ADHD YouTuber vs. ASD YouTuber: Main Differences

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@TheAspieWorld
@TheAspieWorld 4 жыл бұрын
Was awesome hanging out again!! See you in VidCon!
@pnut9995
@pnut9995 4 жыл бұрын
@TheAspieWorld, I need to recommend your channel to some friends who have Aspie Gems in their families!
@Cochranflutes
@Cochranflutes 4 жыл бұрын
The Aspie World good to hear your view of consciousness, I am just the opposite, I am hyper focused, so I can read people very well. Interesting, because I know some people that have this, good to hear your view on the condition.
@littlepixy2
@littlepixy2 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for expressing your experiences so well! I feel like I have a better understanding of my son now. Definitely subscribing to your channel!
@hauntedshadowslegacy2826
@hauntedshadowslegacy2826 4 жыл бұрын
I have a question: Is not recognizing emotions in others a required symptom for ASD? I have a handful of other symptoms, but I'm okay with recognizing emotions. My main issues are sensory (hate holding hands or being touched on my arms and shoulders, favor spinning in place, sound sensitivity, light sensitivity, smell sensitivity, sensory shutdowns...).
@stormynomad2400
@stormynomad2400 4 жыл бұрын
Sure was I am diagnosed as an adult with ADHD, PTSD and Aspergers. Life is such more interesting when one can finally answer some of the question, ie Why.
@ryanthomson1380
@ryanthomson1380 4 жыл бұрын
I have Adhd, and I find that I'm hyper aware of how everyone is feeling If there is the slightest change in somones mood I spot it streight away I have anxiety, but when I feel comfortable I become very aware of how I should speak to specific personalties And I know when to change up the conversation The flip side, I'm really sensitive to people's change in mood as I think i did something wrong 😂
@FreestyleTraceur
@FreestyleTraceur 4 жыл бұрын
I'm like this too! Let me guess, are you often the mediator of a group, i.e. the person that tries to keep group dynamics chill and welcoming?
@jaidenstar98
@jaidenstar98 4 жыл бұрын
Same!!
@marq6929
@marq6929 4 жыл бұрын
Same! A nurse told me I was probably an Empath because of this and then I stumbled across information on HSP and finally found my way to ADHD (totally by accident).
@marq6929
@marq6929 4 жыл бұрын
@@FreestyleTraceur yes! LMAO someone has to help that poor person get a word in or steer the conversation away from that topic that secretly upsets that one person.
@FreestyleTraceur
@FreestyleTraceur 4 жыл бұрын
@@marq6929 Lol, you know what's up.
@mathewrussell1533
@mathewrussell1533 4 жыл бұрын
Lol i am aspie and ADHD, Watching both of you talking over each other unintentionally made me laugh. Story of my life hahaha
@Astrocubs
@Astrocubs 3 жыл бұрын
Mathew Russell SAMMMEE
@TheMightyShell
@TheMightyShell 3 жыл бұрын
After thinking I was just broken for 26 years it's nice to finally find my people
@escha511
@escha511 3 жыл бұрын
eyyyy, has both gang. I also got saddled with dyspraxia (this may be negated by the autism diagnosis though?)
@joshbonner9409
@joshbonner9409 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@thatwiseoldbitchchannel
@thatwiseoldbitchchannel 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@RyanLynch1
@RyanLynch1 4 жыл бұрын
just noticed this but I love the ADHD-friendly editing in this video!!! like I realized you cut out a lot of unimportant pauses and such :)) thanks so much. and cool haircut!!
@barelyliteratebooks3899
@barelyliteratebooks3899 3 жыл бұрын
you're right! I love how fast they talk too, lol
@bick5601
@bick5601 3 жыл бұрын
Also how sometimes, when one person is talking a bunch, they focus on them and them only
@HejTuNatalia
@HejTuNatalia 3 жыл бұрын
And also with the titles of conversion points they were talking about, that helped a lot.
@tytianna1847
@tytianna1847 3 жыл бұрын
@@HejTuNatalia YESSS
@EssentialBlue
@EssentialBlue 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure if it is really ADHD-friendly. I always multitask while watching (listening to) videos and I can't with this one because it's too fast so I get frustrated. Too fast, not my mother language and my brain is too muddled to understand the words. Now I want to stop because I forgot what they were talking about. I am not yet diagnosed with anything so maybe something else is making me crazy.
@YoSamdySam
@YoSamdySam 4 жыл бұрын
I am autistic - in terms of social difficulties, I find myself able to recognise the emotion, sometimes picking up very subtle cues, but unable to understand why they might be upset. Constantly wondering "did I say something wrong?" because I'm picking up way too much information
@arslongis
@arslongis 3 жыл бұрын
Me tooooo! I get some parts of the emotion but not the intention!
@laurab257
@laurab257 3 жыл бұрын
This is meeee!!!
@rgaltress
@rgaltress 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my godddddd someone finally explained it. This is it.
@meganprice1691
@meganprice1691 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Or I will completely misread and think someone is upset when they’re not because they’re not smiling or their tone of voice has changed ever so slightly. I was actually a little afraid that I had been misdiagnosed(adhd and autistic) after this video so it’s reassuring to see another autistic person feel similar. Also, love you videos.
@alifmuhammadchicago
@alifmuhammadchicago 2 жыл бұрын
Yay! The Grande Dame Samdy Sam graces us with her presence!
@Tavita221
@Tavita221 4 жыл бұрын
I love that you keep digging deep on ADHD and neurodiversity generally. Btw, you are a great interviewer, thanks for another wonderfully informative episode.
@HowtoADHD
@HowtoADHD 4 жыл бұрын
aw thank you!! I try :D
@lyrablack8621
@lyrablack8621 2 жыл бұрын
@@HowtoADHD it pays off! Also omg this is 2yrs old??? It just popped up in my recommended…
@freshoutofcrabs
@freshoutofcrabs 4 жыл бұрын
I also have issues with eye contact but for a completely different reason. I don't mind making eye contact, but I get extremely uncomfortable if I am expected to hold that contact. It feels like I'm being restrained - I need to be constantly looking around at everything/everyone around me.
@dr.bandito60
@dr.bandito60 3 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and also notice I have difficulty with extended eye contact. I don’t like when people expect me to maintain focus on them that way. I can focus my eyes on you and look like I’m listening OR I can fiddle with something and actually listen.
