A RUDE Person DISRESPECTS You, Say This To Make Them REGRET IT - 3 Ways to handle Insult Like A Pro

[@Anandam-123]

09:07 When I heard this, I remembered the words of Prophet Muhammad. He once said : “The strong man is not the one who wins in wrestling, but the one who controls his mind when angry" .

[@adityapanda_2000]

where did he say that

[@tahsinislammahi7346]

​@adityapanda_2000 it's a Hadith from Rasul S.M.

[@samikshagoyal7707]

Even Bhagwan Buddha and Vedas of Hindu people has the same thing 1000 of years ago 😌

[@usmantariq9874]

Exactly I don't know the exact book or reference where Hazrat Muhammad S.W.A said but I learn in many books and also in Quran Allah said about anger ❤❤❤❤ sübhanallah ❤️

[@fazeelbutt2487]

@samikshagoyal7707 but they are only fictional gods .......wake up to reality and make it your belief that there is no god except Allah and Hazrat Muhammad s.a.w is his last messenger

[@MayaVictoria-qw3ph]

If Aleena was my English teacher, I would listen to her class all day! I bet she'd be a brilliant storyteller too! ❤🥰😸

[@VibhordSingh]

Humour is actually the best way to handle any such thing.

[@Anonymous-ql9yd]

I understand psychology and everything but some people deserve a rude reply for their insults. Trust me.

[@arpitadas604]

Absolutely!!

[@AshimaTomar11]

Dear Alina, ma'am,😊your video has boosted my confidence again. Now I can definitely know how to reply to someone insulting me with patience and love, not with anger like most people do. Thank you so much for sharing❤such valuable content with us. I must say, today you look so cute in pink.🌸💘 I loved all three points. The way you connect with real examples is superb. And humour is my favorite too.😂👍🏻

[@thotakrishna262]

Hello if you would like to speak in English can inform I'm available to speak here.

[@adityakanojia7783]

If would my frnd or teacher then I would like to listen her 24/7 and I don't let her go any where. Listen several types of stories from her can change my mind and my whole day with super power. After watching this video it will helps me a lot in my life. Now I am over the moon☺️

[@smAfzalsocialworker]

I really admire the way she speaks

[@mehboobalilalani180]

Excellent. Solitary Criticism may be largely ignored. If it comes from several directions then we need to focus on it. If someone lob insults, the sandwich approach is good instead of becoming a cannonball. Thanks for your great insight. Be blessed.

[@shuvrojyotighosh6063]

you have mastered the art of expressive communication

[@Himanshu-kb7wu]

Hi Alina! I exactly didn't understand the story but I did the right thing in starting that I have shared this video with myself on what's app, so I could listen in future for more understanding.

[@harishprajapati3636]

You are very talented,I like the way you speak english,lots of love and respect for you

[@priyankabesra28]

Thank you for this amazing video.❤️ And Congratulations on your pregnancy 😊💐

[@tahsinislammahi7346]

I'm just thinking of you, and here your video has popped up I can't explain how glad I have become to see you, Ms. Rais!

[@PaThan007A]

I get all ur point because your accent is vry good and convince to very good way i think everyone get very easily your all points thanks 🙏

[@user-ig6ge5tv6r]

You are one of the best teacher I have ever seen the way you speak I think it makes english more easy and fun to learn thanks q so much love to see you like this hope you will guide us future ahead 🤗❤

[@DiptiSharma_indb]

Best tutor for English in the whole you tube 😊😊 Lots of love from Indore.❤❤

[@rajatkashyap9748]

Thank u so much❤ u inspired me a lot. Now I'm little bit good in English. I have been watching since last year. 😊😊

[@Kaur_06]

Please make a video on "How to behave in someone else's home, if you are staying there for almost a month" please!

[@malikspeaks142]

Seriously.....so calm ..nd pure ..

