We're Leaving New Zealand & Going Back to California (or so we thought)

[@AlexanderAyling]

To clarify - we are not leaving New Zealand right now due to changes at the border. We were packed and ready to go but the border status changed due to the new variant and our plans have been put on hold. It’s been hectic. Luckily my family members health has stabilized for the time being. We will probably go over for a while in a few months. Lots of feelings right now. Thank you all for your kindness and support. It’s been a crazy year, with so many ups and downs but throughout it all you’ve been here. So I want to say a heartfelt thank you. Sending you all good vibes and lots of love. See you in 2022.

[@alejandramorales6896]

I hope you find solace in whats about to come and that you dont change your optimism. That's the best part of you and your wife, the optimism in hardships, so stay strong buddy and sending love to that loved one and you guys to get through this

[@joannewinter7879]

Prayers and best wishes to your loved one Alex. 🙏😘

[@nessierey6721]

Best well wishes to your family members and you&Carrie… serious condolences 💐

[@mdnickless]

When we made the decision to move to New Zealand, we realised that at times loved ones will become ill and die. We reached the conclusion that we were only ever a flight away. Inevitably we will miss events, but with enough will we could still be there for most of the critical moments. That was pre-covid, and it's a lot harder now. But we can only do what we can do, and we should not feel ashamed about what we can't do.

[@catherinecarr3506]

What a worrying time for you both and your family. Peace to you both over this special time of year. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Breathe in all that beautiful nature we are surrounded with, it is indeed life giving x

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[@donaldmark8251]

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[@giznamissao]

I liked your video! You talked about important things for our life! God bless you and your family!

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Gizna!

[@terryomalley1974]

Alex, heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. I can't even begin to imagine how traumatizing and disruptive this turn of events must be in light of the fact that you've just recently finally settled into your new home in NZ. But, family comes first. Always. So, I understand and, under similar circumstances, would make the exact same decision. Godspeed, my friend! Take good care of yourself, your wife and your pup while back in the States. All the best, brother!!!

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Terry

[@terryomalley1974]

@@AlexanderAyling You're very welcome, mate. Hang tough.

[@karenbaker3801]

Hi Alex, My heart goes out to you and Carrie and your extended family. Sending healing prayers to your loved one. It’s good you are able to go away in your caravan and both have a little time out to relax and look after yourselves. Lots of love.

[@amyfinlayson]

Hi Alex, sorry to hear you are going through a lot right now. I honestly am here to help if you ever need anything at your homestead. I am a dairy farmer so use to animals and things and house sitting. Just incase you need anyone as a back up i am here for you guys. Sending you and your family a lot of prayers. Since I lost my brother a few years ago i really value the importance of time in life and how we spend it. When times are good really enjoy it and when bad times are hard sit, learn and feel it. Really hope everything works out for you guys. Take care. Amy x

[@judyrau5309]

Sorry to hear, but you never know what will happen from day to day take care

[@juneterry8487]

It’s tough when a family member is ill and you are so far away. This Covid life is certainly putting everyone in a spin right now. Rest assured that your wider NZ community is prepared to step up when needed, so if we can do anything at all to help, just say the word. Take care and stay safe. 🌻🌹🌼🌺🌸

[@samanthaz341]

Sending love and light to you, your family and Carrie during what sounds like such a difficult time ♥️

[@lifeaschronicallyingrid]

Alex, sending prayers, positive thoughts, and good vibes to you and your family. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. Please take as much time as you and Carrie need to focus on yourselves and your families. Wishing you guys a happy holiday season.

[@terriwensley2824]

❤️ I have been through being far away when there’s a family crisis and every emotion you’re feeling is valid. You and Carrie are in my thoughts and praying your family member continues to be stable.

[@annajoie700]

I wish you and your family lots of peace, guidance and light during this difficult time! 🙏🏼💛

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Anna - your light is appreciated

[@anothertiffany]

Holding space for you, Carrie and your family right now. Thinking of you all!

