Your transparency is so brave!!! Thank you for sharing this perspective; so much on KZbin is “I made x amount of money on OF” and no one talks in detail about why it takes such mental strength to be in this industry and why it’s not for everyone.
@tornado476able2 жыл бұрын
Can I buy custom videos and pictures from you?
@QueerSoulAlchemy2 жыл бұрын
@@tornado476able yes! See you on my page 🥰
@Officialydarion Жыл бұрын
How many fans do you have? If you don’t mind me asking
@emilysinsxo2 жыл бұрын
You were the first OnlyFans creator I found on KZbin when I was researching last summer. Your videos are so well made and I appreciate your insightful and holistic insight. I’ve been on the platform for almost 4 months now & this video touches on exactly everything I’ve been experiencing to some extent. Thank you for this! I hope to be hitting you up for a mentorship at some point in the next year. I think the sunlight looks great actually! It makes your skin glow & you look beautiful!
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
Hi Melissa!! Congrats on 4 months on the platform! I hope you are having fun with it!! ❤️❤️❤️ Definitely let me know when you want some coaching, here for you!!! And I appreciate your support by watching my videos!! 💓💓 Glad they are helpful!
@inoparks86022 жыл бұрын
Always a pleasure to watch your videos. You’re an amazing person 🤩❤
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
You are! 💖💖💖
@wolfandbunny63452 жыл бұрын
I’ve been on OF for three years as well and you spoke the words right out of my mouth lol. I have my partner involved and I agree on the last message you gave us is learning our bodies! If it wasn’t for the industry I wouldn’t know what I like and don’t like! It’s soo important in a relationship to explore different things and have that open communication to try new things ❤
@malferestad2 жыл бұрын
Can't believe I haven't seen this video yet. Like always you look so beautiful and your voice is the most calming and reassuring voice I have ever heard. Love it and love your content.
@MsPriyaLal2 жыл бұрын
I loved that you kept the random comments about the shadow and sunlight...It gave the video a very natural casual feel to it!!!!!
@scarlettfrancesca2 жыл бұрын
This was super helpful! I really appreciate you, your content and your authenticity!
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I appreciated this comment! And I’m glad to hear my videos have been helpful!
@archerunit2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! This video was super motivating and I'll do my best to weather the storm when things get tough.
@sbrandol Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all your advice. I just started and you've honestly been a great comfort and beautiful north star 🌟 Especially grateful for your candor on the mental strength aspect. I'm already feeling my own judgment and fear of it but I keep breaking through walls of it and getting stronger every time. ❤❤❤❤
@Officialydarion Жыл бұрын
What made you start one ?
@crazymary34462 жыл бұрын
Well I think u look absolutely beautiful in the sunset and your advice (especially “u can’t fail if u don’t give up”) is really a gift u are sharing with all of us. Thank u xx
@hannahmae44042 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this. I really resonated with that last part. I never thought about it like that before 😅
@teardropsfarmandcountry2 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this. I've just swapped from free account to paid one which has gained some decent subs but loosing quite a lot. I'm hoping come the end of month people will re subscribe x
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
Hi Kimberley! Keep promoting and moving forward! You got this! Congrats on switching over to a paid account!! Hope you make tons more $$$$$$$!!!! ❤️🥰
@raykelly9549 Жыл бұрын
6:25 I do like how your shadow looks 😊super warm
@winter-roze2 жыл бұрын
Watching this makes me realize how incredibly fortunate I am that my mother comes from a show business background where she did her own erotic burlesque and strip show in the 90s and what is widely considered by many media outlets to be the number one dancer in the world at her time and the queen of burlesque. So whenever I'm feeling down I know I can always turn to her and get plenty of support. Also kind of funny because my father was the one who ran the whole show and my step dad used to be a bookie for dancers and bands an originally worked for my mom and dad doing music writing and Lighting engineering for their show. It was truly an incredible production, Vegas level entertainment with trapeze live music pyrotechnics and exotic animals but traveled from coast to coast across Canada for 11 years. I was so nervous when I decided to start doing this and then realize who am I kidding my mom's probably going to be my biggest fan and show me all kind of crazy ideas for me to try and incorporate into my content and I was dead right first thing she said to me was do you want me to teach you how to set your tits on fire 🤣🤣🤣
@lanalana-lf5nj Жыл бұрын
I love alllll of this 💗✨😂💗✨
@Barbie_Trinity2 жыл бұрын
Love your videos and i have to tell you that i had an early success in my OF one month now just because i follow you and i learnt a lot from your experience.Thank you so much and for your time to making all those videos because now i can understand how much time you spent to create them and how much patience you should have to post and create content,u know its not just like you watch funny videos or videoclips etc,but its our rutine and reality so we are thankfull :)
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this comment! Thanks for sharing. I am SO glad my videos have been helpful 💖 I hope you find tons of success on the platform!!
