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@ritarevell7195 2 ай бұрын

We know that there is more to the story. If the private school is the best opinion, it's your money and your decision. Why is your sister bitter and jealous? That is the most interesting part.

@BlueKnupp 2 ай бұрын

Because some people are jealous bitter people for no reason other then they can get every little thing they want.

@Jack-kx5rf 2 ай бұрын

“Why is he using his money on her when he can be using it on his blood family”

@Berrilesiouslife 2 ай бұрын

@Jack-kx5rf because it's their money and they can use it however they wish to probably

@ritarevell7195 2 ай бұрын

@@Berrilesiouslife I agree with you.

@katsimpsforleviathan 2 ай бұрын

She probably can't afford private school and is jealous that OP is using that money on someone who's not blood.

@zareenakhan5084 2 ай бұрын

AITA for refusing to help my sister with her kids after she said I was wasting money by putting my foster daughter in private school? I have been fostering Maya (8) for about 7 months now. I work at a children's hospital and Maya came in around 10 months ago with some pretty horrific injuries. She was in the hospital for 2.5 months and had 3 surgeries and a lot of PT and OT. She didn't have any family so I took care of her while she was there. I got her some clothes and toys, learned how to do her hair, watched frozen 50 times, stayed the night before/after surgeries or when she had a rough day, I cooked for her, introduced her to fruits and vegetables. I ended up falling in love with this little girl and had to keep her. I was able to get licensed pretty quickly because of my job so when she came home from the hospital, she went straight to me. The public school sent a teacher to the hospital then the house for a while, then when she was able to go to school she was put in the special ed class in a public school with a plan to eventually get her in mainstream classes. There weren't exactly any problems with the public school or her class, it just wasn't a good fit. She wasn't making friends, wasn't making any improvements with their speech therapist, wasn't learning much even though her teachers tried and her school got her 5 hours/week of tutoring, and she'd hold my hand and take a nap the second we got home (she's not much of a napper). I decided to look at private schools and found a Montessori inspired school around 45 minutes from my house. We took a tour, she did the assessment, and she got in. She started in March and she's doing great. She's speaking more and more clearly, she's learning so much, and she even has 2 friends. The school is expensive though. After my financial aid I'm paying $1200/month for her tuition and when she starts going to aftercare it'll be another $450/month. I was talking to my sister about Maya and this school and how she and her husband might want to consider it for their older daughter (2, the preschool starts at 3) and she asked why I'm sending a kid I might not get to keep to private school and that it would be a waste of money if she goes to a family member. I told her not to worry about me "wasting" my money on Maya and that I'm happy to pay if it's helping her. She kept pushing and I told her that if this is how she feels about my kid I will have to distance myself from her and will not be helping with her kids anymore. Now she's calling me sensitive and claims that I'm abandoning my family. AITA?

@R3D_V3LV3T_W3IRD0_ON_UR_FYP 2 ай бұрын

NTA you were just holding your own and defending your child

@ile9223 2 ай бұрын

Your sister is jealous because she would love if you was doing the same for her children! So don't help at all! She needs to clean up her behavior 100%

@Nevertoleave 2 ай бұрын

@Teddy-bk5re you live a sad life

@subratanandy2142 2 ай бұрын

NTA , I don't even need to listen to the rest . No need to help an entitled sibling .

@user-qt4mz7di8d 2 ай бұрын

Nta. You exemplify the best of us humans. So many are locked into just taking care of one's own to the point of begrudging the existence of others. Kinda of a shame, can remember when people were more caring for their elder neighbor, unique children and scolding the rowdy kid down the block while slipping them cookies or sandwich. You are a good soul and your sis may never understand. You were touched and so have touched another in a reather awesome way. Hugs to Maya. Be as kind to your sister as her attitude will let you. Rock on Lady!!

@sandrasausville9103 2 ай бұрын

NTA you are doing a wonderful thing for that little girl. This sounds like your sister is jealous that you got your foster child in a private school because that was a better fit.

@hopeausbyn1734 2 ай бұрын

NTA. Congratulations on Motherhood.Thanks for being a wonderful Mother.I don't know why your sister felt that way, do you ? I know that Mother's do any and all things to help their baby . Your sister must Reciprocation. She is a Auntie now.

