After understanding this I immediately stopped comparing with others

[@SanjitDas-rr1pe]

Comparison is the biggest problem in today's time ...... but you can't neglect it ....... Instead of comparing with others compare your yesterday with today ....... This is really beneficial for me ...... thanks Neha Di ❤

[@ArvindSehrawat-p1r]

Right h bro, apne aap ko appreciate kar sakte hai

[@SanjitDas-rr1pe]

yes bro@@ArvindSehrawat-p1r

[@BhavnaKumariThakur]

How sweetly she said "dhyaan rakho apna"🥺

[@Harshu_57]

What a beauty inside out dear !! Your perspective is so different and pure ,I used to ignore your content a lot but now whenever I open your videos there’s something to learn something precious and the vibes , great mam ! May God bless you with the best of everything ! Love you sweetheart ❤

[@CANEHADATTA]

Par aap ignore kyo kr rhe the 🥲🥹😐

[@Harshu_57]

To be truly honest ,I thought ke aise hee kuch gisa pita kuch bta denge but if I wouldn’t have started being a part of your virtual family ,I’d have been in a great loss ❤ , you radiate so much of positivity and hope and elegance !!!!!!!

[@player8473]

​@@CANEHADATTAhamare consent ke bina bhi log uphaas uda sakthe hai iss duniya mei taaqatwar hamesa kamjor ko maarte tang karte rehta hai chahe consent ho yaa naa ho , baap bete par , boss employee par , teacher students par rob dikhate hi hai or sehna wala asahaye hi hota hai . Jab 5-10 aadmi gherkar maarne lag jaaye to saare consent or sakthi bhul jaaye or pitne ke sivaah or koi chara naa rahe . Allow karne wali baat tabhi aati hai jab aise karne wala samarthyavan ho varna gussa bhi hasi udane layak banta hai taaqat ke bina . taaqat ka vaasta maine ya to physical strength , money , authority yaa tej dimaag se kiya hai . Bus iss duniya mei taaqatwar raj karta hai or rules banata hai or kamjor sehta hai , mere hisaab se yahi duniya ka dastur hai

[@Harshu_57]

Pta hai di, Abhi just I showed your video to Mumma ,she was like kitni pyaari hai ,kitna pyaara Bol rhin hai ❤😁 i and mumma we both are your fan girls now🔥🌈✨

[@player8473]

​@@CANEHADATTAkabhi kabhi dusro ki buri aadatein bhi effect kar sakthi hai aapko , agar koi smoker aaspas hai to bahut non-smokers bhi passive smoking se marte hai to ek video nasha bandi par bhi banao to or accha 👍ki kaise smoking band hona chahiye or gym mei heavy weightlifting ke wakt bhi failure hone par injury ka darr rehta hai ki agar itne reps ke pehle naa utha paaye vajan to kya hoga , kab exhaustion aayegi . Mei 600 kg uthana chahta hu par 500 kg uthane mei hi eddie , hafthor jaiso ka blood nikal gaya or ve collapse hogaye to 600 kg uthane ke liye koi motivation de sakthi ho ? Mujhe vah impossible lag raha hai jo insaani shamta ke bilkul bahaar hai

[@anmolr_03]

i have been countinously watching your videos since Feb 2023. You know what, it is gradually changing my perception about life and help alot in becoming a new version of myself. THANK YOU MENTOR, wishing you a prosperous life ahead.

[@kritiagrawal12309]

You are the MIRROR for everyone's life who is so pure and unfiltered ❤️ This is my 1st time commenting on KZbin though i watch all your videos also love them.

[@sukhmanitoor318]

I seriously wish I had a sister like you. In this tough phase of my life, your thoughts are like therapy for me. I wish you all the good things in life, Neha :)

[@thissidekhushi7413]

I really needed to hear this I was crying that other students are doing better than me and they are getting better scores than me but watching this video makes me feel that I am a fish who lives alone in her pond I don't need to compare myself to others because there always be a person in the world who has more than you.

