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@jabulanindhove99718 күн бұрын
I am a Tsonga man circumcision is our culture but as people we must not disrespect others who are not but the reality is that circumcision is a must in this day and age we are living in.
@khumbulanimbanjwa535015 күн бұрын
Amanga lawo
@jabulanindhove99715 күн бұрын
Circumcision is important the foreskin carries a lot of bacteria it can infect your partner with cervical cancer I am not judging anyone because I am circumcised but I am telling the truth research about it or go to the local clinic and ask a doctor you will see what I mean
@dipolelosebopela97002 күн бұрын
true for that tlosang those polony😢
@khanyisamakhakha72885 күн бұрын
Lo sis ubonisa ukuthanda ubafo ngoba umntu mothanda uyambonisa,what a humble guy boo
@sthembilenxumalo166320 күн бұрын
What this lady is saying is very valid… it’s just that the manner of approach. And as umzulu, we can’t be using our culture not to circumcise. I have brothers and they have all been circumcised… it’s actually a health issue not a culture issue. We can’t hide ngesthupha all in the name of culture. ALL MEN SHOULD BE CIRCUMCISED!!! It’s 2024 and honestly we can’t be debating over that, we really can’t!
@GlenNkuna-eu6xk18 күн бұрын
Not true....
@GlenNkuna-eu6xk18 күн бұрын
Some people don't circumcise..and it's normal
@rufasphatlane853418 күн бұрын
Zulu before where circumcising but old time because of war they stop going to mountain,there is no war now pls go circumcise
@user-mq3qk7lw2x18 күн бұрын
💯% true
@jimmymthombeni356118 күн бұрын
Islima sedoda mfana Yeka lento sisi vele uzokugulisa
@nthabisengkwayiba457317 күн бұрын
I'm a Xhosa man. It's true what my sister says!!! But very disrespectful approach. You'll enjoy your manhood after the cut. You've not been embarrassed my brother. You're a great guy. Ultimately, one wishes a marriage between the two friends, before a child is brought into this world.
@magadexaba61084 күн бұрын
"It's true" - for men whose culture dictates that the passageway to manhood is circumcision, other than that losisi unyela le autie.
@nezisoka3 күн бұрын
Hamba ndoda Iya mfana uzoba ryt
@Guti-ps7zp20 күн бұрын
Ucc uthi Amazulu anenkani, yena kumele alungise into nomuntu wakhe if ingalungi amshiye angafaki ubuhlanga othandweni lwabo. Respect cc iyashoda kuwe
Impondo le jola ne kwekwe. Impondo li lungisa i boy
@MtshaliThulaniNkosinathi20 күн бұрын
Haw bafo ukufa🤣🤣🤣 angfanga nje mina nd my son is 11yrz akanajwabu🤣🤣
@bonisilesunduzwayo731520 күн бұрын
Manner of approach, very bad Sisi
@Michael_B030620 күн бұрын
Just imagine she says she'll cut him herself, what an insult 😮
@thandahncube673020 күн бұрын
True akahloniphi nxim yazi
@ThembaMayekiso-vk7us20 күн бұрын
She is rude. .. 8/6/2024
@tebogodafoma88219 күн бұрын
She has no respect shem
@mrsdubenxasana861919 күн бұрын
Wasihlaza usisi sorry guys @ThembaMayekiso-vk7us
@LeratoNjabulo19 күн бұрын
Hawu my lady for leadership. I've never seen a zulu man defeated in an argument. 🎉🎉🎉
@khanyisahlati560819 күн бұрын
Useless comment, Defeat is nothing to do with tribes
@LeratoNjabulo19 күн бұрын
@@khanyisahlati5608 loooooool no offense bby girl. Plaintiff vs defendant kinda situation. The gentleman "gave-in". Thts defeat...
@sphephelonyawo361518 күн бұрын
😂😂 ayi Njabulo what u have said is true 😂😂
@LeratoNjabulo18 күн бұрын
@@sphephelonyawo3615 😄😄😄 I'm glad si yi bona kfana lento my leader
@user-ei6pi3bh8u17 күн бұрын
Usually the Xhosa women always not defeated when it comes to Men even if they are not Zulus ...that is simple .they overpower the men
@mbalimathonsi805218 күн бұрын
Ooowpakithi such a humble guy♥️uyasaba nzeeeeeee yena pakithi usaba ukuthi uzofa😅😅.