@virginiamosier9115 2 ай бұрын

Your sister should not have had more kids than she wants. She is pissed because she had plans to use your time and energy.

@a_noelle8595 2 ай бұрын

And money 😅

@BodaciousBebe 2 ай бұрын

So this little girl had no one and you stepped in to be a mom. Then foster mom. And your sister is mad that you are spending your hard earned money on this child who had no one until she had you? I don’t even need the rest of the story. Your sis is the biggest AH.

@mariewilliams3524 2 ай бұрын

Tell your sister it's your money and you do what you want with it

@zawjatsaid1 2 ай бұрын

Your sister is for saying you're wasting money. It's not her money, not her child, nor her business.

@elizabthharris6741 2 ай бұрын

I dont have to hear the rest... NTA. YOUR KID, YOUR MONEY, YOUR CHOICE . It qint your job to help your sistrler. Those are her kids. Maya is yours.

@agustdstudent6452 2 ай бұрын

You’re doing your best for her. Your sister’s just jealous

@souptikdam8424 2 ай бұрын

Since when do angels use reddit?

@Alice_fpe_OliversGf 2 ай бұрын

"Watch Frozen 50 times" "WHHHHAAAAT?!?!!!"

@samanthavanscoder9536 2 ай бұрын

I dont see how anything they did would be a waste. They seem like a net positive to the world.

@ronimartel2215 2 ай бұрын

God bless you....

@raynonabohrer5624 2 ай бұрын

God bless you 🙏 ❤️. Thank you ❤ Yes, you may get grants or.The Scholarships s in a private school see about it. Save your money for the adoption.

@the1stpumpkinking 2 ай бұрын

No your sister just wants your money

@GirlWthGlasses 2 ай бұрын

Private school is a better choice for education, the students are different and the school atmosphere is better then anything a public school can provide. Not to mention the teachers are better too so the lessons are great for students. When I went to school mine was private and it was one of the good decisions my parents made, my siblings and I are successful and we have our own lives and homes. If you can afford it then definitely go private with education.

@MariahMartin-dc2to 2 ай бұрын

It's all the full video, but regular comment on this no Opie, is not the jerk.It is still a child even though it might not be yours.Biologically , it's yours emotionally

@dianawatton7570 2 ай бұрын

tell Your sister to but out. it’s your money and your child and what you do with your money it’s your business not your sisters.

@1bestfriend2u18 2 ай бұрын

Nta, your money your choice 👌🏾

@chicken0w044 2 ай бұрын

Where The paragraph guy at

@zareenakhan5084 2 ай бұрын

@Thebookworm_PJO-fan 2 ай бұрын

Why the heck is that poor girl in Special Education class for a speech impediment?! I have one and I wasn’t put in a Special Education class, and it was a really bad impediment

@professorroundbottom438 2 ай бұрын

I don't think it was for a speech impediment. It said she had no family and was in the hospital for months; between her life situation and then hospitalization, it's reasonable to assume she might have been a bit behind in her education. It also said "with a plan to get her into regular classes," so it seems to me she would only be in the special ed classes until she got back on track with her age group.

@bridittebargeot2679 2 ай бұрын

What's PT and OT?

@Mika._.bored._. 2 ай бұрын

Can you tag me when you post the rest of the story

@bib1332 2 ай бұрын

I posted the hole Story

@Mika._.bored._. 2 ай бұрын

@@bib1332 thank you

@bib1332 2 ай бұрын

@@Mika._.bored._. your welcome

@janette2691 2 ай бұрын

Yes you are.

@Elizz_k 2 ай бұрын

Nta it ur money u do what the f@ck u want w it

@Sketch3r8 2 ай бұрын

Second

@user-sv9zl6yd9j 2 ай бұрын

NOT AT ALL. God chose you. Good luck. You're that lil girl's mother. So mom..... embrace that shit. Anyone biological or not if something is not working for a child you try something else. You are in a financial place in your life to make sure your daughter.. Can get the help that she needs. After everything that lil girl went through. She more than deserves what you are providing for her. So cuddos to you. I hope you and your daughter have a great life. Tell your sister this is God's plan. And he planned on your sister getting second part-time job driving for Uber