@iqi616
@iqi616 3 жыл бұрын
I have the opposite, I have to remember to look away - especially with ASD people who I know really don't like it. The plus is I can outstare anyone and cats are too easy - the left eye is the window to the soul 😁
@amyrose1539
@amyrose1539 3 жыл бұрын
Me to
@Mak7even
@Mak7even 3 жыл бұрын
@anonymous palm tree huhu 🦉
@suides4810
@suides4810 3 жыл бұрын
This is me I dont know if i should seek an adhd diagnosis haha
@user-bk8qv4lv6o
@user-bk8qv4lv6o 2 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and mild ASD and I think it’s important to note that when placed under extremely stressful home situations you tend to learn how to read social cues very well and develop a hyper vigilance for how those around you are feeling (as a safety mechanism), so if you don’t experience that particular symptom for either ASD or ADHD, that doesn’t mean you don’t have it - it is very possible for people with either condition to develop those skills if placed under extreme enough pressure.
@geministargazer9830
@geministargazer9830 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s weird how some things cancel each other out and mask the difficulty involved in it for you. For me I kind of instinctively knew I was “bad” at maths. But I always did well at it. It took me longer than other people who were “good” at it. Turns out I have a pretty high IQ but also dyscalculia so they cancel each other out and I scored “average” on the maths stuff. So because I’m not doing poorly people don’t realise I actually have dyscalculia
@lauraholmes9353
@lauraholmes9353 2 жыл бұрын
Are you diagnosed? Bacause there is no mild ASD. It's always spicy! 😆
@ariadnarivas260
@ariadnarivas260 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! I relate so much with this comment.
@LagenaNasira
@LagenaNasira Жыл бұрын
@@lauraholmes9353 it is, but maybe they meant being on a part of the spectrum with less support needs in certain aspects. I don't know though. ^^
@taoist32
@taoist32 Жыл бұрын
@@LagenaNasira Yes, mild equals Level 1 on the spectrum.
@oliviawebster199
@oliviawebster199 4 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and one of my best friends has ASD, we’re a fun pair 😂😂
@Crumpsmeister
@Crumpsmeister 4 жыл бұрын
My Wife has ASD!! Im adhd
@sleepyote
@sleepyote 4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is ADHD and I'm ASD.
@insert8242
@insert8242 3 жыл бұрын
My best friend has ASD, I’m an ADHD. I may look hyper on my own, he may look hyper on his own. But I’m gonna say we’re the Bouncy Buddies together 😂
@natalieh1950
@natalieh1950 3 жыл бұрын
Me and my best friend are the ADHD & asd pair, she is talking(or stimming) and I'm talking....with her sleep over(I'm super excited, it's my first ever sleep over, I'm 16, I'm afraid of everything because I've never been to her house...but she has dogs so....can you guess who has ADHD?) And she has another ASD friend coming, we will be triple trouble
@thatguy2565
@thatguy2565 3 жыл бұрын
My best friend has ADHD and ASD while I have ADHD its really fun with us too :D
@enlathestrange
@enlathestrange 4 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD inattentive, Dyslexia, Dyspraxia, dyscalculia and periods of Depression and Anxiety. Professionals also think I have ASD. Neurological Disorders Gotta catch Em all!
@maddieworld9480
@maddieworld9480 4 жыл бұрын
CLARA DE PENA, I have the first two
@memereview9803
@memereview9803 4 жыл бұрын
i have adhd (i think it was combined but i spaced out whenever he mentioned that part), anxiety, depression, & probably something else i'm forgetting about! also pikachu.
@insert8242
@insert8242 3 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD (combined type) and ‘severe’ dyslexia. I’m still cool tho 😂
@thatwiseoldbitchchannel
@thatwiseoldbitchchannel 3 жыл бұрын
Same same same! 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@tubalador
@tubalador 3 жыл бұрын
I think everyone who has Autism also has ADD/ADHD. I have ADHD(I guess combined), GSAD, ODD, OCD, and I was diagnosed with PDD-NOS at 4 so that also puts me on the Autistic Spectrum.
@icecrystal34
@icecrystal34 4 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR THE SECTION TITLES IN THE CORNER SO HELPFUL
@nixthelapin9869
@nixthelapin9869 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, people with glasses are a god sent because I can look at the glare on their lenses rather than their eyes
@user-kr4di8ow6u
@user-kr4di8ow6u 4 жыл бұрын
AHAHAHAH Ikr! I would look at what colors the glares are because they're usually really pretty colors and I get so distracted by them all the time!
@MollyWat
@MollyWat 3 жыл бұрын
lmfaooo i thought this was just me
@saint.hudson13
@saint.hudson13 3 жыл бұрын
I look at people eyebrows as a permanent. It’s SO life changing! 🤘🏾Try it!
@MarsellaFyngold
@MarsellaFyngold 2 жыл бұрын
lol that anime glasses glare.
@sanostargalaxy
@sanostargalaxy 2 жыл бұрын
@@saint.hudson13 is that why my anime husbandos have giant eyebrows?
@mishapurser4439
@mishapurser4439 3 жыл бұрын
My ASD makes me really want to learn about something but my ADHD makes me procrastinate and I end up just casually learning about the thing I really want to delve into and I end up with just a surface knowledge. It's really frustrating.
@sootheoperator4545
@sootheoperator4545 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah but if you're like me you're probably amassing a significant spread of surface level information about a variety of topics. It won't pay the bills, but its good to know some stuff better than no stuff, I guess I do agree, though. The condition feels a bit like frustration incarnate, sometimes.
@craigistheman101
@craigistheman101 2 жыл бұрын
Why does this describe me?!
@neocolors
@neocolors 2 жыл бұрын
This hits home, I'm a musician and I'm so interested in my instrument and in music in general, but I just hit a wall over and over again when trying to deepen my knowledge. Like I know the first part of a song and then I just can't go on anymore. ADHD diagnosis & medication help me a lot! Right now I'm wondering if I'm on the spectrum too, this might be where my great interest (aka obsession) for music might come from. The combination of ADHD and ASD is pretty common I think.
@LucaAnamaria
@LucaAnamaria Жыл бұрын
​@@neocolors I feel like most people who are into music are obsessed with it, though.
@neocolors
@neocolors Жыл бұрын
@@LucaAnamaria lol, you're not wrong!
