Accepting Her Past & Still Loving Her

Accepting your girlfriend’s past and still loving her despite knowing other men she’s been with.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who has listened to my 3% Man Audiobook, 5-6 times per year over the past five years. He’s been in a relationship and living with his girlfriend for two years. They don’t talk about past lovers, but over the last two years that they’ve been together she has told stories about wild times in Las Vegas and they’ve run into guys she has a romantic history with. He’s concerned with her sexual history and wondering if he should stay with a woman who has had such a wild past and asks my opinion.
“When you love and value yourself, you tend to only share your body with someone after you first have shared your souls and connected with them on a spiritual level. Having sexual partners who you feel nothing for, but enjoy having sex with can often feel like you are wasting your essence and devaluing what you have to offer. If you don’t value yourself then nobody else will either. Most people prefer a deeper emotional, mental, spiritual and physical connection with someone they have mutual interest with, versus no strings attached sexual encounters with people who you’ll never see or speak to again. Scarcity creates value and we tend to value that which is rare, special and hard to come by.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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[@24Cristiandiaz]

Men have to create value, women have to preserve it. Her past MATTERS!!!

[@rodrigo100kk]

100% bro.

[@princessc660]

Some people make mistakes in their past and change and if the women is not doing the same behaviors as her past then people shouldn’t hold it against her. Sometimes people upbringing life situations or experiences can make them turn out the way they do. Nobody ever thinks why a girl would become 304 some people go through things growing up. This is the reason why some girls kill themselves because people don’t allow someone to change. If someone changes their behavior why would you still hold it against them. if a man had a lot of women in his past nobody cares so why do people care if a women has. This is just hypocritical. Maya Angelo was a prostitute when she was younger but turned her life around and became a poet. She did it because she had a kid and changed her life.

[@TheColtonStreeter]

​@@princessc660man, someone else still used a lot less effort and recieved more

[@thomv5591]

I'm 54 and have dated the spectrum over my lifetime. Girls with high body counts never turn out well. The girls with fewer notches on their belt were more loyal, emotionally healthy, and can bond to you. Girls with double digit counts by age 25 were always great in bed but a relationship train wreck.

[@7excessu]

King of generalisations 😂 if she's always been faithful she is faithful

[@thomv5591]

@@7excessu I never mentioned anything about faithfulness. 🤔🤔

[@johnbingaman3645]

Just remember men, women look for the future with us and we look at the past with them......

[@iddicted]

I can attest to this. Girls who have a big history are used to getting attention dont value men as much.. but of course its a generalization

[@davieb113]

i dont even wanna know my girls body count and shes just turned 23.... shes been in the bars since 15 and i dont even wanna know.... as a person shes great but she wont stop partying hard... so idk

[@shadowjfd]

A man doesn't care about a woman's past until she tells him. And the more she says about her history, the more the man gets repulsed by it. That guy should leave her. Her past will inevitably come back to haunt him.

[@agnosticmanquestionsall2409]

Ive always regretted knowing how many dudes were with my gfs. It hurts to imagine those dudes and it makes you know your girl isnt what you thought she was. I also noticed history only repeats itself, no such thing as "she changed and wont do it". As soon as we had a breakup or a break those girls went back to their style of sleeping around. I guess I always knew it was her right to do so but not my type of girl for keeps.

[@marcellusrobinson1465]

EXACTLY!!! I told my gf I don't care who you've been with. I just don't want to know!! Yet she just had to tell me everything!

[@miguels.b.2749]

​@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409 same here. Even though she told me I was the one she wanted to marry, I just couldn't get the others out of my head...

[@ruelguitar2k]

Same situation here. It's so hard when she talks about the places she went to. I don't want to get married anymore. We should focus on ourselves.

[@jblasutavario9549]

​@miguels.b.2749 Exactly where I was too. She wanted to be my wife and give birth to my kids. I couldn't get past her...past.

[@alphainteractions3408]

Her past will indicate her future with you. Choose wisely. Irish Redpill Coach.

[@Swagner100]

People go through phases of life. Some women have a checkered past and work on themselves and change. Just like the guys watching this who want to better themselves. You have to take each person on a case by case basis with time. Time is your friend. Rushing in is like gambling.

[@adxnistheman]

This is so true. Me and my girl now have both went through early 20s flings. Both have had enough and found greatness in eachother. Not to mention I’m the only guy she’s had who gets it. (Thanks to Corey) she is loyal and invested asf

[@jeffguzman6497]

Will a taken girl text back to an old hookup If they text her? Mine texted back 😢​@@adxnistheman

[@dylan1159]

Men should always have high standards when dating women and should not take the first girl that comes along. Be selective and lose this fear of being alone, think of what you can accomplish when you have time to apply yourself to your goals. Never ignore a woman's past, as it is a reflection of who she is and the way she behaves. Women who have slept with many men naturally find it difficult to commit to one man and staying faithful, so don't waste your time thinking you can change or fix her. If you guys need any help, just ask.

