Addressing Trisha's Past Scandals & Controversies With Dr. Drew | Just Trish Ep. 6

[@amandajust2679]

I love that he’s literally “on the edge of his seat”… he’s so genuinely into the conversation it made ME as the viewer invested in the conversation.

[@Kelly_Explores]

I was thinking the same thing! He’s such an amazing active listener. A bit of interrupting is my only critique.

[@justkiddin84]

Yes, and Trisha is fast!

[@nissa3917]

i was thinking the same thing !

[@lc4life369]

​@@Kelly_Exploresi kinda thought he got at the edge of his seat whenever trisha said he helped her. Not when it came to listening more. But i still love these two together and not trying to talk any sh*t

[@whitykitty2651]

well trisha goes on and on tbf @@Kelly_Explores

[@IllariInvestigation]

As a borderline myself, when dr drew said “it’s because you like the regulation of a drug, it makes you feel okay for the first time” made me want to cry

[@leahordie6850]

I feel this

[@rayraypaniagua3488]

Omg yesss!! Alcohol was the only thing that made me feel regulated. It quieted the anxious thoughts. Obviously this didn't last long. I finally got on the right meds and my life has changed

[@IllariInvestigation]

Having the right medication is a game changer, it really makes it so much better@@rayraypaniagua3488

[@blackpearlyoga]

Omg SAME

[@whatdoyoulivefor735]

​@@rayraypaniagua3488what meds?

[@felixfuentes7129]

I loved every minute of this episode. Thank you so much for always being vulnerable and making your audience apart of your journey. Definitely need more Dr. Drew on JT.

[@justtrishpodcast]

Thank you so much!

[@darlcarl1072]

This was such a humanizing conversation and I never thought I’d see the day where I actually genuinely believe Trish has change and healed. It should give hope to all those out their suffering with BPD.

[@Therautistmel]

I’m a trauma therapist and have extensive trauma myself. I just want to tell you that I am so proud of you for all the work you’ve done on yourself. I am so incredibly sorry that you’ve experienced all that you have and that people invalidate your pain. Some people have the luxury to never understand what it’s like to experience these kinds of abuses and what that can do to a person.

[@uuuuuuuuuui6534]

Do you have room for another patient lol

[@caitydid1306]

She has really been serving us with some good guests and she is just starting. I’m honestly impressed.

[@shyannemarie1494]

SAME

[@Jamie_Rosex0]

She still talks so fast when she's on a roll 😅

[@UncleKikiOfficial]

Her dish with Trish pod had a lot of really good guests tbh .. so I’m not surprised

[@blessedbe222]

Fr

[@vanillaswirl87]

​@@Jamie_Rosex0you can slow down the speed of the video.

[@alexisoverit]

*Y'all Trisha has been saying the same things for years, but glad she's finally being heard now. Being misunderstood and not heard for many years can make the strongest retreat.*

[@haleyrrae]

THANK YOUUUUU👏🏼

[@angiefor2]

her point of only being taken seriously by the public when she’s next to a man is so accurate and made so much sense, people who really get her heard it the whole time

[@linneawesterdahl2375]

@@Sweetmomma3Fan behavior

[@organicallyhannah]

Exactly. Its weird to me how misunderstood she’s been & never sat well with me at all.

[@HeatherHutchinson]

"Being misunderstood and not heard for many years can make the strongest retreat." Beautifully said.

[@melissa267]

Having her and Dr. Drew go through her old manic videos and her explaining where she was at mentally would be sooo interesting!

[@chloebeckman7110]

that’s kind of traumatizing for her i feel like 😂

[@jesseire666]

@@chloebeckman7110fr lmao maybe let's not do that for our own entertainment

[@1221sabmur]

Her fake excuses?

[@Sasha75995]

​@@1221sabmurmove on

[@caroaroaroline9999]

If she’s up to it I would love to see that video ❤

[@bingus.420]

one thing i've talked about with my therapist is the idea that when you are triggered, it's your nervous system warning you because you might be a similar situation. but centering yourself and just reminding yourself/your nervous system that yes this is a similar situation, but it might not be. letting yourself realize that you're having a traumatic response and be like "thanks for warning me, nervous system, but you gotta chill tf out bc it might not be the same outcome so let's check the vibes."

[@bri1824]

Literally just had this conversation with my therapist. It’s so so true

[@chelym.8183]

Trisha, as a viewer since 2013 and mental health issues of my own, you are such an inspiration. I want to repeat something I saw in another comment that I think is really important: We don't need you to be perfect. You don't have to be perfect. Just be Trish, beacuse you are a treasure. It's such an honor to see your growth. Mental illness is TOUGH. Thank you for being so authentic. I have so much respect for you. And I love that your pod is called Just Trish because that's all you have ever needed is YOU and I'm so glad you have a space/platform to do it. Dr.Drew- love you mommy!

[@MelonieKit]

This is me climbing to the top of the nearest mountain and yelling, THIS IS THE BEST TRISHA CONTENT. CONSISTENT AND SMART. LOVE THIS!!

[@ingridg7293]

[@karenburns9952]

I love how Dr Drew really wants to help Trisha. 💕💕💕

[@Peachystreams]

As a psychology student I would LOVE a Dr Drew series breaking down Trishas break downs and explaining the psych and science behind it all! Also The Body Keeps The Score is my 1# all time book! if you at all care about trauma pllllleeaaassee read!!!!

[@roninesposito9264]

They have before on Dr Drew’s channel and on frenemies

[@coltonc8894]

Thank u !

