Adult Friendships & Existential Crises (w/ Sarah Bonsignore) | You Can Sit With Us Ep. 150

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Executive Producer | Keith Habersberger
Executive Producer | Eugene Lee Yang
Executive Producer | Zach Kornfeld
Podcast Producer | Miles Bonsignore
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[@he.said.teenjiejer]

i’m a simple person; i see sarah bonsignore, i click.

[@dorkaballa-johnson1214]

literally same

[@victreebel170]

was literally going to post this exact comment

[@francismaness585]

Exactly

[@savanthebanan]

Yes you get it 🙌🏼

[@CFawkse]

I think it just makes you perfect😆

[@zoesherwin]

So let me get this straight, Miles was going to school with no shoes on playing with dead horses while Sarah was going home with band members and getting kicked out school dances? Match made in heaven 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Absolute madlads ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@TiempoFilmico]

Sarah should be a permanent at YCSWU

[@marcitamarcela]

Yees!!

[@luluABV]

​@@marcitamarcela n be BB be

[@luluABV]

🎉b😂

[@luluABV]

F

[@luluABV]

BBf

[@emmyemu33]

Based on this podcast so far I'd LOVE to see some content from Sarah and Rainie! That would be chaos and wonderful

[@FlagCutie]

Sarah plans Rainie's Party! She likes to delegate, Rainie is young and spry to to do all the things 😂

[@indigodaystripes]

Sarah's just casually the coolest person ever

[@eleanorlamb1838]

Any podcast with Sarah on is a must listen

[@emerson1998]

Sarah and Rainey are the same person in different fonts lmao I love them both, the energies are infectious

[@FlagCutie]

Oh my god they are! Incidentally, Sarah and Miles are the same people but different font of two of my married friends.

[@nora2008]

This!

[@cheesecakelasagna]

Such a genius way to put it!

[@dorkaballa-johnson1214]

My favorite guest on both YCSWU and Perfect Person! Always so happy to see Sarah :)

[@kaitlynwilson-witte5037]

This pod feels almost complete with Sarah (the almost is because I still miss Ariel 😢)

[@FlagCutie]

Yes!

[@peacechickification]

Agreed!!

[@teamlining7685]

bye i thought you meant ariel the mermaid😭 i was like “girl go see it, it’s so good”

[@veeb9545]

@@teamlining7685 Lmao that’s funny 😂😂

[@Timburtonbarbie]

I really miss her. I hope she's as ok as can be + I hope she comes back to the pod if she ever wants to.

[@falltowinter]

Everyone needs a Sarah Bonsignore in their lives. What an absolute legend.

[@FlagCutie]

Ok, I kept thinking that Sarah and Miles looked like people I know IRL, but it's actually their vibe! They are totally variants of one of my favorite couple friends! My friends had kids in their 20s, but also didn't let becoming parents ruin their party vibe. They are both super organized in their own way, so when they would party, they would PARTY. But when it was time for family, they gave their kids 1000% of their effort. Now those kids are preteens and are some of the most fun, polite and well adjusted kids I have met.

[@brandibucko]

I remember being in awe of my parents’ party friends who w still cherished their children. Even when I was really little, I knew that was something so cool

[@MunaMAhmed-oi4tp]

I wish I could be a fly on the wall in their house to learn how to be an awesome parent and still be able to party hard

[@FlagCutie]

@@brandibucko right! They may be parents, but they are still people lol

[@FlagCutie]

@Muna M. Ahmed from the little I could observe it's just setting up a structure and sticking to it. They would have their weekdays very planned and reasonable expectations of the kids. They disciplined them instead of punishing them like a lot of people do nowadays. Also, when they would party, they would get a sitter, or we'd be at their house and be a bit mellow.

[@Katatonic498]

I mean I don't know what I was expecting because Miles is a cool ass guy but Miles married it cool as lady and I'm fucking thrilled for the both of them and their child with how cool their parents are.

