All This over a T-shirt | When the Enemy attacks your mind

[@nekeshadunlap77]

I remember feeling the imposter syndrome. It took me changing my perspective. I took on the narrative that requests are coming directly from God. I feel that God who gives without hesitation, deserves me to answer the call with a resounding Yes. So now, everytime I'm elevated to, asked to, or promoted to do anything, I take it as God, Himself is asking and accept that he has chosen me for a reason.

[@OnlyOneJess]

I love that!! 🙌🏾😍

[@ericaelliott5047]

I do too.

[@charletteamons8081]

Wow never thought of it like this. Thank you for this fresh perspective.

[@vanessaosei-bonsu8603]

Thank you the entire video. I laughed, felt spiritually encouraged, and related to many of the things you said but I love, love, love that you showed that last few seconds of vulnerability at the end. The love you guys have for each other and for encouraging others is so palpable, but like you said there are many lies/expectations/ "life be life-in" moments we perceive & experience that keep us from walking in the "fullness" of ourselves. That's real life, but as we accept these things, have faith & plan forward magic (which sometimes just looks like "making it through") can happen, like in this video. You two are doing a great job!

[@monicabradley8395]

"He doesn't call the equipped, He equipped the called"🙌🏾.

[@tgetu]

I love this!! "God doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called."

[@lovejones123fouru]

I love Jonathan's spirit. You did good, Jess! ❤

[@LondasBookClub]

Jess as a dark-skinned women, I can totally relate to speaking down to myself to not make others think that I think I’m the shit!! Let’s change that narrative and just say “THANKS” when the complements. Keep up the good work!!

[@carmenshirley4886]

“He doesn’t call the equipped! He equips the called!” This is fabulous!!❤❤❤ Y’all need to print one of those cute little books of quotes! I’d def buy for myself and gift!!

[@renayal6176]

Yes, Yes, and YES!! Church hurt is a big thing. And, the revelation that I had is that being a Christian is literally based on knowing that we're all imperfect and need saving. The church is a hospital, we go to church to be healed. We can't expect people not to be people at church. We have ALL sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Not to let those people off the hook, but we have to extend grace.

[@ornettej3485]

You guys are amazing. Jess, although you thought you were not at your best today, I connected so much with you. I think you had that moment to touch those of us who can relate. You did great and you are such an inspiration.

[@CarlaintheCountry]

I love the reality and transparency here. I'm older than you two are but i can identify with things on both topics (church hurt, etc. and not being enough). There is a constant battle that we are involved in spiritually, and although we fight it, God is our champion and we're already victorious. Love yall ❤

[@Efigee]

I was just thinking that. I am much older, but not to old to learn from this beautiful couple.

[@sharnicaxd5321]

yall saying you weren't feeling it but God made sure it reached us nonetheless, I loved this conversation

[@OnlyOneJess]

🥹🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@20kgl]

This topic was so relatable... My depression creeps up on me the same way as Johnathan .. and it's really tough to pull myself out sometimes ,I'm kinda working my way out of it currently... But it steams from comparing myself to others and my own expectations of myself... I'll like to know Johnathan's experience with depression from a male's perspective cuz my bf is the same and how Jess supports and helps him though that season.

[@cassiebrunson1590]

As always this was amazing!!! Come on Pastor Johnathan ❤😂, that hair ate! This was refreshing and you deserve everything Jehovah has for you!!!

[@SS-gh5xd]

Not Jonathan's a whole preacher low key! I needed this, thank both of you for sharing ❤

[@thokozilechabwera469]

Jonathan's explanation of control is exactly what I've been going through for longest time even when I know God should be in control. I started reading Joyce Meyer's book Battlefield of the Mind and it has really helped me. I'd encourage anyone going through issues of the mind and the lies we believe to read it. Thanks Jess and Johnathan for all the topics you've shared so far, they're very crucial ❤

[@danayshephard716]

I'm reading it as well!

[@vickyalexis6976]

Sometimes we hinder ourselves from experiencing the different dimensions of God because of fear of uncertainty, or because we want to be in control. It’s okay to be in a season of uncomfortabilty because it is in that season we experience God in a different dimension.

[@queenk.w_williams]

Girlllllll I use to do that . They always say I act like i'm better than people and I don't . Its because of how I carry myself and when I get compliments for my appearance I always try to dum it down so others don't feel insecure around me but me stop dimming my light so others can shine cause at the end of the day people will still be jealous of you for the weirdest things smh. You have to just be you and live for you and God.