[@cassandracorvilo154]

I agree same here!! I’m so proud of Trish and I think it could be very beneficial to breakdown those videos so that those who have not experienced these things (drug dependency and being mentally aware you aren’t being healthy while still doing that thing because of habit or exploiting yourself) could understand the behavior and the emotional states that lead to stuff/self destructive decisions

[@annrut1]

What Auther? I am seeing one by Bessel Van Der Kolk M.D. and the other is Genie Reads.

[@claudiallen288]

@@annrut1Van Der Kolk!

[@sierramillerxox]

Thank you for this podcast. As a person who struggles with mental health, I really appreciated this

[@rachelthomas8013]

Ditto. Laying here crying.

[@tinaball8]

Thank u Trish I learned so much about my violent childhood/feelings 🌻

[@amandameyer2779]

trisha being so comfortable and open talking about her mental health makes me feel so much less alone

[@katjaxxx7353]

Same ….I have depression since 27 yrs and back then I felt so lonely. No one was talking about it and I felt like a freak …

[@SaranneHuxton1996]

Trish, as someone who is going through EMDR right now I’ve said, “it doesn’t seem traumatic to me” or “people have it way worse”, trauma isn’t the experience itself, it’s how that experience made you feel. Trauma is the feeling you have from the experience. You have to let yourself sit with the feelings you have come up when you think about your past, or a specific moment and sit with them, which is the hardest part. My brain, and yours seems to be doing the same will push away the pain in order for you to be able to function and survive day to day. It’s a long journey

[@heartbreaker1671]

i did 2 emdr sessions and it brought up so many buried memories that i had to stop doing it

[@zirilm]

❤️❤️ i went through EMDR aswell, I can’t explain it aswell as you but wow this comment is so real! Love❤️

[@snarkybunni]

i'm so proud of trisha, no matter what people say, im proud of her for really overcoming her mind and learning herself!

[@garyrosa3169]

❤

[@MiissMeW]

She is thriving 🥲💖

[@ShaziaSings]

Yes she is awesome 💞

[@Ena48145]

Lol her husband SA 'd his exes and straight up stealthed them without their consent. That's literally r a ype. And then she decided still to marry him, have a baby with him, absolutely sickening

[@ShaziaSings]

@@Ena48145 how do you know this? 🫢

[@andarwarje8127]

Trish, I'm trans and queer and I never thought you were faking your gender exploration. You don't need to look or sound a certain way to be non-binary or trans, only you can know that. Speaking the truth with vulnerability is a good look for you, trolling less and taking people's concerns seriously while standing in yourself is a journey. Keep having these conversations!

[@roseurrutia8451]

Ok v. 😅pv CNN

[@mermaiddiyartist8119]

Exactly. I’m nonbinary and pan. Most people think I’m straight.

[@sparklyfossil]

Well said!

[@123blacksheep]

I don’t believe that was trolling. You need to genuinely research boarder line. Its an extremely unsure sense of self. Where they feel like the are a different person every month. Its why she never keeps to anthing because she changes so much. Its not her identity its a personality like teens have a personality and it changes as they get older and thats how gender was to her because her mental health was so uncomfortable with her self. Its like continually changing jeans because you don’t want to just find out your actual size because you don’t want to know what size you are.

[@blessedbe222]

Agreed

[@melissacastelan561]

As a person with BPD Trisha's process really has helped me and given me faith that I can be ok.

[@Plumeria6460]

I believe you will be ok. Melissa, you are worth all the hard work. I see you,and I care. 🤍

[@emergencyasmr]

I have BPD too. It’s agonizing but knowing it’s treatable and the possibility of going into remission let’s me have faith. I wish you the very best through this journey and through life in general! You can do it!🌸

[@Honey1313eee]

It made me feel the same. We can do this, we will be okay! ❤

[@helena4440]

I have BPD and with therapy and meds it's gotten so much better ❤❤ hope you get the help you deserve

[@sharpayevans3813]

I feel this ❤

[@amay4203]

The person she's become is amazingly transparent, self aware and willing to actively work on herself. Truly admirable

[@emilyggg7158]

This is so interesting!!! I love that Trish brought Dr. Drew on to the podcast, he is so knowledgeable and I love that he validates Trish and has a normal conversation about these issues. So happy you have healed so much Trish!

[@justtrishpodcast]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@MommyLongLegs9]

I'm sobbing right now. You have no idea how much this episode has helped me as a person with bpd.

[@ackkitsally]

This was so good. And I just hope you know that there are real people out here who have watched you live your life and never once judged you or hated you for your mistakes or what you were going through. You’re a real person and I have always been able to see how real you are online. The people that hate on you are living in a bubble and haven’t experienced or loved people that have experienced hardships similar to yours. Thanks for being authentic and refusing to disappear from the internet, because I love your content and respect you as a content creator, mother and person. You may never read this and I usually don’t write long comments, but if it’s the one positive you see, it’s worth it!

[@Christina.N.]

👏

[@Liziibethvlogs]

This!!!!!!!!

[@GoldenHeartIncorporated]

Very true and she’s beautiful.

[@larryxsoto]

I second this

[@ohisee9173]

All this does is reassure her that her paychecks will continue to come in. She doesn't care about your opinion. She cares if you take her money, especially now that she needs it for her child. Y'all will make every excuse in the world for her. She literally said on camera that she doesn't view what people do on the internet as real. She was not blacking out when she was trolling, mocking, hating, defaming, etc. That was not a different person. And that behavior was WORTHY of judgement. She would NEVER have apologized if enough people didn't turn away from her. Telling her to not care about those people or to demean them or assume they are inexperienced is not helpful. That only pushes her closer to where she used to be. Giving her excuses to regress, because you're saying you will still watch and give her money regardless.