@ILOVEDEC12
@ILOVEDEC12 4 жыл бұрын
I always thought it was weird that I react so strongly to someone biting a raw apple and I have been noticing that I strongly dislike when someone breathes near my ear, rubs my arm for too long, or I feel hot. I get like a sense of “I need to escape.” I was diagnosed with ADD about 6 years ago and I never thought that sensory sensitivity could be a part of it. Thank you for the videos! It really helps me understand myself more and my boyfriend (who has ADHD) 😊
@suckmydingledong
@suckmydingledong 4 жыл бұрын
Touching cardboard... *Ugh*
@darleneorm5593
@darleneorm5593 4 жыл бұрын
I sometimes feel like I can feel every single hair strand of my head touching my neck and shoulders like needles. Clothing on my body! Ugh! No matter how loose, they grind my soul.
@lailai25279
@lailai25279 4 жыл бұрын
ILOVEDEC12 you might possibly have misaphonia? Look it up
@Liquessen
@Liquessen 4 жыл бұрын
Certain slinky fabrics give me the heebiejeebies, and I cant sleep if I touch someone. Repeated touch in the same spot feels painful after only seconds. Perfumes, cigarette smoke, sweat, all sting my nose and mouth. Add some asthma on top of that.
@regalarius
@regalarius 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, this sounds like misophonia to me, too. I've got several friends and a romantic partner who suffer from it.
@paujoan401
@paujoan401 4 жыл бұрын
This is awesome, I have ADHD & dyslexia and married to a woman with ASD and we can relate to all of what you are saying, you are awesome guys! After watching this video my wife tried to look at my eyes and talk, and she looked creepy AF, we laughed a lot. Keep up the good job!
@lilia3944
@lilia3944 2 жыл бұрын
For the recognizing facial cues part, I had a really interesting conversation with my therapist, since I learned a lot of them, and wasn't sure what's the difference between having them memorized well and knowing them intuitively (the same with my adhd symptoms like interrupting constantly). Her answer was: if you get tired and you can't do it anymore, it's learned; if you can still do it when you're tired (even though stuff like impulse control gets worse for everyone), it's intuitive.
@eloisepharmacist
@eloisepharmacist Жыл бұрын
Great point - I think it's like masking and it falls apart once tired
@venomstrikez
@venomstrikez 10 ай бұрын
@@arospacechaosyes exactly. If its learned it means you have to actively spend energy to be able to actively think and process thoughts. If it comes natural its just a feeling you get when you see a certain expression. Since its an instant feeling and not a thought or process theres no energy spent and it wont shut off when tired. ( downside is that it cannot be shut off even if you wanted too.)
@Rockwith_gyu
@Rockwith_gyu 4 күн бұрын
this is super interesting!! I’ve been questioning whether I may be on the spectrum but have always been a little cautious due to the reading facial expressions aspect. It’s incredibly hard to analyze your thoughts to decide if it’s intuitive vs learned.
@thebullshooter9180
@thebullshooter9180 4 жыл бұрын
For anyone with limited knowledge about ASD, be aware that the way this guy describes it is unique to him. He has some specific issues that do not apply to most on the spectrum. Some for sure, but the picture he paints isn't by any means "the norm." For anyone interested in the topic, ASD can also present vastly different in females. The scientific community is only just starting to learn about this, and many women are now finally getting their diagnosis in late adulthood. Dive into youtube and soak up some knowledge. It is wildly fascinating.
@jessicest
@jessicest Жыл бұрын
do you know where we can find more about how else asd can present? I've often heard that the typical diagnostic criteria miss a lot of kinds of asd but rarely does this come with any detail about what signs to actually look for
@Neeneenugget
@Neeneenugget 3 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with ASD and ADHD today and I'm absolutely lost. I know a bit about autism as my son has ASD but I'm clueless about ADHD. Your channel is really helping me to understand myself and my diagnosis. So thank you :)
@adam-vm3zj
@adam-vm3zj 4 жыл бұрын
Having confirmed ADHD and many, maaany ASD-suspicious things (mostly pronounced in my childhood, many remained in a softened state) this was a very interesting episode.
@LightByGrace
@LightByGrace 4 жыл бұрын
Same...The most pronounced stuff was in my childhood. I was somehow able to adjust and adapt without any official help and with no recognition that I was possibly on the spectrum or had SPD or anything like that. Finally got an OCD diagnosis in my early 30s at least and on some good meds that have helped a lot.
@CanuckBacon
@CanuckBacon 3 жыл бұрын
To me eye contact feels aggressive, almost like I feel an unconscious battle going on between me and whoever I'm talking or making eye contact with, i know it isn't but that doesn't stop me from feeling like that
@rogerclarke4760
@rogerclarke4760 3 жыл бұрын
Makes me feel like I'm challenging another man to a fight or being a creep to women lol
@nalanihamby3710
@nalanihamby3710 3 жыл бұрын
Oh boy. It's like you read my mind.
@sheadoherty7434
@sheadoherty7434 3 жыл бұрын
Legit. Feels confrontational.
@0000song0000
@0000song0000 2 жыл бұрын
i grew up in a place where looking people in the eyes was considered disrespectful (like invading their personal space) then i moved for college to a place where e. g. if you where on bus people would just stare right at you for ages for no reason... and in that city/state they considered it normal (really, kids, elderly... where in my hometown if someone catches you looking at them, you look away... in that city you felt seen, look at them like "wth?" and they just kept staring... i still do not understand them)
@darrylbrady8841
@darrylbrady8841 2 жыл бұрын
If you are shot of AdderaII, for your ADHD then get more at darkfax.com No prescription is Required.,
@logistics5392
@logistics5392 4 жыл бұрын
ADHD is a struggle for me, but my school has helped me make friends. On top of that, this channel has helped me enormously. Thank you, Jessica!
@indigoziona
@indigoziona 4 жыл бұрын
That's brilliant! Were there any particular good things your school did? I work with students, a lot of whom have ADHD, and would love to be able to help more.
@magdalenabienkowska1949
@magdalenabienkowska1949 4 жыл бұрын
I got ADHD
@mix3k818
@mix3k818 4 жыл бұрын
I have ASD and my school teachers try to help, but my classmates? Not so much.
@lonewolfpoetics
@lonewolfpoetics 4 жыл бұрын
Weighted blankets are absolutely AMAZING
@NanoNutrino
@NanoNutrino 4 жыл бұрын
Your descriptions of ADHD is my life. I have had social lag all my life, at least I'm not alone
@sckilham
@sckilham 4 жыл бұрын
Jessica, I love watching interviews that you do because of how you listen to the person you're interviewing. I can see you focusing your energy on hearing what they say and asking really great questions to learn more. With adhd listening and showing that we're listening can be so difficult so it's awesome to see you working to hard to communicate with and understand your guests!!