[@sakshiahuja3791]

I feel you!!!

[@thissidekhushi7413]

@@sakshiahuja3791om my gosh! This means I am not alone:) thank you for your reply

[@7gsc]

Life is not race. Its God Grace.

[@CANEHADATTA]

Oh wow ❤

[@dishadwivedi8790]

Beautiful ❤️

[@impremanshu]

Exactly ❤🎉

[@krupeshbhutada7055]

Just simply wow, beautiful ❤

[@aashiaskar4947]

Ye aapne bilkul shi bat khi🤓🤓🤓

[@memehandle726]

Hi mam I just did my class 12 , but everything that is on your channel , I sorted all this out when I was in class 9 , I grew phenomenally using these things , setting up boundaries , being away from the TOXIC group . and I would contribute most of these things to my upbringing . I had extreme hardships and that taught me to be flexible , certain betrayal, not serious though but enough to teach me lesson so i would say I feel so connected to you because of one thing , ability to learn from your mistakes and realizing there are no failure , there are successes and lessons . thanks for the vedio waiting for more to come soon .

[@mr.choudhary79]

When You Become Enlightened, Fear, Greed, Ego Nothing Remains. Love Exists Everywhere.❤❤

[@PoojaKumari-rn3pb]

2:43 next level...ye maine scch me kavi socha hi nhi...aur kisi se suna v nhi...❤

[@NitinSingh-xr7ft]

Every time, your video pops up in my feed, it's directly addressing to my mental state at that time which is causing me to suffer. Like every time. Can't be a coincidence

[@PrankiMotivational]

Neha ji, I am not a chartered accountant but a computer science graduate, still I watch your videos every day. Your thoughts are really commendable.👍

[@kajalbhardwaj8213]

Tooo honest Neha Mam❤ Bahut acha laga sun kar

[@dwellingemotions]

Few days before only, I was comparing myself with someone.. I don't know how small or big that is, but right now this clicked. You said exactly the right thing that we have to completely finish it. It is the ego only that makes us compares ourself from others.

[@shivammah]

7:01 "Jo bhi Race chal rahi Bhag hi nahi rahi usme 😂" Nice.✅

[@NarendraGoswami293]

Neha ji, You have a pure heart. You are very humble. You have no ego,no jealous. God bless you . Thank you sharing your life experience.

[@NeuroSwathi]

This video popped up at the right time! today itself, i had my practical exams today... i was having the same mindset as you've mentioned in this video, but now, i mean today i got to know about my changed mindset a lot, i didn't compare... but my mindset is to get the BEST of me.

[@AFireBirdPhoenix]

I recently started watching your contents and l must say l find some peace in me listening to you. But there are still lot of things to be done to be a sane calm being that I have been aspiring to be. Safe and Happy Journey Neha 😊

[@savarp]

Yessss life is not a race .. its a beautiful journey and story is your own.

[@SaranshSagar999]

सब दिल से कहा है , सच बिना सोचे बिना समझे बिना नोट्स बनाये , like a philosopher 😊👌👌

[@iamshwetatiwari]

the same neha once said in a video that getting richer and trying to have a luxurious life is not equivalent to being materialistic it's called growth mindset happy to see this transformation very nice explaination very well said even i had started comparing myself with people but now i also understand that life is not a race it is not a destination but a journey of our own celibrations and challenges❤❤

[@anushkasharma6929]

ना किसी से प्रतिस्पर्धा ना किसी से होड़ मेरी अपनी मंजिल मेरी अपनी दौड़ ❤

[@lokeshtahilyani4831]

Nice

[@Anshu_this_side]

Ur words gives so much positivity

[@regawis07]

Undoubtedly, the best video I ever watched for dealing with comparison 💯 Neha Diii!!! Matlab, kya ho aap? 🥺 Comparison ko jad se khatam karne ka ye REAL raasta samjhane ke liye dil se shukriya di! ♥️

[@Shravniiiiiii]

