Why Exes Should NOT Be Friends | 4 Girls VS 4 Guys

[@DavidAlvareeezy]

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[@emmas8031]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KING!!!

[@Alixox7]

HAPPY BDAY HOMIE

[@alexusmckoy]

Happy birthday David I love you so much I hope you have the best day ever 🖤🥹

[@dashar5725]

Aww happy birthday! It’s my dad’s as well!

[@shakirasw]

Happy happy birthday!! Your content makes so many people happy so I hope you are happy today and everyday!!

[@miksisfragile]

The “exes can’t be friends” argument while Tara and Jake are both in the room is wild

[@ieatbugs704]

RIGHT

[@Youknowsucker]

AND THEY BOTH AGREE WITH NO

[@sheridan7475]

I feel like they’re more than friends 🥲

[@Unclegreg4_2o]

@@sheridan7475SAME AHAHA

[@riritsun]

@@sheridan7475 they were, they broke up

[@may-qf1kq]

i love taras giggles whenever jake makes a joke while everyone else looks horrified

[@breanalee5048]

Fr it really shows why they're friends

[@user-ml8go9yw6q]

timestamp?

[@Anya_3133]

@@user-ml8go9yw6q 5:20

[@yurp313]

@@user-ml8go9yw6q 5:17

[@sunshine.-.9884]

@@user-ml8go9yw6q5:15

[@annag1468]

Mitsy ate with the “ you didn’t even get her name right “ when she tried to say Tara was a friend 😭😭

[@kridonut]

IM DEAD

[@Marina_M483]

Time stamp?

[@rafaelamirandawood2505]

33:50

[@livywithane]

I do that all the time😂 i suck at names

[@sammywmv]

IT WAS SO FUNNY

[@aasiyahhasan7664]

The cheating emotionally v. physically convo is always interesting to me because they're both 100% unforgivable imo🤷‍♀️

[@prinaecess]

agreed. cheating is cheating regardless of it being emotional or physical

[@lor962]

Yea I mean for me the relationship is dead either way but I'd rather it be physically than emotionally

[@jamesbaggett3655]

woah @@lor962

[@soullessnight6539]

@@lor962so you would rather your girlfriend not love you but be in love someone else. The fact she actually loves someone else is forgivable but not a one night stand. Interesting.

[@J-tt1lu]

@@lor962hopefully with the added benefit of STDs!

[@trinitiparker7]

when she said “say we were dating” to Jake, Tara’s face reaction would have been a perfect argument for Jake

[@shutupnvibe]

LOL her face had me weak 😂

[@jenaissantegfriend]

Timestamp?

[@julianasofia960]

@@jenaissantegfriend16:30

[@Duskdel]

Yeah I could read Tara’s mind when that girl said that cause I felt the same thing as Tara😂 Like I wouldn’t say that to Jake let alone in front of Tara😭

[@ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx]

@@Duskdel thats alexis she has a boyfriend

[@sov05]

Calling her your friend and then saying her name wrong multiple times is CRAZZYY

[@Fiveditsxz0]

FRRRR

[@ComedyGlor]

She has a very loose definition of friendship. If it was just for the video that would make sense but she seemed pretty serious about it lol

[@Kapados_]

​@@ComedyGlorlike hunter(?) said, she is probably just out of touch with the term friends because she is surrounded by all these other influencers that are basicly work friends.

[@Gamfluent]

Why are all the comments taking it serious when it’s meant to be a debate show

[@gabyfc101]

The girl in green literally said it was an accident. Its not that deep. Their mutual friends not besties lol.

[@bella-ch5kj]

jake and tara are literally proof exes can be friends

[@Raneemity]

*with benefits

[@fernandagudino2935]

Hmm but when that girl said "say we are dating" to Jake and Tara made a face its kinda like hmm can exes really just be friends idk maybe after some time goes by they can but I feel like feelings don't go away that soon after you breakup, especially after such a serious relationship yk? Idk I love them both so much but I just sometimes think exes can't be friends when there's feelings involved

[@TombJunglist]

​@@Raneemity I dont think that's them

[@ettimira444]

be for real

[@Teeplesexe]

@@fernandagudino2935they absolutely still have feelings for each other they are pretty open about that. but they aren't together, they are friends, that's the point. just because you have feelings for someone doesn't mean you can't be friends

[@tabithadeleon-david1621]

Sorry but Hunter won that last one, being friends and being friendly are two totally different things.

