Almost 30 with no goals in life

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Lana Blakely

Lana Blakely

Күн бұрын

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@nedyalkokarabadzhakov5405
@nedyalkokarabadzhakov5405 3 ай бұрын
Overthinking kills more dreams than unskilled action ever will.
@dannyadvice
@dannyadvice 2 ай бұрын
Totally!
@Banditzhan.
@Banditzhan. Ай бұрын
I can't agree more
@robertmaxa6631
@robertmaxa6631 3 ай бұрын
Yup. Time does fly by. It feels like yesterday I was 18, now I'm almost 52. Don't be too hard on yourself. You're running your own race.
@frankgradus9474
@frankgradus9474 3 ай бұрын
it's true
@CucLe-imyours
@CucLe-imyours 3 ай бұрын
"You're running your own race." Yeahh that's so truee
@Jesuslordoflords-y4m
@Jesuslordoflords-y4m 3 ай бұрын
Read the Bible, obey the gospel to get born again and go to heaven for eternity
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving 3 ай бұрын
I feel you, I'm 63 but still feel like a 20 year old. We all have our own journeys. Best to enjoy it!
@Mjmjm2
@Mjmjm2 3 ай бұрын
I feel you girl. I used to plan a lot now I just want to live peacefully and be happy.
@LanaBlakely
@LanaBlakely 3 ай бұрын
Yeah basically this!
@moderngoblin
@moderngoblin 3 ай бұрын
Lucky for you then! We live in the most peaceful bountiful prosperous world in human history! Happiness is spreading worldwide at a rapid rate! You almost don’t even have to work for survival whatsoever now there’s delicacies in every trash can across America that a queen couldn’t even dream of enjoying in ten lifetimes a couple centuries ago! Not having goals is the ultimate luxury!!! Enjoy it! Not many ever get that chance!!!
@vladonutueu
@vladonutueu 3 ай бұрын
@@moderngoblin delicacies in the trash no thanks
@AnthonyManzio
@AnthonyManzio 3 ай бұрын
@@LanaBlakely Long -Term- Relationship is dead globally all due to smartphones. No one meets women anymore face to face like before smartphones came out. Today women don't even look or smile anymore on their cell phones 24/7 on dating apps for hookups. No wonder why men have given up!
@simonleva3805
@simonleva3805 3 ай бұрын
I feel you. It's this rat race that's ruined the world
@p3drogil
@p3drogil 3 ай бұрын
Hope more people realize 30 is still so young to try new things out!
@geraldleuven169
@geraldleuven169 Ай бұрын
Not in terms of dating, by 30, 90% of your eggs are gone.
@maliamalis6389
@maliamalis6389 20 күн бұрын
@@geraldleuven169so you mean in terms of actually wanting children cause you can date in fact even be married and not want kids.
@geraldleuven169
@geraldleuven169 20 күн бұрын
@@maliamalis6389 By 30 most women have had multiple bed partners.
@avindiiii
@avindiiii Ай бұрын
I'm 28 now, and I thought I was the only one who felt this way. I used to be a procrastinator, but I've learned that living in the moment is the best way to enjoy a peaceful life. Thank you Lana for this video! Sending love from Sri Lanka 🥰
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving 3 ай бұрын
Love this, Lana! We all go through thoughts like this. You are still very young and have the whole world in front of you! I'm 63 & still trying to figure it all out. I've always had goals and changed my life many times over the years. It's all part of this amazing journey we call life. Enjoy each day & I hope the very best for you. You have achieved far more than most 29 year old's so keep up the great work! BTW, sometimes lost is ok. It makes it fun when you find yourself again.
@jennisuch
@jennisuch 3 ай бұрын
Im so glad to read your comment, have a great day. Thank you
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving 2 ай бұрын
@@jennisuch Thanks so much! You have a great day as well, Jennifer!
@hasibnoor4754
@hasibnoor4754 3 ай бұрын
"The more of the world that I see, the more lost I feel". Can't describe how much I loved this entire piece. The Sylvia Plath fig story, goals becoming more day-to-day orientated, every part of this was just beautiful.
@leonielondonmeditation
@leonielondonmeditation 3 ай бұрын
I actually got really emotional during watching, because it made me realize how gratitude changes your whole reality and how little we actually practice it. Thank you for the reminder Lana, that was lovely!