Neha di thank you so much I'm a class 12 student and I've been coming first all my 11th it boosted my ego so much so that ab agar is sal kisi k 1-2% jyada aajate the toh mai khudko compare karke khudko critisism dene lag jati thi but now that I've realised ki mai apni journey me hu mai apna best dungi fir agar vo topper of th school wala tag mere naseeb me hoga toh mil jaega nahi hoga toh nahi milega ❤️❤️❤️

[@suvangibhattacharya7440]

I have been doing this for a long time Neha di and was struck in a loophole of sadness. Your video and words caught tears in my eyes. I really felt each and every word you said. I promise today that I will not compare myself with anyone henceforth. Your words are always a bliss in solitude. Love you ,Neha Di🥰🥰❤❤

[@yashodasaini993]

Your maturity and knowledge.....increadible.😊

[@shrisd.1249]

Dee when ever I heard ur voice I feel like shriii Dee is with u at all the time just go ahead & get it what u want she is the one of the best Dee love u Dee

[@xib38krishnapriyabiju72]

So nice talks.. ❤I am really thankful that you are giving captions in English... So much love for uu.. ❤❤❤

[@radhikagupta3024]

Sch m aesa lgta h jese koi bdi bhn smjha rahi hai mujhe .....you really help me di in my life .......mere depression ka safr aapki ek video tk hi rhta h ...fir sara depression chla jta h .....thank u di ...❤

[@bleedblue45]

Everytime i watch your video my eyes always filled with tears..... thanks didi to simplify my life

[@JeetuBeats]

Me 22 saal ka CA bana (Real Age), but interesting ye nhi hai , interesting ye hai ki mujhe 8 saal lage CA banne me, but interesting ye bhi nahi hai, CA banne ke baad me Music producer bana, but Interesting to ye bhi nahi hai , Music producer banne ke baad mene CSE mains paas ki, par interesting to ye bhi nahi hai, Interesting to ye hai ki aaj Neha Datta ka channel first time dekhne ke baad mujhe himmat hui public platform par batane ki ki mujhe 8 saal lage ... lambe 8 saal, mental frustration , depression ke lambe 8 saal

[@sakchisingh7769]

22 years old ho aur 8 saal kaise lage brother?? Apne toh 18 years mein 12th he diya hoga....

[@satyamchauhan9466]

Thank you for sharing your precious experiences it will help us a lot ☺

[@ronwick3824]

One thing I've learned in this journey of 22 years of life! Be happy with whatever you have😌

[@anmol23461T]

Ma'am you are so genuine Listening to you always calms me down. Wish you the best of everything. Please keep this authenticity always ❤

[@anandthakur6263]

You are so Practical, Wise, Mature, Beautiful. Your smile tells that you have experienced life in its entirety. Love you so much ❤❤

[@nairkroft483]

I don't know how but you put this video in the most needed moment possible, thankyou so much ❤

[@navoditaupadhyay]

You are very good person inside . You give your raw and honest life experiences without any hesitation of being judged and of course compared. Thank you !!

[@krj847]

When I watched the karma yogi(the conversation between Arjuna and Krishna) video on KZbin all my comparison just melted away .I strongly recommend it whoever going through comparison,self doubt,ego issues.

[@yashaswiraj8401]

How could someone be this calming person for others, when someone is overthinking and comparing themselves ur vedio popup just to say sitback and relax ❤

[@sejalvaishy4793]

Mam, genuinely i feel so blessed to have connection with you by the way of your thoughts. Thankyou for always appearing on my screen whenever I need you the most.❤

[@tassusharma7030]

Thank you di, Got my answer. Everyone is on their own journey. Life is a very beautiful journey. No more comparison. ❤😊

[@seedchavan4345]

Thanks mam for sharing this...the way you described distinguishment in comparisons...where at one point you want to run away from it and on other point you want that comparison feeling...that kinda Doglapan...great way of teaching such complicated things in such an easy way 😂❤😊💜💕much love from Kerala... keep making such videos

[@chetanaparge8180]

