more words of encouragement as I do understand your situation for being in a similar one myself. I wonder if, during manifestation, you can also include that which you don't want in a partner. Could that be a minor detail that was possibly left out? As I've already stated, good question. Wishing you a better outcome and sending you love 💜💕

[@ItsAllWavyBaby]

I literally manifested the love of my life, spent 5 years together before it all went to shit lol. This is a similar question I kept ruminating over. Why would my manifestation go sour? I included everything in the manifestation that I thought would introduce me to my ideal partner. It worked for some time because everyone thought we were going to stay together forever. The only thing I could come up with are since we have free will my ex chose to take w different path. One that led to us ultimately breaking up and the worse heartbreak of my life. I imagine that after we fully heal, when we manifest the next partner the love will be next level and rooted in truth. I’m an optimist. My ex manifested so quickly, however, he and I were both wounded. We hadn’t dealt with our wounds. But the manifestation was so strong and we do have free will, so our whirlwind romance was a result of magnetism but wasn’t firmly rooted to stand the rest of time.

[@HandOfFreedom]

I swear this dude had 1.3 mil subscribers doing the same video every time. Take a shot everytime he sais "Let go".

[@penguinrizz]

Ok this was actually really helpful lol

[@awesomejoyrerouting]

Thank you

[@jebrock6820]

Thankyou for helping me realize a lot of things. Exactly right about recreating that childhood dynamic, but how do I choose a partner, then? How do I know if it’s a person who will do the same shitty things as the last?

[@unknown-or6nr]

Lov u so much 💕

[@frederique1145]

❤❤❤

[@ErikaEscobar-u7i]

I want him back so bad 😢

[@nekeb5421]

🙏

[@562Daddy]

No amount of love is worth the pain that I felt this last time fuck that I rather just die single

[@univers_truth_is_love]

Can someone tell , if thought of ex is also giving energy ? After breakup we usually think about ex for some month . Also suppose if person is in trauma bonding then it's happened.