[@VivvyAsmr]

Knowing ppl were finding her doctors and wishing harm during her pregnancy breaks my heart! What sick ppl take the time/energy to harass a woman during one of her most precious times? The internet can be a scary place & has created so many phenomenons we have yet to understand. ** I appreciate Trisha so much for being honest throughout her entire career. This interview is yet another example of why I love her. ❤

[@flymetothemo0n2122]

@@1997thatpersonthat subreddit was vile and disgusting. So many posts wishing Trish not to become a mom, awful

[@Betty-wt3sw]

@@1997thatpersonAll of the posts were unhinged and disturbing

[@talmatan9785]

This is Ethan audience that declared war on Trisha after Frienemis

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

Women are at their most vulnerable to all attacks and especially homicide when they’re pregnant. Fact of life. So sad. 😞

[@analo9191]

I was one of those people that thought Trish should never get to have a child.. watching her and how she is with her daughter.. has completely made me eat my words.. she is an amazing mother. While there are still things she has done that I do not agree with.. her being a bad mother is not one of them at all.. she really is a good mom and loves her child so much.

[@sav9999]

She is an awesome mom!!! Truly adores her daughter

[@destinydallas]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience Trish. After watching this episode I realized I was also probably misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder. I related to feelings and researched more into the disorder. I made an appointment with mg psych to confirm my suspicions. I am now properly diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Just knowing what is actually going on helps me overcome my mood swings. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I’ve watched you for YEARS. I learned about you through Shane’s vlogging videos. No longer a fan 😂 but so glad I found you. I finally feel understood and hopeful for my future. Therapy and medicine saved my life.

[@CymbaletteJaneMS]

Well Trisha did admit that both her parents had to work a lot when she was young and she spent a lot of time being "raised by the TV," so to say. So I don't think her need for attention comes from nowhere or that she should feel ashamed. It likely stems from feelings of childhood neglect and she doesn't need to feel embarrassed about that ❤

[@robingrl23]

So many of us were left alone with the tv.

[@CymbaletteJaneMS]

So true. And it's easy to see how a young person in that situation could equate fame and celebrity and looking a certain way with being worthy of love and attention, or being the key to getting it. I hope Trish gets all the healing and revelation she needs 🙌

[@xhappyponyxwasmyoldname1395]

@@robingrl23there’s a difference between being left alone with the tv now and then as a kid and extreme isolation/borderline neglect, especially when you don’t have siblings. What do you gain from attempting to minimize or reverse gatekeep her experiences?? Seriously, what does it do for you?

[@robingrl23]

@@xhappyponyxwasmyoldname1395 reverse gait keep? Save your psychobabble.

[@Solidude4]

​@@xhappyponyxwasmyoldname1395Yes and she also didn't really have friends.

[@xxshera1320]

This was the best episode so far in my opinion! Oscar was still missed though

[@justtrishpodcast]

Yay, thank you!

[@___bianca___]

i wholeheartedly agree

[@nfvy8111]

*Can Dr. Drew come back and speak more about his marriage? It was honestly so inspiring and fascinating to hear how he’s still so deeply in love. We need to hear more stories like that in todays society.*

[@travissch9375]

As someone who survived severe s**ual trauma as a kid, it was beneficial to hear this. As an adult I was questioning my gender and sexual orientation for years. And I also latch onto different personalities because I didnt know myself. Thank you for doing the hard work Trisha! This is our Era for healing!

[@athenamark8093]

As someone with BPD that has been following her from her Shane Dawson+ eras -- I felt so heard, seen & PRESENT. It felt like I was just sitting there listening with you guys on the pink couch! This honestly taught me a lot about my diagnosis beyond BPD. Lots of love Trisha

[@daveycameron5743]

Genuine people naturally love Trisha. She doesn’t need to be the most perfect being in the world bc she’s perfectly Trisha.

[@mackenziekane6291]

Right.. I think we ALL have done something “cancelable” in our lives

[@RJB1980]

Perfectly Trish could be the name of her talk show.

[@urilaf8598]

Yeah cancel culture pretty much asks people to die. I prefer asking to see people grow

[@nnekaokeke1078]

This ❤❤❤

[@RhoannaaaaaaaaaA]

Yes, I’ve always enjoyed her and just see her as a tortured souls. We do fucked up shit

[@codirennke1109]

I avoided starting EMDR for the same reasons. I fought for so many years to not have those traumatic flashbacks happening all the time. So I felt like it was such a risky gamble to open those doors again. But I cannot stress enough how helpful EMDR is for trauma. For anyone avoiding it, I swear to you that fighting against therapy, barely holding everything together all the time... that is SO much harder than therapy and EMDR particularly. I regret massively not starting sooner. I am not completely healed and it is a process, but words can't even describe the relief I have from doing it for like a year now. I am starting to believe in myself and my ability to sense and navigate the world successfully. Trauma took away my ability to trust my gut and my own logic and keep myself safe for too long. I'm learning I always did know when something was wrong. I wasn't just fucked up from being abused as a kid. The fucked up thing was that I always was right but I was tricked into thinking I couldn't trust myself and that the effed up people around me knew better. Realizing this through therapy has helped me feel more confident that I can trust myself going forward.

[@TheAshley12322]

Thank god for dr drew for reassuring Trisha that these trolls literally never know what they’re talking about

[@gabrielaserena7890]

EMDR therapy has changed my entire life! I felt the same way about not wanting to go back and revisit my past because I felt like it was over and done with already. But, it really helped me to understand why I am the way I am. It really did help me to heal my inner child. Highly recommend personally. Also, you are incredibly strong. Thank you for sharing your life with us. As a fan since 2010, seeing your growth is so inspiring.

