Blaire White & Dylan Mulvaney - a BAD influence for the TRANS Community?! | EP. 5 | The Blake Debate

[@kenzi.h]

I’m a transwoman, the day Dylan said normalize the bulge was a total disprespect for women and didn’t represent in any point of view my way of living after transitioning..

[@lynnm6413]

Dylan isn‘t gender dysphoric, obviously, so he had no understanding of why that set off all kinds of red flags 🚩

[@auouraschannel5230]

I hust don't think Dylan is trans. There's no way. I've seen other trans people and they don't treat being a women as a colossal stereotype. Then we look att he fact what Dylan was a gay man, then trans straight and now identifys as a lesbian... There's no way Dylan is genuinely trans. I think it's all for attention

[@lynnm6413]

@@auouraschannel5230 same. It‘s really obvious, too, that he isn‘t taking hormones or having a boob job….after all, he got enough money for it, didn‘t he?

[@auouraschannel5230]

@@lynnm6413 indeed. But TRAs will defend Dylan while saying you can tell fake trans against real

[@amandayoung8564]

Aww you have to take me time and take time out no apologise needed for me time. Glad your doing well and feeling better ❤❤❤❤❤

[@pgoodwin230282]

If Blaire White was the one sponsored by bud light I don't think they would of had the backlash they had with Dylan Mulvaney.

[@minime7375]

True, she’s way more on brand.

[@loumac]

I thought that too. If they had Blaire, at a game, with friends, drinking bud light, no one would have complained. Dylan is just awful and not trans. Just a fame whore.

[@toodlescae]

Possibly because Blaire doesn't insult every woman and transwoman by making a mockery of us all.

[@Notyouraveragemomster]

Agreed

[@daughteroftime8047]

She's not mocking women. That's the difference.

[@mrmr4622]

Dylan is an obnoxious fame chaser who on numerous occasions was making a mockery of women with misogynistic stereotypes and yet is somehow embraced by corporations, that person is absolutely working against trans acceptance and not a good role model for anyone

[@itsacarolbthing5221]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@deedee7733]

I feel a bit sorry for Dylan Mulvaney, even though I find her terribly irritating. She has a "unique" (ahem) personality, but I don't think she means to cause offence. ADHD on steroids, basically.

[@goodforthesoul3050]

I agree

[@willownighthawk9189]

9

[@foxibot]

@@itsacarolbthing5221😊

[@Garlicandonions]

Blaire white and Dylan mulvaney shouldn’t be uttered in the same sentence 😭 Blaires a queen Dylan’s a fool. Incomparable

[@KatieLHall-fy1hw]

Right?

[@vanessarussell7048]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@DaddysBaby79]

Exactly

[@sabrinaquarles1289]

Blaire White is a QUEEN. I had to say it louder for the people in the back

[@haleyoneil9172]

I said the same thing they don't even belong in the same sentence!!!! That infuriated me because Blair is NO DYLAN and DYLAN COULD NEVER BE ANYTHING NEAR BLAIR WHITE....

[@just_passing_through]

Blair White. No. I don’t agree with her on many things, but overall she has a positive impact. Dylan Mulaney. Absolutely. 100%. Nothing he says or does in any way furthers the trans community. “Day one of being a girl, and I’ve already cried three times, I wrote a scathing email that I did not send, I ordered dresses that I couldn’t afford and then when someone asked me how I was, I said ‘I’m fine!’ when I wasn’t fine.” I’m not even a female, but I found that so insulting to women. That’s a parody of a woman, not a woman.

[@turquesa_8056]

That was meant to be a parody and when he saw the attention it got him he decided to turn trans because he liked the attention and it has turned out very profitable for him.

[@lynnm6413]

@@turquesa_8056 you took the words of my mouth…the only thing Dylan has ever wanted to be was ‚famous‘…not ‚female‘

[@just_passing_through]

@@lynnm6413 Agreed. Broadway didn’t make him famous. Game shows didn’t bring him notoriety. TikTok didn’t shoot him to stardom. But pretending to be trans did, so he ran with it… and ran, and ran, and ran.

[@chuiduma]

You hit the nail on the head of the issue with Dylan. Aside from the high potential of Dylans transition being more of a money/fame grab than everything else, the days of girlhood tiktoks completely co-opted any previous discussions about trans people. That series blew up so much that it made it seem like every single trans person saw being trans as the adoption of gender stereotypes for the opposite sex. It made it seem like trans people saw the opposite sex as a set of stereotypes they could adopt and then claim to be a member of said sex. People saw how profitable it was to demean trans people and the opposite sex, and jumped on the bandwagon. I wouldn't be surprised if the "trans women are actual biological women" rhetoric also stemmed from Dylan mulvaney. like from the tiktok singing about how some women have bulges. I really don't like Dylan. I'm a woman who does not generally fit normal stereotypes of women. I work in a male-dominated field and am more capable than many of the people I work with. I don't generally like wearing dresses. I don't freak out and run away from bugs or prance around or do pretty much anything promoted in that tiktok series. But it doesn't make me any less of a woman. It's frustrating that not only has Dylan amassed a fortune by making fun of women, it was also by basically making fun of trans women by presenting them as daft and out of touch with reality.

[@turquesa_8056]

@@chuiduma When I was younger I was the same and we were called tomboys. Not sure why that disappeared. My niece gets asked all the time if she is trans and she isn't but she just thinks boys clothes are more comfortable.

[@vixtex]

Dylan Mulvaney is not Trans. He is a female impersonator.

[@giovannirastrelli9821]

Career grifter exploiting the trans community.

[@amandayoung8564]

💯 agreed

[@giovannirastrelli9821]

@ColoradoMilkHe’s a spiteful, vindictive, passive aggressive troll. He has doxxed and sent his howler monkey fangirls after several women who criticized him online and refused to kiss up to him.

[@reneep.1978]

He's a total fame chaser; gay not trans

[@jaynebee8361]

Not a great one at that!

[@dustinlenzo444]

The reason is that i am here. Blair white. If it wasn't for her, i would have never been as understanding as i am or as accepting. Blair reaches a different audience, same thing with Buck Angel. Same concept. They are not judgmental and rude to people who have no understanding of transgender issues. The transphobic label gets old when people just dont understand or have never been around it to know anything. Blair has a way of being a "normal" everyday person, same with Buck. I appreciate the work they do. I am a middle of the road person and can be very open-minded thanks to people like them.

[@brittanyjean6600]

Same

[@Fairydivas974]

I agree with you, I follow them both.