@AnaWhomIlive4
@AnaWhomIlive4 3 ай бұрын
I'm back at home where I first found your page 2 years ago and binge-watched all of your videos. My 16-year-old self has been admiring you ever since. I liked and still like how well-spoken you are. You make me want to take a journal and start putting my thoughts into words so that if I want to revisit my past self, I can simply open the journal. Now, being back at home for summer holidays, feeling the hot air and watching your videos brings back feelings I can't put into words. Your voice and choice of words harmonize beautifully with my heart's melody. Watching and listening to you is such a blessing. I love you for what you make me feel, even though sometimes those feelings consume me. They still help me feel alive, which is what I strive for. Thank you, beautiful soul, for existing. It really means a lot!💞
@LanaBlakely
@LanaBlakely 3 ай бұрын
This comment is so warm and beautiful. Thank you for sticking around for so long
@abdellahelakkary520
@abdellahelakkary520 3 ай бұрын
​@@LanaBlakelyHello Where are you from
@bagolbonggol7304
@bagolbonggol7304 Ай бұрын
Did u feeding ur self to survive with including promotion, and andsense @ ​@@LanaBlakely
@Frankenstalex
@Frankenstalex 3 ай бұрын
I'm 32 now. The years seems faster and faster. Is like if I don't slow down nothing else will do it. I totally understand you
@AlexESR71
@AlexESR71 3 ай бұрын
I was born on march 21st, 1995. And for the first time I understand what adults meant when they said "time flies by". I´m scared, but I´m glad I made it this far.
@hnnhml
@hnnhml 3 ай бұрын
Saaame, I’ve been feeling this for a while now.
@WillockFlame
@WillockFlame 3 ай бұрын
April 5, '95 for me
@Thedukeg1993-ww1gv
@Thedukeg1993-ww1gv 3 ай бұрын
Hey🎉 same exact birthday!
@pamdenise
@pamdenise 3 ай бұрын
Exact same birthday as well ☺️
@subasriradjou8540
@subasriradjou8540 3 ай бұрын
🙌❤
@LeandroBordakevich
@LeandroBordakevich 2 ай бұрын
Feel you. Freelancer in the film industry, just turned 31. I still see my child in the mirror. Working on feeling present more than anything else. Choosing actively to slow time down. Working on my diet, my body, trying to be softer for me and for everyone I love ❤
@robertbain1749
@robertbain1749 Ай бұрын
Consummate film-making. Beautifully planned, shot and executed. Been following Lana for a few years now and her film-craft has never been better. Capturs a generation of young people and their thinking. one of the best in the domain here. Many thanks Lana
@simonmteresa
@simonmteresa 3 ай бұрын
this feels like such a tight hug. your vids never fail to make me feel seen, validated & inspired. thank you, lana. your words are healing.
@ishichanxx
@ishichanxx 3 ай бұрын
Is it a coincidence that your videos always come in the right moment for me? I've been thinking about my future for many days but today I just felt a bit more LOST.
@LanaBlakely
@LanaBlakely 3 ай бұрын
I'm glad the timing was good. You'll be ok :) x
@Xen_b
@Xen_b 3 ай бұрын
I’m 22 now, I’ve been watching your videos since around 19. You are the only blogger I haven’t skipped a video from. Since you are a bit older than me, you talking about getting older and about those questions of age and goals really makes me feel like I have an elder sister, and that it’s not that scary, to go into the future. Because I can watch you do it, and you do that so authentically, being yourself. Thank you so much for your sincere videos, they always make me feel better. Always ❤️
@Maria-y7v6h
@Maria-y7v6h 3 ай бұрын
Hi Lana! I’ve been watching your crafts for 2 years now and it's helping me a lot heading the roads of me. Thank you very much! Sending you love! From the Philippines:) I once heard these beautiful sentences crafted by a TED Talk speaker and it still marked in me. “I have come to believe that coming true is not the only purpose of a dream. Its most important purpose is to get in touch with where dreams come from, where passion comes from, happiness comes from. Even a shattered dream can do that for you” I just turned 20 this year and am about to graduate in a year, and felt so lost. But I’ve come to realize that I’m already living my dream, filling my day with smiles, and laughter, and being able to see art in small things, you know the not-so-little and I resonate with what you said, that we can bloom even we are not in our sweet spot if only we allow ourselves.
