Am I Wrong for Leaving My Husband After Finding Out He Cheated While I Was in the Hospital?

[@YoDatCrazyRichAunt]

Nope! NTA. And be aware of your friends. How could they say you are overreacting? They seem toxic. It seems like they already knew about this. They should have gone through the same thing as you and then they can speak. And never think about forgiving your husband for that. Cheating is CHEATING. And that's it!

[@ri.b.8700]

Overreacting!! Those aren't friends, they're either covering or cheating too. Divorce and get primary custody.

[@afatcat1360]

"Wahhh wahhh, I'm so lonely. My wife is pushing a baby out of herself and isn't giving me attention!! Waahhhh

[@DarqueQueen7]

NTA!!!! UNLESS HE CAN CRAP OUT GOLD AND KEEP HIS MEMBER IN CHECK , KEEP WALKIMG!!!!

[@CanonSkyrissian]

you are never wrong to give a cheater the boot

[@lisaking6790]

NTA!! She needs to divorce him! He betrayed her at her most vulnerable moment! His excuse was “he felt alone and neglected” while she was giving birth! He will use the baby as another excuse to continue to cheat on her,babies are a lot of work!

[@mariefreeman4235]

NTA he's the one who was cheating on you. He doesn't deserve you or your baby 😢😢😢

[@Fallbloom99]

NTA the fact that the husband couldn’t keep it in his pants while his wife was giving birth is bs. This woman is going the most painful and transformative thing a woman can physically experience and he decides to ruin it by sleeping with someone else because they’re “lonely”. FFS PEOPLE LOOK UP PLEASURE CENTERS AND STOP GIVING EXCUSES FOR PEOPLE CHEATING THERES NO EXCUSE! And op please leave your husband and friends… those people aren’t your friends if they side with a cheater also don’t be surprised if you find out their dirty laundry and are doing the same things as your future ex husband

[@Bri_on_hooves]

Not at all, this is his fault

[@cinnamonj4426]

Get rid of those friends

[@danielaloka5583]

Ffs get rid of the husband, get rid of the friends

[@OMGITSPANDA]

The people who say that ur overreacting are also cheaters 😊

[@Elizabeth-ic3lh]

Now i give this advice to women who have been wrong or abused by these type of men. idk how it is when youre married but when youre single you have the option of not adding the father to the birth certificate which would force that man to a. Just cut his losses and leave you tf alone or B. