spilling the tea on the fashion industry: my worst experience as a model

I hope you never feel as though you have to struggle in silence. Individually, we might just be one voice, but together we can form a chorus of change. And, in any career field, always remember your worth. If you’re a model who has also struggled, model alliance is a great resource to reach out to (this can be done anonymously):
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Thank you to everyone in the industry who has spoken out, and made this easier for me to come forward with.
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[@AbrilAguilar]

"If your heart is broken, make art with the pieces." That's what you're doing right now - Your emotions ARE VALID. Always.

[@lanaconstanti-nova6379]

It reminds me of a wonderful Japanese tradition when they glue the broken porcelain with golden paint on top. It becomes a wonderful piece of Art in the end.

[@katherinewild1599]

U r missing the whole point. This was an unsafe situation. Has nothing to do with broken heart

[@lilliannoble6105]

"You know in that way when you’re a woman you speak to a man who’s making you uncomfortable but you’re too afraid to say flat out ‘no’"... The fact that women know exactly what you mean is such a problem... Thank you for being such a brave soul and speaking so openly.

[@ENZOxDV9]

What are men supposed to do? Not speak to women? You have the right to speak up and say no

[@ENZOxDV9]

@CATHY B my advice is to be firm with your answer and don't change it. Don't hesitate because then they think there's a chance to continue. If you make it clear there will be no chance then they will back off

[@LovefortheZeppelin]

ENZOxDV1 no it doesn’t always go like that. Women die from saying no.

[@indiakees9687]

this

[@indiaxlovee]

ENZOxDV1 yea then they try to kill us

[@itschelseakay]

I can’t speak for others, but for me and many other viewers, we never judge you negatively on the way you speak. In fact, for many of us, we love how you speak, we love your humble and authentic personality, we love your 70s vibe and love for Stevie. We love Cooper and bathroom chats. Speak about what you want, when you want, and however you want because the majority of us will 💯 support you. Update: now that I’ve watched the entire video, I just want to say you are an incredible woman!! I also want to say that just because others may have had “worse” experiences doesn’t take away from how traumatic, scary, dangerous, heartbreaking, and frustrating yours was. Sharing your experience doesn’t make this a “pity party” or a “privileged problem” it’s sharing how toxic mindsets can be to people in the modeling career, to society, and to anyone in a workplace with bigoted views. You are such a good kind person and that’s why we adore this channel. Stay you, stay strong, and I can’t wait to see how far you go. The sky is the limit when you are proud of who you are and have people on your side who appreciate you and your values.

[@mirnasenjak7498]

Nothing more to add. 💙

[@karolinakowalik9720]

Walk less? WALK LESS? Who gave him the right to undermine you? I would never use tampons either! They are real bullies! You are beautiful and clever. Stay strong. Despite all the bullshit.

[@bethany8446]

yes yes yes yes very well said!

[@hava8610]

Yes! Well said

[@hellotheresunshine]

You were human trafficked by the modeling agency. They rented you out to these men.

[@bellelagirl]

Yes, this is the only logical explanation.

[@kt114]

Ugh. Disgusting.

[@hmstru8y827]

Yes, that is how its run, your favorite models all have to sleep with men to get to the top.

[@lisaellis2593]

Omg! she should sue! The modeling agency put her danger! Damn!

[@Amersboo]

Being a model seems like the worst and most demeaning job ever.

[@rlabarbera]

It's a degrading cesspool of the most disgusting people you will ever encounter.

[@Amersboo]

@@rlabarbera Ugh, so sorry you experienced what you did.

[@veganari4736]

Think about it, you’re being paid for looks.

[@Amersboo]

@@veganari4736 more like made to look like someone you're not.

[@nadine7327]

In everyone job there are bad apples.

