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[@tayzonday]

I feel VERY alone and isolated too.

[@villaaaish]

chocolate rain.

[@Extra_Nunes]

that's crazy cause u got, millions of followers, it just proves social media dosen't full fills us

[@ylaros_]

Vamos ser amigos!

[@audreyMatangi]

It makes me sad that so many of us feel like that.

[@Oo2004oO]

Capitalism be like

[@Wardens333]

Hahahs

[@lanyoom]

i’m in a really similar position where i feel extremely alone and i can’t really find a place where i belong so i understand how you feel but you’re doing really well by trying your best to keep up with college and gym, it may not feel like a lot but it’s more than enough, please keep pushing through and i’m more than happy to keep talking about this with you :)

[@jeffiealt]

im sorry you relate to me in that way, being alone sucks and im also struggling to find belonging where i am and as a person. im trying to do what i can everyday regarding my academics and gym but i always have the lingering feeling that its never enough, even though ik its good what im doing i dont want to be complacent as i once was before all of this, but your words do comfort me in what effort ive been trying to put in. Its horrible that your in the position youre in, and i really do hope better for you as well, youll be in my prayers, im also here for you too, if theres anything you want to talk about in depth my insta is @jeffie.ming . I hope you're doing well even through this rough time, keep being strong, later stranger.

[@tiff287]

It was suddenly on my home page. I think whenever nights like this come to haunt me again, I can come and watch this video. Then we can cry together. I'm sorry. I don't have anything positive to say right now. Maybe I should just cry. Thank you. It takes courage and strength to share this.

[@Junqi0]

the way you kept saying "I don't know" hit me so hard. Every time i feel like this I immediately just go "I don't know" repeatedly to myself. I just want to be in a state of nothingness. I don't want to feel sad, angry, frustrated -- I want to feel nothing. The "I don't know" 's is the closest thing for me to that state. Head up king, its all up from here.

[@maj.mp4]

I feel so seen. You’re crying and I wanna cry with you but instead I can’t help but softly smile. The fact that I’m not the only one feeling as lonely as I do is so comforting. It’s reassuring to know that you are going through the same exact thing I am too. There’s something so authentic and unfiltered about this video that I just wish I could reciprocate and converse back. I’ve been living alone for the past 2 years of college so far, I’ve never dated anyone, my family is on a different continent than the one I chose to go study at. I only ever leave my apartment to go to class or the library. I have no one to feel excited to meet up with despite having friends, I’m not truly myself with anyone here. I feel you. I wish I could reach out to you through the screen, I really do.

[@maj.mp4]

And on top of that basically all my friends have boyfriends, live with their families… It truly felt like I’ve been the only one feeling so lonely up until KZbin recommended me your video.

[@dah_real]

I feel you bro, I'm in a pretty similar situation myself

[@likahavingfun]

dude this video breaks my heart, i catch myself feeling the same way far too often. we all need to be kinder to ourselves and i hope life shines brighter for you soon :/

[@jeffiealt]

absolutely, if everyone treated themselves the way they deserve to be treated, the world be a significantly better place. sometimes its just so hard to tho, ive found its hard for me to truly forgive others especially when severe wrong-occurs and ive never really fixed that from my childhood and its seeped into my late teenager years like it is now. compared to that, its even more difficult for me to forgive myself for certain actions too, i get so hung up on things i do after the fact and then i become ashamed for feeling that way in the first place and it just becomes a loop of negative energy. that being said, im still striving to work on that, because im self aware of it but im also trying to keep myself accountable for my actions so its a little awkward for me at the moment. im sure the ill reach the light at the end of the tunnel soon enough, thank for the encouragement and wishes, have a great one.

[@thefunson8087]

@@jeffiealt bible?

[@snakeyeet3179]

Emotional suffering is something I’m also experiencing. The pain is so much more sharper and existential than anything else. I want to say sitting and conversing with oneself ultimately is the only solution but I truly don’t know since that task itself is extremely difficult.

[@zadrin4731]

As a senior college student myself, the best thing I can give you is to do the things you KNOW in your heart are good for you. Try doing anything and everything that you have heard to benefit people; mediate, read books (If your interested in Christian books, I would recommend Mere Christianity by CS Lewis. Great book), workout (you already do), sleep schedule, morning walks, journaling (tried it, actually does help. Slows down your thoughts and helps you process things). The first year of college was pretty bleak for myself too. No friends, no partner, and it could get really hard to be motivated to keep going. Just know that if you do the right things, good things will happen to you. Talk to professors, other people in your class you think are cool. Ask people to go out for coffee. Chill in the library and people-watch. Don't just go to class and go home, go somewhere, anywhere where people are. Good luck to ya

[@jeffiealt]

Yea ive trying to do things that benefit me, eating healthier (with some cheat days), gyming when im not sick, walking, listening to music, being around people through school or other means, all of which help with tough times. Ill keep doing what i think is good for me and im sure things will look up like they are now with this whole yt journaling reaching so many people, including you. I will do my best to get out of my comfort zone and socialize more when i can. Thanks for the advice, it really means a lot. Have a great one, and i hope you have a great final year in college :)

[@aether4166]

Lifes too short gang keep your head up and remember that sometimes is better being alone than in a toxic environment/situationship. Keep smiling stay happy ! ! !

[@jeffiealt]

your right on the dot with that. doing my best gangy, life is too short to worry too much, and being alone is way better than being in something toxic or harmful for both parties. Ill keep smiling and happy as long as you do! have a great one

[@ilaibengal6920]

Thank you for being so raw and honest man, too many people these days preach, and too many less are down to earth

[@jadorre]

relatable video especially about the wishing u were more religious, thank u for posting

[@eden-m1m]

thanks for posting something so vulnerable. ive been having a rough time recently and a lot of my thoughts have been stuck on exactly this. its so difficult adjusting to being alone for the first time. it feels like everybody around me has it completely figured out and they just know how to form deep, lasting relationships with people. and that just feels unattainable for me sometimes. but this video is a comforting reminder that im not entirely alone in my loneliness! its nice to be reminded that im not the only person in the world who feels this way. camaraderie with strangers online is awesome lol. im sure that things will look up for you soon. you seem like a lovely person and it sucks that you're going through this. im wishing you the best!