[@karenherrera8482]

I agree

[@Skywohka]

Buck made a claim recently that a vast majority of trans women are AGP while denying that it exists mutually for trans men. Seems weird. Buck is getting a little terfy. He had a very worrying guest on his platform recently that - if exposed to the wrong people - could do a lot of harm. I worry about Buck’s influence.

[@kristenkidd3982]

​@@Skywohkawhat does AGP mean and also what guest are you referring to? I love Buck so I'm curious who he had on and why

[@TC-cr2oy]

Dylan sees women as a skit. When she did Budweiser I think the company thought it would be embraced by women. But Dylan burned that bridge before it was even built.

[@chilltarts]

Clearly you mean “he.” Words mean something, so stop fence riding. It’s not doing anybody any good. Dylan Mulvaney is a female impersonator- that is *not* the same thing as trans.

[@ximar0ckstrx]

Exactly this. I believe if they had a trans person more like Blair, there wouldn't have been such an intense backlash

[@Whitewolf1827]

Most people in usa that r beer drinkers in usa are rednecks aka republicans who are anti lgbtqia+ so it isnt good for them that a person in our community get represented on beer

[@chilltarts]

No surprise that my comment got deleted. This new YT censorship algorithm is funny as-all-get-out 😂 But what I HAD SAID was, “Words mean something, so stop fence riding. It’s not doing anybody any good. Dylan Mulvaney is a female impersonator- that is not the same thing as trans.” Is that better, YT? May this comment stay, oh God-daddy of the social media web? 🙏

[@TanyaRando]

I love Blaire White. Her view doesn’t always translate to the trans experience in the UK, but I love her attitude. Can’t stand Dylan, they’re a parody of a trans person, very insulting to women in general.

[@lilpopism]

I find it insulting when trans women complain that they’re getting a “period” like no woman wants their period, 90% of us have some for of reproductive disease such as adenmyosis, endo and pcos. There’s is likely gas and I’ll gladly give them my period cause if they actually experience one they wouldn’t want it

[@mrmr4622]

Actual trans people should be insulted by Dylan too, making a mockery of the whole thing is not ok

[@haleywhitten1947]

What I love most is, she’s open to having Conversations… She doesn’t ask that you agree with her beliefs or her thoughts on things, but she respects the right for everyone to have different different opinions and all she really wants to do is protect kids.

[@ReginaTrans_]

I love Blaire but she seems above all traumatized and kinda lost, when she says trans kids are not ok, it doesn't come from a place of being concerned but a place of jealousy that they get to pass 100%

[@moon83star30]

Exactly!!!

[@Disney65Fan]

Cant stand Dylan Mulvaney

[@belaferrr]

One thing about Blaire that I think is really positive is how you can click on any of her videos, go to the comments and see people writing 'Blaire, before I discovered you I thought all trans people were this and that, but now I see that's not the case'. And that's a very positive thing in my opinion - she made so many people on the more conservative side of things realize that trans people aren't a monolith; some you're gonna agree with, some disagree with, just like with people in general. It seems so obvious but it's a very important first step towards looking at a group of people in an actually humanizing way, right? And I don't think that someone liberal of the, say, more blue hair and pronouns disposition would be able to cause that change in all of those conservative people.

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

This!

[@mrmr4622]

The blue hair genderless blobs actually are causing the opposite reaction in most people

[@harmonymiller1211]

It's an irony. The "blue hair and pronouns disposition" have done more to make me NOT want to support LGBT people. Then I come here to watch Alexis and she is calming - just like Liam said and I think - she has my full support. She just gains support by being a good person not demanding "YOU MUST RESPECT ME OR ELSE!!". That kind of attitude is a turn off regardless of who is saying it.

[@teresagibson4946]

I think those who say they are under the same umbrella as trans people have more of a negative affect on the trans community. Blair seems grounded with a more realistic stand point. As do you. Dylan I've not watched her content in some time. Mostly when it went from her trans journey, to an almost cartoony, silliness of an adolescent girl.

[@DanielleStarry]

The blue hair pronoun liberals have only succeeded in chasing off their fellow liberals lmao it’s wild

[@emmasalinas1227]

Women see Dillan as making a mockery of womanhood. Blair is a lovely lady who tell the truth. People like you and Blair are the good for the trans community I respect you both because you educate people on the realities of your situation. People like Dillan want to force the LGBT agenda down our throat in a trashy screaming disgusting way and that is harmful to all communities not just the trans community.

[@meredithchapman2009]

This is how I feel about Dylan. I have always thought they were making fun of women.

[@user-nb8tk6hh6x]

That’s because Dylan is doing that exactly,

[@DaddysBaby79]

I agree

[@candidapple]

moneeeeeey

[@christaylor4120]

Hiya , Do you mind me asking Whats your other job

[@technicoloryaya549]

I completely dislike Mulvaney 100%. Because, though you see comedy, I see a person parodying women on purpose. It is insulting on a very real level. So, yeah...

[@Raz3477x]

I would argue he parodies both women and trans women

[@technicoloryaya549]

@Raz3477x ... I can't speak for trans women. Though I do agree, I agree from my limited understanding of what being a trans woman is. He seems to be a trans hero of some sort, though I can't imagine why.

[@RuTibbs2011]

Blaire is the only content creator I still follow from my far left teenage years, she can be a hard pill to swallow if you can't understand her viewpoint at times, but I appreciate the lack of sugar coating and understanding why the non-LGBT+ community take issue with current topics. Not a fan of Dylan because of the over the top performative content, feels like a grownup theatre kid :D

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

Dylan is absolutely a grownup theatre kid lol, tried for years to make it big as a flamboyant gay actor before finally hitting the jackpot on TikTok with the "days of girlhood" thing.

[@fn2901]

I’m only up to 20mins in and the part where you ask am I part of the problem? NO!!! You are part of the solution! Intelligent, rounded conversations without the screaming, hate and victimisation is what the trans community desperately needs, because the awful stereotype that is being created by a lot of trans rights extremists is what is creating more transphobia than ever. I don’t always agree with Blair White but Dylan Mulvaney brings the trans community down tremendously. There’s a big difference between behaving like a woman and acting like a woman. Especially a misogynistic, moronic stereotype of what being a woman means. Love these discussions! Keep up the good work, both of you.

[@haileyranson8255]

I totally agree with you! I feel so much more positive about trans issues than I did before I stumbled across Alexis' channel. It's so obvious she's just a genuinely kind and beautiful person. We need more of this on the Internet for sure! ❤

[@jude-zd9ms]

Blaire White is a great example for the Trans community, cause she is actually proud of being trans. She is not out here saying ‘Trans women are women’ she’s saying she is trans and happy with that, she’s not trying to be anything she is not and knows who is she. That kind of confidence demands respect.