[@portelasofia98]

samee!!! It flipped my entire life and my progress in therapy. I had been in therapy for almost 3 years at that point. It felt like my progress was minimal and slow. Then I did emdr and my progress skyrocketed! Two years later and I am out of therapy and thriving:) I had horrible insomnia as well due to my traumas and I overcame it almost immediately after emdr, it was insaaaane🥹

[@portelasofia98]

soo happy it worked so well for you too! 🥹🥹

[@julzniandra]

as someone who also has borderline, hearing dr drew validate it and how he isnt scared of it and gets where it comes from made me feel so good

[@Huhduh]

This is the first time I actually have an idea where Trisha’s choices come from..it’s heartbreaking but also feels very common. Nice to see openness and honesty, it’s looks good on you Trish!

[@madisonkludy8541]

I know Trisha is controversial, but I do enjoy the BPD conversation coming to light. There's so many of us out there who have worked so hard to undo the toxicity around the culture of those "dealing with" the people with BPD. Motherhood also brought me a lot of clarity, but I was also able to undo a lot of trauma through the process

[@TheSarcasia]

I've struggled with my mental state forever, and I just found out I'm pregnant. I've been working on myself for years, and I'm scared this may push back my progress. I'd love to hear your story

[@caitlinvt81]

Trish this is it. You found it. You're a natural at this and so genuine. So cool to grow with you. Im 37 and am a stay-at-home mom of two small girls. Becoming a mom changed my life in ways I never thought was possible and allowed me to truly understand myself and grow and heal from past trauma. It's amazing to watch thrive in motherhood. Proud of you! 🙂

[@CassandraV-kl4hq]

I love that she asked Moses for kinda reassurance and asking if they should cut out a part or not. He’s sooooo dedicated and supportive of her.

[@avni606]

really loved this episode trish. i just got diagnosed with BPD today, it’s nice to hear your story and improvements through therapy - it gives me hope

[@mariesunga8942]

The connection and fluid conversation of Trisha and Dr. Drew on such important topics is amazing. I really see the passion from both of them regarding mental health. Dr. Drew with his extensive experience and sympathy is what really makes him such a wonderful person to listen to and how acknowledging he is, but also not excusing behavior, but explaining it and understanding the root cause and healing from there. I think I gained a lot from this podcast and I'm sure so many other people dealing with any mental health issues big or small gain some knowledge and maybe moved their perspective into their own healing journey. Honestly, Trisha is such an inspiration from everything she has gone through. And it's good for her to be able to express herswlf so honestly to this extent. Much respect for Trisha because we can all agree she really has transformed and changed in so many positive ways.

[@stephhasquirks]

This episode made me start to really give Trisha the benefit of the doubt moving forward. I've never watched her content just been aware of the different dramas over the years. Honestly I love her openness recently sharing her experience with BPD and not making excuses for past bad behaviour but also accepting herself and being more aware of her triggers and emotions overall. I just see a lot of growth in her and that's really exciting and I'm here for it.

[@silkbuttons]

You shld bother to watch her content then of you are so interested to share your opinion

[@stephhasquirks]

@@silkbuttons what point are you trying to make?

[@thats.so.logan00]

Even on the toughest topics Trisha remains a calm good listener. She can take feedback on the toughest topics and remain engaged and that is one of the hardest skills to have let alone maintain. This was a great podcast. Good on you, Trisha.

[@fjordsi7404]

Wow, this was really really good. I'm glad you are still here Trisha 💓 You are helping so many people with this one episode alone. I hope you continue to give yourself love, care, and kindness, and continue to use your mental health tools. You deserve to have a happy and fulfilling life.

[@kamrynduplessis1997]

as a person with BPD who is dedicating their PhD to studying the neurobiology of it, this is one of the most compassionate conversations in regard to PDs ive heard in a long time 🥺 even in academic/healthcare spaces it remains so so stigmatized

[@NauticaLeigh]

Trisha did it, she finally apologized to the DID and Trans community for her trolling. Now everyone can move past that.

[@Betty-wt3sw]

People won’t though lol the people she spoke about who doxxed her doctors, will never move past it because it’s not about that for them.

[@shaybert5920]

She's apologized dozens of times before this too though, I'm not defending her but I really hope this is the apology people hear.

[@thisisnotmymoodboard]

They're unfortunately not going to care or acknowledge this apology. People are too stuck in the past to ever acknowledge that people are capable of apologizing/changing.

[@evangelionsolos]

@@thisisnotmymoodboardisn’t this already aknowlagement? Why does it matter the whole Trish community forgives her? What matters is her change, not who sees them

[@sarahharter8480]

No one has to forgive Trish. Its nice she apologized, but that's it.

[@Lex-s9e]

I was diagnosed with borderline 3 years ago and this video has helped more than any therapist thank you !!

[@Jessi.mari.e]

I also struggle with BPD and I think she’s doing something I really struggled with when getting the diagnosis. That being making the disorder her entire personality. I think this is more damaging to her then to just address the behaviors

[@edenwidener]

I have always understood trisha and always will no matter what. The next time the internet decides to turn on her I’ll still be here loving her! Best most comforting KZbinr out there serving so much content

[@Rodviet]

I'll be right there with you, supporting and giving her loving comments. No one deserves the extreme hate she has gotten, it's over the moon and has at times been too extreme for the wrongdoing

[@JoannaT2]

I haven’t always stood by her side as it felt like enablement at a point, but I always understood that her toxic behavior was untreated mental illness. Now that she’s in active recovery, it’s clear to see that she’s grown and learned from her mistakes.