[@AK-ie2rp]

he ate that argument

[@mouryavardhan7786]

The other girl got shut down TWICE. One by misty for ‘you don’t even know her name”and then by hunter “And that’s why….”

[@jayleneaceves8310]

Facts dude !! No offense to that last girl but it was driving crazy that she wasn’t comprehending the difference between someone being “friendly” vs “being friends”. Two completely different things, I am friendly with my coworkers but I’m not friends with them. Someone can be friendly socially without slapping the label of being friends. As Hunter said a friend is someone you can call if you have a problem or someone u can depend on and vise versa. For example just because I’m friendly with the cashier at Target doesn’t mean we’re friends. Friendliness can often be confused as wanting to be friends and/or being friends, it all comes down to social cues and understanding your relationship with that other person. Hunter won that argument hands down.

[@tellyg47]

@@jayleneaceves8310she understands them she was just defending the argument she was given. If she actually agreed with it she’ll probably had a more compelling argument 😪

[@jayleneaceves8310]

@@tellyg47 yes I’m aware that they had to defend the card no matter what they actually believed. But I just believe her argument was weaker than hunter. She was dismissing the actual definition of being friendly vs friends. Hunter made a stronger argument in my opinion.

[@joeyps2861]

I’ve only seen Mitsy act in skits, so I gotta say I did NOT expect her to be so extremely shy 😭

[@juliettecharron6717]

Ahahah she’s just like me. I just can’t talk / think when a group of people are looking at me, I find it really intimidating. But I’m ok on one on one even with people I think are really cool 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@gutsswife9023]

She's so cute tho😭

[@tiberiuer5076]

She is super cute. Mitsy's youtube channel: Mitsy Sanderson

[@TO-vs6ej]

Frr no people interaction training as a puppy loll

[@Lena.kpp_]

I love how Tara gets Jakes humour and laughs at his jokes

[@igoriliev5305]

Its almost like they were together for multiple years 😂😂

[@stillclouds]

she doesn't even bother to put any input when he talks cause she knows and is just watching the girls squirm XD

[@pretty.in.blue.]

It might seem crazy what I'm bouta say..​@@igoriliev5305

[@xoxo_kailani]

Dude... They are ex's? No shit 😂

[@ElectricPansies]

What Alexis is defining as ‘friends’ is actually ‘acquaintances’ in my opinion. Acquaintances are friendly to you and have mutuals, but you don’t really hang out with them often.

[@jayleneaceves8310]

💯💯💯💯

[@X2o0876]

Tara and jake

[@larsp23]

100% because I’m like shorty saying hello to someone don’t mean you’re friends

[@shutupnvibe]

@@larsp23 literally! 😂

[@mya3693]

@@X2o0876they are friends they literally hang out

[@casper23-o5c]

christian & misty’s interaction during the flirting question was so cute 😭 i was cheesing the whole time

[@WeluvKhlo_khlo]

Ikr like why do I lowkey ship

[@avakiester]

the “okay then show me flirting” was so smooth can’t even lie

[@lena__lu]

i love how jake and tara were completely silent during the whole "fiends with the ex" argument.

[@Hellens.melons]

I swear if it were me I would have been so loud I have no idea how they kept so quiet 😭

[@tay_rizul]

It turned more into a “who are your friends” argument lolol let’s be honest

[@joliemayerr]

it’s cool that Jake and Tara are able to remain friends

[@catlvr355]

well obviously😭nothing negative happened in their relationship for them to break up, it was just timing

[@AndNoted]

@@catlvr355 why would it be obvious?

[@catlvr355]

@@AndNoted if you had known why they broke up, it would be clear that they can totally still be friends

[@pneumaa]

@@catlvr355i don’t watch them much.. why did they break up?

[@catlvr355]

@@pneumaa they basically broke up because they first got together when they were pretty young, and growing older they realized that they want to be able to make more time for themselves and grow, - as they see themselves as both “jake and tara” but also “jake” and “tara” considering they’re their own person - explore more things/ maybe other people? that’s from what i remember, but they do have a whole video about it, so you could watch that. they did also say that if they were truly meant to be together, that they’d find each other some time in the future.