[@auouraschannel5230]

The content i usually get from shorts is trans people literally screaming, defending "MAPS", sefending death threats, calling for restriction to speach and just being genuinely aweful people. Im glad i fou d your page and Blaires. I sometimes watch Buck and a few others who genuinely give a damn about others.

[@candaceewell9582]

Omfg YIKES! I made this comment on someone else’s comment but it fits here too! I call it TikToxic or ShitTok😂 so vile! But, WTAF?? No, no and NO on defending MAPS! There was a therapist who we got together and took down who was one and he was like what’s wrong with it? It took TikToxic WAY too long to take him off! A good few months of reporting him and finally creators demanding him being removed!! Waaaayy too long!

[@JennaIsOverIt]

Marcus (The Offensive Tranny) makes good points and points it out as well

[@kimmykimak3737]

Dylan Mulyaney is absolutely a insulting to women!

[@lilpopism]

I don’t see Blair as a bad influence, if anything she calls out the toxicity of those who are not genuinely trans who throw a tantrum when people don’t read their minds. I used to follow Dylan in their early days but they started more and more to make a mockery of women and some of the things they’ve said are just outright insane.

[@archgirl7797]

She is a bad influence in a lot of ways though. Notably the fatphobia is incredibly toxic

[@mrmr4622]

@@archgirl7797 I'd say being extremely obese AND glorifying it is far more toxic

[@powerpuff_avenger]

@@archgirl7797 She is harsh on it, that's a given, but the fat positivity movement should be banished (pro-ana too btw). Excessive fat (or bones, so including extreme thinness) should not now and never be celebrated! You are not healthy at every size and you never will be. People need to take accountability for their poor eating choices. And before you start crying, I'm a fat person who's trying to lose the weight to get to a healthier weight and lifestyle. Not to say you can't be healthy in different sizes, but those shapes are the menopause mother of 2 who quit smoking and the girl with lipedema who still works out 3 times a week and goes for 5km walks 2 to 3 times a week, NOT whoever stuffs an XL fastfood restaurant menu down their cakehole 3 times a day or more and then has the audacity to cry on tiktok over not being deemed attractive by anyone with their 150+kg.

[@trenae77]

@@powerpuff_avengerPoint on! There are heavier people out there who ARE healthy. You watch their lifestyle and see them making conscious decisions towards a healthy lifestyle. I remember when Queen Latifah was the spokesperson for WW and her platform was “Become a Size Healthier” and that spoke to my core. I myself will never be an ‘ideal’ weight according to medical charts or what-not. I have a very dense bone structure, and have actually had a health professional tell me that it will always off-set me by a good 20 - 30 pounds. His recommendation to me was “Pick a clothing size you feel represents where you want to be; when you fit that, then you will be at your healthy weight regardless of the numbers.” I currently have a lovely little black dress in a size 14 hanging in my closet that I pull out to remind me - that’s my goal. As a current size 18, that is SO much more emotionally attainable than relying on the scale.

[@woodsideasil]

My personal opinion as a straight white female. I don't think we as a whole have a problem with anybody being who they want to be. For instance on the bathroom debate. I wouldn't have a problem with blaire or yourself coming into our bathroom we can tell you are genuine and would enter unnoticed even.I would not be bothered even about a gay male either as we know they are no danger to us. But we have to draw a line. We cannot open our spaces just for anyone. This is not being transphobic this is just trying to keep people who are not genuine out. For our safety . Blaire/ Buck and yourself make us able to understand how you wish to just live a normal life. The likes of Dylan is not, he rubbed me up the wrong way the very first time i watched his content. I love watching Blaire she was the very first person I came across when wanting to educate myself on the whole trans debate followed by Buck Angel He also is such a honest guy. Your content is also very helpful Bless you are so sweet in not wanting to offend anyone . I love watching your debates for both sides. xx

[@bryanteresabushar8294]

I enjoy you very much. I also like Blaire White. I appreciate how neither of you are trying to claim womanhood. Dylan Mulvany on the other hand is dreadful due to his behavior & demanding things.

[@kropka8259]

I was following Dylan and tried being supportive, but it started feeling like a joke after 365 days of ''being a girl''. The next tiktok said something like ''now onto becoming a woman''... yes... it took you a year to understand how to woman, you earned your badge, onto next level now. I feel like Dylan as a theater kid is cosplaying Kristin Chenoweth. I cannot undee it.

[@meggie5714]

That smile when Liam says that he loves you was so adorable!! *edit* Love your content btw

[@LisaTagaloa]

Liam is so onto it when he talks about viewer perception - there’s a huge spectrum of critical thinkers and reactors, projectors, looking for entertainment, education, validation etc etc - when we don’t know how to see ourselves, can’t reflect, look at our own behaviours through a critique, own what we say and do, know when we’re unleashing our own pain onto others without having an understanding of how to soothe and navigate it ourselves etc … we run the risk of being a megaphone for our own cycles and vacuums of thinking. Having you both be here, unpacking your own content alongside other content creators shows me you ARE growing from reflection and being deliberately thoughtful - and bringing us along for the ride. You and Liam have a great balance. The only niggle I had was it felt like you were interrupting Liam often. All in all - you’re defs one of my fave trans content creators Alexis. Kia ora from Aotearoa!

[@nycketajo149]

You normalize the experience. So many of us live very conservative. And you come across as the lady next door. Very down to earth. And people gravitate to that.

[@Wildpoppygirl]

TikTok is absolutely terrible for the trans community. It’s truly disgusting to see all the screaming and causing a scene in public places. The most minute thing sets them off. I feel for the trans community who just want to live their lives and as you say “just be a person” because those TikTok’ers are detrimental to the community. Btw I absolutely love you and Liam and your content ❤

[@candaceewell9582]

I call TikTok Tik-Toxic or Shit-Tok! It’s bad for everybody 😂I was addicted to it for awhile but it was making me rage watch etc! Hate it 😅

[@Shadow_Dragon2453]

I think the main issue on why there's more negative content towards "trans" (I say that in quotations due to the fact that the majority of those crazy tiktoks aren't really trans people, there's something else going on there.) is that the real/non-crazy trans are scared to speak out against the craziness due to being ostracized by a cult-like mob, so it leaves the crazy loud minority to keep making more of a bad impact. That's what I think atleast.