[@thaisnadai]

As a brazilian girl, I know what you're talking about. It's terrible how bad women are treated here sometimes, especially when it comes to powerfull men, and we're fighting to change this. I'm so sorry that you have been through such a bad experience

[@sahtification]

I'm Brazilian as well and I stand 100% of what u are saying

[@soulofchrist5031]

What do you think would have happend? I think human traffic

[@shania9528]

Can you expand on this? I find it really interesting

[@JayJay-ue3xy]

@@shania9528 its called patriarchy you dumb ass

[@yourdaddy3837]

Jo Smith shut up feminist

[@sarahblack2850]

I’m a Comm professor and I’ve never judged you negatively for your speech. You’re quite intelligent and eloquent!

[@elizabeth1703]

agreed

[@rebeccahorne4465]

It's disgusting that agency was so careless to send you to that gig to be arm candy and potentially be human trafficked.

[@hbozzone]

It’s one thing to be proud of you as your manager but it’s another thing to be proud of you woman to woman. We need more examples of strength in this industry. You are such a huge role model and I’m so inspired by the fact that you grew even more through this experience. I pray that no other model has to go through what you went through. All I have to say is karma… love you always babes x

[@amyhamshere383]

I really want to be a model Heather!! x what shall i do haven't had work yet with models direct

[@fayHoran]

@@amyhamshere383 you go to castings anywhere near your area. They usually update when they have one and where on Facebook or you Google it according to the place you live closer to. I'm a lawyer who does her first practice lol so I can't speak for myself but a girl from my school went to one of those and now she works part time model.

[@amyhamshere383]

@@fayHoran aw thanks:) will look out for castings :) x

[@sophiarechsteiner2342]

why can’t things like this go viral instead of KZbinr drama? i’d rather watch this and bring awareness to this instead of people being upset over a lipstick.

[@allstr8peopledeservetodie10]

Sophia Rechsteiner 100% agree

[@Ohmylantaa]

Sophia Rechsteiner our society prioritizes the wrong things

[@444ytb]

It doesn't easily become viral because a lot of wealthy people are into it. Like Alexandria said, many models cant speak about it cus their career will be ruined. "Conspiracy theories" as media calls them about powerful people in modeling/movie industry preying on people and underage girls, isn't that far fetched Anyone that was or is in a good position either in the movie/modelling industry knows about this, too many coincidences to not be true. We wont go public cus the same reason Alexandria didnt

[@mikhail7863]

Because she didn't say something new. Everyone knows, that the fashion industry is that way or even worse, as long as you're not a very famous supermodel. And the movie industry too as well as television. Many attractive girls (an boys too) are forced to sleep with someone to get promoted or at least to keep their jobs. That's terrible, but many people still think, there is easy money and fame there, so they go there anyway.

[@whiteradish1539]

Sophia Rechsteiner If it's about lipsticks that can literally harm hundreds of thousands of consumers' healths, then it is something to be worried about

[@sydneysmith1854]

I can't believe your booker didn't care enough to get you out of there. If you feel unsafe, it is THEIR JOB to make you feel safe.

[@PutonaChicFace]

I was feeling so anxious hearing you talk about the Brazil story. I'm SO sorry you had to go through something like that. Regarding the "healthy" comment, I have to say that you are actually really brave acknowledging that. I was once at a fashion show and a very prestigious casting director called me fat (even though I wasn't there as a model and my weight was no one's business). A model that I was talking to, who probably thought I felt bad about being called fat like that, said that she loved my body and thought I looked great. The casting director laughed and said: well, if you ever look as healthy as she does, don't call me again. And please, do not apologize for not speaking a certain way. If you actually tried to sound "smarter" (whoever says you are not smart because you speak a certain way should shut up), it wouldn't feel as genuine as this video did. Again, you are really brave doing this, because the nepotism models and the supermodels are not going to speak up at all. I wish you the best in your career =)

[@Rosebud0801]

Ana Lopez what’s terrifying is that using “healthy” in this context implies that models should be so thin that they look unhealthy

