Addicted to Old Men Yelling

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Elisha Long

Elisha Long

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@MinecraftKid120
@MinecraftKid120 9 ай бұрын
this is hilarious because I've literally had the exact same thoughts when binging these motivational gurus . I asked myself why do I constantly need another man telling me to get my shit together , Its kinda gay LMAO
@thelifewithnate
@thelifewithnate 9 ай бұрын
LMAO, another comment that made me laugh on here. Elisha's community is awesome, lol. But sometimes on the real, you need an external jolt to get you out of a slump. I know I do from time to time. Cheers mate!
@christoforos4126
@christoforos4126 9 ай бұрын
Exactly
@vladxful
@vladxful 9 ай бұрын
Bro I've literally been having the same thoughts for the past few days lmfao
@user-qo6pt9ll5i
@user-qo6pt9ll5i 9 ай бұрын
Lol i remember taking a 4 month break from weed, then i smoked for the 1st time after a while and watched 1 redpill video and it literally felt like i was absorbing information from a forbidden tribe. Thats when i had the epiphany that all these pills are stupid as hell, you're either a man or you arent.
@Daimyo06
@Daimyo06 9 ай бұрын
I've always felt this way. Give me wisdom,I can motivate myself.
@itaintobeezy
@itaintobeezy 9 ай бұрын
THEY DONT KNOW ME SONNNN
@officialthomasjames
@officialthomasjames 9 ай бұрын
Seeking out motivational videos and guys telling you what to do is just procrastination. Deep down, you know what you need to do. Take action. Action teaches you more than any man ever could.
@davidwebber5856
@davidwebber5856 9 ай бұрын
What a great perspective, thank you sir!
@bluekong9668
@bluekong9668 8 ай бұрын
It still can be beneficial to give you a push but you need to take action. Only watching this motivational videos will not bring you any results
@jtom416
@jtom416 9 ай бұрын
😂 Eli definitely leveled up his thumbnail and titles the past few months
@MinecraftKid120
@MinecraftKid120 9 ай бұрын
I started dying laughing when I saw the title and thumbnail
@taylor-kenny
@taylor-kenny 9 ай бұрын
Sometimes ya just gotta "lighten up" a bit. Work hard, but make sure you take the time to enjoy day to day experiences.
@thelifewithnate
@thelifewithnate 9 ай бұрын
Striking a balance in between everything is key with anything. I am slowly realizing that when it comes to different day to day experiences. It's hard man, I want to grind and make it as they say with this KZbin channel and other projects I got going on. But I need to be careful not to burn myself out all the time.
@yudi8204
@yudi8204 8 ай бұрын
What is balance and how is balance?
@Darth-Turtle
@Darth-Turtle 9 ай бұрын
This is one of your realest videos ever, I remember watching your channel in college feeling rigid myself trying to be this or that, when in reality life is simple
@thelifewithnate
@thelifewithnate 9 ай бұрын
Man, life has its ups and downs! It really does for me, I just turned 28 and I feel like I am still trying to find that balance by not being so rigid all the time with life and just making sure that my environment is simple around me. You can spend an entire lifetime on that paradox.
@ElishaLong
@ElishaLong 9 ай бұрын
​@@thelifewithnate You don't need to be stuck in the paradox. What do you want to do with your life at 28?
@pantsonfire2216
@pantsonfire2216 9 ай бұрын
@@ElishaLong”I yelled at you for 3 hours on my podcast now buy my shit products so you can be like me” Implying anyone should be like any of these grifters.
@aidan9656
@aidan9656 9 ай бұрын
What I realize by observing the comments on those videos is that alot of Gen Z men/boys grew up with absentee or disengaged fathers. I think alot of them develop this sort of parasocial paternal relationship to these "alpha male"/ redpill motivational gurus to get a sense of the feeling that a father figure is coaching them or giving tough love. I think what we need a society is to encourage men to be involved fathers and real-life mentors to the younger generation of men so they don't feel like they have to hop on the internet to go find it.
@freedomismine4607
@freedomismine4607 8 ай бұрын
You say that men need to take responsibility but you cannot be responsible for that which you have no authority over. It's not as black and white as "oh, well those men just need to man up and stop being such wusses!" A lack of masculine role models is a symptom of our broken system. It's a complex issue revolving around evolutionary psychology and female nature. We have a democracy where anyone is allowed to vote regardless of their contributions to society and when you understand female nature you come to the conclusion that the west has a cancer and that cancer is terminal. It's very easy to see a symptom - feminine men, directionless youth - and declare that to be the main problem (though it is a major problem).