[@abhay6276]

I thought one of subscribers insulted you so i came here to listen what you teach a lesson and here is different story 😂😂😂

[@Ri_ya--shukla]

😂😂

[@pabitrakumardash2621]

Same feelings here

[@rehanabbasi3039]

You are laughing while telling about hater how cheap you are here for your learning Okk

[@maverick_echo1761]

Edited mei bhi galat english bol diya 🤣🤣

[@AKamchor]

Everyone needs entertainment….🤦🏼‍♀️ after reading comments this is what i concluded 😂

[@abhishekabhi6287]

I like the way telling your story about it's doesn't matter but ya it's awesome 👍

[@nikhat779]

Great advice ❤ Aleena

[@AradhanaRajbhar]

Ma,ma I like your teaching method love you this is for you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@NayaEhsaasFoundation]

Maam you are too good for explaining and motivator.

[@L0vedrama160]

Mam the way you speak is just amazing 🤩 you use very ordinary words and help alot in listening practice

[@shivaniyadav76]

I think it is very difficult to.cntrl anger for me but yes i am trying ...bcz i think my emotion should not depend on others .. i should be calm and should not bothered about that all person who poked me or insult me

[@devarajac4ttced990]

Today Subject is Wonderful Madam❤

[@saratdaw4796]

I clicked on the video to find a bit solace for myself. I wasn't in a good state of mind as negative thoughts are continuously comming on my head. I'm really trying hard to improve in my career but after I finished my breakfast I come out of my room and in drawing room my mother and house maid indirectly taking about how bad their fortunes are because of their children. I often hear my mother discussing about me with the maid and the maid says harsh words about me and my mother never reacts to them. She is okay when someone says dirty about me. It hurts. I told her not to discuss about my personal life or my preference with others but still she does so and others got a chance to say ill about me. I'm done with it. I don't know if you will see this comment or not. And if you have any way of share how to handle such situation.

[@sanjuktajaiswal5699]

That's must be very draining on you.

[@saratdaw4796]

@@sanjuktajaiswal5699 yes

[@vankamlakshminarayan5934]

Thankyou for valueable informations...keep doing mam..

[@kdiaries7777]

This happens to me a lot and i am so thankful to you for telling the best tricks to handle this type of situation.... Thnku so much..... ❤️

[@malikspeaks142]

Ma"am your way of talking is., 😲 wow

[@shitaljatkar7138]

Reallyyy 😎👍👍

[@HusnaFirdose-09]

May you get more success congratulations for 4M ma'am.

[@ashusayyed1604]

I appreciate you I'm motivat with ur kind words

[@namratavrm]

We love you for this. Hope you have a good day mam❤

[@rakshangehi]

THANKS !!!

[@TalkFluentNow]

I am gonna definitely handle insults from people by following your tricks Ma'am

[@dikshatripathi4790]

Yes you are right mam i face it many times, and yes i don't have any answer in that time i still confused how i react in thath moment if say anything than what think other people about me so next time used ur idea thank u so much mam😊

[@ShivdattDhawan]

You are great ma'am 🥰

[@idcreationsxsidneet]

Ngl ,You should be making podcasts on spotify!

[@sohag5293]

Mam your speak is very important for learn English

[@aatiya19]

Nice setup

[@LEARN_WORLD7280]

A great teacher loveable personality

[@taslimaakhter6366]

Ma'am AP serial episode krte hoon kya bht baar apke jaise dekhi huin

[@bidishajash7527]

Anyone here who want to practice spoken English regularly with teammates?

[@abhishekabhi6287]

But how?

[@bashirahmadmerzaee]

Yes

[@mohamedziauddin3791]

Yesssss i want.

[@syedarshi2685]

I want

[@arpitadas604]

Yess

[@SIDD909]

I have also good things to reply insulted person but leave them bcz i think don't waste time on bin just leave it and grow 😂

[@Ashk141]

Nice video maam .She is so kind, who has insulated her?

[@meetamahawar460]

It's great advice.

[@RafiqKhan-cb5pc]

Sorry i don't know how to speak English but i would like to say how lucky is that person who has a wife like you❤❤❤

[@PrachiSharnagat-2006]

It's only language

[@santoshsatyam9838]

Great . Nice talk 🎉.

