ADHD Talk #6 💬 Inattention, Music & Personality Traits

[@saml4004]

Omg this is the first time I’ve ever heard someone say that they either talk too much or too little, I thought I was just weird (I am split very evenly introverted and extroverted). I’ve been diagnosed with combined type since I was 5 so it’s interesting for me to hear perspective from people who were diagnosed as adults (I’m in my 30s now). Despite growing up knowing I have ADHD I am finding I am really only beginning to understand how it impacts me.

[@saml4004]

Olivia M I have definitely gotten that way more as I’ve gotten older. I can be both introverted and extroverted, on the Myers Briggs I am actually 51% extroverted, so very evenly split. Knowing as I’ve grown up that I have ADHD has both been a blessing and a curse. The good thing is that I was able to work extremely hard to learn how to manage my emotions and symptoms (I am actually diagnosed as being rather severe), but as I have gotten older and changed into an occupation that requires more structure and these skills I’m running into challenges again which is quite frustrating given how hard I worked to overcome them. However, I am incredibly grateful I was diagnosed as a child because I know for a fact I would not be where I am today if I hadn’t been.

[@tylersoto7465]

I'm like 75% introvert and 25% extrovert and it sucks cuz the introvert make it harder to express myself

[@tylersoto7465]

Wish weed was legal lol

[@Dancestar1981]

@@saml4004 I’m the same split. Diagnosed at 23 with Aspergers now 40 and convinced I have the ADHD Inattentive subtype

[@Dancestar1981]

I’m an ambivert too I have Aspergers and ADHD Inattentive

[@zfox4743]

ADHD virtual hug 🤗

[@charansree2103]

ADHD virtual group hug🤗

[@mariecarie1]

Music has also saved me from ADHD. I started playing piano at age 4 and discovered a real gift for it (near perfect pitch, all that). I later started playing flute, and it was my absolute love and passion. As my social anxiety skyrocketed, music was how I made friends - through choir, orchestra in high school/college, playing in a rock band for a few years. The passion for music has never left - I now write music like crazy when I’m not hyperventilating at work from social anxiety. It’s such a huge outlet. It’s really what has helped keep me plugged into society in one way or another instead of retreating into my depression hole. So glad to have heard your story Olivia!!

[@mariecarie1]

Olivia M Amazing that we have such a similar story through music! My mom was like a drill sergeant when it came to practicing lol but she also did interesting things to help, like let me add a ring to a paper chain every time I played through a piece or practiced a scale 5 times. Things like that really helped. Otherwise, my ability to stick with music is incredible compared to anything else, particularly writing or arranging music. It’s the weirdest thing! Writing and arranging music is like a really fun puzzle and it keeps me so engaged. I used to love figuring out piano arrangements for pieces I knew and making little orchestral “accompaniments” on my Clavinova. I just opened a Soundcloud account for some of my stuff, with like 6 followers (most of which are bots 😂 - I haven’t started promoting my stuff yet at all) - I’ll have to find the link when I’m not on my phone and send it to you!

[@RaidenLJ]

Definitely keep it up. I also have ADHD. And I feel like all people with ADHD should just really look inward and at their passions and personality to find their career like you did. Best of luck to you

[@mehmetyurttaser1020]

'I can't imagine that it's like to focus'. Wow. That is the perfect way to put it at least from my personal experience. Been on concerta (basically adderall) for months now, really opened my eyes to what it feels like to focus. Don't know if it's just me, but over time it's effects dim down as well

[@JonGarcia]

I greatly appreciate these interviews and your videos. It's helpful to hear the struggles I've had for years are shared by others and may be more than personal and manageable failings. I've recently started my journey to understand if I have ADHD and how to manage it. I feel like I may have had it for years, but it always seemed manageable or not real until I've had to work from home for months due to the pandemic. The lack of focus and the distractions are so out of control right now. Hopefully my first psychiatry appointment later this month will help.

[@Dave-bm8jh]

I just finished watching this video and i can say that it could have been me talking. I undiagnosed but i think i have it one hundred percent. The fact is that i've got physical problems and i always blamed them for anything but i knew that there was something else. Thank you so much for this video! I'm gonna talk to my ASAP.

[@shiftingparadigm8645]

Hey man, it's funny to see how we (ADHD inantentive type) and of course ADHD people in general have so many things in common. I've been diagnosed somewhere around 5 years ago, and been digging deep into the disorder (all though i don't like to call it a disorder myself). I learned so much about it, and with it myself. Now for the first time i'm in the proces of getting medication. If you'd like i'd deffos like to come on your channel and talk about it, together we're strong and together we can piece al the pieces together and make the most out of it! Really love what you do and love your channel, helped me out a lot!

