*almost argued* jk😂 candid QnA w mumma | first child problems, feminism, parenting

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[@sangeydolma1309]

Very rightly said "jitna cooperative baccha ho parents utna hi strict honge"

[@trapteebhatt]

Typical dialogues of all mom- ab wo apni marzi ki malkin hai 😂😂😂😂😂...

[@kratiawasthi2786]

Love how the conversation is unfiltered and it kind of healed me a bit knowing that almost every child goes through such phases with their parents

[@nasihakhalpe14]

Really it's true first child ko bhot strict rkha jata h and 2nd and 3rd child tak bhot cool ban jate h😊 I totally agree with the mobile conversation.

[@undeflectedray315]

Bhaisaabb this conversation is reallyy unfiltered... I am also the oldest child in my family and i too have 2 younger sibling and meri bhi hamesaa esi behes hoti h mmy se😂

[@MitaliThisSide]

Thanks for sharing

[@tanukumari1491]

Same with me

[@suhanigautam5783]

it seems mitali is quite upset with aunty i dont know why i m getting that feeling

[@ga6880]

I felt mitali ust wanted a little more attention from her mother(parents) and she is upset abt that 🙃 ( i kinda relate to it)

[@kirtiverma4542]

Ye har elder bachhe k sath hota h...but mitali ne bahut bravely face kiya h...jab ki ye sabhi hurtful situations hoti hain 😢😢

[@homosapiens20]

Her mother is literally my mother in every aspect 🤣🤣..... Lots of love for her ❤❤

[@MitaliThisSide]

♥️♥️

[@zainabj4843]

​@@MitaliThisSide❤

[@krishnaraj632]

Your mumma is just awesome How she speak how she express things out is just outstanding just love herr so much

[@shanayadiwaker3078]

Yaar Mitali, I can completely relate with you in the beginning of the conversation and I’m also the first born daughter of the my house, and seriously I had also made so many sacrifices, and my siblings are getting everything very easily. I can relate to whatever conversation happens in this video. I’m going to show this video to my parents as well.

[@nanditarathi]

Mitali just ended watching this video with your mom and i really want to acknowledge how honest she was after you doing soo good in your life and successfully become a financial independent girl. Still her advice and thoughts are so ground to earth like every indian society mom's gave to their childrens. And that's the authenticity i love about you and your mother. Being an educated female she is modern yet not letting you to forget your roots. It feels so good to see these kind of content. Also appreciating you to keeping it so unfiltered and asking the questions that every child or parent can relate. Lots of love to you!!!!! ❤

[@MitaliThisSide]

🫶🏻♥️

[@02nidhipriya90]

Sis apke parents bahot shi kiye aapko 9 class me smart phone nhi de ke ....q ki ushke bad aap itna padhai me aage nhi aa pati

[@seemonwho-]

Loved how your mother has clarity about everything. Love her!

[@varsharaj877]

New room tour di plsss

[@shivanshi_patel_]

Absolutely loved this unfiltered convo 😂 Being a first girl child, i can totally related with you.

[@tanyachopra2803]

sorry mitali but i went through same things but the times are changed now and i made peace that what i had in those times were precious after looking at today's school kids..

[@MitaliThisSide]

That’s great

[@AaradhyaKashyap-dh6ce]

Just love the way she tried to explain her mom abt unknown topics...

[@Akshditi]

Mitali ne video k chakkar meii apni sari bhdaas nikaal dii😅😅

[@yashityagi8383]

true 😂😂😂😂

[@kaushikiranjan89]

Trueee😂

[@pranshipatel6941]

Mitali.... littrely mere andar ki elder child vali speech de rahi thi😭🤣 oh my god 😂😂love this video!!! ❤ And that sentence hit me so hard " bachha jitna cooperative hoga parents utna hi usko control karte he"❤️‍🩹🥲

[@Dr.gotthecards]

Re-upload hua hai meine pehle hi dekh liya tha

[@bhavleenkaur3340]

yesss

[@HenneCindie]

Muje deja vu hua notification deke 😂

[@nandinipatel_x]

Absolutely loved this conversation!! Your mum is the sweetest, loved her personality and values!