@emilykopf7966
@emilykopf7966 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree, I know how much effort this takes!! Seems like she puts the work in because she is an empathic person as well!
@jacotromp1065
@jacotromp1065 4 жыл бұрын
I have chronic depression, anxiety and adhd. It's hell
@kerchewy2571
@kerchewy2571 4 жыл бұрын
LuchtLedig Music Drum and Bass it often happens
@daynabailen4331
@daynabailen4331 3 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone and there is a lot of support out there.
@mitch5222
@mitch5222 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@allysonbeaulieu7351
@allysonbeaulieu7351 3 жыл бұрын
same here
@james575730
@james575730 3 жыл бұрын
do you combine a stimulant with a non stimulant, like adderall with wellbutrin? because add would be for adhd and wellbutrin for depression
@ropecrewman36
@ropecrewman36 4 жыл бұрын
When I saw that two incredible people were in this video, I liked it immediately before viewing. :-)
@HowtoADHD
@HowtoADHD 4 жыл бұрын
d'aww thank you!!
@kippsyb82
@kippsyb82 4 жыл бұрын
Same!
@Mrfurball25
@Mrfurball25 4 жыл бұрын
I couldn't wait to watch this
@whyamiwastingmytimeonthis
@whyamiwastingmytimeonthis 4 жыл бұрын
SAAAAME
@vorpal22
@vorpal22 4 жыл бұрын
First time viewer... this definitely confirmed to me that I have ADHD and not ASD. Looking at you, I so see myself in the way you move and talk and carry yourself and I can relate to everything you said, but only a few things that Daniel said... especially the not noticing if someone is upset. I live in my own little hyperactive world and have to come out and focus to even notice other people as more than just concepts around me, which can be so difficult to do and maintain. Also, the self-care thing... if I do do something that focuses me (programming), I can go for hours and hours and hours and the slightest interruption is frustrating. I forget to eat and do normal people things that people need to do. I also can't read before bed, because I get too focused on the book and then hyperstimulated and totally unable to sleep.
@ButterFlYnez
@ButterFlYnez 4 жыл бұрын
I actually have the dual diagnosis, and up until this video it didn't really click for me that just tackling half of my symptoms wasn't going to work. So thank you Jessica cause I found a new channel to binge through!
@Dancestar1981
@Dancestar1981 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Jessica and Rick Green I have the dual diagnosis too
@nehamaw
@nehamaw 4 жыл бұрын
I'm loving thay ur playing with a fidget cube :) 5:50
@curiousgeorge555
@curiousgeorge555 4 жыл бұрын
Gave me a chuckle as well :D .
@FredKitt
@FredKitt 4 жыл бұрын
This made me want my fidget cube too, so I paused the video to find mine, which took forever! I'm glad you picked up on this.
@nehamaw
@nehamaw 4 жыл бұрын
@@FredKitt I don't remember where mine went 😂 haven't seen it in a while. Now I want it.
@Ash-up9gl
@Ash-up9gl 4 жыл бұрын
It made me instantly pick mine up!
@FredKitt
@FredKitt 4 жыл бұрын
@@nehamaw I completely understand, I often lose it but it seams to always turn up eventually, I hope you find it soon!
@psluxton
@psluxton 4 жыл бұрын
Whenever I've experienced "Shut Downs" I start with fading out of conciousness until I'm not recognising ANYTHING but I know I'm supposed to be doing something and I dither confusedly. The next stage if not removed from the situation is complete zombification - I can be moved and guided, but have no will or sense of anything... a complete Blackout whilst still awake. When removed from the situation I'll suddenly "Wake Up". I have no memory of the time I was shut down except for pictures/screenshots of moments that make no sense, and I am now fully back to normal and generally asking "What happened?". I also feel crushing shame without a source. Not a pleasant experience, but also not bad as I have no memory of the missing time.
@poyink5515
@poyink5515 4 жыл бұрын
@Lara Jane i had a shutdown one time when a beggar asked me for money and I gave a dollar and he got mad at me and it felt like i lost my body and energy and couldnt move or even keep my neck up, he then fake punched me a couple times and went away. i forgive him and wish him well so i can live in peace from that wierd memory experiencing a shut down for the first time.
@lucusl2787
@lucusl2787 3 жыл бұрын
@@poyink5515 I think thats called fight or flight lol
@Dancestar1981
@Dancestar1981 2 жыл бұрын
There’s fight, flight or freeze and that’s the freeze reaction and definitely a shutdown
@thaisac7948
@thaisac7948 4 жыл бұрын
Your channel was the first thing I found on youtube when I was diagnosed with ADHD. I was truly devastated and feeling like I belonged in a mental hospital, not exaggerating at all. You’ve made things a lot easier to “digest”, accept and respect. My first weeks were all based on medication. Nowadays, with my medical support and your tips I’ve been able to manage my professional life with no meds a lot better. ❤️ Understanding and accepting what I had helped me find ways to go where I wanted in different ways. My life has gotten a lot better. Thank you so much!
@Topbestmechanic
@Topbestmechanic 4 жыл бұрын
@howtoadhd what about the opposite? Like an adhd who has the “sloth” struggle like never motivated enough to get things accomplished. Or like feeling bored and unable to have enough to fill your time? I struggle with physical energy and mental energy, and wonder about advice or a conversation on that. Thanks!
@mariecarie1
@mariecarie1 4 жыл бұрын
Jeremiah Dotson I have the exact same issue. Frustrating, isn’t it?
@insert8242
@insert8242 3 жыл бұрын
I struggle with having too much energy. Im in the hyperactive category. Also Turtles
@jequirity1
@jequirity1 3 жыл бұрын
I had this issue, for me it was comorbid adhd and depression. Apparently it's not uncommon for them to show up together.
@cerealis_5432
@cerealis_5432 3 жыл бұрын
@@jequirity1 do you have any advice on how to overcome this?
@Kezzbezzx
@Kezzbezzx 3 жыл бұрын
This is a thing!? Yes please a vid on this
@williamdakotaguinn
@williamdakotaguinn 4 жыл бұрын
An episode on ADHD ticks would be very appreciated!
@quirkyblackenby
@quirkyblackenby 4 жыл бұрын
ThatGuy that would be great!