@brendashen7710
@brendashen7710 3 ай бұрын
I just turned 28 and have been feeling unsettled about having no grand goals like my early 20s. Your video brings me so much reassurance! Thank you Lana
@joeyf9826
@joeyf9826 3 ай бұрын
I’m turning 30 soon and this really resonates with me. I tried very hard in high school (AP classes and all), then tried very hard in college, and have to tried to excel in every single job. And yet…..I feel nothing. Like dust in the wind. No real sense of accomplishment. No real sense of doing anything at all. A few people know me. No one outside of that small circle does. I survived. I made money. I was “busy” I look at pictures etc from my 20s, and I see myself gradually aging. I can extrapolate this out into the future….turning 35…turning 40. I’m “wise enough” now to see what’s coming. And it just fills me with sadness that “this is what life is”
@lylesloth1275
@lylesloth1275 2 ай бұрын
ok emo gjay kid
@rubix4741
@rubix4741 Ай бұрын
When you are quality over quantity, then you get to be more grateful about what you put your time and energy into. (Or your efforts if you feel like you have no energy). There is so much to life, when you try to make the most of every moment
@fibern631
@fibern631 Ай бұрын
Hi Joey. This is my first YT comment ever, but I really resonated with the things you wrote. I absolutely relate with your experience. I have the exact same feeling about life in general. Sometimes the feeling of emptiness is overwhelming.
@lylesloth1275
@lylesloth1275 Ай бұрын
@@fibern631 joey is gjay and emo and has no rizz, and does not love life
@aakashailajan
@aakashailajan 3 ай бұрын
“Your world has a safety net. You aren’t in freefall, and you never will be. You treat mistakes as final, but they almost never are. Pain and scars are a part of the path, but so is getting back up, and getting up is easier than ever.”
@rockokechukwu3343
@rockokechukwu3343 3 ай бұрын
This resonate a lot deeper than I expected. I am 32 now and I hope things will turn out alright. You got another subscriber
@FrancisV4
@FrancisV4 3 ай бұрын
Lana has such a good understanding of how life actually works. Many influencers are chasing money and fame more than anything else. Lana goes against that narcissistic nonsense, and it's quite refreshing.
@babesadams2991
@babesadams2991 3 ай бұрын
I resonate wth you! I'm 31 I realized a lot from being in the dark and rough roads. I'm changing my career but my goal is to be faithful in everything and just let everything happens to me. Hoping it's not all pain and suffering. In my heart I was ready to create a world filled with deep love joy, healing all around. The world is so pretty but the society is so ugly. It's good to be in solitude and enjoy the time you've been given. We humans are like flowers we wither. One day here next gone. It's important to have inner peace, inner healing. Doing the inner work. Gratitude makes things look a lot prettier. To live at peace with everyone is a challenge cuz a lot of people are turning narcissistic. So once in awhile it's good to spend time with nature and with yourself just doing nothing. And watch the world go by in silence. You'd hear alot. You'll feel purified just to close your eyes and desire nothing but peace and just go wherever God is leading up too. Not to live by human standard and going for the usuals as if life is like a grocery check list you don't have to do what others are doing. Focus on eternal things. Thats with value than what can be easily destroyed material 3D. Spread ❤Love. Gentle and be more mindful and listen more. For all of you here: I love you and I pray for you all to make it up to where you wanna be 🙏✨😁 sending you Genuine Joy, abundance and loveee. Take care of your soul, it's the most precious
@imroqaya5102
@imroqaya5102 3 ай бұрын
You’re my comfort person…thank you so much for being here lana💜
@hnnhml
@hnnhml 3 ай бұрын
Ditto💛
@jai-dii-seeker3149
@jai-dii-seeker3149 3 ай бұрын
New follower here. Interesting to listen to your thoughts about life! I am a 65 year old man from Sweden 🇸🇪 that did a 6 month journey around the world on a shoestring when I was 24 years young. That was one of the best things I done in my life and gave me a healthy perspective of the world and our lives as human beings on this planet 🌎. You are young and beautiful and have already acquired a mature perspective of what is important in life. As I am now entering my last years of life it’s becoming more and more important for me to prioritise the small things in daily life and keep on with painting, writing and discovering the beauty of our world and the creatures in it.