Kitna sahi bolte ho didi app ....fir se app meri life situations pe baat kar rahe ho..pata nahi ye coincidence hai ya kya hai ...but jo bhi ho bagwan mujhe guide kar rahe hai ,appke through mujhe mere problems ko samjhne ki shakti de rahe hai .......tq dii❤...aur app bhi apna dhyan rakhna❤❤💞💞

[@prashi_dubey]

Aap bohot pyare ho❤...i mean aapke vdos dekh k itna positive feel hota h..I am so grateful that I discovered your channel and listening to you is the best... thankyouuuuu for your guidance, motivation for everything ❤❤

[@swetaa3433]

Level of understanding ❤️ i have never heared this type of thought🔥

[@padmagopalakrishnan5416]

Neha di , u read my mind really 😢❤. Thank you for this video

[@Navyayayyaya]

Sometimes comparison helps a person to grow in good way so its the way you treat comparison for eg i scored 80 but my friend who used to score 50 got a 90 this time it would help with competency and will make you grow one should compare but not hate that person or feel down about it its all about perspective comparing bodies might be wrong but fitness activities isn't you are not wrong but you should have discussed the positive aspect .. comparison is something that pushed me harder changed the perspective and now preparing for something i never thought i will AAG LAGA DUNGI attitude>>>ps i am normal student and kudos to you motivating the ppl who need it maybe it helps people to rethink about life they're living with the jealousy and insecurity !!

[@Navyayayyaya]

Also life mai bhaagna pdta hi h bas chizein personal ni leni chahiye acc to me it helps me to grow so yeah again perspective!!

[@anshulverma4744]

Hi Neha ...this is my first comment on your video...tbh I was comparing myself and my life with few people (precisely 3) and was ranting all with my friend half an hour ago. I am comparing myself from last 3-4 months because I m having tough time nd some difficulties in life these days. And honestly these people don't play much role in my life...and your video made me realised that I am really hurting myself and even those people don't even know.....I m feeling really better after watching your video... everyone has their own journey....we are insulting ourselves while comparing... Best thing is ...apni life m hi itne engage rho...doosre ki tension lo hi Mt..

[@Savanpatel149]

Love you didi, mene other youtube channel me only vo paya jo mere kam ka he hi nhi or ek din apka channel mil gya bs ab koi dusre ko sunna psnd hi nhi apke siva, you are inspiration ❤❤

[@NehaYadav-od4pf]

After acharya Prashant she is the second person I found who speaks truth... hats off❤❤❤ love from dewas

[@harshojha7096]

Didi your videos are like a Life Lessons for everyone ❤ Thanku Soo Much ❤ Radhe Radhe ❤🙏

[@freenaziz1618]

You are my little Angel... Love unconditional 🌹☘️💫

[@devendrasinha8965]

This is the real answer to Stop comparison ownself.

[@SecretlyBeautiful]

My God !!! how do you manage to speak so beautifully and peacefully. Lovely! 👏 I rarely comment but ur every video hits me differently as if it was made for me Love you Neha ! God bless you!

[@Hayat22849]

I don't know why but I'm your big fan ❤ For 5 days ago I started to watch your videos nd now I regularly watch your videos

[@kazikasif]

I gained some courage to comment for the first time on your video. Thanks for this video which is promoting a better thought❤❤❤❤

[@monishaboruah3902]

Your words are enough for boost myself 💐

[@MohdKaif-dq7zc]

From last few months i was totally trapped into these feelings , when i see someone having better knowledge/work/personality.. Than me, i start fell anxious & suddenly that thought comparison "ki comparison nhi karna, or kisi tarah apne ko sambhalna", but when vice versa happens i started feel proud & it really make me feel good ;) .. But now i understand all this , Thank you so much Neha Ma'am 🙌 - i understand (Perfection is being yourself) i just not need to compare me with anyone in any situation 😄

[@shagundar9898]

Thaaaannk youuuu🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️💕 I have my exam tomorrow & i was comparing!! You made me realise it & even gave me the solution. Now I feel better & relaxed for it 😀😀 Lots of love to you💖💖💖

[@mandargharpure8867]

👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👏👏👏👏👏 Best speech Apne bahut accha observe kiya hai life ko !!!