[@mrs.v6394]

Partly I think the girls are often treated as too stupid to absorb that as being an insult... or if they do get it, that they should learn to accept abuse. Catty. 😩

[@winne9209]

I'm brazilian and i'm so sorry for your terrible experience 😫 you did the right chose! you deserve best things in your life and career. You're amazing 😘

[@inmemoryofsydbarrett]

I feel like a local driver cant accidentally go to the wrong airport he most certainly meant to help

[@yazb4083]

I'm not a model, i study architecture in college. And this kind of stuff happens here too. I use words like "like" and i like fashion and makeup and other girly things, and because of this, everyone assumes i'm an idiot (i'm in college, if i'm dumb then how did i get in?) like even when i tell people my good grades they're like "really? You?" My "friends" tell me that i should switch to a less challenging course. My teachers always look at me like a "dumb blonde", they're all male so you can imagine how sexist the whole system is. I've also heard stories of professors getting dirty with girls in exchange for good grades. Just thought i'd mention this story to show that these kind of hurtful comments exist in all industries

[@caitlinmontgomery917]

This is such a real thing! I used to study game design, which is very male-oriented, and back when I had long blonde hair I was frequently spoken to as if I were a child, just because of the way I looked. It was so damn frustrating.

[@zuzu9190]

I know this was 4 years ago but i just want to say that you are incredibly intelligent and you've worked hard

[@Ali-xj8lf]

This is why I quit. This right here.

[@amstergal]

The situation they put you and your friend in is inexcusable . Thank god you were smart and you listened to your intuition and the uncanny, almost miraculous mistake the driver made by taking you to the wrong (right) airport and you finally and safely got out of there!

[@seraphina7848]

maybe you need a redirection. Maybe this is a sign to create ur own agency so no one goes thru da same

[@AlexandriaMorgan]

I promise that I will the second I can afford to. I believe in making this industry better for all involved

[@souhaalghashi7691]

@@AlexandriaMorgan yes yes and yes💚..much love to u and there r lessons to be learnt about assertivness and self value my dear but i the fact u followed ur instincts and u fight 4 ur value just shows what kind of a woman u r underneath all the shit happening 🏅thanks for speaking out! This is for all of us ,even the non models😇

[@hazeleyeartist]

As you were telling that story, I kept thinking the whole time, "DON'T GO ALEXANDRA!!" "You are smarter than this!!!" "GET THE F$CK OUT OF THERE!" I was so glad you guys got out safely! I hope you carry some kind of protection with you at all times. I always carry a pocket knife and a flashlight. Plus a back up knife that folds down like a credit card in my wallet, just in case. I might not win, but I'm going down fighting. I'm so glad you're safe.

[@allstr8peopledeservetodie10]

Hazeleyeartist same I always carry some sort of weapon on me. Whether is mace, pepper spray, a pocket knife, a tazer. Anything I don't feel safe without it so sad we have to resort to this.

[@michaelrichardt]

super scary situation, as a man, I would have been scared too

[@Johanna-hz8hh]

It's so scary what you've been through. Better things are coming sweetie. Thanks for this advice, love u.

[@jackrussell2380]

She articulated herself well! I can relate to the pressures of matching my written speech to my verbal speech.

[@taylornpickle]

thank you so much for sharing this. this is scary, and fucked up on your agency's part. you did the right thing. i cant imagine how scared i would be.

[@JadeLively]

This is so powerful. Her story and the situation she have been in is truly horrifying. Her words and opinions truly resonates with me so much as a woman. I'm so happy that you were able to get out before anything worse could have happened. I wish you the best in your career path! I'm cheering for you! Thank you for sharing such an intimate experience.

[@dominiquehayduk9692]

Alexandria, I feel so deeply for what you went through. You shared your story in such a genuine way and I think this is so important to raise awareness for other girls/women in the fashion industry- and any other career, as a matter of fact. Thank you for sharing your rawness with us, truly.