[@lynnm6413]

The trans community need an exorcism in regards to the AGP‘s, instead it‘s gonna end very badly

[@haileyranson8255]

I think you're completely right. Alexis needs to keep doing what she does! It's like a public service at this point 😂

[@phyllistaylor4381]

Watching you gives me hope that people can be reasonable and kind. Other content creators can give me quite the opposite feeling.

[@tiffanytiffy2tls609]

A few things: I am a Christian woman who votes along conservative lines. I appreciate yours, Blaire's, Buck's, and Marcus' content. I was unaware of gender disphoria(?) before so I didn't understand transition. I'm sure we would disagree on some things, but I appreciate that you all are open, honest, and vulnerable. I also greatly appreciate that along with your personal experiences all of you give facts. Yes, Blaire, and even Marcus, can be abrasive. But I am much more receptive to someone who can back up their position with solid, objective, proven facts instead of calling me horrible names because I don't agree with them. Dylan: My feathers as a woman do get ruffled over Dylan's content. They do play a hyperbolic, caricature of womanhood. Also, I do feel like they have taken over women's spaces between their partnership with Tampax and winning "Woman of the Year". (Btw, I was also against Caitlyn Jenner receiving the same title.) Furthermore, when you do a deep dive into Dylan, you find numerous videos of him (when he identified as male) acting over the top to get his 15 mins of fame. And the way he acted then is the same as they act now. So to me it's disingenuous. Budweiser: Lastly, there are many reasons for the backlash over the partnership between Dylan and Budweiser. Some of it is prejudice, yes. And honestly it's hard to say how much since I can't see into people's souls - lol. But there's more to the story than that. The marketing executive who pushed the partnership, was said to want to change the whole consumer base of Bud Light from your stereotypical blue collar working class to the LGBTQ+ community. People took offense to being told their long-time consumption of Bud Light was not appreciated nor wanted anymore. And some people didn't like that Dylan referred to themselves as a "girl" and behaved in a juvenile way, as it could lend itself to pedo_______ ideations. All in all, I do feel the prolific spread of misinformation and demanding nature of those who are activists is toxic, especially to people like yourself, Blaire, Buck, Marcus, etc. who genuinely struggled with a severe disconnect between your psyche and physical body. Which is why I am grateful that all of you, and those I haven't discovered, are willing to speak up. Please keep up the work, and thank you!

[@micknotfromleitrim]

It's refreshing, you're genuine people, you're not totally reductive politically, no culture war +/- woke/anti blah...(almost unique) you have empathy, you're kind,(again almost unique) you both seem to have the ability to not be drawn into the hate. So much hate, it's astonishing and awful. Anyway lookit, I wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart, your channel IS a breath of fresh air as others have commented.

[@cherie5133]

8:47 Most people, myself included, just rolled our eyes when Dylan came out with the Bud Light ads. It wasn’t until the Alissa Heinerscheid interview became known that it ignited the boycott. It was the interview that really set people off and Dylan became the poster child for that interview. It also didn’t help that news media and publications laid the blame solely at Dylan’s feet and never mentioning Heinershit’s remarks. It’s as if the media wanted people to rage against Dylan and that’s what happened. If you ask anyone involved in the boycott, they will tell you it’s not just the Dylan ads, it was the Heinershits interview that ignited that whole thing.

[@chloedemure]

Yup she insulted the whole Fan base with her fratty etc comments. Dylan was icing on cake i think. I think a trans man may of been a better choice

[@kitsorcerer]

Yeah. I don't like Dylan at all but the whole bud light fiasco is the only time I will defend Dylan. Dylan was hired to do a job and Dylan did it. Would you get angry at a doctor who didn't save a life because the patient had a "do not resuscitate" order attached to them?

[@lynnm6413]

For me it was Dylan being invited to the White House and advocating for ‚gender affirming care‘ for minors aka mutilation of healthy children… Atrocious

[@cherie5133]

@@lynnm6413 I had forgotten about that. They weren’t even that far into the transition at that point yet speaking as though an authority.

[@lynnm6413]

@@cherie5133 besides the facial surgery, Dylan hasn‘t transitioned one single bit more since then. He isn‘t transitioning, isn't taking hormones, isn‘t getting a boob job…wanted to normalize ‚the bulge‘… Yep, he isn‘t trans, just chasing fame

[@kim2306]

I like the longer format. I listen to it while working! I feel like I'm hanging at a friend's house listening to a mature, and civil discussion.

[@teresalatiolais8477]

Oh me too

[@alishabale2275]

Same

[@cherie5133]

37:33 Would love a long podcast, I like to listen while I work. Maybe you can clip a shorter section from the longer version to satisfy both. I am in America and would love a live, preferably on the weekend. Love you both ❤

[@Diablo_Himself]

Shorts are designed for people with no real attention span.

[@tonigafford2435]

The Bud Light boycott was just the final straw. The general public, from what I observe, is simply tired of being called names and getting preached at by people like Dylan. Self-promoting, condescending and insulting to women. I am not gay or trans but I love your channel and Blair’s as well. People like you are telling the world that trans does not have to mean all this lunacy.

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

"don't include me singing" Liam: *includes Alexis singing* bless you both never change 🤣

[@sarahdavis560]

I'm glad you are feeling better. I have been ill, found your vidoes, and spent hours watching your previous content. Alexis, you are eloquent and very enjoyable to watch. I can easily see you on a couch on a national tv talk show. Keep up the good work. Both of you!

[@missymother]

Love Blaire, hate Dylan.

[@ophilianecr]

Alexis, im a Bi latina woman and i can tell you that the rhetoric from Gender activists has become intertwined with so much of the marxist ideology. To the point where people who are LGBT and POC are being silenced and disrespected. A couple of days ago, my EX (straight white male) found it acceptable and necessary to mansplain, whitesplain and now, straightsplain my own community to me!! Aside from being called a hateful terf. This was because i said that xeno genders and their pronouns (cupcake/cakes, void/voiself types) weren't real; as well as saying that t/ men and t/women needed their own spaces and categories that reflect their valid journeys. Something is wrong when straight people silence other LGBT as Allies that don't experience our journey. See, i personally don't give a F**k about what the heteros think about us. I'm here as a BI woman, for OUR LGBT community and our history, legitimacy, spaces and for the predecessors who fought, bled and died during the AIDS epidemic so we could exist and love openly. So yes, i DO take personal insult to people who are co-opting and mocking our pain, dysphoria, anger and our lifestyle by invalidating and dissmissing it in favor of a free for all. You and other people who transition are not the same as somebody who wants to legitimize bug/ flower/ cake genders without dysphoria or any type of transition. Neither is it acceptable or respectful to our homosexual brothers and sisters that people are trying to guilt trip them into sleeping with people who don't meet their personal homosexual standard. Im here for OUR community to remain respectful of each other. Afterall, by DEFAULT of our acronym being LGBT, we had the acknowledgement that we were each valid, different and deserved our own spaces. So too should it be for men and women. Being equal doesn't mean being interchangeable♡♡♡

