All About Dating | The Cimorelli Podcast -S2 E19

Happy Podcast Friday Cim Fam!! 👏👏👏 This week, you may want to get out your notebooks, cause we are going in depth on dating! We talk mindset, red flags, setting boundaries, conflict communication and SO much more in this episode!
We hope you enjoy the final KZbin episode of this season of the podcast! Let us know what topics you would like to hear us talk about in the future!
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[@kssouvan]

no one makes Lauren laugh as much as she does

[@pr2266]

Hahaha and when Amy is savage accidently

[@kssouvan]

rosewqter maybe lol

[@lilbreadstick5784]

I absolutely love that Amy has a necklace that just says YEET

[@topcontenders5267]

LAZAR LAZAR

[@merlementing105]

Top Contenders BEAM BEAM

[@lailamagdyragab5048]

The Bald Unicorn omg RIGHT I need it

[@callistaagnez5130]

😂😂😂😂😂 omg I didn't even see that

[@alexbruno8355]

why would it be a touchy subject? i actually LOVE when y'all talk about things that we wouldn't expect you to. like being pressured, boundaries, and yes, sex! your fan base aint as young as you think they are. many of us have grown with y'all and are 20 now. although i am no straight female, and kinda don't relate to a lot of the things you talk about, a lot of what u speak about i CAN learn from. so imagine a 14 year old girl whos probably dying to get some advice on what you consider "touchy" but has nobody to talk about it with because its just kinda awkward!! i say yall should start getting super real!! we love

[@merlementing105]

The all wait thill the married

[@alexbruno8355]

MIERLLE I know that.

[@chels4723]

Yesss I think they forget about all the people who started watching them around 2008-2010 era.. we are all grown up now hahah.

[@gabrieldutra2314]

Guys could you please do an episode talking about self acceptance?? i mean with your body, appearance, sexuality bla bla bla

[@ellarheard]

Gabriel Dutra yessss omg

[@safiyyahhassan2243]

OMG I AGREEEEE

[@nickshadowNL]

Including Self-love & self-worth, yess! ❤️

[@helolange1132]

I need that

[@user-mg5tm8nu1p]

Might be a weird question, but are they homophobic or accepting?

[@miracleraynnecrockett]

“I loved to do mental gymnastics” lol ily Amy

[@HannahMeadows]

My plan isn’t to wait until marriage but I’m not offended by what you guys said. I still have strong boundaries and I think you guys have said about boundaries before because I took your advice and stated them early on in my relationship. Anyone that is offended by your boundaries is not worth hanging out or arguing with because boundaries are IMPORTANT.

[@Sona-lh8mz]

Amy looks extremely beautiful in here omg 😍😍😍

[@tilda4699]

her hair makes me want to cut mine, it looks so cute :)

[@Sona-lh8mz]

@@tilda4699 do it!! I'm sure you'll look great! (Also, cutting ur hair makes u feel like a new person so that's a plus!)

[@tilda4699]

Sona i knooooww, i had it pretty short before and am now desperately trying to grow it.. but cutting it is always such a temptation 😂

[@torimurphy1327]

AMY - "Mental gymnastics. Give it up. Not a good sport." lololol sameee

[@DivingHawker]

Something to remember : jealousy comes from fear. If you feel jealous, look for the fear behind it then ask yourself if that fear is justified or not. As they said, sometimes, it comes from "I don't think I'm good enough".

[@miss.understood9817]

Most important thing I could share that I never listened to but learned over my life (45yr old) -Girls, listen to your instincts and follow them !!!! I never followed them and suffered severely for that.

[@irishcamillesamson7272]

if you’re reading this and you’re in a bad mental place, i love you. i love you so much and you’re gonna feel better one day. im proud of you for letting yourself keep existing in the world, whether you went to class, talked to friends, just drank some water, or woke up at all. you’re wonderful. you’re good. and you will be okay.

[@kateburns7891]

Do an episode on all your Myers Briggs personality types!

[@sickradrat1664]

Kate Burns omg and maybe even zodiac signs or enneagrams

[@shishkebab6267]

@@sickradrat1664 yes yes yes!!!

