After 40 : 1. Focus on being grateful to Allah 2. Enough of entertainment and distractions. Focus on righteous deeds that are pleasing to Allah 3. Focus on your family and Pray Allah makes your kids righteous 4. Make sincere tauba - astaghfar 5. Submit to Allah in all matters of life - worship , dressing , income , character , friendships , way you eat etc
@BlackSeedOil20Ай бұрын
JuzakAllahu khairan to and the original poster. BarakaAllahu fiikihum.
@ferdousjamiАй бұрын
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@kraftystories3127Ай бұрын
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@tentimesful27 күн бұрын
1 is good but wrong you dont want to focus too much just say grateful to allah and skip or else people like me get hit by space humans 2 false as allah says la haramat taybatan(goodthings) but worshipping allah as supreme king and the most beloved is good 3 me dont pray for this dunya except to dua that allah gave in baqarah as suratal baqarah says in other words: wrong dua for this life can take your after life goodiez.. 4. astaghfar is forgive so dont say astagfirullah as you saying forgive allah, read quran how to get forgiveness.. 5. submit to allah is good.... in this 5th of you but doing a malakat or wife and submitting to allah at the same time but still best what written here above. 2 commandment me mursaha murshid give first is 1: believe allah is the supreme king the most beloved the supreme beloved 2: search in quran how to get to jannatal firdowsa... 3: you can ask me how to escape hell and to jannatal firdowsa, but would youtube allow my comment is good question so the first 2 is good start..lol
@prettykate438123 күн бұрын
Agree
@userrssАй бұрын
I'm born Muslimah Alhamdulillah from the Middle East! I'm pushing 40 in 3 months without a husband or kids. I have mom in my life, and I'm grateful for that alhamdulillah. I've grown up mentally and have been increasing my awareness of my purpose in life, seeking Allah's pleasure and struggling to defeat my weakness. Whoever passes by here, please pray for me to have the family I've been dreaming of and raise kids in Allah's worshipping! Ameen. Shukran and jazakum Allah khayran!
@sitandstyleАй бұрын
@@userrss As Salam Aleykoum Sister, May Allah make your dream come true and grant you the best part of this world and the best part of the hereafter. Allahouma Amine 🤲
@fatoumfatoumehАй бұрын
I’m also a Muslimah from the Middle East and I just turned 40 a few months ago. I didn’t get married because alhamdulilah I was taking care of my sick mother and autistic brother full-time, they have both passed away recently Allahyerhamhom. We are not alone. Alhamdulilah for everything. Inshaallah Allah will grant us the best for us in this life and in the next. I really desired a large family eversince I was a teenager, I even planned my future children’s names at 16 lol, but in the end, Allah is the best of planners. I don’t regret not getting married early, alhamdulilah I didn’t.
@userrssАй бұрын
@fatoumfatoumeh may Allah reward you and compensate you here in dunya and in the hereafter, my dear sis. Ameen
@mariakashif6687Ай бұрын
Ameen
@hurrekoje2146Ай бұрын
May Allah will surely bless you with the fulfillment of your dreams and provide guidance to all of us. He will also bestow blessings of children and family, bringing joy to your eyes. Rest assured that Allah will guide us all and grant us happiness in this life, as well as reward us in the hereafter with His endless mercy. Trust that Allah will bless you with a righteous spouse who will bring you tranquility.
@acShey-UT2 ай бұрын
I was guided to Islam this year at 40, and I cried when I first read this verse! Thank you for explaining it so beautifully.
@nikgaspar9741Ай бұрын
Mashaallah, tabarakallah
@sj4695Ай бұрын
Welcome to a family of two billion, may Allah shower you with blessings and steadfastness in this life and the highest paradise in the next and make you a means of guidance and light for your loved ones ameen
@acShey-UTАй бұрын
@@sj4695 Thank you. Inshallah!
@rishat1254Ай бұрын
May Allah bless you and guide your family and relatives to islam. Now be firm upon the deen. Be firm upon seeking knowledge that is factually based upon the quran and sunnah. Take knowledge from major scholars who are firm upon the creed of the righteous predecessors. Dont deviate, dont innovate and be patient with yourself, your family and all those against your. Be kind and stick firm to praying all prayers ON TIME. May Allah bless you with jannah al firdous al 3la.