[@lyricjackson8301]

I think I might have imposter syndrome too sometimes when it comes to Me rising to the occasion of certain things. But at least you show up and you allow yourself to be uncomfortable. It helps you to grow everytime and eventually you will align with your highest self because it’s inevitable. Just surrender to the process and keep moving while trusting God all in tandem.

[@laurajn.pierre8724]

I'm a big fan of Angie and this is why I started following you... I came across your channel by accident and I thought you could pass for Angie Stone's daughter... she's a very talented neo soul singer ...

[@fairxchange72]

Yes, it's the eyes and the mouth. That particular picture didn't do Angie justice 😊

[@AbigailJ.]

My church is doing a spiritual growth campaign about this topic! Can’t wait to hear the wisdom in this video ❤

[@deaudrey85]

I like when Johnathan said it’s not your job to be someone’s everything in a relationship. God should be your everything.

[@sharonstinson4079]

You will be alright cause you got God on your side. Both of you are inspirational and bringing more people to God.

[@shapelesscharms]

I needed thissss😭. Imposter syndrome hits me hard! And I'm so glad you guys are both doing this together. I sent the video to my husband too bc Jonathan spoke a WORD (per usual) about believing the lies and us not truly trusting God. He definitely has a calling on his life. Minister Jon lol🙏🏽. Anyway, what both of you said were 100% relevant to both myself and my spouse and exactly what we both needed to hear right now😭. Y'all keep doing what you're doing--you're doing it well🙏🏽🔥🫶🏽

[@kgravgrav8496]

You guys are are doing great. It’s the authenticity that makes you guys a fantastic team and individuals. Speaking by experience is uplifting and even when u can’t get your mojo going and you turn up anyway is uplifting ❤️🙏 well done guys !!!

[@OnlyOneJess]

Thank you so much! 🥹🩷🩷

[@kgravgrav8496]

@@OnlyOneJess your most welcome 🙂...keep up the great content.... sharing is caring !!

[@joyous1011]

I'm not a Christian but I just love yall!!! ❤ Eventhough yall don't mess with us" spiritual people " I respect and replace God or Jesus with Universe and I applies to me! 🙌🏽 ❤❤❤ Thanks for the wisdom Johnathan 🙏🏼

[@lucilledirks126]

I needed to hear ALL of this😭 Thanks you guys🫂 Sending you love and hugs Jess, hope you’re doing/feeling much better.

[@Brownskinlove-qh4io]

I needed this message: Please keep me in your prayers. Thank you!

[@nathaleclarke]

Also Jess I’m happy and so thankful to see how God is using you and your platform it’s nice to see how you handle things also with this topic i feel is something that the Lord has been showing me in a way I need to not believe the lies of the enemy and speak TRUTH AGAINST THEM and speaking the promises of God over myself and the things I do. I pray for you too and that God will continue to use you because there are so many young people like myself and you get that need to see and hear these things. Also if anyone sees this get the book God’s creative Power by Charles Capps. It is really eye opening

[@wendysealy3399]

Loved this podcast. Only recently I realized, like Jonathan, I feel I need to be in control. I always have plan a, b, c and d. Neither worked recently, which created stress, frustration and the realization that I’m so impatient, all because things weren’t working out according to my plan. Well God came through in His time, only after I learnt AGAIN, I need to leave things in His hands and be patient. Now I’ll wait patiently for next week’s podcast😃

[@tifwit1]

Hey Jess thank you for keeping it real, I can relate as far as trying sooo hard to not make others feel a certain way and doing it sooo much, I am like where went my confidence... although it maybe hard to convey , one step at a time sis, you belong wherever God put you period! It's not about what you have it is taking what you have and putting it in God hands, that is how He will get the glory , giving you things that seem to great, and you slay one giant at a time in Jesus name! Although you might have thought this video was of it really help me piece something together God ,bless and take what God wants to give you :)

[@erinleshay]

It’s good that Jess can acknowledge why she points out those bad things but now that u know just make a conscious decision to change that and it will take time but u can correct the negative behavior

[@resecup3584]

Jess...Never dem your light to allow someone else to shine....The lie is you are a rock but GOD knows that you are a diamond and that is why you are being continuously blessed...Your husband speaks blessings upon you and GOD has favor for you both!!