@@sickradrat1664 i dont think they will do that. They are catholic and our faith and truth is that those things (no offense) dont matter in your life.

[@sickradrat1664]

Monika Nerečová oh, but can’t it be just for fun? Or pass to pass time? Also it helps you get a better understanding of your personality

[@gloria6171]

@@sickradrat1664 They did post a video saying their enneagram and Myers-Briggs types. I think it was on twitter

[@hazeltug]

Hey Lisa, why'd you get a haircut? Lisa:

[@maisorour4354]

I am Muslim and I can tell I share alot with you guys. Your values and your morals. That makes me love Catholics even more. Like people laugh at me when i say i am saving my first kiss after marriage. But i dont care cuz this is what I believe in strongly.

[@cristinat.9924]

Your comment made me smile 😃 i love muslim people and i love all religions! But i hate when i go to other comment sections and see people hating on us Christians and vice versa, and act like it’s a war or something! Also me too im waiting as well and honestly I don’t prioritize intimacy as much as I prioritize the actual relationship I’m not even thinking of marriage at all!

[@tiapezet9597]

Zkatherine is doing the same thing or she was. She talked about it in a past video

[@SilverColoredGold]

I prayed for help in a current situation where I am so confused about someone and this video popped up. THANK YOU. It helped me sort everything out.

[@TEACASTRO]

Katherine you are so right! 12:12 I didn’t have that instant wow chemistry with my fiancé but it began to build so beautifully over time and getting to know each other well. Now we’re so in love and planning a wedding!

[@ash81818]

that's so interesting to me. most people i know put a lot of weight into the "instant chemistry" thing

[@lavine3124]

Dani and Lauren look STUNNING in this episode...All the other girls look amazing too😊💞

[@stephaniedianne23]

I’m in my twenties now, but I would have loved to have heard these podcasts in my teens! I think your guys’ thoughts’ and messages are really helpful for those who may not have others telling them these things or who may be keeping these things from others. Really awesome stuff you guys are doing! Wish my past self could have benefitted from this, but it’s still reassuring to hear someone else echo the thoughts I wish I could have told my younger self!

[@aubreevilla758]

Omg, Amy and Lauren's outfit is cute,And Amy's necklace is my mood😂I love it❤

[@vsalarini523]

Lauren is so cute, when she smiles makes me want to jump inside de screen and make her smile more just to see and listen to it

[@greasemonkey060]

As a divorced Dad at 34 these perspectives helped a lot getting back in the dating world. Thanks Ladies🙏🏼

[@kaydenclift3042]

Christina’s hair is so cute!!

[@matthewaaronallen1598]

Lisa, how dare you say that loving ice cream is not a good love!😂

[@leonardabosnjak6291]

OMG! This is so cool❤❤ I love your hair lisaa❤ Who else love lisa's hair?

[@yassy636]

Lisa's lipstick is pink!🌸

[@Marandimom]

Omg, I can't believe its the season finale already. It feels like a week ago it began.. Gonna miss getting excited every Friday for the podcast! Might rewatch season 1 and 2 after I watch this video.

[@Channel-kd5xu]

I could listen to this on repeat. So many FANTASTIC points. One tip to add, that Christina briefly touched on towards the end. If you do bring a concern or "this made me feel ______" to someone and they start making excuses instead of respectfully listening / repeating back what they heard / trying to understand (or if they shame you for feeling that way) -----------------> RED FLAG!!!

[@jaedynkamalani4940]

I know this video is old, but I just wanna say that I wish videos like this were around when I was dating in my teen years. It would’ve saved me a lot of hurt that still haunts me today, if someone had given me advice like this! I love what you girls are doing, sending a positive message to so many that look up to you! Btw, I’ve been watching you all sing since Lauren wore bow ties on her head!💗

[@esthermcgrath1201]

I’m not first I’m not last but when I saw cimorelli podcast I clicked fast

[@mikailaderrick5041]

I felt like y’all were directly speaking to me. I needed to here this right now in my life.