@memereview9803
@memereview9803 4 жыл бұрын
yes!
@davideitreim562
@davideitreim562 4 жыл бұрын
This would be most helpful. So many people around me get so uncomfortable when my tics happen,
@helenbroutsos6768
@helenbroutsos6768 3 жыл бұрын
OMG I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE
@lavendergilly5843
@lavendergilly5843 2 жыл бұрын
@@davideitreim562 wait we get tics? What are they
@Iceburgh6901
@Iceburgh6901 2 жыл бұрын
I felt this video on a deep level. I was diagnosed with ADHD at 9 years old, and with ASD at nearly 41. I've lived with being neurodiverse my entire life, and am just now coming to really understand it.
@ankitakolhe3825
@ankitakolhe3825 4 жыл бұрын
hi jessica, I'm so happy to see you smiling.. Hope you are doing better... I'm a doctor.. Staying alone and studying but your videos are my go to stressbuster when feeling low. 😄 They keep me in high spirits. Lots of love from India :)
@tehrinny7031
@tehrinny7031 4 жыл бұрын
I didn't even realize sensory issues were a thing. I was diagnosed with ADHD this year (had a diagnosis as a kid, but my mom refused to acknowledge or treat it). I'd eventually worked into a retail management position after failing at school several times over and feeling helpless. Anyway, I'd get overwhelmed by sound, too many customers, smells would bother me greatly. I'd find myself getting into flight or fight mode when it just reached critical level. Even shopping in places like Walmart were unbearable. Driving was also difficult. Once I got treatment and started taking meds, I found that my response to sensory overwhelm greatly diminished and I was able to be more calm. Of course this happens after I left that job, but still. It's just much easier in everyday life.
@KitCabaret
@KitCabaret 4 жыл бұрын
Oh man I feel this. I'm currently working a retail job, whenever I'm at the registers I get overwhelmed by all the sounds of everyone talking at once. And I get the fight or flight mode thing to, for me I just kind of shut down and can't even speak for a while sometimes. I think I might try and look into medication soon, I was always afraid bc of the stigma around it but hearing how much it helps people with similar issues to me is a huge relief.
@tedjames3820
@tedjames3820 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate...when I go to the supermarket, Walmart, etc, I can get anxiety 😐
@Dancestar1981
@Dancestar1981 2 жыл бұрын
Sensory issues occur in both conditions
@Syntaxa
@Syntaxa 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love and adore Jessica!! She makes my ADHD, SPD, and PTSD all easier to manage. #TeamBrains
@maddieworld9480
@maddieworld9480 4 жыл бұрын
I'm not trying to be rude but, What's spd?
@Syntaxa
@Syntaxa 4 жыл бұрын
Maddie World SPD is Sensory Perception Disorder. I have a hard time with touch. (Anxiety inducing) Also, can’t wear rings or gloves.
@maddieworld9480
@maddieworld9480 4 жыл бұрын
Oh, thanks for telling me! (:
@violathepoodle-roo7492
@violathepoodle-roo7492 3 жыл бұрын
@@Syntaxa damn i might have that ive always had a hard time wearing rings and gloves and very tight clothes on my arms and legs. Like it makes me so uncomfortable and I need it off of me to feel alright
@taylorfm-tk4by
@taylorfm-tk4by 11 ай бұрын
@@violathepoodle-roo7492 me too
@timothyunderwood7880
@timothyunderwood7880 4 жыл бұрын
omg, the insatiable curiosity and so many opened tabs on various topics I love! And the sensory overload, too...
@patrickhanson712
@patrickhanson712 4 жыл бұрын
IKR!
@heatherm2140
@heatherm2140 2 жыл бұрын
23 tabs open now.... (it's also so I don't forget the thing I wanted to read about while I go do the thing I need to do.)
@ursevier
@ursevier 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for all your content! Literally changed my life! I got diagnosed thanks to you, and I couldn't even begin to explain what a difference it has made! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!
@Jaggedknife11
@Jaggedknife11 Жыл бұрын
The speed and cadence of Daniel's speech is perfect. It's as fast and plain as possible without being hard to understand or boring. Amazing.
@watsoniselementary
@watsoniselementary 2 жыл бұрын
Ahh I felt that explanation about tattoos and why it feels "good". I have some sensory sensitivities, but I love getting tattoos! The combination of the pain and the machine sounds is almost meditative to me. So interesting to hear it articulated from someone else. I don't know if I am on the spectrum, but I was recently diagnosed with ADHD.
@DaleStrickland
@DaleStrickland 4 жыл бұрын
I am happy to see that you've made this video. I have often wondered whether I may be a highly functioning person with aspergers. After viewing this I am thinking it is much more likely that the similar symptoms are ADHD related. Thanks!
@Dancestar1981
@Dancestar1981 2 жыл бұрын
You can have both together I do
@EilidhKH93
@EilidhKH93 4 жыл бұрын
The conversation topic tags are SO HELPFUL, thank you!
@marioalfaro3
@marioalfaro3 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best videos to share. I’ve had people ask me how I understand my daughter’s ADHD so well, and your work is one of the reasons. I share them with anyone who truly wants to know more. You are all kinds of awesome! Keep on keeping on.
@pnut9995
@pnut9995 4 жыл бұрын
This is AMAZING! I had to share the video with a friend of mine who has two children on the spectrum! This actually explained a lot me to me and helped me understand a lot more about myself. I am not on the spectrum, but have only the ADHD diagnosis. I understand the melt downs and over stimulation as well. I've been able to curb my melt downs, but not my impulsivity. The social awkwardness is definitely in my life, too. You both are amazing. Please keep up woth these videos. Y'all make this community so much better!
@borderlinebuffy989
@borderlinebuffy989 4 жыл бұрын
I am a simple human being, I see Jessica’s new video... I click it. Seriously you are truly wonderful ❤️🧠
@skwerl81
@skwerl81 4 жыл бұрын
Shout out to occupational therapy (@5:02)! 🙌🙌 Nobody ever knows what we do lol, glad the sensory diet was helpful!
@mariecarie1
@mariecarie1 4 жыл бұрын
You OTs are absolutely vital to helping us who have sensory processing issues. You guys don’t get nearly enough love! I’m an ST in early childhood intervention and I always always look to you for help with my sweet ASD kiddos who are having trouble. I’m looking to get assessed myself with a sensory profile and getting input on how to deal with my own sensory issues. Thanks for all you do!
