Abbey discusses her differences and jealousy with former neighbor Jordan

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This was a very important night where Abbey reconnected with her childhood neighbor, Jordan. She spent years being jealous and making her feel uncomfortable for being a typical kid. Jordan would often hang with Abbey’s younger brother, Ben and it made Abbey feel left out and not a part of the group so she would copy Jordan and imitate her. They both wanted to be friends, but weren’t sure how to approach one another. But now, fast forward nearly a decade and Abbey has come so far in her journey with understanding herself and her emotions. It was actually her idea to invite Jordan over to catch up and understand each other better now that they’re adults. Really amazing night and another part of Abbey’s growth!

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@DaliwolfBacon 3 ай бұрын

Kudos to Jordan for letting Abbey speak her words and letting her show Jordan how far she has come. That is great!

@Zedament Ай бұрын

She'd be so so so great in a corporate environment.

@Swanselm 2 ай бұрын

I think the neighbor was so kind to come over and take part in Abby’s journey.

@charlotteherold4536 2 ай бұрын

That's weird..... do you say friends are kind to hang out with you?

@charlotteherold4536 2 ай бұрын

Sorry it that was aggressive...I just was surprised to see so many comments like this when you literally don't know either of these ppl

@Swanselm 2 ай бұрын

@@charlotteherold4536 ok and you don’t know me so keep your aggressive comments to yourself.

@Swanselm 2 ай бұрын

@@charlotteherold4536 I don’t know most of the people I see in the internet; therefore, my comment is based on the few minutes these strangers share. It’s not right or wrong, just MY OWN OPINION.

@nuggetty86 2 ай бұрын

The lions just appeared 🤣. Im so happy for both Jordan and abbey- they're both so sweet, open and considerate.

@vjcodec 2 ай бұрын

The lions are summoned on a higher plane of existence and we are all for it ❤

@deanawells4395 2 ай бұрын

Jordan helped Abby complete the circle of her work. Acknowledging what her behavior made someone else felt and understanding Abby’s work on her behavior was beautiful.

@ataridc 2 ай бұрын

"WHAT do you mean remarkable?" That was intense

@barbaraturner40 3 ай бұрын

I wish I could apologize to people I treated wrong this is very sweet

@hayleyzion9218 3 ай бұрын

Surely you still can? X

@luns486 3 ай бұрын

Sometimes I feel this way. But then I wonder, who would it be for? Is it for them, or for me?

@ShatorraMarie 2 ай бұрын

❤

@kamb3800 2 ай бұрын

@@luns486 both?

@Argeaux2 3 ай бұрын

Jordan seems like a lovely and patient young woman. Abbey and her would be lucky to become friends.

@butterfly1111ish 6 ай бұрын

Abbey is so pretty

@personincognito3989 Ай бұрын

How gracious of Jordon. It must have been uncomfortable for her. And good self awareness Abbey

@allouicious1885 2 ай бұрын

Two young ladies navigating their worlds. They are both wonderful ❤

@nancynee551 3 ай бұрын

It was so awesome hearing Abbey realize her past and learn to accept her present. We should all do that. ❤

@tinamurphy1326 Ай бұрын

So nice that childhood neighbors can come back together and grow their friendship as young adults❤

@lifespyjackson6292 3 ай бұрын

Thank god for this child being in the world she brings so much to it. Thank you

@loveinthematrix 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing this. I am on the autism spectrum and usually when I get very close to nuerotypical people - I feel heartbroken in some way when I compare my life situation to theirs. I’ve been in relationships with nuerotypical people just to feel not only ashamed of who I am but jealous of my partners who seem to just glide through the world. I’ve never heard anyone be honest about that before. It takes a long time and even a lifetime to realize that God made us special for a reason and the gifts that are unique to us are what we are here to bring forth into the world. It’s okay to be different and it’s okay to be considered normal. There is a middle ground where we can all meet and love each other if we are open enough. I’ve been of Abby since Season 1. God bless your family & David’s family ❤

@carriekayak8530 Ай бұрын

God bless you!!!!

@loveinthematrix Ай бұрын

@@carriekayak8530 God bless you ❤️❤️

@christinashouse3488 Ай бұрын

Also loves how she references how she felt like Ariel, cause Ariel never felt like she belonged and wanted to be part of another world. And Cinderella at the ball who gets everything she worked for and deserves. Abbey your amazing, and abbeys mom even more

@peggyword1024 2 ай бұрын

I’m so proud of Abby for helping us understand how she feels

@ctrlaltdestroy8821 3 ай бұрын

There is something so innocent about Abbey, like she’s incapable of deception or malice. It’s so endearing. I wish I could find a girl like this

@AshtaEbanks-ev8gd 3 ай бұрын

Maybe you just need an autistic girl. One on a level where it's appropriate for you to date of course but maybe you'll find one. if you both are interested.