@sdunhlafamilytrust8908 күн бұрын
😂🤣 usaba ukufa uboy !
@NonkocyxXaba21 күн бұрын
Its my first time commenting ndingumxhosa mna but inyani ithi uCc shes not fair yes thina singama Xhosa asikholelwa endodeni ene jwabu thats our culture its not like yi culture yomntu wonke mna ndibona ngathi uCc if imhlupha indaba ye Jwabu labhuti ncono amshiye lets not forget ukuthi amagazi wethu ayathetha kungenzeka uba njengoba ubhuti esaba ukusika there bight be something bad that may happen to him my advise to you bhuti please follow your heart dont feel the pressure its not the end of the world
@khanyisasduna823821 күн бұрын
Hay cc usavelaphi umntu onga circumsizanga,,, bayenza nase sbhedlele klk,, nathi sijola namazulu kodwa asikile, for the sake yezifo maan nezinye izinto kodwa ngalesikhathi kuhle ukuthi wonke umntu ayisuse lento
@NonkocyxXaba20 күн бұрын
@@khanyisasduna8238 thats your opinion mntase
@nkosinathindovela842420 күн бұрын
Akuve unebhadi matifana ntwana yam labantu vele bathi wuwe nendoda ka Mangcobo yayilwa nawe 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@user-xg3rc2df7e20 күн бұрын
Hayi bhudi shiya look for your class lowo sisi akakufuni shame
@mpengesimpengesi701220 күн бұрын
This thing has no culture guys it's about health reasons remove that nonsense and life goes on that's all
@user-km9nv2gn1l20 күн бұрын
Am a Xhosa myself but she’s very disrespectful and if she doesn’t want to date someone who’s not circumcised, why she doesn’t stick to our Xhosa guy. Like mna ndimthanda nabelungu and there are not circumstance and I don’t have any problem with that,this man should date another woman 👩 and please don’t think about money you spent on her,just let her go and there’s lots of women out there that will love ❤️ and respect you dear,don’t let her control you please
@thandahncube673020 күн бұрын
True akamhloniphi nje nhlobo lento akuyo eyama camera
@GcobaniMatshikiza20 күн бұрын
Tjooo lo xa kuxatywana uzamthuka ngalonto😮
@emelinanhamue520920 күн бұрын
Love doesn't choose culture she just love this guy . So he must do it fro they're love. At the end they will be happy.
@Aninomazi_19 күн бұрын
He came to her not the other way around
@SithembisoShandu-vu1eb19 күн бұрын
I'm with you sisi she doesn't respect lentombi
@ben.kmamosebo84942 күн бұрын
I appreciate this host's calm,respectful and reassuring manner on this emotional issues.
@sbusisoqmbhele366518 күн бұрын
This lady love this guy ,thinake MaZulu sinenhlanhla yethu nje yokuthola abantu abasithandayo .Cha ubafo akasuse unjwabu edle umuntu strong bebe nabantwana nakhu nathi siyaphila sawakhipha nje futhi angikaze ngagula kubalulekile ukusoka guyz akusilona usiko lento if uzithanda nje as umjita susa lento.
YAZI SINGABANTU SESITHANDA I SOCIAL MEDIA LE MEKUNGAMELE NJE IZE IFIKE LA NO GUYS WHY SEKUNJE NEZINTO EZIDINGA NINA KODWA USINGAZE UZOPHONXA UMUNTU WAKHO KANJE ANGIVUMI MINA 👏👏
@masibongentuli338420 күн бұрын
Khona kuyadumaz nangendlel apikla ngayo u cc
@nelsonmkanya989820 күн бұрын
Nonsense lena umjita akashiye lodoti
@phumimabanga96220 күн бұрын
@@nelsonmkanya9898Nje
@mandla4920 күн бұрын
Uyasho nje usisi ukuthi kade wayemcela ukuthi asoke kodwa ubhuti engafuni, 4 years yonke ekhuluma naye ngasese enqaba ukusika ijwabu ekugcineni kuze kwalamula yona i social media. Isho esakho isizathu sokuthi why uthi bekungafanele ize ifike ku social media. Hambani niyosoka sonke sasoka asibanga nankinga.