[@michellewilliams9092]

God will put us in spaces and places that take us out of our comfort zones, so that his blessings and the way that he loves us unconditionally will be evident. So instead of saying I’m not good enough, know that you may not be equipped, but he is. I enjoy your podcast and how you guys just keep it real. 🙏🏾💜

[@AbigailIsrael4]

You both were bouncing off of each other and landing perfectly, so don’t beat yourself up Jess💜 this is coming from someone who had to learn how to train my brain to speak positively about myself and your completely right cause even when I had a bad a day and didn’t fully believe the positive things I would tell myself I eventually started to see those things a fact. It’s funny because I’ve been struggling with something for a while and I learned not too long ago that I go back to my vomit (as the scriptures say) because I wasn’t trusting in the Most High fully. At the end of the day the Lord’s will will be done. Thank yall for sharing cause I enjoy the deep convos 💛

[@EuniceMaina009]

Jess, if and when you find deliverance from not being good enough, please share!!!! If and when I do find deliverance, I will most definitely share!! God's babies need a whole renewal of our mindset!!! We are out here!!!

[@shantelchilds-williams9153]

God is trying to take you places Jess...just go, he will equip you!!

[@lalablack6038]

I've been called stuck up and conceited as long as I can remember. I used to get offended when I was younger. I am so down to earth. A guy I was dating in my early 30's told me, it's them actually feeling bad about themselves. He said I am sooo comfortable with who I am, and they are not comfortable with who they are, they want me to lessen who I am in order to make them not feel "as unworthy".

[@baybeetricia]

I love the color coordination!!!!

[@purplescorpnaturale]

@OnlyOneJess I wish it was possible to have these everyday. You all are just inspirational because you are real in your walk with God!

[@loisthomas899]

Jonathan is PREACHING! This is blessing my❤!

[@te-amo97]

@Stain in shirt... it's probably the fabric softener if you put it in the machine for it to dispense on its own. If you machine allows you to open wid wash try putting in the softener yourself so you can mix it in water so it does catch the clothes directly. If not, then try doing it at the start of the wash and see if you like the result of it going in so early.

[@Niamba101]

Thank you so much for continuing to do your podcast really appreciate you two so much you both speak as your well above your ages thank you for sharing 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@nancypurter1494]

Jess, I can relate to you. I want to say that people can see something in you that you can't see in yourself...someone told me that. This was so good. I must share ❤❤❤

[@HeiDiLuv]

To have a husband that is of good counsel covers his wife with all her flaws for his countenance confides in the things of God whom strengthens him for your sake. Blessed is the wife whom God has chosen the right husband for her.

[@alesialeggett5184]

This Podcast was so good. the topicwas on point. Power couple for Christ. Keep it just the way it is....Raw and uncut...truthful. It was deep to think about my walk with Christ. Am I doing what God wants me to do or am I running because I not sure or afraid of the outome. I know He Loves me and is my protector and my sounding board.Great Job!

[@sharonstinson4079]

Beautiful testimony Jonathan.

[@shevewelch306]

I definitely felt that way too Jess, like I'm not enough. I'm still surrendering it to God. For me, to see me through God's eye

[@nashaetillman2839]

I’m late to the party😅 But this was such a great topic! I’ve recently realized that I was trying to live up to my family’s expectations of me. It might’ve not been intentional but I felt the pressure. I also struggle with control and feeling like everything depends on me. I’m still working on giving everything to God🙏🏾

[@moonflower9056]

Im glad you two brought up the expectations of other's. I was thinking about it earlier today because I have this perfectionist habit that can feel overwhelming sometimes. Like I know I'm overthinking but I feel like I need to for things to turn out right. Thank you, this was helpful. You guys take care😊

[@gatesfamily3470]

Going straight to Yahuah for healing. No church is a place for that.

[@amandasspreadlove1603]

If I could double, TRIPLE like this I would. In my marriage, I'm "the planner". But really, it's me trying to control for every variable and not trusting God to handle the situation. And giiiirrllll, the enemy will STRESS ME. I'm working on it 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤

[@mizzpeach01]

Man this was all so relatable I’m guilty of imposter syndrome, overthinking, control and stressing about it.

[@nathaleclarke]

Hearing this reminds me of Psalms 46 verse 1-11 one of my favorite verses rest in the Lord God is the one who qualifies us not ourselves God is the one who puts us in places we can’t even imagine trust in Him He will do the rest.