@billelliott3507
@billelliott3507 9 ай бұрын
I definitely was a complete retard until I started boxing and then working at a cafe. Boxing got me loose, and being around my coach and other guys who were about it really helped. Selling food and drinks at the cafe taught me to present in a way that was good for the business and myself. Girls I don't know still scare me a little but I'm getting better. Appreciate your words, definitely hear way too much of the grind stuff, good to get a reminder to chill.
@TheMindfulGrind
@TheMindfulGrind 9 ай бұрын
So true with the point that people act stoic not because life made them that way, but because that's what they were told to do by a dude in a video. It's funny I could show this to some people I know and they would be offended by your points Elisha 😂😂
@TaCC2
@TaCC2 8 ай бұрын
All these gurus no matter which niche target teenagers, not adults. Being 25 now, im just not receptive for bs anymore
@jamesxfowler
@jamesxfowler 9 ай бұрын
Spot fucking on. At the root of it, you know exactly what the fuck you need to do in order to improve your life. You don’t need to waste hours watching a grown man tell you what you already know. God bless Elisha people need to hear this so they can get out of that echo chamber
@christoforos4126
@christoforos4126 9 ай бұрын
Haha that's hilarious but so true. I still remember when Jordan Peterson first took the public stage back in 2017. I was in my early 20s then, I gotta admit it swept me up a little bit too. It's nice to think back on all of that and see how I've grown out of it. Lads, you don't need self help. Just work on shit and have fun. If you're consistent, everything just grows from there.
@milkman6218
@milkman6218 8 ай бұрын
It's funny I've made jokes about how people see JP as their 'internet daddy' and he used it in this vid. After listening to his work- yeah you SHOULD grow out of him, he's telling you exactly what this guy says, clean your room, start small go outside and build yourself up. If you have done that then JP isn't needed anymore. He has tons of advice and is the epitome of word salad, but from what I saw before (I think he's crazy on twitter now) he was telling people how to get out of rock bottom.
@Tr055
@Tr055 8 ай бұрын
Same here lol
@AldensAntlers
@AldensAntlers 9 ай бұрын
Bro you’re the best at giving me an alternate perspective. Your ability to open my mind against paradigms in my life is astonishing. Seriously
@AncientSteel
@AncientSteel 9 ай бұрын
This literally popped up while listening to a Jocko Compilation.
@st0s193
@st0s193 9 ай бұрын
The algo knows exactly what we need
@AvonNabors
@AvonNabors 9 ай бұрын
These rigid austist are brutal. I know exactly what youre talking about. Internet bodied a whole generation. 😂
@ElishaLong
@ElishaLong 9 ай бұрын
Aye man let's get it. Get the spirit back
@catcat9582
@catcat9582 9 ай бұрын
I think this is your most important video
@Verdpast
@Verdpast 9 ай бұрын
You kinda of fit the role of "Older Friend with masculine life advice" not gonna lie, but in a down to earth way, positive
@JosephLuppens
@JosephLuppens 8 ай бұрын
Again, thank you Elisha. You have a rather unique gift, which is to identify and clearly articulate the many facets of an issue and consolidate it into a singular, crystalized realization. As such, the greatest gift that men can offer, which is to serve as a mentor and light to others who are searching, is in it's death throes. I remember when I first started out in life, the men who mentored me in finance, career, health, etc. were just astonishing to me. No matter how troubled they were in various areas of life, this ability to take time, energy, and focus to help another person was very compelling and it inspired me to mentor and help others in the future. It was amazing to see those I helped exceed what took me years to accomplish in only one year; this is what mentorship is all about.
@stocktonjames888
@stocktonjames888 9 ай бұрын
I was just thinking about this earlier, just a whole wave of 35-60 year old men on KZbin, or instagram just yelling, swearing and saying the same shit. Eventually you get tired of hearing it, I’m tired of the lecturing it’s useless. I’m just gonna live my life, I’ll figure it out, whatever happens, happens, some of it will suck ass, some of it will be awesome. I’m just sick of some “Grandpa”, “dad” or “older brother” telling me the same fucking thing over and over.