[@raheelakhtar5583]

Congratulations on 4M

[@ashishbansode7169]

congratulations mam 😃 4 million 🥳🥳🥳

[@EnglishwithLakhan]

Very lucky joining moments ago

[@SS-nk6hz]

I m very much connected with this Ma'm...One of my colleague who is very close to me..He helps in a lot of wrk. Tats hw we gt connected.. .Bt he smtms hurts lk by using such insulting comments . When i mention i m getting hurt he says i m being too much sensitive. Smtms when he knws i m nt feeling ok he goes and cracks jokes with others. Wtever i do well in my job 1 mistake hppns nd he comments. My self esteem is getting lower. Bcoz i m attached to him i fear of losing him as a frnd. So i keep on going back. Nwadays i m feeling y i m doing ths....Y cnt i be strong nd stand alone instead of going back to such ppl. Bt the pain tat i feel wen he insults s nt going. Dnt knw hw to deal Ma'm. I cnt keep on forgiving his mistakes. It hurts a lot

[@karyk4363]

Same happened to me and in my situation i also helped her alot she was my junior and still she humiliated me,she is very calculative,manipulative too but i distanced myself from her snd now i made it clear that we are not friends by my behaviour and she played back by behaving as if she isnt talking too me...but now i know she is player,selfish,have no limits , and its her karma.

[@SS-nk6hz]

@@karyk4363 Hmm...May b i m nt tat strong. I wish i cud leave such ppl

[@_shriiiii_002]

Congratulations mem for 4m❤❤❤

[@gsh20230]

8:45 , I scored bad in my maths test 4/15 happened last year in tuition for circles chapter , I was in 9th standard. And when my mam was giving my test notebook, she asked how did I scored so less as I was topper in her batch of 14 students. I told her I don't know what happened I couldn't attempt much questions, then I started crying hiding my face with notebook. It was so embarrassed moment for me and every one had got to know that I'm sensitive.

[@studybird5042]

Same happens with me in by class 9 viva nobody even expected that I am sensitive person because they find me always confident student who have every answers of all questions even my friends where expecting that I will perform excellent but the situation was different at that time they passes tricky questions which I did study and at the end I go to my seat and cried a lot in front of everyone by hiding my face behind the bench but everyone see me but my teacher who was a nice person he give boost me again but that becomes an embarrassment for me but today I try to forget it

[@misbahuddin240]

When you look good look rich people don't appreciate they criticise 😮

[@sanjaydubey4109]

Mam you always taught us great and useful things with the help of you I can speak in English❤❤ you are a great influencer of everyone, I watched your every video . Mam can you please say my name in the starting of video = hii Arpita, then it is a great influence for me please mam ❤ please, please please please please ❤ you can't do this for your student 😢..... Thanks mam for everything I hope you read whatever I wrote there 😊

[@Arpitadubey8623]

Good 👍

[@SagarMadhukar]

Hello ma'am! :) I hope you are doing great! :) The video was relatable! :D

[@WaqasNasir]

Someone may troll for the bottle and can shake hand gesture ... 😂

[@arifhossain9849]

Thank you❤

[@SayoriMukherjee0007]

Thank you Ma'am❤

[@khyati461]

In most of such cases I remained silent! Unbothered by their words😂 React in case of need! Thanks for sharing!❤

[@MakeupWITHAnjali]

❤❤❤❤

[@HusnaFirdose-09]

Congratulations for 4M maam ❤

[@krishnapatel-bk9fk]

Thank u so much for this video mam Much needed ❤

[@waqarkhn21]

The more modest teacher ever

[@priyankachoudhary1451]

But the fact is that you didn't mention how to handle it when somebody is on direct on our face talking all good things and suddenly say something cheap targeting us ........and about Steve jobs this kind or response even not gonna to work because people are in general not gonna to understand that kind of reply.......and if we keep quiet ourself for this time they get a hint that this person is not gonna to reply and keep commenting without hesitation