[@dinalubin6498]

Thinking of you guys, Alex- I know how hard it must be to be so far away…but just know that your family member is feeling all the love. The love that no amount of miles or oceans can ever come between! Your online fam is right behind you all the way. Take time for you and all that keeps you grounded and serene. I’m sending love and light for a happy and healthy 2022.💗

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you for being here Dina 🙏🏼

[@jobuckham7208]

So, so sorry for what you're going through. That's tough... really tough. Can see how much it's tearing you up inside. Good to hear you're taking a wee break away. You so deserve it. Appreciate your honesty, vulnerability & respect to your family member. So very refreshing. Wishing you both all the best for 2022.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Jo 🙏🏼

[@fvmiller1193]

Covid, cancer, earthquakes, life in general has taught me that control is a mirage. You are right - connections with loved ones is meaningful and ultimately most important. Even before Covid, there was no guarantee of physically being with far away loved ones when they need you. Just know they will feel your support and whatever happens next, that love and connection will remain strong. I also hope the commitment to producing content doesn’t become too much. Take more time if that’s what you need.

[@dalewis5038]

Alex, I'd like to say that watching your videos isn't just to see your projects. I look forward to your "chats". I come away with such perspectives. As corny as it sounds you guys bring me joy...don't worry about content. I rather you be well, whole. Having traveled to see family I totally understand. Praying for you and sending positive prayers. Un fuerte abrazo.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you. I’m enjoying sharing more of my thoughts here and it’s nice to hear that you enjoy it too.

[@elahhale9057]

The ups and downs of living across countries.... The heart strings get pulled, and pulled hard in times like these. I feel for you both. We all want to be near the ones we love in sad times. My mum was a wise woman. She taught me to accept that, when you can't be there, you just can't be there, and that's all there is to it You're a wise man Alex, you speak wise words in every vlog. You know that love is the greatest power there is, and that power is energy. Energy that can be directed to be with whomever needs it. You don't need to be present to send your love. Yes being present helps US feel better, but the most important person is the one in need. Send your love, the love of compassion, the love of healing, the love of pure unconditional love. Love is all things. It can be everywhere and anywhere. Direct your love to your family member and rest assured in the knowledge that.... It Is Done. Have a great rest and time with the family you can be with. 💖🎶

[@christiegraham]

My deepest sympathies on the health struggles your family’s facing right now. It can’t be easy to just sit tight and wait but it’s all you can do. Wishing you all the very best - cheers from your neighbour, Australia 🇦🇺

[@robinmiller3209]

Knew you were going to make me cry. Much aroha to you both. Your words were powerful and it hit home. Life was put on pause for me for the last year and a half. This video has made me realise its time to get reignited with life and start being me. Time to grab that wheelbarrow, spade and my rocks and spend time in my much neglected garden. Thank you and kia kaha 💕

[@jasminefowler7599]

I’m sorry that you and your family are going through such a hard time right now. I hope that you and Carrie are able to escape to a place of peace and calm during this time and make it back to America sometime soon. Thank you for sharing both the ups and downs of your life.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Jasmine. We are taking the holidays to relax, unplug and recalibrate

[@geecee1288]

You and Carrie feel like family to me, so take this virtual hug from me and my son and all our love and support for the challenges ahead. Don't feel pressured to provide content in order to keep us, we'll wait for you both. Xx

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you so much - we feel the family love from this community. Thank you

[@GaiaNative]

You are a breath of fresh air in the way you talk authentically and tell like it is Alex. Thank you.Im heartened that you are a good role model for other men, who are more used to bottling things up. Im very sorry to hear about your family member and understand the difficulty of being so far away at a time you want to be elsewhere. Sending you and Carrie much love. Enjoy your holiday break as best you can in the beauty of the water and nature, which will help you both nourish your wellbeing and souls during this challenging time

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Helen 🙏🏼❤️

[@philhinco]

Heartfelt sympathies, Alex. I was in a somewhat similar situation a few years back, though it sadly didn‘t „end“ on a (at least comparatively) positive note as yours. I was on vacation in the US, staying with friends when my father passed away (after long illness). I had contemplated returning home early after his passing, but after talking extensively with my mother, as well as the friends I was staying with, we decided that it would be best for me to finish my vacation as planned. To this day I feel that it was the right decision, as it allowed me to keep my father in my memories like he was when I went on vacation, not how he was after his passing. My friends were also invaluable during that time. I hope you and Carrie can relax a little in the upcoming weeks over the new year, and I wish your family member a swift and steady recovery!

[@AlexanderAyling]

Hey Phil, I’m sorry to hear about your father. 🙏🏼

[@barbaramassey3787]

Thank you for thinking and sharing and caring. You are helping us all. May good things come to you.