@aimeeroberts1703
@aimeeroberts1703 3 ай бұрын
I cannot express how beautiful this video is and how greatly comforted I feel right now. Your words and videos mean so much to so many individuals worldwide and I always feel a little wiser and a little more grateful after each one! Thank you for reminding us of the little things, as they truly aren't little. I wish you a beautiful week, month, year, and life Lana! :)
@marklouiscornea134
@marklouiscornea134 3 ай бұрын
I swear my youtube algorithm videos are speaking to me. This last weeks videos I saw, are about life, opening, and waking up your life.
@TheWanderer03
@TheWanderer03 3 ай бұрын
Sometimes things take time, universe sends signs and signals to make us deserving for what is ready for us in future. We are all just going towards our goals, some bit by bit, some too fast. Thank You Lana! Stay Blessed 🌸
@NicolaiTschenow7530
@NicolaiTschenow7530 3 ай бұрын
I relate to this alot. When i was 16 i just thought i was "the shit" and nothing could stop me. now in later 20s, the way i view the world is insanely different. from say 15-25 i felt like i was standing on the harbor and waiting for the sailing ship to take me on this great trip in life, now im finally out on the ocean and i see no land in the horizon, i just hope im going in a worthwhile direction.
@Александр-н5й3е
@Александр-н5й3е 3 ай бұрын
Understanding that people like you exist makes me happy.❤
@katarinathesecond
@katarinathesecond 3 ай бұрын
This video was like a hug for my soul 🥹
@JASWINDERSINGH-uq7ev
@JASWINDERSINGH-uq7ev 3 ай бұрын
Sometimes you wanna thank KZbin for introducing us to such positive channels glad I found this channel as recommendation been following you for 3 years ❤forever grateful
@broseph3165
@broseph3165 3 ай бұрын
You are so eerily similar to me that it’s tripping me out right now. From an almost 30 something probably halfway across the world from you, I know exactly how you’re feeling and thinking because I’ve thought and felt all those same things hundreds of times.
@hnnhml
@hnnhml 3 ай бұрын
Your mindset is so inspiring. I’m definitely on the other side of the spectrum, but I think being a bit more like you would let me chill out a bit more about everything 😅
@più_lento_28_13
@più_lento_28_13 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this, Lana. Being 26, i've been slowly starting to think about this, about the life path that i feel i should be pursuing, the stark contrast "with what and where i should be heading". This video and your words have brought great comfort for me. As always actually. I have to say, the beauty of your thoughts have accompanied me for quite some years now. I remember very well the first video i’ve watched from you. I was sitting in a coffeeshop in a late october or november evening in 2019, after college classes, watching “why i’m quiet”. Having always been a quiet guy, society has always make me think my quietness was something very (too) strange. A society that i’ve understood now to be way too fast, way too loud. Years later i feel much more at peace and the beauty and preciousness of your thoughts continue to leave a bright impact on me. Being just 3 years younger than you, you’ve always been like this example for me that is paving the way and that i know i can trust because of the similarity of our thought patterns. Not only have you made me feel okay with the ways i feel in my younger years, but you’ve made me see the world the way you do, as i deeply related to your thought patterns this whole time. About life, about nature, about seeing the preciousness hidden in the simplicity of Life. Which in reality is not so hidden for the one who’s willing to love, open their ears to the singing of the birds and their eyes to the grass being caressed by the wind. You can say that you have brought great comfort and helped enlighten the hearts and minds of countless other human beings, you certainly did for me, and that by itself make all the "things one should have or do by age 30" pale in comparison. Above all what is deemed "success" by a society that has forgotten to value what matters most, the impact of the thoughts you share on here rise above it all. May you bless many more souls with the beauty of yours, dear Lana :)
@theintentionalist
@theintentionalist 3 ай бұрын
Your writing and references and delivery are spot on for that feel good free soul vibe that I needed right now. Thank you kindly 😊
@diiwfiig
@diiwfiig 3 ай бұрын
That's what it feels like when a person is a you tuber. Especially with a genre/category like You. But sister, I want you to know that you've already achieved what many of us want to do in life. Spreading knowledge, awareness , positivity, leaving the world in a better state than the one you were born in. Just live, okay? Like the Cottage Fairy said. You two are two of my favourite Ladies
@praveen4024
@praveen4024 3 ай бұрын
Wow, very eye-opening and thought-provoking. Sometimes, a little perspective reset is all you need, and it takes you a long way. Thanks for sharing. Cheers
@Megpezz
@Megpezz 3 ай бұрын
My soul felt this deeply ❤️
@andreacamilsue
@andreacamilsue 3 ай бұрын
I'm 35 and I've been single for 14 years. I can totally relate to this!