@ThytruWasHere
@ThytruWasHere 9 ай бұрын
Probably because these boys didn’t have a father to yell at them growing up😂
@ElishaLong
@ElishaLong 9 ай бұрын
The thing is, that's not what a father is like, a loving father anyway. Sure he will raise his voice from time to time. It's teaching these young guys to be tense and fake.
@catcat9582
@catcat9582 9 ай бұрын
Very profound truth ​@@ElishaLong
@jessecortez9449
@jessecortez9449 9 ай бұрын
​@@ElishaLongit's actually a compounding of disfunction. Most the old men screaming didn't have a true, masculine father when they grew up so they create the model they think they should have had. So the young men going to these guys are getting a double stack of disfunction.
@ThytruWasHere
@ThytruWasHere 9 ай бұрын
@@Ventryx you might be on to some
@Adam-TheLiftedKing
@Adam-TheLiftedKing 9 ай бұрын
@@ElishaLongI think its less teaching then to be fake, and more these old men. Are teaching younger men to become mini version of themselves (personality and mindset wise). Opposed to their own man. Which a good father wants his son to be strong but also have the strength to be his own individual. A bad father would train his son to be a carbon copy of him. A good father would raise his son with some shared values , but not “train” him to be who he is.
@sippin1877
@sippin1877 8 ай бұрын
I watched a few of your videos and this is some of the realest advice I’ve heard please never stop making content like this
@PqV72MT4
@PqV72MT4 9 ай бұрын
I stopped listening to gurus a while ago. It's been nice thinking for myself.
@mikel2976
@mikel2976 8 ай бұрын
I just declared my love 3 days ago. Now at age 20 I got my first ever girlfriend and also held hands for the first time ever. I feel so blessed she is super feminine and intelligent. Knows how to avoid conflict and detect root problems to stop fights. I have loved her since last year and just found out she did too but she was too shy and I wouldn't get the signs. I love her so much and I know I'm gonna marry her.❤
@adion3010
@adion3010 8 ай бұрын
Everyone is out there telling you what to but you're the only person that will face the consequences. Also listening to all the "DO THIS" "NEVER DO THAT" will make you insane at some point lol
@soulofexistence
@soulofexistence 5 ай бұрын
I came back to re-watch this video just because of how hillarious and spot-on the title and thumbnail are
@andremello849
@andremello849 9 ай бұрын
Eli, I do absolutely agree with you. I think sometimes maybe when you are lost you need someone to tell you what to do, when you are down bad. That saved me, but the thing is you can not let this become a habit, otherwise it happens what you said. Great video man.
@jimbosr.7777
@jimbosr.7777 9 ай бұрын
verry happy i stopped watchin them podcasts months ago true shit g.
@jonp.1084
@jonp.1084 9 ай бұрын
It stems from lack of leader ship in their real life. There just aren’t that many actual men in the world anymore. Men crave masculine men leadership at the core of it.
@TonTon.2142
@TonTon.2142 8 ай бұрын
This is where I’m at with it. I never had a strong male figure in my life. Without the internet, I wouldn’t know anything about “game” or stoicism. The “red pill” gets a bad rap, but a lot of the core teachings are solid for the long haul. “I’m the prize” mentality? Abundance versus scarcity. And more. Things that I might have taken 10 years and countless trial and error for me to figure out on my own. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen 40, 50, even 60 year olds in the comments talking about how they wish they would have watched a video sooner.
@timgehrsitz3267
@timgehrsitz3267 7 ай бұрын
@@TonTon.2142 The red pill is suuuuper flawed which is an issue because like you said it has some good teachings in it. It unfortunately turns the idea of taking pride in yourself, working hard for yourself and not letting yourself be rolled over and fuses that into the sentiment that love is a competition and not a real romantic feeling between two compatible people. I wish we got more of both sides of that coin
@tjblackmore7863
@tjblackmore7863 9 ай бұрын
What does Jocko do that’s so important that he has to get up at 4:30? Record a podcast? Sell supplements?
@joemon7463
@joemon7463 9 ай бұрын
Snort snow
@sprocastersprocaster
@sprocastersprocaster 9 ай бұрын
I think jocko does it for many reasons. He does it to honor his allies who he considered friends who were killed in combat, he’s a warrior, I’m sure he just prefers it that way.