@jackwalls6551
@jackwalls6551 4 жыл бұрын
A Lot of people I know would act condescending to him after he talked about his difficulties. You seem like your legitimately trying to understand instead of just feeling sorry.
@treble2994
@treble2994 4 жыл бұрын
The video I needed from two trusty sources!
@92Pyromaniac
@92Pyromaniac 2 жыл бұрын
I get that weighted blanket effect of feeling your body more from the gym. That dull muscle soreness you get after working out really helps me feel my body more, plus it's a nice reminder that you did something positive that day. And if you want to feel a bit more, tensing a muscle produces a nice, almost pleasurable ache. Getting back to lifting weights after being locked down for so long this year was incredible, I had no idea how much I'd been missing the soreness!
@stephaniedefranco9141
@stephaniedefranco9141 4 жыл бұрын
My daughter is 11 and less then a year ago was diagnosed with adhd asd and a couple other things. It’s awesome to watch your videos because we constantly have gotten from teachers/friends/ and even family that she is just fine when we have been looking for answers for years. I always share your videos on my Facebook because maybe people will open their eyes and realize you can look “normal” but still have things going on in your brain that make you exceptional!
@user-kr4di8ow6u
@user-kr4di8ow6u 4 жыл бұрын
I love how no one mentioned that they missed half of the video because they were too distracted by responding to relatable comments! If I actually have ADHD I'm not even surprised-
@sootheoperator4545
@sootheoperator4545 2 жыл бұрын
Its not really in the nature of my stream of consciousness to definitely "get back" to every thought. I start and forget more activities than I remember and complete. So the fact that I'm even typing this means the video is out of my mind for now, and if I try to rewind it I will end up back in the comments in a loop that could theoretically continue for hours, so its probably better I don't remember to get back to it 😅
@solesuna
@solesuna 2 жыл бұрын
I kind of feel attacked 😂
@Van-hb4gi
@Van-hb4gi 2 жыл бұрын
I'm doing both. Listening and responding. Love it.
@benwh6540
@benwh6540 4 жыл бұрын
Nice to see a fellow ADHD and ASD...I find it difficult to differentiate between some of my traits... thanks man! Lots of things I recognise as the ASD side, I like pressure...have to have tight clothes on or shirts sleeves up... and the hyperacusis is awful...had to walk out of wedding and parties etc the connection between sensory overload and pain is so true... nice to have someone talk through it love to you both! 🤘🏻☺️
@saundrayork767
@saundrayork767 4 жыл бұрын
Regarding the tats, he's right. The sound and rhythm of the machine are compensating/nice.
@quirkyblackenby
@quirkyblackenby 4 жыл бұрын
Saundra York it really is. I have sensitivity issues and am very sensitive to pain but I love getting tattoos
@Dancestar1981
@Dancestar1981 2 жыл бұрын
I had my eyebrows properly tattooed and fell asleep to the noise of the machine
@TriforceofShadows
@TriforceofShadows 3 жыл бұрын
Cool, another crossover with 2 of my favorite KZbinrs, you guys have both helped me out a lot! I just saw your other crossover on Daniel's Channel, and I really enjoyed it, glad you 2 could collaborate!
@megancombs6276
@megancombs6276 3 жыл бұрын
Omg--I love the graphics labeling the changes in topics in this discussion! so helpful. TYSM
@undeadboyoexe6268
@undeadboyoexe6268 2 жыл бұрын
I love how aspie explained the sensory issues in busy environments I think the way he described it really shows how overwhelming it is
@williamaubuchon4739
@williamaubuchon4739 4 жыл бұрын
It's awsome to see you guys doing a video together. I was diagnosed when I was about 10 with adhd. I'm 38 now. I had no doubt that was a correct dignosis. In this past year I started watching videos about it. Because I've struggled my whole life and I've pretty much been untreated since I was about 11. But I finally wanted answers. I watched a lot of vedieos and I found Jessica. Her videos made feel good. But then someone brought to my attention that I make a lot of hand gestures when I talk and that that's a trait of autism. So I started researching and watching asd videos and I found Dan and a a lot of other people in the asd community and I'm started to see a lot of my struggles. Like social interactions etc. I still think I have ADHD because I'm hyperactive in my thoughts. And my distracted. But I also feel a lot of the asd symptoms. So I've always wondered what's the difference. Thank you guys for doing the video. I hope you do another one together again.
@markdevries3664
@markdevries3664 Жыл бұрын
Hi! I just turned 56 and I just tested positive for ADHD and bi polar! I’ve also been dealing with PTSD and extreme depression. I’ve been misdiagnosed several times and finally, I got properly diagnosed! I was very ticked off at first, but now I feel like I’m on the right track. My life was extremely difficult at the best of times, especially school and work! I want to thank you for giving me hope! Your blogs are extremely helpful!!!
@grasshair7266
@grasshair7266 4 жыл бұрын
Have to say your channel is great. I was diagnosed at 45 with ADHD and my son at 15 with ADHD and ASD and I have to say this video has been extremely helpful hearing Daniel talk to help me understand how my son sees the world. Having said that I am lucky he has managed to cope with things well and has a lot of great friends.
@alexxx750
@alexxx750 4 жыл бұрын
Cpstd manifests as there symptoms too. Some of us are really sensitive to peoples moods because we had to, to survive. Idk
@thelifedyslexic
@thelifedyslexic 4 жыл бұрын
Fascinating and super informative video, please do more. off to watch the second video on Daniel channel now.
@meginm3715
@meginm3715 4 жыл бұрын
Finally a videoconversation in a pace/narrative direction(s) I can comfortly follow (while reading the comments). Thanx! :D
@berraokyaltrk1626
@berraokyaltrk1626 Жыл бұрын
I love how she avoided eye contact out of respect and empathy.🙈💗 beautiful beautiful content, thank you two so much!
@jenayacurry8609
@jenayacurry8609 4 жыл бұрын
This is the quality collab I am here for!
@TheAspieWorld
@TheAspieWorld 4 жыл бұрын
Jenaya Curry whoop
@estellesandford3267
@estellesandford3267 4 жыл бұрын
Interesting about the sensory things. I am CONSTANTLY! banging into doors, tables, chairs, door frames etc.
@ossamarafat1083
@ossamarafat1083 4 жыл бұрын
I really really like how you put the "conversation topic" under each topic that really helped by not getting lost
@EzraSprouts
@EzraSprouts 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for labelling the conversation topics below, I lose the thread so easily in talky videos. Wish irl interactions had this feature!
