Why I left YouTube - Single Mom + Divorce

Becoming a single mom this past year has been really challenging. Losing my best friend and releasing those attachments to what I wanted for my family has taken up a lot of emotional space. Thank you for allowing me time to be with my family, for your kindness and love and for respecting our privacy. I want to keep creating and I hope you guys will want to stick around to see how I reinvent myself.
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[@jendrivesajeep6656]

If you show up, we will too. Whenever you're ready. ♥️

[@Clemberly]

You did not fail. Life is full of complications. You do not owe personal details. To share this is enough. You are still enough. Take all the time you need to heal and just be. ❤️

[@alexandriagandee9123]

Momma, We’re all trying to love ourselves. We all are dealing with different battles in our personal lives. ❤️ We love you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@graceupongrace3610]

Hi Abby, I watched this video a little while ago, and my heart broke for you. I prayed for you and went on about the day. But just now, I was reading my devotion, and you popped right into my head big time. I know you're a woman of God and ALREADY know this, so I was hesitant to think it was meant for you. But I thought, what can it hurt, maybe it is. . . "Next time you sit on a chair without thinking first about whether or not it will support you, that is what trusting God is all about. Being completely convinced in your heart that He is there for you; He “IS” everything you will ever need in life" He loves you and hates this time that is hurting you. But joy is up ahead and He will get you through this. 💗

[@alexismurray8157]

Gosh this is SO relatable! Sometimes as a single mom I feel so alone. It’s so refreshing seeing there’s more of “us” out there❤️

[@nicolejones8890]

My heart hurt watching this. I’ve followed you for so long and will continue to do so because I love the person you are! You are like sunshine on a rainy day! Big hugs from Seattle and keep being you! You’re amazing!

[@beth3525]

Abby, I’m so sorry for everything you’ve been through. My heart breaks to see you hurting. You have to know you are not a failure!!! Although life has shown some different roads that you may not have thought you were going to head down, you got this. You’re going to have good days and bad days and that’s okay! You have so many people in your corner to support you through this. The grace and strength you’ve shown is truly inspirational. God has beautiful plans for you and your family. You’re an amazing mother and have such a beautiful soul! Hugs and prayers to you now and always! 💜

[@DelilaFarrell]

I am so sorry to hear this. I will be praying for you and your family. I cried every time you started crying. This must hurt so much. God bless you. :)

[@mmcbride82]

Sweet Abby, your story is heartbreaking and it resonates so deeply with me. The part where you spoke about how this isn’t what you thought your life was going to look like, that you had a vision in mind for how you’d raise your kids, etc...that is so huge on my heart in my own life. I’ve been on my own for 3 years now and there are still so many moments where I feel like I’m failing and the grief is so intense that I can barely take care of myself. But these babies need us! That pressure is real and it is no joke, girl. But you’re doing it!! And you know what? Grief is love. You grieve because you love what your life was, you love yourself, you love your kids, and you’re trying to love this new life you’ve been dealt. You are in my prayers always, and I hope you can find some comfort in knowing you are not alone!!! We are here for you and with you. Sending so much love from one broken mama to another. Remember, God’s light shines best through broken jars of clay. You got this, sweet girl. God’s got this.

[@gysmokates]

I have been watching your channel for a while. You taught not only how to braid my hair, but to love myself. When you stopped filming videos I flipped to IG. You inspire and we love you! Take your time to heal and we'll be here when you're ready to share your beauty and life tips!

[@kaitlynhibbard7012]

Mama friend, keep showing up and being present, have grace, and allow your self love and hope! I’ve been there and you’re doing great. We will always be there. It’s okay to lay in bed and feel it all, that’s part of healing. Know your loved from thousands.

[@robertaolmeda2547]

You are enough! You are the perfect mom for your babies and no apologies are needed! My continued support and prayers go out to you and your family and see nothing but great thing come to this format!!

[@emilygramajo3444]

I watched your videos every now and then but this video made me feel very connected. As a daughter of a single mom and divorced parents, sometimes parents just need that space and things work out for the better. I hope you all the best, and hope you learn how to cope with being independent. I want to tell you that yes, your kids are one of your biggest concerns. My advice? Just hug them a little tighter and make sure they never forget you love them. I have faith you'll be okay. Lots of love

[@korinaCG]

You are a very strong woman. Don't ever apologize for all the emotions. I pray for you, I have had a rough patch in my own marriage. But do you. Do what makes you happy! Always still beautiful and can't wait till I see you more.