@tjblackmore7863
@tjblackmore7863 9 ай бұрын
@@sprocastersprocaster bro he fought in a bullshit war so the military industrial complex could make money
@tjblackmore7863
@tjblackmore7863 9 ай бұрын
@@Ventryx He literally doesn’t have to do any of it. His life lacks any real adversity so he has to recreate it to prop up his alpha male image… so he can sell more JOCKO MOLK protein powder and energy drinks
@sprocastersprocaster
@sprocastersprocaster 9 ай бұрын
@@tjblackmore7863 that’s irrelevant, he’s done with the warfighting. What’s your point?
@spacemansam_
@spacemansam_ 9 ай бұрын
Oh man the contrast between this and Wes Watsons content is very refreshing. I can see both sides. I understand its important to be disciplined and set standards for yourself. It's also very important for you to enjoy life and not be so tense 24/7! Thank you for the great content over the years Elijah, always a great perspective on things.
@understandingyourself
@understandingyourself 9 ай бұрын
This title + thumbnail is hilarious. Spot on lol. The result of no decent fathers. Chronic tension kills spontaneity, and that is the beautify of life, we are not robots. So true, great vid.
@4-leafclover7
@4-leafclover7 9 ай бұрын
Its when life gets thought and I’m down on myself that those "old men" bring me out of darkness because life can get hard. Those who love them understand the pain and the struggle. It might be sickness, grief, loss whatever you going through, sometimes it’s just really difficult to not give up. It’s also a reason why I love so much, the bible and Jesus.
@lord.of_iron
@lord.of_iron 9 ай бұрын
It's not just the rigidity either. Look at how high the bar is being set just by the examples of "real men" podcasters and entrepreneurs alone. These grifters are essentially setting up most men for failure because they will constantly feel like failures when comparing themselves to whom they listen to. Sure, its nice to hear an inspiring message from time to time. But we all know the reality of what your average man is capable of, and most of us are not going to be fcking millionaires or top %ers, and that's ok. We can all build a solid foundation with honest work and honest relationships no matter how mid you are in terms of status. And honestly, much of that comes from just lightening the fck up.
@brainrush3569
@brainrush3569 8 ай бұрын
Mediocrity is like a black hole constantly tempting us. It's all around us and we need to choose to constantly surround ourselves with the shouts of achievement. So, I'm all for men seeking out the wisdom and inspiration of greatness. One thing I agree with: indeed, men need to stop trying to be stoic rugged individuals. Not so they can have emotions, but to acknowledge that nearly no one achieved great things on their own. They must find a great team and learn to be a great teammate. Every great civilization was built by a team of men. The "rugged individual" cowboy crap destroyed the team culture that built the USA. We need each other. Join groups. Learn to be a team player at work. Make an unofficial fraternity that helps the community. Learn to suppress individual arrogance and nurture teammate confidence.
@connorholmes8786
@connorholmes8786 8 ай бұрын
Yo on a real note this is the sound big bro advice we need, thank you
@runningfromcomfort
@runningfromcomfort 8 ай бұрын
This is so true, as much as I love David Goggins, I have always thought that the dude sounds like he lives a miserable existence in his head day after day. As a Christian, I understand God designed us to have rest and peace, and these guys clearly have no peace.
@johnmcternan4157
@johnmcternan4157 8 ай бұрын
He's a teenage girl cutting on himself, what's he going to do when he can't lift the boats anymore?
@Wave.6
@Wave.6 9 ай бұрын
Thanks for this vid, Elisha. Some really important message for young guys. And congrats on 131k, keep it up! 👊
@maxslate747
@maxslate747 9 ай бұрын
I am dying 💀, hilarious but true. Thanks for the reminder
@wilarz89
@wilarz89 9 ай бұрын
That so true, it's just guys looking for mentors, and for some reason influencers think they have what it takes.
@JakeyWakey
@JakeyWakey 9 ай бұрын
I've seen the fake stoic before😂 As an old guy that yells at people, I only offer advice that I'm practicing myself.
@Symphonia69
@Symphonia69 9 ай бұрын
You get sick of listening to them anyway. Once you hear one podcast or video from them you've heard them all.
@spoopyidk
@spoopyidk 4 ай бұрын
It's so funny how these guys want to improve their lives because they're lonely and unhappy, but they act like someone NOBODY wants to be around. Who wants that debby downer to come hang? Somebody will say something goofy, and there's just him looking like he smelled fart in the corner, stoicly being the stoic stoic cool guy.