@phumlanivilakazi20 күн бұрын
Lo cc akayi ngani emampondweni akubo asesokile umfunani lobhuti uma yena efuna abasokile ubajwayele kuphi akaye kubo ahlukane nalobhuti
This is the first time I comment on such shows. Ndingu mxhosa I know and understand the differences between cultures. Watching this video, the girl does not love this guy. Usebonile usisi uba uthandwa kakhulu ngubhuti, and she is taking advantage. My fear is that ubhuti enze lo sacrifice and do this thing and still the lady dumps him; because looking at the way she speak to him, she is capable, and she doesn't respect him.
@nontobekomajola40495 күн бұрын
💯 fact ubhuti must leave this lady
@Thandisibiya74 күн бұрын
Bro the sooner you get out of this relationship the better. Akuyena umfazi lento. Ayikho inhlonipho kuloSis. Her tone and the way she addresses things USENKINGENI BAFO. This is just a wake up call, Imagine having a child or children with such a woman. Qhubeka at your own risk.
If ubhuti engekho comfortable ngokusika myekele sisi u are wrong kanti nifunani vele ngapha umfakisa I condom why ungamniki iskhathi a abanye ngalento
@nellyngxabi261218 күн бұрын
a Very humble guy at the end of this......Asemahle sis funda uthetha lungisa ulwimi lwakho beside Being a Xhosa funda uyilungiselela intetho ngengomntu onengqondo blood is running through your veins as a human ngumntanomntu naye lobhuti
@user-gz3or6qy2p11 күн бұрын
MH...ndlela yothetha.Isimilo.....
@PhoneOpen-hy1fo20 күн бұрын
Ndiyindoda yomXhosa yeeerrrrrrrrrrrrr isile lenjakazi izomhlaza lomjita msunwakhe as for you mfe2 ungavumi ulawulwa legqwirha😢
Im proud of you wena dadewethu, ur happiness comes first
@AnelisaNtalavane18 күн бұрын
She is a woman…she is about what must happen not about what makes most guy comfortable…we need people like her…
@BulelwaXobiso-je9wb21 күн бұрын
Haysuka sisi ungumkhaya Kodwa yikaka le uyenza kulobhuti y uzomhlaza apha nxee awuthandi nyani yilento sihleli sibizwa ngabantu ababi eKZN
@nangamsomantyi472321 күн бұрын
Yuuu andisenantloni. Krwada man lentombazana
@ZukileFongoqa-id7cn20 күн бұрын
Yini yintoni le lo girl ungumkhaya wam esenza yona hayi usihlazile tshini madoda khona ebeyofuna ntoni le ezinzuleni
@businzama693920 күн бұрын
Mmmmm😢😢😢
@phumzilemakhathini251620 күн бұрын
Wen bhut myeke ungalawulw intombi bhutwam kuncn kuth umfazi .. il uzofa khona ke uma ususikw uyena aybooo
@avuazahc196620 күн бұрын
No she tried at home but nobafo uyatsho ebegoloza and yimpilo usoka nakubani na. Umntu ozozuza apha its the guy not her gf.
@Thobekambokazi20 күн бұрын
Lizokulawula forever
@NomfundoMbokazi-je7qq20 күн бұрын
And lizoze limdonse ngekhala
@thabinozi294520 күн бұрын
@@NomfundoMbokazi-je7qqselimqalile😂😂😂😂lawfumana
@user-rs4vg6eg4q19 күн бұрын
Kodwa naye why angasiki😂😂
@user-rs4vg6eg4q19 күн бұрын
Mncane lomfana kontanga yakhe nje for sho bolukile nasezikoleni liyavela ithuba aysuka
@user-jv8ch4gg3b18 күн бұрын
Yazi into ayishoyo ucc yokusika iryt kodwa indlela asho ngayo Nami angiyifuni akahloniphi nje ukhuluma inoma kanjani nobafo and uyohlezi elawula locc
@SithembeleMakhoba17 күн бұрын
Good girl and i thank you Ccwam sulalanenkwenkwe
@ndodandoda60284 күн бұрын
Msasazi
@thabangshasha390411 күн бұрын
Number one big up
@Michael_B030620 күн бұрын
Mara Sisi why not leave him alone. Dont impose your culture on him. If his culture doesn't do initiation then rather leave him. Don't embarrass him telling him in public yikwekwe😢...No sisi.