[@tatianamartinez7641]

I feel like I would rebuttal back to the coworker lady from first question like "And every time I see you, you always have to comment about it" " I would appreciate it if you kept those thoughts and opinions to yourself, thanks" and if after it didn't stop go to HR

[@nix_]

I would cartoonishly look around the room. When she aske what I was doing, I'd say "I'm trying to find who asked you"

[@kimberlienguyen6282]

1) Sarah’s voice is so so soothing omg 😍 2) the picture of Zach behind Sarah was staring into my soul every time it cuts to the camera with Matt and Sarah!

[@Hnbryan]

Sarah is a true queen!! Got so excited to see she was on the pod today!!!

[@allison_jbs]

LOVE it when Sarah graces anything with her presence!!! 💓💓💓💓

[@asunbeam5479]

I'm ready for Sarah to have her own pod

[@mkwoodstock]

More Sarah PLEASE

[@c9566]

BECKY! you’re talking about GIRLTALK!! I remember seeing him in a tiny bar in college, someone threw a jackolantern at him and he wore it on his head the rest of the show. Wow blast from the past memories

[@gmj-h]

YESSSSSS OMFG

[@polarberin]

Yesssss came here for the girltalk excitement!

[@TheShauNanigans]

Girl Talk was just at Summer Camp, so I finally got to see him. My fiance told me a story of when he saw him at Bonaroo in 2009 he started making out with a random girl while on mushrooms. I was like, "I know I'm not a random girl, but I feel like we could easily reenact this, otherwise." And we did. lol

[@Maggie365]

I was in HS from 2000-2002 and I am *shocked* I'm still alive, when I think back on it.

[@hazelle7319]

I love Sarah's honesty and the way she lived her life. She really lived life

[@teamlining7685]

Sarah’s teenage years were so Serena Van Der Woodsen coded

[@DS-pd2tn]

Omg I totally vibe with the first person asking for advice. My boss is totally an Almond mom and she is constantly commenting on what my coworker and I eat. It's so gross.

[@softmoreswamp]

i was JUST rewatching the other episode with sarah in it! i manifested this…

[@_sammydb]

Ice cream sandwich hack is amazing

[@Zulma91]

Sarah should become a more frequent or permanent host if she desires!

[@LemonJMG]

We need her as a permanent host!!!

[@Luastardust]

Sarah is the best I can’t believe this is my first time seeing her on anything!

[@aleks-33]

U haaave to see her on Miles' podcast, she's hysterical.

[@Madedanielle]

Sarah and rachel should become best friends cause they've lived! Also, I feel identified with Maggie's experience with her family parting. Us Hispanics had to sleep in the livingroom with loud music and adults just hanging around 😂

[@mayanz7]

Sarah. Every. Episode.

[@lindsaykennedy4701]

Oh my gosh Becky, I’m sorry that happened to you with your grandma, the same thing (early dementia and after freshman year) happened to me too and it hurt A LOT! Hopefully you were able to work and heal past it and maintain the relationship ❤❤❤

[@samiam74]

One of my favourite party theme is a "Tacky party". Any outfit is either recycled from your own closet or bought second hand. It becomes a source of pride to tell people that your whole outfit only cost $5 🤣. I brought a hostess gift of 1 ply no name brand toilet paper, plastic popscicle molds from the dollar store and cheap no named brand apple juice to make popscicles with. The cheaper your hostess gift, the bettter.

[@majaskorska2600]

I think we need Sarah to be permanent TrySpouse!❤️

[@rachelfowler7023]

Sarah Bon should be a perm YCSWU member!

[@emmyemu33]

Also Becky the "Girl Talk" deep cut! I freaking loved his music in college and he's got some new music but its not the same

[@peggancox4493]

Can we please have Sarah on all the rest of the episodes. She fits so perfectly.

[@lucyormsbywilliams3047]

Obsessed with this podcast

[@hp6964]

I adore Sarah❤️. I wouldn’t mind at all if y’all started having her on more

[@louoxley6545]

I love Sarah's energy whenever she's on either YCSWU or Perfect Person. She's such a babe! More Sarah pleeeeease! ❤

[@xoch1717]

WE NEED MORE SARAH!!!!!