[@MobilediscowirralCoUk]

So true just hard to find out some never leave the CC just part time think some think its okay he wont know........🤨🤛🏻👌🏻🤯

[@MobilediscowirralCoUk]

@Jordigarrus Believe me am not alpha or simp but there crazy its true improve your SMV! They can and will have backups or even now and they tease the back ups to keep them interested...just walk away if shes gives red flag of being with alot of men and shes 29 😂 or dont get too deep with her (like other men have 🤣) Do think some are still classy but its finding them right place right time...them 6/10 can pull the wool over your eyes so good 🔥

[@GMacII]

This is true, once you master being alone and truly finding out how FREE it feels, you’d wonder why you stuck around in the first place.

[@Mukmok]

I need help

[@abdizero8279]

Hey man, i am in a situation where i would need some advice. met a girl at 22 she is amazing, loves me from head to toe, would do anything for me, extremely loyal and she also goes the extra mile to always support and help me and grow with me. Now i have learned about her sexual past where she was on tinder and had 5 hookups over the course of a couple months, but then realized that it was damaging to her and she stopped and never did it again and tried to commit to a relationship but didn’t find anybody that was appreciative and never did she have sex with anybody for 2 years. Not what she has met me we have a healthy sex life and everything and she is this sweet innocent girl so naturally when i learnt about her past my views of her shattered and i can’t see her the same anymore, i think of her as a slut and i am slowly falling out of love with her, she is constantly reassuring me that it was a period in her life that she regrets but she can’t change it either way and wouldn’t do it again knowing better now but still i find myself focusing so much on it, i don’t want to destroy the relationship bc she is truly special and has so many things other girls lack but i can’t stop forgetting it and i don’t live in the moment anymore but in her past. What do i do, i need help since im falling out of love w her

[@rodrigo100kk]

Gentle, her past matters more than anything. If she has hidden stories she is for the streets.

[@ExcaliburSPO]

Everything she does for you is for HER survival...she is not your Mother

[@rodrigo100kk]

True. She can't care less about you.

[@agnosticmanquestionsall2409]

@@rodrigo100kk We all only care about ourselves in the end, but I personally won't marry a girl who slept around, it doesn't sit well with me because I don't think she values her body and I can't value it either. Besides if other men got it for free or cheap why would I wanna pay for a ring or marriage ? Sounds unfair to me.

[@davidp2888]

Past performance may be an indicator of future behavior.

[@samyb2834]

My ex-wife was promiscuous (50+ guys). The truth is, I never accepted her past and I finally divorced her. The whole thing was a shitshow and she settled with me at 30. Once I stopped being a beta, I realized that I was a chump and this was a bad deal. Fuck that noise. I only date younger women now.

[@samyb2834]

@@VoiceOfThe This is exactly what happened. She was also very masculine and selfish. She was getting pumped and dumped before meeting me. Was not able to lock a man. Once she locked me, she started pushing for babies ASAP. Fuck that noise. Now she's 34 and single. Her clock is ticking. She can try to lock another beta male, but this is not going to be me.

[@akhtaruzzamanjoy8524]

My ex (27) married a guy above 35 recently. That beta married a lady with BPD. RIP his soul and sanity. I am thinking about marrying a traditional practicing Muslim girl. I had my fun now I need to build family with less chaos 😜

[@44enko]

Alpha seed/Beta need. At least you woke up.

[@samyb2834]

@@44enko 100% what happened. I woke up and I'm in my prime at 32. Fuck that noise. Being single and hooking up with younger women is the best.

[@44enko]

@@samyb2834 I'll be 31 in 3 weeks, will never date a woman my own age. Sticking to 18-25 year olds.

[@thecryptovillian803]

I'm getting into the mindset that I am James bond, If I'm not hanging out with my girl I'm out saving the world focusing on my mission and hobbies, I am way too busy for chat, chatty texting etc. If I'm with my girl I'm a cheeky fun guy that wants to have fun, but will put her in her place if she crosses over my boundaries 😎

[@incognitolurker6888]

Great behaviour

[@MsCwebb]

Same here brother. Absolutely on point.

[@richiet.northeastlos4803]

I found to be like Bruce Wayne lol

[@davorebo5790]

And what's your boundaries?