[@jeffiealt]

im wishing you all the best as well, even through all the mess, your comments and everyone else that gives feedback to me on their experiences and advice has been one of the biggest blessings in recent time, and i appreciate all of it. it truly is comforting knowing that we arent alone in this feeling of loneliness, even as tragic as it is. on to what you said first, its rough, it does seem so many people have it worked out and i seem to be lost in everything and im just out wondering how or what am i supposed to do to get what they have, how do i get things figured out or have the relationship where theres joy, its disheartening. but we are all on our own journey and im sure you and i will have things turn up for the better, i wish you the best, lmk if theres anything i can do, later.

[@henriku7681]

I could write an essay about how i feel right now, but just sending love to everyone reading this. Feel hugged. ❤️

[@talisha2062]

Being self aware and talking it into existence that you are / and feel alone is step one. You're doing great, keep it up. We heard you and we see you.

[@kumaeggkumaa]

i feel the same way. I lost everything and everyone in a snap and i struggle to wake up everyday and just do what im supposed to do. i tried to take therapy and painkillers, but i still feel like im stuck, still crying silently in bathroom stalls mid-classes and in the middle of the night. its been such a tough year, and ive been feeling hopeless. its kinda hard to brush off the feeling that im unlovable and not worth anyone’s time, because in the back of my mind the people that i have loved from the bottom of my heart has chosen to not talk to me or stay in my life as a conscious choice. however im still here and im wondering what else i have to fulfill in this world, and the uncertainty kind of keeps me grounded, albeit wanting to disappear everyday. i hope we can all make it out of here one day.

[@thunderbruh]

I met my girlfriend about a year ago. We spent so much time together almost every second of free time we had it was together. She was my first love and my best friend. Until we broke up. And Ive never felt so lonely and so sad right afterwards. Heartbroken. It hurts a lot. Its been about 2 months and im still sad about it from time to time but thibgs have gotten better. It didnt feel like it for a while but I know things will get better for you too. You have taken the first and hardest step which is acknowledging your feelings. It takes a lot of courage to do that and to open up about it. You're not alone. ❤

[@aeraa6beats]

I’m in a similar situation, this summer I graduated highschool, my ex girlfriend broke up with me and my few best friends left me behind, I remember a few days after my break up I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder 2 and an eating disorder. After that day I hated everything in my head, leading up to my graduation I would always go to one of my teachers that I got close with, because he grew up with my older brother and I felt a real connection with him. I remember every I would go to his classroom after school hours and I would burst in tears. He had told me once that, if your alone it is necessary for you to build lore. Because if your happy all the time you’ll become stagnant. You realize the older you get the less time you’ll have alone because eventually you’ll get married and have kids. But I think we’ve all met those types of people who sit around do nothing and have no lore. We’ve all been told that time heals and that life gets better with time, and though that is true, its only true for those try to move forward and try to be better. Because some people actually let things effect them for their whole life. And just figure out your purpose. Ever since my situation I’ve just been focused on my purpose which is fashion and music, and even though sometimes I feel like I won’t find another person to love and to spend the majority of my time with or even another friend I can call my brother. As long as I have my purpose I’ll forever be in love with that. I’ve recently kinda of gave on love in a way, but I just just realized it’ll never work up for me because I’m no good enough but that’s fine because instead of worrying about something you can’t control you go and worry about what you can control, and you should always go and put that energy into build up something for yourself, and just enjoy everything as if it’s your last because it’s so rare that we’re alive. Go outside, go watch the river, travel, get that tattoo, try new foods, go meet new people. We’re so full of life to be so stuck. And remember don’t be obsessive on anything because it eventually it takes over you like a drug

[@orangessmellbad8391]

People often seem to forget that being alone and feeling alone are two separate things, being alone is nice sometimes (no people around, no social pressure, etc) but feeling alone is something that many people dread and sadly go through nonetheless. I wish you all the best and really want you to know that you are truly not alone and that, in comparison to people who suffer in silence, people see, hear and relate to your struggles. You are strong not only for persevering this difficult time in your life but also for raising your voice and letting other people see this vulnerability. We love you, you’re doing great ❤

[@jma8006]

i just got this in my recommended too and also ive never seen a comment section where every one is ranting about the same struggle and the fact that this came out yesterday and its over 100 comments. ive been feeling lonely too recently. but the fact that i actually have tried to be social since the summer is the thing that makes me feel more lonely and lowkey sad because I cant seem to find people that are like me lol

[@exit.music_for.a.film_]

i totally get what you're saying, I've been socially awkward all my life and always felt lonely, but now that I'm trying harder i feel even more lonely, and even if i have friends, they have closer friends so i always feel out of place

[@gremints]

It's those moments when you are truly left alone with your thoughts that you find out about yourself. Real scary shit, trying to figure out how to name them or confronting how to get better at dealing with them. Not to mention how that deals with relationships and friendships. Still gonna be there after you work through it but at least you can understand it better. journaling is nice (cringe but just putting something out helps)

[@fatimaa.k9163]

I feel you. Hope you find your peace, the happy life you always wanted. And hope you feel ok🩵 I’m proud of you

[@sakinatran7629]

Thank you for sharing I’ve been going through the same it’s hard when it just hits after tolerating and ignoring it for so long. It sucks a lot but I learned it’s a part of adulthood and finding your place. It’s not talked about enough. Just know it’s temporary time in your life and soon you’ll look back and be surprised how far you came and how much you’ve grown!

[@jeffiealt]

i agree to the fullest, its funny how every year you look back and think last year you were so immature or goofy and the same the year before. I'm sure in a years time ill say the same thing about myself now, and im looking forward to that time. Adulthood is scary and im barely starting, but im sure ill find my place, i got my whole life ahead of me after all.

[@tonelo7207]

​​@@jeffiealthey man wish you best of luck God bless you bro

[@TheMulti12345]

I'm in and out around this feeling all my life, but the one thing I can tell you - it's like a spiritual experience, and Imo leads to a great self-realisation or significant changes. GL

[@denisesalinas-cc4lc]

hey just wanted to say that I understand that feeling and what you’re going through, this brought me back to when I was in high school, I would feel so uncertain about my future and so tired of being / feeling alone but please know that you’re not alone and little by little, you’ll get through this🫶 sending you lots of strength

[@KanameandYuuki]

Your video popped up on my feed and I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Loneliness is one of the hardest emotions to handle. The connection we have with others is so important and I just want you to know you're not alone! It's not emo or cringy at all; it's really good that you're talking about it!🫂🤗Sending you hugs!!