[@SuperDogWannabe]

Hey! I don't know a thing about modeling, but the industry I'm trying to break into also highly discourages you talking about issues in the workplace. I get how scary that can be, and I absolutely applaud you for finding the strength and courage to speak on your experiences. Never feel bad about doing the best for you, or protecting yourself when others won't. Much love your way.

[@wowyathink5982]

Just started the video and am only a few minutes in, but it's very clear to me that you're very intelligent. Your vocabulary is very diverse and you present yourself in a very confident way. Please, do not ever let anyone make you feel differently or doubt yourself in that regard.

[@MsNtoni]

From one model to another: I am so so proud of you for being brave in making this and in getting through what you have. Also, I'm glad you followed your gut. ALWAYS follow you gut. Also also, cool how you acknowledge some privilege you may have. Some people just don't get it and you do. Good on you. Anyway, you've gained a new fan and I'm rooting for you x

[@avablaine3430]

As a model thats new in the industry you, your videos, and your tweets have always inspired me so much and if making this video made anyone lose respect for you that is on them! Always share your story and your truth

[@Trestamae]

I was a fashion designer in NYC for over 10 years and saw many models be sexually harassed by various men in the industry. I reported things every time I witnessed anything inappropriate but not much would be done. I’m so sorry you had to experience this!

[@crystalclear6661]

Jeffree EPSTIEN is all I need to say it seems that a lot of men in power that have a sexual preference for young girls / boys is a huge problem I. Sorry this happened and to be honest your agency probably know them and have sent other models it’s disgusting you should be safe and secure when you are with a agency 💖

[@N0N4M30]

Guess who was best friend with Jeffree ? The owner of VS ..

[@rea5321]

Thank you so much for this confession and basically for your whole channel, cause you're authentic and kind and we literally lack of that nowadays. Young girls should know what this industry is about before jumping into it and speaking the truth, not trying to hide the ugly side of that is so respected by me. Also, unlike most of the models you look so grounded. Your kindness and strength really touches me in your every video even it's just through a screen. Never change. Women like you keep inspiring me and motivating me every day and I'm so thankful for every single one of you who're fighting for justice. Thank you so much for that, hope you all the best. I know you will, but stay strong and be careful. You deserve the best!

[@TheresaTrychanel5]

I’m so happy that you made it thru the storm and are able to bring awareness to others... young , old, whom ever. Your awesome...you will make it far God willing. Amen.

[@bcourtney4024]

Perhaps consider speaking with Christy Turlington-Burns, as she creates documentary films. Stay gold Alexandria.

[@anaisrocha5900]

Thank you for speaking up. I feel like the only way to be a model these days is to already come from a family who has millions and is already famous. All these supermodels of 2019 are from rich families.

[@ND1966p]

So sorry me again! I understand your feelings I e had my rough patches where I’m not booking make up jobs yet all the MUA’s I know are working non stop it seems it’s very hard and I have cried , but you can never let on your not working all the time! Bless you... I enjoyed your video , thanks for sharing xx

[@vero9883]

I'm so glad you were not alone and had a friend with you. Always go with your gut feeling if it don't feel right don't go, don't do it. That is what anxiety is for to tell us hey you should worry about this. 🤔 It can only go up from here. I'm glad you are okay.🙂

[@daniellepatterson5950]

I appreciate you so much Alexandria! You're a wise, strong woman who makes the world a better place and I'm grateful that you're brave enough to speak the truth. You're a shining example of what being a role model is. Thank you for using your platform for good. As women, we need to build each other up and you do that in spades, my friend. Thank you for just being YOU!

[@minasbaguette889]

This video made me cry, you’re so brave Alexandria. God definitely was looking out for you the way the driver went to the wrong airport

[@illiniheel67]

Amen....the Lord at work.