@sitandstyleАй бұрын
@acShey-UT Alhamdoullilah 💚. May Allah, Ya Rabb keep you firm on the straight path till the end. Allahouma Amine 🤲
@colorme653624 күн бұрын
I was guided exactly at 40 and before that I was doing shirk , and ever since Allah guided me my goal in life is to reach a high level of paradise , everyday I think about judgement day standing there in a line up , my mind is only on Allah and the hereafter and what I can do to earn good deeds
@fouad8232 ай бұрын
MashaAllah Sheikh jazakallahu Khair brother. Im 41 and this video really hit home may Allah SWT forgive all of our shortcomings and grant us the highest station of Jannat Al firdous Ameen
@zee87572 ай бұрын
Aameen
@sharaazyaqoob79492 ай бұрын
Ameen
@Monotheist_992 ай бұрын
Ameen
@arfanashraf9116Ай бұрын
Ameen
@deendeen7206Ай бұрын
Aameen ya rab
@hajihilarsonj.589Ай бұрын
I am 40 now. Jazakallahu khayran for this lecture. I learned a lot.
@gloriazubair82762 ай бұрын
It’s one of the best lectures I have a listen I’m 47 years old mother and also a grandmother Subhanallah trying to do a good deed until l meet Allah
@jean-pierresteenbergАй бұрын
Aisha may Allah be pleased with her used to host parties where the imams used to compete how much "liquid" they could put on her. The one who covered the most white liquid got the most hasanat. Subhanallah! 😂
@rockstarkoolerАй бұрын
I just turned 40 and i am happy i only pray for ALLAH
@stephenbyrne973228 күн бұрын
Alhumdulillah that's good. Please sister wear the HIJAB IN OBEDIENCE AND FOR ALLAH SWT GOOD PLEASURE ALSO IN SHA ALLAH
@hassandegrazlАй бұрын
With 41, i was not aware of this Ayah, i was in tears hearing the Shaykh. Thank you so much.
@khalidbhat676Ай бұрын
Turing 40 this year .Alhamdulliah for Allah’s guidance .Allah knows what we don’t and he knows how to enlighten whom he wants ❤
Please can someone check if the Arabic is correct?
@vita-08Ай бұрын
inshe'Allàh someone will correct your du'as if there is a mistake. I only want to say : Ameen, ya Rabb! The google translator translated that you wrote " acknowledge your sins" and not "acknowledge my sins". So it was translated to me in german. But i am not an arabic speaker but love your du'as ❤ Wa aleikum salam wa RahmatuLlàh
@saniakhalid944222 күн бұрын
JazakAllah 🤲🏼💚
@batterboxnews812Ай бұрын
I am 40 I've lived a life of sin and transgression I have no family no mother no father no brother no children please make Dua for me I'm attempting to marry soon. May Allah forgive us for our evil deeds And allow us into his Jannah which is without a shadow of a doubt TRUE! La illaha illah Allah ☝🏽
@mohammedabdirrahmanrubblei9141Ай бұрын
Imagine Allah is talking to you personally since the Qur'an is his message to you. Start your journey, strive his way, please him at your most. The rest you leave it to him. We all have shortcomings, and may Allah forgive us all.
@BabyFaradАй бұрын
May Allah guide you towards rectification of your affairs.
@oenieksexАй бұрын
Ameen
@zainabnasreen926319 күн бұрын
Anas ibn Malik reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “All of the children of Adam are sinners, and the best sinners are those who repent.” Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2499 Never lose your faith in the mercy of Allah.
@abs9604Ай бұрын
Turned 42 today. Alhamdullilah
@ScottRyan-Akhi23Ай бұрын
Happy Birthday! May ALLAH continue your days in health and happiness on the straight path. As Salaam Alaikum.
@eyeofthetiger0030Ай бұрын
HBD
@rockstarkoolerАй бұрын
Happy Birthday! Brother may ALLAH give his blessings to you and all my Muslim brothers and sisters. please pray for me thank you
@azhardanka4058Ай бұрын
Beautiful advices, Shukran Sheikh Summary of the advices 1. Make Shukr to Allah 2. Do deeds that please Allah 3. Ask Allah for righteous children 4. Make Istighfaar 5. Submit to Allah in all aspects of your life.
@jean-pierresteenbergАй бұрын
Aisha may Allah be pleased with her used to host parties where the imams used to compete how much "liquid" they could put on her. The one who covered the most white liquid got the most hasanat. Subhanallah! 😂
@9RFANАй бұрын
اللَّهُمَّ يا مُقَلِّبَ القُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قُلُوبَنَا على دِيْنِكَ 'Allahumma thabbit qalbi 'ala dinika [O Allah, make my heart steadfast in (adhering to) Your religion].' اللَّهُمَّ مُصَرِّفَ القُلُوبِ صَرِّفْ قُلُوبَنَا علَى طَاعَتِكَ. Oh Allāh! controller of the hearts, direct our hearts to your obedience.