[@eddiegreene7334]

Absolute best of luck. You guys share so much of your lives with honesty and venerability..that you feel like family members. Thank you both for that. Sending good thoughts and light to you….your not alone ever.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Eddie - we feel blessed to have such a big supportive family in this community.

[@sarahmcneilis9145]

So sorry you are going through such a tough time. I pray God gives you the strength to get you through. Heartfelt warmth and kindness to you both and your family. Hopefully your family member is soon on the mend.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Sarah

[@tanyaturuwhenua8667]

Feeling for you and your whaanau. In 2002 I had just been moved to Melbourne for a project by my company and four weeks later my beautiful papa was diagnosed with prostate cancer. It was a scary and incredibly distressful time. My company were fantastic, they sent me home for a time until we understood more about what we were facing. Fast forward to this year and the other day we celebrated his 87th birthday. A poignant time for him/ us as one of many firsts without my beautiful mum by his side who we lost in June. When we love so greatly we equally feel the pain of suffering loss or grief for those we love. It is a price I willingly pay. Wishing you and Carrie every strength and blessing for what the New Year brings 🙏🏽💕

[@dbltime]

Family first is always top priority. Best to you, Carrie and your family. Looking forward to your return whenever that is. Rest and rejuvenate.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you David 🙏🏼 family is what truly matters

[@patsymadar9862]

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Whanau during this time Alex and Carrie. It’s always so difficult to be away from family during times like this but know and understand we are with you in prayer standing in the gap for you. Stay safe and take care..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Patsy 🙏🏼

[@JohnFNagle]

God Bless you and Give you peace, not only for you but, the whole family

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you John 🙏🏼

[@sharontihore1585]

Alex and Carrie my heart goes out to you both at this time. It's not easy as you mention so far away knowing you want to be there my prayers of comfort are with you and your whanau

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Sharon 🙏🏼❤️

[@isaline831]

I hope that your family member is going to be better. It's not easy right now to do what we want with the pandemic. I send you positive vibes and courage from France to go through this rough period.

[@effie-Toronto]

Alex and Carrie I am so sorry to hear this about your family member. Sending lots of love, good thoughts and prayers for you, Carrie and your family member.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Effie 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@gabygaedecke2411]

Gentle hugs to you and to Carrie. Life is so hard for so many everywhere in this world right now, and being thankful for whatever light is in my life - well, it makes it bearable, you know? I find that the old adage of being grateful for the good times, good things, and the good people in our lives really matters.

[@ElaineAMalec]

My hope is that everything works out for you and your family. Stay humble and positive as you are. We will be patient. Take care of yourself and your loved ones.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Elaine 🙏🏼

[@sherillfranke1846]

Sending you guys a big virtual hug…I know you want to get back to support your sick family member. Sending love for all . Stay safe and healthy ❤️

[@bryanx68]

The solstice sounds really nice to do I can really use that right now. I hope your family member recovers. I know how you feel. My gf and I were planning to go to New zealand and I was telling important people to me about it and how it's such a wonderful place to be. But just last month my bestfriend and my grandpa passed away from covid.. even now I am still in shock. All those good memories hits me like a bulldozer everyday to my chest. We had a lot of dreams and passions and it is hard to carry on but we are doing our best to. Hang in there and I really hope they recover soon

[@agataschramm6856]

Fingers crossed for everything to calm down. I hope both of you have supportive people around 💕. Sending warm thoughts from Poland!

[@KiwikimNZ]