@kiffymanofficial2
@kiffymanofficial2 8 ай бұрын
I would rather have someone like a big brother like you, telling me ideas and not telling me what to do. 🙏🏻
@apmtvm
@apmtvm 8 ай бұрын
Another solid video. Elisha’s wisdom goes well beyond his age.
@ethanrobbins1997
@ethanrobbins1997 9 ай бұрын
I haven’t watched one of your videos in awhile but this one really resonated. Hope you’re doing good E.
@youngjoerogan
@youngjoerogan 8 ай бұрын
we have GOT to talk hahaha love that intro man
@jeffsnider9869
@jeffsnider9869 9 ай бұрын
Was totally thinking of this a couple days ago. Completely agree!
@hansblitz7770
@hansblitz7770 8 ай бұрын
"Extreme Ownership" = being the punching bag, the workboy. In most guys non-special forces lives, that will simply get them fired for Karen's incompetent workplace mishaps.
@roadopener
@roadopener 5 ай бұрын
Favorite YT title ever
@santieldasavage
@santieldasavage 9 ай бұрын
I'll be honest Elisha I was on that train of binge watching those guys but last year i pumped the brakes on it
@vanceacuna
@vanceacuna 9 ай бұрын
very glad i started watching this channel made me start my own yesterday
@themagiccookie2614
@themagiccookie2614 9 ай бұрын
Yeah you can actually can get it...I had it. It gets you out of a slumb, but I'm thinking I need to manufacure another one because I didn't make the most of it. Last time I just became another sheep wishing to be a ram, because they told me that's good.
@max-hill-4
@max-hill-4 8 ай бұрын
I understand that being judgemental is bad, but I feel like I cannot help myself doing it. Advice appreciated m19
@1997Milan
@1997Milan 9 ай бұрын
I'm addicted to this line since your last video 😂. Can't get it out of my head
@EncyclopediaX
@EncyclopediaX 9 ай бұрын
Have a sick weekend my brother 💪🙏
@ElishaLong
@ElishaLong 9 ай бұрын
You too man. Any plans?
@EncyclopediaX
@EncyclopediaX 9 ай бұрын
@@ElishaLong yes, nephews birthday, the young king lol. Getting my buddies together for man shit Saturday,( your advice) then bible study Sunday. I stopped going to church cause I don't believe they are following Christ properly an it's more traditional. So I do my own thing with god beside me :) god bless brother and thank you for the content. The whole' brother we need to talk, she will text you back' fucking gold lol
@will2849
@will2849 7 ай бұрын
I remember this whole trend kicked off around 4 years or so back when I was 16 and I was addicted to this silly “grindset” bs, but fortunately I figured out I felt unfulfilled, I broke the cycle when I found skateboarding, something most of these gurus would tell u is a waste of time despite the exact same levels of dedication put into it 😂
@eksquisite
@eksquisite 9 ай бұрын
i realized how much iv lost it when i was at a class the other day from which i know 4 chicks dig me and openly told me but i keep brushing it off cause i think im too good for them, and later a cutie from some different class was eye fuckin me the whole day and in the bus as she continued to throw glances at me i kept looking away while mewing with no intention of ever talking to her despite digging her. What the fuck is wrong with me honestly
@Blakoss
@Blakoss 8 ай бұрын
That’s rough dude, don’t worry about all that crap when you’re in social situations, just focus on being present
@thelifewithnate
@thelifewithnate 9 ай бұрын
Congrats , this made me laugh with how true it can be actually! David Goggins is a hero of mine and I take some advice from him to better discipline myself with fitness and consistency. I will admit though that sometimes I do have a tendency to take life too seriously and stick to the "grind" instead of actually enjoying life. It can be useful when I'm in a lazy slump and I need a jolt to get me alive and kicking, but most of the time it does go overboard. You are correct in that it is no way to live, but to each their own as they say! Cheers!
@lazycalc2533
@lazycalc2533 8 ай бұрын
This could even apply to entertainment. Sometimes I wake up and put on espn and Stephen A or this fool Chris Russo are just non stop shouting and yelling at the tv…It’s such an insufferable way to start the day.