[@angelicaelder8584]

Sarah has the energy I need, she's the friend I didn't know I needed

[@Alabelll]

Becky often talks about how “short” she is being 5’6 but average is around 5’4 so it’s really not short lol! I think of short as 5’2 personally.

[@petalchild]

Yeah as someone who's 5'1" I'm like what??

[@amy3971]

Average for a woman is 5’6”

[@TheShauNanigans]

4' 11" here, and agree. If you're 5' 6" I'm looking up to you for sure.

[@andreinalisette]

I love Sarah with them!

[@avagruchacz4484]

More Sarah please!

[@marikotrue3488]

Loved having Sarah with the group. Her wit and stories were hysterical. BTW would love to see an image of the infamous "too short for school prom" dress along with the shirt coverup.

[@annabooher6897]

Thanks so much for telling that story about you and your grandma, Becky. It was funny, but it’s something so many of us can relate to💜🙏🏻

[@byrnes22]

btw Girltalk is the DJ ,Becky was talking about for parties. Great throwback lol

[@darcy82]

Hi! Love from Sri Lanka!!!

[@jourdangolatte6933]

I need Sarah to be a podcast regular

[@davis51369]

To the lady with the mouthy lady at work. It doesn't matter if you weigh 300# and just eat plain sugar. Its none of her business what you put in your mouth unless its her husband. I am proud of you for having restraints and not strangulating her cause unfortunately that's probably what I would do. I'm assuming you know her work email, maybe she needs to have a link to the podcast sent to her. Some people waste air!

[@florabajracharya7219]

Becky's glowwwww 😊😊😊

[@rachelfowler7023]

She is GLOWING

[@MorticiaAttoms]

I would love to be friends with Sarah. She's a good time!

[@Heydoesanybodywannalaugh]

Wow! Sarah is really enjoying herself! Luv!

[@vickyclinansmith4980]

Sarah is so fun. I love her!

[@swimgirl24]

Love Sarah!!!

[@Hannah-hz1dv]

RAINDROP!!!! IM OBSESSED!!

[@Hannah-hz1dv]

also obsessed with sarah I want her on here all the time!!!

[@gracel9080]

OMGGG SARAH IM OBSESSED WITH AINTTOOPROUDTOMEG I LOVE HERTRR

[@edo27]

Hey y'all ! Love that top Maggie! And Becky loving the slick back hair! Looks so fresh and clean! And nothing is more iconic and idgaf than the wet hair hairstyle love it Sarah. also hi matt lol. cute spaghetti shirt.

[@Michelle-nt8vo]

The write in about the rude coworker, I'd like to offer the following response options. 1 - a dismissively drawled "...aanndd?" 2 - a blank blink of confusion with "what do you mean by that?" Either should make them realize they're in dangerous HR territory of making a hostile work environment OR make them beef it and you'll have all the ammo needed for a complaint

[@saritahernandez6394]

Hey try family, please, please I'd LOVE a podcast about: Keith & theatre stuff/Lewberger/zach & eugene discuss film stuff/theory of y'all's videos (like the Samir Colin interview), etc!!💕💕 would anyone else enjoy that as much as I would??? Could include interview of Rachel about her experiences producing/directing here and prior jobs. Could include a Becky interview about her theatre experiences. Could include behind the scenes of: shakespeare production, Wiz of Friendship, coming out video, beetleguise (can't recall the spelling lol), perhaps some retrospectives of Legends of the Interne, etc.... sky is the limit!!! I'll put $ in patreon if we could make this happen!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏💚💙💜💚💙💜

[@AusyJo]

Sarah looks like Drew Barrymore!

[@tiffanythompson5820]

I own an Ice Cream Truck and late night ice cream always wins the party. ❤ Great episode.

