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[@jaclynro]

I love your views on dating. Yes to everything you said: - Keep your standards high - It's ok to wait - Want to be in a committed relationship, and just date for flings/hookups. Your heart is to be valued. - It's ok to not have experience with boys/men. - Enjoy being single I basically did everything you just said on your views on dating. I waited. I held my standards high. Had my first real BF (now husband) at 28 years old. Got married at 29, and just celebrated our 9 year anniversary. You're right! God knows who the RIGHT person is for you. It's worth the wait. LOVE!!! how you're using your platform to share your views. You're such a great example to young women and women in general. ❤️ And yes it's your Taylor Swift year. 🤗

[@rachiesakim]

aww that is amazing ! 🥰

[@WarChortle]

100% Dating as a younger person is awful and now that I'm out of that game and age range I'm so happy I'm with my forever person. It can take time to find that person. I think more people seek real commitment closer to their 30s, so enjoy your 20's there is no pressure or rush.

[@ホクホクタイガー]

Girl, I’m 23, more or less same as you do. I totally get the thing about relationship, finding a partner who is willing to commit and is someone you would like to commit to as well, especially at our age. Thank you for letting me know that I’m not alone🥺 let’s don’t lower our standard and fine a nice partner someday 💋

[@rachiesakim]

ur never alone!!💕💕

[@alangiles776]

Hi. The segment of you enjoying your picnic in Central Park was lovely to watch. I really hope that you find the right guy who will love and care for you for the next 60 years and not find the guy who thinks commitment is 3 dates in the same week. Personally, I think that us guys are wired completely wrong when it comes to dating/relationships/hook-ups. We convince ourselves that we need to get a kiss on a second date, a proper kiss on a third date and then from a fourth date.............. you know. But obviously it shouldn't be like that. There is NO rule that says a woman has to "give out" after three or four dates. So good for you. It was lovely to spend time watching how you spend a 'self care' day. I hope you have the best week. 🙂

[@NWRJ]

You’re still young! You have plenty of time to enjoy yourself! It’s better to wait and be single than settle for a bad relationship. I’m 28 and I’m still single. 😂 The right person will come at the right time. That’s cool you’re in my city! NYC pizza 🍕 is the best!

[@rachiesakim]

yes!! i fully agree:) hehe i gotta go back soon!

[@MrZV-AUS]

From a similar view but as a guy; there’s a lot of pressure on people in general to start early especially from peers and in Australia I think it’s similar but it’s not like American dating. So by 9th grade, majority of students will have dated at least once and if you don’t then you risk being ostracised or neglected as a minority

[@mariaflaskarova3018]

I just started uni and although I am just 19 I am already feeling anxious about being single by seeing people around me getting into relationships and being happy in them. While, I am just here all alone wishing someone would take interest in me- asking myself “what is wrong with me”? “Why not me, why her”?, which can be really frustrating and put my self-worth down. I am similar to you in the sense that when I like someone I become really attached and devoted and I would want the same attention and care from someone else, like for a guy to finally take serious interest in me- not just a random hookup. I have been feeling down about this for quiet some time now, but I am happy to say that your video actually helped me realize that good things take time and I do love myself and hold myself high up so I should have the right to be picky about such and important thing as my future partner, as I DESERVE a good and healthy relationship! Thank you for reminding me of this and making me feel less alone, Rachie. Love your videos! Lots of love and happiness, Maria❤

[@rachiesakim]

AW that is amazing :) thank u for sharing!! and dw i have felt all those same things and it's totally normal and ur not alone!!

[@xBabygirlAlinax]

Omg I just traveled to New York alone this past weekend!! It was truly MAGICAL. I felt like I found myself. I love NYC 😍

[@rachiesakim]

omg we were both there!! it’s so fun to hang out alone haha

[@lie_michelle00]

The squash is the best I agree!

[@laxy23]

I totally agree on your view on relationship.

[@rachiesakim]

🥰🥰

[@grace-hw4jp]

im loving the consistent posting!!

[@rachiesakim]

haha trying my best before school gets too busy

[@mahaali2337]

This was inspiring and got me really thinking... it would be nice to see more of these vlogs

[@rachiesakim]

aww more will come!!

[@pino6325]

Omggggg girllll I love your makeup 💚💚💚💚

[@rachiesakim]

aww thank uu!!

[@MrZV-AUS]

Hey is it okay if I watch this when I wake up for breakfast ?

[@gaurigholap982]

Hey girlie you know what you are simply amazing and doing so so amazing. I know uni life can be so stressing, at times I feel the same and yes spending some alone time is actually healing....I did it too and you know what you are doing fine and we all are doing great too. Cheering upon each other!!!! you ARE AMAZING, BELIEVE ME☺🥰😇

[@rachiesakim]

YEP we can do this!!