[@lilabrat]

I love her so much. She’s fucking nuts, and guess what? So am I😂 she’s just more popular than me so the world can see her insanity. She’s super funny and quick witted, and as far as I am concerned she hasn’t committed any crimes. She’s just a woman who enjoyed drugs allot and lied here and there but like, she’s literally lying to strangers on the Internet. People have to understand that KZbin drama should not effect your real life, once it does you know you have a problem. I’m just happy to see her thrive and she’s bloody rich with a nice husband and a super cute baby! She’s killing it man.

[@samara.ariel.jpg_]

agree i just get her

[@stephanyeann7589]

My boyfriend grew up learning to hate Trisha and I’ve ALWAYS loved Trisha. It took me explaining how I AM Trisha, that’s she’s my representation in media as someone with mental illness, for him to understand why I’ll always stand by her. He sees her in a completely different light and I hope everyone can keep practicing forgiveness and Trisha finally gets her moment

[@findparadise]

This helped me to feel not so alone. I've dealt with my own trauma and being exposed to stuff as a kid and it really messed with my relationship to sexuality. I can understand all the weirdness in chasing the validation, and having my own experiences with s work and having content stolen. It really can be retraumatising and awful and messed up and really confusing. There's a lot of shame that comes with trauma, and I think shame is one of the most errosive, toxic emotions you can feel. You carry it. It totally wears down your sense of self from the inside out. It's such a long journey dealing with all of this. With a lot of love and empathy ❤

[@rosajay]

Hi Trisha- I’m a new listener and tuned in because I’m a huge fan of Dr. Drew- I just wanted to come here and say, I believe you. Thank you for sharing your trauma with us… I hope you can continue your healing journey with therapy which has helped so many of us. Sending you warm hugs ❤

[@TimeMovie93150]

this episode is amazing, trisha is so real and raw and vulnerable and dr drew reassures her all the way through. can't really put into words how awesome it is to witness trisha's growth throughout her career, i remember watching her since she had 50k subscribers! i always knew she'd get an amazing husband and have the family of her dreams. trisha is a true inspiration

[@shullylolttv]

Trisha, I'm going to add to the positive comments for you. I've seen your videos for YEARS, including the bad ones. Seeing your growth is inspiring. You inspire me so much.

[@justtrishpodcast]

Wow, thank you

[@1221sabmur]

@@justtrishpodcast … god she’s just a manipulative liar. A not smart sociopath. And she blames everything on mental illness and insults everyone with legitimate diagnosis… not just assessments for entertainment and her narcissistic self

[@RoxanneLavender]

@@1221sabmur Who tf are you people? All weird fake-looking accounts, saying the same stuff, in the same way. Like really who are you? Lol. Like some pathetic hater with no life. Go and take a walk or something loser, eat something, talk to someone, realize that you have one life to live and setting up fake accounts to hate watch and leave hate comments concerning innocent little babies is really sick and pathetic, you need to leave, live your life, because this is not it.

[@lauren1986able]

Me toi

[@xenduvall]

This episode was sooooooo good! Always appreciate you being so open about what you deal with Trish! Also that intro is so iconic.

[@justtrishpodcast]

You're the best!

[@moonlightval13]

Absolutely LOVE this episode. Love how well they communicate with each other. Love that he doesnt make fun of her but instead helps her understand her past behavior and/or conditions without being judgmental, and lets her know that making mistakes is okay, we are all imperfect humans at the end of the day, deserving of love. XOXO!

[@carolineshepperd5375]

Please please please do a reoccurring show with dr. Drew because these are so insightful and so helpful to hear

[@GuilleMagan]

Misogyny makes WOMEN ill. Lots of love Trish. Yo are amazing.

[@Main3account]

I was born in a Muslim country everyone is extremely misogynistic here even my family! even therapists encourage abusing girls and controlling them everyone here thinks hurting girls is okay and extreme misogyny is normalized! and they believe in male supremacy! I suffered too much you have no idea I’m surprised I’m still alive but yeah I’m the only atheist and feminist here and they hate me because I’m the only one who defends women and fights for my rights it’s way too hard living here it’s like they want me to be dead

[@Main3account]

if you read my comment above you will see that white girls are privileged they don’t really experience misogyny

[@OfficialGoodMannered]

THIS is so true! There are some many women in this world who are depressed and have mental illnesses due to misogyny and the suffering of children and women of the world.

[@1221sabmur]

She’s the most misogynistic…

[@Main3account]

@@OfficialGoodMannered yeah mostly because of Muslims

[@akiartistry]

“Judge not lest ye be judged.” “That’s good! Did you just come up w that?” “No, the Bible did.” 😂😂😂😂

[@MiyaGeorginaJoi]

Iconic 😂

[@lizbinz]

THIS. This is the authenticity and vulnerability that we need more in the world. It’s amazing seeing the real Trish rising out of all the trauma and mental health crisis!

[@6969cute6969]

Thank you so much for posting this Trish, I usually dont get that emotional watching things but this really struck a cord.

[@sophiacoronado2521]

I’m just coming across this podcast 6 months later and hearing Dr. Drew someone of such stature touch on hospital pain management was something we need to hear more of because everything he’s saying is truthful. As someone who works in a hospital and deals with this a lot

[@faithh667]

THIS!! Thank you for being you! We could all learn from this. Much love!