[@amberatartimec2564]

Love your eloquence

[@JennaIsOverIt]

Liam is 100% on the perception of the viewer. Please continue to just be you. I appreciate you calling out the bs because we have so many people (not just trans) who identify with a group and refuse to acknowledge anyone in a group can do wrong. Its not part of the problem. Its showing youre a free thinker and NOT part of the problem

[@MountainPrincess207]

I think people like you and Blair are positive people in the community I think people like Dylan who is just a mockery of women, the TikTokers that just yell and threaten are definitely negative. As far as length of video I think it should be whatever the topic is. I think some topics can run long and some topics are very short just see how it goes I watch both long and short depending on my time availability or the topic so I think you do you and the rest fall into place.

[@Spiritarlc]

Ive found you on KZbin, I don't do tiktok, you make me feel like home ☺ In my experience growing up with a trans aunt and her friends, your way of thinking is more the norm when it comes to the real world then what we see online, please keep doing what you're doing, your content helps people see the real side ❤

[@theresas2520]

Their voices need to be heard much more instead of what's currently happening.

[@saliamae]

Alexis, you ARE really elegant and a real Lady. I love listening to you and watching your content. And Liam is very true: You aren’t screaming or yelling and I love that about you. You are making a positive impact in that community. I honestly absolutely dislike Dylan. That person (can’t say she, but don’t wanna misgender), is really hurting women and also homosexuals. How can a homosexual just switch to heterosexual (Dylan said they are into women now, after being into men), and just switch around!? Didn’t the lgb community fight enough the last couple of decades!? Just don’t like Dylan.

[@JherricaHarris]

It is hard to find content that is very up lifting and educational at the same time, I have realized that certain content on KZbin really affects my mental health and is not healthy for me. I realize there will be content for transwomen that will be comfortable and I am learning that when its informative and not all negative I can handle it better. Thank you both for making content enjoyable and not toxic

[@Chaos_Inkarnate]

Since coming out as trans, MtF, I can say Blair White is the one I watched a lot. She is more down to earth, Dylan on the other hand seems he enjoys the fame and money he is getting. His videos does not seem genuine at all, and like other commenters have said, he just comes of more mocking women and what a woman goes through. I would rather learn and watch people like Blair White or yourself because of more down to earth videos and not pushing trans ideology. Love y'all both.

[@candaceewell9582]

Buck Angel (FtM) is great too and friends with Blaire. I find Blaire a little too harsh myself but she says what everyone is thinking about!

[@Chaos_Inkarnate]

@@candaceewell9582 Yea i have watched some of Buck's Videos as well. Love his reaction vids

[@Lemonade_Stand_]

It's funny though because Luxeria and Roly both despise Blaire White. I do find Roly and Luxeria entertaining but i dont think they share the same lgbtq+ (more specifically trans) views as people like Blaire White, Buck Angel, Marcus Dib and Alexis. Edit: Sarah Higdon is another lesser known one who is very well spoken.

[@misslucyyy]

I haven't watched to episode of the podcast yet, but I wanna give my take. Do I agree with everything Blaire and Dylan have said/done, no, however, I think they both have been overall more positive then negative for the community. Blaire is a KZbin ICON, she's one of the og trans content creators and she's opened so many people's eyes and educated on important topics. I also feel that she's been a trailblazer for showing being trans has nothing to do with politics or ideologies, and although I don't agree with all her takes, she is incredibly compassionate and understands the importance of perspective of non trans individuals. She's inspired so many other trans content creators and trans people in general, to realize they can share their voice and opinion especially on the current state of the community being incredibly lose and unfocused on what being trans ACTUALLY is. It's not about collecting pronouns, it's not trendy, it's not common, it's a very rare and unique experience that transsexual men and women go through, and it shouldn't be open to anyone. She's humanized us by calling out the bs in our community, and she's never afraid to speak her mind and her truth, which is why she deserves all the respect and flowers in the world. Dylan, now unlike Blaire I'm not a huge fan of her content but I do follow her on Instagram. Her personality is just a little too peppy for my liking, but I think even with all her controversies she's been a very important trans woman in social media. She literally has documented her journey with HRT, facial hair removing, her FFS, passing, dealing with gender dysphoria, etc. I can't think of another person who has shared their journey to the extent Dylan has and the thing is, she doesn't just show the glamorous parts she has shown herself with a full face of stuble without makeup, etc. Even with some of her antics personally being cringey to me, seeing where she started to where she is now, she's grown into such a beautiful girl and overall she's shared her experience in a way that's unique and unheard of previously to her.

[@cherie5133]

I love the way you describe Blaire and wholeheartedly agree. I can respect what you said about Dylan. I’m not trans and I find it impossible to get past the cringe to see what you see. I also find myself insulted, as a woman, by Dylan. Maybe I need to look within myself more on this next one. I have no problem sharing my “female space” with trans women, it’s the men hijacking the trans movement and pushing themselves over women that I have a problem with and that’s kind of how I see Dylan.

[@marylacken4016]

​@@cherie5133exactly!

[@jamesadams8975]

Love your videos. ❤ As far as video lengths, I like a variety. Some shorter, some longer. And I agree with Liam that you're calming. I'd say so pleasant to watch and listen to. You could do ASMR. (Maybe not straw sounds lol). Thanks

[@jaxxvictoria6802]

I just recently found your channel under a Blair video. I'm a (cis) female who often seeks content from Trans creators in order to educate myself from many viewpoints. I must say, you are an INCREDIBLY calming source of information. I don't feel talked down to, I don't feel excluded from the conversations you're having, and I don't feel like I'm being pandered to while also being mocked. I deeply appreciate your content, and especially appreciate that it's something I can listen to without feeling like I HAVE to look at the screen every 10 seconds to see why someone is yelling about something. Thank you for doing what you do. ❤

[@paulanadinemcmenamin7775]

Watching from Northern Ireland! ☘️ would love love love longer podcasts! ❤️

[@misslucyyy]

I do think there is a lot of crazy trans content creators, but also there're many who have been amazing for education and representation. Some of the best that come to mind, Ts Madison, Blaire White, Samantha Lux, and ofc Alexis you're so amazing and a breathe of fresh air. Being a tgirl, I love your approach to discussions in the community, you remind me so much of how Maddie has always been very insightful, empathetic, and understanding of all sides. I love Blaire, but she is too hostile or intense at times, and I relate and love the way you discuss topics so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@ClementineDaydream]

I’m like Liam and enjoy the longer form content! I listen usually while I’m working or doing chores and such and it’s nice not to have to scroll or think what I’m gonna listen to next so frequently

[@aiwxo]

I think the biggest thing that comes across is that Alexis comes across as genuine and engaging. You're someone that I would sit and have a chat with about anything. I can't see me sitting with many other trans creators just because of their personalit.