[@thecryptovillian803]

@@davorebo5790 such as causing drama, being secretive, acting cold and distant towards you etc...

[@michaeljobs5796]

From thy streets she came and to thy streets she will return

[@Silver.685]

Nice 😂

[@voltinur]

never asked my girlfriend about her past lover first, only if she's the one who started the conversation about it. Just listen to her story and then I asked her further about it if I really want to know about it. dont be jealous and angry or she would sense weakness within you. But the most important things are hang out, have fun and hook up with her.

[@ballflake]

loool humans emotions are weakness???/ OK I;m going to be my own person

[@7excessu]

First comment that wasn't bitching about the number and insecure af If she's faithful and displays that no one cares and no need to ask about it

[@voltinur]

@@ballflake you dont need to show if you are angry, jealous or whatever it is. if you spot the red flag, all you need to do is walk away

[@juliopadua641]

@@voltinur . What's the "red flag"?

[@ivanfunctionx8431]

@@juliopadua641 her past What else!!

[@ed209v6]

The thing with a woman’s past is that some guys don’t care while others do. I made the mistake of not pre screening my girl but after 10 yrs and 2 kids we’re still going strong.

[@Benny_n_thejets]

Why was it a mistake?

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

Why was it a mistake? Why you not answering are you ashamed

[@AV-kr6gc]

I think your relationship is strong because she sees you as the best man she ever has and will get. I believe only then can a woman with a deep past can pair bond with a man correctly

[@cheetavontiebolt9971]

Please stop the twisted double standards

[@hdembski]

You can accept her past, love her but if there is a significant past as far as notch count smart man walks away

[@davorebo5790]

Maybe.. but if the p@ssy is still tight and wet... then who cares

[@iddicted]

How much is significant notch count?

[@jannieschluter9670]

We reap what we sow. A woman sowing in the streets will reap the streets.

[@princessc660]

@@thelastnotary Some people make mistakes in their past and change and if the women is not doing the same behaviors as her past then people shouldn’t hold it against her. Sometimes people upbringing life situations or experiences can make them turn out the way they do. Nobody ever thinks why a girl would become 304 some people go through things growing up. This is the reason why some girls kill themselves because people don’t allow someone to change. If someone changes their behavior why would you still hold it against them. if a man had a lot of women in his past nobody cares so why do people care if a women has. This is just hypocritical. Maya Angelo was a prostitute when she was younger but turned her life around and became a poet. She did it because she had a kid and changed her life.

[@princessc660]

Some people make mistakes in their past and change and if the women is not doing the same behaviors as her past then people shouldn’t hold it against her. Sometimes people upbringing life situations or experiences can make them turn out the way they do. Nobody ever thinks why a girl would become 304 some people go through things growing up. This is the reason why some girls kill themselves because people don’t allow someone to change. If someone changes their behavior why would you still hold it against them. if a man had a lot of women in his past nobody cares so why do people care if a women has. This is just hypocritical. Maya Angelo was a prostitute when she was younger but turned her life around and became a poet. She did it because she had a kid and changed her life.

[@jannieschluter9670]

@@princessc660 not much truth, just western world degenerative propaganda of gender equality. When it comes to making apples, are bees and apple blossoms the same? The blossom is greater and holds greater responsibility. For that reason a woman is more responsible or should be than a man is. A woman is blessed with beauty, not that it was hers but it is actually a gift to a man of value and thus she chooses that special man who must be her head and her shield. Then the purpose is to have children and to raise them to be "humans" of next generation. There is no "experimenting" in this process, no room for learning from mistakes. A woman is not a machine that gets better with each upgrade like a phone from model to next higher model. Nobody would ever pick a woman with experience over a virgin who spent her time at home with her family instead of being on the streets with "friends". There is a reason why western men rather choose a simple woman from Vietnam over a local woman with "experience" any day. Instead of winning pointless arguments, seek truth and fight for it. Your comment disappointed me.

[@jannieschluter9670]

@@thelastnotary i did not see your comment when writing my response above. We both were "disappointed"...

[@EsotericHighway]

Remember, the higher body count she has it lowers her chances of long term pair bonding. There is a greater chance she will get bored at some point bc of her past. "The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior."

[@EsotericHighway]

@@VoiceOfThe exactly, which is why things like mgtow have grown exponentially. Love it or hate it, it's a response to the times.

[@Blueslyfox]

this also applies to men though. High body count men are more likely to be divorced as well

[@OLDPEDOJOE]

Dealing with this right now, grew up in chaos and now that things are almost perfect with this chick, I'm trying to find problems where there are none.