[@walkwithshelley3827]

The sun being gone definitely kills my mood. But really I understand you I feel like I’m the same feeling the end of college crisis, I’m 23 and I’m in grad school now but after these two years are up I have no clue where I’m going. It’s scary! What’s helped me is having online friends, so even when schedules change I can still always rely on them. In person connection is something tho I know I really want also, it’s crazy I’m surrounded by people in college but it’s hard for me to make relationships and it makes me feel lonely too. I got this video recommended to me thank u for expressing what I think many of us are feeling haha. If you want a new friend I’m interested !

[@Yvooneco]

Loneliness comes and goes. Its something we all experience pertaining our circumstances or situations we are in. Its okay to feel lonely at times and its completely okay to talk it out with anyone . Maybe talking to a counselor in college is good that has helped me get through some things in college too. I had feelings of isolation and sadness of not having any close friends as I use to when I was younger or relationships I had with people. I kinda just came to the realisation that people do just come and go sometimes but the right people will stay with you through hardships. Even if you have not found those people they will come to you. Just keep your mind and eyes open :)

[@warrior923]

i got you and sometimes even if i have people around me i feel the loneliness and back the days i was struggling with depression. sometimes feel like im the loneliest and everyone is keep going and im the one in the darkness but its our journey right ? hope that we will make it trough❤

[@lalal8182]

I feel you. Just gotta keep moving forward and keep your head high! Be open to connection and you will find your people. It may take time but we are social creatures :)

[@sentientkarma444]

we're all connected + One, i'm 26 and feel you on so many levels!!! you don't have to *do* anything other than just let yourself exist, human BEING vs human doing. all that matters is love... you sound very intelligent, logical, and well spoken through the emotions, you're seeing through the illusions while so many people are stuck in them still. it'll all be okay in the end, if it's not ok then it's not the end.. sending u so much love!!!! also ur not a mess, ur just a human doing ur best

[@audreyMatangi]

Beautiful comment

[@TysonASMR]

I’ve been having the same thoughts lately. Like I’ve never felt true loneliness till now and it’s such a dark feeling and realization. Went through a breakup with my partner of 7 years. And before that I had friends and roommates. Now I’m living in a city I’ve never lived in and building connections very hard. Trying to accept it and move through it ❤

[@kaworukunn]

this might sound weird but to me its so comforting to see how even the ppl from across the world feel the same things, has the same worries as me. really makes me realize how it's human nature to feel these things

[@Sukamonaa]

Gadamit maaan u break my heart a little bit ... even though i'm guy ! I wish if i was brave like you and be vulnerable like this! U are so amazing and u seems a good guy ... And I hope this tremendous sadness goes away soon u deserve better !

[@linabenkhelouf4492]

I really know this feeling i just came back from the school I was swimming on my tears i didn't really stop crying i hate high school so much I'm so sick of this feeling

[@earaiana]

This is so sad, but so comforting. It's really starting to mess up with my mental health more and more, but I want to trust my future and keep thinking that one day I'll find at least one person that wants me for me, shows it and gets me to open up again. I keep wondering how I ended up here, why am I one of those who need to feel this constant pain and wonder what's wrong with me, for years. And I really hope everyone in this comment section still has faith and believes me when I say that this is not the end. I feel terrified, picturing someone else feeling it and having to cry alone in their room cause they're just feeling so so alone. Cause that's one thing we're not supposed to feel, and it can destroy you completely. Please, let's keep thinking that there's something good out there for us, something that'll be worth all this quiet pain and waiting. Through our experiences we are so full of love that deserves to be let out

[@soulhrt]

I’ve been feeling that way since the last 9 month and on some days it does hit a lot harder than others. I’m still not sure what’s the right way to cope with this feeling or what to do about it.. I’m not really sure of anything honestly. I just hold on to the hope that things will get better eventually know that It’s ok to cry and that your feelings are valid. keep your head up 🤍

[@skawphy]

i can relate and so many other people in these comments do man. you might feel alone in the sense that you have nobody around you right now as it isnt a physical presence you can see, but youre not alone entirely regarding your situation - tons of people are going through the same thing. even just people that you walk past by in your day-to-day life are likely struggling with internal and/or external issues. you are never truly alone and your existence as a sole person makes a difference. i believe it shows here in this video, your comment section proves it - as much as a bunch of internet faces may not have much worth to you, they are people who relate with you and can share their experiences in their comment because of you. it can get lonely and it will feel lonely as you grow older, but there is always room for more people being welcomed in your life no matter where they came from. in general, life has a bunch of uncertainties, and you have a bunch of decisions to make based upon those. its not always the most fun to deal with, but it is the process of life and having responsibility. you are also not alone in this, tons of people are unsure where their future lies, whether it be confusion for what career they want to go into or other little details of what makes up their complex life. it can be terrifying to have the whole future solely lie in your hands, especially when dealing with these big feelings of not knowing what to do in the world. your mind will change a lot, youll be unsure about your decisions and if you shouldve done something, everyone has had those moments. in the end of things, just try to make the most of what you have everyday, because everyday you are creating your future. today is different from yesterday, therefore its the future. do what you enjoy. being disconnected from family and friends is certainly not easy and you are doing well throughout that hardship. the social detachment can be very difficult since what you knew before was social connection and personal, physical bonds. not having consistent relationships/friendships can be disheartening sometimes when you want interaction in an also consistent manner. things related to social life will come in waves like you said, there will be good and bad experiences, arguments and so on and so forth. but you are not permanently alone, there is relatability and connection everywhere. there is so many people in the world, you will meet more people eventually who can surround you during these lonely times when you feel far away from family and everybody you knew. like you said, you will see your family during thanksgiving/christmas which sounds fun, i hope you have a great time - but please remember, do cherish those times instead of focusing on the negativity that you will have to go back and experience the distance once again. jeffie, you are a very strong person for being able to withstand these experiences, for they are not easy. but this like any other time, is just a period of time in your life or a phase i guess you could say. there will be new seasons that come along and you will experience new things. i wish the best for you, and im glad i found this video.