[@staytiny10]

4:16 jake is so real for that because I never understood how people can see their partner sleeping with someone else as a 'mistake', cause like think about it. Let's say you go to a bar and get tipsy and you leave with someone who isn't your partner. There's multiple steps you'd have to make to cheat. You'd have to talk to them, agree to leave with them, then you have the whole way to likely either of your places to think about it. Then you get there and there's all the the steps leading up to the actual cheating. It's not just a simple 'mistake'.

[@bvtterflyes]

yess, whereas emotionally cheating the intention to cheat is there, but the people doing it are just not committed enough to make that bigger move to cheat physically. none are better yk but i’d say physically cheating is 100% worse. as a girl i have no idea why all those girls are agreeing that emotionally cheating is worse, physically cheating is also a serious problem in nowadays relationships as well. it’s a bigger backstab and it can cause a lot of insecurities, like what looks did that person have to make them not want me or not be physical with me, instead emotionally i feel like it’s just personality wise in my eyes, and i’d rather get cheated on if my significant other likes the persons personality more than their physical appearance. like in my experience it’s never happened to me i’ve only been emotionally cheated on, but seeing my big sister go through her breakup with her boyfriend of 7 years really messed around with how i view things.. he slept with another girl and i just can’t get the fact of that out of my head and that he could even do that it’s been like 3 years since but it was horrible to know that she was backstabbed like that from someone we’ve known for years and i would never wish it on anyone.

[@abi6ail333]

Tara could say anything, and she would still get my vote lmaoo Also happy birthday David

[@sveajager9150]

same T-T

[@deltaghost_zr0872]

Yeah you are a tool that’s why

[@keyonnaarnold1463]

Sameeee

[@overdrivety]

Simp lol

[@llama079]

Damn I sometimes forget asskissers like you still exist 😂

[@Erikasuperiority]

Flirting is 100% cheating its a romantic or sexual thing. And most of the time it leads to more. If you’re consciously flirting that is.

[@user-ml8go9yw6q]

I mean if someone were to intentionally flirt with someone (as per their definition) thats cheating. even if it sucks ass and most people wouldnt even call that flirting. its the intention that matters (being wanting more out of that situation).

[@val6224]

Like im a flirty person, i flirt, but once im in a relationship I stop. I view flirting as like "wanna go back to my place tonight, do some 'stuff'" Things like that so yes it is

[@surbhikumari7161]

Then according to that then every threesome, actors doing romantic scenes and pornstar and stripper is cheating . But no cheating is when it is a secret. If you ask your partner about the flirting then they refused to tell u then it is cheating . Otherwise it is not.

[@Erikasuperiority]

@@surbhikumari7161 A threesome? How? A threesome is literally a relationship.. cant be cheating. And those r special cases…💀. Acting is completely different, its a lie ergo acting. if theyre acting for a pornstar scene, its not intended as a romantic or sexual thing its meant as ACTING. Strippers are just doing their jobs honestly, thats another special case..

[@Vexxing666]

Thank you. They knew it was cheating and gave no valid reasons as to why it wasn’t. The whole conversation was hard to watch

[@bottlepop7]

The girl who was trying to justify cheating by saying its a mistake over and over just bothered me. Cheating isnt a mistake, its a choice! You dont go “uh oh omg I slipped into this girl by accident!”

[@oozco]

It's giving the "sucked D on accident" meme, if you know it 💀😭

[@mango3716]

But ppl could get dr*nk and stuff. it’s tbh not as bad as them repeatedly choosing to keep talking to this person that they know they’re into when you’re dating them. They’re choosing that mistake every time

[@DeRqlte]

⁠​⁠@@mango3716Yeah, but you made the choice of getting drunk, therefore you accepted the consequences that come with that choice (sorry for my bad English :) )

[@mango3716]

@@DeRqlte still not as bad as some repeatedly choosing to backstab you every day and decide you’re not worth it anymore

[@bm6891]

Not defending cheating but I don’t think it’s wrong to call it a mistake because the word mistake doesn’t only apply to accidents. A mistake can be on purpose and still be a mistake. Like In school when you write essays and misspell things and the teacher and says go back and fix your mistakes.