@zolekamotlhaoleng942320 күн бұрын
Exactly
@asandamsuthwana347920 күн бұрын
Its not a culture thing bafo.. cut that shit or lose your girl
@magamenkosimbihli278619 күн бұрын
Kunjalo
@user-ix9tj5tl9r19 күн бұрын
Batsi uyamtsandza.just imagine
@steve506718 күн бұрын
There is nothing wrong ayenzayo losisi lomfo makahambe ayekwaluka qha kupheluchuku
@Khanyo-el8ml20 күн бұрын
What my cc* is saying is very true, bt the problem is the way she's putting it
@palesamhlambi847817 күн бұрын
I totally disagree, there’s no way to put it, no one has a right to impose their beliefs or preferences onto someone else’s body
@palesamhlambi847817 күн бұрын
If you man says go and have breast reduction, will you just agree because niyajola
@tinosakhi659911 күн бұрын
I like her and I think she's very honest and love this guy kule relationship bayathandana I can't lie
Yintoni iXhoza okanye iXhosa? Niyanya ke ngoku zinzule ndini
@businzama693920 күн бұрын
Zyakhala 🤣🤣🤣
@mlondyngoyi217020 күн бұрын
South Africa idinganga abantu abafanawe dankie 🙏 @@SibahleLwanele
@BuhleNxumalo-lm4mz20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sandisom2320 күн бұрын
The lady is being reasonable. Lomzulu unenkani qha. The matter was discussed before.
@ntomboxolojabe206416 күн бұрын
Ewe mntase as for aba bathi akathethi kakuhle mna ndibona ngathi ugirl uye abone ngathi the only way to get through his thick kukuba abenoburhabaxa ayadika nyani amadoda neenkani zawo and mna ndiyaziva izizathu zikaAsemahle
@LucasNgubo10 күн бұрын
At least he's honest about being scared😂😂😂 I was also scared in 2013
@Londie_56410 күн бұрын
Eyy mara he must go there😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@KhuleShandu20 күн бұрын
Weeee shiya phansi lelo mpondo bafo liyadelel😂
@ceeyarmhlauli291320 күн бұрын
People are sayig this girl is embarassing the guy yet uGirl said ut to the guy when we spoke about this at home, he gets furious regarding this matter. Thats why she went seeking for help to talk to his guy about his issue
@mduduziMavundla724219 күн бұрын
Kodwa akangaphocwa ubhuti uma angathandi kulungile
@ceeyarmhlauli291319 күн бұрын
@@mduduziMavundla7242 true that... Naye if akafuni, akasho so that uGirl will stop putting pressure on him and asking him to get circumcised and decide whether to continue with him and his foreskin or dump him... Simple as that... Manje he seems like he's undecided or don't know whether to do it or not
@nomfundonolwazi724419 күн бұрын
But u sis bekumele akhulume with respect with his man 😢 ubhuti uyakhuluma naye uyakhuluma😢 what’s that pambi ke abanty?
