Adopting 4 Kids: Challenges, Bonding, How to Afford it?! ❤️ (Q&A)

[@annamae8065]

Im just glad that Penelope, Linky, Jude and Liam are adopted by one of the most Loving and Caring people on Earth❤

[@Simonejoy12345]

Me too :)

[@nhayankasaintgeorges7321]

Nhayanka

[@lillaszabo7982]

Can we talk about that how much love Steve has in his eyes? The way he is looking at his wife in the beggining of the video.🥺

[@bbraskey8521]

"Wherever God leads us, we say yes".... Total surrender.... Absolutely beautiful!

[@alicelee8164]

I love how Stephen can't take his eyes off you

[@queng03]

Raising 7kids is no easy. Lot of challenges, adjustments and struggles thus you have to be tough enough to go through this stages. My big salute to you Mr and Mrs Miller for keeping the faith ❣️

[@bellazapatero3462]

Post partum anxiety and depression after adoption therfore is real. I have felt that after adopting my child. Its nice to know that my feeling then was valid ❤️

[@silencexxv]

I've been using the analogy of a pregnancy during the whole process of our adoption, but never thought about postpartum. And yes, it is real. And it is good to know it is not my fault and it is not just me. It helps to think about it as part of the process.

[@brittnicolexo7698]

I don’t look at you guys as a “white saver” I mean I look at some youtubers as that but idk I can definitely tell that your kids truly love & adore you guys… Stephan and Amanda just seem so pure and so sweet 🥲!! I don’t watch family channels anymore but I just love your family, I love the way you’re bringing your kids up. The bond you have have with each child especially Lincoln and Penny, & the compassion you both share with them. The vibe, the energy it’s all there!

[@tamfur]

The "white savior" comment would be considered an insult.

[@brittnicolexo7698]

@@tamfur yep, I agree

[@alanwilliams2284]

@@tamfur Agree. /sick that this is even mentioned by Brittany C. So sad that so many folks see white as right, white as the master race etc., how sick, these folks should read up on the skin colour of Jesus, which is obviously not proven however respected adacemics/historians etc., believe his skin colour was dark, not white.

[@schewitt1977]

I personally agree a human is a human being.

[@kara8307]

My parents adopted me in the 80s, and there was a big waiting list back then and it was a lot harder back then. I went looking for my birth family it wasn't a good experience at the start with the bio parents side. But I have my biological grandmother and cousins now that we will meet eventually. So it turned into a positive.

[@janetgray8737]

I love your diverse family. Jude, Liam, Penelope and Lincoln are such good, loving kids. I have the utmost respect for you and Stephen. You have brought them into your home and have shown them love and by watching your videos, you can tell that they know they are loved. Your natural born kids love them and they are a tight unit all together.

[@FanyJaaVlogs]

We adopted 3 children. Now im a mommy of 5 ages 8,4,2,2&2. I have no idea how we can afford it lol. Birthday parties are driving me crazzy! I can only say God provides! We have always had more than enough to make our kids happy, thanks to God. 🥰

[@noseexplorer]

Wow thats awesome ! You have your hands full. I wish nothing but the best for you and your beautiful family !!

[@FanyJaaVlogs]

@@noseexplorer thank you so much 🥰

[@irenedavo3768]

Three 2 year olds!

[@roannejudithdesouza6605]

The most genuine people I have ever seen. You'll really radiate God's love. Bless your family

[@kalpavrikshika8256]

You could write a whole book on this. In my eyes, no one can be an expert at adoption but one can be amazing parents - you guys are exactly that!!!

[@yasmimarrudaferrucciodagam9103]

You guys inspire me so much to adopt in the future. I'm learning a lot from you and I love watching your videos. 🇧🇷❤️

[@erlindadionson5501]

You are both good parents to your children. Love the way you brought them up.