[@sd02]

This broke my heart....honestly i hope you u get really far in life and let the low lives who’ve dropped you in the trash like a nobody deserve the karma they get.

[@mariyahrazaq998]

Your one of the most genuine beautiful girls on KZbin! I hope your feeling better, good luck on your new venture x

[@sleepinglabradors]

This is the first video I’ve seen of yours and you seem so sweet, kind & down to earth. Thank you for sharing

[@tuvx4081]

You seem like such a beautiful and kind person, I want to strive to be like you. Strong, kind-hearted and genuine. I think this video will help alot of people in so many positive ways. Hopefully more people and models will speak up about the reality behind it all and soon the industry will become a better and empowering place. Thank you so much for sharing. ❤️❤️

[@nneoma4091]

All I can see is thank you for using your platform to speak up and share these stories we really appreciate it. Seriously ☺️

[@HACFMS]

you're so shaken up simply talking about it, shows how awful the experience must've been to you! i hope this video gets to many other models and people so no one else ends up in a situation this dangerous.

[@bluemint4359]

Girl my heart breaks for you but you have to have faith and keep going and thank you so much for speaking out on this and helping young girls on this matter! Thank you

[@cracked1614]

Dula peep gang 💕

[@zuleyhaalca1273]

alwyas listen to you intuition !! I think you are right every one should do the same and say no and if your are not understanding the language than first than u say no , you should really proud of your decision

[@beatricel6309]

This story is horrifying. I felt panicked for you just watching this 😳😳😳😳

[@Livelaugh44]

Happy that you spoke out on this subject, and I love the way you speak and your personality

[@sighcantthinkofaname]

I get that models are suppose to be thin as part of their job, but the idea that every single model is suppose to look the same is just crazy to me. Like, ok, you had more muscular thighs than a lot of other models. So, your agency should go out and find you jobs where they want girls with muscular thights. Heck, I'm sure a lot of athleticwear brands photoshop muscles on to girls thighs. It's crazy that a response would be "Walk less."

[@lizlikesmakeup5436]

That was heartbreaking and such a poignant view on the modeling industry. You’re very well-spoken. I felt like I was watching a Vice Documentary in first person. I am so so sorry for all you’ve been through. You have a bright future ahead of you, no matter whether that’s in modeling or another passion of yours. At the end of the day you are smart, ethical and know your worth and that will take you farther than some bs agency that doesn’t even care about its models ever will.

[@amberpilot5254]

Wow thank you for sharing your story. Your old agency is literally revolting and are major pieces of shit. You’re really intelligent and it’s incredible that you were able to immediately see what was going on with those men. It’s clear that that was NOT right.

[@rainyafternooncafe]

Alexandria, you speak very well and told your story in a captivating, honest way. I'm so sorry this happened to you. You were in great danger, I believe, and I'm glad you and your friend got out safely. It's obvious that you're a very genuine person who cares about a lot of issues. Thank you for spreading the word.

[@emi7moonmoon779]

Thank you for opening up about this 🙏💕😍 you are loved and we will get through the hard times together and come out as better people❤️

[@catherinewalker8850]

Good lord!! 😰 SO glad you trusted your instincts!! You’re smart and worthy of all good things girl!

[@evaowens1400]

Alex, you are a strong, brave young woman to share your experiences, and I know that you've helped other younger, less experienced models with your candid stories. Always trust your instincts; God gave us intuition for a reason. That whole "shoot" was shady, and shame on that modeling agency for not thoroughly checking out the situation before sending you out of the country. You are so much more than a physical beauty, and I'm so glad that you now have an agency that appreciates you!

[@jonina92]

I just want to give you a big bear hug. Thank you for the strength to come forward about the harsh realities and exploiation of the modelling industry. You're very strong for trusting your instincts to get out of a potentially danerous situation. I hope that you never doubt yourself.

[@lailad.1125]

I would be so angry! Just listen to your heart and intuition. You are smart girl and never let anyone to manipulate you. Just be patient you will be successful girl, because you are strong and ambitious!