@dripbasemedia16 күн бұрын
But how many relationships go through this? 😮Zulu value and Xhosa values clashing??? 🤔
@QhawekaziJama18 күн бұрын
Aii this lady talkative Ntombazana Respect Your Guy know how to talk tuu😭😭 awuna peace yohh
@user-tp7qj9ck8l2 күн бұрын
Owami ngambonisa wayesaba ,kodwa ngam reassurisha ngambhukhela wasoka now we happy sow2❤❤❤
@mandla4920 күн бұрын
Intombi yomXhosa ijwayele ngamapipi asokiwe, awanawo amajwabu amadoda yamaXhosa. I like the lady cause she's straight forward to what she wants and she loves her boyfriend. Sisokile sonke asinankinga😀
@SthuleNdlovu-dj3yw18 күн бұрын
Mina besihlukana khona LA sekucacile udliwa abafana abangenamajwabu
AmaXhosa awayekeki that alone Thina maxhosa Simnandi dear by nature 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@CultureStreetFeed20 күн бұрын
I always suspected that Zulus scared to die the reason they don’t do it but they always use culture as an excuse😭😭😂😂😂 this guy confessed
@SthaeNyathi20 күн бұрын
Even us Ndebele don't do that, and we enjoy and we have kids.
@TheHuny8520 күн бұрын
@@SthaeNyathi eeuw nasty.
@onkerudah561920 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@CultureStreetFeed19 күн бұрын
@@SthaeNyathi do you put it inside their moth with ipapa on the jwabi or you don’t even attempt as part of your culture?😭🤣🤣
@kwaneleclearance590019 күн бұрын
Nah its no zulu culture, i would advice ubuze next time before ukhulume into ongayazi..mina ngumZulu phaqa and im circumcised angikwazi uhlalaphi kodwa awuke uthole iNhlalisuthi bey'khona oyaziyo uzofunda lukhulu ungahambe ukhuluma into ongayazi
@sphilegivenntshaba42367 күн бұрын
Nxaaah
@charlesmarula38952 күн бұрын
Well done my Guy 👦 just do i respect you
@LizzyNomvulaFaku21 күн бұрын
Firstly this lady is confused why can't she find love with a Xhosa guy secondly you can't forced someone to do something that you need to know our culture are not the same😢😢
@ZukileFongoqa-id7cn20 күн бұрын
i am agree with you
@FikileGumbi-dr5lu20 күн бұрын
Kazi wawungenwe yini ushela impondo bafo cutting edge
@NomondeSipamla20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@sinethembandaba-qp4lq20 күн бұрын
Maybe wayengenwe ngunyoko
@kwaneleclearance590019 күн бұрын
@@sinethembandaba-qp4lq not to be rude but do you condone lento eyenziwe ile ntombi?🤔
@LindokuhleSiphesihle-vy2pt19 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Nqobbile912018 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@user-ot1dx4cm2x12 күн бұрын
Kwavela kwabuya usbindi kimi👌
@user-tp7qj9ck8l2 күн бұрын
Asemahle gal,i salute you❤❤❤
@khayelihlembatha984020 күн бұрын
Yoooooh cha shame matombazane yooo Poloneck😂😂😂
@thokonene535920 күн бұрын
Yadela lo cc bakithi
@user-ij4cu9gu8y17 күн бұрын
Cha umfwethu akangasabi nami ngaziyela ngakho lokhu okwezifo kubalulekile gow man this thing is good man ye ye man
@thembelaniluthuli318814 күн бұрын
i agree with u girl.....yes u wrong to bring the guy to this platform, but her points are very valid.....so much can go wrong uma unga sikanga... i dont think it should be about tribes, cultures and everything else but personal health....muncishe wena girl until asike...its for your own good health...
Yhuuu hayi noko bethuna ayikhole sisi khawuzihloniphe bingekho enyindlela bunothethangayo kubhutiza ,Bhuti gqithela komnyumnyango uvuliwe for wena akanambekolo😮
@user-md9yh3nl2w19 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂ekushuthi kunyanzelekilen kumuncwe hy chaa somuncizwelonk
@fsenanwadim116 күн бұрын
He should do it for health reasons and for cleanliness. He should just do it and he😊 will get the benefit at the end Maybe the this lady approach is the problem.
I wasn't imagine myself ngisokile..but in my age the day I been ask by very young lady kuth why are you keeping this hmmm..by the next day I went straight to the clinic and cutting same day...the way I was disappointed by being ask with 2k
@bongiwenkosi8559 күн бұрын
😅😂😅Shame
@ThembakaziMnqayi20 күн бұрын
When u love a person ,u r there to build each other umthole enjalo but she is promoting health on him khula mfethu.