[@MitaliThisSide]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@ananyakatoch2929]

Salute to your mother. When i listened that line ki wo 3rd year hospital me hi rahy during her pg and when you were born at that time. Your father used to pick u up and then bring you in the hospital so that your mother can see you... That line really hits me. Your mother is really an inspiration for young girls like us. She really taught me today that what carreer is , what passion is all about.❤ Really respect for her dil se. ❤

[@gargipatnaik7255]

this was so heartfelt and impromptu! Your mother is extremely witty and she totally nailed it. I am hundred percent sure my mother would agree with her views too lol

[@MitaliThisSide]

♥️♥️

[@Dr.Garima_Mis.Medicine]

Your parents are proud of you.. soo dont worry be happy... m also the older one i can feel u

[@MitaliThisSide]

🫶🏻♥️

[@justvibin30]

Us bro us 😂 same conversation mein meri mummy ke sath karti hnu aur kab wo argument mein tabdil ho jata he pata hi nai chalta 🙈 it’s the side effect of being elder child I think 🤔 but btw your contents are really nice keep growing 🎉❤

[@pawanisworld611]

this video is crazy for sure 😂😂 ly aunty and mitali love love

[@MitaliThisSide]

🫶🏻♥️

[@Medicos12614]

This is what the unfiltered content called ❤ love the way aunty express every answer by heart 💜 keep posting like this

[@saranoor3785]

As a elder child.. I can also feel mitali... Bohat e injustice houa hain hamare sathe 😅😅 Love this podcast❤

[@dvkideologies2047]

I love daughter mother conversations so real . Maybe often bring her too sometimes her honest opinions are evrything

[@vernal_blooms]

Your mother is very different and dedicated to her work & her duties. My respect to aunty 🙌

[@MitaliThisSide]

Yes, agree

[@Sonav-log]

Truely said Mitali, more the kid is co-operative and understanding, parents will get more stricter with them especially to first-born, & vice-versa. This gives rise to self-doubt sometimes and many other unwanted emotions are evoked inside. If they would be as co-operative as first kid is, kid will have good cherishable memories to look aback. Nonetheless, they are parents, whatever happened cannot be changed, though can compensated with by creating good memories in present. By the way, very good video, feels like you have enquired everything which I wish I could asked to my Mum. Thanks Mitali, GBU.❤

[@Idkanyone-x3v]

Middle child left the chat

[@Clueless246]

Ok so I have watched this video in the afternoon only 😅.. though it was deleted but I watched it completely because of glitch !😂 now will watch it again with my mom... she's a teacher and have came from school just now yaayyayyayayayy ❤

[@priyanshisaxena1175]

Metali being the typical elder kid 😂😂...bro i totally get from where these questions are coming and where the debate is going..😂😂

[@priyanshisaxena1175]

@Dm_MitaliThisSide1 mere pass tumhare liye police ka number h chahiye???

[@Riya_22106]

this is must watch for every parents and every child!!!! so truely said each and evry thing! enjoyed it alot and learned a lot!

[@Solivagant1908]

She has such a lovely and calm aura... love listening to her 🫶🏻💖

[@MitaliThisSide]

🫶🏻♥️

[@palak9896]

Mitali is little bit disappointed by her childhood....ofc it is normal bacho se apni life compare nhi kar sakte if our mom is working women it's a truth❤️❤️❤️

[@shreyamishra1691]

Di .it feels so nostalgic today...I started watching your vlogs two years back when I used to live with my parents..and today I'm alone in hostel...it feels so different today being away from home for the first time

[@mokshikamalik]

Hands down, I follow you since really long, and this video was undoubtedly your BEST video. Loved it! Being an elder sibling, and that too a girl, I could relate to each and every part of the video. The phone, activa, the need to prove that yes, I am capable of this or that or the leniency that the younger sibling gets, the communication gap, everything was relatable. This is my first comment in such a long time following you, but this was meant to be stated. You are literally the most relatable content creator. Your aesthetics are literally inspired from real life of a student in Delhi, and I can say, you are unfiltered in that context. Hoping to meet you one day in the streets of Delhi and having a really good conversation. Keep doing great, Mitali

