Loved the Phrase "Always walk away when you sense you are dealing with an idiot"! Unfortunately we end up wasting years with some who are not even worth a week!!.
@wange.ci3053 жыл бұрын
True
@reginawanjirumwai51782 жыл бұрын
Take two 🍷🍷 my bill
@veronalipka3597 Жыл бұрын
"In fact, they will be happy if you go!" Sir Zulu, God protect you! PVEL.
@evalynphillips55613 жыл бұрын
I think most church should make it mandatory for just married couple to talk Benjamin the 1st week of their marriage
@peninnahmwalili85182 жыл бұрын
They should, people have made grave mistakes,
@Priya-rf7ov Жыл бұрын
Thank you Benjamin. We need more sensible people like you.
@LifewithKu Жыл бұрын
Thank you Benja for enlightening us daughters....this is very educative. Jus feel like crying...noone will ever tell you this kind of wisdom
@Kendra-i8nАй бұрын
Wish I listened to this 2yrs ago.
@lindagithaiga19743 жыл бұрын
This also applies in any new environment-at work, friendship, church,etc
@caillahmulati31633 жыл бұрын
I love Benjamin advise thanks for educating us you are the best teacher and you never disappoint.
@LLL37123 жыл бұрын
True story. Win respect. Don't t be combative. 1st-2nd year be an observer.
@blandinamyinga94893 жыл бұрын
Let me start by saying this** I LOVE YOU Benjamin Zulu y're thee best KZbin teacher ever* Man each time I tell my fellow women this thing they say oooh'' kwa vile uliachwaa until it hits someone n she comes n say hee!! vile ulisema ni kweli 🤣🤣🤣**Brides n Groomes to be *learn this as early as possible that the pain of birth only the biological mother of a child knows how it feels so don't inter into marriage while wishing to be loved more than that son or daughter of that particular FAMILY 😭😭😭 y'll be surprised na ndiyo maana huwashauri wanawake stop complaining so much to your mother inlaw about his SON who is your HUSBAND it's never works haaa!!
@ruthmwema63142 жыл бұрын
So true 😅
@eddasamwely8203 жыл бұрын
Woooooowww😍💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽I love this akiiii
@bettyokullo82593 жыл бұрын
Benjamin is just amaizing 💕
@dorismbila58173 жыл бұрын
This man doesn't disappoint
@rosesiambe44653 жыл бұрын
True , I don't have the authority to push them out.
@puritywaitherandegwa6022 ай бұрын
I wish I listened to this 2 years ago.....😢😂
@miriammwangi51724 ай бұрын
Benjamin!! This is very golden advice.
@francaumeh41743 жыл бұрын
Knowing you Ben is a big + to my life Thanks so much
@Njerikimani3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this it has come so handy for me. I wish I had this info before I got married to create boundaries from the onset with in-laws
@lucianaachola84383 жыл бұрын
No regrets
@Njerikimani3 жыл бұрын
@@lucianaachola8438 not with the marriage, but not creating healthy boundaries with in-laws
@paulineanyango81722 жыл бұрын
Very true. I wish I watched it early.
@margaretkwayie34683 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for these piece
@clairevernyuy5827 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Benjamin…I wish I had this advice earlier. I got too close.
@mugabiamina51203 жыл бұрын
So true I've seen pple become sworn enemies but initially were so close hmm inlaws
@charityjojo25933 жыл бұрын
Zulu never disappoints👍👍👍
@fionaprinces70223 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you. Thank you
@felixamollo59263 жыл бұрын
Benjamin is being Benjamin 🔥🐐🐐🐐🔥
@georgineayuyo7642 жыл бұрын
Great wisdom.thanks for sharing.
@kemboiz3 жыл бұрын
Timeless wisdom
@sandramutheu97323 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely true
@ndehnadine63843 жыл бұрын
Wow I enjoy your program a lot. Very educative
@sarahnamazzi88553 жыл бұрын
I was happier alone.👏👏👏
@famfam73673 жыл бұрын
Bengamin...! Amen.amen.as usual spot on with your advise!
@sarahniyel16273 жыл бұрын
From ug in lv with this knowledge
@JosephineChewe-cn8jz10 ай бұрын
This is so true i wish i heard this b4 i got married
@deotio27683 жыл бұрын
Loved this!
@jacquelinekangethe25423 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu is just the best .....How can I reach you??Fist one to comment
@eddasamwely8203 жыл бұрын
Ok 😅😅😅I love this 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@stellamurungi8773Ай бұрын
This has come at a good time 2025 is about to be different
@angekwiz60313 ай бұрын
Honorary wife I am..and for a long time... where do I start from
@mariamkerre31103 жыл бұрын
I wish I watched this 6yrs ago . But all is not lost glad I did now
@peninnahmwalili85182 жыл бұрын
Me too
@michellekijedi3436 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@blandinamyinga94893 жыл бұрын
Indeed Mr Zulu indeed if you see a woman walk out of marriage especially with kids guys appreciate cause she real tried.there some men as well.
@elizabethgoodwin9983 ай бұрын
Aunties, uncles 😂
@annmwangi90633 жыл бұрын
Good one
@estherkibiru78913 жыл бұрын
Volume kiasi 🎤 en 🔨 it !
@mercywamalwa6409 Жыл бұрын
Following Benjamin Zulu
@starlyin1981 Жыл бұрын
You said a mouthful, amazing work indeed done 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@kessyfifi3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@annwaweru26713 жыл бұрын
Pure wisdom.
@angelawanjiku82012 жыл бұрын
Waah this guy called Benjaa waaah. ,you do a good job ,,,and how do you deal with this ,,when you shout to your kid the in-law says you are shouting to Him ,,
@BRI2020-d8x Жыл бұрын
I found out my in laws are two faced now just don’t reply to anyones messages 😂 and ghosted them and now they are complaining
@peacesallysilas49457 ай бұрын
I wish I was informed of all these before getting into marriage. I need help as we speak...
@sharonmuga94327 ай бұрын
Receive love babygirl.
@catecate72953 жыл бұрын
Wow. Zulu is back on switch
@abigaelomare32943 жыл бұрын
I wish I heard this advice before.
@peninnahmwalili85182 жыл бұрын
Not all is lost.
@judithadhiambo4351 Жыл бұрын
I wish i did sooner but i have learnt so much from the pain
@murianzi95313 жыл бұрын
Wow!
@Blackberries7293 жыл бұрын
Wow! God bless you Benjamin Zulu.I am enlightened.
@annetwamalwa95703 жыл бұрын
Wow
@nancygemma44423 жыл бұрын
Have been wandering why I feel uncomfortable talking to my mother in law to be, even after being pushed many times. Wow, I'm fine. I'm gonna face the reality
@kahuzibiega61203 жыл бұрын
My dear sister you’re absolutely fine. Take from me, I have been married for more than 20years. His mother always tried to push that “ friendship “ with me, but I never comfortable. Until now My husband cannot push me either, because I don’t push him with my mother or father when he was alive
@kieshamiller82553 жыл бұрын
I tried they was crasy
@halblessing84243 жыл бұрын
👌
@eunicewambui29063 жыл бұрын
All the things Zulu said don't,i did.This is the time am reserved 8yrs later.After being missused
@kenyanlivemusic3 жыл бұрын
It sounds good but it feels like parents are some enemy from the tone
@gladyssemeiyian52473 жыл бұрын
It already big tension. Just live! A bad fruit falls by itself. And there is no formula to marriage it's plain Grace of God.