@nataliemoraes2033 3 ай бұрын

That's right, abbey! You've conquered another goal, which is being humble and recognizing your mistakes and owning up to it. Something most adults don't do. You admit your weaknesses and worked through them. I wish you well on your journey. Continue to be a good friend and you can conquer anything you want in life. Never let a disability define you. ❤

@IDontTalkToCops Ай бұрын

It was kind of Jordan to do this for Abbey. ❤

@Jason-TheChad-Muska_circa1995 2 ай бұрын

There's something here that they definitely tried to gloss over and I really want to know why. Abbey said, "lying to someone is the worst". And her mother shut that down immediately, "what but we're not talking about that now". Jordan's micro mannerisms change in her facial features as soon as that happened and her Shoulders slightly dropped and fold inward a bit. That is a sign of not just uncomfortability but also when someone strikes an emotional nerve within you. Now I'm wondering what the hell that's about. What did Jordan lie about when they were younger that Abbey is still fixated on? Also, it's been a while since I've seen Abbey this uncomfortable. She Definitely Does Not like Jordan for some reason. It's seems like she's fighting to get over it but that it's still buried in her.

@Christine-Abbeysmom 2 ай бұрын

Very detailed analysis. Abbey speaks in memories and often goes off topic. The lying reference ( triggered by the word comfortable) was about her brother's ex girlfriend, who Jordan knew as they went to the same school. We always bring Abbey back to the topic to help with organization thinking. etc. This night was a milestone in Abbey's growth that she wanted to do this because she feels like she can communicate and 'be part of the group' - which led to Jordan and her boyfriend being the production team that we used to shoot Abbey's new music video "Categories". - coming out in April!

@liliesofthefield5310 2 ай бұрын

Props to her mom for teaching her that hard work gets you places and her autism shouldn't prevent her from achieving her goals

@lg4127 Ай бұрын

This is uplifting and inspiring to watch! Her mom is wonderful and Abby is the sweetest person! Always so happy! Good job Abby! You are amazing!

@wonkeydonkeyTV Ай бұрын

😂😂

@bell.videography 9 күн бұрын

I absolutely lost it when the lions appeared 😂😂

@maureenwareham8822 Ай бұрын

Bless Abbeys beautiful kind heart❤️She isn’t afraid of hard work. Plus Mamma, you are a great parent. Abbey learns by your fabulous example ❤ Never give Up❤

@paulfletcher3998 2 ай бұрын

What a remarkable young lady Abbey is. She really makes me smile if im having a bad day.

@ShakerMaker1980 2 ай бұрын

Me too, she’s a breath of fresh air 🤍

@pollard068 2 ай бұрын

What do you mean remarkable?

@paulfletcher3998 2 ай бұрын

@@pollard068 Why don't you have a little think? See if you can work it out all by yourself.

@ICsucks 3 ай бұрын

I know exactly what Abby feels like when it comes to jealousy. I am in the autism spectrum just like Abby is and I have always felt extremely jealous of people who were more successful in any way. When I say this I was always severely jealous of people who had straight As when I was in school and people who appeared to be liked by others more than me. I would always cry and complain and say it straight to peoples faces. Abby feels jealous of others because she wants to be just as successful as others and I’m sure she works just as hard as anyone else does

@ashleykeys9238 Ай бұрын

Abbey is too funny and real! 💕 I love her personality!

@jewels964 2 ай бұрын

This is so mature. Good for you Abby. It take alot bravery to admit you were jealous. And doing all this hard work on you and your life. Keep up the hard work! Your doing amazing ❤

@glee_again2594 2 ай бұрын

Abbey makes me smile. I know you both have worked very hard Abbey and Mom.

@meazanigatu2412 3 ай бұрын

She’s so adorable. Just a pure soul ❤

@LRAinCA 29 күн бұрын

I love so many things about Abbey and her videos, but one of my favorite things is her complete lack of cynicism or sarcasm. Just listening to you communicate with one another really keeps me in the moment.

@WarriorsSon 3 ай бұрын

The placing of life situations into categories is interesting.

@phyllisorr162 Ай бұрын

Two beautiful young ladies great job Abby ❤

@christinashouse3488 Ай бұрын

I think Jordan was amazing for being a part of this. Listening to Abbey and being their for her

@Justgreatstillbreathing Ай бұрын

Both beautiful ladies ❤❤❤❤❤

@vickie30 3 ай бұрын

Abbey and her lions..lol

@LaurenRichardi 2 ай бұрын

I'm so happy that you and Jordan are friends now! You have come so far to achieve your goals and I'm very proud of you!