@hectorpikipiki
@hectorpikipiki 3 ай бұрын
@@andreacamilsue I'm 32, I've been single for 32
@geraldleuven169
@geraldleuven169 Ай бұрын
@@hectorpikipiki You win
@Digitale_Native
@Digitale_Native 15 күн бұрын
I am male, 26 and never understood anything about relationships and the need of getting a girlfriend. I always had different problems in my life, so the focus wasn't there at all.
@UndeadAntZombie
@UndeadAntZombie 3 ай бұрын
Your final message is perfect and true, I believe. Well said.
@xiranty7012
@xiranty7012 12 күн бұрын
Kinda felt lost last couple months and heartbroken last couple weeks but this video calmed me down a bit and let me rerealize that i indeed should enjoy the little things instead of dwelling on the what ifs, what was and maybe this and that.. ty
@xoxocamilla
@xoxocamilla 3 ай бұрын
I loved the fig tree poem / analogy. I could relate to a lot of what you said. You did it so beautifully. I stopped being a dreamer a long time ago, unconsciously I think, perhaps because of many reasons, a big one being often disappointed by reality. I felt lost and without clear purpose or worth when I had graduated and was not motivated to have any further career driven ambitions, feeling like "is this it!?". So I'm taking life at a much slower pace and doing things or setting goals because they make me happy, not because it is expected of me.
@mansoor3159
@mansoor3159 3 ай бұрын
Glad to see you back Lana 😊😊
@AnnoyingStalking
@AnnoyingStalking 23 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for all these videos, Lana. I feel like I am never alone thanks to your work. Love from Portugal.
@opollitico
@opollitico 3 ай бұрын
Your videos are always so thoughtful and adept, considered and calm
@Just2Bii
@Just2Bii Ай бұрын
Lana, I loved the video. Smiled for 10 minutes. Thank you for putting my thoughts into words.
@jackthe15headedmonster25
@jackthe15headedmonster25 3 ай бұрын
This video really spoke to me, I'm in a spot right now where I've just been contemplating about my goals, ambitions, what I want to do with my life, what are the next steps. It reminded me the importance to slow down, Thank You! (As you said maybe its right in front of my nose, and maybe I'm not seeing it, this really gave a me piece to my mind)
@versha6370
@versha6370 3 ай бұрын
I just love your way of conversing your thoughts and what you feel🌼🤗
@ShamelessSelf
@ShamelessSelf 3 ай бұрын
Beautiful experience you created/let emerge here, appreciate you sharing! I recall turning 30 and it didn't feel as surprising as much as I thought it would. Now I am about turn 35 and realise one way of describing that is with the term "I will be in my mid thirties". Definitely got me feeling some feelings. Ultimately I am still a BIG kid not in an arrested development way but in spirit! I too mourn past moments allowing myself to doubt my unquie awesomeness. Oh well got it now, which is something most people can't say unfortunately! Keep being awesome
@saffafatima6599
@saffafatima6599 3 ай бұрын
This is so relatable and touching Lana! Beautiful video!
@MUHAMMADIMRAN-y2e4d
@MUHAMMADIMRAN-y2e4d 3 ай бұрын
So elegant. I really appreciate your outlook❤
@DenisDolisy
@DenisDolisy 3 ай бұрын
Such wise words ! I can relate to everything you said and you really touched my heart 🖤 I am a dreamer like you are but I too have realized that it's the little everyday things that matter most. Thank you so much for sharing this and being who you are 🖤
@pacoracer
@pacoracer 2 ай бұрын
Visiting Japan during the summer festivals season is definitely a great goal to aim for! Amazing content as always, Lana!