[@brynnsauerbrey5135]

I pretty much always fall asleep to the podcast. I love listening to old episodes while winding down and drawing. Also no offense about the sleeping part, it's not boring or anything, I just need some kind of conversation to concentrate on to help me sleep and this really helps. Thank you guys!

[@kaylacalvacca5330]

I love this, thank you girls so much!

[@jillianrose6253]

Big red flag I’ve experienced, if they don’t message you back for hours or days and say an excuse like, I forgot, I thought I did or I got busy (last two occasionally is okay but not every time you text) then stop messaging them! They don’t wanna talk to you! Also I’d love to see a sister spotlight on Dani and Katherine, I’m pretty sure there hasn’t been one for either on KZbin yet.

[@Jamie-we8rf]

"if you're trying to go to sleep this probably isn't the one for you" an hour later I'm about to restart this since I've already heard it and hopefully actually fall asleep.

[@be--asom8778]

Amy had me dying throughout this whole video 😂

[@ingridaoun6584]

idea for a future podcast : how to relax after being stressful, or after a fight... in a word how to chillax

[@Sona-lh8mz]

Kath's hair is sooo long now!!!

[@toribusby9520]

ikrrrr

[@callistaagnez5130]

I knoowwww

[@persephone310]

Lauren's laughing face a) is gorgeous, b) exudes happiness and makes me happy too :D P.S. Always loving your podcasts girls!

[@shannondp4464]

Sure this podcast was amazing like always but Lauren’s makeup is everything 😍

[@maisie5386]

Just doing work thinking to myself “I wish I could listen to a good podcast rn” look what pops up?? Coincidence? I think not

[@oliviaaschroeter4895]

today is such a good day. we get cimorelli podcast, acoustic version of florida, AND CIMORELLI SAT IS TOMORROW YAY

[@yasthomas4121]

I love that Lisa’s wearing nfg merch

[@EricWhite]

Don’t know who these women are or why this popped up in my recommended, just anted to say all these ladies are extremely gorgeous. I also just wanted to give my 2 cents on these topics from a guys perspective. These answers are based in Christian beliefs and assuming you want to be married, which is the ultimate goal of dating. Firstly, IN MY OPINION, you should be dating someone to see if you would marry them, not for fun, or to be cool and have the pleasure of saying you dated a bunch of guys, it’ll just cause heartbreak in the end. “Dating without the intent to marry is like going to the grocery store with no money, you either leave unsatisfied or take something that isn’t yours. Ghosting - plain and simple if a guy is ghosting you, he might as well be dead to you, pun intended. That’s a a sign if immaturity and lack of communication. There may be times where something happened like a loss in his family but he should be man enough to tell you and COMMUNICATE that to you. It could just be a sign that he’s not into you and that means you just have to move on and find someone better. Mindset - if you do not create the standards for the relationship, the relationship will create the standards that you live by. Know what you are going to get into when you are dating someone. Make a list of qualities you like in a guy and KEEP them so when you are talking t guys and potentially dating them you have a list of qualities that YOU KNOW you cannot give up on it compromise. Trustworthy, great communicator (which women usually appreciate), etc. 9:28 - I disagree, when you know your worth you won’t let anyone else short change you or buy you for something you are worth more than. Yes he can be handsome and all that in a bag of sour patch kids but if he can’t communicate that’s a big no no. Be as picky as you want, it’s YOUR life partner. Don’t make a list of superficial qualities like looks and hobbies, but make them about qualities and character traits.... after watching more they agreed with some of the previous points 12:00 - that’s called list, that honeymoon phase is where everything seems ok but that’s the worst place to make decisions because your emotions are going to cloud all those judgements. While it’s ok to be in love, THATS called falling in lust. That’s why you need to love their character traits and values because that phase and “falling in love” will go away and the traits and personality will be the only thing left. 13:05 - EXCELLENT POINT, very well articulated and completely get behind. 16:05 - I’ve felt with this as a guy before and it is extremely heartbreaking and frustrating. This is a sign of immaturity once again and fear of commitment. If you can’t believe them at their word then what else do you have, red flag for sure. 18:55 - “if you live for someone’s praise, you die by their rejection “ never make someone your source for anything (except Jesus in my life). 19:18 - the BEST thing you can do for yourself is be more self aware, knowing how you react to certain situations and having better emotional intelligence, emotional intelligence 2.0 is a great read that I recommend. Also once again make a list of qualities that you cannot compromise in a guy, not superficial and physical features but qualities of character Expectations vs. reality - “dating brings out the best, marriage brings out the rest” that’s all I gotta say Once again, this is all MY OPINION, and I just wanted to help from a guys perspective and how I look at this topic. I recognize full well that a lot of people don’t view relationships like this. If you want to know more about this ideology watch this super good series kzbin.info/www/bejne/fmjLZnV-lt1jbMU

