DEALING WITH A BREAK UP, RELATIONSHIPS, LONELINESS, WEIGHT LOSS ETC | Get Ready With Me!

[@kimberlywoodfork1340]

I've been married 30 years and there's no 50/50 because in that case why would I get married because that sounds like a roommate situation. That's really nonsense to me. Will the real men stand up!

[@saneisha3450]

Thank you I'm 31 been married for 6 yrs and I always say this 😊

[@taneishabrown5806]

This is how I prepare for your videos, I get all my house work done, ensure that my son is sleeping, shower and then sit down, eat and relax. There’s no other way to do it and of course, liking the video first as well.

[@AliciaKim]

Love that! 🤗

[@liveandlove2501]

Same .....the only difference is that I have a girl and not a boy😂

[@yvonneyoung7620]

​@@AliciaKim you and Boo we're so lovey dovey I can't fathom what's the problem maybe it was posted and I didn't see anything I'm so sorry for the breaking up it's a 😮crucial situation.♥️❤️🙏

[@mandysingh7670]

Hi Kim, I have been following you for a long time, seldom comment. But this post just hit home for me. It took me; after 43 years of marriage to find myself. I was in a very controlling marriage. Girl I am so at peace, as we have been separated 9years now. I love my space & current living status….single & happy. I won’t change this for anything or anyone right now. Your post is very interesting, you are a great content creator, love your videos, keep it up hon, I will always be a constant supporter. Don’t move if you can help it, it doesn’t matter where you go, the memories, good or bad will always be with you. You have done an awesome job with your current living space, I love ur choice of all you have done to make ur apartment look so homey & comfortable. Stay safe, be happy sweet Kim & here’s wishing all that ur heart desires. Love 💕 & blessings

[@samanthascott1533]

There is nothing wrong with starting over Kim. My heart broke when you said you have no one here. Those are words that I have uttered myself..

[@Resilientqueen-c1b]

I enjoy my own company. I love being at home and cooking and eating with my small family.

[@JaliciaNotes]

Same here❤

[@marviav3071]

A man entering a relationship must be a provider. It is your job. However, the female can also help with bills, etc, to make sure the home runs ok. 50/50 no, shouldn't be the standard of the relationship.

[@milandbennett3465]

Talk truth

[@gisellelittle5898]

Some of them man them to selfish

[@KeshawnaBonnek]

True ! But good luck with that

[@LifewiththeBennettss]

​@@gisellelittle5898u can say that again...cheap ass them be...

[@Iamshavonechalon]

VERY TRUE! ❤

[@Marstoinfinity]

50/50 is a no go. Also I never discussed that with my husband in the beginning, it was just natural, like a woman following their role, just same as man follows his

[@roshham5129]

50/50 a room mate business, a man should be a provider, I prefer to be alone if that’s the case.

[@mints5420]

Exactly, 50/50 is you paying and doing for yourself, so you may as well stay by yourself.

[@shannaspiritualoasisgrant5252]

This is it girl

[@epicureanatheart3239]

Agree​@@mints5420

[@mykilaughs5768]

You are amazing! You are wise beyond your years! I am particularly blown away by your unruffled ,very authentic demeanor. Your decision to leave things in the hands of the Lord is so admirable. Do just that Kim-angels are watching over you! From one Jamaican to the next-you mek me feel good! You tallawa! You are unstoppable! You go Kim!

[@NicholeDunkley]

I enjoy being by myself cooking new recipes and no man to piss me off

[@lindawallace3461]

You truly evolving into a beautiful person with grace and humbleness 🙏❤️

[@jillianwilloughby8956]

Kim I also believe so much that self love is the hardest 😢I always struggle with my many imperfections.

[@pattreac3429]

Blessings ❤🙏. Your setbacks are for Strength and to pave the path for new. Where there's New Wine there's new freedom.

[@nyashawilliams4668]

Yes ❤❤❤❤❤

[@sonyabarnes3398]

Silent cousin here Kim!. Always enjoy your vlogs but this one got me writing. Continue to inspire others even in your trials and remember the will of God will never take you where his grace cannot keep you.....go forth God got you, your path is set for greatness. I enjoyed the make up lesson if only i had the skills....Much love x

[@Sheheart3]

Such wisdom in pinpointing life issues and keeping going in spite of what life brings is amazing and could not be acquired without going through things in life,it’s growth and maturity. You are on it. Thanks for sharing 😊

[@mandaskitchen91]

Kim i enjoyed this chit chat and my heart melts when u say u have no one there..just know that the big up crew will always be here with u❤

[@alib180]

I always want to see you in person just to give you a hug & tell you how much I enjoy your videos ❤

[@lyndaclarke9279]

I agree with u 💯 Kim I don't believe in the 50/50 I'm on your side the way u explained it.