@Hans_Eriksson94
@Hans_Eriksson94 3 ай бұрын
I love your videos so much. They are so calming to watch. They really warm my heart and I feel like I’m getting a warm hug from you. I really would love a nice warm bear hug from you Lana 🧸🫂❤🥰☺️😌
@SilenceSweet
@SilenceSweet 3 ай бұрын
You feel like identification, I’m grateful for your existence and happiness, your words and beautiful voice has been my company for more than a year, you’re a friend , a warm hug and a company that will always live in my heart ❤❤ Love from India , may you live a healthy fulfilling life
@NFSMAN50
@NFSMAN50 3 ай бұрын
Helloo Lana, you are reading my mind as of lately my friend, ive been feeling this way too! You have grown lots Lana and i am proud of you friend 😊❤
@ДмитроРоманець-г9э
@ДмитроРоманець-г9э 3 ай бұрын
Your content is awesome. Thank you for helping many people. Appreciate it. Have a nice day
@jawsurgery777
@jawsurgery777 3 ай бұрын
you're beautiful :) my mom passed away 2017. it crushed me. but i keep on keeping on.there's really no goal. just be alive and keep the peace of mind.
@neirafoster7409
@neirafoster7409 3 ай бұрын
This video come out exactly when I need this. Thank you Lana ❤
@NatureDaydream
@NatureDaydream 3 ай бұрын
In my case, it's not that there are no goals. They are just unattainable or unrealistic. My age turned 28, 2 weeks ago and now I am worried that it's too late to achieve my goals as time continues to move forward. I have been watching your content for 4 and a half years and it always looks lovely to see how you evolve into a full-blown adult the way you love. Your cinematography is awe-inspiring. Rating this video 11 out of 10! Love ya!
@waterlillee
@waterlillee 3 ай бұрын
Sending you Love, Lanaaa!!❤
@Ar7Style87
@Ar7Style87 2 ай бұрын
Right after the fig story, when you mentioned that you still wanted to visit Japan I literally felt goosebumps. I studied Japanese back in university and I still feel like I never really fully committed to the idea of this compelling dream of mine to visit Japan and explore the country. Now, in my mid 30s the desire is still there, however, I feel as the constrains of social norms and life itself deter me from embarking on a new adventure/chapter. I am not even sure why I am sharing this under your video. I suppose I just wanted to write it down and share a glimpse of myself. Anyway, such an organic and beautifully structured video delivered in an easy to digest manner on a deeply resonating existential subject.
@Ryanlexz
@Ryanlexz 3 ай бұрын
Life is tough! Always Stay positive like my grandparents use to said to me
@Nabanita104
@Nabanita104 3 ай бұрын
I can feel you Lana! I am more or less in the same phase of my life, where i am no longer enthusiast about having different goals. All i want is a peaceful life, where i don't need to mull over my life anymore. Apart from that, we all are grateful for having you as a therapist, who constantly makes effort so that we don't feel bad about ourselves. Thanks a lot!
@aarchigoyal314
@aarchigoyal314 3 ай бұрын
Girl you're the best!!! You have motivated me alot . And i love how your videos are so soothing and your hair damnnn!!! 💕💕
@Mariammia77
@Mariammia77 3 ай бұрын
Dear Lana, I’m walking and listening to you now and it’s like a therapy.. it’s like the most beautiful song, the most beautiful voice in the world. I’m in the another country, I have no friends, but you make me feel that I am not alone.. I love u🧡🌞
@ziaakbar2535
@ziaakbar2535 3 ай бұрын
This is my first time watching your videos and I already loving your channel keep up the amazing content ❤😊
@JASWINDERSINGH-uq7ev
@JASWINDERSINGH-uq7ev 3 ай бұрын
When your card declines in therapy so they start showing Lana Blakely KZbin videos 😍😭💗 🙌
@melaniegriesemer
@melaniegriesemer 3 ай бұрын
Right!? 😂 Of course there’s no substitute for our own personal therapy but I looove when people mention certain tools and exercises their therapist recommends
@p3drogil
@p3drogil 3 ай бұрын
😂
@quietone826
@quietone826 3 ай бұрын
appreciate the talk. well done. sending love. 🙏🏽😌
@vannybowo9616
@vannybowo9616 3 ай бұрын
I feel you Lana, thank you for keep strong and survive until now
@rhiannon_pearl
@rhiannon_pearl 3 ай бұрын
I absolutely loved this. Thank you for sharing ❤
@Maniiiisshaa
@Maniiiisshaa 3 ай бұрын
Thank you lana for this beautiful video . I needed it ❤
@FurkanSavas
@FurkanSavas 3 ай бұрын
Almost 28, the older I get the more I realise that there arent major things in life to do, but with small changes life changes overtime. I do have a goal where I have enough freetime to travel the world at a slowly pace, I am also working towards that goal. Life doesnt get any easier though quick up and downs happens a lot these days.