[@devnotes00]

Sounds like she's had more meat in her than a fast food chain.

[@CN-wt2bj]

She belongs to the streets! *Sips coffee

[@StormChasingNetwork]

Fort Lauderdale in the house, you've honestly helped me tremendously over the years! Cheer's coach,

[@bigd3721]

even psychology today says that the divorce rate goes up with the amount of sexual partners someone has

[@arc1756]

Can’t find it. What’s the link?

[@pdlrkpdlrk9971]

Wow is there a link

[@dacritter8397]

no problem accepting her past... and sending her back to da streets! lol

[@prnation1201]

Well said hahahaha

[@princessc660]

Some people make mistakes in their past and change and if the women is not doing the same behaviors as her past then people shouldn’t hold it against her. Sometimes people upbringing life situations or experiences can make them turn out the way they do. Nobody ever thinks why a girl would become 304 some people go through things growing up. This is the reason why some girls kill themselves because people don’t allow someone to change. If someone changes their behavior why would you still hold it against them. if a man had a lot of women in his past nobody cares so why do people care if a women has. This is just hypocritical. Maya Angelo was a prostitute when she was younger but turned her life around and became a poet. She did it because she had a kid and changed her life.

[@dacritter8397]

@@princessc660 male pair bonding is not affected by number of sexual partners. Female pair bonding ability is. There is a distinct difference between the genders so it really is not as hypocritical as you think it is. 😉

[@rabingajmer3293]

Good looking and outgoing girls always have male orbiters and possibly high body count. If she is loyal and hasn't shown any red flags, just like the coach said, there's no point in creating drama.

[@seano5112]

A woman who can't be alone will never do the work to change herself. She will always revert back to her past behaviors because she doesn't know any other way to survive.

[@kvs7876]

No matter what your girlfriends past is what matters is how she showing up And that she’s only giving her self to you in the present.

[@miguels.b.2749]

XD

[@garp9433]

This is needed advice for me right now. A girl I'm seeing comes from a good home and has good values except when it comes to her sexual promiscuity. She has hooked up with a lot of guys and girls, but the thing is she settles and jumps from low-quality people fairly quickly and it has ruined how I look at her.

[@ExcaliburSPO]

Good home and good values...haha - good luck

[@giovanniletua436]

Right there with you brother. I’m having extreme retroactive jealousy with my current LTR. The more fun we have in the bedroom, the more insecure I’ve become. Who did she learn this from. Who has she done this for. All of these things plague my mind and in reality I’m just pedestalizing her too much

[@FragRevel]

She belongs to the streets!

[@ExcaliburSPO]

@@giovanniletua436 all preparation to satisfy you...now see how much further you can take it

[@shadowjfd]

She's definitely not telling you the truth about her relationship with her parents and her values if she is that sexually active

[@digitalcurrencydude6496]

Men must creat value. Women must preserve value. Myself and men who are honest with themselves are repulsed by having a girl who has high notch count. Good luck finding girl with very low notch count.

[@mrdeeds72]

In my opinion the vetting process just like being the best version of yourself never ends.

[@streetglidesteve7315]

High body count is a red flag she’s not capable of pair bonding

[@BoleiaDaVida]

Most women (some would say all of them) lie about their past. If you are in a serious relationship, lying and omitting relevant facts of the past is selfish, dishonest and disrespectful, and takes away from the other party the right to choose what is best for them. For me, what people have done in the past, good and bad, matters, and matters a lot. It is by far the best and most accurate predictor of what a person is capable of doing, good and bad, in the future. In addition, it is only fair that the truth of the facts of the past be presented in a clear and serene way. Open and honest. BTW, I'm not talking about sordid details, but the basics (how many partners, when, etc.).

[@DHFlip18]

Getting a girl like this, who (on appearance) looks good and sounds good is equivalent to buying a rental car from enterprise... you're getting a shiny car that's been "inspected" for quality and the paint looks good but everyone knows it's been driven like a rental. I'll pass.

[@Nick-ue9of]

Oh man 💯

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

2:24 Scarcity creates value, and we tend to value that which is rare, special, and hard to come by. 8:25 Beta male father who spoiled her, never stands up to her and she’s very beautiful, never set any and enforced any healthy boundaries with her, and in essence he created a little tyrant. 11:14 If your relationship is going well, the last thing you want is constantly seeking attention and validation from other guys. Women either invite that or stop guys in their tracks and tell them they have a BF. Women who have no integrity will give their # out, especially if things aren’t going well in their relationship.

[@salt7479]

Holy fucking shit this came out at the right time

[@sandrewmukhim108]

Great video man 👍

[@hayday9224]

I see you more than I see my family lol, for listening to you everyday, you legend 😎

[@osrsdaily4261]

What a great video coach!