@mustaftiyaahmed8087Ай бұрын
aameen
@123ummAmina28 күн бұрын
BaarakAllahu feek wa jazaakAllahu khayr.
@mamkanteh4090Ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah may Allah forgive all human beings for the sins that we have done may Allah forgive the dead as well day of judgement may Allah grant all of us Jannah
@nasimajasat109317 күн бұрын
Life really does begin at 40!... im 48...pushing towards 50...and yes my perspective on life...really has changed....i fear Allah more...and my conscious is always battling...and im.more awate of my actions and consequences....
@RazuAhmed-z8v2 ай бұрын
❤️ Respect to all the Mothers out there ❤️
@Yasmin-pj2ek2 ай бұрын
Alahmaduliah needed to hear this I just turned 40 ❤
@khalz-AJ2 ай бұрын
I just turned 40 alhamdulillah. Jazakallahu khayr Sheikh
@DeadlyAquariousАй бұрын
Passed 40, so be humble and Thank Subhan Allah tallah for allowing us this time on earth to make it better for here after. Last leg give it all you got. Forget and forgive ❤
@TheRealHANiFАй бұрын
Suratul Ahqaf verse 13 for those trying to pin down the exact ayat hes mentioning
@sahibzainАй бұрын
Brother , it’s verse 15
@tinaali3686Ай бұрын
what a deep lecture 😢 Astagfirrullah.. May Allah swt help me and all of us. Ameen
@sahrakhatoon64528 күн бұрын
Barak Allah fee Umrik, wa Âhlik , wa'Rizkiq, wa wa'Qatik , wa'Amalik, wa' ilmi'k .... Ta'Barak Allah... Hafidhullah Sheikh
@RhodmaSahi27 күн бұрын
SubhanaAllah💓Alhamdulillahi rabbil alameen an inspirational lectures sheikh to us🤲
@TheMiz_0Ай бұрын
The kindness in every comment reply is truly heart warming alhamdulilah only muslims have this true compassion. MAY ALLAH bless skeikh Abu Bakr i always listen to his lectures
@JayKay190BIGAPPLEАй бұрын
I'm going to be 48 and having much difficulty guiding my children . After separating with their father he abandoned them, and my family never considered my kids theirs. (may Allah forgive my family.) I have 5 beautiful souled kids, but they are so Americanised they don't heed my warnings or my constant preaching. Please make dua for all of todays kids. For I see all the signs of the end of times in them. Please make dua for Allah to give me shiffa and strengthening me inorder to save them 🤲 ( I'm so broken 💔)
@TheemoonbeamАй бұрын
🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
@imranasif168129 күн бұрын
May Allah SWT guide us and our families.
@far086219 күн бұрын
Guidance is from Allah swt. May Allah swt open your children's heart to Islam.
@UmmAbdSami17 күн бұрын
May Allah SWT guide your kids to the righteous path
@JayKay190BIGAPPLE17 күн бұрын
@timetocelebrateia Ameen ya Rub 🤲
@khadijawali156728 күн бұрын
Barakatuh Allah fiik Yaa sheikh very encouraging, spoken beautifully, may Allah guide us and accept from us. May we be forgiven and given the highest rank in jannah. Jazakumullahu kheiran
@ultrawidegaming789427 күн бұрын
Brilliant lecture Ma Shaa Allah
@Adam12-n8wАй бұрын
Allahummah anta rabbi la Illahah illah anta khalaqtani Wa anna abduk Wa anna ala ahdika Wa wa’adika mastatwat authubiika minshari ma sanat abu ulaka bi nihmatika alayya Wa abubi thambi faghfirlee fa innahu la yughfirli dhunnuba illa ant
@nadjmtreurniet754429 күн бұрын
MashAllah! im almost 40! Inshallah i will be! And this one hits me very hard! Thanks you brother for sharing and may Allah swt bless you in every way! JazakAllah khair!
@ahmadkasim2854Ай бұрын
Manaha Allah shielh, I'm 30 years old, and your words touch me, may Allah forgive us.
@sumk66Ай бұрын
💯 im 40 and going through a major test..ive let my best friend go who just wasn't the person she used to be since I told her about my issue..people change and i just don't have energy to chade people anymore
@RazuAhmed-z8v2 ай бұрын
اللهم اغفر لنا ذنوبنا جميعاً وأرزقنا جنة الفردوس في الآخرة 💕💕💕
@tahirsaeed97010 күн бұрын
Masha Allah
@mohammedabdirrahmanrubblei9141Ай бұрын
It looks like I'm an uncle to you all, my children. I'm 45. May Allah give us the ability to be steadfast and please him in every decision we make. May Allah make Jannah our abode. Dunya is short but hereafter is eternity.