@Ninepac
@Ninepac 7 ай бұрын
Who’s gonna carry the boats buddy
@ITNEVERSTOP
@ITNEVERSTOP 8 ай бұрын
It shows that you are on the right path!
@johnmcternan4157
@johnmcternan4157 8 ай бұрын
Hilariously true title. 🤣 So bloody good.
@kevinfortsch
@kevinfortsch 9 ай бұрын
Imagine being tense and ridged, and then trying to talk to a girl so you can get laid and lose that tension and rigidity 😂 most of these guys are their own worst enemy.
@PlainJames826
@PlainJames826 9 ай бұрын
The kindness comes from experience, young guys do not understand this
@aidanmeans5344
@aidanmeans5344 9 ай бұрын
there will be real life situations I encounter and my initial reaction is to smile, but then I’ll tell myself, “thats gay”
@catcat9582
@catcat9582 9 ай бұрын
I wish you were more popular than Tate
@MuahMan
@MuahMan 7 ай бұрын
Unless Wes Watson is telling me what a POS I am , I simply can't accomplish anything!!! /s
@Roan.bot.
@Roan.bot. 8 ай бұрын
That’s like the entire history of human wisdom being passed on but I’ll excuse myself 😂
@kevnev342
@kevnev342 9 ай бұрын
"The ultimate human being cannot be found in a prescription (how-to's , transient motivation, "10 steps to this" crap) He can only be found when one is willing to go on a journey where there are no maps. Kapil Gupta Do you want to become a immatation or a original human being?
@squali1930
@squali1930 7 ай бұрын
bro, I don't wanna see how others see me, hell nah.
@mtd1089
@mtd1089 9 ай бұрын
We go though the process of old men yelling at us just to get to a position of young beautiful women softly calling us “cutie” 💯
@earlgrey7657
@earlgrey7657 9 ай бұрын
my reality the past year
@CDsBrickMix
@CDsBrickMix 8 ай бұрын
Such a needed message!
@dawnfmEnthusiast
@dawnfmEnthusiast 9 ай бұрын
Eli keeping it real always
@empoweredpenguin4036
@empoweredpenguin4036 9 ай бұрын
I didn’t click on this video cause I’m afraid that’s it’s gonna tell me exactly what I need to hear
@Davehans5600
@Davehans5600 9 ай бұрын
I went down the Hamza rabbit hole a couple of years go, I certainly don't feel like the ultra strong, charismatic gigachad he pressures you to be, I just feel more mentally ill, and now I'm trying to undo all of the perfectionism
@Blakoss
@Blakoss 8 ай бұрын
Same, he’s very emotional as well, making out that the world is out to get you and all
@henrypaul8823
@henrypaul8823 7 ай бұрын
I couldn’t stand hamza. He’s always trying to convince people that women and others hold yourself up to higher standards than being yourself and having self acceptance.
@ymmijchen9310
@ymmijchen9310 2 ай бұрын
This vid in itself is old man yelling 😂
@gpasprimus6505
@gpasprimus6505 8 ай бұрын
These old dudes are really getting rich yelling around town all day long
@kimbarsegyan
@kimbarsegyan 9 ай бұрын
Ok, but then WHO'S GONNA CARRY THE BOATS? And what about THE LOGS?!
@vangoghsear8657
@vangoghsear8657 Ай бұрын
Thanks for saying this. I've thought this for a number of years. Tate has been largely exposed. But people like Goggins develop cult-of-personality fanbases and many don't call out how ridiculous and abnormally behaved these people really are.
@Denariusjay
@Denariusjay 8 ай бұрын
But but but... Whos gonna move these boats, son?😂
@SnowFallPH
@SnowFallPH 9 ай бұрын
Thanks elisha.
@sosigking6358
@sosigking6358 9 ай бұрын
OLD MEN YELLING!!!!! RAAAAAAAAH. MY FUCKING FAVORITE!!!! I LOVE GURUSLOP
@sosigking6358
@sosigking6358 9 ай бұрын
Seriously though, it's scary how many people I personally know who've fallen into this tate/ hamza/ whatever pipeline.