[@justtrishpodcast]

I appreciate that

[@Henny.777]

This was such a great episode. I not only got to understand Trish a bit more, but I also felt heard and seen more than I have in a while. I have BPD (among other things but it’s the worst) and within the past year and a half it’s gotten a lot worse, I’ve lost most of my friends, been through nasty abusive relationships and breakups, dealt with grief, etc. I’ve struggled with a lot of childhood trauma, and I know that, but I don’t particularly remember all of it. What Trish said to Dr. Drew after he said some of her memories may or may not be reliable was “that’s what scares me, what if they’re unreliable?” and it absolutely shattered me. People with trauma often learn (from others and themselves) that they aren’t worth much, we learn that no matter what we say or feel, no matter how much we scream, we don’t matter, so how could we possibly believe ourselves? How am I able to trust my brain with what happened when I can’t remember it, but I can remember things like my teacher from the year it happened? It’s frustrating and, in a way, absolutely fucking terrifying. You start to doubt yourself and wonder if you’re even sick at all, or just a bad person. But at the end of the day we have borderline personality disorder, as Dr. Drew said, if we didn’t experience extensive amounts of trauma, where did our disorder come from? It feels like being stomped flat on concrete to be denied of being a person because we can’t act ‘properly’ due to our brains being warped from people hurting us. I’m glad Trish is not only able to come back from being brutally mistreated by her prior friends better than ever, but also talk about her emotions and have such an intelligent man to validate her feelings and back her up when everyone else acts venomous towards her.

[@terimochanewton9104]

Absolutely loved this. Learned so much. Thank you for being so vulnerable and letting us watch. And you two are so informative and comfortable together. So proud of you Trisha.

[@justtrishpodcast]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@itzacaz]

A Dr. Drew and Trish series where you both look at past Trish could be life-saving work! At the very least it will be beneficial and entertaining 😂💜

[@francheskasoto730]

Okay normally I hate Dr.Drew but this whole conversation is extremely eye opening. It’s really made me look inward and look at my trauma and how that’s affected me today. Very proud of Trish for growing and learning and developing. She’s doing great, and she looks phenomenal

[@smugbugs7031]

how can you hate him???

[@stephaniepapaleo9001]

Maybe look to the reason why you hate him (I look inward when I say I hate things, it’s really a reflection of me that I hate) it’s hard to understand that at first but it helps me when I say someone is annoying or I’m actually saying I hate someone,I really don’t actually hate them. One example is I made friends with a “bully” type of woman in my small office years ago, she would criticize and make faces behind my back until one day she was upset at work so I honestly from the heart took her aside to talk to her, I found out she was a strong independent person at work but at home, her life as a single mom wasn’t easy bc she had relationship issues and past trauma. We started slowly to bond and then became the 2 funniest and most pleasant employees in our dept., I was sad when we both left our jobs and kept in touch with her on social media. ❤

[@korifallon8210]

Such an amazing podcast, thank you Trisha and Dr Drew for being so open.

[@justtrishpodcast]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@merwanerants1917]

​@@requiemunicorn1329where did she say that? Not an attack just trying to understand

[@TheWorldAccordingToLouise]

@@merwanerants1917not on this episode. Just something she brought up before. I never disbelieved it either.

[@tikusblue]

​@@requiemunicorn1329it's possible she only said some of the details once she was triggered because she felt like nobody was taking her truth seriously, and that she needed to embellish with other details.

[@asdfasfasdfasdfable]

Trisha, thank you so much for continuing to talk about your sexual trauma even though people were so nasty about it. I remember when that was happening and I thought it was so disgusting what people were saying. I could imagine how retraumatizing it probably was for you. You're really brave and strong to keep speaking up- I'm grateful to you for using your voice to talk about these things, and so proud of you💖

[@Shivsixx]

Trisha- the WHOLE internet did not call you a liar. I have always listened and believed you.

[@Shivsixx]

Love you girlie xoxox❤

[@martinasmusicbox]

Me too I’ve always had a soft spot for Trisha and feel as tho I’ve understood her and I’m soooo proud of her she’s come so far in her mental health journey ❤

[@Shivsixx]

@@martinasmusicbox so proud❤️❤️

[@Michelllelabellle]

I relate so much to her so I’ve always had a place in my heart that deeply understands her. Yes, even the highly problematic behavior. No it wasn’t ok, but I believe she has no bad intentions ❤

[@Betty-wt3sw]

The loudest mouths did. Usually middle aged women and h3 super fans.

[@mceleste4188]

As fan for like over a decade who's also struggled with BPD & addiction and identity issues- Thank u for this episode trisha!

[@karlaarana6999]

Trish and dr drew helped me get diagnosed. I was always such and angry traumatized child and then when I turned 18 it somehow got worse and seeing Trisha talk about it, and then I related to those symptoms. The addictive personality, the dependency on romantic relationships, and the rollercoaster of emotions was insane. So I finally felt brave enough to get help and talk to a therapist. I told them I thought it was bpd and I met all the criteria and was put on some meds and mostly just therapy. My life is so much better now… I can process emotions, like Trisha said I’ve done a lot of work, and I’m able to maintain a healthy relationship with someone.

[@OuijaMa]

This stable, healthy Trish is so uplifting and inspiring 💖 Your fans see you girl and we are so excited to share this time in your life with you! 🎉

[@Meeeeowowow]

I love this podcast. I’m so happy Trisha is finally getting some understanding from people 💜. Childhood trauma is no joke and BPD is so misunderstood and is invalidated so much. Invalidation when you’ve been traumatized so much is so beyond painful. The whole teacher situation frustrates me so much because people don’t understand that perpetrators can be ANYONE and they usually have manipulated so many people to keep their friendly persona and they choose people who are troubled because they are easier to discredit. It’s so unfair to the victims because they’re forever invalided and unbelieved. It’s almost impossible to heal when you’re stuck in that situation.

