After 11 Years of Disownment, My Golden Child Sister Contacted Me, Begging to Reconcile, Saying S...

[@eric98292]

OP: "You don’t love me...." Dad: Immediately slaps him and later disowns him for no reason. Way to prove his point...

[@SnowyWolborg]

Story #1: The parents are only mad because their reputations have now been ruined. There's absolutely no excuse for the disparity in attention that was given to the two children. And OP's father is literally the worst of the worst with that garbage excuse of how boys don't need as much attention. Why exactly does OP need to be the one to learn the hard lesson of struggling while the daughter gets everything handed to her for free?

[@Just_a_Goth]

I personally believe that the father was emotionally incestuous with his daughter...

[@cheesycheese7100]

​@@Just_a_Gothpretty nasty assumption

[@Monkeytheluffy56]

​@@cheesycheese7100not a distant possibility though.

[@cheesycheese7100]

@@Monkeytheluffy56 whether it's reasonably possible or not, insisting without proof is quite foolish

[@LLSmoothJ]

Story 1: I'm really concerned at what OP's parents (read: Father) told the sister. I'm getting a worrying feeling that the father may be one of those guys who hate other men out of jealousy of the attention they get from women/girls, even in their own family so as soon as he got the daughter he wanted, he started to slowly (at best) hate OP. Story 2: You know that old saying: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." And what the bride clearly showed was that she's racist and wouldn't be shocked if she was just looking for a reason to exclude OP.

[@kevinbadger8030]

It’s fake. The account that made it also has a completely different story on it.

[@Waluigi7891]

It’s fake af, OP wanted to race bait. The woman was marrying someone and had no idea the adoptive parents are black? No way.

[@eddiekersey]

" they were not terrible parents" proceeds describe terrible parents.

[@josiahjacinto4156]

Horrid Henry's parents in the nutshell.

[@dontaejones7419]

Seems like Story 1, unfortunately, is fake. The account only has two posts and the other post is: "I(32F) used to be an escort. My husband(31M) doesnt know about it but now he works with someone that used to be my client. How do I tell him?" in r/relationshipadvice 😅

[@LLSmoothJ]

Yep, just saw it. Was just about to post there myself.

[@smsff7]

@@LLSmoothJ Wow WTF?

[@mixmmick]

Yeah sounds like a mixture of about 3 or 4 other stories. Then again they say recycling is good for the planet. 😂

[@ZombiexSlayer1997]

Not that surprising. Most of the stories on Reddit are fake in those subs. I.e. recycled and/or creative writing exercises. Just look closely enough, and you can pick out the inconsistencies. A few though, that post actual proof/ OP’s history has a similar pattern? Just truly heartbreaking.

[@stormtellier3804]

even if the stories are fake and creative writing essay they shouldn't be shamed for them cause there literally no different than fanfiction you wouldn't shame someone who does fanfiction when literally every one has I least read one at one point in their lives so why do it to these stories

[@goatkiller666]

When a relative (pun intended) stranger invites you to a second location, and that it will be “completely civilized”, don’t believe him.

[@I_Lov3_Kids]

This confused me

[@adamb4639]

Story 2 how do you get all the way up to the wedding and not know your soon to be in laws apparently at all?

[@ajzephyros7454]

She knew, she just decided that his adoptive parents didn't count

[@sa-n-ka]

Did you even read or listen? She knows they black she dont care bc theyre not his real parents sinse hes adopted

[@SnowyWolborg]

Sounds like the bride is just kind of an idiot above all else.

[@armaggedon390]

You expect logic out of a racist?

[@nicksuazo4377]

OP really said "She's not a racist, she just acts like a racist" SMH WHY ARE YOU FRIENDS WITH HER?! Complete doormat on OPs part

[@smorphous8928]

actions speak louder than words and it's obvious Op and his sisters parent failed them both for picking favourites.

[@Significantpower]

Story 2: its rare in these situations that the Bridezilla is the only AH. No enablers. So once the problem left everyone just had an awesome party. Good ending

[@hopelessromantic3786]

What she said was like Tim Burton level racist. I'm not surprised no one had the gall to side with the woman who thinks black people ruin her perfect aesthetic.

[@Waluigi7891]

@@hopelessromantic3786 It’s blatantly fake race baiting. Gotta push that anti white sentiment somehow.

[@anthrolover100]

Mannn story 1 gonna need some updates from op.

[@Madison-fl4lq]

Fake

[@anthrolover100]

@@Madison-fl4lq Almost assuredly, but it's still a good read. I'm all invested in these characters now.

[@Panwere36]

The fact that the sister didn't want to be "the golden child" is very disturbing, but not on her behavior, but the parents behavior. If the child didn't ask for it, then it is some disturbing behavior on the parents' part. The usual spoiled girl behavior is absolutely typical, but the fact they had the money and refused to help him with college was absolutely out of line. The parents were LYING about "paying the op back", because they were humbled by their families. I have little doubt the father was disowned by his own family. The fact that they father has been pretty much "disowned" by everyone is absolute evidence that the father has/had *_a very unhealthy relationship with his daughter!!!_*

[@radish6740]

Forgiveness is overrated.

[@rad8866]

U salty?

[@andynorck2389]

I disagree, I just think forgiveness shouldn’t mean everything goes back to how it used to. Forgiveness is to let go of anger and resentment towards someone. That doesn’t mean you become friends or family again. You can forgive someone and still walk away. It only means you don’t harbor bad feelings for them anymore, not that you like them again. That’s why forgiveness is underrated actually. Forgiving people will always be the best for you, because living with hatred and resentment is almost never good for your life and health. Is better to forgive and let go, so you can move on. If you don’t forgive you can never move on. That’s why forgiveness is necessary.