@finn9000
@finn9000 9 ай бұрын
Don't kink shame me Elisha
@bigchungus7327
@bigchungus7327 9 ай бұрын
@insanoibro6331
@insanoibro6331 9 ай бұрын
Ha gayyyyy
@Heavyweightz
@Heavyweightz 9 ай бұрын
Just an observation, I like your channel and what you preach but as far as trying to discover yourself as you said, For everyone my age group and culture being social means going out into bar/club environment. I just don't feel as if im discovering myself by being in an environment where all I see is drugs, alcohol and people being out of their minds. I would be lying to you If I said I dont look down upon it and I don't think I would find a good quality women there, I get attention from women often but most girls I meet out there just ends up being shallow meaningless sex which does nothing for me personally. Despite this though I do have some good bros, I can speak freely with judgement free, laugh and joke and have a good time so I dont mind missing out on that stuff. I believe theres no such thing as " discovering yourself " rather building yourself as a man by following your heart and passions and mine is the gym, being strong and building a great physique. I don't care what people think of me because I know myself I'm a good loyal person who treats people with respect always, thats what matters but I do find myself being closed off to people I meet in these clubs and bars because multiple times in the past when I try to connect with these people it just seems it backfires on me and I get betrayed In some sort of way both men and women, which is fine its their problem. That's I look so serious when I'm around that stuff, I understand its not an attractive aura but I would rather be this way than faking who I am just to fit in.
@ElishaLong
@ElishaLong 9 ай бұрын
F bars and clubs man. I hate clubs. If you don't like it don't go.
@itaintobeezy
@itaintobeezy 9 ай бұрын
Yeah dont listen to those old men yelling at you, listen to the millennial man tell you to play with yoyos and do jiujitsu 😂 love ya bro have a great weekend
@alexstone9099
@alexstone9099 9 ай бұрын
This is really funny. I have thought similar stuff about this, this perfectionist autistic (no offense to autistic folks) way of being is infecting some good young guys' minds, including people close to me and it is sad to see guys tryna be like this. I've even fallen into that isolation stuck in my head trap a lot myself. Us young guys need to enjoy life a bit more and be more open to it and having a bit of that lightheartedness, if life has taught me anything over these years it is that.
@morganboykin1159
@morganboykin1159 8 ай бұрын
And having a problem is not bad
@ideasandtrucking
@ideasandtrucking 9 ай бұрын
Can we talk about how funny Elisha is
@oui2611
@oui2611 4 күн бұрын
funny thing is the yelling is less demoralizing than these videos i procrastinate on for some reason. and i dont even like the old men yelling. if you guys want something truly uplifting, dont watch these harsh reality videos, go outside and have fun with people or watch something where people are coming together and having fun if you dont have that.
@LearnCompositionOnline
@LearnCompositionOnline 8 ай бұрын
Correct!!! And not only old men: young men! What is worse. My references when growing up were the great poets and philosophers. I read the life of St Agostinus. These were my references
@20timesshoota27
@20timesshoota27 9 ай бұрын
addicted to young men talking at me. goodbye elisha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@classicalchess4008
@classicalchess4008 9 ай бұрын
Spot on bro
@LearnCompositionOnline
@LearnCompositionOnline 8 ай бұрын
For me the worst part is going to gym and behaving as if you were the next winner of the International Chopin Piano Contest 😂 Any dog can go to gym everyday.
@RycastFitness
@RycastFitness 8 ай бұрын
What I am not addicted to is the sound of zoomers whining.
@ObeLewis
@ObeLewis 8 ай бұрын
Love the content
@johnmcternan4157
@johnmcternan4157 8 ай бұрын
Eric Thomas too.
@kzg_veritas12
@kzg_veritas12 5 ай бұрын
Funny how i can know tell who is that "old man yelling"/"self help guru" just by the lines that youre saying I genuinely need help
@johnmcternan4157
@johnmcternan4157 5 ай бұрын
I'm genuinely curious, who is it? Goggins?
@kzg_veritas12
@kzg_veritas12 5 ай бұрын
@@johnmcternan4157 he's one of them lol
@kzg_veritas12
@kzg_veritas12 5 ай бұрын
He is one of them lol​@@johnmcternan4157
@kzg_veritas12
@kzg_veritas12 5 ай бұрын
@@johnmcternan4157 He is one of them
@johnadam3353
@johnadam3353 9 ай бұрын
not all fingers are equal
@janiah5622
@janiah5622 9 ай бұрын
This video is so real
@JackDonovan
@JackDonovan 8 ай бұрын
This is hilarious. I hate those videos. It’s a little masochistic.
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