[@yui.qin22]

crazy theyre having the “can exes be friends” in front of tara and jake 😭

[@Hellens.melons]

FRR😭

[@W1ckedpixi3]

every time that girl mispronounced taras name I had such secondhand embarrassment LMAO

[@emelinegutierrez5345]

Lmao no fr and she said it right the first time when Tara went up

[@luvleycuutie]

which one 😭

[@HD-zv2mn]

They were all shitting on her I feel so bad :/

[@alliebarr4403]

Which one?

[@JaceyY_Bae]

alexxis im assuming@@alliebarr4403

[@brecarlton938]

Tara and Jake are literally definition of Ex’s can be friends. They both still adore one another, I mean look at how she laughs when he speaks

[@madsss133]

be fr, they’re still painfully obviously in love with each other still.

[@Starlight-37]

@@madsss133real

[@JMBBrasil]

Maybe she just still likes him

[@slenderman-tz6tm]

Yea but what happens when one gets in a relationship

[@A_someone443]

I love how when the girl said “say I’m actively tryna dating u” to Jake and Tara looked like she was ready to fight 😂

[@dubsnac7407]

wouldnt this prove the point that exes cant be friends though? cause she was jealous in a way ?

[@ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx]

@@dubsnac7407she still loves jake, it was a mutual break up

[@fatma-oz6gb]

Whats the time stamp

[@madisonschaufert5280]

@@dubsnac7407she can still get jealous and be in love with him or whatever she wants, while having a healthy friendship

[@shayu.4488]

@@fatma-oz6gb 16:30

[@jackym4652]

Hunter is so real for the argument of using the “friend” term loosely. I used to use it loosely too and my boyfriend would correct me every time like “they are not your friends” LMAO like wait you’re right. It’s like just bc you’re cool with someone, doesn’t mean you are friends. Hunter should’ve won that

[@clairem5164]

Agreed. I thought he’d win by a landslide

[@mioom0w38]

He didn't win just beacuse 2 of the voted are friends that are exes lol

[@starrifia]

no because i agree with alexxis’ claim, just not the way she backed it up. if we’re talking about who backed it up better hunter definitely should’ve won

[@GammaRayBill]

That’s what I’m saying, like you can be friendly out and about but doesn’t mean you are friends with someone, I think acquaintance is a more honest title.

[@AndreRodrigues-dc5ln]

I love that mitsy can’t formulate an argument when it’s her up there but every time she’s sitting down she has the best comebacks tbf ahahaha is she socially awkward, cause same?

[@PandabearSW1M]

That “nahhh shut the f*** up” GOT MEEE! The delivery was pristine! 👌🏽

[@DavidAlvareeezy]

dude right!!

[@lavender254]

@@DavidAlvareeezy pls do my physics hw david

[@shutupnvibe]

He ate that up 😂🤣

[@heyyloserrr]

I hate that the last girl doesn’t understand that being friends is different from being friendly. you hang out, call, text, etc. with friends and that doesn’t have to be daily, you can checkup with each other monthly too. being friendly is an action, for ex. in college we’re all being friendly in class, we aren’t friends. I won’t hang out, text, call, etc. after class or even after the semester ends.

[@OliveGrummer]

She had me yelling at my phone.

[@jjenn444]

that girl in the green mad annoying

[@alllittlethingzz]

She really was

[@bella-xd7rx]

I agree. By the entire of the video, it really got frustrating. 😅

[@jfndvjfnj]

ikrrrr

[@zohaanrana8987]

Bro the girl in the green needs to relax

[@Fiveditsxz0]

Frrr I hate her 😭

[@face2facewitchu]

I LOVE the 'tear-uh' 'TAR-uh" thing. It's hilarious every time and I know it's coming.... EVERY...... TIME.

[@shutupnvibe]

Hilarious 😂

[@zo.ie.s]

no bc how did she mess taras name up THAT much 😭

[@gabriellasansuste2340]

@@zo.ie.sbecause Tear-uh is the common way to say that name. Tar-uh is very uncommon and not easy to remember specially when you already know a Tear-uh. This is not the first time someone got her name wrong, it happens often.