[@leticiat.5994]

Okay, first things first *never* make yourself believe that your pain is less valid than other people's! You're not overreacting or being too dramatic in any shape or form, what happened was serious and the potential danger you were put through could've ended pretty bad if it wasn't for your instinct and maturity... Ugh I can only wonder who those men were! I know in the US this is weird but here it's very common old fashioned maids the way you described (twitter thread) in wealthy households 😷 Btw I'm from Brazil & live in São Paulo, it really breaks my heart that your first experience here was awful hopefully someday you come back and replace those memories with happy ones 💕 Thank you for speaking up for the girls who can't! ps: your short hair looks amazingggg

[@iimocha_cat9681]

She is so sweet, she deserves better. She is an over analyser just like me. I have been used too.

[@zerkap6354]

Honestly, in a world that is becoming increasingly fake it is amazing to know that people like you exist! Especially in the industry you work in. Thank you for speaking out! There will always be people who want to kill your spirit: don't let them!

[@rodrigo-np3uh]

Omg girl, I’m a Brazilian boy and I felt so sorry about that situation, I hope that you don’t associate the image of our beautiful country to this terrible people! Again: SORRY FOR THAT! U are brave and professional! Congrats!

[@Shelbyjean19]

Thank you so much for sharing this, you are an amazing, strong, kind, intelligent, and beautiful person from within. Yes you of course have outstanding outside beauty but your inner beauty is far more important. As a young aspiring modelling this is so encouraging for me to listen to my intuition, and not be afraid to speak out..something I have ignored in this industry because of the conditioning we have been taught. Thank you thank you thank you. You will never know how much this helps me as I relate to you so much. Thank you Alexandria❤️

[@mc1304]

Your agency put you in serious danger! The stronger and wiser models become, the better the agencies will have to be. Keep speaking out!

[@miaspiby9820]

You are, a beautiful, strong, pure young woman and I want to let you know that sometimes it takes balls to be a woman. Never forget who you are or let yourself ever feel close to uncomfortable in any situation.💜

[@christinarogg]

You are so brave for sharing your story. Sad how people only see one side of the coin without looking beyond pretty pictures, but actually ask themselves what is happening behind the scenes.

[@Idk-ii7sq]

you have got to realize that other girls can be very jealous and say incredibly harmful things to one up you and put you down. be strong. don't let the snakes get youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu yessss you got thissss

[@lanaconstanti-nova6379]

It's not the first time I hear what you said about fashion industry. I know about eight years ago in NZ there was a big movement against all the stuff you have been through. I guess in U.S. it's all like it used to be. I hope you are going to be OK.

[@zemimsky]

That was beautiful, empowering, scary, and it ended with a happy ending. Keep strong and keep fighting !

[@mom.next.door.]

That is so messed up! Good for you for standing up for yourself!

[@toki7111]

I can't believe you're speaking about this on such a gentle note. This is serious stuff and no one should deserved to be treated like this in a professional work environment. Your agency treated you and your friend in such a dehumanising way and I am so glad you were able to not get on that private jet and that you won the law suit. Models are humans too. I feel like the driver might have intentionally taken you to the wrong airport. Either way, I'm so glad he did

[@jordanmcdaniel1398]

Thank you for sharing so so so brave of you!! Especially as someone who is a model and thinking about trying to go to a bigger city or a bigger agency all of these perspectives mean so much... sending ❤️

[@foreverimp]

So glad you were able to get out of this horrifying situation safely! This was so messed up, agencies just can't guarantee 100% safety and that's wrong..I'm also appalled how models are always last on a list of importance for photoshoots or other jobs..Like most of the time in a magazine when you look at the credits and they have everyone's name listed (photographer, stylist, manicurist, etc) BUT model's! WTF?! And I would say right model is a key to great photos for sure!..not just another "hot blonde"..