[@jeremybrett208]

Petition for Alexis to start an app where she reads us bedtime stories.

[@krisb6665]

I love listening to you. The first time i watched you was through a short you just happened in my feed. I enjoyed listening to you so much I searched for your content but couldn't remember your name. Trust me, it took a while for you to pop back up in my feed again, but i made sure i subscribed, so i didn't lose your content again.The point to my story is please dont doubt why people enjoy watching you. You have a great store to tell that will help anyone who is confused and looking for being normal. You are a wonderful person who is a great role model for ANYONE and that my dear is special!

[@toby9871]

I think there are three category of trans influences. The once like Alexis who are sweet and don't want to step on peoples toes and just wants to live life as she is. Second group is trans people who love all the attention and think by being loud and controversial they will win people over. Then the third that by far is the most damaging in my opinion. The non binary who in some cases put themselves above trans people and are riding the coat tails of this debate. Its narcissistic and absolutely in my eyes the reason trans acceptance is down and by proxy gay people. Absolutely way more layers in all this, but at a surface level this is how I see the issue. On a ending positive, I think you are a breath of fresh air Alexis and I enjoy the content you put out.

[@lotuslove6753]

1000 %

[@ximar0ckstrx]

Liam's description of watching/listening to you is perfection. He got it exactly right. I love listening to you and your daily life. Your opinions are logical and constructive and youre a voice thats needed in both the trans community AND the womens community as a whole.

[@jacqulineball2284]

You do need to take a break every now and again. Trans community can be very threatening towards women. And that's not what the REAL trans or original trans community was about. Luxaria is another Brit I follow. It wasn't controversial. You get the respect, cos you involve the girls instead of taking from us. You are that normal person with difference. You should have been on bud. I can do an hour. Roly and Luxaria go for it. Fellow gamer here!!

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you yeah I feel much better for it now! xxx

[@irishcoffeetruecrime]

You Alexis are the only reason I have changed my mind about the trans community. You have undone all my negativity towards them. Thank you as a mother of a gay son who just didn't get it. ❤❤❤

[@clairenicklin4714]

Alexis , content like yours gives a great representation of Trans life and the journey we are on. It's the dopey activist and in my opinion bonkers tik tokers that Buck and Blaire pic highlight are the problem. Keep up these great sessions as they're great x

[@almisery]

Many people who call themself trans are not really trans. Right now, it is a fad and people are jumping on the bandwagon. You, Blaire White, and Buck Angel provide positive content that is informative and relatable.

[@KatkichiIsAria]

Just got here! You and Mr. Blake look absolutely lovely Mrs. Blake! Love your content! (Sorry about the "Mrs" part. I usually address people older then me with honorifics out of respect 😅)

[@Alexis_blake00]

Welcome aboard! and aww thank you so much

[@monicabloomer8021]

I ABSOLUTELY AGREE!!! Especially with Liam when he said you are so much easier to listen to and you aren’t so in your face shoving certain beliefs down people’s throats. That is the exact reason between you, Blaire White and Buck Angel have genuinely made my opinion change about the whole transgender topic!!! LOVE YOU!!!!

[@Galaxymoon36]

Blaire is amazing, Buck Angel is amazing but villain Dylan is awful

[@chrisb7142]

RE: handling the demands of working full time and being youtubers: I'm a big proponent of the school of thought, if something isn't working for you, then pivot and try something different. Don't get hung up on having been wrong about what you thought would work or having made poor choices. Pivot and move along....move forward. Love your content.

[@christinaseela6690]

I have been watching Blair for 6 years, and to be honest before watching her I only seen Trans people as angry, loud, hateful toward straight people. But when I started to watch Blair she changed that, I saw a Trans person who wasn't any of those things, and she wasn't trying to be something is not. And yes Blair can be bunt something harsh, but she is always truthful in her content. I enjoy watch level headed Trans like Blair, Buck Angel, You, and Marcus, because I believe that all of you are a wonderful influence for the Trans community. And we need more Trans to be more positive and then it would out weight the bad.

[@haileyranson8255]

Youre so right about this! I got really involved in the discussion about trans people a few weeks ago because youtube was pushing all the negative trans videos and i was seeing Blaire White and Buck Angel all of a sudden, and it sucked me in. It was all so negative! But then you started popping up into my shorts and I was attracted to your videos because youre British like me 😂 but also because youre so friendly, good mannered and approachable. You feel so relatable and it was a relief to find a trans person who is just a nice, normal person. I think youre a balm against all of the crazy trans influencers now. Before i found you, i was starting to feel very negative and less supportive of trans people because all I was seeing was the whole extremist trans movement. You helped remind me that 99% of trans people are just like you and its important that we dont let all of the screaming drown out the truth. I think its very important that you keep doing what youre doing! Youre doing a very important job in my opinion. Youre both so relatable and seem so kind and accepting. I wish I was friends with you for real because I feel like we are already 😂 im from Durham in the NE of England so that makes you feel even more relatable because we live relatively nearby! Love you both and the channel ❤

[@t.n.9720]

You both are part of the solution, just like buck,Marcus and Blair and others relatively "mild" creators. It's so important to show "normal" trans people that says "this and that does not represent us, we are not like those screaming, taking womens sports and pushing kids people you see. and we want to live normal happy lives". You two together are a great duo. I like this length videos 😊 I like these podcasts, and don't work yourself too much.

[@danialethompson9406]

At 18 minutes Liam says the most accurate things. I like hearing what you have to say vs someone who is screaming! I wish more people communicated like you do ❤

[@lisawhereisthecultjam]

Thanks for talking about your crying jag. I had one last week that came out of nowhere and it completely freaked me out. I ended up taking a few days off work and sleeping a lot and I feel much better now but I have been feeling guilty about it. Your words have helped me realize that I did the right thing by caring for myself.

[@brontetaverner]

Long form content is where it's at. I'd love to hear more from you two!

[@shantiplants]

This is the first video Ive ever seen of yours. I completely respect the fact that you self analysed your own content, with others while polling and listening to various views, it's so refreshing to see someone not just judge for the clicks but to form an opinion for the purpose of being a good influence.