[@ladyt4062]

Exactly, people are flawed and imperfect!

[@ladibuttafly7897]

Not Angie Stone she's beautiful, but you resemble Ledisi. BUT you are beautiful, just like these women, and you're beautiful being Jess. Your melanin is popping boo!

[@mickelined5447]

That’s what I was thinking too. She does resemble Ledisi.

[@lovejones123fouru]

Definitely Ledisi

[@amandamonae3]

Jess and Jonathan, I recently saw this post that said “if you’ve experienced church hurt and left the church that your faith was more in people than in God.” (Referring to the Church as the Body of Christ)

[@KimberlyRisingTV]

This was awesome yall! Jess, your transparency down to the very last second of this episode was so relatable and encouraging! You pushed through despite your fleeting feelings. Facts over feelings is what I have to tell myself. The facts in these comments say so many are blessed by yall. The BIG FACTS in God’s Word says you are loved, called, gifted, more than a conquerer, redeemed, created to produce good works, a light and literally to die for… and all that and a bag of chips! Facts above feelings! Keep letting the Lord use y’all! 🫂🙏🏾💕

[@SilkeIsUberFetch]

Loved this ep! Would be super cool after the topic is discussed for you guys to answer viewer questions/thoughts we have on the topic that we send on ig prior to filming!

[@OnlyOneJess]

We’ve been talking about doing something like that! Def working up ideas for you guys but thank you for this! 🫶🏾

[@nancypurter1494]

I know that I have posted but this was so good and Johnathan, you made so many valid points. I know that I had to find my worth in God and not man. I love you guys so much...keep them❤❤ coming ❤❤❤

[@laykay1]

This was an amazing episode! Thank you guys for the content. “He doesn’t call the equipped, he equips the CALLED” 🔥

[@SabrinaLydia]

you know what??? it's the smile and the cheekbones! You both have a distinct big beautiful smile and then being dark-skinned makes you resemble her more! If you were lighter, it might not have been so easy to recognise! like, it took me yeeeeears to figure out who Lexi Allen resembled until I watched The Terrell Show and clocked my subconscious thinks she and Jessie Woo must be related somehow! -- and they're 2 different hues!

[@sobeitone3336]

If you are use any of these this could be it, scent beads, any detergent pods, stain erasers these can all leave that residue behind. Stain erasers are the worst. An extra rinse for the scent beads or detergent pods should get rid of it.

[@OnlyOneJess]

We use the liquid detergent 😭

[@precious6732]

I love tuning into your podcast 🥰. It’s official fr 💗

[@AshleyDurant]

I had too remember the other day that God didn't give us the spirit of timidity but of love,peace and Faith

[@_AmikaC_]

I criticize myself ALL OF THE TIME!!! Especially when someone compliments me! Compliments are so uncomfortable! Some years ago a family member said, "it's okay to just say thank you and leave it at that." That has stuck with me even to this day. I still point out negative things abt myself sometimes just out of habit, but if i catch myself on time I'll just say thank you. But then i do feel a little cringy afterwards and end up overthinking it. 🤦🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️😅😅😅

[@Thejuju325]

Thank you for uplifting me..... Jess, you are doing great😊

[@stacyjamison8664]

Even at my big ol age of 44, I am working on being kinder to myself. Thanks for this❤️

[@lloydbelle9291]

Love the pod!! Keep it going 🙏🏾

[@lorispann9001]

Jess I love all your you tube, I am loving this podcast with you and hubby. I really need to hear this Jess this is helping to adjust myself, I had to change my life to believe in myself. I can achieve in the things that I did not give myself credit for.

[@elsieodame-amoah1059]

Yaaaayyyy Jesssss giving consistency ❤❤❤

[@AshleyDurant]

Hii Jess thanks for the encouragement your husband talk the trust I was dealing with that similar situation.....give yourself some Grace I say it but I don't give it too myself but I am trying....keep the Faith....sis❤

[@Danajanene]

I saw it Jonathan...I had to rewind. 😂

[@OnlyOneJess]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yall doing me dirty lol

[@BecauselifeHappens-y1j]

I didn't see it. I rewinded the video and still didn't see it

[@OnlyOneJess]

@@BecauselifeHappens-y1j see this is the energy I need around here lol

[@Danajanene]

@@OnlyOneJess 😁😁😉

[@loisthomas899]

OMG! This is so good! “Couch conversations”

[@divineacceleration1979]

Chile...thank you guys for the word...maybe it's not you...I need to really believe that🙏🏾

[@bbbryne893]

Such a good and important conversation. ❤

[@sharonstinson4079]

No you don't look like her. You remind me of a beautiful niece that everyone loves to see coming. Full of life.