[@right7082]

Kim, I love how intelligent you are. Great video.❤

[@JacquelineStewart-zq4qc]

Kim you can be a motivational speaker❤

[@Sukii-b]

Kim girl. mi started watching your videos yesterday, and now I'm in love. I've been trying to find a youtuber that feeds and help inspire the woman I want to become and I am proud to say I have. thanks girl.

[@erinbarrow4819]

Blessings kim you're looking amazing don't let no one steal your joy

[@GenuinelyMarie]

Good to see you, Kim. Im so glad that you're doing so much better. Keep moving forward. God Bless!!❤

[@altheadehaney5362]

Baby girl I’m here like a proud aunty, I love your growth, I love your journey, I love the person that you’re becoming and I’m so, so proud of you. Love you 😘.

[@audreyscookingandlifestyle7874]

Kim, i love this video so much. This is what i am trying to do. I gave myself to my husband and kids and forgot about me and what i love, i am taking care of me now and forever.

[@cherryhenry4111]

Looking good Kim.

[@genuinetoya]

Kim, you are glowing ✨️ no matter what continue to hold up your head and be strong😍 God is with you❤

[@AliciaKim]

Thank you!!

[@Kay-Dean]

Hey Kim! Happy to get this chit chat video. Enjoy watching your videos alot sis!

[@nadinerutherford7931]

U are such a strong woman!!!! U are not alone with the starting over my dear.

[@ky8084]

Well said Kim...very valid points shared with us .Thank you and continue to be YOU.

[@robertaphillip2084]

Alicia I must say that you have the skills of a therapist! So much of what you said resonated with me! Thanks for reminding us to love ourselves! Blessings ❤❤❤❤❤ keep doing you!

[@thealliaross]

You’re glowing! Always has been! You are strong and resilient. Your best is coming, Alicia! ❤❤❤

[@RR-yi8qg]

21:13 this is it! I find that walking has helped tremendously with my fitness lifestyle. I was working out since 2020 and in the latter part of last year and earlier this year, I just could not find it in me to do the same thing everyday again. I realize that I like variety so I’ve been going on walks, doing Pilates, HIIT classes etc. just switching it up and breaking routine

[@happyphillylove8759]

You're looking rejuvenated. You're wise beyond your years .. As it relates to sharing the bills a discussion needs to have before payment time .. my husband and I do well together, what he lacks I got and what I lacks he got .. Kim , greatness awaits you ❤❤

[@sashagayegray4225]

Super intelligent Kim

[@loveshan9868]

This is the therapy I never know I needed❤

[@nyashawilliams4668]

Amen I like that getting more closer to god yes sister Alicia Kim.

[@AliciaKim]

Yess

[@simonemeikle4751]

I can agree 10000% you have evolved so much since I started to watch you in 2021. I am proud of the lady you have become. Big uppppp!!!!!!

[@originalenglish6738]

Wow what a wonderful segment you need to give yourself more credit you have got it together keep doing you God has got you....looking forward to your videos

[@Bubbles-fw2ps]

Kim, I agree with you on the 50/50 .Also “ Time heals all wounds” and “there is a time and season for everything “ I am glad to see you rising above your situation, and loving yourself. You are worth nothing but the best…Blessings , ❤️

[@SharonWilliams-bm5qh]

Kim you’re so bless, keep taking care of yourself. Blessings and keep focusing on God.

[@SylviaH62]

Love the makeup! Well done! Continue to take care of yourself with Gods help.

[@joywallace6514]

Kim you are so smart answering the questions .No one is perfect just keep taking care of your health you are going to be fine ♥️♥️

[@delvorinebowman4734]

Kim, I really enjoyed this video. Very inspiring words of encouragement. Being in a relationship for some years and you and your partner break up is very hard. You just need to accept the fact, find yourself and move on. It also makes you wiser.

[@IamSash]

I’m so proud of you & I love how peace looks on you ♥️

[@jillianwilloughby8956]

I agree with your thoughts on the 50 ×50 share in a relationship . I will contribute but expect the man to shoulder most of the responsibilities 😊

[@hazelmiles2363]

Hi Kim always a pleasure watching your video and i do enjoy it am 64 and that 50 /50 thing not going to work with mi just like watching you Nuff blessings and love ❤️ 😍 💖 to you

[@AliciaKim]

🤣🤗

[@raquelf3627]

You are doing great Kim. Love your story. I love Florida and no family here, I move here because there is a lot do here, beach’s, restaurants, warm weather, cruise port, international airport, quick trip to Jamaica. I see that you were seeking church you can try New Life Fellowship center in Sunrise. Love your vlog