@Loveyourse1f2 жыл бұрын
We need a skin routine!!! 😍🥺
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
oooooooo really?? LOL thank you! I'm still learning my own skin routine right now but I let you know when i figure it out haha 💖💖💖💖
@glitchshe52872 жыл бұрын
Anyone hating on you is pure jealousy! You're amazing!
@jjetgirll2 жыл бұрын
Do you ever just make content with your phone? I've invested in lighting and setting and I like to do cosplay type of stuff, so outfits.. but that hasn't left any toward investing in a camera and I'm hoping I didn't basically just screw myself over... I have an iPhone 11. Do you think the quality shot on an iPhone is good enough for the platform and for promoting?
@desislavapeeva33302 жыл бұрын
Very nice video. I am just 2 months and a half, pretty happy with what I do. Do you do paid promos on your onlyfans?
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
Yes I do! Email me: alanah@alanahcole.com and I'll send you my promo list!
@aamiller902 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you’re doing awesome Alanah. Also it’s my birthday today! Is it alright if I ask for a little shoutout? Have a great weekend!
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
@aamiller902 жыл бұрын
@@AlanahCole thanks sorry about the constant requests, I wasn’t sure where’s I’d reach you the fastest. Lol
@laishamonique2 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much!! ❤❤
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
Of course ❤️
@Amber_InWonderland2 жыл бұрын
How do you get your skin so glowy?
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
Just stand in front of the sun at golden hour I think 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@tornado476able2 жыл бұрын
Hi Ammy, can I buy custom pictures and videos from you?
@ElohiSilverEarthVentures2 жыл бұрын
Ide always loved shadows when I used to do modeling...it adds depth texture and makes a cool interesting video,photo...wtv, I like it. Your really pretty tho, so probably doesn't matter what lighting or shadows are on your face, still pretty. Poo on haters...I hope you have time to just be vulnerable and not have to be strong...that's exhausting, don't do that to yourself.
@carlyroo31612 жыл бұрын
✌🌈much love alanah
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
Hi Carly 💗💗
@justinejackson24462 жыл бұрын
Feedback. I ended the video because you kept going back to focusing on the shadows and sun on your face. Either just move or ignore it but it ruined the video
@jamee_maree2 жыл бұрын
I love how that light bits you here. It’d be a sexy shoot or show, for sure!! I’m so curious and can’t seem to find the answer anywhere - if guys order or buy physical gifts that they want to send to you…. Where do you have them send it? The area I live in is very small communities so there isn’t a way to hide the area I live in - I believe. Do you have any ideas you can share?
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
I've heard people use Throne or Amazon Wishlists for people to buy creator gifts. I personally don't use either and I don't let anyone send me gifts. If they'd like to, I say they can Venmo/CashApp/PayPal or send me a tip on OF for the amount and I will go get the gift myself and send them a pic of it, with it, or wearing it. Safety is number one so don't let gifts be the reason you compromise your security. ❤️❤️
@jamee_maree2 жыл бұрын
@@AlanahCole PERFECT!!! I hadn’t thought about them sending the pic with the $$. THANK YOU!!!