[@apr1llvv]

We love jake and tara

[@alexschaefer1861]

Who gonna tell him

[@poiloi6208]

🎉😂nice video, i like social experiment because they are so controversial 😅

[@ryangoslingbro]

@@alexschaefer1861what

[@delaneycoleman4404]

Would love to see Mitsy and Christian do some sort of dating show together

[@stuitaff]

Good to see Mitsy back in your vids...but Zach woulda killed in this debate 😂

[@nealkrishna4826]

The uterus joke makes me think that she and Zach would get along pretty well

[@zwravx]

YES ZACH WOULD EATTT THIS UPPP

[@tellyg47]

Zach would win just because he’s the loudest voice in the room

[@jonatanbucup4403]

I like how we all know Zach would win his arguments. He just so good a creating a story/ narrative in a short amount of time

[@Aishamc_04]

yesss, I was literally thinking this!!!!

[@JustJoan]

Jake and Tara are physical proof that it is possible. In their literal break up video, they were full on snacking on pizza and other food and just talking to eachother. They were doing that like the king and queen they are. 😂❤

[@Chlo-p4b]

Real

[@MK-wc7sy]

Cringe

[@glu3dd]

they still like each other lmfao theyre not “just friends”

[@UltimatePeanutbutter]

now wait until one of them gets into a serious relationship and get back to us… those long talks ain’t going to happen anymore. Plus, it’s more likely they still have something going on.

[@gabbyward7796]

Off topic but Tara is so pretty, like she is genuinely stunning

[@christophervicca7669]

I cannot put into words how funny Mitsy is

[@evandower6708]

She’s gotta be acoustic or smth she’s so cute

[@HomeMadeVintage]

She reminds me of Sheila on shameless lol they way she talks

[@ghostinyourcloset]

@@evandower6708 ??? you know acoustic has to do with music (or physics) related things right? so what you said makes no sense lmao

[@jaelyn7138]

@@ghostinyourclosetpeople use the word acoustic instead of using the word autistic

[@ghostinyourcloset]

@@jaelyn7138… huh? why? 💀

[@mystictakeschances]

I came for Tara and Jake, and I stayed for Tara and Jake

[@warrior_king55]

Same

[@Noah11-the_idiot]

Same

[@a.r.5100]

31:00 that argument is invalid because what she's describing isn't even friends. It's amicablity. Friends hang out. How she said about wanting what's best for them and not having resentment or hatred, I can say that's how I feel about my favorite artist or actor and yet we aren't friends.

[@solysqdro]

I loved Jake and Tara together but I adore them as friends. They’re meant to be in each others life

[@dallasallad_2484]

I love seeing Jake and Tara together in any video

[@brookelynn004]

mitsy, tara, jake, and david are the only people i’d actually hangout with in this video

[@nicolebriceno2012]

Jake is so real. It’s not like you wake one day and say “I’m gonna emotionally cheat on my partner” the only thing they’re doing wrong is staying in their current relationship but cheating on someone physically is A CHOICE Even if alcohol is involved.

[@user-ml8go9yw6q]

but at that point they should be upfront and break up with ur partner. while yes, its not a choice to have a crush on someone, it is to keep feeding into it while simultaneously being in a relationship

[@nicolebriceno2012]

@@user-ml8go9yw6q I agree, falling in love with someone is an active choice, by getting to know them more. I personally would just feel more disgusted & hurt if I found out they had sex with someone else. Both situations are terrible tho

[@limazulu6192]

You don't just fall in love with someone. We're not some virgin teenagers anymore. This stuff takes time now. Time you CHOSE to spend with someone. Time you spent FLIRTING with someone or going even further FOR AGES until it happend.

[@Subsistence69]

Both are shit and automatic grounds for a break up. But getting physically cheated on is better for me because it makes the bandaid easier to rip off. Emotional cheating is sneaky and slimy and they have to hide it and lie about it and you’re essentially getting led on the whole time and getting your time wasted.

[@ComedyGlor]

I agree unless the person is in a whole relationship with the other person. If they just caught feelings then I agree

[@juliettecharron6717]

That’s a really nice concept. I love this video!!

[@nanaf06]

I 100% agree with Hunter on the term of friends. Alexxis was describing acquaintances, those people you rarely see and have small talk with. Friends are people you would go out of your way to help, hang with, invite out or make plans with, catch up on life, check on, and have basically grown fond of each other to have a meaningful friendship. The term friend should not be used easily otherwise everyone would be considered friends when in reality that’s not the case.