[@Gracie_19200]

My husband had a seven hour surgery on his ear where they removed a cholesteatoma and they gave him like 9 Lortab 5 mg tablets. That’s it. I was like “15 years ago they would’ve given him 90 Percocet 10s”. He was in so much pain and he had to call and ask for more and it was so hard to get it. He’s never been an addict, never had any problems with opiates…. It was so crazy. And then the pharmacy wouldn’t even give it to me till I explained why he needed it. No joke. I was like “ummmmm… why tf is it any of your business why his DOCTOR prescribed him this?!?” He couldn’t even go get it! I had to and they were questioning me and everything. So crazy.

[@drevm7991]

Thank the “war” on drugs bullshit. It’s not the fault of addicts, it’s the government harassing doctors and pharmacies to pretend like they’re cleaning up a pill and addiction epidemic they created. Now they’re screwing sick people, pain patients AND addicts.

[@rebeccazeman9309]

Yep my husband had spinal fusion surgery in July and they only gave him 30 5mg hydro and that was it. Refused to give him any more. He's still not able to go back to work yet bc of recovery but he hasn't been able to take pain meds for weeks bc they refused to give him more. No history of addiction or anything. No opiates before surgery even. It's wild.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

As it should be. Millions of people died and millions more lost their entire quality of life due to opioids. Ffs women don’t even get an aesthetics for IUD implantation. He’ll live. I didn’t get any pain meds for heart procedure. He’ll live. He wouldn’t live if he got addicted to opiates

[@callmecristal]

I hadn't commented on this new Pod yet! But i've been listening to every episode and loving every second of it! More Dr Drew please!! I love his takes on things! It's so interesting to see him analyze Trisha live! It's like we're watching a live therapy session! Fascinating!

[@jasmikkol3727]

As someone who is diagnosed BPD I relate to so much that Trish has gone threw, and what she still goes threw day to day. This episode was amazing and really made me feel seen. 💜

[@AppleSofi]

One of my best friends has BPD and some things that she went through is so similar to what Trisha is explaining. I can't imagine being so open about all your trauma online and people calling you a liar, that must be extremely re-traumatizing. I may not understand everything that my friend feels but I'd never think that she's lying just because she didn't react a certain way that "is expected". It takes a lot of strength to be so open Trisha. I hope you only pay attention to the positive comments and Taylor swift said it best "haters are gonna hate hate hate but I'm just gonna shake shake shake, shake it off" lol Oscar needs to show you that music video lol. And I love this new podcast💖💖

[@ren.659]

trish i’ve watched you since i was a little girl, and i can say that your growth is so beautiful. you’ve been through so much and received so much horrible treatment from other youtubers and haters and you’ve kept it mature. this podcast is so personal and open, as youve always been, but i feel like this also heals me in a way. you are an amazing influence.

[@blessedbe222]

Same

[@farrish7658]

This episode has pushed me to get therapy. Thank you, Trisha.

[@Highimkiki]

Id love a show/podcast with Dr. Drew and Trish. The more we talk about mental health the better! We cant truly help people until we drop the stigmas.

[@UjamesH]

Wow Dr. Drew is legit. Those decades of experience really shows. Him picking up on Trisha’s emotions as soon as they show at 23:02 is so observant. And damn, him coaching her through a genuine apology by describing her feelings at 42:18. So much respect for him.

[@lisahudkins]

Thank you for this Trisha. I am a single mom who suffers from severe mental illness. I am completely alone and this made me feel validated. I am balling and I feel so connected.

[@hilldoll01]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@rachelthomas8013]

Ditto!

[@LeahBurr420]

You’ve got this mumma! Having mental health doesn’t make you a bad mam, your child will grow up well rounded with appreciation for those who struggle. You are appreciated and you are smashing it! Xxx

[@marlenabostwick5522]

This podcast was so healing like just having this discussion. I don’t suffer from mental illness but I do suffer from trauma from sexual harassment and feeling not good enough. So just listening taking this all in, and applying it to what I’ve been through i don’t know it just allowed me to work through and let these trauma/feelings go. Very grateful and have always been a fan love ya Trish ❤

[@shangel444]

Trisha - I’m blown away! The fact that you’re taking the time, on a daily basis, to take care of yourself (especially your meditation practice) is SO incredible.. seriously. You have no idea how beneficial this is and will be to your daughter, who only sees the women you are NOW. A mom who can withstand the strongest of storms, knows how to self-soothe, and can completely own & take responsibility for their own shit. This is a DREAM! One of the most important things we’re here to learn in this lifetime is to love and accept ourselves (and others) unconditionally. You’re doing something incredible by coming on here, sharing yourself with such presence and vulnerability. Even after everything you’ve been through, you continue to show up, and it’s evident you have grown so much! You’re an inspiration! What I’ve learned, throughout my own lifetime journey of self-improvement and healing, is that what other people think of you is none of your business. It’s absolutely crucial to care more about how YOU feel than how other people feel about you! As Dr Drew said, no one is perfect, we are all a work in progress, and the amount of work you’ve done is astonishing. Please give yourself a hug and a pat on the back! You’re only getting better and better and I’m excited to see what’s ahead for you! Let go of caring what people think of you. Look for the positive aspects of the people you interact with (even men) and take your attention off anything that doesn’t feel good. You’re doing great and I’m so proud of you!