[@kirkbaumgardner1501]

And I used to have problems with drugs and relationships and have a wealth of experience now in managing myself but still need to work on opposite sex

[@klenrussel5813]

I remember way back in college my ex shared her sexual past and how many guys she had slept with. I react negatively and I broke up with her because of her past. After three years, i entered a new relationship, guess what happened? Same situation. But what i did was not to react negatively and be cool about it. The more you focus on her sexual pasts will communicate weakness and insecurity to your woman. She may end up resenting you and not trusting you as a man. Once you broke her trust by giving a shit on her sexual past. You failed as a man. It's not easy for a woman to share on her sexual past, it takes courage and you are lucky if she share it with you. It means she trust you. Stop imagine things that don't exist , it will slows you down. It's a past and already exist on your memory. If her past experience will indicate future performance then why a former drug addict and ex-con become a successful and a good person? It's all about Choice. Just like corey said, give her the benefit of the doubt. If you can't accept her past it's your choice to leave but don't judge and resent her past that is not yours. Just leave so she can find a man who are strong enough to accept her past. You need to be strong enough to handle this kind of situation. Because you may encounter this same situation in your next relationship 100 percent.

[@marcelobasilio3786]

No, you're not a man if you put up with her past, you're just a cvvk. Your definition of man is downright wrong, better find a virgin and keep her instead, and RJ sucessfully overcomed.

[@LiquorCofficial]

Sounds like a simp trying to make himself feel better about being a simp

[@bll1]

Beta

[@faulfeza5243]

Why not find a girl with a better past? It shouldn’t matter when you have options.

[@ChillsCentral]

Sounds like u lost ur balls bruv 😂

[@LowRoller420]

Some girls belong to the streets and some girls belong to i-5 during rush hour.

[@mikehawke2172]

Higher body count = lower chance of a successful relationship

[@majorparadox180]

Spot on and timely for me Today! Thanks Coach Corey Wayne!!

[@macioluko9484]

@11:32 Today with Social Media... They can't say no to the attention.

[@ThatBinghamHikes]

I’m a simple man. I see a new Corey video I press like.

[@johnnyan1073]

Must not be easy but your openness I admire and great valuable contents

[@vinkoanic]

Need a quick opinion from you 3%ers: So i‘ve gone out on a date with a match I got on bumble, I‘ve straight up told her I wouldnt want to text around, but rather get to know each other in person, to which she said it wasnt really her style (she had some pretty negative experiences with weird guys), she likes to text first, but she would make a exception for me. So we hung out, it was fun, I‘d say I made her feel pretty comfortable, we talked a lot, all good. She didnt want to exchange numbers in the beginning, but she changed her mind rather quickly. She even texted me after the date. Now on the next morning I opened bumble, only to see that she deleted her Bumble Account. How do I interpret this? Im fairly new to coreys stuff.

[@walt2121]

That means absolutely nothing, she's probably had a bunch of guy messaging her and offering dick pics. If she texts you talk to her. One thing never tell a woman you don't want to be texting around, you simply demonstrate that with your busy schedule, telling her that makes you look weak.

[@THW745]

thank you for this corey

[@jetsabove3061]

Crazy. I just can't deal with being with a woman with 183 men & women bodies under her skirt. The streets doesn't manufacture a good wife

[@TheMrwilliams2u]

Free game, I would have spent $ for this. I have a similar situation and was really contemplating leaving her because of newly discovered count. And just needed someone who I respect to tell me it’s okay to stay instead of blowing up a good thing. I will push of proposing for a bit though. Thanks!

[@alexraywhitt]

Fantasies, reframing, narcissistic, borderline, historonic and psychopathic personality disorders are something every guy should look into. I recommend Sam Vaknin on youtube. It'll help you understand those crazy women you should avoid.

[@kvs7876]

I recently found my girlfriend has a few pictures of her and her ex from the past on her hidden file on her phone. She doesn’t know I have seen these. But at the same time it makes me think that she really love me and why would she still have these.

[@kaijufan2]

She's still has feelings for him.

[@jblasutavario9549]

Have you dropped her yet?

[@mirkoplakaloivc5933]

Be smart don’t make any problems and be cool.Weekly check on her phone.Facebook,Instagram,Google search history and all her Amazon and the other orders of clothes.There is no better thing than phone to find out if she cheating.