[@karaalsup23]

Dylan YES he absolutely is but Blaire no! She's based and honest! She is anti this woke BS. I'm good with Blaire.

[@Echo3_]

18:40 there is class in your content. You care about things that you talk about . Your kind and thoughtful. There is also a genuine aura of positivity and humanity to what you post. You are easy to like. ❤ PS: West Virginia, USA Eastern time Zone 😊

[@carloslint9914]

Once I read a commentary that synthesizes what most people felt about Bud Light regarding Mulvaney: *Keep your politics out of our beer*

[@amyseney2555]

I love checking out your videos. If I'm watching so much negativity from both sides I start feeling bogged down with it. I go watch one of your videos and I feel so much lighter. I can hear and see how you react to things and your so fair and kind on both sides. Honestly you just make so much sense to me it just feels like you're using kindness and common sense to reach people. We need people like you in the world right now, your voice is so important and needs to be heard.

[@rajm35]

Level headed and elegant - Liam is exactly right, and that is why I adore you so much. I would also add gorgeous and engaging. ❤ If people I know are unsure about trans issues, I recommend that they watch your videos.

[@janaklein3518]

Elegant ❤❤❤ YES!! I think the algorithms push for maximum reaction. No matter how many times I don't like or report the dangerous or hateful stuff, it still shows up on my feed. I think part of solution. You do you without coming off as predatory or manipulative, Alexis. I like this discussion format - it sets a good example.

[@Sunmoonandstars123]

I wonder if the different formats on IG and KZbin impacted the responses. Your IG story accompanying the poll was a beautiful picture of you, and we all love you! Plus it’s social media, like TikTok. The KZbin poll was just text, so we weren’t swayed by how awesome you are ❤

[@wensiewlee]

Love your conversations, so inspiring❤ In my view, like many other situations, it becomes very exhausting when people start using a word or idea in a way that’s different from what it originally meant, either by accident or on purpose. This causes confusion because everyone is talking about the same word but actually means different things. It’s like trying to have a conversation about apples, but some people are actually talking about oranges. This mix-up can make conversations go in circles without really solving anything.

[@harmonymiller1211]

Oh sweeties - film when you need/ want/ have an inclination to. We'll be here. Yes I do. I'll answer it before I watch the video so I am not influenced. Blaire White understands that while trans rights are important they are not the only thing that is. She addresses issues that it seems the larger transgender community is either choosing not to address or dismisses fully (like people like Jessica Yaniv and their predatory behaviour or women's rights not being respected). As a woman I can't tell you how much i appreciate it. It's a large reason why I followed your channel. Dylan Mulvaney. As a person, he seems charismatic, outgoing and funny. But he really doesn't understand at all why his content is offensive to many women and keeps doing the same thing. It makes him seem fake and insincere, basing his attitude more on stereotype rather than reality and cares very little to change those qualities. He isn't as bad as some transactivists ( I am looking at you Blossom Brown) but he doesn't win people over or really educate people about the realities of transgender life. It just seems very performative rather than qualitative on Dylan's part making his transgender identity lack sincerity. I do wonder if in a few years he won't suddenly revert back when the audience loses interest. EDIT - I had no issue with Dylan promoting Bud Light. Beer doesn't have a gender identity.

[@carloslint9914]

DM's debacle didn't have anything to do with her being a trans, the problem is that people are sick & tired of woke agenda on television, movies, music, education, games and now beers/clothes.

[@ajo7009]

I like how you talked about both Blair White and Dylan Mulaney. I like Blair White even though I don’t agree with everything she says. I’ve never been able to stand Dylan Mulaney, but hearing you talk about her makes me feel more interested in understanding her. I still don’t like her, but, I feel more curious to understand what it is that she’s actually saying or trying to do. You’re a peace maker, in my personal opinion.

[@Proud_Aussie]

The reason I like KZbin is because I like watching people having discussions/debates about various topics (good, bad, positive, negative, many sides). I also like where people can show more of their genuine selves. I follow Buck Angel, Blaire White and various others when I go down the KZbin rabbit hole. These days there seems to be too much screaming or shutting down discussions, unable being able to explore all different perspectives without it becoming hostile or extremely negative. It appears the extreme activists are ruining many different communities and/or movements. I watched a video where a professor explained that social movements fight to get to a certain goal in the wider community but once that happens, then they don't know when to stop and just keep pushing for more and more. This is when things start to backfire and the pushback starts to happen. Example, woman's movement strived for equality and then now some parts of the movement want additional rights. This discussion was my lightbulb moment to understand things a bit better. Just my thoughts and thanks for your videos, these are great to watch.

[@Feverm00n]

Okay I’m adding my $0.02 before the video starts because I have no self-control lol. I feel like a big issue is people seeing any group as a monolith that can be represented by any individual person/s on social media. I have experience that is weirdly similar in terms of having embarrassing people “represent” me on social media against my will lol (tho as a bi lady the toxic LGBT “advocates” on both sides of the political fence also stress me out)… I have DID and there are a whole bunch of people making an *absolute mockery* of it on social media lately. And while it does REALLY upset and embarrass me, I try to remind myself that any competent adult who looks at these obviously misguided teenagers pretending to have DID & treating it like a friggin fandom and sees accurate DID representation, that misunderstanding is kind of on them. I want to believe that most rational, good faith adults wouldn’t take a clearly unstable, attention seeking, chronically-online teenager as an authority or accurate representative of people with DID. Tho of course I do still think their behavior is harmful to themselves and other kids who might see it and be influenced by it, but that’s kind of a separate issue. And then there’s the confidently incorrect online “commentators” who try to rip these kids apart and show how they’re faking but they’re equally if not more ignorant on the subject of DID and just do more harm than good by further muddying the waters… But yeah it’s crazy, if the traits of the people being toxic about their alleged DID and those who are being toxic about their transgenderism/LGBT status were put on a Venn diagram, it would be a circle lol. These two communities seem to be one and the same and it’s kind of fascinating. Same with Fat Activists, too. It seems to me like there’s just this type of person who gets drawn to any means of fabricating an identity they feel they lack, willing to deny/demonize the science & experts that threaten to expose their inauthenticity, desperate for a a community of people to engage with (and control), and who gets gratification from co-opting social justice language to shame everyone else into compliance with their delusion (often silencing/hurting legitimate members of a community in the process). They insist on putting the responsibility for their emotional wellbeing in the hands of strangers to maintain a constant state of victimhood. Honestly I’d love to see an anthropologist, psychologist, or sociologist study this phenomenon, because the pattern seems so clear with these types regardless of what trait they’ve decided to craft their identity around. Okay okay I’ll stop ranting now. I’m glad you took the time you needed Alexis!! Self-care is so important, and you set a great example by recognizing your needs and honoring them 💓 The Hustle Grindset or whatever is overrated lol. Hope you’re feeling well-rested now!