[@laurac6314]

“he would leave to work and I would throw his keys out to the woods” LMAO

[@corrinemooree]

😂😂 iconic lol

[@annabelrose13]

I’m so glad I watched this. It changed how I think about certain things relating to my trauma. In a really good way. I believe this is really beneficial for so many people to hear. Thank you for being so raw Trisha. Sending love ❤

[@justtrishpodcast]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@Kenzi24]

I'm the exact same way as Trish when it comes to addiction. I just told my boyfriend the other day that I cant have alcohol in the house, only when we go out once in a while, because as soon as something makes me feel good, i need to do it multiple times a day every day. Right now my addictions are caffeine, weed, and my phone. I try hard to not get addicted to things that can ruin your life, but i know it would take a second for me to fall into that lifestyle if i allowed myself to. I drink caffeine and smoke weed pretty much all day every day just to feel like i have some control and regulation over my brain as well as dissociate by listening to tons of podcasts pretty much all the time unless im at work. I know that's extremely benign but i am very aware of the fact that those things are taking the place of alcohol and pills because i am maintaining self-control

[@Kenzi24]

​@gina-hp2jo it's nice to know we're not alone and glad that we have the self-control to make our addictions or dependencies not too dangerous

[@jadejennings806]

EMDR would be really great for Trisha. If she can find a therapist she trusts, it could be very helpful. It’s not just about going back to the past. It’s bringing your brain up to date and into the present and letting your body know the trauma is over. Highly recommend.

[@Kenzi24]

I have "emotional intensity disorder" as my therapist called it because he doesn't like to diagnose bpd. I've been watching Trisha on and off for 10 years and seeing someone else go through something similar(extremely heightened emotions, obsessions, addictions, fear of others, lack of true identity) has really helped me in life. And now seeing Trish as a great mom brings tears to my eyes because I've wanted to be a mom my entire life and would feel incomplete as a person if i didnt, but I always question if I'll be able to hold it together and be a good mom. Deep down i know i can do anything with enough dedication and I think believing that is a huge step. Anyways, I really hope Trisha knows how much she impacts the world in a positive way just by being herself and being so real.

[@believe.receive]

Hey girly. I don't reply that much to comments on youtube but I just wanted to say you are on the right path for believing that about yourself! As someone who is into psychology and spirituality, I can confirm that our beliefs about the world and ourselves impact us more than we know and literally shape our lives (hence the username). The more you believe that you can achieve something and the less you question yourself will ultimately lead you to where you want to be. So yes, you can absolutely be a good mother and just because BPD has affected you very strongly in the past or even now does not mean that it will be that way forever. Circumstances change, you change, approaches to treating mental health issues change. You got this! You're doing better than you think

[@Kenzi24]

​@@believe.receivethanks for the support ❤

[@clearedhaze5264]

Watching this is like therapy for me. This is such an important and deep conversation. Very genuine.

[@Hi.my.name.isKaren]

I’ve honestly never felt more connected to Trish than I did watching this episode. She’s like my fairy godmother for life lessons

[@renearturo5165]

This podcast has SOO many important topics this was amazing. And you can tell Trisha has worked soo much on herself

[@Rodviet]

I can't believe how amazing this podcast turned out to be, the discussions, the set, the GUESTS (omg), trishas glam, the serious conversation we just witnessed. Wow. I hope this podcast gets the recognition it deserves, it's great, quality content. Hope it lasts for years and years to come 💕

[@SuzyCroons]

I’ve been a fan of both of these people for years and years. I used to suspect Trisha had BPD and imagined Dr Drew talking to her about it. To see it actually happening years later is so wild. I’m so happy for Trisha.

[@BeautifulDaynThaHood]

Trish. Thank you a million times over for this episode. I’m in tears. The way I relate to your past so much! I’m so thankful drew is so kind with you. What amazing episode. Love you girl!

[@bobisu3111]

Ive just found Trish's podcast, and I'm kinda in the middle of a breakdown from lack of sleep due to work etc, and I LOVE the energy Trish gives! It's so nice and healing just to bring her giggles into my life right now.

[@amykristic2980]

Damn Trish, this episode was so special and eye opening! Props to you for not shying away from any issues you deal with and helping the audience by doing that. You can tell you're such a strong woman and I commend you for keeping going. Malibu is extremely lucky to have you as a Mom and mentor ❤️

[@Jeffswife4life]

Much of this conversation is sooo important for people to hear. Especially being a child and going through trauma. It is just soo unfair. I will die trying to protect my 10 year old son from the things that happened to me in life. And luckily I wasn’t sexually abused as a young child but by the time I was 10 years old I was raising my 3 younger siblings bc both my mother and father suffer from mental illness and addiction. Having dually diagnosed parents from a young age shaped and changed my life forever. It put me on course for self sabotage. Luckily I was able to save myself at 19. It took a while but I was able to become a nurse and have a kid and I got married. Life was good for a while. Now in my 30s I suffer with debilitating depression and chronic pain from a work related injury. And my mother killed herself drinking and driving in 2016. As fucked up as my life was though she was my best friend and I always had a lot of empathy and compassion for what she went through and dealt with in life and I have not been the same since she died. I am hopeful to come out of this depression. I am able to function bc I am on medication but it’s just hard. Life is soo hard sometimes!! I’m so happy she’s talking about this stuff. Soo many people need to hear it to know they are not alone!

[@serenadee3064]

The back and forth is very relatable. Trauma and healing isn’t a straight line and two things can be true at once. With trauma and sex- I completely related to the back and forth, it’s like I wanna take my power back and that feels good and yet I felt traumatized and like I’m feeding into the beast at the same time. This was a great discussion and thank you for the honesty. Hoping you read all the good comments and take the negative with a grain of salt. ❤

[@livglenn5623]

As someone who has struggled from such a young age, this is so impressive Trisha. You are doing amazing and I believe you, and I know you're such an amazing mother. I am so proud of you, and you're doing the work and that's a huge accomplishment. With all the love and the years of watching you, I love this for you.

[@dazzads]

this needs to be an ongoing series. dr drew needs to be on at LEAST bi-weekly