@North244
@North244 4 жыл бұрын
I have Aspergers Syndrome can I still join the ADHD community.
@williamdakotaguinn
@williamdakotaguinn 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, same spectrum different sides
@HowtoADHD
@HowtoADHD 4 жыл бұрын
Of course! Welcome to the tribe ❤️🤗
@nup5
@nup5 4 жыл бұрын
Both sides ... So similar, yet so different. How vast! How uniquely connected! (I have Asperger's)
@mintbrownieangelfish-6114
@mintbrownieangelfish-6114 4 жыл бұрын
Yep! Come hang out for awhile. We're pretty cool
@memereview9803
@memereview9803 4 жыл бұрын
heck yeah! join our community; you'll forget all your problems! (squirrels are much more interesting.)
@Sara-vn2kz
@Sara-vn2kz 4 жыл бұрын
It's really interesting to hear about Daniel's experience. My brother and I both have ADHD, but he always seemed to have extra struggles as a child in relation to sensory input. He complained about things that nobody else would even think was a thing (like the seam in his sock) and he was constantly touching walls twice, with both sides of his body and applying the same amount of pressure with both hands/feet/elbows/whatever. He often had meltdowns when our parents would take us somewhere new. Now as an adult, he spends all his time in 3 locations and becomes very uncomfortable when a situation forces him to be somewhere other than those 3 places. He stays for a minimal amount of time and hurries back to one of the 3 places he's comfortable. He would never be willing to go see a psychiatrist, but I wonder if he would be diagnosed with Autism if he DID go see a doctor.
@magerkosimpsonsaphirechees8032
@magerkosimpsonsaphirechees8032 4 жыл бұрын
It sounds like your brother might of ocd(obsessive compulsive disorder). Of course, I am not diagnosing him but from what you wrote it sounds a lot like ocd. It is common to have ocd when you have adhd.
@Dancestar1981
@Dancestar1981 2 жыл бұрын
It definitely sounds like ASD level 2 or 3
@sorchaoreilly2633
@sorchaoreilly2633 4 жыл бұрын
I really liked the pop-ups on the bottom which made clear what the topic was while acting as reminders too! That was very helpful and helped me maintain and regain focus ☺
@Zudasworld
@Zudasworld 4 жыл бұрын
Was great meeting you at vidcon and getting to meet Chloe. Man, I relate so much to both what you're saying as a creator with ADHD, ASD, OCD, CP and ehlers dan lowes. I subscribed as it is listening to all the stuff I get thrown at and never met anyone who has similar experiences. Being a creator and actor helps me learn things I never even thought of that were very important small little things that others need.
@bangbangkisskiss007
@bangbangkisskiss007 4 жыл бұрын
This was awesome! Thank you both! Great information and yeah, loved you both! Great work 💖
@bobbyb9718
@bobbyb9718 2 жыл бұрын
The description of eye contact at 4:40 is one of the best if heard. It holds a level of intimacy similar to something like holding hands for me. I’m comfortable making eye contact with my wife or daughter, but it feels extremely uncomfortable with pretty much anyone else.
@MrKilpatrd
@MrKilpatrd 4 жыл бұрын
I just recently got diagnosed with ADHD and I just want to say I've been loving all of your videos! I've been sharing them with my wife and she says they have been really helping her understand this crazy condition we brains deal with.
@CooperSuave
@CooperSuave 3 жыл бұрын
My 13 year old son was diagnosed with ADHD and ASD two years ago. Thank you for creating these videos and giving your perspective it is helping me understand his behaviors more and more. As a mom, this really helps provide answers and where I can lend support to my son that I wasn’t able to provide or know before. Did you ever think of interviewing kids that are diagnosed to help those conversations between kids and adults who are diagnosed to know they are not alone?
@Drivensea
@Drivensea 4 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! What an amazing video!!! I have (undiagnosed) ADD, as well as sensory processing issues and soooo much of this resonates with me!! Omg, amazing!
@akinmytua4680
@akinmytua4680 4 жыл бұрын
I have ADD and my husband ASD this was such a useful video Also, the audio is oddly tinny. Not sure if that can be fixed.
@cianmorgan
@cianmorgan 4 жыл бұрын
So many great things about this video, but I also just super appreciated the sub headings for conversation topics! Such a great ADHD hack, it really helped me keep track of what was being discussed in the video Thanks Jess, you’re always wonderful xx
@Caro-cg8gt
@Caro-cg8gt 4 жыл бұрын
i love that you guys have done another video together. I personally have been trying to figure out whether i have asd, as the more i look at the symptoms and behaviors (especially those i had as a child), from a perspective of asd as opposed to adhd, the more things make sense. so thank you thank you thank you for showing the little differences.
@BadEconomyOfficial
@BadEconomyOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
ADHD is like popcorn 🍿 thoughts while ASD is more structured, detailed oriented thoughts.
@Takykardee
@Takykardee 4 жыл бұрын
This was super helpful! I'm struggling with understanding my "symptoms" and how to describe them better to my therapist (undiagnosed 29 y old). Thank you!
@MoraiBear
@MoraiBear 7 ай бұрын
This video has been SO incredibly helpful to my family and those who love us
@femkevalenkamp5460
@femkevalenkamp5460 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you soooo much for putting the topic talked about at the bottom of the screen. Really helpful.
@sanostargalaxy
@sanostargalaxy 2 жыл бұрын
Daniel:" I have a problem with looking at people in the eyes" Also Daniel :[often looking at the camera like he's looking at my eyes ] Me:"but you're doing so well over the screen!"
@davidmiedema2950
@davidmiedema2950 4 жыл бұрын
I have ASD. As people run away i yell, please come back, i want to be friends AT you!
@scubasteveae86alemar74
@scubasteveae86alemar74 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how much I appreciate this video . I have adhd and my son has autism . I’m learning more about myself and my son at the same time . Thank you so much !!!!
@SDaulton
@SDaulton 3 жыл бұрын
This is wonderful! Thank you both!
@meluhdrama
@meluhdrama 2 жыл бұрын
My son has Aspergers (I guess just ASD now). When he was young, I used a "feelings chart" to teach him how to read people's facial expressions. It worked pretty well.