[@serenesista]

Great interview. You two are my inspiration and I feel like I’m not alone or an alien from outer space. I feel like this is my tribe! Stay positive. We can live happy lives with ADHD.

[@LifeInAMinorKey]

I love this video. Have rewatched many times. She is so friendly and relatable, and so ADHD.

[@stephclark50]

Your channel is amazing, I really feel I understand myself and my brother more from your videos now! I definitely think we both need to look into being evaluated

[@brittanibatchelor2001]

I used to say I had “music add” because I could never listen to a full song because my brain wanted to listen to more. But now I got diagnosed with adhd at 27 and am beginning to understand all of the hyper focus and hyperactivity and everything makes so much sense now. I also make and play music as my outlet! It’s the absolute best outlet for anyone with adhd. Except I can’t finish a song before starting a new one.. it hardly happens.

[@larona2220]

I don't know how to get my parents to take my suspicion that I might have it seriously. And last year my mom laughed me off when I told her I got diagnosed with depression and anxiety and she said it was just because I was far from home and missed my family. I am home now and it has only gotten worse. And scarily enough, I'm in my final year and I'm scared I won't get my International Baccalaureate(IB) diploma since online learning has been so difficult for me. I like what the speaker said about music because learning to play the piano last year helped a lot, but since borders are closed and I can't get back to school, it's difficult to motivate myself by doing something I actually enjoy. And I forgot my crochet hook and knitting needles at school😭 I have a traditional instrument at home (the mbira) but when i start playing it, I can't help but ditch my online classes. But in school, being obligated to actually go to a physical classroom knowing that I'll get in trouble if I skipped class really helped. Now I've been trying to tell myself that since I'm not diagnosed then I dont have it and if I keep telling myself I don't have it, then I'll actually get done with my work on time. Hasn't been working. Anyways, thank you for the speaker, the content is very helpful so far. Also it's the same for me, I felt I couldn't exactly relate that much to HowToADHD and then I found THIS channel!! Both channels are incredibly helpful.

[@serenesista]

I’m guessing you’re African? Our community doesn’t believe in mental health issues. I think it’s best you seek professional help. Getting diagnosed and working with your doctor might be best instead of waiting years later. Hopefully you don’t need your family’s consent or financial help to do this. Best of luck. Be safe!

[@Dancestar1981]

If your Neurodiverse you should be allowed to do face to face contact education. I’m in Australia diagnosed at 23 with Aspergers and ADHD Inattentive this year at age 40

[@toni2309]

I am sitting in front of the video wondering how I am supposed to focus for 36 minutes.

[@ADHDMastery]

😂 Good job I edited it down! This is why I always keep my interviews to roughly 30 mins. Try taking breaks or listening to it while you do something else.

[@user-jk1ts3iv8u]

maybe try watching in 1.25 or 1.5 speed. i’ve found it really helps me w watching youtube videos.

[@toni2309]

@@user-jk1ts3iv8u Auditory processing disorder. I will likely not understand anything on a higher speed.

[@thehighpriestess8431]

I got accepted in law school when I was 19 years old. I lasted a year with low grades. I studied long hours. I still don't know how I made it through that first year. Obviously I did not go back to law school. It was hard. I am not medicated because I take meds that don't go well with ADHD meds. :( Edit: I am a goldsmith and It took me forever to do my syllabus. I learned to speak French and English after I was 26. My pronunciation is pretty good in both languages. Reading skills are great. Writing skills is another story. I do fidget like there is no tomorrow. It is hard to sit still. BTW, Olivia is super adorable. I wish her the very best in life.

[@DarenHarmon]

It’s nice to hear other people talk about this. Just really feels like I’m alone in this where I’m at.

[@jimboxmeyer1964]

I have been a pianist and also play pipe organ occasionally. Music is wonderful for me and I can sort of hyperfocus when I practice Brahms or Gershwin, or Chopin.

[@ko-m8z]

Thanks for the videos, truely a helping hand, wonderful work, I appreciate it!

[@romanbrandle319]

I've only started dealing with my ADHD at the ripe old age of 51, and music has been a great outlet for me but unfortunately my interest in it comes and goes . I have been diagnosed with depression and I'm taking Sertraline for that , haven't been back to the shrink so not medicated for the ADHD . I think he's holding out because my history of drug use , I have developed some skills to deal with it but it's not enough .

[@Dancestar1981]

Actually it’s because he’s treating the depression first because stimulant medication won’t work properly until that’s under control

[@romanbrandle319]

@@Dancestar1981 Thanks for improving my understanding .