[@robinekblad6736]

You are so brave! What a inspiration you are! I am praying for you and all involved daily. My daughter went through a difficult divorce a couple of years ago. She was devasted-but I can tell you that she has come out the other side and has grown from it. I wish the same for you❤️

[@mrsvictoriacoburn8486]

You are one of the first people I actually would enjoy reading about on KZbin like a decade ago with your twist me pretty hairstyle book. In the past decade so much has changed and I’m sending so much love and good energy your way ❤️

[@charliesimmons2312]

I wondered what happened and where you were and now, here you are. I am grateful and honored you chose to share with us. I am so sorry for your pain and grief! I have walked in these shoes and I know how much it hurts. God bless you! You will get through the pain, I promise. So glad to see you again!

[@tiffayneehorsley70]

Awe Abby! You are amazing and your kiddos are the luckiest 💗💗💗 I know you guys will do what’s best for your beautiful family. Don’t stress about social media, please! We will all be here for you when you’re ready. **hugs**

[@CoachKel]

I dont have words. After seeing some of your ig posts about being a single mom, I worked up the courage to tell my own followers that my heart had been broken and then I woke up one day finding myself being a single mom. It’s amazing how many women have reached out saying they went through similar things. But something else that was amazing was that almost every woman who reached out to me with her own story said that they’re better off and so much happier now than they were before. I know that doesn’t make it hurt any less right now, but I hope it can bring you some comfort and hope.

[@jmangum307]

I admire your strength and vulnerability! I can tell it took alot for you to allow yourself to open up to us and let us in on something so personal. It is not necessary for you to give details on your current struggle. I just wish you nothing but the best and whenever you are ready we will be here💙😊

[@hannahkennedy604]

Gods got you, Abby He’s got you, and your fam. 😊❤️

[@Jaeda2Ashley]

Grace Girls Amen!

[@msrandomme12]

You're such a strong spirit. I can feel God's love for you. Prayers to you and your family.

[@Jenallen2584]

You did not fail. You just entered a new chapter. Co-parenting is hard but kudos to you for making it work. You are brave, you are strong. Take your time, heal. To quote Frozen... just do the next right thing.

[@lindsayburrett4216]

Oh, Honey. Take your time. Grieve. Grow. Guide you kids through this. We aren't going anywhere. And let me tell you this, you are not a failure. Not even a little bit. You are a human. You have feelings and hopes and dreams and needs and wants and that's okay. I was not married to my son's dad but our separation was tough. Learning to let go of the idea I had in my head about what our lives were supposed to look like was so hard. I was 23 and alone and scared and angry and sad. It was the literal lowest point in my life. 6 years later, we are doing amazing. His dad and I are best friends. My husband and my ex can laugh and talk and my son has an amazing almost step mom and step sister who were bridesmaids in my wedding. I can promise you that it will be okay. It is going to suck for a while and it is going to hurt, but it will be okay. We love you. We have your back. ❤❤❤

[@kimberlyderksen3707]

Thanks for sharing! I personally have never gone through divorce, but watching this has given me so much empathy for those that do, and for really seeing what it is like for them! Thanks so much for the perspective and for being willing to share your story to help others! You are amazing girl, and I’m sending prayers your way! ❤️

[@IsabelleLight]

Grace is an important part of a learning process, dont lose that part. I began to follow you last year on Instagram. I truely think it is inspiring, how much strength you have in yourself! I believe you! Please believe in yourself!

[@lj-nq7ck]

Take your time, you have to do what’s best for you! We’ll be here and we support you in whatever you choose to do. I’ve been watching your videos forever and I love you and your energy so much. You’ll figure everything out and you are so much stronger than you know ❤️

[@supercripters3637]

Your not alone... went through something similar in 2017 and I did the same, I went off all social media and just hide until I healed. Is not selfish is self preservation. You can do this, you are doing this!!! ❤️

[@marysnelling4176]

Virtual hugs and constant prayer💗🙏🏼. You are strong and God is with you and your family. Always loved your hairstyle videos so easy to follow and seeing the pictures of your kiddos.

[@ejenkins49]

Hugs and love! You are strong and You have so many people cheering you on. Happy to support whatever this channel becomes! 😘

[@kristacorbitt7176]

Nothing but respect for you. You have gone through and are still going through a tough time and you have done so with such class. Keep your head up!