[@annemunro7805]

You are both incredible parents I see the love and devotion you give each child I am from the Caribbean Trinidad and Tobago, I look forward to your post. I love your kids Linky is certainly a character. A sense of humer and a joy to see how well he is doing. Your Girls are blooming into well balanced young ladies. Ethan is so adorable and cute. Jude the dude and Liam are just Awesome. God continue to bless you you've an awesome couple and incredible parents. Will look forward to your post and will include you and your family in my prayers🙏🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕💕💕🌴🌴💞💞💞

[@faq5011]

The only unproblematic family channel, you all are amazing

[@Simonejoy12345]

God hey ;) so nice watching love between others on nearly a daily basis. The world needs hope and simplicity.

[@sherivang9633]

You two are so encouraging!! I had never heard of going through a depression after adoption, I thought it was just me. Our girls were adopted from fostercare and we are really struggling with our oldest and it has been really hard bonding and feeling happy about the adoption. Thank you for this vlog. I needed this.

[@julieadams2455]

You and your family are an inspiration to us. We are just going through the adoption process after fostering for 5 years. Your channel over the years has played a big part in our lives as foster carers, we're from England by the way. Your family have taught us alot and have helped give us the confidence to go forward and adopt. Your advice about others judging is really helpful as this has been hard so far. In England we also do not get any allowance to adopt. The advice about anxiety was very useful as I've never been told this before . I am confident mostly about our decision but then will have sleepless nights panicking about all sorts of scenarios. I think all over the world many parents have made the step to adopt because of your ministry and I hope you know what a difference your channel is making. happy anniversary both x Thank you

[@mmooking3821]

You are such great parents. Genuine, passionate, loving. You dote on each child, hugging and cuddling. No one is jealous. Instead they love each other and care for each other. God bless this beautiful family.

[@amywestbeld9968]

Enjoyed watching this! I was 10 months old when I joined my forever family and my sister was 4 months old when she joined our family.

[@hennagal7360]

How wonderful that you are a beacon of light guiding potential adopters towards children who need them 🙏 Bless you both 🌻

[@holliecornelius1]

This has been very uplifting! As a foster momma looking like adoption is in the future this is just what my soul needed as a reminder!

[@-greentoad]

I am in my 60's. And I don't have any family looking to adopt. But I still wanted to watch this to support your channel and to hear your answers. I love you saying out of respect to your children that you wouldn't go into to much detail on a question. You guys are awesome loving parents. (And I love that you were in my home state. Lol. 😂)

[@missneoxoxo4553]

The way he looks at you my goodness ❤️

[@tammylong111]

I remember when my husband and I started the initial process of an international adoption and the realization that we needed to come up with the money. A dear friend of mine pointed out that the total cost was no more than what people pay for a new vehicle. That really put it in perspective for us!

[@peggyk.738]

My husband always uses this example. He says, “A brand new car depreciates as soon as you drive it off the lot. Investing in a life lasts for eternity.”

[@tammylong111]

@@peggyk.738 Yes, exactly! ❤

[@manda1021]

I love how you all address these questions. I hope that you have or will do a training or talk from your experiences that you all went thru! You both are amazing.

[@taya5319]

This is so beautiful, thank you! Can you talk about parenting on your next video? I’m not yet a parent but I really want to learn parenting from you.❤️

[@AmandaMillerOfficial]

Thank you! Yes I do plan to do several more of these types of videos coming up! 💗

[@kimlee3436]

I’m all for Amanda and Stephen getting away as much as possible. They deserve it!

[@maizienaegelin7819]

My little brother who is adopted had food issues. And i like how you touched upon sayin " you will always have enough. Not just for now but as a parent a job is to make sure you are always fed. Now and forever I loved this video and how you respected your kids but sharing your expierences and insight

[@borabobo]

Loved how you explained and answered these sensitive questions ❤️✨

[@vanedj2735]

I swear, Amanda the way Stephen looks at u...its just wow 😊😍. U can tell how much his so inlove with u.

[@taa.t8127]

Yes 🥺🥺🥺😔😔😔❤️

[@jeniececollazo7033]

Amanda your such a good wife and mom. Amanda and Stephen your such a beautiful couple God bless both of you. I love you guys. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@bethopadeyi7184]

I so appreciate this video. Your reasons to not foster or domestic adoption were so intentional and thoughtful. We've been on the waiting list for infant adoption for almost 18 months. Thank you for the resources of grants and ideas for fundraising.