[@WatchingTheWatsons]

For the oil stain are you using dryer sheets? I found out that dryer sheets sometimes leave grease like stains on our clothes

[@Itsjustmese]

I know I’m late on my comment, but just caught up on the “podcasts” 😂And even though yal weren’t feeling it, this was real and we appreciate it because it totally met some of us exactly where we were! But Jess sitting on the opposite side did throw me off 😂!! Ohhh and the 👕!!! Not sure if your washer has an agitator but this happened to me in the past and it was because there was oil leaking from the agitator!!! Thank you both for doing Gods work and pouring into our lives!

[@Iheartpie1234]

Would you guys be willing to do a video on finances and budgeting? A lot of people didn’t grow up seeing the best ways to do it so this would be helpful!

[@Lisa-wt9ye]

No quotations when you say podcast anymore🤣

[@chicharaevans2769]

I was just about to say that. 😂

[@OnlyOneJess]

It comes and goes 😂

[@GreenyieTyD27]

I love you guys podcast videos!!! Would you be open to creating a separate page or a playlist solely for your podcast?

[@OnlyOneJess]

We will make a second page for next season we just wanted to see if anyone cared to watch it first, but def working on a separate page but also need a name for it first 😂

[@GreenyieTyD27]

@@OnlyOneJess GIRL WE CAREEEE!!! Lol thank you 🫶🏾💕🫶🏾

[@CallMeTink]

I LOVED THIS "PODCAST"💕

[@wuraolaogunnowo7280]

@34:06 You were either referencing Matthew 12:34 - "Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh." Or Proverbs 4:23 - "Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life." Either way, this was sich a powerful ep. I especially love the action plan at the end where you gave the listeners guidance on what to do next concerning this topic

[@ashleyp5682]

I really love watching you guys’ energy!! You guys should definitely do a video or segment about sharing finances as a married couple

[@robincoleman7217]

I really like watching you guys. I could listen for 2 hrs frfr. I will be so glad when we as a people get past this color thing. You are beautiful.

[@naturalree81]

This was so nice, y’all were made for this❣️Thank you for the talk ❤

[@ezrazeleke2688]

this was sooooo good and funny. I was dying at the part when you guys were arguing about the budget. "two cents a week" LOL

[@amerettasour82]

Sounds like humility/ modesty- that’s a good quality to have.

[@TheChocBeauty]

You guys are great. Please keep doing what you’re doing the way you’re doing it.

[@OnlyOneJess]

aw thank you!!

[@princesslivingfree]

I can actually see Angie around your mouth and facial bone structure! I don’t think you look like her, but some of your features favor hers. I never saw it until you mentioned it though lol. You both are super gorgeous 😍

[@BecauselifeHappens-y1j]

2 cents a week got me weak. 😂😂

[@buttafly591]

I learn something interesting every time I watch ur podcast.

[@carmenshirley4886]

“Just YOU is good enough!”❤❤

[@rennethomas8281]

Amen Johnathan 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@ItsPersonalwithAshleyElle]

As always great conversation and 😊this truly helped me because I’ve been GOING THROUGH IT!

[@shantelchilds-williams9153]

The staining is either the fabric softener was directly on the shirt or the dryer sheet. I think it only happens to certain material....don't ask me which material.🤷🏿‍♀️

[@wendysealy3399]

I was thinking the same thing. Stain from fabric softener. Machine may need servicing or a deep cleaning.

[@mercedmatthews769]

The way I be hitting the thumbs up button before I even watch in insane 😂

[@kiyokochanable]

.its funny cuz normally Jess is the one calling out Jonathan for being bored or lacking, they switched and now HE'S THE ONE CALLING OUT JESS. 😂 😂

[@Ceemetravel]

As soon as you said Angie Stone I was like waiiiit I see it! Lmao that pic you put up didn’t do it justice though

[@felizah]

13:10 learning from experience and confirming on Google (of course), those oil-type stains on your clothes are actually from using too much detergent. So no need to throw out your washer or dryer! :)