[@sandy_ld]

You are so strong and you have 4 amazing blessings in your life, although you are passing thru this, believe me you will conquer and get so much stronger and wise for your kiddos... God is by your side and following you for these past years has been so great, now I'm a twin mom as well for 2 boys plus a girl and i always look forward to you... You're amazing, never forget that! Blessings to you and your family 💜

[@12mbutter]

I’ve been following you on Instagram for a couple years now and always have looked up to you as a mother and entrepreneur. I’m so sorry you are going through such huge trials right now, I can’t even imagine. I have been thinking of you a lot lately and will be praying for you. You look beautiful!

[@allisoncoulson1711]

You are so strong! You taught me how to braid my hair when no one could and you brought me so much joy!! Thank you!! Please know you are loved and supported.

[@philippaheard8721]

I first subscribed when I got your book for a Christmas. It has made me so much more confident in making and doing different hairstyles. Take as much time as you need, because you are AMAZING! Don't loose your spark ✨❤️❤️

[@bronwynw7100]

Thank you Abby for sharing with us. Your videos helped me finally learn how to braid and feel confident at work and the day to day. Take your time and heal. We will be here when you get back :)

[@gabyporter3518]

Abby, I am so sorry for everything that has happened this past year but you are an amazing person, and you are Worth it.

[@KumaMiha137]

Your channel has inspired me so much, I learned the messy bun technique and many braids thanks to you. I was heartbroken when I read your posts on instagram, I keep you in my prayers, God is good and loves you and your family greatly, I can feel that in my life too, even thought my parents are divorced too, God gave me awesome husband and strengthened my family. Thank you for your honest message

[@amberthompson95]

You are so strong I understand where you’re at because I grew up watching my parents go through the same thing and the fact that you are trying really hard to be good co-parents is so amazing. I’m so so proud of you and I support you through anything

[@HappyGoLuckyMe]

I really admire your strength in dealing with everything. It’s definitely not an easy thing to do. But you will make it. One day at a time. God bless

[@sherrykennedy3679]

Your an amazing lady!! You really do have an amazing community of ladies. I was a little worried that some people wouldn't be nice to you but I'm just loving all these beautiful comments. I haven't seen any negativity at all. All you sweet ladies out there with all your beautiful comments you are all amazing too!!! So happy to see everyone caring for each other ♥️♥️

[@mothersewsbestaccount]

I’m so sorry- whatever happened I know it was ridiculously hard on you and your kids. So much love for you and your whole family.

[@chrisevens4765]

Aww Sweet lady!! I'm so sorry!! As a former single mom and mother of four adult daughters my heart is breaking for you right now!! You can feel like you will never be happy again or that you've failed and things can feel so overwhelming but trust me you are not alone!! People are praying and rooting for you and your family and Heavenly Father really is there!! ((Hugs))

[@Ostrich0071]

I don't know if it will help at all, but I was raised by a single mother and lately we've been reflecting on the 'what if'. We both agree that if my father had been in our home I would have turned out very differently: been less strong, independent, and confident. My relationship with my mother is the one relationship I cherish above all else. While it might not have been the vision my mom had for her life and raising her child, we both know that it was the best possible outcome and wouldn't trade the life we had for the world.

[@melissabarnes853]

Abby! I have loved your channel for years. My heart breaks for you! Even through this major life change you are doing amazing things. You may not feel it, but your fans can. Take your time and continue to find joy in life no matter how small. I believe in you.

[@trishpipkins]

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I went through this and I had to grieve the loss of what my future was no longer going to look like. In my situation it was bad. Really really bad. There are moms who aren't able to co-parent after divorce and there are women who are so badly abused. What I hope for you is that you're able to co-parent and find a new and still healthy life normal. I'm not saying your situation is easy. I hope you see that having your children with you is such an amazing gift. God is in control. And really through my divorce I'm seeing who I truly am as a person and I actually like who I am! I used to hate myself. I know each situation is different. I also know you're strong and you've got this!!! 💖💖💖

[@comedyclub5951]

My heart breaks for you sweet Abby ! You are amazing ! Praying for you and your family ! Hold on to god as you go through this season he won’t let you down ! 😘😘😘🙏🙏🙏

[@QualeHouse]

You are so classy not sharing the details! I’m so impressed by you!! You are going to be just fine! You got this girl!!!