I’m loving the real, heartfelt video. I have seen your struggles this year and I’m sorry another hurdle has come your way in this journey. Life is not easy. It hurts to know those you love are suffering, however that Pain is a reflection on how much love you have for that person and aren’t we lucky to have that love in our lives. I have also had a pretty shitty year too, I’m struggling with this negative energy that has consumed most of us around the world, it’s been hard to stay grounded and not be consumed by the anger and hate that is out there, I have found myself being sucked into that negative vibration and becoming frustrated and annoyed myself, which is someone I do not want to be. It’s time to change my mindset and not let it consume me. Videos like yours today helped me to understand that everyone has their struggles and it’s a matter of working through them the best we can, that we are all in this together, we need to raise the vibration and support one another. I lost my beautiful dad to cancer six months ago, my health has not been great and I have three of my oldest and best friends all in a final battle with terminal cancer it’s been rough and emotionally exhausting. You said to look back on the year and find things to be grateful for, you are so right. Instead of looking back on this year with somber thoughts, it is more healthy for me to be grateful for the fact I was able to be there supporting my dad in his last days which was a special time time some do not get to say goodbyes, that I have been able to spend time with my friends, that I have had the opportunity to tell them “I love you “ and let them know just how much they have influenced me over the years, to reflect on the wonderful and fun memories we have shared. Due to facing so much loss, I have been able to see how much richness I have gained in my life because of these people. I have wonderful memories to treasure. So it is not a loss, just a time to say goodbye until we are reunited once again. Everyday that I am alive is one one day that I am closer to seeing them again. Appreciation for life and gratitude for the blessings in my life is the mindset I will go out on at the end of 2021, I don’t think the rocky road is over for any of us yet and to be able to get trough, we must be strong, remain focused, manifest positive outcomes, stay grounded and come from A place of gratitude 🙏 I truly pray for you and Carrie your family member and your extended family, it’s hard being so far away from our loved ones. My aunt, cousins and their children, who I lived with as a child , who I love like a mum and sisters all live in California too, I miss them terribly and I get anxious that there is so much distance that separates us, so I can understand how feelings of sadness and frustration at not be there right now. Thinking of you. Enjoy the summer, get in that water and let it heal you. Soak up the beauty of nature here in New Zealand I think the break will be good for you. All the very best for 2022! Xxx hugs x

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you for sharing your story here. Wishing you all the best in 2022.

[@KiwikimNZ]

@@AlexanderAyling thank you for listening. All the very best x

[@nomaddownunder2837]

Praying for your family member's fast recovery. It's summer here.Relax, unwind, enjoy and please show us NZs beautiful beaches.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you 🙏🏼

[@RoNFphy]

Alex and Carrie. I am sorry to hear about you going through this. I know it will be tough not being with them but just know your thoughts and prayers are felt and mean so much to them. I hope you have as much of a great holiday season as you can and take of yourselves. We will see you in the new year.

[@karinwtfont]

Oh, Alex & Carrie, I was really hoping this wasn’t the situation for you and your family. You had mentioned this family member’s health issues a while ago and I’m so sorry they are dealing with this. I will definitely be praying for your family. Sending love to you all.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Karin. We are staying hopeful 🙏🏼❤️

[@auntbeck9447]

So sorry to hear about your family member’s health issues and sorry that you can’t be with them in person. I know Winston is happy you will be sticking around. We will look for new content from you whenever you are ready. No worries!!

[@SamSam-yb3ls]

Mate, it's been full on for you guys (it seems to a viewer), and I hope you're able to take some time for yourselves and breathe. Wishing your family member health and good energy. I hope that when the world opens up again, you're able to see your loved ones again and I'm sure you'll cherish your time with them. Here's to a better 2022 for all!

[@avasthename]

I’m so sorry to hear about your family member, but I agree the best thing we can do is spend time with loved ones. I wish you all the best. The homestead will be there when you get back. Sending good vibes!

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Ava 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@avasthename]

Awww I just got to the end of the video. :( That is such a tough situation! I’m glad you’re all figuring out what the best moves are. Best to you and your family.

[@afroditetsantekidis4377]

Oh Alex my heartfelt sympathies to you Carrie and your family. Life always brings us these curve balls to test us, but you are right loved ones are important in life as is time we spend with them. Sometimes in this materialistic world we forget what’s more important in life. I wish you and Carrie and of course little Lanka all the best and health to your loved one. Kindest Regards Afrodite.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Afrodite ❤️❤️

[@zakaiacvitanovich]

Hey Alex, sorry to hear about your family member. It’s really tough when that happens. I’m a kiwi living in the UAE since 2006, and I’ve experienced the same. The sense of helplessness can be overwhelming so it’s great you have the support of family and friends there. I hope your family member continues to improve. All the best for 2022.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Zakaia - 🙏🏼❤️

[@jessicaremyhiguera3331]

Sending you both lots of love and good thoughts ❤️ I also live far away from my home country and went through something similar a few months ago so I understand the heartache and I am so sorry you have to go through that! I will tell you what I have been telling myself over and over in the hardest moments : You can’t change the wind, so all you can do is adjust the sails, and have faith! ❤️

[@ericproulx8473]

So sorry to hear about the health issue in your family. Hope things improve. I admire your attitude through this. Happy holidays.