[@mmmmaarj]

This podcast is soooo useful and I wish I learned this when I was younger! Love you girls!!

[@scorpio4599]

lisa would be such a cool mom

[@jillcostello9496]

I am 17 without a boyfriend but if I ever branch out and meet a guy all these tips will be glued in my mind haha! I’m an only child so this is the closest thing to having big sisters for me omg that’s kinda embarrassing lol but love you guys!!

[@Laura-df1io]

Love this! This helps a lot, I was dating someone (for 4 months) who I thought was perfect but he’s not looking for a relationship. Definitely feel betrayed but love this advise!

[@Demi_48]

I love u guys so much and u have changed my life sooo much and I want to thank you for that, also Lisa and Kath look sooo good in this video

[@OliviasSuperschinken]

I want a monthly favorites/ fav jewelry or something. You all look so pretty

[@finnimarie9205]

I love your Podcast it makes me feel better❤❤thank you for that❤❤❤

[@azulfernandez8009]

omg this was literally so useful I've never been in a relationship and i can still relate to all of it

[@matthewaaronallen1598]

Lauren with the bomb advice on conflict!!!

[@mikeyleerosemund9446]

I love the pink Long sleeve shirt with the New Found Glory logo on it 🤯🤘🏻

[@isabelvargas6603]

This is my favorite podcast and I love that you guys talk about things I can relate to. 💜

[@nikim.8727]

Can you do a whole video about why do you wait until marriage?

[@cassandrap7152]

Yes that would be awesome!! I am a total advocate for waiting too! It is so worth it. There are a lot of men out there who wait too and to save yourself for just that one person makes your union so much more beautiful ☺

[@nikim.8727]

@@cassandrap7152that's amazing,i'm really happy that they're still people who wait until marriage :) God bless you!!

[@cassandrap7152]

@@nikim.8727 Thank you, same to you!

[@elizabethdanielleharris8441]

What if you're dating someone and you're sister doesn't like who you're dating

[@arianaaugustine2502]

Let me just say that Lisa rocks that hair

[@kaydenclift3042]

YESS I DEFINITELY NEEDED THIS EPISODE

[@amyjoan100]

YO I LOVE LAURENS MAKEUP

[@fullhouseyep]

i really like katherine's advice!! i can listen to her a whole day for advice

[@shamaneebodi6808]

WOW did yall read my mind? I needed this talk so much

[@tayleywilson8291]

i was in math and got the notification yall posted and i started to cry cuz i couldnt watch it

[@Grace-ez5yt]

laurens took amys place with yellow omg

[@miriamneves7913]

can you please do a whole video on journaling or waiting until marriage? loved this!

[@Anastasia-fj2zi]

This is my first Cimorelli podcast! I already know that I'll be binging these

[@robyneskimo]

40:39 Niamh is pronounced NEE-V. It's an Irish name :)

[@NiamhRivers]

Robyn Conroy lmao it’s such a struggle

[@sofimr]

i was scrolling down to see whether i'd have to be the one to write this comment hahaha

[@bonitabethel]

Sofia Rezende same😂😂

[@oliviawolfley5173]

This is amazing, I appreciate this!!

[@breezy.may.333]

*I NEEDES THIS SOOOOOO BAD TODAY!!!* It feels like when the preist/preacher speaks about something and you feel like its completely about you haha. Thank you soon much. Real wisdom here.