@ammalyrical5646
@ammalyrical5646 4 жыл бұрын
Great topic. You manage to hit the right ones to inspire me to start creating again. Also an amazing discussion. I have ASD and ADHD too and made videos on my traits and also how I cope with them (some tips and tricks so you might be able to go to festivals with ASD and such). I'm glad I made them, but this video makes me think I want to remake them. The old ones show a whole bunch of traits and I wasn't very used to speaking to a camera. Maybe I will do it to reboot those types of videos on my channel.
@KitCabaret
@KitCabaret 4 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear you've been inspired! Also I'm sorry this is kind of random but OMG, I'm glad I found your channel! I was actually looking for ADHD booktubers just the other day; as someone with ADHD who loves to read but struggles to focus on it, I wanted to find people out there with similar interests and problems. You're stuff is DEFINITELY going on my watch later!
@ammalyrical5646
@ammalyrical5646 4 жыл бұрын
@@KitCabaret cool. I have a problem with consistently uploading, guess why... Feel welcome and drop your opinions by all means in the comments. Was planning to start uploading again pretty soon.
@teenyleek1233
@teenyleek1233 4 жыл бұрын
Great to watch you both. I like this informal /chatty approach a lot, felt like I was there with you. Great content, thanks :-)
@danablack3001
@danablack3001 4 жыл бұрын
This was Brilliant! Thank you both! This helps me understand. My son just got both these diagnoses.
@CanuckBacon
@CanuckBacon 3 жыл бұрын
I can force myself to shut down internally during a sensory overload and force myself to act normal until I move away from the sensory annoyances, but I end up blowing up later.
@josephhunt7920
@josephhunt7920 3 жыл бұрын
Does anyone else out there completely fall apart when someone asks you “are you okay?”
@lauren8627
@lauren8627 3 жыл бұрын
I get a sinking feeling because they don't really want to know. It is just a formal question, where the answer is always "I'm good". I remember the day I realised that. I was in our local post office and it was tiny so you have to go to the back counter to get your mail from the 'pigeon hole'. I remember staring up at the counter I could barely see over. I must have been 5 or 6. Internally I roll my eyes when asked this question, or when I ask it (or 'How are you/How was your weekend') to a colleague. It's like I just shut off. I don't even care about their response. I feel like a terrible person.
@greeny309
@greeny309 3 жыл бұрын
Kinda. I start panicking when people ask me "how are you?". We don't use it like a phrase here in Austria and it REALLY freaks me out because I mostly have no idea how I'm feeling!
@aneshadeweese3604
@aneshadeweese3604 3 жыл бұрын
@@greeny309 I too never know! When texting I have to use 6 to 10 emojis to tell how I feel. I couldn't describe how I feel in any given moment on any given day in just a few describing words it's a very long list always.
@Riannajean13
@Riannajean13 3 жыл бұрын
I start questions what that person might want to know or hear. I always have like 5-10 “wrong” things happening, but I'm always working on them, so I'm not sure what to say to the asker.
@kyelducker6329
@kyelducker6329 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah that one gets me thinking as I must be giving a bit away by unconscious facial expressions in relation to what thoughts are happening. I've had it with a particular person on numerous occassions & eventually I said "I'm fine thanks, do I not look okay or something as you sounded concerned when you asked "are you ok?" No real feedback was given rather "just asking" Though obviously you don't ask someone if they are ok unless their body language, facial expressions or energy suggests something is wrong & they aren't ok.
@ljcovington
@ljcovington 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I have been listening to your vlog for a few months. I have ADHD-inattention and was diagnosed in college while studying to become a nurse. Without the diagnosis, I would have failed out of nursing school. I was able to put a name to what I've been struggling with for a long time but didn't know it. My eldest son (9 yo) has ASD and ADHD, my youngest son (7 yo) has ADHD (it runs in both families). This was a excellent way of describing the differences between ASD and ADHD. I really like the description of how people are affected by sensory overload in ASD and ADHD. I have been able to pick up on my son with ASD's breaking point over the years so I can help him learn to manage the situation. Their schools are also awesome with students with varying abilities. I will share this video with others so that they can have a better understanding what we go through when dealing with both diagnoses. Keep posting! 😀
@gwenscott206
@gwenscott206 3 жыл бұрын
Pause... Daniel is so right about looking in ppls eyes, especially spot on that you feel naked, it is that intense. It Made me laugh bcuz someone got it 💡 (You just can't) so you look pass them, I do the same as Daniel ears, I look at forehead & lips too just not the eyes 🤦‍♀️ I wasn't diagnosed as a child so I did get in trouble a lot and everyone thought I was lying bcuz I didn't look them in the eyes and was figity when something happened, I didn't know where or how to put my emotions and thoughts together to explain. It's very hard to grow up without a diagnosis. I'm so happy for more research that has been done so other can get diagnosed earlier and especially for girl since it was more of a boys thing. Thanks for this video together I subscribe to both of you separately and was excited to see you both together, you both have helped me so much TY ❤❤❤
@isabelled.7732
@isabelled.7732 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I have ADHD and have had sensory issues for YEARS- I’ve always had issues with different sounds like loud music or a chair squeaking across the floor- but I was always told that that was an ASD issue. So thank you for giving my experience some validity! Thought I was crazy!
@Dancestar1981
@Dancestar1981 2 жыл бұрын
It’s actually an issue of both conditions
@enlathestrange
@enlathestrange 4 жыл бұрын
I find this interesting as my psychologist thinks I have ASD but I don’t agree with them. I relate a lot more to what Jessica experiences regarding social difficulties. I experience sensory issues but I think that might be more to do with SPD as opposed to a full ASD diagnosis.
@sunglassesgirl
@sunglassesgirl 4 жыл бұрын
@enlathestrange -- THE study that was needed for Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) to get into the DSM came out RIGHT AFTER the DSM-5 went to the printers. Sensory Processing Disorder SHOULD be in the next update of the DSM. =)
@tarry_ny
@tarry_ny 3 жыл бұрын
Love the video!! The conversation topic at the bottom of the screen is super helpful, especially when it's not something structured but rather a free-flowing conversation where you jump naturally from topic to topic, it really helped me stay with you guys Also I'm studying special education and learning about a lot of these issues in relation to children, and it's really interesting to hear about them from an adult's perspective, as well as learning about myself that some issues I have that I thought were just me being weird actually have names and proper ways to deal with them
@Van-hb4gi
@Van-hb4gi 2 жыл бұрын
I love that I don't have to speed up the video. And someone mentioned the efficient editing... Love it.
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