[@deanamelvin1936]

Everything happen for a reason some of the Q & A answers I can hear you choking up a little not too much I know there’s much more to come from you. ❤❤❤❤

[@Nakiyta223]

I love the lip combo

[@GabrielleBarker-x5c]

Kim have found the peace that God gives 🎉🎉🎉🎉so happy for you

[@delvorinebowman4734]

Kim, thanks for this inspiring and informative video. Thanks for the tips ❤❤❤

[@pamelathomas6502]

Girl , well said, done. Continue being yourself, loving yourself and taking care of yourself.❤

[@ordiela9161]

Your strength,beauty & confidence is shining. Cheers🥂🥂

[@SetApartToPray]

Brilliant words of wisdom, Alecia!

[@donalynappleton9427]

Looking nice as always Kim, I love you so much.❤❤

[@nyashawilliams4668]

You look fresh and stress free single life is more healthier more wild no lie.

[@AliciaKim]

Thank you!

[@milandbennett3465]

Ikr...she looks so much better physically

[@barbarahylton1869]

Well said Kim You will be fine

[@beverlyrose4517]

Blessing kim

[@williamsfami]

Yes it really good to let go and move on from toxic energy /people

[@nataliemorgan-chambers8818]

Hey Kim happy to see you in this mindset ànd spirit. Love you girl God got you. Sending you love and good wishes❤❤❤❤

[@priscillaanderson6059]

Kim I kw you dnt really give me a tumb up but do not be afraid to start over you are young just 34 so dnt be afraid to started over fear is the problem in human being life if you need to started over go ahead and do so

[@mitchellmiller6035]

Hey Kim nice hearing your thoughts you are so well spoken 🙏🏾❤ keep on doing the do❤

[@Boldnbeauty40]

Kim I really enjoyed this video! Thanks for being so transparent ❤ Love you girl , may God continue to bless you !! Big up ! Big up 🎉

[@mangoseedfaith5430]

I really enjoyed this video. Very awesome and uplifting words of encouragement. Especially the part about loving and accepting yourself. Thanks for always sharing even in times when its tough. I hope u feel the prayers of the big up grew. I truly do pray for you. God has already TURNED IT AROUND FOR YOU❤❤

[@althearaikes1150]

Agreed 👍🏽 about if you’d changed your last 5 years! People come in our lives either for/as a Lesson or blessing, the onus on us to know the difference

[@mscarlenek]

This was a therapy session. 🎉Gwaan do di do @Alicia Kim

[@michellemcintosh9219]

You go girl let nothing stop you , you are still young children can come later on in your life. Get your footing continue to be strong and trust God 💯 he got your back ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@clairehall8518]

You are doing extremely well, you have closed your old chapter and time for a new one this is what God wants for you, put yourself first, continue to see your therapist, do what you are doing now as it's therapy. Jaye sparkle is going through a divorce and she has a daughter and she is seeing a therapist closer to God and does her content starting a fresh and is a lot happier you are young and beautiful and intelligent. Nothing wrong with living alone yes it can be lonely you will feel it when you are ill or down and want a hug but perhaps go see your brother more if he is in NY, see your mom, continue talking about it on your videos, yes ten minutes of going outside and walking, enjoy nature, when down watch the calming videos, nature, birds chirping, rain chill do deep breaths, have long baths, don't get stressed out, yes listen music, deep breaths, dry brush skin, put you first, you need the break from the therapist it's good to you are doing well. My 19 year old daughter passed away in my arms four years today I am same age as your mom slightly older was just her and I we were extremely close, when she passed away suddenly and it took the wind out of me I have become ill now I am coming out of it saw a therapist stopped and I am doing all those things help me and when I am feeling alone I feel breath, listen music and self learn too do courses online and you will come out of it. Do not let anybody degrade you or listen to negativity.❤

[@ladaniawynter5069]

How can someone not like kim, I love u girl, u motivates me

[@welcome8791]

Love this vlog Kim, looking like sweet 16. God is able 🙏🏾💕

[@Renslifestyle1]

I say leave and create new memories. Being scared is a part of the process trust me it’ll be worth it. You’ll feel the difference

[@aziboo]

Kim, my job is very overwhelming, and I've been wanting to quit for so long, and I don't know how to. I wish I had another option because 9-5 is just not my thing, especially with two boys. It's really affecting me. I can't find the courage to walk away. I'm a public sector worker with a bachelor's degree and the job does not even pay that much, so I don't know what I'm holding on to But I have to have an income to back up my husband with the expenses... I crave peace, I'm drained mentally where it's affecting my health. I need a get away A good vacation

[@CharleneJohnson-fq5tx]

If you move try Central Florida if you still want to live in Florida. Its family friendly. Moving to a new state may be a big move right now. I moved from South Florida to Central Florida and never regreted it. That was my birth home.