[@brendaherd9257]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. Your story will help many others I assure you. Sending you love from Pennsylvania.

[@sighcantthinkofaname]

I gavey mom a brief summary of this story and she made a comment that I think makes a lot of sense. After I said how lucky it was that the driver made a mistake she goes "Maybe it wasn't a mistake. Maybe he was helping them out." I could totally see that happening, especially if he heard you guys talking about how uncomfortable you were, and the fact that you were able to get out of the car and get your stuff before he "realized" the problem.

[@illiniheel67]

But. if potentially a trafficking incident...he may be in heaven for his actions. I pray not.

[@lalu00974]

YOU ARE SOO BRAVE! Really I'm so sorry about what you went through... Can't believe that agencies literally sell their models and expose them to dangerous situations and predators. Fuck them really, go by yourself. You are so beautiful and you can achieve anything you want. Keep being that strong!

[@soulofchrist5031]

Honestly I hate to say it but the story made me cry. There was no way in hell that you and your friend would have been ok with those men .Thank the Lord you had a way out. If it wasn't for the drivers mistake God knows what would have happend .

[@mrs.v6394]

I am so thankful for my family loving me and pushing me to focus on my mind and school. All through my childhood people were pushing my mom to put me into modeling or acting and she shielded me from this kind of stuff. I was resentful of them when I was younger because of this. I only dipped my toe into modeling as a teenager. Knowing what I know now, the pettiness, unprofessionalism, and predatory tendencies of the industry turns me off! It’s to be expected, unfortunately. Whenever there is a power disparity and little legal protection there will be opportunists taking advantage. It’s wrong but that’s the whole world. This industry in particular basically grooms girls to accept being an object. A fine line to tread when you are essentially being paid to be looked at. There is almost a disdainful cavalier attitude toward these young models like you can/should live on admiration alone and not have feelings when you are treated like a paper doll. I don’t know where that stems from exactly. Jealousy maybe. Discernment comes with age and experience (something beautiful young girls, with dreams bigger than their common sense, don’t usually have) and it’s a potentially dangerous combination. You are a smart and sweet girl! I hope you have lots of success in your modeling career and life beyond it. 💕

[@mrs.v6394]

Also many people do not realize this, but the Olympics and things like the superbowl ARE basically a giant human trafficking magnet! The statistics are staggering. You were wise to listen to your gut. Thank God you and your friend were there for each other, or you may have second guessed your instincts

[@indigobeauty1]

You're Extremely Brave...Thank you for sharing.🍃🌿

[@RoXxIE2244]

I've always found so weird that agencies feel like they own their model's modies, like you can't die or cut your hair or change anything about your appearance, workout, or eat however you like, have pictures taken by other people and so much more, it's just so dehumanizing.

[@Bamgeutcutiepie]

Geeeeez... just that tampon thing alone... (i'm not done watching the video yet) These people think they own your body. and they think of models as like a prop. a thing. they are so f'ed up. who would ever tell you that you are fat or not pretty. geez. you're like the most beautiful woman i've seen. i am so glad you made this video ! you are VERY strong for doing so.

[@CorrinaMusic]

Thank you for your truth. You and your friend did the right thing. If you’re not sure, never go through with it. It’s not worth the risk.

[@ND1966p]

I’m a make up artist, I don’t do loads of fashion but I do more tv, but I’m so glad for you that you got out of there, you poor girl Thanks God you’re ok! You seem a very intelligent articulate girl, I’m sure whatever you do you’ll do great, I wish you all the good luck and good fortune xxxx 🇬🇧👍🏻❤️

[@stickynorth]

Thank you for making this video. As someone who has PTSD and anxiety issues, on top of being an INFP personality in general, I can relate to a lot of what you went through even though it happened in different aspects of the entertainment/media industry so thank you once again for sharing. The more people know about what happens to you and in general the horror stories that happen the less power they have in general to rule our lives. And thank you for reminding us we're never alone! Keep up the good work! Peace and love from the NORMALLY frozen great white north, although last week I survive the fatal Pacific Northwest heat wave that killed a few hundred citizens and kept me in bed in front of fans for 8 days straight. ;-)