[@j.acosta523]

100% my thoughts

[@kaylalyn4281]

Heres the thing though, cheating physically is a choice, falling in love isn't and is completely out of your control. To cheat physically is an action, to fall in love is simply a feeling. Please tell me that makes sense

[@whtevrdonna]

Holy shit it does tho lol but it also makes me think of how i met your father where one of the characters feels himself starting to get too friendly with someone and cutting it off before it escalates. I can’t remember if the couple ended up breaking up still 😅

[@aaam0670]

yes you have a point, but say you fall in love with someone, the chose is there to associate with them or not while in a relationship, you could be with someone and seek out support or something from someone else, that was a choice not just something you couldn’t control, but you do make sense too about it being a feeling

[@Erikasuperiority]

Yes but that isnt cheating. To act on it is, which is also a choice.

[@CallumBailey-wu7gc]

Its not out of your control to fall in love and what they said would still make sense if you fall in love with someone else while in a relationship then you clearly did love the person you are currently with im all most 100% sure the ppl in the video don't agree but you should only be in a relationship people you love otherwise things like this happen

[@IshratJahan-dh3ev]

I’m sorry but who do you value more? Someone you fall in love with or someone you fucked without feelings? Who would you rather fight to have for the rest of ur life? And with THIS much value on someone other than ur significant other, you think it’s okay to continue to associate w them while you are consciously aware that they are becoming/already are more valuable to u then ur significant other themselves? You still think it’s better to consciously spend time w someone ur falling in love with than mistakenly fuck someone out of horniness? Both are fucking wrong but one is clearly so so so much more hurtful than the other.

[@amandanorman5456]

Jake and Tara defending each others arguments was so cute 😭 especially the nudes conversation

[@frizzyisdizzy]

tara really just sat there and looked pretty for most of the video

[@jasmondo]

the way christian switched up so quickly is so funny to me i love it. mitsy also has my heart i literally love her awkwardness. she is me, i am her

[@vivisminiblog6689]

When Tara sneezes the only one who says bless you was jake🥺😭🩷🤩

[@taylervalliere]

No mitsy did

[@myraaguirre5307]

the guy in the red beetles shirt is a vibe!! hes giving saved by the bell, and 80's mullet. I am all the way here for it!!!!

[@notsocreativejaycee8816]

Jake is the best!!!

[@kristinatrevino3055]

You mean Jake! I love him haha

[@alllittlethingzz]

Jake is his name

[@ComedyGlor]

He's always spitting facts!

[@ava111claire]

he’s really popular on YT rn his name is jake webber

[@aislinnmiranda777]

zach in this combo would’ve been HILARIOUS

[@prinaecess]

no this group was perfect they were all equally funny. if zach was here, david would make his jokes the highlight of the video as always

[@aromlaa7066]

@@prinaecessI completely agree. I never watch any videos with him because he becomes the entire center of the video. Like, if I wanted to watch him I would just watch his own KZbin channel.

[@mouryavardhan7786]

@@aromlaa7066eh. Only the last few videos because he really needed zach. Those videos would have been dull. In the starting few videos, he was pretty subdued

[@phantasyreethym7865]

Well he was cheated on 😅

[@alexusmckoy]

No it would not the video is perfect let's not ruin it

[@Opaline-Astral]

8:57 what about hiding our emotions and almost crying in public but we just nod and say “yeah im alr” in a lying voice that sounds amazing

[@theuchiha7]

The last question can be simplified like this: If you are like Jake and Tara after a relationship ends, thats friendship. Alex and his ex Lexy are not friends as they do not maintain regular friendship. They are friendly sure, they are neighborly sure.... Not friends.

[@nesnintendo9107]

She wasn't talking about Lexy she was talking about Lauren

[@prinaecess]

i loved misty and jake they were so funny 😭😭

[@gogpog6624]

MORE MORE MORE please 😋 looooovveeee there vídeos like this were it’s just debating on different topics i would watch all of the ones you have !!!

[@TheLauracastillo999]

Trying to get Mitsy to flirt was so funny 😂😂 Happy birthday David 🎉

[@DavidAlvareeezy]

hahahah she's hilarious!!