@siblingsforever84115 күн бұрын
Usuke ngapha etsomo noyno, wazothandana nendoda yomzulu, ujike ufune uyenza umxhosa ngoyolusa! U strong wena girl. Akazuba yindoda just bcs uye e hospital kwaXhosa. Ngok umzise kwi cameras, bazombona njengomfaz wakho bcs aisle amaxhosa. Wena wenza I mistake but ucingba uyalungisa. This man you love is a proud Zulu boy/man in his calture. Same as you are a proud Xhosa woman. Women submit to their men in both culture and religion. If he cuts it, he will be helped health wise. Hay sis suyenza ngokwako pls😅😅😅. Niyathandana Nina for real😁#manyani yonkinto. I love you guys. But Susan abantu kwinto zenu, hlukana noba ne worry yabantu, ppl will always talk whether u do things right or wrong.
@ThandokuhlePrecious20 күн бұрын
THINA SAZI AMAXHOSA ANJE.AN NIYATSHELWA NGAMA XHOSA STILL NINE NKANI.
@mathembadaza234219 күн бұрын
Hayi bafo ngeke kuyahlonishwana othandweni
@user-ix9tj5tl9r19 күн бұрын
Amaxosa ayayati korobela
@NjabuloInnocent-zf6tk19 күн бұрын
🤣🤣😂
@Masky199121 күн бұрын
Ayy yabona le show.. Izakahle😂😂
@xpg27720 күн бұрын
Usho njalo 😂😂😂
@user-ix9tj5tl9r19 күн бұрын
Uyajola yini
@mcterry999119 күн бұрын
😂😂too much ndoda its real not these fake youtube videos
@virginiathenga81262 күн бұрын
This lady won't shop talking my brother RUN
@mscmotloung600418 күн бұрын
She is rude, ill-mannered, she should hv left this relationship after finding out. Right now if he was to say nami sengiye ngakubekezelela nokunona kwakho, nokuthi you dress badly for umzimba wakho 'mkhulu. Ebezothini? Activists would hv brought KZbin to its knees. This trend of humiliating people because you want to be on social platforms is nauseating & paddling backwards efforts of supporting men/people to be better. Who is there to support these men kuyakhiwa ngapha another one yena uyabhidliza.
Bhuti ungesabi ukusoka esibhedlela noma clinic kuphephile Nami nje ngingumZulu Do it my brother it is very simple it will take you a month to heal.
@georgemanzini771710 күн бұрын
To satisfy u gel😢
@skholiwengobese103620 күн бұрын
Nxaaa kuyeyisa lokhu kwe Xhosa yeerrryyy
@Mxhosakazi874920 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@babalwathunyiswa48220 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@GuguMavimbela2 күн бұрын
I am a Swazi mom, I circumcised my son when he was 3 years old. I did it for health & hygiene.
@charlesmarula38952 күн бұрын
I was also scared.. he must do the right ✅️
@bhekidlamini119920 сағат бұрын
Cleaning it daily is part of hygiene unless he doesn't like to bath😂
@LebohangMaselela9 күн бұрын
Ke Mosotho, I agree with the lady, but the problem was the manner of approach
@PhilisiweNzama-wg5uj20 күн бұрын
Bhuti nawesoka Cc indoda ayilenzi usiko lakubokomfazi
@phililemosia695620 күн бұрын
They are nt meant for each other , ayikho lento, u cnt force a man to do this bcz relationships are nt guaranteed, after the procedure she will leave then wht? The girl mst date Xhosa men and leave a Zulu guy ,this guy mst also let her go bcz he is nt willing to do wht she wants
@zowbaca729919 күн бұрын
Ewe sisi basengohlukana, xa emshiya uzofunyanwa nguwe intombi yomZulu ( assuming) eclean it's more for health reasons. Akanyanzelekanga aye entabeni
@user-zt3si4vm1n21 күн бұрын
Ai ngeke lento bekungamele nikhulumenla shiya mfanawam uzobathola abakufanele AMAZUUUULU BOY AKHONA MAHLE NGEKE AKUHLUPHA NGAJWABU