[@beacuse-why-not]

Such an open and heart to heart video.. got so many different perspectives to think about.. do more such videos often..❤❤

[@MitaliThisSide]

Thank you, I will

[@Yjus67-wq4ps]

Trust me, this is what unfiltered conversation looks like😂🎉 Now i m getting why mitali is so UNIQUE and so STRONG to handle everything around her. Keep growing bro ❤

[@nehachoudhary06]

Nokia😂

[@Yjus67-wq4ps]

@@nehachoudhary06 lol😂😂😂

[@dmr4714]

19:45 Broo....Aunty roasted the whole male community..😗🤣🤣 roj rang badlte hai😆😂😂

[@MitaliThisSide]

😂😂

[@palak9896]

Aunty ofc have superior opinions and also she don't saw ghungat pratha and all...kuki wo sikh h and in our sikh culture there is no boundaries for females...even they can go gurdwara in periods....so it's her religion who teaches her these freedom ✨❤️

[@Neh0705]

Honestly, the best, raw and amazing podcast...so relatable yrr❤❤aunty is just so sweet!

[@emmmmmmm465]

being the 1st born with both working parents i feel you mitali ..even what you said and what you didnt

[@reginaphalange7509]

I LOVE this. If I could provide a little criticism, your mother seems a bit nervous, like you're putting her on the spot (w the camera, w the questions being of an intense confrontational nature) and that's evident. Maybe allow her some space to breathe and time to answer with honesty and less fear of judgement.

[@pratulyaarora6734]

It was a very nice and entertaining podcast 😊. Keep growing, May Mata rani bless your family with good health aur prosperity.

[@MitaliThisSide]

🫶🏻♥️ thanks

[@nishamishra4035]

I don't usually comment on videos but...... Through this q and a i got to know one thing about mitali ....this lady/girl is hiding hell lots of words and pain in her heart .... looking at her eyes... That emotionally she is self made woman...!.. itni tuti itni tuti ki ab unbreakable ban gyi !... Now she fears of nobody!.. nothing!.. she doesn't has fear of being alone in any situation!... Upar se mitali sharma social life jiti hai khush rehti hain multitasking multiple jobs krti hai lekin andar se Miss Mitali Sharma!.. she is in proper monk state!.. na kisi k aane ki extreme excitement na kisi k jaane ka extreme dukh !.. ❤️❤️ Nd oh god my mother is homemaker with MA degree but yess looking at aunty inspite she is doctor we can say ... Indian specially up bihar jharkhand ki mummiya same ground level pe hoti hain simplicity at peak no over react nothing!.. even all the indian moms 🌷❤️

[@yashasvitripathi5539]

Whh mitali whh❣️😂mza aa gya❤️.. You are representing every child there😘

[@saksheee_25]

without any pause 30 mins I watched it before the day of my 4th sem exams and definitely worth it.❤tons of love to your mumma

[@CA_PritiGarg]

Yrrrr, u nailed it How can someone be so transparent I have never ever learnt this much from any video Like seriously u r amazing bro Lots nd lots of love to u and ur mother It was awesome

[@-_-Pikachu-]

I wish i had this much supportive mother 🥺you're so lucky to have her💕

[@MitaliThisSide]

🫶🏻♥️

[@chichanu2831]

you mom is so good in giving advice and the way she replies with full experience and in a practical way

[@anjaligoyal8153]

Being an older child i can totally relate to your upbringing argument

[@jayrana5977]

The most savage dialogue was - 9th mai diya tha na "chota wala nokia", 😂😂😂 And mitali be like - Exactly, nahi chahiye tha aisa phone 😥😥🤣🤣🤣

[@MitaliThisSide]

😂😂😂

[@Samiksha_pithore]

Loved your mother's views on living happy life and also thinking on feminism too❤

[@shagunchoukse2826]

Omgggg loved your mom so relatable being the first child and a doctor

[@ernstkim6370]

Last question is so relatable like pahale toh parents bolte hai ki career pe focus raho 20s me aate hai sbki shadi achii ho ye yaad aane lgta hai 😂.