[@TheOddDonut]

Hot take guys and girl absolutely can be friends and can be platonic. We all just people not everyone needs to date or f*ck everyone, and I think we'd be missing out on some great friendships if we limit ourselves to just one gender.

[@user-ml8go9yw6q]

true, if you always end up wanting to enter a romantic relationship with the opposite gender, it means you only value them for a potential romantic relationship and less just for them as a person

[@TombJunglist]

You are right, mostly horny assholes are the ones that cant be friends with the other gender.

[@DoReply420]

No

[@cait3]

Thats what i thought too but the amount of guys ive met that would fck their friends makes me question whether its truly innocent friendship

[@Ok-pk3cv]

@@DoReply420Yes, y’all forget other sexualities exist & that not everyone wants to fuck anyone that breathes 😭

[@RosieHaverley-cq1ek]

the 'exes can't be friends' is wild with tara and jake like woah 11:48 when the green reebok jumper one said dont do boys v girls when she literally is doing that lol

[@Luv4gh0sts]

Bro I love how argumentative Jake is

[@rosetta_st0nr]

One, Zach should’ve been in this vid to banter with Mitsy. Two, Mitsy was spitting when she said “You can’t even get her name right and you say you’re friends?” 😭

[@anacamacho2756]

Hope you have Misty in more of your videos she pretty funny. Hope you have a great bday 🎂🎉

[@vereenaslayed]

thank you for havin me 😁

[@Dark.Paradise]

Last one: There’s a difference between friends and mutuals. Friends you do stuff with, you’d do stuff for or you’d invite them to your house for the day regularly. A mutual is just someone you see and say hey I know them, we’re friendly to each other, if I happen to do an activity with them I’d enjoy it. A friend is a close bond. A mutual is a loose bond.

[@vicxxo_]

This was so difficult lol props to everyone for argueing their side even if they didn’t believe in it. I would never be able to do that 😂 cool vid!

[@Duskdel]

At 16:27 Oh my god💀 I love how both Tara and Jake felt weird when Alexis said “Let’s say I’m trying to date Jake,” LIKE AHH why would she say thattt😭

[@AngelicaCastro-gc8gd]

Bruh she was giving an example that made quite sense, why would Tara even feel jealous if they are “just friends” goes on to prove the point in the last question… they’re not really just friends if there feelings there

[@MySnowball14]

@@AngelicaCastro-gc8gdno it's not that Tara was jealous, it's just a weird thing to say while knowing Jake and Tara were in a long term committed relationship. that's why jake said 'what the heck' lol

[@Duskdel]

@@AngelicaCastro-gc8gd I mean yeah personally I don’t think being friends with an ex is really ideal cause then it’s harder to get over each other and it’ll hurt more. But idk Alexis just gave me weird vibes like fake-girl vibes and just me personally it seemed like she thought jake was cute and that’s why she used him as an example. I can just see through her cause I’ve seen similar things happen before anddd they say things for a reason😭

[@taylahocking7642]

she was giving an example for her side of the debate, she has a bf so obviously she didnt mean it in the way you ppl think

[@taylahocking7642]

@@Duskdelshes literally dating alex wassabi, she doesnt want him😭

[@ppness673]

mitsy is so awkward i love her

[@GammaRayBill]

34:45 I’ve thought about this I’m not gonna lie hunter gotta a point can’t really use the term “friends” loosely, if I’m friendly with my coworker it does not mean we are friends even if I’ve known them for even a year… unless this “friend” knows my family or has my number on dial then no, being friendly does not mean you are friends.

[@_thatgirlcailen]

Also Misty gives me young Winona Ryder vibes!!! She's so pretty!

[@Haappyyyyyyyy]

I love how Tara was the only one laughing at Jake’s joke at 5:22

[@wildflower12311]

cause tara’s the only chill girl here 😭

[@lilu2830]

Ooo, I would love a video with these prompts with their actual opinions. These seem too interesting! Inquiring minds wanna know 🧐🧐🤔🤔 😂

[@AmeliaMulberry]

Guys that can't be friends with women they find attractive are really telling on themselves. You view attractive women as sex objects? Wild. They have a whole personality, feelings, interests, experiences,etc attached to that hot bod.