@im_diana_sage2 жыл бұрын
Hey girl, I’ve been watching your videos for some weeks now starting my own Chanel and I’ve learned a lot from it. But I couldn’t help but noticing that you look tired and out of focus. You’ve mentioned that “there isn’t a one way to make OF work” like 4 times. And in the middle you left out a part where you’ve mumbled something about the light in you eye. How did you miss that in the editing. Looks like you’re loosing care in what you are doing and it’s sad, because you r doing so so well! Find someone to collaborate with and hold your community strong! We are all here learning from you and following your foot straps… all the hate you’re tolerating is payeving the way for all the other girls coming after you. As you’ve said, Only Fans can be a brutal place with a lot of hate but can also empower women to express their sexuality in a safe place! I feel like I was restrained in social norms on media… where you shouldn’t express anything other than “nice”… or else it will hint you online for ever! Now there is a massive community who support and empower woman to be sexy and healthy and do what they like(while being sexy) and get payed for that… try talking more about how you feel and try to think why, journaling helps! Take care 🫶
@zazucaddell6688 Жыл бұрын
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@skmv872 жыл бұрын
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@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
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@A21_Edits Жыл бұрын
Correction on the title. "How to ruin your life for doing only fans"
@keithbrunson71902 жыл бұрын
Help me understand "The Hate." Are you disliked because you disrobe? really?
@Dred.Pirate.Roberts10 ай бұрын
That was not a line on her face, she crossed a line in the sand, by becoming a sex worker. Alanah is right, that there is a stigma in our society against such workers. Not sure it takes "mental strength" to rise against those negative vibes, maybe something more like obstinacy or a devil may care attitude about what others in your circle of family and friends think of this job. I am not sure stripping will ever become accepted here, regardless of the obscene money one can make. Seems like a lonely path to take for 10 years of this type of work. The work is hard on the SIMP subscribers too, living their lonely life online and not getting out to meet attainable women. Lose Lose for both sides.
@zizziz-sf6lo2 жыл бұрын
This onlyfans thing does not seem to be working for me. I have no followers. My IG account got banned.
@uweseiler668 Жыл бұрын
Hey! I've been watching all onlyfans videos for a long time now and unfortunately I've only found you now🙈 I haven't had any subscribers for a short time, otherwise almost all of them came from reddit but none at all at the moment.. Do you have any references from buyers of your promotions? I'm just considering trying this but promotions from others brought no results
@things_marc_does2 жыл бұрын
Hey! Making a reaction video on my channel. Great work!
@SleepingEatingExercising2 жыл бұрын
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@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
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@elsamari2357 Жыл бұрын
Hey girl, I started watching your videos and appreciate them immensely. I recently just started mine and I have someone who is willing to fund the beginning of this adventure for me, which I am so grateful for. I also have a business partner that will be working on the marketing side for me. My question for you is, being a content creator, what does the start-up budget look like? I know there’s outfits and outfits and outfits, but in your case do you remember how much it cost you month to month in the beginning? And how you made it work? Thanks🩵
@Khloecelticsfan2 жыл бұрын
Hi my beautiful friend hope you are doing well I am trying to keep my head up but I am still struggling with my emotions because I realized that I had to get rid of a friend because I realized that she hurt me in the past so I needed to get rid of the friend because I had to sleep a lot and realize I didn't need her because she had hurt me a whole lot in the past so I decided to cut her off. Anyhow I appreciate your friendship ❤️ you always khloe 🫂
@AlanahCole2 жыл бұрын
Hi Khloe! Sorry you had to let got of a friendship. I've had to do that in the past and I totally understand. Hopefully it brings you peace and happiness in the future to surround yourself with people that make you happy! You got this! 💖