[@bridgettebazin641]

I listen on Spotify, and to me, Sarah sounds like Anne Hathaway and I can't unhear it

[@skylab9]

love you guys

[@TheShauNanigans]

The fact that I am 34, and I turned 33 during the tail end of the panorama makes me really sad I missed the idea to do a triple threat birthday. That idea, and Eugene, is genius.

[@alexyrodriguezLA]

I know Sarah has her own aspirations and goals, but seeing her in more try guys content would be amazing !

[@aprilalfaro2995]

I have a great friend group that when we see parties winding down we start cleaning up and it kind of makes people leave (😅) so that was also a hack like we need people to leave? Start cleaning up, they leave so fast 😂💀 but the real ones stay and help and clean up goes pretty quick! And @becky we're all Midwest people!! 😂 (But Chicago from the actual city people are def different and are super helpful to have in these situations 😂)

[@jaylencarroll6036]

I threw a party for my 23rd bday and knocked out the first couple hours and I woke up in a panic saying oh no I have to go back out there. Too much money on this party just to black out

[@bethurbani3057]

It’s my birthday today!!

[@DebbieMariz]

SEATED FOR SARAH😂

[@DtotheLA]

J’adore Sarah

[@felifell29]

I love themes. And as a hostess I be mad lol I make them pay me or bring a bottle

[@lukenaoumovitch4477]

I think Sarah looks a lot like Becky. Not twins, but like sisters or first cousins!

[@felifell29]

Lol this Mexican Midwesterner definitely doesn't ask for help to clean up. I tell them. 😂

[@melissacritell3291]

How old are Sarah and Miles? They seem so young and wise!

[@juliebuckley5833]

sarah just turned 36 and miles is 29 (i’m pretty sure lol)

[@TheShauNanigans]

@@juliebuckley5833 He might be 30 now or close to it. I believe they are 6 years apart, but I could be mistaken.

[@jenhuffine7030]

1:02:33 honestly if I was in a particular mood and especially if other people were around and someone was asking or constantly commenting on my food I would ask “so are you saying I’m gross and fat? Because this is the only thing I’ll be able to eat today” and mortify them. Or with full shade ask “what have you eaten today?” And if they are just being judgmental and condescending with their response , then respond with “oh well that sounds disgusting, but I’m glad you like it. “ 💃🏻

[@hannahy4962]

"family HR" that's just eldest daughters 😭

[@saraw2251]

Love the podcast but *please* stop having a health care professional do ad reads for non-regulated supplements or anything medical which hasn’t undergone FDA approval. It feels so sketch.

[@saye3902]

Is it just me or is Rainie a younger version of Sarah

[@tiarizky7226]

1:00:04

[@celestial_avatar88]

Keep Sarah on she’s a Try-Spouse too 😢

[@hconf]

Sarah, I don’t know if it’s the environment or maybe even the sound engineering or something, but I feel like your voice was much higher here than it was on Miles’ pod. You sound so much younger!

[@leannevaldez4380]

I had a coworker that would tell me the ingredients in my food was bad for me. Like bitch, im a fat ass and wants to eat good food. At this point i dont care what chemicals are it it. IT TASTES GOOD. But shes 7 and on her 3rd marriage so i assume her life is miserable and wants to make everyone else miserable. But she loves god 😒 but if you have someone commenting on your food just respond with "why do you say that?" Or "what do you mean?". So that they can look at themselves and make them think about what they say.

[@maritzai0322]

Yall are nicer than me. I'd cry but I'd probably get fired for beating her ass. I'm kidding I wouldn't fight but a lot of curse words would've been out of my mouth.

[@khana3618]

Its so weird hearing people casually say they were on hard drugs??

[@magnoliadevore7143]

My parents were both 17 when I was born and at the time mom was the party queen. She and her best friend, my godmother, would wait till the weekend when my grandma went on her business trips and keep the money grandma gave her for the housekeeper, tell the house keeper they would skip that week and use it for snacks and booze. Then they would lock baby me and my godmothers tween sister in the master bedroom with all the snacks and water we could need for the night/weekend. n🤣🤣