[@gertrudesatekge2635]

Wow, I really resonate with what you're going through, especially with the faith aspect. It’s so true that God is with us, but even He acknowledged with Adam that it’s not good for us to be alone. Loneliness can feel so raw, it’s in those quiet moments that we really notice how much we crave connection, whether it’s with family, friends, or even just the small interactions that remind us we’re not invisible. Honestly, I don’t have a perfect answer for it either, but I’m learning that being patient and open to God's timing for relationships helps, maybe joining youth groups too. This also comes from someone who wishes she was more religious, recently it feels like I take whatever i have left in my just to pick up the bible. Being a believer is work too, sometimes it drains you, sometimes you wonder when your season of loneliness ends because it feels like pure agony. That feeling of not just wanting people around, but wanting to feel like you understand each other, or having people you think of when you think of happiness, even if you're different in your own ways. Your honesty really touched me and I really want to cry with you! If it comforts you even just a little bit, I just wanted you to know that youre not alone in this. With the amount of people who relate, maybe it's a cannon event or something, as in, it's an essential part of growth. Maybe there are things you can only learn when you're alone, maybe being alone with yourself is the best time to learn about yourself. Either way, while we as watchers don't 100% know you on a really personal level, we do want to be there and make you feel seen. We're like "alone together" if that makes any senss at all💀💀💀 But keep your head up, you are just like the sun, you do dip below the horizon, it definitely happens, but no matter how long you're below the horizon, you'll rise up again for real!! You're not alone in this big bro! God bless❤

[@foreveryoung607]

These are growing pains baby. It will be okay.

[@gizemid]

Your journey is a powerful testament to the human spirit's resilience and capacity for self-discovery. Forgiveness, especially when it’s directed inward, is one of the greatest and most elusive gifts we can give ourselves. It’s no wonder it can feel like an uphill climb, a series of imperfect steps forward and back. But perhaps forgiveness isn’t about forgetting or dismissing what’s been done; maybe it’s about acknowledging our own humanity in every flawed, beautiful, and often painful part of it. Think of yourself as a traveler carrying a heavy stone through winding paths, each step challenging but shaping you. Over time, the weight begins to lessen-not because you ignore it but because you gradually understand how to hold it differently. Every stumble and moment of self-doubt is a teacher, revealing more about who you are, your depth, your strength, and the love you’re capable of giving yourself, even in your hardest moments. Remember, it’s not about reaching the light at the end of the tunnel-it’s about realizing that the light has been within you all along. You’re already carrying it, step by step, breath by breath. And that awareness? That’s profound. Keep going; you are unfolding into a deeper wisdom with each moment, and that’s a path worth taking. Live long healthy happy and with love brother.

[@HaydenNguyen-ux6cl]

going through the same exact shit man. Still haven't made a deep connection w anyone throughout college yet and it's been three years. Still have never had a gf either, I might just be destined to stay alone but all we can do is push through. Just keep your head up and know you aren't alone 💯

[@jeffiealt]

I say the exact same to you, keep your head up through the hardship your going through, you arent alone in this either. you seem like a great guy, someone will come along whether it be a friend or a partner in which you want feel the feeling of bieng alone, i dont think anyone is destined to be alone. I really hope the best for you man, and thank you for your inspiration and encouragment, if theres anything i can do to help just hmu on socials, keep going brotha.

[@eilonwy2]

I know how hard it is to post something like this, it's really comforting to hear other people feel like this. Sometimes it just really hits you. The best advice I can give is to embrace it, and take it as a period of meditation and reflection (easier said than done). Everyone goes through these phases and just dont get caught in the pitfall (easier said than done)

[@jeffiealt]

as you said, easier said than done :). for sure i understand what you're getting at, i think ive done my best to get past the biggest pitfalls int he initial time after the breakup so its just making sure that the remaining emotions that come i continue to embrace them and do what i can to improve from them. hopefully the winter season doesn't over cook my emotions in a negative way but i'm sure ill be fine. im grateful for the advice and thanks for the appreciation and listening in to me blabber about. have a great one

[@xerilaun]

I feel that, my brother recently moved out (about a week ago) to a different state.. it just sucks realizing that everyone’s getting older and doing their own things..like ofc I’m happy for him but idk. I wanna go back to being a kid

[@healingfatality]

You have a reliable head on your shoulders, Jeffrey. I’m proud of you: you stand strong. It isn’t anything easy to navigate feeling so distant, uncertain, and disconnected this young. You’re managing a lot on your plate, on your own. I’m sorry it’s been weighing heavy. Sending you a hug of sympathy, virtual flowers, support. You possess a keen sense of empathy and understanding, I detect it given the gratitude and reciprocated consideration in your replies to the comments. I imagine this light in you plays part in how you’re able to extend this attentive compassion to yourself, able to meet yourself this deeply and express it fluidly. You’re a smart man; pure heart. You read to have a respectably caring and humble demeanor. I hope you’re able to feel appreciated for it, with all your accompanying qualities, in this lifetime. World is kinder with you in it. May you be surrounded with the peace you’re seeking, in double measure to the peace you’ve given. (Good job on your workout. When the time comes, have a safe trip back to your family.) Godspeed. You deserve goodness and it is out there for you. You’re figuring it out. It’s only your first life. You’re figuring it out.

[@AdairAliza]

College was the loneliest time ever for me. Of course everyone has their own experience and stories, mine was a mess. I went to a university 4 hours away and didn't find any long lasting friends there, so for the whole duration it was very depressing and lonely. Lost connections with friends and some of my family, my first long-term relationship ended, all in the first semester. You're not alone in how you feel, I'd never felt so empty than I did the first two years of college. I had other high school friends still but I was far away from them. I survived off of video games and online friends lol. At a certain point I was so depressed that I stopped even trying to find friends because it all felt pointless. For you and anyone reading this, these situations are so so so temporary. It took a couple years after to find a great friend group and now I'm so fulfilled. It'll take everyone their own time and circumstance but I promise you're just experiencing one of many transitions in life~

[@meowbint]

this makes me sad.. i hope you're ok cuz im going thru similar situation. no one deserves it. i hope things get better for u...

[@jeffiealt]

i agree, you, i, and everyone else who experience it dont deserve it. im sorry your feeling down from the video and that the similar situation your going through gets much better, as everyone else says, it gets better with time, and its not the same for evveryone so dont rush the feelings like i did, just embrace. I hope things get better for you too, if you ever need to pm me or talk more just hmu on the socials, i wish you the best in your tough journey, over and out.

[@goneill520]

You’re not alone and you’re not alone in feeling this way. One thing i heard about this pain really helped me. When you are a baby and you’re learning to walk. You fall and you cry and cry because that’s the worst pain you know. Now this is the new worst pain. It’s deep this hurt. But you gotta feel it. I’m about 10-11 months out from a breakup. It gets better but you still get those wave. Some hit harder than others. The hard ones stop being as frequent as time goes one.