[@kalpanafear6234]

Your amazing ! And at the end of the day you don’t need to explain anything to us .. just look after yourself and your kids that’s the main priority.. sending you lots of love and healing vibes from Australia 😘

[@MelissaSparkle1]

Love you Abby! Sending you all the love & support. I’m so sorry your family is going through this but your grace & strength is inspiring! I love seeing you & the kids on IG & I’m amazed at how great you’ve been with them through it all. You’re an amazing mom & you guys will be OK

[@kirstibate4964]

Just have to say how much I adore YOU! And support YOU and your sweet beautiful family!! Been praying and really feeling for you and wishing the most happiness that heavenly father has for your future. ❤ YOU deserve the absolute best and forever love. You are AMAZING thank you for being who you are! Strong and BEAUTIFUL! Xoxo ❤ ❤ ❤

[@lolyhernandez1291]

I'm so sorry you are going through this abby you sharing your story shows how strong you are I'm sure you and your kids will be ok stay strong when and if you decide to come back we will be here waiting for you 💓

[@breklynng.1351]

you are so strong, i look up to how strong you have been these past few months. we love you, i love you girl . keep being you. :)

[@kayleebrookeburks]

You are such a light Abby, no one thinks any less of you. Praying for your strength and peace ❤️

[@rebeccacano21]

Prayers for strength for you and yours during this new phase of your life

[@dolphinminerals6544]

You will look back on this time and wonder why you were so scared and upset. Time heals, slowly, but it does. Grieve for your lost dreams and soon enough you will begin having new dreams. Blessings to you 💕🧞‍♀️🙏

[@wendytaylor1509]

Are you sure you have had enough alone time? Congratulations on your engagement late March. You deserve happiness.

[@TressaDee]

You’re so incredibly strong. Thank you for sharing your strength. God has a plan for you. You got this. 💕

[@Oceans1974]

You did not abandon KZbin...you focused on your familly and your kids and there is nothing wrong with that. We are here for you. You have been teaching us and supporting us with awsome hair and braids and now we get to return the favor and support you in this new chapter of your life for you and your kids. I will be here when you are ready.

[@TheFemaleRobin182]

Creators for the most part grow with their audience and this is just a new chapter in your life we follow and grow with. You are very much loved here. So take you’re time to rediscover yourself

[@onelittlejesusfollower]

God does have a plan for you! I absolutely love your videos. I'm just a kid so I can't really give you any advice or anything but I'll be praying for you and your kids! God be with you!

[@christinagray3708]

You are one strong independent mom with some freaking adorable hairstyles I know you will get this through a divorce is really hard and I hope you stay strong your kids and yourself will get through this I hope you know #twistmepretty supporters love and support you 🙂👍🏻

[@jessirosepond5651]

You are amazing, strong, graceful and such an inspiration ❤️ you and your family are the most important!

[@chibikate_]

Love you too Abby, you do what you have to. We'll be here if and when you do videos xxx

[@pastrylola]

you are amazing! and Im so happy you are back (eventually) on KZbin!!! know that I am sending all my love! go abby

[@laceyslacum2794]

You're amazing Mama. You are doing a great Job, take your time. We will all still be here when you are ready to come back.

[@paaruspatel7]

You are a strong and amazing woman and god has a plan and in life we go through up and downs and each obstacle or hurdle just makes you stronger and even more amazing. Sending you love!

[@makeupboss3568]

I know it’s kind of late , I have seen you on YT , and never really got a chance to watch you . This is quite brave , but I totally understand. I’ve never been down that road , but my sister has . It’s a hard thing to deal with. Fortunately she found husband number 2 and was able to get on with it . I wish you the best and will pray for you. God Bless you and your kids !

[@adrienechadwick4891]

Gosh Abby! You’re an absolute blessing from God and he has amazingggg plans for you. He created a pure angel!!! I am so sorry for the pain that you’re feeling, my heart breaks for you. But wow you’re a STRONG women! I pray that your strength intensified as the days go on because you deserve nothing but happiness. I have always admired your happiness and kindness and I think it’s absolutely beautiful! I love you Abby ❤️❤️❤️

[@isabelleyosten8327]

Keep being the strong, amazing you!! Everyone here loves you so much!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@michellemorales401]

Awww Abby, I've seen your journey throughout the year and I know this is incredibly hard but you are doing a great job. Abby 2.0 is going to be better than ever. You have many in your corner. I love that you "don't spill the tea". It's not our business and your babies will grow up and see this one day. There's nothing wrong with loving... differently. I've lived through this immense pain and came out better on the other side. ❤❤ Embrace the new you, strong and emotional, "I am woman, here me roar"! Love the second time around is intense. Get ready for the ride. 💕💕

[@jessmarie148]

Michelle Morales why is her husband remarried now?

