Addiction and a Meddling Mom: Heidi Bozeman v David Rordame S24 E94

[@cherrellsumbler85]

Aint no WAY you date a man THAT LONG when he CLEARLY has substance abuse issues AND share a bank account. This is crazy

[@robbbietheim2096]

Weakness is real in these streetz, thought you knew 😁😁

[@kattiethomas4687]

He's very very immature 😮

[@kattiethomas4687]

Graduated?from what?????

[@kattiethomas4687]

She an addiction too

[@chaundawalker6741]

Alcohol, gambling & sex addictions plus he's a mama's boy. Ms. Nurse didn't need to see Judge Star, its just common sense.

[@jasmindrace]

True words right here. ⬆️

[@brittanybrown484]

@@jasmindrace Of course

[@loracro4284]

Common sense really is t common. This was a messy case.

[@rae2050]

I’m dying at “ms nurse” 😂😂

[@roxette24]

His mama has some substance abuse problems also…

[@FinDom1]

absolutely

[@agadonk]

No doubt about it.

[@robbbietheim2096]

Look closely and you will find most times, addictive behaviors, run deep in most families, nothing shocking , whatsoever 💯

[@nnekairoegbu2360]

She looks like one.

[@2400md]

Not graduated….. 😳

[@kizziahowell6786]

It's so crazy he said he hasn't had a drink in 24hrs, how hilarious. This man really loves where he's at right now and his mom encourages him to be foolish. My lady please run cause he's a child that's never gonna grow up

[@bee12355]

Why would you want to marry an addict? It makes no sense

[@michellegonsalves1338]

Facts 🙄

[@agadonk]

He's married to his mom, he moved her in so they could spend all that nurse money together on coke while the real 3rd wheel/fiance is at work direct depositing that $$

[@FinDom1]

He got really bold when his mama came out.

[@randomlycc]

I thought I was the only one who peep that.... he got real bolddddd

[@loracro4284]

Yes he did, I saw that too. I’m wondering why he is t in a romantic relationship with his mom.

[@loracro4284]

This was the WORST case I’ve seen in all of divorce court history. This addict brought his meddling mom into their home & has no respect for the woman who is providing for the home. I’m so disgusted.

[@loracro4284]

That man said rehab is for quitters & he loves drinking. Why did this woman feel the need to go on a show for the world to see how messy her life is??

[@keyeviondavis9647]

Heidi said " I wear Coco Chanel not Jean Nate'' ( PRICELESS ) 😁💯

[@sweetsweet81]

Right! Jean Natè is for girls!

[@p.o.p2077]

That's lowwww.. lol 😆🤣😂 but facts

[@ayyyyyyyy]

She so funny

[@lavidaloca2344]

She got down with that one 😂😂😂

[@Rooted_Locs]

I said... " uuuu weee Chile, no she didn't" 😂

[@lovette7684]

I'm failing to understand why this went on for 13 years - how is it that it took 13 years to be tired of immaturity.

[@syaira6857]

So they not gonna mention his meth problem because it’s clear there’s one

[@agadonk]

The mom too

[@Rooted_Locs]

What are the signs lol

[@marybethjordan8520]

😂

[@Sabrewood13]

@@Rooted_Locsthe holes in their face from picking at their skin

[@jessicascreenwritingservices]

the fact that she's sharing a bank account with an addict is insane!

[@bee12355]

This woman is too old to be this naive. Why are you with an addict mama’s boy and you are a nurse. Put this mama’s boy out your house.

[@LIVEINPEACE2023]

How did she “lose” social security?! And the mom looks like an alcoholic too.🤷‍♀️

[@lisas7046]

10 years age difference??? She looks like his MOTHER!!

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Being with him would age anybody..hes a total waste of time the big drip

[@loracro4284]

Oh my god, I’m utterly disgusted by this case. This is the absolute worst case I’ve seen. Ms. Bozeman does not need Judge Star to tell her to end that relationship, common sense should’ve told her that 12.5 years ago.

[@drapertraci7]

Are you kidding me? This lady is putting herself in unnecessary drama... a nurse makes great money... leave... LEAVE ! He works 7 days a week... let him take care of himself and momma. Get your life sweetie and never again date a man 10 years your junior! Mercy!