[@linseylinn]

You deserve everything you want for yourself, for trips & relationship! Don’t settle! You’ll be surprised when your future husband throws himself at you 😋

[@rachiesakim]

HAHA i hope so :)

[@princessbabibear4794]

Punishing yourself is definitely not productive in the long run. Accepting God's forgiveness after turning away from sin will set you free Our love, significance and security. Should come from the Lord and loving yourself ( cuz he first loved us ) and asking for help when you're struggling and doing better in college from this point forward is a healthy perspective. I'm glad you have a counselor .I do too. It really makes a difference. When you have someone to talk to that is neutral. You can tell them whatever was on your mind without worrying about hurting people's feelings or anything.

[@bogis343]

I relate so much to what you've said! I've just turned 23, and I've never dated, and people tell me I should and I should lower my standards. But I'm also on with you waiting for the right one, a long-term partner, so yeah, just wanted to say that you're not alone! Also, I would definitely love to see more self-care days by yourself like this one. It really inspires me to do the same, so hopefully, I'll get around to do it, too. Thank you so much for this video! It really made me feel more understood & less alone. ❤

[@rachiesakim]

yes!! self care for the win :)

[@priyaratnam8216]

Hi rachie , im 20 this year and when i listen when you talking about relationship i feel that im not alone because im single untill today and all of my friends already have one and they also asked me when i will have one but i dont even care because i love being single is like when you're ready then go for it but if you're not then don't . I love you rachie 😍😘 you inspiring me alot since i watched your videos since 2020 on penn state.😘😘

[@rachiesakim]

aww that makes me so happy! Ur not alone and thank u for watching my vids!

[@sarahb5465]

I'm truly proud of you for standing up for yourself TO yourself, when you talked about not allowing yourself to go to the trip because you didn't "earn it". I spent my 5 years in Pharma school forbidding myself to do anything other than study, not even working out, because I thought I didn't deserve to feel good about my body as long as I didn't get good grades which quickly turned into a vicious cycle that lasted waaay too long. I would feel so bad for doing my hair or dressing remotely well before an exam because I thought that I didn't prioritize my studies, which wasn't the case AT ALL but that's how it translated in my mind. I had no life, I would see my friends 2-3 times a year, would only allow myself to watch TV shows sometimes but no going out because I thought I didn't deserve to "waste my time/energy like that" or to feel remotely relaxed. I'm starting grad school this winter at my dream uni in Montreal, and I hope to have your strength to be kind to myself at all times. The irony of it all is that I would have been more productive and gotten better results if "allowed more" for myself. Also PLEAAASE DO OTHER SERIES like that it was soooo relaxing, and you inspired me to do a trip like this one day alone, thanks again xx PS: frrr I started looking for bus tickets from Montreal to NYC loool

[@rachiesakim]

AW YES!! i relate to this so much and I definitely did this last year too..but we are both learning and growing!! Love that for us :)

[@thehapagirl92]

I’m 30 and the fact that I’ve dated so much since I was 16 and have a lot of experience with sex, dating, relationships etc and am still single is disheartening. I hate being single. Dating is something that’s always at the top of my list up there with my career. I prioritize both and give both the same amount of effort, but dating is something I can’t control. I can’t do everything right and expect to get a husband in the end. Unlike in my career I do everything right and get what I want in the end. And if I just “let go” then nothing will happen. I want to marry soon but I don’t want kids. I’m 30 and I feel like I need to find someone soon but I won’t settle because settling will end in divorce. Yes I’m 30 and single but I’ll never settle. Men in their 30’s still don’t want to settle down unfortunately, but I will not settle for the ones that do just because they want to settle.

[@alrightokay1771]

I just wanted to say that I'm a man and I totally agree with your views on how women should be allowed to have high standards and take their time finding someone who they want to be with. I feel like a lot of us want to believe that everything is equal and that these types of doubles standards don't exist but that's obviously not true. You are definitely inspiring and I feel I have learned something important in this video. I'm starting a history degree next year in UofC and I'd be lying if I said I wasn't nervous. You saying that it's okay to treat yourself and to be kind to yourself has brought me a ton of peace. Thank you so much!

[@rachiesakim]

aww good luck starting school!