[@cocomint26]

A man’s job is to protect, provide, and problem solve. We as women need to confidently say to men we are not doing 50/50 as a non-negotiable. If a man makes less money then he needs to calculate which bills he is paying in full AND budget to pay for date nights AND do all the handy work things AND put gas in the car, etc. Men need to do their role!

[@nikkiwowww9299]

And these men want go 50/50 on bills and the woman do all the housework. That means me a put out more and that nah go work

[@cocomint26]

@@nikkiwowww9299 exactly it’s unfair!!!

[@justbeingoctavia]

@@nikkiwowww9299when you say it like that!

[@tahliah6691]

If you love someone you help each other… don’t take advantage of a man or woman….a relationship is about oneness….

[@nikkiwowww9299]

@@tahliah6691 how is making a man handle his role and responsibilities taking advantage? That’s why men no longer act like men because some women won’t make them be men

[@camillenorris8151]

I totally enjoy this video kim. Continue to shine queen. Nuff love!🙏🏾❤️

[@tamara8061]

Just stumbled across your vlog. Very interesting topic. Very mature and intelligent thinking. I always enjoy my alone time too. Self care is very important for the soul.

[@mureenporter9981]

Keep the faith, you look well.Take it easy in deciding your next move.Pray i wish you well.

[@marionrobinson2014]

Continue to keep your head high you are beautiful indeed

[@Tamara_YT]

The self love section is real, and yes it is very hard. Come to Orlando girl! Here by myself as well.

[@ceeforyourself]

I love listening to you because somehow you always speak life into me in some small or major way. Letting go is the key lesson I've learnt too recently! I pray for you all the time love 😘 also, if you were starting YT NOW what would you do?

[@libertadnybiasanchez-diaz7221]

such a powerful vd, thank you for sharing your personal stuff, truly an inspiration, I am thankful I found this channel

[@france7598]

Very motivational 🙌 😊😊thank u!

[@jacquelineboykins602]

Keep doing the good work hon..you're so encouraging.

[@faithevans5428]

Kim I really enjoyed this Episode. I am so very proud of you. God bless you my dear.

[@torresslick5738]

I hate that I am not getting the notifications early but I am here❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@AliciaKim]

Try turn it off then on again 👀

[@clairehall8518]

You are doing well carry on as you are, for meeting people yes like the person said part time job, or voluntary work with elderly people. Florida is a lonely place if planning to move check out parts of the USA that is slightly more popular with people coming out more. Not sure if your mom works but if not perhaps she could come up and spend a few weeks with you and you go shopping together, places, do mother and daughter things, take your time and do what you are doing. Think one step at a time take it day by day, no rush, five years is a bit too far ahead. Think long and hard.

[@JaliciaNotes]

Your makeup is always on point❤

[@ingareid8680]

Happy Monday and New Month's Blessings Kim and the Big up crew❤ Big up, Big up.

[@maxinemorris9789]

You might not have blood relatives but you have become a part of some household, we always look forward catching up with you ❤

[@AliciaKim]

🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@maxinemorris9789]

@@AliciaKim God bless you girl , just put God always before you, he has big plans for you….nuff love 💕

[@normamowatt9999]

Hello Alicia. My dear, mistake happened, and we do learn from them. Most of the time, things happen for a reason. Just remember, when we fall, we get up, brush yourselves off, and start again. You're blessed. Continue holding on to your faith. The Father will see you through. Take care of your dear self.🙏🏽👌🏽💞

[@JaliciaNotes]

When you was in New York with your family, I felt like that scenery looks good on you,I feel like you should try New York City at least for a year.

[@justtamla-edmontoncanada3098]

With your job you can go to any state, go to Snellville/Lawrenceville Georgia...I think you would enjoy that state.

[@Mariered]

This here.. 💯. I live in Atlanta

[@AngelaBrown-zo1by]

Kim what ever u go thrue God is with u all the way🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@whitneygiddings6669]

I enjoyed this video the most! Thanks Kim❤

[@KarenWilson-bk4nr]

You are inspiring!

[@jenniferhaynes8625]

Always love seeing you❤

[@AliciaKim]

Big upppp

[@serikaclarke1116]

Yes Kim I'm so loving this chitchat let me relax and and watch ❤❤❤

[@denisedean2446]

You are young and have a bright future. Enjoy getting to know yourself.

[@leoniefearon2501]

Very pretty intelligent and positive kim❤

[@mekaparchment9983]

Love how u answer your questions ❤❤❤