[@lindah3803]

Overrated and usually bites the forgiver in the butt. In this story, OP is All To Eager to minimize how he was treated by his sister. To willing to sweep everything she said and had done too him under the rug. Personally, I can't relate to even the thought of forgiving the words or actions of someone who was supposed to love me. No matter if it's family or friend.

[@cjgroves4429]

Never forgive, never forget. Forgiving someone, just gives them the chance to use and abuse you again. If you're the type to "turn the other cheek"? I'd advise you to have some respect for yourself.

[@princessmarlena1359]

Agreed

[@lazallewillemse3617]

5:10 I don't believe that nonsense for a second

[@SnowyWolborg]

Right? That's 100% just an excuse that his parents came up with to make it look like this was anything other than favoritism.

[@austinfowler2707]

Story 1: something tells me his reason was BS. Because he wasn't going to teach that same lesson to his 'princess'.

[@saundrahuff5870]

Fuck? Disney is only for kids? I went in the late 40’s

[@Authenticallyathena]

Exactly, and how old were they when they took her? We're supposed to believe they didn't enjoy themselves while they were there.

[@ericanguy1]

Story 2: So, it took all of this for OP to see that the bride was racist?

[@kyanshi]

Story2: WOW, way to nuke any relationship you have with everyone

[@ARcinder]

Last story: If you think being childhood friends would give you a better chance at having a loyal wife, think again.

[@Khalith]

He’s more forgiving than me. I’d have stayed no contact.

[@Millions13]

Well I've been here for a really long time and I have to go back because I was like cooking something and I stopped because I was watching this😂

[@tabicat.puccino7425]

story1) im glad the fiance was able to convince you to see your sister again, and im glad youre making a connection with her story2) im the wedding was called off she was a stubborn and most likely a racist because she think something stupid and didnt even listen to other who were involved with the situation and overall rude because she didnt even try to hide it or down play it i hope you friend finds someone better. He really doged a bridezilla, racist and overall stupid story3) she is so dumb, she gave away a good person for a deadbeat coward who dumped at the first obstacle, i hope the father of the ex disowns her and divorce his wife, i hope you can find love too with someone who is better and atleast you caught wind of this before it was too late

[@CSX4772]

Parents: we're ashamed to be your parents! OP: I'm ashamed to be your son Parents: surprised pikachu face

[@lawsonallen7741]

Story 1 Who cares what has happen to your sister. I have an Evil sister. They stay Evil the good girl act is just an act. She played a big part in the lost of your family. Stop being a doormate.

[@goaforce2920]

Evil is not an identity. It is a corruption. It can be indulged in or inculcated. Life experience change people in good or bad, and you may live long enough to be positively surprized by some of these changes.

[@l-l-l-l-l-l-l]

She knew if she didn't contact OP, her fiancé will leave her. They already postpone the wedding for the sake of finding OP. There must be a hidden reason behind it, no way did she grow up as a saint while being raised by two devil pampering her. Either that or some inheritance is at stake. OP need to talk to his aunt as she is the only loose end and wild card in this story. But I wouldn't put much hope on OP, he sounded too spineless.

[@ianmoritzplatapino3684]

Exactly this man is so desperate for the scraps of love and validation from his family he will overlook how the sister treated him like crap. This is clearly a case of having no self respect and spine. Being a spineless simp charming white knight doormat

[@smsff7]

I disagree. She was a child who thought the way her brother was treated was right because she learned it from her parents. I think the time away from the parents was what she needed to get a clue.

[@r.i.pmydog7723]

She was literally a child

[@tabathacutting8355]

JUST TO BE CLEAR: being a mircale baby should never make you a golden child. I was born premature emergency c-section, caffeine drip in the NICU for a long while. I'm the oldest, never treated differently.

[@ianmoritzplatapino3684]

Story 3 the classic alpha widow . Never have any kind of relationship with these women . This could happen if you do

[@davidchandler1735]

Disney world is not just for little kids best experience I’ve had in my life

[@vickispears8575]

Don't trust her.

[@valeriecomplex9685]

Second story op is dumb bc of course its racist

[@CJ-BZ]

seriously. can’t stand when the targets are so willing to give benefit of the doubt….like..there is no doubt, its so transparent

[@armaggedon390]

Whoever wrote the first story (it's fake, sadly) should write more; this is very interesting.

[@KDawg92801]

Story 2: the bride FAFO

[@SALshaNoma]

Why do so many tell the whole thing in the title? There’s no point listening after that.

[@SecretVoices25]

So there are no misleading and clickbait😁

[@alwaysright3943]

In story 1 when it got to the part where OP started to cry like a bitch I knew it was over. It's pretty pathetic how easily men cry nowadays. Things where vastly different only 30 years ago.

[@musiclova6368]

Where is the rest of the last story?

[@RobertBishop-xt6yq]

S2 JFC why can't the dress be dyed

[@CJ-BZ]

because that wasn’t the issue. bride didn’t want to find a solution, she didn’t want darker skinned people in her wedding.

[@RobertBishop-xt6yq]

@@CJ-BZ I know that Sherlock But this is family members and nobody Even said anything, that's where you bring the A hole out everyone sees it for themselves. Make others come up with their own conclusions.

[@Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681]

well this got vary boring