[@jlizzymlove]

This is so sad and it hurts to hear this. I was living with someone for 8 years, I got played bad and I rebelled for 2 years , as a woman to hear this.l

[@jlizzymlove]

I kept thinking I was going to find love and get over him but instead I got heart broken a second time. After that I rebelled I wanted to feel like it mattered and I kept looking for things in the wrong places. I met a guy and I fell so deeply in love with him and he’s such an amazing man I would have never ever cheated on him. If I didn’t cheat for 8 years ln a man that treated me horribly I would most definitely not have ever cheated on a good man who I loved. He digged my past and made me feel like all the good things I did for him through out the relationship was invalidated because of my past. Does this mean because of my past I’m never going to find a good man? Does this mean that even though I’m a good person nothing else matters because of mistakes I did?

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Shit happens. Do betterer next time.

[@PizzlesTechTime]

Great video 😊

[@popeye3945]

Needed this today 🤣😭🤣

[@davieb113]

this guy sounds like me almost. shes been out here since 15 in bars now shes 23. she can be trusted not to hookup hut she is a sloppy drunk and very very friendly. i had a talk with her and she said she'll be more self aware. she has been in the streets. i never ask her her count and i dint ask her how wild it got or any crazy shit.... im partly jealous she got to live the pst i wish i got to live. going out having fun being dumb.... but shes been out here while i was sheltered. i always wanted that kind of life and i feel like i kissed out. im 25 she is 23 but i feel so far behind and she'll continue to live her life but im just a companion it feels like. i wont be there when she travels or does alot of going out.

[@pablogiorgio7479]

Thanks, Corey! :)

[@agnosticmanquestionsall2409]

I like your advice coach and I agree with your advice, I just don't agree with marriage so that's the one thing I will never recommend to any man.

[@nirtal3990]

It depands, if she shows genuine burning desire for you, if she is honest with you in a way that dosent leave you puzzeled or emotionaly weak its fine and you dont need this video, if you are searching for answers on youtube then she is not the one just another one(most likely the first one😂)

[@DavidW-ng5zv]

I know somebody who is dating a girl who lives over 150 miles away and slept with all of his friends. He knows about it too. Is this somehow acceptable? Seems like he has no other options.

[@Silver.685]

Why no other option?

[@plap.]

I don't want to know or hear about their past so as not to judge. Everyone has a past. Try to see them as they are now. But they all insist on divulging this info even in the bedroom before Olympics. Not a turn on at all and it gets old.

[@michaelbirdsong196]

Your videos are awesome you speak truth about things what’s the old saying “ can’t turn a hoe into a housewife”

[@calvinraldajo8565]

how do you even find out shes seeing another guy unless she tells you . most are sneaky

[@giovanniletua436]

There’s ways. You have to formulate particular questions and word them and assert yourself in a particular manner. Almost acting as if you are already aware of what she is doing. Not in a way where you want to believe her BS answer

[@DS-ft6sd]

ya I found out the hard way when I met someone.she was dating someone else as well and did not tell me and put me at risk with sleeping with her.in her 50s and still has not grown up and still a skank and always will be. ignored the many red flags she showed and the 2 marriages she lost.theres a reason she can not keep a male in her life.

[@calvinraldajo8565]

@@giovanniletua436 any examples. i just find girls are so sly and vague. well the smart ones are

[@juliopadua641]

@@giovanniletua436 . give me an example of the "formulated questions" to ask her?

[@deadbeats4417]

the only way is to act like you don't care about her past.

[@TheSellingAcademyTV]

Hook up culture has ruined it for meaningful long term relationships. But let me get one thing straight, aren't all the but hurt men in the comments part of the problem? Why the hypocrisy?

[@TheSellingAcademyTV]

@@wookiee27two very different things. And this is not an attack on coach Corey. He's one of my favourite coaches and I send all my beta male friends to his book. The thing is men engage in hook ups and casual sex at a large scale. In fact, I've been shamed, laughed at and dumped by many men because I didn't want to engage in casual sex. And look at the world, 99% of brothels are for men. What does say?

[@svenjorgensen5]

Ignoring the how differently casual sex affects men vs women, I think you grossly overestimate the amount of sex that men are getting.

[@TheSellingAcademyTV]

@@wookiee27 😅 I have been fine tuning lol. I now mostly date more conservative or traditional men. Way more respectful with sexual boundaries. Of course there are exceptions and it's only my experience.

[@TheSellingAcademyTV]

@@svenjorgensen5 perhaps.

[@carlosmendez3221]

butt hurt?.. lol why not say perhaps we are A students, learners, innovaters, individuals seeking peak performance in all areas of our lives... obviously there’s something in your comment that’s makes some guys react lol ..typically most people are average and the Goal here is to be above average. 3% Men want extraordinary fuck the consequences & we might just achieve it. And my opinion on the pick up for guys.. keep trying different cookies. I am not saying let’s do women wrong but we have to see if we can find better. For me. I can always improve being more selective and raising my standards constantly. Like attracts like.