@hamdiajab4655Ай бұрын
Take a few seconds 1. Subhanallah x3 2. Astaqfirullah x3 3. Alhamdulillah x3 4. Allahu akbar ×3 Have a beautiful day ❤❤❤
@salmaalawi3726Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@Know_Allaah_The_All-Mighty2 ай бұрын
Jazak Allaahu Khayran Allaahumma Aameen to all the Duas!
@babangidausman609724 күн бұрын
Thank you very much for this Lecture. Alhamdulillah.
@HaifaJ.Ай бұрын
First time I hear you Brother but hearing you tears are rolling down my cheeks I love you fi Sabil Illah my dear brother. Jazak Allah khiir for every word.
@TTRR-y3dАй бұрын
Ya allah this khutbah was amazing. It’s crazy how the first one is the last of focus I started working on everything else at 40 and alhamdullilah now at 42 in my journey shukur is my main focus because I was truly blessed with all my good and bad experiences ❤
@fatimajima69839 күн бұрын
Allahu akbar ❤ ♥ 💖
@hereist4nd14023 күн бұрын
Im 32 but i will try to work to this, May Allah make me reach that age ☝️
@abdisalansheikh3730Ай бұрын
Maasha Allah, jazaka Allah. May Allah forgive the sins of our brother sheikh abubakr zoud.his lecture has really touched us by the will of Almighty Allah (SWT).has a great impact advice especially for those of us at age 40 and beyond including myself at age 44.our Lord the most merciful has given us the best advice and guidance in his very words of this Ayah.may Allah guide us.
@abdulmazid605121 күн бұрын
Jazak Allahu Khayer
@sibelaktas2 ай бұрын
Hisn al-Muslim 81 Allāhumma mā aṣbaha bī min ni`matin aw bi aḥadin min khalqik, fa minka waḥdaka lā sharīka lak, falaka ‘l-ḥamdu wa lakash-shukr. O Allah, whatever blessing has been received by me or anyone of Your creation 1 is from You alone, You have no partner. All praise is for you and thanks is to You. 2
@accesbusinesshome292 ай бұрын
Ma cha Allah Allahou Akbar!!!may Allah forgive us😍🙏🙏🙏
@arfanashraf9116Ай бұрын
Ameen
@raziakausar14Ай бұрын
Allah Akbar. Subhanallah He swt is the greatest. The most merciful the most compassionate. May Allah swt forgive all our sins clean our heart our actions and live for his forgiveness and to make him pleased with us. Ameen Ameen Allah Akbar.
@nomansikder1941Ай бұрын
Zazak Allaah Khair.❤
@yasminnabukenya2995Ай бұрын
Barakallahu fiqa for beautiful lesson. May Allah make it easy for us all and reward you abundantly aamiin
@BensaudiUsman-rr9db2 ай бұрын
The best lecture sheikh abubakr zuod yes that's my promise of allah
@fatimajima69839 күн бұрын
May almighty Allah help us
@ebrahimasgari515420 күн бұрын
inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un
@faridahmuhammad54032 ай бұрын
Jazakallahu khiar
@ferdousjamiАй бұрын
Jazakallahu Khairan
@RICHARDKromah-tu8ydАй бұрын
MashaAllah AllahuAkbar beautiful advice ❤️
@roushanarabegum911Ай бұрын
Jajhakallahu khairan Sheikh.
@moustaphabah91062 ай бұрын
جزاكم الله خيرا وبارك الله فيكم❤
@aminaayad49282 ай бұрын
Jazakum Allahu khayran ya sheikh 🤲
@burhanahmad589519 күн бұрын
The idea of making the video was great and need of the hour but you could have made it short and sweet. At the end of a video, a summary is a must. Thank you very much for the video.
@SensabielАй бұрын
Elhamdoulillah ,may Allah SWT accept from ustadh and bless them and us as well ameen
@mwanamisimtsumi-rx7jgАй бұрын
Ma sha Allah sheik,tks for this wonderful lesson.Allah barik
@beautiful1423Ай бұрын
Am 44 years old and Alhamdulillah 😊life in the 40s is not glorious but Alhamdulillah.ur body changes 😢in ways that you do not understand.
@humerasultana1779Ай бұрын
Jazakallah hu khairan kaseera for the reminder. May Allah Tala reward you the best of both worlds Ameen ya Rabul Alameen. And guide all of us to the straight path till our last breath Ameen ya Rabul Alameen.