[@user-vo9uc1in3]

Wo to parents ka kaam h bolna. Aur bacche kon sa unka baat 💯% Maan lete h , sab kuch to karte hi h chup chupa ke

[@sakshitiwari2753]

Jo profession aapne passion se chuna hai uske liye regret nhi banta❤ What a line😊

[@livanshi1279]

Literally it was unfiltered

[@tanisharandhan7485]

I feel like we should never blame our parents for bad parenting or something we didnt like then .....they are also human being ,they were also learning then i was the first born child felt the same few year back ..but now when i understand there situation they did wht they felt was the best then wrong or right when discussed or evaluated .

[@anuragrawat9107]

Good points at 7:32 about feminism balance is the key to lead a good life…

[@monalisapanda704]

7:23 Ma'am Salute (kya baat bole ap)!! Hope these lines hits to every so called Genz.

[@mirin2007]

Being eldest daughter,I could literally relate to every point

[@shivigoswami7596]

Very matured conversation with you ❤

[@riyarani3869]

Best part.... females hamesha se superior rhi hai🌻✨

[@Itsprito]

mitali is me, me is mitali. ,🤣 bs m sbse choti hu aur mitali sbse badi🙌

[@priyankakhattar7200]

Really appreciate what your mom said. We totally agree with her.

[@MadhaveeKulkarni]

Lots of love to thiss cutieee!!💗🌻

[@_aishwarika_6235]

Wow...I loved it ❤...It was really so good and unfiltered actually... lots of love to Mitali di and aunty ♥️

[@Oolalaaa]

Her mom is practical and witty. I like her ❤

[@nidanoor937]

I am only 22 year old, but I wanna grow into a woman like Aunty. She is so so so graceful.

[@ShrutiSwarnim]

m 20 yr old girl..eldest sibling..gone through same things...abhi tak mujhme himmat nahi thi...par ye dekhke mujhme bhi himmat aa gayi mummy ko aise bolne ki...thanks for inspiring di😊

[@yashiluthra2292]

I liked aunty's views on equality n willingness of person to do for herself

[@chaitalishende2887]

She is very straight to her point😅 Typical Indian mother just like any other mom..

[@AnkitaRoy-u2u]

In Indian society the position of women nothing changed in semi urban, rural India still they can't choose their study and carrier.

[@cheenu2064]

Sometimes we forget that our parents also grow along with us while doing our upbringing.

[@manshipoddar9590]

Thanku Mitali and to your mom for explaining about passion which literally many people do not actually understand

[@ukp697]

Your mom is the sweetest one ......so much to learn through this ...thanksss for sharing this ❤❤loved it !! Plz aunty ke sath or videos bnana mja aata hai ...❤❤ lovee for aunty 🤍 ur bond is soo pureee 🧿

[@ManviBaliyan-s1w]

Aapki Mummy ki baat hai itni relatable hai na didi bahut acchi hai aunty ❤

[@unnatiople3349]

Mitali di u shouldn't have fought with ur mom for not having phone in 9th and not giving activa, farak bas waqt ka hai aaj aur aapke waqt me farak tha ye sabke ghar me hai younger siblings ke pass 5-6 th se android phones hai scooty hai and u being 1st child were more special for them so she being 1st time parent she was so concerned about each and every thing about u. (I adressed this bcoz meri bhi kuch din pehle meri mom se jhagda hua mujhe to phone nhi mila and all and i realised its not their fault ye bas waqt hai🙂)

[@MitaliThisSide]

Bro toh jab tak baat karoge nahi clear kaise hoga?

[@unnatiople3349]

@@MitaliThisSide 👍

[@suzain70]

Your mother is beautiful and brilliant doctor 💊🏥

[@MitaliThisSide]

Thank you so much!

[@simplifyingstudy]

Thats true... Daant khaana is a habit . Mitali is the real elder daughter 🤧🤧🤧. I can feel you.