[@bee12355]

Never date an addict

[@KWin-ik5cl]

He needs to check into an IN Patient treatment. He's runnin that tired azz game to the judge, he's not foolin anyone. His mom is gonna mom, he needs someone to check him.

[@minae9935]

Why is she still putting money in the joint account? Especially if he’s not putting anything in but gladly spending from it

[@summerdavis2842]

He said rehabs for quitters 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ smh girl let him gooooo

[@Snowflakequeen3]

Not him walking away with his MOM 😳 childish smh

[@lindawinkler8867]

Run Heidi, run!

[@tonyaharper2468]

Why do she want him?????

[@sweetsweet81]

That plaintiff needs to make like The Flash and DASH!!!!! He's clearly not ready to change and be a better him. Not him trying to dictate that his mom stays. Momma has no rights to that lady's house, and neither does he. The unmitigated gall.

[@randomlycc]

The mom looks like she IS struggling with addiction herself

[@janayh2817]

Dude said I haven’t had a drink TODAY 🤣

[@lovette7684]

Some mothers will defend their sons until the end of the earth.

[@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202]

Until their early death.

[@p.o.p2077]

Divorce,run Divorce 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️

[@gailsmith836]

Heidi needs to move and leave him and moms to themselves.

[@blackout9519]

Agreed

[@bee12355]

Heidi is in that toxic relationship. End this relationship and move on

[@johnparker6836]

Why does his wife also look like his mom but his mom somehow looks like his wife.

[@JanJanNow]

Your comment is on point lol

[@agadonk]

They act like it too!

[@p.o.p2077]

@@JanJanNow facts

[@p.o.p2077]

@@agadonk facts

[@p.o.p2077]

Facts

[@JunniorStarLight]

He’s physically there but his mind on stranger things

[@delilahspivey1093]

lol

[@NyleveRenee]

What is the question here? Leave!

[@jadrea2817]

This fool has too many damn excuses!!! Girl RUN!!

[@thesweetlifeofgbaee]

baby girl leave that man and his momma in Utah

[@yvettewilliams5967]

The mother looks like she has real medical issues. They are not married, and his mom was invited to move in??? Big mistake!!!!!

[@clovercornwall6243]

If you light a match next to him. He would go up in smoke 😂

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

Like he dead looks like a human dipper 😟 That family got the spirit of addiction on them bad. Smh

[@Pinkypromise8891]

He clearly wants someone who can spoil him like his mummy does, ugh. Time to grow up and time for mummy to cut the umbilical cord.

[@andreawashington5430]

If we need each other but yet we don’t know how to treat each other, it’s time for us to part ways. DEUCES, you and your mother can go and get y’all own place…

[@roxette24]

Robert’s statement here at 18:41 is SPOT ON.

[@BREEZYM6015]

Mama, mama, mama, mama, mommas boy. 😂

[@luxebyserenity7160]

I would pack my things and leave him and his mama right there… PERIODT

[@tonyaharper2468]

He needs to leave with his mama and let her finish raising him as a grown man.

[@alexisjones65]

Judge Mathis would’ve ate his ass up😂😂😂

[@gailsmith836]

Do you graduate from AA? Isn’t that lifelong?

[@agadonk]

It's lifelong. He's full of it. In complete denial

[@theresaford2963]

The mother and the son need there own apartment together she need to put them out asap

[@gladheater69]

This woman has all the answers, she just doesn’t do anything about it! The mother looks like she has an addiction problem as well

[@st3psp8]

Besides being an alcoholic, I think he has mental issues. He’s like an adolescent.

[@cymbolichuman433]

Living with alcoholics is HORRIBLE. As much as I have love for some family, I cannot weather the storms. It's awful to have enablers agaainst your best efforts. Sometimes giving it up is the best thing you can do. You're no failure. Don't be stupid and run... You can't save everyone, even the ones you love.

[@faithelcreador3252]

the wife seems so much older, sheesh..

[@ayyyyyyyy]

Was thinking the same thing

[@jeannedignite5425]

It is all that stress!!!