[@RV99972]

Hi Neha..I just stumbled on to your channel... Great thoughts and observations shared ....thank you... Your explanation is much better and simpler than many many online baba's... thankyou 😊

[@samriddhianand6189]

Your words soothes my soul ❤❤

[@MAMMAS__BOY-02]

Thanks you sis...i needed this some of my friends are got job and settled i was only one left behind... i was muted their story because i don't wanna see them ....yiur vidio got me at right time ❤❤❤

[@suhanijogi15]

Di I'm a student. I scored low marks in my test as I'm preparing for competitive exam . I was feeling so low and stressed. But I'm so greatful to universe that and of course to you . This video has a perfect timming in my life. Thank you thank you thank you soo sooo soooooo much universe ❤

[@chitra8444]

Aap ke vide josh talk se bahat baar recommendation aaya par.mujhe man nehi tha ki kya hi he ..matlab sabke kuch story hote he wahi motivation aur kuch dino baad no motivation to me nehi dekh rahi thi..ab aap ki jo bhi videos ke recommendation aata he to ek muskurat bhi aati he chehre pe ki inse to kuchh achha sikhne ko milega ab❤😊 ma'am you are doing great job 👍 keep doing

[@sumanchawla307]

You r such a pure soul....yes life is a journey not a race.... wonderful video ❤❤❤

[@loveee_moreee]

Love you dii❤ You are the best❤ Thank you dii❤ The cutest CA ever❤🎉

[@PreetiTanwar-xq1cz]

Superb didi ❤yours words give me peace ..

[@kinjalmakwana05]

Sahi time pe sahi video milna b ek blessing hai ....❤

[@Jogeshree]

Right

[@saurabhnair8529]

Comparison isliye hota hai kyunki hamara intention unko dominate karne ka hota hai na ki uski help karne me ya khud ko defend karne me.......isliye intention pure hona chahiye 🤗

[@ajitdivakar3504]

Each one shines during it's time. Can't compare the sun and the moon. Point put forward very well Neha 👏

[@bhawnatiwari5023]

Na kisi se age Na kisi se peeche Ki duad me ab na padna h Mujhe apni life ki journey me khud se age badna. Thank you so much Nehu di ❤i love you a lot❤

[@jyotiswapnapanda9233]

The best video about comparison on youtube till date❤ god bless you ma'am

[@71-muskanchhabria43]

i have been having this mindset where i get underconfident when i am with people who i feel are more confident and smarter than me and then when i am around people who i feel are less confident than me, i feel more confident in front of them..i have my IT OC batch in nov, i am going to be around smarter people..i am trying how to remove this thinking from my mind.. i have reached the right place even without searching!! thankyouu so much!!❤❤❤

[@SaranshSagar999]

आपकी आवाज बहुत ही मधुर है नेहा ❤❤😮 , माँ सरस्वती की आप पर विशेष कृपा है

[@biophiles]

I m a neet aspirant and i m ur subscriber you are not just a ca even beyond ca u r a good human,educator,mentor too.. you tough so many life learing lessons and change our vision of life thank you so much Keep doing we need it ❤😊

[@maneeshkushwaha4531]

Bhagwan shree krishn ne bhi yhi kha hai not to compare yourself with others. Sharwashreshta banane ki jagah uttam banane ka prayas kro. You have so nicely explained.Keep motivating us keep showing us the right path, keep giving the real meaning of happiness keep giving ur opinion bs bahut acha lagta hai aap jo bhi topic pr bolti hai bahut shi me smjh aata hai. U are beautiful 😊😊😊. Love u❤

[@Kashmiriboyy]

Beautiful life lesson. 🎉

[@itsAsingh24]

Di pata nii aapse kya connection h mera pr mai apni life m jo v problem face krrhi hoti hu aapki ek video dekhti hu or usse mujhe bahut relief feel hota h...mai upsc aspirant hu...Do din se mai khud ko compare krrhithi baaki aspirants se or demotivate v thi pr aapki video dekhkr kavi achha laga... Thanks di❤❤❤

[@SunilOla]

Video bilkul relatable hote hai... lot of thanks 😍

[@Discoveringmaths]

Dear you have great reflection ability. God bless you. Metta

[@bhavisha5465]

❤🙌🏻clarity beyond the level...