[@jeffiealt]

I've never really thought about it like that but it really does make sense, this has been the worse thing for me recently, and even though i hope it stays the worse im sure there will be more hardships to come. Regardless ill keep doing my best to put the effort needed to learn what i can out of this mess. You're perspective really does help, and its awesome that you're doing better after 10-11 months time. Your encouragement is uplifting, hope you have a great one stranger, lets do our best.

[@yungvec]

Welcome my young friend, to being a man. Keep your head up, keep grinding, you'll be okay.

[@antiquity1978]

As long as you have yourself, you have somebody. You might not be aware of it but there's always someone thinking about u.

[@seraphen.a]

hey friend. I have been in and out of this exact feeling and I just wanna say thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing this. It is such a hard thing to navigate and I've used spirituality as a tool but lately it almost started feeling like a weapon of defense to feeling so lonely. I'm only 22, but have been the most alone I have been ever. I go to work and I hide in my room until it's dinner time bc i I all ways cannot handle my household's dynamic. I haven't had a boyfriend in almost a year now, and it is the longest time I have been out of a relationship in a very long time. It's something to be proud of, but I never realized just how drastically it would change me. Because of my abundance of alone time, I have been forced to face the reality of my existence, and it has shifted something in me that I am still really trying to grab ahold of (however,, has absolutely helped in exploring new hobbies and way to stay occupied). But even with that, I've just been worried that I will never find my person, or love, and I worry that the next person I give all of my energy to will just be another lesson that I can't handle, idk how to put it. I'm just so tired because it is something I yearn for but im afraid of putting myself out there just to be let down. Please just remember even in these times you are someone who deserves to be loved and cared for, and don't forget to treat yourself that way. Again,, thank you for sharing and sending big hugs

[@eemakagoma6410]

Proud of you! Sharing something so raw and real, takes guts. This is such a genuine thing. Maybe see if you can find local volunteering opportunities or use an event finder/ local community calendar to find events near you, and schedule to do something new every week. Also don't be afraid to befriend older people, it's a great chance to get different perspectives and they also tend to be great at connecting people. I think it is inevitable struggle for our generation because of a combination of factors (Panera, growing up chronically online, glamourization of hyper-individualism) ~ but I guess the silver-lining is we will value friendship more when we find good ones. Cheering for you as someone figuring it out too. PS. I think people here would also be very open to a discord community, if that would be of some start too

[@jackbrady2484]

I just stumbled upon this but felt inclined to comment because of how powerful it is for someone to open up like this. I think it’s awesome that you’re talking through everything, and I think that you’re super strong. Change is super daunting, but there are bright times ahead my man 🙌🙌

[@sammorossi]

we're all gonna make it one day

[@jeffiealt]

thats a fact, lets keep our heads up till the next horizon

[@sammylin8477]

It hurts seeing you cry :( 💔 I can't tell you enough how much I relate to you. I've been alone for about 4 years now due to being in online school, and am still lonely, so I've never had the chance to make any friends growing up, basically having no social life. At first I thought I could accept it, but later it hit me hard as I realized how lonely I am, and all my emotions start coming out in unstoppable tears. I felt so pathetic for feeling lonely, but I didn't realize how common it was. Having no one to talk to is really tough, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I've been told that when I start getting a job and start going out more for whatever necessary reason, I'll meet someone, which I really hope to be true. I really hope you know that even though you may be alone, it won't last forever. I promise things will get better for you. You're strong for going through being lonely, it's truly a sad thing to experience. I hope you live happily and won't have to experience being lonely. I love you ❤❤

[@anxietycherry]

Same I did online all throughout high school so now everyone has friends and I’ve lost all of mine. It’s tough but we’ll make it through this and it won’t last forever.

[@jiminsmok6954]

sorry i’m a little late but i wanted to say i’m really proud of you for everything you’ve achieved, even if i don’t know you personally

[@mrkt-legends]

I have also felt this pretty strongly this past year. I went through a break up over a 1.5 year long relationship. It sucks, but the freedom really gives you time to reflect. I had to find what was important and it wasn’t easy. It isn’t easy. I don’t know about you but I have a whole lot of issues I have to figure out. If you start framing this season of your life as a challenging time that shows you things about yourself that you never knew, it helps the feelings get a little better. More than anything though, rest, enjoy some new hobbies, take some long walks, listen to new music and read some books. I found that these kind of experiences were/are very cathartic for me. I wish you the best of luck man. It really does feel like “luck” is what we need when we feel like this. Really focus on changing the way you see things. It isn’t easy, but it’s not all that bad. “Count your blessings” as they say.

[@imdva]

im definitely feeling this right now. i live 700 miles away from parents, i dont have friends other than my roommates, stopped talking to my online ones, and everyday feels tough socially. especially since i love raving and just recently traveled out of state with a group of strangers and found myself becoming so depressed afterwards because i got a taste of what having a fun friend group is like again. i never thought i'd miss high school because i actually had friends by my side. the only thing keeping me going is knowing it will get better again someday. seeing that other people go through the same does bring some type of comfort, however sad it may be :(

[@jeffiealt]

im sorry you relate to the lonliness, being away from parents and family in general is hard, i completely understand that and i wish i was with my family right now too. ive defintely had a part in that fact ive lost connections with a lot of my online friends, and in general just not doing better keeping up with those around me has done its part in making me feel socially isolated in my own way, even though i know im not alone it still feels like i am frequently sometimes when i go about my day. youre not alone in the feeling, and i am here for you if you need to talk more. Raving sounds like a lot of fun and im glad you get to have a good time when you experience it, i hope it gets better for you soon and that you'll find a fun friend group again :)

[@oOoOoOoOoOo0o0o]

Usually never comment but just wanted to say I realliy appreciate you being emotionally vulnerable for all see. In a similar boat; uncertain about how to navigate moving forward alone despite having a wonderful supporrt system of family and friends I can reach out to. Similarly I've recently recognized it's okay and healthy to let yourself feel your intense emotions (sadness, anxiety etc.) because were humans and not robots. Time is supposed to heal all wounds but some days are going to be harder than the last and you'll struggle and that's totally fine. Cheers

[@jeffiealt]

Time does heal all wounds, there may be scars, but they're healed, and it will get better, i totally agree. Only very recently ive recognized the importance of letting myself feel emotions, its always something ive either never experienced or neglected, so im proud that you're realized recently too. I really hope you can get through all the uncertainty, im sure your family and friends all want to be there for you, its okay to be uncertain, many people and the world go through life that way, and its okay. let me know if theres anything i can do for you, and thank you for being vulnerable with me as well, you're a great person. be kind and take care of yourself.