[@marciabsb1]

Alex and Carrie, sending prayers to all go well. I do believe everything will be fine as long as you put love in everything even on sad moments.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Marcia. Leading with love

[@hayitovbekzod9268]

It must feel hard not to be close to your family member who is having hard days. The only thing we can do in that case is PRAYING. Think about good things. These moments test our durability and endurance. I hope everything will be fine with you and your close ones bro, take care.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Hayitov

[@natashabramwell6697]

Sorry to hear this. Relax, keep positive. Sending healing thoughts to your family.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Tashie

[@lynnerussell1647]

Prayers and hugs to you and your families for only better things. Enjoy your well deserved hiatus. A chance to refresh.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Lynne 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@omalleysmith9100]

Steady on, Dear Ayling family. I've followed you for years, and I am rooting for you all, and sending positive vibes across the miles from Alberta, Canada. xo

[@sharontaylor8521]

Thanks for sharing your sensitivity and vulnerability…it’s not an easy time for anyone…and being away from loved ones is a challenge! Hoping you can get back and spend time with them! I admire your bold move to create your own life … we have done the same by moving from Canada to Spain …and the people have been so kind and welcoming! Hugs from afar! Hang in there! 🤗

[@sheilad5321]

I do understand how awful it is for you Alex and Carrie. We went through a bad time with a brother dying in the UK. I'm in NZ, one of his sons is in Barbados, and the other son is local to where my brother lived. It was the start of the first bad outbreak in the UK and nobody was able to see my brother for months. He did not have Covid, he had cancer but covid changed everything. Both of my nephews reached out to me with helplessness, shock and disbelief. Hang in there, you will get heaps of support and I think the most important thing is to look after yourselves. You can't change anything else. Don't be afraid to embrace the sadness and let yourself have those feelings. You'll be wiser and stronger and you will get through this. I will be thinking of you both along the way.

[@thirstymercfan]

So sad to hear these difficult challenges you are facing. The uncertainty of the boarder opening in NZ is very challenging, I hope they have some clarity on this soon so you are able to be with your family. I agree, appreciating the people you spend time with is most important, looking after yourself and mental health is also just as important. Stay well, best wishes to you and Carrie for 2022 😍

[@mariena7383]

Sending love, warmth and energy to this beloved person as well as to you, Alex, to your family and to Carrie ❤ Taking time for you while you wait for borders to set you free is a good idea. We wish that you'll be able to reach out California soon.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Mariena. We sincerely appreciate your positive vibes

[@susie2157]

Hey Alex I am so sorry for what you are going through. I do believe in the supportive energy of people who have your back and just know there are so many of us caring for both of you

[@Tom_McMurtry]

I just hope everything goes as well as it possibly can from here Alex. Thanks for your warmth and soul always.

[@60greyhairandsparkles21]

Oh Alex, my heart goes out to you at this very difficult time. Being so far away from your loved one is so so hard, especially when they are not too well. I am from the UK and when my Mum became ill I felt such a long way away, it is hard. Taking time out and being with family sounds like the best thing right now. If you need a back up home sitter, I’m here, or help with Lenka I could mind her. Lots of love, hugs and healing thoughts to you and yours ❤️

[@AlexanderAyling]

You know all about it then. Thank you for the kind comment. 🙏🏼

[@60greyhairandsparkles21]

@@AlexanderAyling thank you for your reply, you really didn’t need to. It was hard but I did get to fly home and see her, however times where easier then travel wise of course. self care now, to the ocean sounds good ❤️

[@KristenMelissa]

Alex, I am wishing for you and your family the most positive outcome to your situation. All of the positive and healing energy. 🙏

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Kristen

[@christinecarr7505]

Sending you and your family healing vibes. Remember everything is perfect and where thing need to be. I lost a family member recently from a distance so I can understand how you feel being so far away. Keep your vibration high. One Love!