[@finalninja22]

Maybe you should go back to just casually dating as opposed to being in a committed relationship

[@mvegetaxachilles7211]

The guy really his gf’s past was “none of his business” 😂. Stop being emasculated guys, rise up.

[@7excessu]

This!

[@mr5timewcwchamp]

Don’t ask, be open and she’ll bring it up to you. Eventually you’ll get the idea of what’s happened. The more she tells you, the more she feels comfortable you won’t judge as harshly. Otherwise, she’ll never tell you anything (or the truth).

[@xaviereeec4578]

my thing is that i asked a long time ago ab her past at the beginning of our relationship but months later i found out that she lied what do i do and how should i feel

[@sullyjebs4039]

She knew it would reduce her value. It'd be like if you liked her about how much money you made. Starting a relationship on a lie doesn't make the current part right if she wanted a long-term relationship she should have been truthful and giving you the option and then informed decision. She's just lying and was hoping she wouldn't get caught. That's no way to start a relationship that needs to be built on trust.

[@jblasutavario9549]

Have you dropped her yet?

[@kirkbaumgardner1501]

Okay so I got to get back to reading your book I got the audio book about three or four times but I was wondering have you ever done a video about the actual chemical chemistry that goes on in people's brains when they're in a relationship because my experience has been it's not much different from drugs you get high off of people and people don't know how to control that emotion and if it's an abusive relationship it's a no different from abusing drugs it's even harder to get out of and what are some of the things a man can do to keep his mind completely balanced so he could be at his best alpha mail a game so sorry I'm at work and do not have time to spell check my stupid phone please read him lots LOL

[@macioluko9484]

In life, you either learn to control your emotions or... You let your emotions control you.

[@ExcaliburSPO]

You answered your own question...now follow through

[@genovinchenzo4237]

Dude if you’re still trying to find a good wife in 2024 outside of some extremely religious group…you’re not playing the game being played. These chicks out here are not wife material, even if they say they want marriage. That’s like a fish saying I want to climb a mountain…

[@yugek8371]

I think were dating right? But I never say if "can we have a date?" I instantly ask for coffee for the first time and she agree ang getting to know each other, Then every following days and within 2 weeks (8days) we eat lunch and dinner together, and also she share her past life, her struggle and her family of her life, and his former ex bf for 7yrs, and other bf 2yrs, and she has a son from former 7yrs,, an also her present experience. But from her past life shes already move on. I was thinking that she trust me or something. Can you share with what the meaning of this cause im getting attached to her. I don.t care if she has 12 yr old son. It fine with me.

[@igig6992]

Would yall consider 20 sexual partners as a high body count for a women? What do yall consider high number

[@iddicted]

Id say 20is high

[@avuyilecakwebe6880]

Super high bro

[@igig6992]

@@avuyilecakwebe6880 we talking about miami girl 30 year old tho. Sexy looking girl not middle america

[@miguelangeldomingueztejeda4270]

@@igig6992 still high

[@armyparrot9353]

High. At 30 say she had one 5 yr relationship and one 3 year. So if she started 17...that leaves 5 years she went through 18 guys. That is 3 to 4 guys a year.

[@mmlentertainment]

Does my girl belong to the streets. Wow.

[@Silver.685]

Who's knows 🤷🏻 bruh

[@10second93]

How can I work with you I been chasing girl for 5 years

[@w.p.59]

UGH, I guess, Not!

[@martinmayfield1932]

It sounds like this guy is seeing ghosts 🤔

[@andys598]

What about asking her to stop sharing that info

[@alexcarino3274]

Guys: oh no always pay attention to what her past might be News: J lo is single "High quality guys" 🙋🙋🙋 pick me

[@marcelobasilio3786]

Eh?

[@robertfinkelstein2787]

my ex-girlfriend's a different story she's the one who came from a very abusive marriage of 15 years verbally and physically. At least she finally walked away from that jerk

[@crisclay2678]

She got abused for a reason

[@rodrigo100kk]

Never trust women's word bro, that's a very beta male trait there.

[@marcelobasilio3786]

LOLOL, 15 favking years, yeah, she's such a weakling.

[@kirkbaumgardner1501]

He is probably done that video I just have not seen it hopefully I come acrossed it about the physical chemical chemistry in each other's brains men and women

[@avuyilecakwebe6880]

RP Men really dont know what they want.