[@dfernandez3482]

4:04 I bet you're the most beautiful girl there bae 💍💘😍 Bee stings hella hurt, I hope you never find out 😂😰 9:16 ayo, I just might be the one ☺💗 18:26 The pizza looks so good. That's how I remember the slices were like back when I was 2 yrs old living in New York, I also remember it burning my mouth 😂😰 All the toppings would come off with the first bite then I'd have a slice of pizza that's just sauce and my parents would tell me to finish it as to not waste food 🤭 Should've also tried special fried rice and pork fried rice while you were in New York because they have the best fried rice. Nothing compares over here in Cali Mmm watermelon kombucha. If I ever find it I'll try it 🙂 ILYSMB 😘💨💞

[@Reem-tp1tp]

Rachie🥹!!!!!! Are you kidding me three videos in a row? Giirrlll, you don’t even know how much I needed them. Thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️ BTW, your makeup and hair look bomb 🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧

[@rachiesakim]

AW THANKS!! hope ur doing well

[@waterfall5660]

I loved this more chatty style of video!!! I’m a senior in high school now, and the college process is crushingly invalidating. This video helped

[@rachiesakim]

ahh senior yr of hs was so tough !! u can do it :)

[@EIDORIANOGENKI]

Yes pizza Bieber 😍💜🇧🇷🙌🏼🙏🏽🌤🌄🌅🍕🏃‍♀️😅🏋🏻‍♀️🍕

[@the_vanilla_flower]

You’re beautiful Rachie❤️

[@raqueld4659]

Thank you so much for sharing your thinking ❤ I’m 20 soon 21 and I feel so much pression from my family to be in couple but they don’t understand that I have high standards and picky... I’ll just wait for the perfect match

[@rachiesakim]

yes!! we are still so young;) no rush!!

[@secretqueen5022]

Hi I m a new subscriber of you.I think u r a positive person and made me encourage to live my life,so thank you.

[@rachiesakim]

aww that makes me happy 🥰

[@mollymelena6104]

I'm in Philly and Korean :) 🤗 You need to find a friend with a car or catch uber and go to the bigger H mart that opened not to long ago in Philly. Think the address is 6201 North Front St Ste 124 Philadelphia, PA 19120. There is a HUGE Korean community NW of here in the suburbs, specifically around Montgomery township. They have Korean food galore. You do not need to go to NYC for yummy Korean food. Wish I could take you to my parents. They live in Lansdale and my mom makes fantastic Korean food (just like yours!). Be well!!! ❤❤

[@thandekanomfundo7526]

First you're beautiful, my lord you're gorgeous... spent the video watching your green eyeshadow😂 its so preety. Secondly, my goodness you are wise... and you're right about the relationship thing. Don't lower your standards, God has a person for you who will want what you want and be right for you. I love your videos, ever since following you from last year I've watched your videos 3/4 times... each🙈🙊 you are just calming and I have a similar personality to you so yeah I watch your videos a lot😂😂 All my love Rachie, happy that you felt better after your trip🤗

[@rachiesakim]

aww thank you so much💕💕

[@emiliay5636]

I loved this so much!!

[@CocoAmande]

Hey gal, The handshake 🤝🥺❤ So proud of you for pushing yourself and treating yourself, you truly deserve it ❤️ Thank you for being vulnerable 🫶🏼🥰 Momma Kim’s food looks legendary xx

[@rachiesakim]

aww thank you for listening to my rant haha 💕

[@aysegulcoban970]

This message was delivered right on time. This morning I also felt like I didn’t deserve anything. I’m starting medical school soon and I was feeling overwhelmed with how I’m going to manage to balance everything. You’re right though, it’s enough that we’re doing our best. I’m glad you felt better after the self care day 💙

[@rachiesakim]

aww i feel that !! good luck starting med school and congrats!! you can do this :)

[@michocolll]

Aww Rachie. I love your fit. I understand when you talk about relationships. Even though I'm younger than you, my families and friends always ask me about having a relationship but I'm just not ready. Stand up for what you believe in and wait for the one. And kudos to you who take courage and vlog alone in New York!

[@rachiesakim]

🥰🥰thank you!!

[@emilyzhou8991]

i think this might just be my favorite video from you 🥰thank you for sharing your thoughts on self care and relationships!! both very very important things for everyone to hear ♥

[@rachiesakim]

aww that means so much to me :))

[@TheJoyshan22]

Yay!! So glad you got to enjoy NYC and all its yummy foods, Rachie!

[@rachiesakim]

yepp i had sm fun!!

[@michaellegend6625]

Commitment is sooo important! Its very rare to find a woman who has a high-value nowdays. Im really proud of you of being like one.

[@romybraunert7758]

You spoke out of my heart. Thank you so much Rachie❤

[@rachiesakim]

aww ily too

[@Emmacoffee8]

Hey girly, as a Christian woman I totally agree with the hookup culture thing. It's literally a scary and messed up thing in my opinion... I 100% understand where you are coming from. The deep wantings to have someone who is committed, loves you immensely and stays with you for a lifetime but don't worry in God's timing He will give you that one person.🤍💌 P.S. love your videos! -Emma

[@rachiesakim]

🥰🥰love ya too

[@Grassfedlex]

PLEASE WHERE IS YOUR EYE SHADOW FROM IN THE FIRST CLIP?! (The green)

[@rachiesakim]

huda beauty wild palette!