@anonp5234Ай бұрын
Jazakallah khair for your content.. May Allah reward you
@sharunajally5090Ай бұрын
Alhamdulilah, the much needed at my age subhannallah,my Allah preserve you shiekh.May Allah forgive us and grant us ease in this duniya and akirah.Janatul feridious be granted to us Ameen ya rabb
@Monotheist_992 ай бұрын
Thank you sheikh 🙏
@StariYTube1Ай бұрын
Ma'shaAllah (s.w.t.) ❤
@WaqueZulfiqarАй бұрын
Shaikh enjoyed you adivce from kashmir see you in jannah
@FATradingplatformАй бұрын
Insha Allah Ameen Ya Allah ❤🤲🌹
@nadiahisham2634Ай бұрын
Subhanalah one of my best lectures Jazakallah khair Shaikh May Allah bless you abundantly 😊
6 months, meaning this is the earliest a child can be born (pre mature) and manage to survive outside of the womb. SubhanAllah
@jamahlgaskin64282 ай бұрын
Jzakallah khier
@AdnanKhalid-fe4te20 күн бұрын
At 40 following points to remember 1. Be more thankful to ALLAH (Look to maximise thanks by focusing on each blessing with focus e.g learn body functions, family, food health, nature. Universe etc 2. Be thankful to parents ( Look for things you never thanked them before) 3. Pray to grant us the ability to do deeds to please YOU(ALLAH). E.g making salah and every other deed for ALLAH in best possible way 4. Pray to make our families righteous.(Righteous family is sadaq e jaria for us, after we die) 5. Make tauba often ( For washing of sins) 6. Make us among those who fully surrender/submit to ALLAH. For the best ending! 1&2 are same points but i separated them. Pray for me to act upon them and i pray the same to you brothers and sisters. May we all die to see our LORD with happy faces ❤
@Ambrin198725 күн бұрын
The words of a forty-year old person: “I repent to You and I am from the Muslims.” [46:15] This instructs those who have reached the age of forty to renew their repentance to Allaah, return to Him and be firm on maintaining their repentance. (Tafseer Ibn Katheer)
@AbdelnasserCharef2 ай бұрын
Allah Ackbar aasa🙏
@remindme28Ай бұрын
May Allah give her quick health and allow her to say shahada and make it easy for her. Aameen
@saidatulikhlas68942 ай бұрын
Am just 42 Alhamdulillah 🤲
@Gbe-4Ай бұрын
40 here.Subhan' Allahi wa bihamdihi ❤✌🏿.
@NaziaH-v8z2 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah
@HoangLe-ko7skАй бұрын
Jazakillah Khairun sheikh! May AllahSWT forgive us, for my short coming. Allow me to be the guide for my children. Allahumma Ameen to all of your dua. May AllahSWT increases you in ranks ya Sheikh and your family and everyone you love and everyone who loves you ❤
@nimohussein97812 ай бұрын
Jzk ya sheikh
@Farah-fn7ci26 күн бұрын
Turning 40 in a week and I still can’t believe how quickly the years went
@e-bookofsatan22 сағат бұрын
True
@kartinicassim8150Ай бұрын
Alhamduliah
@mohammadfaisalp.a5813Ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah, this vidoe is really touched my heart. Really made me to think what all we did in past and what we need to do in future.
@inamfoushy66842 ай бұрын
جزاكم الله خيرا
@fmss66942 ай бұрын
I’m 45… with young kids … probably will be divorced soon… ugh… it’s ok though. I am still blessed in so many ways. Alhamdulilah
@aminaadam3617Ай бұрын
Do not worry because Divorce may the safest way to hold on your deen and reset the direction you want your life and that of your kids to go.The best place for kids is to have both parents around,but Allah azawajal knows best.May Allah make it easy for you.
@kerimhassen7581Ай бұрын
May Allah make it easy for u ❤
@Mariatou344Ай бұрын
May Allah make it easy for you. It is not going to be easy for you or the children. A very rocky road and I would ask you to rethink before pulling the trigger. I have been through it❤
@shafserious2805Ай бұрын
Stop divorcing😂
@sanjidashoma4084Ай бұрын
Stop divorcing 😢
@Ambrin198725 күн бұрын
Masrūq [may Allāh have mercy on him] would say: “If one of you reaches the age of forty, then let him take precaution against [invoking the Wrath of] Allāh, the Almighty, the Majestic.” Tafseer ibn Katheer 6/490 | Al-Imām ibn Katheer [may Allāh have mercy on him]