@houdaboudjellal9218
@houdaboudjellal9218 3 ай бұрын
Love this youtuber so much 💕💕💕💕
@LanaBlakely
@LanaBlakely 3 ай бұрын
hiiii
@Beachybird-i3f
@Beachybird-i3f 3 ай бұрын
Your timing is just perfect 👍 whenever i feel confused in life thinking that i lost myself,thats exactly when ur videos hits my phone like a fairy who appers at the right moment to comfort a sad girl watching this entire world through her windows on soundless night thinking what's exactly her purpose in this world, there u comes with these lovely and comfortable sentences which makes me feel, don't worry ur on the right path just keep moving forward by relaying on god he will show u the best way that he created for you, Just trust the process . Ur words were always like a heart to heart talk with a big sister lana. Thnxx for ur lovely videos , it's always been like a very close connection to me even though we haven't know eachother 😊
@sayanmazumder1914
@sayanmazumder1914 2 ай бұрын
Woww, you feelers are just awesome ❤. The experience was sooo much heavenly PEACEful. I've always felt much relaxed chatting with my ENFP friend too. 1 Lana Blakely content per day, keeps all your worries away 🎉. We love your content #Lana.
@Abdullah-zl9ub
@Abdullah-zl9ub 3 ай бұрын
I’m 31 now and I feel I graduated school just yesterday. I had also so many dreams when I was young and now I feel I have less accomplishments and feels lost. It felt easier when we were at school and now the world feels so big and living without goals. Agree with what you said Lana and want the simple things now.
@MichaelMSwart
@MichaelMSwart 3 ай бұрын
Lana, this is a great video. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
@biancab809
@biancab809 3 ай бұрын
Lovely video ❤ you have a beautiful voice. I felt every single word from your video. Like you I think every day about my life and what should i do and what career should follow.. i am 30 years, i have a job in finance field but my mind tell me that i should do more or something else and i can't decide what.. but sometimes i take a step behind and i am just grateful for all the blessings from my life ❤ life is beautiful if you decide to see it like that ❤ hugs from Romania 😘🤗
@theinnermovies77
@theinnermovies77 Ай бұрын
I think I never commented on your videos but let me say: what a beautiful and insightful video Lana! As a 34 year-old French guy, it kind of resonated a lot with where I'm at in life and what I feel about the illusion, sometimes despair and often joy behind this complex idea of age! I guess it's the beauty of the internet and I simply want to say thank you #cheesycosysunday
@priyagupt.a
@priyagupt.a 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Lana I really needed to hear what you said.
@Danial-f8t
@Danial-f8t 3 ай бұрын
the feeling of overwhelmed desires and wishes getting mixed up with goals is a feeling i am not a stranger to. i wish sometimes to break a world record, other times i want to be the best at my work i do in my office, sometimes i wish to be the next ronaldo of this world and sometimes i wish to cruise on a bike which i want to buy with my own income.these are all goals and desires mixed up but as sylvia path said about the fig tree , i think the quicker we are with the initiative and focus all our powers into that one thing we choose to do, i think nobody in the world would regret to do so later on in life. yes you will have incomplete wishes but the regrets remain until you let it. moreover about the little things, i personally enjoy the most when i am alone at any place so i start talking to myself, be it while walking to university or going to work, i love the small silent chats i have with myself. i make myself laugh, i make myself cry i am my best companion but still it is never enough. i guess that's life. although the chances are meagre lana, but if you ever find the chance to go to japan, dont miss it ever bcz opportunity knocks on the door but seldom does it ever break in and hug you itself. love your videos.
@Dinkysweg
@Dinkysweg 3 ай бұрын
Just turned 30, and I couldn't relate more to your video! I just want to take things slow, although lately, I've realized that taking things slow and getting that peacefulness in your life gets harder to attain the older we get. Just enjoy life. Make that cup of coffee. Smile at your dog in the morning. These are simple pleasures that we should all be grateful for
@LanaBlakely
@LanaBlakely 3 ай бұрын
amen!!