[@tazzcopping2798]

Sending you both lots of hugs at this difficult. I understand what it is like to be away from loved ones. I am grateful that I have made some great new friends this year.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Tazz. I’m glad you’ve made meaningful friendships this year, they are so important to have

[@kirstinstansbury2017]

Hi Alex, I’m so sad to hear that news and gutted for you that you can’t be with your family right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your unwell family member and wishing you all the best. I hope you and Carrie get that kiwi summer downtime you deserve x

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Kirstin 🙏🏼 we are grateful

[@OnelovexOneheart]

You, Carrie and your family are in our thoughts. It’s so hard when someone you love is dealing with health issues. It can be a very helpless feeling but your presence (even if it may not be able to be in person at this moment) and warmth will be a great comfort for them, just remember that ❤️

[@theoblivious2]

Prayers and blessings to you guys. Here's to a better 2022.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you!

[@MrKokoboy]

Family first brother, Aotearoa will always be your other home apart from the US, I wish you and Kerry safe travels.

[@politta]

I sympathise a lot with what you are going through, with my whole family also out of New Zealand. I wish you and all your family all the best 🙏

[@nataliegrimson2397]

I can't imagine how difficult this situation must be for you and your family. Sending you best wishes and I hope your family member makes a full recovery 🙏 All the best for 2022

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Natalie 🙏🏼

[@jontyr475]

Alex and Carrie, so sorry to hear that your plans have been delayed. Sending love and best wishes. Catch up soon, Love Ian & Raewyn

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you! We will catch up soon 🙏🏼

[@christineelderfield3680]

Just so sorry Alex that you can’t go just yet and hopefully your family will get through the treatment so you get to be together sometime soon🥰🥰

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Christine 🙏🏼

[@renatanovotna3070]

Thank you for sharing this sad news! Sending lots of healing energy and love 🙏🏻

[@gemmabenson6426]

Sending love and light to you all, life has many up and downs and your story and also videos between yourself and Carrie are so uplifting, I live in Scotland and it’s been a challenging year, I think being kind and open is everything, we are all humans and all have our struggles but that is what makes the up’s so great. You both should be so proud, you have moved half way across the world and are starting a new adventure, but home is also where the heart is. Family is everything. Safe travels and all the very best leading up to Hogmanay, peace and love Xxx

[@sarahs1708]

So sorry to hear that your family are facing a challenging situation. I hope you enjoy the rest time that you have coming up over Christmas and New Year. Perhaps your family member will take some positivity/ good vibes from some of the things you can share from New Zealand by remaining there, like the nature and animals, the beautiful scenery, the calmer pace of life, just like the rest of your audience do. Keeping everything crossed for a positive outcome xx

[@MsImaneS]

Prayer went up for you and your family! hope to hear good news in the next video. Take care!

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you! We know the one upstairs is listening and hearing the prayers from this community. Thanks for sending one for us

[@anahappy6153]

Wish you everything will get better soon! We are with you! Support!!

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Ana 🙏🏼

[@babyyodarules1341]

Hey Alex. Sorry to hear that. Hope your family member continues to stay stable and gets better soon. Good luck with the border situation

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Dave 🙏🏼

[@fionahislop2889]

All of our love and good wishes to you and your family member who is ill. It is soooo very hard being far away and feeling powerless but your family is right in that you should stay put for now. You are ready to go at a moments notice and they know you are there for them. Kia kaha x

[@simonabordeianu4637]

So sorry you are going trough a difficult time. I can relate to your story as I went trough a similar situation last year and this year as well. I am a Romanian National living in the UK . This year actually was worse because i got very ill and I had thoracic surgery . One day before my surgery unfortunately my father passed away. Couldn’t even go to Romania because I had to recuperate from surgery. One lesson I learned is that life is short and we should spend it with our loved ones. Appreciate everything you have and be grateful.Stay strong Alex! Positive energy floating your way.

[@shevelgonzalez2974]

Sorry to hear about your news ….I hope 🤞 that it all works out for the best and pray for your family member, take care 🙏🏻and rest.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Shevel 🙏🏼

[@emilymary1436]

Praying for you and your family Alex! What a heart breaking situation but you both made the right call. 🙏🏻

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Emily ❤️❤️

[@maryangelasouza1919]

Manifesting positive thoughts for you and Carrie and your family 🙏

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Maryangel 🙏🏼

[@Sdc68]

Take care, my thoughts are with you and Carrie

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Shilpa

[@queens6583]

So sorry your family member is ill and that covid once again has changed our lives. It sounds like you have wonderful family surrounding your loved one so take solace in that. Thank goodness we have ways to connect and see each other through technology so take advantage of that. You can be part of the healing process even though your not physically in California. Having lost 3 family members these past 3 months, I understand worry and pain. Have faith that things will improve for your loved one and the borders open again soon. Many prayers coming your way.