[@simplifyingstudy]

@Dm_MitaliThisSide1 haa ji vej dijiye

[@AmritaRao-09]

Wow ..loved this ❤ maine phle hi dekh li thi video fir se abhi comment krne aai hu or fir se dekh bhi li ❤ Lot's of love you 💓

[@MitaliThisSide]

🫶🏻♥️

[@niharikasingh4521]

it was really really nice video loved it!! thanks mitali di... watched it with my mom . jo me nahi kah paai apki video ke through unhe bta diya... thanks a lot didu :) loved it!

[@Akshitaa_Ranout_]

THANK YOU FOR AGAIN UPLOADING THIS VIDEO,, I was searching for your video everywhere,, And just want to take a moment and appreciate your efforts and your hardwork!! Iam your quite old subscriber and I love watching your videos,, And You are so much like your mom! Just keep growing,, Lots of love!❤️‍🩹✨

[@MitaliThisSide]

So nice of you

[@chauhanchauhan63]

Ur mother is just mtlb sbd ni h bht bht bhttttt achi in terms of thoughts and understanding everything lots of love ❤❤❤

[@Kripa027]

She is so straight forward liked it🥹❤️lots of love to you and your family 💕 it's looking like my mother is sitting there and me as mitali di 😂😂😂 that line: diya to tha chota nokia 🤣💀

[@Kripa027]

@Dm_MitaliThisSide1 apne paas he rakho

[@Arpss]

The mother daughter duo is just amazing ❤

[@myunseenshades5776]

Hie Mitali......i subscribed and followed u jb tumne neet dia tha ...us wqt mene diya tha...difference is i didn't clear it n today i m in different proffession.... Whenever i watch on ig or utube i use to connect myself with u ...but being a very middle class and bihari i always lacking in these kind of conversations with my parents...may be there are huge generational gap and they r not so im fancy and prestigious proffession...but jb dekhti hu tumhe i acknowledge that yes if she os growing day by day... probably i will also ....❤ Love u ...u r really blessed to have such family and home❤

[@MitaliThisSide]

♥️♥️

[@kritiyapa1874]

literally felt like the convo I have with my mom so real and things which I actually want to tell my mum. All Indian moms are same 💕

[@Inshatariq707]

Actually apny ooper ke gyi har zaditi ka jawab le rhi hai.... Hahahhahah..... I laughed out loud, when mitali said at 13:52 ke aur freedom and her mom be like "nhi osy konsa mai 10 bje bolti hu tu ghoomny chli ja".... Mitali really your mom is sooo down to earth and doesn't feel like she is a surgeon.... Loved that conversation, ur mom is very real

[@Inshatariq707]

Thnku but i don't need..... Online duniya k chor🤬

[@mamtaaagrawal9334]

Mitali ,you are quite privileged ..as far as ur family is concerned...u have educated parents , everything..Your mom here is very practical and you should listen to her ...later you may regret in life...

[@jyotishukla6585]

Ur mom nd u Doctor mom nd final yr MBBS Same to same Me nd my daughter Me doctor, my daughter in final yr MBBS Same life situations, same daughters feelings , omg its so relatable .....

[@jyotianilgupta9625]

Loved this raw and pure conversation between you and your mumma lots of love ❤😊

[@richasingh2184]

Lots n Lots of love to aunty ❤ ❤❤

[@sanamansuri2003]

Mitali... I cried you know when you are talking about upbringing it's the same with me

[@muskansharma3199]

Mitali literally complaning 😂

[@VaibhaviBhargav]

Diii…. I must say you have got the coolest mom ever….. I mean the way she was answering your each and every question is just fantastic….. She is just slaying like literally she was spitting facts….. No wonder how you have got that unwavering confidence….. lysm ❤❤❤❤❤

[@MitaliThisSide]

Agreee

[@adityavats3435]

Really insightful and unique content keep up the good work ❤🎉

[@SlaylorSwift14]

oh my god,mitali I relate to this video soooo much.I have so much built up against my parents soooo much and this whole video is a rant omfg

[@anoushkaghoshal9800]

the whole personal life and career thing in the end was soo apt...loved the videos..