[@ankitjain4294]

Very well said.. humility and being self content is required

[@Uniquetrends2nd]

How caring you re amazing...but life me compare Krna bhi jaruri h aisa mujhe abhi tk lagta lagta h kue ki aaj tk me sirf compare krte ho aa rhi hu aur compare krte krte meri aisi halat ho gyi h ki puchhiye mt bt ab puri tareeke se to nhi lekin ab m compare nhi krti mai hamesha se topper bnne ki chah rakhti thi mere class me topper thi aur m hamesha usse compare krti thi mujhe bhi topper bnna tha mujhe hamesha mtlb me sirf ek race me bhagti rhi aur phir end result bahut kharab aaya shayad me khud ko hi bhul gayi in sab me aur jab mera result aaya to n me ro paa rhi thi n me regret paa rhi thi khuchh samjh nhi aarha tha dimag ek dam se blank ho gya aur phir sab bhikhar gya ur me bahut pichhe chhut gyi but aajtak me sochti rehti thi ki life ek race h agr nhi baaghe to pichhe chhut jayenge aur kahi had tk yye sahi bhi h but abhi me ye video se ek baat to seekhi ki life is not race ..life is journey and experience and I totally agree with this statement and also I can relate with this ....

[@hereyoursoull]

Hey! I'm a 10th grader student and recently I found a video where you told us 'what you did when you didn't felt like studying' and tbh it helped me a lot as my half-yearly exams are starting from 21 sep and it feels good that there is someone who isn't writing scripts for videos and saying facts and giving the best advice on the basis of their experience and it means a lot for all of us p.s - I'm not that good at english sorry 😅 btw my name is also Neha😉

[@AshwiniThele]

Di same problem with me 😢but I want you are god gifted for me ❤ Thank you Di❤

[@Rosi-rk7oh]

i like the way of yours to spreading positivity and share your life experience...for motivated us,.i can relate ur each words n lines🙂❤

[@ranpalsharma8048]

Neha that's the reason we love you for being honest...!!! ❤

[@sukhwindersidhu660]

"Dhyaan rakho apna"❤ ✅️ Everything is fine Do your own work, that's it 🙏

[@pranavghosh9531]

When we see ourselves ahead from others ,it boost our pride and when we see others ahead from ourselves it humbles that pride!.. So comparison is indeed essential for acknowledging both of our merits & demerits.

[@Jogeshree]

Correct di❤ i am also comparing my life with others and some times i feel good, some time feel worst because of comparison 😊may be God wanted to teach this lesson through your video❤Thank you God ❤love you di. I Got my answer ❤. I should only focus on my journey ❤ When we focus on ourselves we become our best version and peaceful. ❤

[@kakulsahewal5637]

Really mam , ur aura is unique ...chahe aap kitne bhi tired ho but jese hi aap khte h kese ho dhyaan rkho aur sab kuch they work like magical words itni sweet sound karta h .... really u re inspiration and ideal for mee. .... 😊😊❤

[@NS-ho4vm]

Hats Off!!!! simply unique natural content. 100 percent peaceful content. #Journey #Experience #Life

[@growthwithkhushi]

I am also from ghaziabad❤ Big fan👍

[@buddy05]

Neha didi you're the best of yourself not above and nor below 💙👍

[@pragyapathak3918]

aapke toughts bahut ache hote h didi , im recently too much disturbed and distracted during my preparation , but after saw ur video means its really working on mee thank u didi

[@snehakumari9442]

U r just amazing Di.ur teaching style is very well.