[@stydianation1135]

I am 18 never dated anybody never done anything with anyone 😂 not embarrassed but I always like people I know who won’t like me it’s kinda a problem 🤷‍♀️ thing it’s to protect myself please help

[@saramartins1130]

I relate

[@cassandrap7152]

I didn't have a first date until I was 19 and it was with a guy who respected me waiting. There are respectful guys out there who will respect you waiting (there are also a lot of guys waiting until marriage too).

[@salmalaks1996]

22 going 23 and same shit lol

[@disneyj8215]

same omg

[@loveiscactus4294]

This is nothing new. Famous Pushkin quote - 'The less we love her when we woo her, The more we draw a woman in'

[@ucouldpoison]

Lisa repping her bae's march 😏💗 New Found Glory

[@iqraiqbal6179]

Lisa is so pretty!!!

[@cookingwithmeghan6494]

Lisa, how did you get the courage to just stop the emotional build up? I keep doing it and I have been taken advantage of and back stabbed to many times to trust somebody and say what I am feeling!

[@Meenamaesmusic]

So I just got out of a relationship, and I realized how much we both messed up and how I coulda changed my actions toward her :(

[@corilaatsch1057]

Can you do a video about your enneagram types?? I think it could be so fun!

[@alessandraboran8995]

Lauren has the best laugh ever!

[@MJGV54]

Who is the man Lisa refers to when she said she cut her hair off?

[@user-jq3vm3oj4s]

Episode about anxiety would be great

[@CandiceChu]

LOVE THE PODCAST!!!

[@torferguson3866]

Pacing is huge. If you go on dates but never initiate one, that may send a questionable signal. If one person is cultivating the relationship far more than their partner, they may slow down in texts to wait for the partner to pitch in, or just affirm their interest! Dating is full of grey area so simple clarification between partners is part of being an adult.

[@saramartins1130]

43:34 Dani is me about the next ep Just going to have at patreon

[@cluckduckie]

A YEET NECKLACE OMFG!!🤩😍💛💖

[@nikim.8727]

Generally how do you keep your faith and how you grow it

[@DancyMolly]

I love you girls and you inspire me!! Xx

[@TheMakeupFascination]

Such 👏 Good 👏 Advice 👏! I didn't learn these things until I was in my mid 20's!!

[@ortalsalman5198]

I have been waiting for this!!! Tnank youuu😍

[@biscuitsundown9757]

Lauren at 8:25 sounds like the story behind her rap/talk part in last summer

[@kimmonty3744]

Would love to continue watching these for free ...

[@Emma-gn9yw]

Why did you switch Lisa to Lauren in the sister spotlight on KZbin? I really enjoyed listening to Lisa's weird stories😂

[@syedramishhussain4977]

ok katherine is an intellectual. PERIODTT❤️

[@kaydenclift3042]

YAYYY NEW PODCAST!

[@bonitabethel]

ahhh i want to know lisas past but i can’t have patreon😩😩😩

[@fernandakrishna]

Please talk about loneliness and how to make friends! A girl could use some tips 😭😭

[@patrickjade9349]

One of the things about boundaries is that you have to be able to risk and commit to losing the relationship as a consequence of a violated boundary. Another one I look at is someone you have to set boundaries for. Like for example, if I can tell someone is agreeing to something and aren't self aware or honest enough to say they aren't cool with, that's a bit of a red flag. I know that I can call them out or at least not continue pressuring them in that direction of their emotional and unconscious boundary. They feel understood when I can lay their boundaries down, but I hate that because it puts me in the position of being a mind reader because she doesn't know what she actually wants.

[@AlioH89]

Christina and Amy are so in sync at @41:36 😂 😂 Also Niamh is pronounced Neev - it's Irish.

[@cheekyawecim]

at 41:35 amy and christina are in synch and idk why but to me it's super funny

[@patrickrafferty979]

I’m an IrishKing who doesn’t need advice yet I can’t stop listening👍☘️☘️

[@hallegibson]

I already know this is gonna be amazing 💜

[@SamIAm2197]

Niamh is actually usually pronounced Neev! At least all the Niamhs I've met. It's Irish. :)

[@user_ytndslk]

You guys should do something like this about marriage.

[@alyssajoy08]

You love him like you love icecream 😂