[@arayaklove]

Not he left with his momma like that 😂

[@agadonk]

Might as well be married to her

[@marilaucher9989]

So why did the obviously intelligent nurse hook up with a co-dependent mother-in-law enabler and a multiply addicted man: who has no intention of changing?I think she could do with just a little counseling to explore thatFirst of all nurses are caregivers so she's caring for these two dependent individuals she must have come from some sort of dysfunction when she finds her self worth caring for others I hope she has learned that she needs to care for herself but if she has not a little therapy would help.

[@angieangie4419]

The alcohol has messed up his brain, I swear this man got smooth parts in his brain lol

[@EmpressNic]

Oh no that mama's boy Rodame & the mother are users and needs to go. Ain't no way they're dictating my house😳. I'm working hard and he stealing my money get his raggedy being gone.

[@fantanuradin9574]

Nurses know...

[@gailsmith836]

The juror with the hat behind the Mr is so pretty.

[@worldhealthrn]

Dang Starr, she ain't have to call the man a loser and that's all he'll ever be

[@thedigitaldignitary]

Because it's most likely true. Dude has been enabled his whole life. Even his wife at some point has to blame herself. Most people would have been gone long tme ago, even his mom looks like a enabler and current substance user abuser herself.

[@worldhealthrn]

@@thedigitaldignitary true, but I thought addiction was a disease and normally you offer help and just move on if they don't take it ...I think Starr was responding to him getting saucy and defensive when she asked...she did not take the high road. I understand but still

[@Barbey.]

Did she lie tho.... He is a Loser!.. He takes no accountability and has no sense of Responsibility.. Bye Bruh! ✌🏽

[@erinjohnson4273]

if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it is a duck!

[@tjm1626]

i agree, I think it was bite harsh

[@mastereight7252]

Okay, I am confused. He wants to save the marriage but, has not said anything to convince the judge that he is trying to save it. What is the point of going to rehab if he has no intentions of quitting. When his mom stood beside him, all of a sudden he says ," Rehab is for quitters, I enjoy drinking". He started speaking strong when his mom approached the bench. LOL. Wish all them the best of luck.

[@bee12355]

She’s an enabler

[@kashmeredreamss1689]

Dang Judge straight like that lol 😆

[@MomsSelfReliance]

Hello judge I'm happy with your ruling and end advice.

[@NaomyP]

The son probably has a substance abuse problem as well and the mom looks like she has some issues of her own! Ms nurse did not need to spent 13 in that mess

[@Rooted_Locs]

He doesn't want to quit lol. Just leave him alone and take your bank account back sis

[@Deathcoreqt]

Judge Star bringing all the charm ❤

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Him and his mother need serious help 🙄 hes selfish and inconsiderate

[@jasmindrace]

Who is really the immature one? She’s a nurse, she should know better. 13 years… how many years did you need to figure this out?! Arguing about soda, girl please! 😬

[@Kuttie03]

Girl being a nurse doesn’t exempt people from making dumb choices. A lot of educated fool walking around here Chile.

[@jasmindrace]

@@Kuttie03 Unfortunately.

[@bryantworley2922]

Five minutes in, and just wanted to say that, after the first $1,500 drain, she should have separated the accounts. And then she was surprised by the next drain? Talk about foolish.

[@braylonlee1924]

To be honest with you he's a pathetic excuse for a life I mean listen he or she who has not sinned cast the first stone but you're not take somebody to dialysis when they need the treatment so you can go to the strip club because you don't know how to have a conversation That's not cool at all so I hope she left his sorry behind and the mother ain't too smart either

[@nnekairoegbu2360]

Why is she with this boy? She can do wayyyyy better than this. She is married to both mother and son.

[@annamariegowithme]

How many signs before marriage do you need ,? Especially with 4 addictions

[@nicholesamuda9557]

The dude looks like was on crack before he got to Court. Lady run run run

[@godfavored5]

Ms Ma’am move on with your life. These people are blocking your blessings and the man you are meant to be with.😢

[@charms4512]

I'm guessing that the mother has some issues too

[@sherinahmed2363]

Why does his mom look like his wife but older 😂

[@curtiswilson4737]

I love divorce court.