[@leahmuniz530]

Spoiling us with all your videos! I've missed them 😊

[@rachiesakim]

haha i missed making them

[@lolothepopo9726]

Agreeing to do something nice for myself

[@rachiesakim]

ahh proud of u!! Hope ur job is going well!! i def recharge alone too haha

[@rutujasutar5121]

loads of love rachie ❤ been watching you since 2020, still obsessed with your vids 💕 also a fellow september baby! My birthday is on the 24th haha 🥰

[@rachiesakim]

happy birthday!!

[@antoineishamitchell558]

Wow I love it she is so gorgeous I will be watching more of her videos 🤗🫣♥️

[@rachiesakim]

Aww thank you💕💕

[@dvlee08]

I'm 32 and taking advice from a 22 year old. I wish I knew what you knew at that age. New York is also one of my favoeite cities! Thanks for this video Rachie!

[@rachiesakim]

aww thank you!! love nyc hehe

[@leonibenedetti3098]

Ach i’m such a fan

[@lie_michelle00]

The squid kimbap is sooo good! I love this one-on-one conversation because it felt like I’m having convo with you.

[@rachiesakim]

Aww yayy i def wanna do more of these!

[@owlsgurl]

I know you have a blast visit NYC and eating yummy goodness of tasty food. Honestly, learn this in my first relationship and I was 21. You speaking straight facts 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@rachiesakim]

haha thank youu

[@akotako8315]

a true blessing to wake up to your videos! thank you for posting and love the content as usual

[@rachiesakim]

aww thank you!!

[@lebleumarine2692]

Oh Rachie, I Never Commented on here but you let few videos were SO relatable and comforting for me so thank you for opening up. Hearing you talk more is so amazing and addictive, please keep on talking 😊❤️

[@rachiesakim]

AW im so glad u can relate 🥰🥰

[@kimmievang7561]

Thank you Rachel. Thank you for teaching me to prioritize self love. You are inspirational! I also want you to know that god has a plan for you and is preparing the perfect man for you when the time is right! May god forever bless you in your journey! *fighting* 💛

[@rachiesakim]

aww thank you so much :))

[@janasabra8099]

I am proud of you! This came in at just the right time, thank you for being the great you

[@rachiesakim]

love u!!💕💕

[@grace-sf4pt]

thank you for being open and sharing about your feelings and views on relationships! :) u are such a huge inspiration to me🤍 from a fellow virgo too

[@rachiesakim]

aww thank uu:) virgo szn

[@davidparnell3241]

Hi

[@iyve2829]

Best of luck girl Be happy always 🥰

[@rachiesakim]

thank you:))

[@iyve2829]

@@rachiesakim welcome 🤗

[@mynameisjulci]

YES! SELFCARE💪 Thank you for keeping it real!♥️

[@rachiesakim]

AW yess to self care 🥰

[@misspoetiaseanist]

Totally agree with you ! We deserve the best

[@rachiesakim]

yepp:)

[@SurfgirlRosé]

Staying strong with you always ❤❤❤

[@rachiesakim]

ahh proud of u 🥰

[@leonibenedetti3098]

you’re hair is so gorgeous

[@rachiesakim]

ahh thank uu

[@kissesduchocolat]

Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing that side of yourself with us - I loved it. As for your viewpoints on dating, I had the exact same attitude in my early 20s (I'm 30 now) and this is the advice I would give to my younger self: -While it's great to have high standards and to not settle, sometimes placing such a high "marriage material" bar on dating could prevent you from getting to know people who on the surface may not seem like your type. I wish I had dated around more in my 20s because only by being in relationships can you learn more about yourself and what you truly want in a partner. I'm not saying to lower your bar, but rather to set that bar at "do I enjoy spending time with this person" versus "is this person marriage material". You might be surprised at who you find on the other side :) Love your videos!!

[@rachiesakim]

aww yes!! i love this advice! i def wanna meet lots of ppl and see what i want in a relationship as well!!

[@cathmil3430]

Sending you a big warm reassuring hug Rachie!💖🫶 I’m so proud of you & your personal growth without sacrificing your standards. You’re a great example of putting in the hard work to achieve your goals while enjoying living life iitself 😌 You are precious! 🥰 Go Rachie, go! 👏🏻🤩

[@rachiesakim]

🥰🥰🥰thank you so much

[@milkaalamos]

never settle for less 💗