[@reneegoodin1317]

I hope your prayers are answered...

[@irenedavo3768]

Any news?

[@crystalbenneyy9723]

we adopted from foster care our sibling group and two of our son was from a place called Hale House were it was private thank you for what you do

[@Alyssa-lt9vr]

Thanks Miller family 💙 I am very very sad today because I was told my spouse's deployment was moved up to a week and a half away from today and extended for 10 months. I feel lost today and decided I wanted to watch and feel positivity and clicked on your video. Thanks for reminding me to let go and let God 💞 I needed it.

[@seejoonswifey7877]

Amanda Speaking🗣 Stephen everytime:)My eyes are on u👀❤️

[@kiraavalon534]

So inspiring!! I’ve been wanting to adopt and just waiting when the time is right with my husband and I.

[@deehall4563]

Thank God for people like you. You can see the love for your kids. Eyes don't lie. They have the joy in each one of your kids eyes. God bless your family!!

[@sherivang9633]

We adopted from fostercare and we do not match our childrens race but we also didn't pick the children. All we did was open our home and then love them. The opportunity to adopt the children came up and we said yes. Our children did not have any options to be with birth family and they needed us, all we did is say yes.

[@christchow9330]

Stephen really can't take his eyes off his beloved wife at all times... what a lovely blessed couple...😘

[@susannaCdonovan23]

My Mother had her last birth at 43 and never flowed again, after baby sister was born. She called her "my change of life baby". Everyone was so happy when she was brought home. Needless to say it was love on overdrive. She got spoiled but in a good way.💕

[@fridab1952]

This was such a good Q&A... When my parents did their international adoptions in the 80s there were no grants to help people do it, it was expensive but thankfully a banker said Yes and gave them a pretty big amount of money to go out of the country to get my brothers and told them you just pay it back when you can! The timeline from the start sending in paperwork was quick, sent in July, told yes early August went out end of August, adopted week after seeing them in person home few days later but I know it is not like that anymore! One thing my brothers have never been interested in is going to explode their birth country or even find relatives, only recently they asked to see their adoption papers!

[@marcellahicks3984]

My Parents died 1 Year from each other and I miss them dearly. Watching you as a Mother just reminds me about how much my Mom gave her all to us kids. My Parents had 14 Children. It was interesting watching Lincoln look at the Baby at his outdoor Bday Party. I think he wants a sibling. I watch LIAM AND ETHAN. They are attached. In my Family we were kind of paired up with an Older Child and one our age. Thanks for sharing all you do. These new labels that are placed on Families are to be ignored. It is a ship that will pass in the Night. It is truly obvious you are in Mission for the Lord. You are bringing Joy into People's life. Your Children look like you. Thankful

[@carissad7724]

Wow, you guys discussing the financial cost of adopting a child gave me a huge revelation on the Father. It shows how much you love your children that you PAID to have them in your family. God PAID for us with the blood of Jesus to be a part of his family and adopted us. That's LOVE! Wow

[@TheMumfordMob]

This is such a helpful resource for families in the adoption process! Thanks for sharing!

[@charlenecharles4453]

So glad you had fun for your wedding anniversary

[@andtheadventurecontinues]

Thank you SO much for doing this video! We’re in the process of adopting from China, and it’s so helpful to hear this info, especially the piece about bonding. You sharing pieces of your adoption stories is truly a blessing and encouragement! Thanks for being vulnerable! 💗

[@irenedavo3768]

Any news?

[@perpetualaimufua]

I just finished watching your family channel, an extra video to watch yayy

[@violy_yloiv]

I am really admiring you parents on how to raised your children . They are very good helping each other loving each other . I am really a fan.

[@cindyschuman4814]

Thank you for sharing this excellent information! As a retired international adoption social worker, and adoptive parent, I know this information is priceless.

[@irenedavo3768]

Interesting

[@mama2boys123]

Watching this video l can't help but think there's such depth to everything that goes into adoption. What awesome the kids have such a bright future now.

[@SMQZ.cosmetologia]

Thanks for this video my family and I are in the adoption process and all this information will help us a lot.