[@JzanellJ]

This man said he goes to the strip club to avoid going home but wants to save the r’ship? This guy is realizing his meal ticket has gotten tired of the bs. I hope she does move on. That is just too much

[@happybakergirl1292]

If he goes to the strip club to avoid going home, the GF should pack up his crap and make his wish to avoid stress a permanent one. He can go live with his enabling mama!!!!!!! Cut your losses, Babe, and don't look back. 10:15

[@theresalecompte5829]

This guy...is he slow or what? The nurse needs to run like the wind!! He's proud that he graduated ALL the addiction treatments. Doesn't realize he got an F!!!😂

[@stpstp7963]

I know he has a lot of issues. But she avoid anything said about her behaviors with her extra spending or suspicious people in her phone. I do wish judge rebuttal what she does on the low lol

[@cymbolichuman433]

Many people order all their stuff online beause they're busy and work a lot. I just bought a pair of shoes because I can afford them and need them.

[@rae2050]

I love my son to death but I’m not defending him against foolishness.

[@angelicjones4666]

Man those soda wars

[@RobinZK67]

Yikes! This lady should leave him alone. Or not. She wants to take care of a little boy. This is a whole mess. Oh well…

[@NadineLewis-p5e]

All these excuses are not accountable and he needs to be real with what is causes him to continue him doing what he enjoys.

[@marjenkins1521]

His woman looks like his mom after 10 years 😂

[@rae2050]

Ummm…he started out saying his mom is his help…she is his enabler and addicted herself.

[@shanzi9009]

I have a strong feeling Judge Star did not think he was cheating because WoW! There are more than one woman that would find him attractive..

[@56348u]

Its a ceremony, she has to be handed the file at the beginning of every case. Whew!

[@nannynewsviews542]

Nope.....this lady isn't only 49. I'm 39 and refuse to believe it

[@constancereynolds3110]

She could be 49 but the stress from the toxic relationship she has endured for YEARS can physically age a person faster.

[@MsLove-lb1vz]

Heidi is an absolute fool I don't feel sorry for her one bit and she is the one that is older and should know better to not deal with his behaviors

[@ANGELAKCLAY]

Lady' YOU should have been GONE' LEAVE Dude with MOMMY!

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

She has zero respect for him He has to get out and get cleaned. He is not mature

[@wandagreene4668]

Why are you even on the show. The case is cut and dried. Cut him loose. He needs to work on himself and get right.

[@cubbman79cubster37]

Wooooow , he is saying she can leave ? While it’s her house ?? OmG

[@ElizabethUlrick-xc1et]

I can't believe more people didn't jump on this!!!!! Those two need to go! Consult a lawyer about eviction!

[@goldiepatton8279]

Sofa especially Pepsi is just as bad as drinking alcohol ….. but she don’t have a right to pour nobody soda out

[@thesweetlifeofgbaee]

A LOSER lmfao yoooooooooo

[@jeanp1323]

I'm sure the nurse thought she could save him when she got with him.

[@adasites365]

David is likely autistic. As a nurse and dating for 13 years she should have recognized his issues.

[@evangdeborahmiddlebrook5770]

Woman why, why, do you allow this to happen to you over and over again without putting a 🛑to it. When they don’t put what they have used back into the bank account, that is used for strip clubs, gambling and drinking. It’s long over do for a change, if you still continue to be in this behavior, you should have gotten separate bank accounts sometime ago.😱

[@rae2050]

Why did she come on here? Leave this boy and his mommy ‘lone.

[@michellestanford517]

These women crazy accepting nonsense. you don't need him lady and you didn't have to go to court to make this decision

[@bee12355]

Why is she with an addict. His mother looks like an addict as well.

[@preciouscross9201]

She’s a nurse, I wonder if she’s his drug dealer

[@Candie4JC]

What…. Rehab is for quitters? Did that even make sense? 🤨 oof run! Her self esteem is low to be toughing it out with this man & his mama.

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Age is only a number, she appears much more mature than he in age. He is a boy! She allowed this for so long? He has some other addictions. There’s not enough LOVE to allow ANYONE impacting my finances. Joint account with this ADDICT? Sorry!

[@bernadetteclark9165]

The wife and mother looks like sisters lol