[@jackiewren87]

We all need a LIAM in our lives!! What a damn man he is!! I do agree, I watch your videos on the way home because you’re relatable and yes, soothing!! You dont push your opinions on people and you’re definitely not pushing this on children!! Our children are what we have issues with!!

[@h3adbag]

I never watched any trans content and one day was flicking shorts and I had Dylan pop up and next video was you. Dylan who disrespectful and comes across acting a women. Then you that’s respectful, understanding,to the point,as Liam said elegant, you do actually show trans people as totally normal. I think you’re a great influence and a great spokes person for trans. Keep being the fabulous women you are. Randomly I do find your voice very calming. I have a non verbal complex needs autistic son. I get very lonely and don’t hear anyone talk back to me for 15 hours a day while my partner at work. I’m always having a one sided conversation. I enjoy hearing you while I do the washing up

[@scarba]

I have an autistic daughter. I had depression through the isolation and people don’t get how hard it is. Try and join a support group and try and get respite once a week and go to a coffee morning or something

[@Liam_blake00]

awww hun that touched me that did, im a support worker in one of two jobs and I support young adults with autism among other things in college so I know from experience how that can be! Thank you for your lovely message

[@h3adbag]

@@Liam_blake00 oo that’s cool. I bet you’re a very good support worker. You seem a very kind guy. Keep being you guys

[@zenjen1295]

"Level headed, unique, and elegant " perfect description.

[@melbaraboo]

I love your content and hearing both of your perspectives on these issues. I think one of the big issues is that the trans people who are doing the crazy screaming stuff tend to be so loud they drown out the people like you and that's all people are seeing when in reality its not the norm. I also believe that for alot of those people and crazy activist they've realized that's what gets views and views equal money. If it didn't they wouldn't be presenting themselves the way they do online.

[@whereswaldo511]

Apart from your content in general just because I love the discussions, I absolutely love listening to you and Liam banter back and forth even more so when you completely go off topic and go on random tangents. 🤣🖤

[@suzannebarnett7158]

I am not trans but I do love listening to you, Blair, Marcus and Buck. You are all wonderful people who have put yourselves out there for all of us to learn from. However Dylan Mulvaney is not Trans and is simply mocking women. I find him so disrespectful and I do not believe he is doing right by the Trans community.

[@gilley69]

Glad to see you all back!!

[@faith-brad]

18:06 literally WORD FOR WORD describing me.. currently painting my wall while binge-listening-to Alexis 😂❤

[@dennisepeart5002]

Alexis, you're not part of the problem. Genuine trans women just want to exist and live their lives. Unlike the activists who want to dominate and control bio women. You have opened people's eyes to a different pov yet not at our expense. You challenge these videos but stay true to reality. You wouldn't be able to maintain if you were not being yourself on air, your mask would slip. You're a positive role model and can have a genuine conversation about trans and women issues. Stay true ❤

[@Thraxis]

I'm a US "conservative" and believe that adults should be able to live their lives as they choose, you and Liam are great and very thoughtful people and I think you guys are a great example of a supportive couple, the media and society tries to push things / people on the public and can have negative consequences for young people. Dylan was being shoved down America's throats when he bud light thing happened, as if this is what a trans person is, it was was just too much , and Dylan is very annoying and comes across as someone being a character not a real person

[@ourwayfarm]

I am a straight, conservative biological woman & mother of 5. My oldest son is gay & married to a wonderful man. I fully accept that some people are born different inside than outside & I support that 100% - when they are old enough to make fully informed & understood decisions. I do feel that there has been such a "push" to normalize the Trans lifestyle, that it's become a fad, or the cool thing to do, for many, instead of it being who they actually are. IMO, the issue many people had with Bud is that they glorified a single person, rather than a group. They didn't put MLK's, Chris Kyle, Tiger Woods, Peyton Manning, Rue Paul etc etc on anything. They put a new TT'er who was obnoxiously disrespectful of biological & trans women & men, & of young girls. No one acts the way she does. I know drag queens that don't act afool like that, even on stage. Dylan is not an example of what your lifestyle or mine is like. It's very hard for me to consider Dylan a woman, because "she" feels like a fraud. Again, jmo. I enjoy watching Blaire White & you. You're able to have adult conversations & thoughts & comprehension about what life is for biological & trans people. I applaud you & Liam

[@frankpierce8489]

O my God Alexis! You are NOT the problem and I’m sure you never will be the problem. I love your candid approach to sharing your story, experience, and journey as well as being so delightful and delicate and elegant. Please know that I think the two of you are great for our community.

[@reddragonready]

Case in point..I as a female and as a lesbian and even as a feminist..did not even register you calling Blaire a she, moment you started talking about Dylan and said "she..."..I immediately registered that AND it annoyed me that you did..( that anybody does) On a whole I'd say YES to are trans social media people bad for trans acceptance just because there are so many like Dylan. But I do think there is a very small group..like you, Blaire, Buck..who I would say are good for transacceptance

[@TheHPExperiment]

I will never see Dylan Mulvaney as a woman, trans or otherwise. Something I've heard many real trans people say that I totally agree with is that it's not only about passing, it's about the energy. Blair White and Alexis always give major womanly energy, usually calm and graceful and soft. The same with Marcus Dib and Buck Angel, but the other way ofc. They all just radiate the energy of the gender they want to be perceived as. Dylan Mulvaney gives MAJOR gay twink energy, NOT woman. Dylan Mulvaney is the worst. I cannot stomach using she pronouns for Dylan, it just does not fit.

[@miniscenesgb]

Blaire on the whole I like, Dylan - I turned off instantly. Alexis you are an excellent ambassador for the trans community. I'm a regular 57 year old woman and I've fund it surprising that there actually nice trans people like you. I now a couple of other trans ladies and from what I was seeing on KZbin, they were the only "natural" lovely trans people. Glad I found you and Liam - you have restored my faith in humanity. As are the other 2 trans women i mentioned.

[@sydneymcdonough8078]

Take a shot every time Liam says "we digresssss" 😆 Love y'all! Wishing y'all continual love, happiness and success!

[@foxgirlandteam4783]

I’d totally watch a live and content over an hour! Love you guys ❤