[@siewyap3491]

Lovely to hear yr experience abt adoption. All yr 4 adopted kids settle down so welln feel so safe n so happy. All due to you both giving so much of yr time to them. You both are amazing

[@silviemarksilverstein3031]

Stephen and Amanda you are both exceptional people. Thank you for making the world a better place. Your message of love, acceptance, tolerance and diversity resonates with me in a very profound way.

[@hydiereyes4238]

Wow! You have been called to take care of a big family. They are nurtured in such a loving environment which is so admirable. Sending so much love from Dubai❤️❤️❤️

[@rubywest7137]

I just love the basket analogy👍🏼 This could even be helpful for us adults, for self help. Just Beautiful 🧺

[@kirstylecouilliard1132]

Thank you for this video, it is so helpful. We are looking into adoption at the moment. Our training has been delayed 3 months because where we live there are no children requiring adoption which is great for the children. We are now discussing if we should go the overseas adoption route but my husband is very concerned about being able to afford that route as we are a 1 income family. I on the otherhand just keep praying that God will show us which path to take. xx

[@jennyevans8160]

I love yous doing these sorts of vlogs, this will give ppl good insight for those ppl thinking of adopting. Love you guys n family. I’m also adopted, so I can relate totally. My adopted family made me feel so loved I’m so blessed. I’m also aboriginal and my adopted parents are not, they encouraged me in every aspect of life

[@alejadr3580]

Im so happy you have adopted 4 amazing kids. You are a very loving family and you have inspired me to adopt in the future. Here in Colombia there are a lot of kids waiting for a family and sadly its so difficult for them to be adopted after they turn 5, even though adoption is free in the ICBF. Hope there are more people like you willling to give them a family. ♥♥♥

[@reneebishop9748]

I have no plans to adopt but the way you guys explain the process , you make it easy to understand and navigate, I can't say it enough but you guys are the real MVP's 💯❤

[@Simonejoy12345]

God really speak through your love for your family. Thanks for bringing Gods hope, God does it but we need to commit to that. Then the grace comes. Xx

[@animadellapianta]

You are amazing!! You two are truly inspirational for me, thank you for sharing your thoughts about adopting. You have a heart of gold.. God bless you 🙏

[@giantz1237]

Love your family, you and your husband have brave heart, big heart for adoption children from another country...god blees you and your husband

[@polengistwisted]

Yay! New vid! Coming straight from the family vlog! 🎉😍

[@marilynbaldwin2934]

A very enlightening video about adoption! You both have so much love to give to want more children!

[@truepeace8906]

Very touching to hear u guys are amazing thats your chosen ministry from God , thank u for loving ❤

[@absolutelyangee8758]

You two are so loving & kind. May God Bless you both and your family.

[@brendabrown7517]

I love your Q&A answer about adoption! Thank-you both for being honest about adoption international vs. Foster to adopt in USA.

[@Ibird4]

You both gave the kids a beautiful experience

[@jessicabillie8990]

I love hearing your beautiful story! Adoption is definitely something I will consider in the future

[@bellazapatero3462]

Beautiful couple 👫

[@guenetgirma8941]

Great perspective in general which really increase understanding and give some kind of direction on adoption and bringing up children from different backgrounds and environment. Agree with the saying, “Beauty of diversity” and the beauty of the oneness that all human kind is created in the image of God.

[@labelledesbelle9936]

Amanda and Stephen are the best family you can ever ask for, I know adopting children it's not an easy thing to do but you guys actually managed to raise up 7 béautiful children. Love u guys very and remain blessed from the UK. 🙏🏻🙏🏻😇😇❤️💖💜❣️😍😘🤗😚💓

[@tal23-tanika3]

You both have beautiful hearts. God bless your family. Thank you.

[@julialucas1482]

How do we teach our children to be confident? I think it lies with the parent's acceptance of the child and ensuring that all children are treated with dignity and respect.

[@heidigomez7927]

I just saw this I live in Utah. Utah is a very family friendly place with beautiful mountain and you are lucky to come to such a beautiful state.

[@thechallengerrivera4753]

I just want to say thank you so much for your q&a its always so interesting!