[@andreitaalvarez1987]

I hope you can find peace and calm in these uncertain times. Thank you for always being so candid and genuine, Alex. Happy New Year to you and your family. All the best!

[@libbygarcia6354]

Wow what a turn of events. Praying for your family members and you all.

[@mrs.rochester299]

Sending you and Carrie all the love, hope and courage that you may need at this time.

[@nevillenepia574]

Peace and Love Alex to you and Carrie. May your eventual travel plans come to fruition. Be well guys and Stay safe.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Neville 🙏🏼

[@thatgirl_Devi]

I'm so sorry to hear about your relatives health and how your plans were put on hold. I hope they get better and hope you and Carrie remain healthy 💖

[@trish59100]

I have only just starting watching some of the awesome videos you and Carrie have been making. You are awesome people who share the best of yourselves. Life is always going to throw you curve balls and often it is not till years later that it make sense. Get to your family and trust that you will return. Take a little bit of Kiwi love with you there if you do go and don't feel guilt if you need to stay, You must feel so torn between staying and going. Kia Kaha

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Trish - yeah it was a tough call to stay but for now it’s the right one

[@hannamarton1989]

There's a lot of noise out there. You're SO right dear Alex. I wish you luck and strength for this hard time. Sending thoughts and light to you and your family. Lots of love from Bavaria, stay healthy and safe.

[@mrsmoss4127]

So sorry to hear about your family member. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. May you and Carry have a Blessed Christmas and a relaxing New Year.

[@shenlun]

Our thought's and prayer are with you, my Kiwi Brother.

[@puggawompy]

Sending you and Carrie strength and a cool head, definitely not easy to make the decisions you have today, especially one around the condition of a loved one and the distance you are from them. May the winds of fortune blow kindly on your family and that things improve for the coming days and months, take it easy and hope to see you guys on the old Youtuba-ma-tron again soon. 😊

[@caddyzig]

Sorry to hear about your family member’s health problems. Take care of yourself and stay positive. It sounds like a vacation and a change of scenery would be a smart idea so you’re safe, healthy, and prepared to move forward however you need to. Thanks for the update.

[@jonas.zehnder]

Sending you both and especially your family member a lot of love, strength and prayers. Glad to read in the comments that meanwhile the health situation stabilized. Lovely and inspiring vlog segment. Enjoying the holidays with my grandparents in south Italy and really enjoying the time with them and seeing them again. Love you Alex. You’re a real inspiration and great human. Apart from the stress and hectic times I wish you happy holidays as well and a happy new year.

[@danielmanske8950]

Wishing you all the best for the New Year! Praying for your family. We are the couple who spent 18 months in New Zealand from February 2020 through August of 2021. We are adjusting to life back here in Berkeley. Best wishes!

[@jehanc]

Understand how you feel. In November last year, my mum was sick and was about to go home but was not able to come back from Malaysia because of the lockdown there. So we decided to stay and on 30 November 2020, she pass away. Sad but we, however, cannot do much then pray and remember our love for her

[@ynotegg]

Hey bro. I hope things are ok with your family back in the states. Just know that I will be keeping you, your wife and family in prayer. It's always a pleasure to watch you speak about things that matter in life bro.

[@wendyfranklin4646]

Hi Alex, I am so sorry you and Carrie are going through this. My mother passed away in Canada in August (the same day NZ went into lockdown) and I was in the same predicament. Do I go back to Canada without knowing when I will be able to re-enter NZ. It's a heartbreaking decision. I decided to stay in NZ and almost five months later I am still trying to emotionally deal with not being there for my family. The only piece of advice I have for you is to be kind to yourself. There is a pandemic and everything is out of our control. Your family and friends love you and will understand. Sending you and Carrie light and love at this challenging time.

[@AlexanderAyling]

Thank you Wendy. I’m sorry that you had to go through that. Sending love

[@wendyfranklin4646]

@@AlexanderAyling Thanks, Alex. I hope you (and your family member) are doing okay. Hopefully it won't be too long until we can get back!