AITH for refusing to meet my mom after she went no contact with me for over a decade?

So, a little background: I’m 35M, and my parents divorced when I was 17. My dad struggled with alcohol and drug addiction, and my mom eventually left him, which I totally understood and supported. Living with him was impossible; he wasn’t violent but verbally abusive and he spent all our money on his habits. That was the last straw for my mom.
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