[@azeminas7709]

You are both a good parents,thanks god for your gold heart for all your childrens,so much love,respect,laugh,fun,teching them everything positive and corect..❤❤🥰🥰..I wish you Millers family all the best in your life❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰⚘🌸

[@mannonroberts6449]

You two are so inspirational. You literally deserve the world. Such an amazing family 💖

[@marissajurilla8258]

I thank god for giving us amanda and stephen this is such a heartwarming video 😍😍 thank you for loving penny, jude, liam and specially linky..Godbless miller fam 😘😘💕💕💕💕

[@mhye8279]

Definitely No question ask. If God called you to do some things, HE WILL Provide. Finances, wisdom, time... All your needs HE WILL Provide. All you need to do is respond Yes😘

[@katieo1976]

I just lost my brother to suicide 4 months ago. You are such an encouraging and amazing family. You have given me hope.

[@Gabriela-ts8nt]

🙏🏽

[@AmandaMillerOfficial]

I am so sorry!! Praying for peace for you and your family. 💗💗

[@candimclane6739]

Love you guys so so much! Can't wait to see what the Lord has in store for y'all! Hugs from Missouri 🤗

[@lindasmith1921]

Thank you guy's for being transparent and telling your experiences in adoption.👍🏾This vlog was very helpful and informative!👏🏾 I love you guy's confidence GOD will provide.YES, he will!🙏🏾

[@faithfulservant1050]

Every single video I watch I come up with the same thought....I love these guys.....You guys are way too Awesome!!!!! God Bless the Miller's🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕🙏

[@mindyrobinson9757]

Thank you for sharing! We are a waiting family for domestic adoption, praying on my knees for a match very very soon! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@irenedavo3768]

Any news?

[@mindyrobinson9757]

@@irenedavo3768 not yet… still waiting for a match! Praying so hard!

[@emilygrace2328]

Hello from Australia love watching your videos

[@welcomwelcom9882]

Outstanding video thank u Amanda and Stephen. So informative appreciate your honesty and educating us subscribers.

[@beverleyshevals2749]

That was lovely listening to all questions and answers, I have one question if Liam, Jude, Penny Lincoln misbehave do you still punish them to ie: time out, stay in not play out etc, different to your own 3 kids??? Lovely video Ananda Stephen Miller xxxx

[@shivanimohanagarwal5005]

Great and informative QnA😍 thank you guys.. it will be really helpful if you can provide some insight on what to do if your partner doesn't want to adopt but you do.. Lots of love❤️

[@m26k-k]

Found someone from india 🇮🇳

[@marylenhastings6533]

I admire your faith! God bless your family!🙏🏻

[@ednanelson1897]

God bless you guys. The love you have for your family is palatable. It's real and comes through in your vlogs. Ignore the haters. They have issues of their own and you addressed that beautifully.🥰🥰❤💖

[@carebear598]

You should do a video on how did you explain Linky and Penelope medical needs to their siblings? How did explain Linky's development to his siblings?

[@maryadair5697]

I adopted my daughter from China in 2013. 7 yrs of waiting and waiting... patiently. Not knowing. But knew God had my daughter picked out for us. Single mom. Lots of faith. Cancer diagnosis also during this time. Lots of redoing paper work 🤦 And a lot of unknowns going forward. Dealing with some of this now. She is 10. Behavior issues... Which wasn't noticed earlier when she first came home. Adjusted great though. Didn't smile until we had her. But she was the perfect child for our family. Neglected we know was one trauma she had. 😥 She was left on the door step in a box with old clothes. So sad. But God knew that this was our baby girl. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@maryma5044]

You guys are so good at being amazing parents.

[@gutierrezjade8098]

Amanda and Stephen you are such a blessing you inspire us verytime to watch to your channel,may the Lord bless your life everyday.😙👫👨‍👩‍👦‍👦

[@ranjanisoma5492]

One of the world .you are very interested .god bless both of you .

[@Pamsdolls]

hugs from pam and john we love you all

[@sarahmian5264]

Topics already covered a longwhile ago!

[@michaeladelacruz8766]

Love these sit down videos!

[@kaguyashinomiya5878]

Amanda you're so gorgeous 🥺 🥰