[@patriciatoney240]

My son now 16 seems like he is going backwards.Up until 15 he was not able to sit in a restaurant without almost coming to tears. Even high scholl went down hill in the 9th grade.trying to figure it all out now. As a child school was not a problem or socializing.

[@jessicalavoie7355]

BIG🤗🤗 virtual hug. Mind blank happens to me... Constantly

[@TheChamilton52]

What a lovely girl, great video, which I played an instrument, I listen to music all the time and find it very liberating.

[@YuckyYeti]

This is wonderful content!

[@Disney65Fan]

I was diagnosed last year with A.D.D.

[@michaelsingh5418]

Awesome interview. Would have loved to hear her play her instrument......

[@TheRealTyriam]

Great interview :)

[@INFPownage]

I hope this is not offensive, but I can definitely see the classic mannerisms of ADHD in your guest. Haha reminds me a lot of myself. Fellow Australian here. Not sure what state you are in but I struggled a lot with getting my diagnosis. I still have to wait on a CT scan and a plethora of blood test results.

[@INFPownage]

Im currently getting screened for that very reason - depression. I think you are right, if I did not have that as a comorbid condition it would be a lot easier.

[@jadehoopoe]

Olivia M I suspect the blood tests are to check that there are no nutritional deficiences going off as this can create ADHD-like symptoms. This is why eating right can improve ADHD symptoms, however it cannot cure like some uneducated people say. :)

[@thehighpriestess8431]

@@jadehoopoe Cure it ? I am 50 years old. Waiting for the miracle to happen. LOL

[@aaronloughland7549]

Sir_Romulus another Australian here with inattentive type. Blood test results and scans? That seems very thorough which is good. I just went to the psychologist and psychiatrist and got a diagnosed. I’m in nsw

[@INFPownage]

@@aaronloughland7549 SA here but my Psychiatrist was from Sydney (online appointment). Blood tests and hormone tests help rule out contraindicated conditions that might worsen or explain ADHD symptoms.

[@Yolduranduran]

Same here, working from home online does not work for me. At all

[@stevenberman729]

Stuart you are absolutely brilliant. A superior host and wonderful interviewer. I have the same diagnosis that you do, I know what a struggle this life can be, so I can imagine what you have been through. Nonetheless look at how incredibly well you have done. You beam with self confidence and you share your grasp of ADHD with us all. I would like to chat with you. Can I DM?? I’m Steve from Boston and Miami Beach in the states. I am a very exuberant 55 year old. A bit older than you. B Nevertheless I have a strong sense of kinship with you. Take care Steve

[@adamaunya69]

Your channel awesome man, I'm subscribing👍

[@mattitis77]

Why you don't have more views and subs blows my mind!! I'm sure that'll change though! This is awesome! I might make an appointment with you man! Very cool! Appreciate your channel dude! Keep it up! :D Also if you haven't guessed it yet...YES! I have ADHD :P

[@ogme7621]

Very interesting interview, thank you both! Have you read about personality types and their traits? It could explain a few points you were talking about. Im very curious if there are any connections to personality types and adhd. Appreciating your good work! ❤

[@phillipmann6485]

You guys are super awesome

[@omsnaga]

5:58 It's called "Auditory processing disorder"

[@JKweez]

How do you pick the people you interview? I'm interested.

[@ADHDMastery]

I don't - they reach out to me through my website (shows how to do it at the start)

[@silvagni97]

Nice video.

[@CiaoFooTanks4AllTheFish]

I bet it's okay to not choose a discipline. Right now health...and music...next might be psychogy...abd boom we have an Art Therapist. You never know.

[@ndngirl4ever13]

What do I say when I make the appointment with my doctor to get tested? I don't wanna self diagnose so do I just tell them my symptoms? Help!!!!

[@ADHDMastery]

Just ask them if you can get tested, it's that simple.

[@graceharris130]

I wanna do an adhd talk !!!!! I got a lot to say 😂

[@xxxadhd8727]

Stuart you look very handsome in this video 👁️👃👁️

[@shelbypoll3380]

I would love to do one of these with you! Hit me up if you fancy it :)

[@ADHDMastery]

You have to contact me, it shows you in the video how to do it 😊

[@INFPownage]

@@ADHDMastery I would love the same at some point.

[@mattitis77]

I also LOOOOVE music. it's kept me alive basically lol! Love to sing! Check out a vocal cover I did of Run To The Hills! LOVE Maiden soooo much! haha :) Also did Comfortably numb! Type in Matt Dean - Run To The Hills if yall are interested. Presently working on putting together my own studio. Anyways ADHD OUT!

[@SjarMenace]

Are you single because you're my dream man