[@GMacII]

This was one of the hurdles Kanye could climb over. Whatever that number is my dude, MULTIPLE by 3.

[@flo_ridaa7074]

I’m not to keen bikes, then again could be something I need to work on

[@MartinLea]

You think most women know how lions behave to the young of a lioness who has been with another lion? ...

[@marcelobasilio3786]

Interesting, how do they behave? Curious to learn more.

[@MartinLea]

@@marcelobasilio3786 when a lion takes over the pride from another male usually after he’s killed the male of that pride he usually kills all the offspring from the previous male. Sometimes the lionesses come up with tricks to hide their offspring but that’s the savage part of nature. He does it to protect himself & his offspring. If he doesn’t then he might be at risk from the young cubs when they grow up & take out their vengeance on him. Despite the current trend to only see the good in animals and nature there is a dark and savage side to them.

[@austinnguyen9107]

11:20 14:39 15:25 18:38

[@nathansoto9071]

I kid you not one minute in a fucking add there’s really nothing you can do about this coach?

[@KVI580]

I rejected a girl who had 2 romantic relationships with 2 other guys before me, when i met her she had an Bf, but we ended in sleeping together that she left her bf for me and we started an relationship, but after sometime she went back for her ex, and year again she came back to me but i rejected her, i loved her overlooking her sexual past with just 2 guys, i ignored that humiliation and loved her but she chose her ex over me, and then that person dumped her too, it made me led to redpill and alpha videos, but up to date she was the best woman of my taste i ever had and loved,if its not the bad circumstances i would have married her, im still single as i couldnt find anyone as standard and better than her, its been 2years and it sucks being single

[@erickandrade1921]

So she cheated on her boyfriend with you then left the boyfriend?

[@KVI580]

@@erickandrade1921 yes, then she started a relationship with me for few months and went back to her ex, i ignored her and went no contact and after a year (last year) she came back to me saying she ended everything with her ex and wanted to marry me, but i said nah and deleted her number, it hurts still cause i liked her damn much,

[@erickandrade1921]

@@KVI580 The obvious red flag was she cheated on her boyfriend with you. You shouldve known then not too get in a relationship with her so your hurting because its your fault she should have been nothing more than a fuck buddy. Corey talks about that all the time if she cheats on her current boyfriend she'll cheat on you

[@erickandrade1921]

This may come off hostile but I'm telling the truth

[@KVI580]

@@erickandrade1921 i know bro, that breakup led me to coach corey wayne and rational male redpill, tbh im a nice guy but that breakup was my wake up call, and her ex bf was an bad boy who had an interesting life, so she chose her over me and now i understanding how much immature and blue pill i was,

[@heliogps]

how much kids you have?

[@mariorodriguez219]

Impossible

[@KaraRocknRoll]

Coach Corey Wayne = God

[@MsFreegaza]

Corey.As a student f yours for 8 years.A GOOD student,i demand a test :D ...You should create a 3% Man test. 100 questions. In all seriousness,im serious. Since your work iv dated over 3000 different women,yet i had two experiences in two recent dates where both women called me rude..It was an eye opener and made me realise we never stop learning. The first girl i ignored and shrugged it off as she walked away and told myself she has a bad attitude(she does) but i ignored her observation of my behaviour.When the week later another girl said it...i said,hold up....please explain to me what i did which was rude.....man,what i did was soooo subtle,but i figured out WHY it was rude.And it opened my eyes...we never stop learnng.Experience is key. A test that we can keep coming back to every few months is a ok way to judge progression for those times we are going through a dry spell. Keep up the great work Coach.

[@brettanderson4021]

3000! Is that a typo?

[@MsFreegaza]

​@@brettanderson4021 ah 2000 sorry. since about 2011.But vast majority in past 8 years.The more i read the book,the more successful i got.Not every date was succesful but the past 50% of them were mostly ending in indoor olympics on first date.Im fascinated by female behaviour and made it a mission in life to understand everything Corey teaches.There were many months were i had a date almost every night of the week. I dont do that anymore as im much older and desire only high quality women now. But every woman and date i ahd i learned something,and to be honest i still am learning

[@brettanderson4021]

@@MsFreegaza Fair enough

[@ACoolNewDay]

You think this theory is somehow different for men than women 😂

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

Intuitives, 1/3 of people, may enjoy and negotiate consensual non-monogamy.

[@raulperez4154]

Hahahaha I call my ex babymama ho phase

[@3Asterisk]

I hate to say it but I'm marrying outside of this country. Hello Russia! Lol

[@christophersingletary3394]

Like that's any better!!! Marriage is a thing of the past...BUT Good Luck!!!