[@hatcherstanford8058]

you should be proud of yourself for being able to cry and feel these sorts of things, i cant explain why but ur ability to be super sad about being alone is one of the things that will help you get through it. don't worry about being alone, bc one day u will likely have the opposite problem and have too many people to see and have to neglect certain relationships. if that sounds stupid its bc it is. we always have too many around us, or we have no one at all. its so hard to be uncertain and to let ourselves be in a state of not knowing. i suggest running towards the fire. find things that you relate to whether that be songs that help you feel this shit, or poetry, or religion, or people. my first year of college i knew no one and spent so much time alone without any meaningful or fun connections. every day was empty. now things are different, and its because i chose to keep going. always try to remember that you have a connection with yourself, and that being alone happens, but won't last too long. on a practical note i suggest getting involved in some sort of program or club or anything. to be honest i have friends that went through college and made 0 friends and only talked to some classmates during class and their roommate. sometimes u just have to take it upon yourself to find people to hang out with and get close to. also! soooo many people in college feel this exact thing (did i mention i went through this exact thing 2 years ago) and you are not alone in this feeling or experience. therefore, should you go looking for other people to connect with, you will almost certainly find others going through this. feel free to cry bro, be open with yourself that you are scared or sad or angry or whatever. ur so cool for expressing what ur going through. hope u find some peace, bless u

[@jeffiealt]

i completely understand what you're saying, from the ability to being able to express emotion to there being an upside to all of this one day, even though there may be uncertainty. When i have time, i try to run towards the fire, find things that give meaning to my emotions and just getting out of my comfort zone generally, it helps a lot even if i dont want to do it initially. And your experience through this really does help me feel less uncertain, so many people like you and others have expressed that it does get better and tell me their personal experiences with all of it, its absolutely changed my outlook on all of this, very contrast to how i was feeling when i made the video, not to say the emotion still lingers. Im currently in a esports program so i connect with people and volunteer for events through it, its been good, and id like to do more clubs but time is a resource that i dont have a lot of atm. i do have friends but like i may have said in the video it can be hard to relate to them in some ways emotionally, but that shouldnt have more stop trying to get closer, cus you never know where those friendships lead to. Ill keep expressing my emotions and luckily a lot of the negative has faded away with how many people have wanted to connect with me on this topic, its been honestly overwhelming, but i enjoy responding and talking with everyone, it gives me a good purpose in that i can help others too. ill keep trying to find my peace in all of this, bless you.

[@Yuh4yuh]

thank u for sharing this, ive been feeling the same thing the past few weeks and have been crying my eyes every night whenever i get back home and its such a weird feeling. I related to everything u said, from companionship to religion, how to navigate lonliness the next day, the uncertainty or having a real connection with someone close to u. i jus sih i could give u a hug and also myself cause yea i jus felt every word u said and i truly appriciate u being open about it cause alot of people feel the same way but not everyone is welling or is good at opening up and expressing how they feel. I d love to connect with you and learn how to navigate this from each other!

[@jeffiealt]

for sure, a hug would do absolute wonder right now but cant do that through a screen :(. i dont know if you need to hear this buts its completely okay to cry, in fact, i encourage it, after my breakup, i cried every night, for hours, for about a month, and thats okay, although at the time i was ashamed of being broken and expressing it that way, in hindsight, it was a great thing so although it may be crappy, keep crying until you dont feel the need to anymore. its dreadful that you feel alone too, but funny enough, you and i arent alone in this feeling, and hopefully you can take comfort in that as i've recently been able too. Im happy i was able to share my feelings and be vulnerable to you, although in a way its a little tragic, im glad ive been able to be something you can relate too even if its not in a positive energy type of way. thank you for sharing what you've shared, and if you want to talk i have my insta: jeffie.ming and other socials if you prefer them if you need to talk, im here.

[@Yuh4yuh]

​@@jeffiealt Thank you so much for your kindness and openness-it really means a lot. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone, and I appreciate your support. and id love to connect, ill def add u on insta :))! i hope we both learn to navigate and get thru this stronger on the other side with a bit of grace

[@_Safiyahaa]

I love this video, thank you so much, I hope you feel better soon, take your time and make sure to talk with your family🌷

[@Julia-qk3by]

I can understand how you feel, this overwhelming uncertainty and strange dark feelings... I gave up college few months ago cause i was living in a big city and depression hit me so hard i had to come back to my family's house. Just like you i grew up in a Christian house, but I feel distant and unable to go back to spiritual disciplines. I just want to say youre not alone, we're all figure it out at some point i guess, sending you happiness and blessings from the bottom of heart ❤

[@BrooklynnSullivan-ly9zo]

I’m so sorry! I hope you get someone and I know one day you won’t be alone it’s very hard and I’m praying that you can be ok💙 don’t give up

[@franzzz7344]

I relate to this so much. Things will work out. They have to work out.

[@depressed4809]

as someone who always feel out of place (not really close with my family due to past complications, went through high school alone and now almost 4 years of college without making any friends) and alone, i promise u its going to be ok. i used to jump into relationships after relationships, both romantically and platonically. i kept putting myself in places where i dont belong, with ppl i cant connect with just to fill the void inside myself and at the end, i still frequently have s*lfh*rm tendencies and sitting up at night crying asking why am i so unlovable now i realized that what matters is that i turn back to the relationships i already had. i sorta reflect on how i am, who am i, how am i treating myself and i also turn back to my closest friends and try to better my relationships with them. i cant say that its the ultimate solutions, it certainly is not, i still crave genuine human connections and its a normal thing to want because we are human after all. though, turning back to myself does ease the pain and loneliness a lot. you just havent met all the ppl who will love you and thats okay, they are always out there but at the mean time, lets just be good to ourselves first idk y but im proud of you man lol, im so glad that u feel safe enough to share these feelings

[@Relaxa276]

Its crazy we all feel the same way but we cant meet all together Do not give up buddy please It will get better You just have to keep going

[@ancientseas9863]

love u brozie, stay up im in uni too, and we are all one under the sun.

[@jeffiealt]

indeed, we're all under one sun, stay up get the money up, love you too brozie

[@lukestardoinstuff1237]

I can relate to a lot of what ur saying. I went through 3 years of university without building any local deep connections. I mainly talked to friends on discord who lived far away and that got me through it all but looking back at it i was miserable. Nowadays i know why it was hard for me to open up and form new connections and i think you may experience the same thing at some point. Life gets better. Im just a stranger but i think many stranger on the internet are desperate for connection if ur open to it.