[@michellemorales401]

@@jessmarie148 I don't know anything about him, nor do I ask. I do not believe that it is my business to do so. 🙂👍

[@XxKristixX92]

Damn girl I’m so sorry. I hope you find your place back on KZbin I miss your videos, but you’ll get there soon❤️

[@aroastrange6579]

Oh, I'm so sorry. You are such a talented and beautiful woman. We love you!!!❤

[@sophiecooke4075]

Sending you and your family lots of love ❤️ really respect your openness given the circumstances xxx

[@AshleyBirch]

Sending so much love to you and your family. Your posts on IG have helped me so much as I navigate my own situation 💕

[@kristengibson4830]

We love you!! 💕 You are STRONG 💕

[@bethanytmadison]

Oh my gosh, momma. We love, love, love you. You do not owe us anything! They say time heals all wounds. We’re here when that time comes. ❤️

[@kaitlinkearsley8888]

I am so sorry! That is no fun! My parents went through the same thing. They both had spouses that chose different paths. I can relate.,

[@francefarber510]

I have been divorce for 20 years and raised three kids on my own the father barely was involved it was hard but I managed to raise them well and I have two in college and one working he did not like college.but now he is thinking about it. It is a tough road on moving on but hang in there it does get better and it is rewarding when the kids get older they appreciate everything you've done for them.

[@kimberlyminnix162]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you did not fail! You’re amazing!

[@savannapaige5463]

Prayers and love

[@85michellemybelle]

You are too sweet to think of us. Stay strong, beautiful❤️ You are so brave.

[@RedWingzFan]

Marriage is hard and you did what was best for you and your kids. My prayers are with you for happiness and success.

[@reelgirl112395]

Thank you so much for posting this powerful video. I’m really proud of you

[@michaelacox6718]

Love love love you and your sweet fam and all of your amazing content! Been thinking of you and praying for you ❤️

[@etrutru7666]

You’re an amazing person! I don’t know you, and yet I feel like I do, because you are so real and inspiring to me..lots of love from Ohio!

[@avasaltzman299]

I love you Abby! We love you and support you! ❤️❤️❤️

[@LoveLossLearn]

You are so strong. My heart goes out to you. ❤️

[@andreagarris5623]

❤️❤️❤️ so much love for you!

[@jasmine-jr1sg]

You are so amazing and any good person would see that... My parents are actually getting a divorce and they are fighting over custody of me and my brother. But keep faith because it will get better. It's just an obstacle god put in the way to a happy life, to help us get stronger.

[@paige9824]

I’ve been following you on instagram and hopped over here to give you some love after I saw you posted about this. Sweet girl, you are so loved! Jeremiah 29:11 is one of my favorite promises. “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans for good and not disaster, plans to give you a future and a hope.” I can’t even imagine the pain you walk through daily, but I want you to know the Lord is not done writing your story. He holds you while you grieve and while you try to move forward, and I promise that He’s doing something so much greater than you can see through all of this. You are such an inspiration to some many people and I pray you take all the time you need to care for yourself and your kids. My prayers are with you!

[@jessmarie148]

Paige Golden is her husband remarried or with someone else or something? What happened?

[@calliesullivan2176]

Hugs to you!

[@michellemoran2337]

So much love and respect for you! Your amazing and this will help so many woman thanks for sharing your story ❤️

[@celestestratton5463]

Stay strong Abby!!

[@jenniferbruce5295]

My heart breaks for u love. I'm so sorry ur going through this whatever it may be. Ur too pretty to be crying so stop that an know ur not alone. I love u an ur beautiful children. I dont know what happen an I dont want to know its non of my business. But I hope to see the happy Abby again real soon. Dont be sorry, take as much time as u need!!!

[@kaitinfoster2444]

love following you Abby! sending you so so much love ❤️

[@candacemccormick6488]

Love you Abby. Thank you for sharing. ❤️❤️❤️

[@RobynAuditoreNicol]

You've got this lovely, stay strong 💕 x

[@annawatsonYT]

Abby, never stop apologizing for being yourself. You are so beautiful and although your situation was very difficult, it was God’s plan for you and your family. God wants you to trust that everything that he does in your life is good, even if you don’t think it is in the moment. God is so incredibly good, and I know you are going to come back so much stronger from this. May God Bless you and your sweet family, praying for you always!! ♥️

[@billyeubanks5538]

Its gonna be okay trust me God has laided down your life I still love your hair styles. God and your kids are still by your side