@Larsanator 2 ай бұрын

Of course she feels like a Princess!

@L0k011 3 ай бұрын

Abbey is really gorgeous

@revolution6257 Ай бұрын

you are a amazing mother !!! 💕💕💕 your song is great abby !! inspiration to us all !

@AUSSIEBLOKE76 Ай бұрын

Wow that’s a sensory overload for everyone at that table

@DavidPurvis-dt6iw 2 ай бұрын

Perfect music in the background it's hard to explain to somebody that you look up to them but they don't understand the way you are

@matthewsilva371 Ай бұрын

We all can learn so much from you Abby. Thank you so much for sharing all of your work and successes with us.

@promotelove Ай бұрын

Abby is so amazing but i do kind of feels bad for Jordan for being put in this situation. Like I understand. It's a great accomplishment for Abby, but i do feel the dynamic of this video is odd. Now that i feel better about myself and my accomplishments, i can be nice? She's sitting here in a situation where someone who is her friend is repeatedly saying they were jealous of her. And her vib is "im a nice person but this is awkward" Kudos to Jordan for being a big enough person to do a video like this.

@mariahconklin4150 2 ай бұрын

she makes me so proud. I'm so proud of her.

@ShakerMaker1980 2 ай бұрын

I love all her analogies! She’s so smart ❤

@mimischultz4339 Ай бұрын

Props to both of these ladies!

@farmfiestaclown1065 2 ай бұрын

This is so therapeutic

@ItZFlipz 3 ай бұрын

abbey is a gem

@italianmommaotts3185 2 ай бұрын

I love this so much and it shows everyone we all learn differently and at our own pace. ❤

@julzee111 2 ай бұрын

Kudos to u Jordan!

@aubsarg0222 Ай бұрын

Jordan is like wtf is this…… lol she never got to speak. It’s strange bc Abby seems in some videos to be mature but yet the people surrounding her speak to her as if she is a small child. Abbey even spoke differently when she was at the wolf lodge out in public. I dk it’s hard to understand the mind of abbey. But I’m glad she’s showing herself and helping many around the world. Hopefully one day I will understand

@ShatorraMarie 2 ай бұрын

ABBEY SAID REMARKABLE HOW?? 😂

@Gemineye444 2 ай бұрын

Right 🤣😂

@user-qk1bm4mv8u 2 ай бұрын

i dont really know if i have autism or not but i can relate with abbey alot. its really refreshing for me to see :)

@livewell_79 2 ай бұрын

Very cool 🙏

@edikalivingston1714 2 ай бұрын

Love Abby!

@user-tu8mu8tp5y 3 ай бұрын

Abbey rocks 🎉

@CLARITYCookedFOG Ай бұрын

National treasure

@Itsbaxter00 2 ай бұрын

I bet children and animals adore being around you. I think you'd be able to make them feel seen and understood in ways that most adults don't.

@kashkelly1508 2 ай бұрын

Oh yeah I’m sure she doesn’t feel uncomfortable anymore

@Raven74408 Ай бұрын

I'm autistic and I would do the same when I was little. I would copy girls I admired or looked up to. I was sad I wasn't like them.

@jambiee 2 ай бұрын

5 therapists at once?

@Amanda-nz5rl 2 ай бұрын

Teal Swan put out a video on autism and I’ve never looked at it the same again. She gets real deep but basically, summarized, autism is a half-spiritual/half-3D Physical perspective. Not fully integrated into the material and still perceiving heaven, essentially. We are supposed to grow by having an autistic soul in our lives. They are the leaders of the world. Ever since hearing that, I’ll never pity or misunderstand these people again.

@emilphant 2 ай бұрын

I'm autistic and my perception of the world feels closer to hell. Or is that part of the point that I might have misunderstood, that autistic people can identify what is "hellish" about the world?

@APG626 2 ай бұрын

Loveeeee

@walterkersting9922 2 ай бұрын

My dad just threw me in the pool to teach me how to swim, which was also his way of screening for autism.

@222radar 13 күн бұрын

I wish I was Abbey's neighbour growing-up. I would have played with her for sure.

@monicaz4949 Ай бұрын

Luv this! But i do wish u woulda let the young lady finish her answers.

@catwalkernyc 2 ай бұрын

Not sure about that neighbor ✍🏻🙁😒

@Zedament Ай бұрын

Bruh, she accepted the invite of being insulted on film by an autistic woman who supposedly was imitating and passive bullying her from a young age, due to her ability to swim. Are you fking kidding me?