[@bartmyrda]

I’m in the exact same situation bro it feels like everyday is harder than the last and I feel more lonely than ever. just cried when I got home from the gym and your video came up on my feed as I was wiping the tears. You’re definitely not alone man we’re in this together

[@majorgabREAL]

I remember when I was around 19-22 I felt this way, you go from having people in your life to having no one and that reality sucks. What I learned is that we create our own reality so we have to decide what we do next when we wake up. A lot of things help such as signing up to a salsa course, meeting 1 person every week at the gym (and having a genuine conversation with them), approaching people on the streets etc and at some point you'll realize that most people are just lonely social people and that its gonna be okay. God bless brotha, you're doing great!

[@majorgabREAL]

Remember that this life is temporary, it can be stressful to meet strangers (and I know it was for me) but at the end, we have 1 life so enjoy the ride my brotha and take risks that would have scared the younger you

[@michalnguyen8527]

I'm glad I stumbled upon your channel, I've been feeling similar, especially in the mornings after I wake up. After reading through the comment section, I hope everyone will succeed with the battles they don't talk about.

[@leis1400]

Currently I live in my family house and sometimes it gets very annoying and I'm thinking of moving out next year but I remind myself how lucky i must be to wake up everyday and spend my time with my loved ones. This video just made me feel more grateful and man don't worry you'll be fine. Bad times will end. Stay strong

[@lovecook0701]

Never felt so alone in my life. Im here with ya

[@vlqez861]

Everything happens for a reason, and i don't mean it in a bad way. Keep your head up and as you said have no expectations, life is like a puzzle, sometimes everything falls into place, other times you're confused and furious, but in the end you'll get to the good part. I had a good relationship where i felt like i found my person and i never, even for a second believed that there's such thing as ''finding your person"' but it was, he was everything i've ever wanted in a person, mostly metally because i value actions and intentions over anything. We were together for 2 and a half years, everything was like a dream, up until i found out that it was all love bombing and eventually he just cut me out of his life for a girl he found on some dating app that shared no values nor anything....but what this situation taught me is that you should always know your worth, knowing your worth opens the right doors for you, i figured that when i found my worth the people that life brang me are so much...compatible? i mean i feel more healthier and they bring me up if i can say so...english isn't my first language sorry- i can yapp more but my vocabulary is filled with mhm yeah well uh😭 From what i see you should keep the fire within you going, our only purpose as human beings is evolution and improvement within us

[@pitifuleternal]

been feeling the same way recently myself. hope the best for you dude

[@Skyelar111]

I feel you on another level. My boyfriend just ghosted me out of the blue. The loneliness and hurt is so real

[@jeffiealt]

thats absolutely heartbreaking, ive just gone through something similar, so if you need someone to talk to, im here. You don't deserve that treatment, from the bottom of my heart, im sorry.

[@susybling9012]

i've seen plenty of lonely people videos, but so far this one was the most raw and relatable one. Just as i was thinking to myself how lonely i feel, i stumbled over this video. But honestly this is way more severe and i genuinely hope you're better now, at least just a bit. You seem like a very beautiful soul, genuine person. May the road brings you some good people into your life, and im pretty sure it will. No one in this world is born to be alone. Even tho im a girl and supposed to be a more emotional being, one day i wish to have strength that you have. That strength to show vulnerablitiy, and voice what you actually feel. You're incredibly strong. Hope you know that. I wish you all the best in this world, even tho you're not so religious (nor am i) but you know, sometimes praying or meditating can help. Im sure you'll get over this, hope you dont mind this yap. And to whoever's reading this, you're not alone. Stay strong yall

[@andylongdo]

First part of suffering is recognize you are suffering and seems like youve done the first step already. From here we can decide whether or not we want to water this seed of suffering within us. Recognize that this seed brings unwholesome thoughts and find other seeds in your garden to water to ease your suffering. Eventually your garden will be full of flowers including that seed of suffering but at this point you cant even tell. For us to be truly happy, we must accept suffering within our garden while watering wholesome seeds. Something i’ve learned recently and felt the need to share bc I can really relate to this.

[@carlinn.5811]

Also, it is okay to let these emotions all out and being vulnerable on here. You are strong and you are bettering yourself in the gym. I am glad you are pushing through the darkness. When you come out of it, you will see how powerful you are. A lot of people run from these feelings you have but you are fighting it head on. This video is so human and raw. There is beauty in the struggle.

[@Alektje]

seeing such a pretty boy so sad makes me frown man. :(

[@kohakunishi4539]

Fr

[@K_Petar]

So ugly dudes deserve to be sad

[@buuga610]

Yes very attractive lol

[@wotanjugend974]

yes only ugly people deserve to be sad

[@pizzapie7]

Insensitive comment

[@dawvwr]

had a breakdown today and this vid showed up on the right time. i hope we all will be well rested enough to start moving again, slow yet unsteady but we are still going somewhere. take care over there

[@kalei_do_scope]

listen bro, we've all been there. at some point or another, we've all felt this way. you aren't alone man, and as alone as you may feel, there's always ups to the downs. it gets rocky, but then it gets good again. it might get bad again after it's good, but you'll always come back better than before. life is hard. we can't do it easy. i believe in you bro, keep pushing

[@Anny-me9ny]

Thank you so much for this video. These videos keep the heart of KZbin alive. I can’t give you a hug but I’m right there with you. I have no doubt that you will find someone to connect with in the future. Who wouldn’t want to be around someone who’s so open and authentic to how they truly feel. It pains me to see you suffering. I see myself in you. In the last few months I have gone to the beach to cry and just sit watching the waves because I was so lonely. I won’t say stay strong or anything meaningless but I will tell you that this like all winds will pass. ❤️

[@sometimessmiley9840]

youre not alone feeling like this i get it, i promise i really, really, get it and i care and have love for you even if we are strangers

[@vypham-pb1qm]

❤❤❤❤love u and lucky you that u can express emotion like thiss

[@Butinori]

Embrace the solitude to focus on yourself. Tough times shape you and they’ll pass. Stay strong ❤️

[@invictus1554]

Are our realities synced? I'm going thru a similar place, with a similar relationship timeline. Everything from the inadvertently squandering friendships to future anxiety. I've dealt with extreme loneliness before so i can see myself getting through it. Most days im kinda fine, but im not exactly well. Just fine. It feels like I'm going through my days in a mellow, unnoticable depression. It's weird because even though I'm meeting some new people in college, I still feel alone. It's not this crippling sense of loneliness i felt a week after the breakup, but more like there's only one person I wanna be close to and I can't. And other people don't really fill that. It's hits me late night and a lot of the time I end up talking to the wall or recording my thoughts. I know it's hard to think positively when you're lonely. But oddly, the breakup has also given me a more positive perspective. I realize that life is short and we should really cherish present time with those we love, and for being alive. Celebrate & be grateful for all the moments you've had with those you love in the past. Life can be messy and chaotic but life is good. We have the rest of our lives to live a happy full life. Why should we not open ourselves to new experiences? Different ways of loving and being loved? (Also, this might sound silly, but honestly, what's helping me with the future anxiety is that I met a few people who i can emotionally connect with, and they've started liking me too. I'm not ready for another relationship, but it reminded me that there are still other people out there I can form meaningful connections with.) I see you, man. Hang in there.