[@abhishekabhi6287]

Yah

[@PremKumar-jp3df]

Ya ya im in Oly imagination always sista 😭🤕🙂

[@charumohan]

This video seems to be for people suffering from low self esteem, who don't have anything better in life than to just keep thinking about preventing and responding to insults 🙂

[@GKQuiz476]

Its my humble request to honourable Aleena ma'am please answer me. I think that either I am over humble or I am weak personality because many times I have seen that all people and even my juniors , insult me(not talking about body shaming) by मेरे मजे लेकर (not knowing exact word for it) or by making fun of me. 😟They do not do this anyone else but with me only. How to deal with this. Is this is because of my personality or communication skills flaws, if yes , how to improve it. Because of this even many people don't value me and disrespect me.

[@pratikpatkar8490]

Sorry, this wait is too long. Thanks Aleena.

[@Dnbodhchicham]

The way you wipes ur lips sweat u do so cute 🥰

[@rahulrajmarathe5338]

Quality queen of hearts haven love lot of loviju english❤

[@seemagauri]

What if we found some situation is insulting .xyz took us granted and misbehaved. And we told this to xyz tht we felt bad on so and so situation. But xyz didn't bother abt it and thought tht we r insulting them(xyz),rather than understanding the original situation when they misbehaved with us

[@ishabhadoriya6868]

This is actually amazing...can you please post more videos 🥺...I love your teaching skills and day by day iam improving myself...iam requesting you to kindly teach us something new.... intresting 😊

[@rushaanmehmood5460]

Brilliant 👍

[@mylittlebubble]

I didn't quite much understand the Jobs instance honestly about how he really came back.. may be I'll have to dig deeper to understand. By the way, Aleena, thanks for creating your channel, and thanks for all the videos you make. They're very helpful 🙂

[@kumarpalanivelu6814]

Excellent

[@PowerhouseOfMotivation]

Hiii... I am here to know if I wanna switch a Govt job to a private or corporate one, What are the questions may I get in an interview??? Looking forward to hear you on this...

[@Radhe7911]

Thankyou so much🙏🙏

[@VoiceBySujata]

You're so inspiring person ❤

[@nakultechnicall]

Congratulations 🎉🎉

[@prajapativivek861]

Hello Mam , can u please also make a video in hindi , bcoz i liked it very much i seen your session with sandeep maheshwari and i loved it where you very beutifully talked in Hindi .

[@mantashabano7529]

I want interviews questions and best answers for cabin crew please mam make video on this ❤

[@shalluparihar8934]

❤❤lovely mam

[@niftyhacks3335]

True log to bhagwan mai bhi galti dhundte hai😂

[@rahulrajmarathe5338]

Loveyou❤

[@ayshafatima1495]

❤ u r as always amazing with every lecture...

[@Athenichakma]

❤❤❤

[@preethysaju4858]

Aleena How are you ? I think you are pretty good.❤❤

[@rahulrajmarathe5338]

Amla Bajaj laga❤

[@RehmatUllah-uo2dc]

how many time you uplord the video

[@user-nu5ul8vv9i]

Nice👍

[@AbdulKhan-ln1ps]

Shadi ke baad awaz moti hu gyi ma'am ❤

[@shafaqathussain4735]

❤❤mujy English bolnay ka boat zyda shouq hai magr bol ni sakta likhna parhna ata hai pr Bolna ni pl

[@BhanuSingh-gh5hs]

Kaafi late time ke baad aapka video upload hua hai

[@halflife7600]

You Have very beautiful hair. ❤

[@reshusharma3255]

Isme subtitles nhi hai mam ji subtitles very helpful

[@julies5085]

Hi ! When you are talking about not doing anything when someone insults you - aren't you giving the opportunity to them and to similar people observing the situation to do that to you again and again? This has happened from my experience.

[@Lavika_256]

If u wanna reply to someone for "U ARE UGLY" then just simply say " WELL TODAY I TRIED TO LOOK LIKE U " 😁😆🤘🤘🤘🤘