@MsNightrocker
@MsNightrocker 3 ай бұрын
You are beautiful, inside and out. Love from a fellow HSP
@teslataxi4546
@teslataxi4546 3 ай бұрын
Don't worry too much, Lana, you are going to be just fine.
@AngelinoDiallo
@AngelinoDiallo 3 ай бұрын
Having 1.65M Subscribers in YT is already a Big Win. And you are soooo Pretty ❤
@azhanahan
@azhanahan 3 ай бұрын
this hits home. didn't know i needed to hear this today. thankyou!!
@tami1468
@tami1468 3 ай бұрын
if comfort were a person, it'd be you Lana ❤️
@ShivangiNaithani
@ShivangiNaithani 3 ай бұрын
Discovered this channel and this video was so beautifully put ❤ Thankyou for this
@raraavirav
@raraavirav 3 ай бұрын
i just wanna say, thankyou beautiful being❤
@hummingbird4934
@hummingbird4934 2 ай бұрын
I remember being this young and having it all figured out too. It’s so utterly important to be in the right environments and not to dismiss your emotions and what they are trying to tell you. Mine were telling me for a long time to stop working and I didn’t listen. Had a massive breakdown and ended up in hospital as a result. I now have severe cptsd as a result of my experiences in there and am a thousand times worse off. So please listen to your body!!
@natemarx4999
@natemarx4999 3 ай бұрын
Lana fills my notifications with happiness.
@SURBHI249
@SURBHI249 3 ай бұрын
Hi lana.I am 32 and i can totally relate with this. Lots of love from India
@GloriaMkhabela-x7b
@GloriaMkhabela-x7b 3 ай бұрын
You're voice is so asmr😍
@soumikroy3313
@soumikroy3313 3 ай бұрын
It's same for me. I have never had any specific life goals. Moreover I have been suffering from Social anxiety and it already made my life a living hell. I missed so many career opportunities just because of it. I am 25 now but hope I will do something better.
@jeanpaultongeren125
@jeanpaultongeren125 3 ай бұрын
try keto vore or Carnivore diet
@FoodieNYC
@FoodieNYC 3 ай бұрын
@@jeanpaultongeren125how would that help with social anxiety
@Digitale_Native
@Digitale_Native 15 күн бұрын
it's like I have written this comment. I am exactly like this right now, but complaining is not a strategy. I feel so depressed (I know, it's an overused term and I hate it tbh), but feeling depressed and crying won't solve my problems
@joydeepbanerjee8262
@joydeepbanerjee8262 3 ай бұрын
Well.. so articulate on your part. It summarises like Whitman " Do i contradict myself ? Very well then i contradict myself, I am large I contain multitudes."
@arunsinghalmusic
@arunsinghalmusic 2 ай бұрын
Amazing honest video, that inspired me to make a series like this about my life.
@AdrianFahrenheitTepes-ed9vu
@AdrianFahrenheitTepes-ed9vu 3 ай бұрын
Ecclesiastes 12:7 ''Remember your Creator in the days of your youth, before the days of trouble come and the years approach when you will say, “I find no pleasure in them”- before the sun and the light and the moon and the stars grow dark, and the clouds return after the rain; when the keepers of the house tremble, and the strong men stoop, when the grinders cease because they are few, and those looking through the windows grow dim; when the doors to the street are closed and the sound of grinding fades; when people rise up at the sound of birds, but all their songs grow faint; when people are afraid of heights and of dangers in the streets; when the almond tree blossoms and the grasshopper drags itself along and desire no longer is stirred. Then people go to their eternal home and mourners go about the streets. Remember him-before the silver cord is severed, and the golden bowl is broken; before the pitcher is shattered at the spring, and the wheel broken at the well, and the dust returns to the ground it came from, and the spirit returns to God who gave it.''
@hectorpikipiki
@hectorpikipiki 3 ай бұрын
What is the translation you are using?
@陈思艺-g8k
@陈思艺-g8k 3 ай бұрын
It's all about my status that depends on what to appear on my mind and i now get used to following it that makes me feel good and comfortable..just for living better not being too hard on self
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