[@user-ml8go9yw6q]

+ what if they had multiple female friends ykwim

[@DoReply420]

Most men don't care about the first 4 of those 5 things you listed though...it is what it is

[@ewitsmorgan8035]

​@@DoReply420 well then yall need to stop shitting your pants and crying when women say they hate all men

[@Breadcrumbs_1803]

​@@DoReply420who are you to speak for "most men"? Most guys like a respectable woman.

[@Breadcrumbs_1803]

​@@DoReply420 and if you dont then that just shows you view woman as sex objects.

[@psychedelic_sol]

mitsy, tara, AND jake? in ONE video? blessed

[@seren.ity444]

I love how both tara and jake voted that exs cant be friends yet there the definition of exs can be friends

[@Alixox7]

I'm glad Jake and Tara are still on good terms, I hope the best for them

[@turnitupwithnelly-2337]

The comedic timing in this video was everything and Mitsy was so cute!

[@kylieofford5078]

I love these you guys should do more of these debates please!!!

[@haileyn1547]

35:16 the way Tara was staring at jake. Making sure he raised his hand 😂 (and jake avoiding eye contact 😭) I’m deadddd

[@gillianlovesmcr]

misty is so gorgeous omg (THEY ALL ARE) im also soso happy jake and tara are still good friends after being together for 4 years

[@xhariaanderson]

22:30 “cheating is breaking the rules of trust of your relationship” your partner trusts that you wouldn’t go around flirting with people and you do then you are breaking the trust in the relationship and therefore cheating.

[@Littleghostman4]

what do I do when I see Jake and Tara in a video? I click it.

[@Dannaaab23]

Realll

[@blessedbe2222]

33:40 "Its TARuH💅" That was the nail in her coffin after his point 😭

[@person7896]

wait she really said her name wrong lol they're not friends

[@islaclement]

I CANT EVEN TELL WHEN MISTY IS IN CHARACTER

[@ShizukaCrystalYuuki]

Cheating is cheating whether it's emotional or physical, not okay either way

[@kiraelasky8086]

I love how Jake and Tara are still friends

[@helenesuzanne]

It was so funny to mr when Christian said "girls about the emotional, the ethos," ethos refers to credibility not feeling😂

[@joanna6256]

There is honestly an 100% a difference between friends and friendly and sometimes you’re gonna have to stop and take a look at your relationship and see who are acquaintances that you get along with and you are a friendly with and don’t mind kicking it with friends are People that you rely on that you would help who would help you and they know you

[@tactlessly_sen]

Hunter's closing point was absolutely hilarious. great combo of ppl. Get them together again sometime David

[@JamesSmith-gm9cv]

i love how the end they are talking about being friends with your ex but the girl in green not understanding and continuously bringing up scenarios with a friend not your ex that you then say lets stay friends

[@Bubblefart69]

sending nudes isnt a sign of trust, its a sign of thrust.

[@shreyabhatt16]

worddd

[@449new]

Period

[@daikonyum3688]

DEAD THIS IS SI TRUE

[@HayleyDLacy]

ABSOLUTELY (but personally if you take out the “in a relationship” point of the question)😂

[@mafia7947]

"EXACTLY which is why why men and women can't be friends" That was so good

[@lissethbarrantes9016]

Hunter had a point with the friendly vs friends

[@aamberrlvr]

dating or not ! jake and tara remains the superior exes! love you guys :)

[@andshesayshesayshesayshefr1722]

don't even know most of them, but blondie girl seem wholesome and funny, i love her awkwardness 😂😂

[@chasinnc]

Tara is everything. I love her. 🎉🎉Happy birthday, David🎉🎉🎉 The world is funnier and better because you’re in it.

[@mtotonchi77]

Misty giving me Winona Ryder vibes and I love it 👍🏼✨

[@juliiebluee]

16:36 girl simply no. Broke girl code like whaat 😭😭

[@j4mb4ju1c3]

David loves making content over his friends’ breakups and honestly? Kinda here for it. 😅😂

[@taryn_5765]

dating or not, jake and tara are my favorite duo

[@vanniis.ashess]

i love how tara looks at the camera when alexxis makes the “if i were to date jake” example

[@racheldelgado1598]

Didn’t even realize it was mitsy for a sec bc she’s not doing something that makes me wanna rip my hair out LMAOO (I love her)

[@lucariogames456]

Love the videos David! All cheating is cheating.