[@May-uh3mi]

Please make a part 2 its very eye opening

[@readingbythefire3167]

Thank you so much for speaking up Alexandria. Slowly but surely, models start to talk about the way fashion industry can exploit them sometimes, use them like they were just lifeless dolls and the whole pressure it creates on self-confidence and body image. Your story highlights a very dark side of modelling (just as the stories about eating disorders it can bring out) and to me, it points out two facts : it is an industry, so its goal is to make money and, it seems, at any cost. And two, it seems pretty misogynist and patriarchal. They want you (us, I speak here as a woman, not a professional model) to be gentle princesses. But we will be warriors. Take care xoxo.

[@1984-o2d]

That's the downside of being reall attractive and successful. People try to use you and take advantage of you as a status symbol rather than liking you for your individual self. That guy who said they can always just get another hot blonde sounds to me like he was always chasing after those "hot" girls and now that he has some power over them he uses it as revenge

[@rebeckasvensson838]

You are a brave, strong, intelligent and intuitive woman and good that you and your friend listen to your stomach, telling something is wrong. The stomach never lies, and it felt weird from the getgo, and you handled everything so good and you took care of yourself. Never doubt yourself when it comes to your feelings, its your life and you are free to make your decisions just the way you want it. And the anxiety thing, I can so relate. Its almost like one overcompensate for the anxiety and one think like everything is like just "regular" anxiety and just needs to be breathe through but it happens to be that your body is signalizing and telling you something is off and its hard to know the difference sometimes. But good that you are safe and I wish you the best!

[@hilaallnaturalsoaps9628]

You are brave and sweet ! women in their 20's are still naive . Thinking about things I did in this age - I am so lucky nothing bad happened . It is very important that you have made this video as a wake up call to other women in the modeling industry and not only - also women in general. I think the other model should also tell the story, I think you should go to the police . what huppened there was clearly criminal , this agency should be investigated

[@illiniheel67]

Amen

[@sirenaclark6051]

this is why i will never pursue modeling! im 5’9 and i weigh 130. i play soccer and am muscular and have abs but i would literally he told to thin down.

[@cya414]

you deserve to have the best life

[@LayneFable]

walk less!?

[@slamminsam6xoxo]

You are a strong ass woman. Keep going your going to change the world. It’s hard to find real ass people like u.

[@delicateBruise]

Oh and also I feel like I could see and feel your heart and soul throughout this video and its beautiful.

[@DanaeAlmeida]

What a strong woman, so inspiring!

[@lorrilewis2178]

Several years ago, there was a documentary on new models. They'd all moved to New York at the same time and came from everywhere. What they went through behind the scenes was definitely low key abusive. They would get conflicting instructions from different people at the agency, continual criticism, and they had their looks insulted on a regular basis is they didn't fit the job. It looked anything but fun.

[@TheHomeMadeHappiness]

yo not knowing where you are going would give ANYONE anxiety you need to stand your ground get aggressive and get all that INFO UPFRONT. Be strong, do not let people take advantage of you. PUT YOURSELF FIRST.

[@rosalynvargas17]

You're amazing. Can you please make videos on insecurity? So many women deal with it

[@alanaycock]

You were absolutely right to refuse to go to the private airport. Your instincts were right on the money. The model agency should never have put you in that situation, and the fact that they wanted you to agree to a shady job is a sign that they only cared about the payoff and didn't care about you as a person. It must have taken a lot of courage for you to speak out--you have integrity.

[@danielajimenez6049]

you are a REAL women! keep strong, keep working hard for your dreams and always remember who you are. I know great things are coming for you. God bless you beautiful!