[@gloom9174]

I get what you mean it’s not easy feeling like you don’t have anyone close that you can truly open up to or look forward to seeing every day, my break up was pretty recent and it was out of nowhere she kinda gave me hope for the next day to come but now we gotta find more hope in ourselves I hate feeling alone so much

[@jeffiealt]

yea man thats super tough, i feel exactly how you are feeling, i hate being alone, especially when there was someone more significant to my life in the recent past, it does create a void in a way. she dumped me out of the blue and it left me broken and in shambles, and trying to find more hope in myself is a battle everyday, but it is getting better. if you need to talk more im here for you. im sorry you had to experience that, no one deserves it.

[@TwylasCouch]

I’ve felt this alone so many times in my life. I have even felt this alone while I was homeless in a car…. I really wish there was a more profound way to say THIS TOO SHALL PASS. When I was in jail, I felt so alone and so devastated. It felt like my whole life was over and I had nothing to fight for. But I remember seeing a little note written on the wall saying “I used to be here too… hold on, this too shall pass.” And in that moment, everything felt so devastating. It was almost impossible to believe that. But now I have been out of jail for 4 years now and now started a KZbin! It gets better! Just hold on. So many of us have been where you’re at

[@nope3830]

Its tough fr man. Im 22 and with work and gym i feel like i dont really have time to make friends and find ppl to talk to. I feel alone almost everyday but i try to look at it like this is just a rough moment and that it will be over eventually and the sun will shine brighter after. Loving the videos man i think you should keep making these or even upload gaming or gym progress as a way to escape these thoughts. Imo its not unhealthy to think about these moments but i think its unhealthy if u let it drown you and i think these videos are helping u combat this. Hope to see more content in the future whether its this or gaming or even gym stuff!

[@nyxychan]

hey! i just came across your video on my explore page and i decided to watch and i was tearing up the whole time bc im feeling very similar. i just graduated college and many of my friends are gone, my family is kind of just distant and its just the feeling of loss and being lost. but it takes a lot to be this open and honest in a world where people judge so harshly and you're so strong for that. you can do it even if you don't always believe you can sometimes

[@KittyKat-z]

I just wanna give him a hug❤

[@mrfacespace]

I’m watching your video and not sure what you’re going through. I haven’t seen your previous videos. I don’t want you to feel so alone. Or maybe it’s a learning experience for you. You look like a nice kid. I have the feeling that there are definitely other people who would want to see you as a friend. Hope you feel better soon.

[@lyfii]

you got this brother. I feel the same 🙏🏼 yeah. I lost all my close friends the beginning of this year. I'm graduating this semester, with no one. it's a great time. honestly i wouldn't mind talking to y'all. if you need someone to talk to.

[@ikken5707]

Dont ever depend your mood on people, you’re the only person you need, love yourself because you’re the shit

[@Lynn-tx7ek]

hello! this randomly came up on my suggested videos for some reason, but i can really relate to this. i know it's cliché to say it gets better, but someday, it just does. sometimes, it takes one step just to feel back to normal again. when i was completely friendless last year, i decided that i really couldn't take it anymore so i switched colleges. since then, i joined a school org, and i made 4x friends than i ever had in my life and it's only been half a year. i'm now the happiest i ever been. like you said, "nothing is certain". but that also applies to the bad things, you can't really be sure if the bad stuff is gonna last. for me, when i didn't have friends, the gym also was my refuge. just take it one step at a time. but if you need advice, sometimes, be reckless. find new friends anywhere, join an org, go hiking, or anything new. if you ever need someone to talk to, i'm also here! i really know how it feels. i hope you feel better and i know you'll find your footing soon.

[@jeffiealt]

haha yea its a little cliche but it doesnt make it untrue, and its always good to hear it again. You sharing your experience does give me some good insight, and it does give me a hopeful outlook, you realized things needed to change, took initiative, changed, and your doing so much better now which honestly is a joy for me to hear. ill my best to follow that example in some shape or form. ill do my best to be a little reckless but not too much in which its bad, ive trying new stuff but frankly time as a resource has been a little scarce due to school semester ending soon and finals soon to coming. but if and when i get the chance to do new stuff ill get back to you on that as i agree that going out of your comfort zone can really only be good, especially when wanting to meet new people. ill do my best to find some kind of footing, and im sure ill feel better soon (but if my sickness doesn't go away its gonna suck), i would always love to talk more, i have socials if you ever wanna talk more that way, hope you're having a good and and i really appreciate you sharing you're experience and advice to me, ill be sure to do my best with your insight on all of this. have a good one!

[@snno]

sometimes even if you live with your family u still feel alone ):

[@olamoffline]

being alone aint that bad but you gotta spend that time how you want, there will be times like this and times filled with people in your life bro

[@KhalilKrit-i1w]

Probably in the same situation as u rn for about 2 months maybe had to change unis live alone new friends but not really close and life is kind of busy most of the time then suddenly it hits u that you’re completely alone no one is there to ask about u to encourage u to check on u you just have u yourself and that’s it….in the end of the day that’s just life man it’s a never ending ride that sometimes just leave u all alone and in exactly those moments you either choose to say yes this is my life rn I gotta adapt check on myself love myself help myself do it all for myself or fall down even more into that dark hole of sadness and disppaire Those times are the times that show us who we really are and are we the person that we pretend to be after all we’re alone no one will know that we studied or not went to the gym or not sticked to our diet or not I know that misery and in the end it’s our perspective about it that will let us escape its sadness or fall down and I’ve failed so many times but am still trying so for any of u out there don’t u dare give up on yourselves even if no one is watching bc you are watching yourself and so does god Don’t lose hope this is just the way life is guiding us to grow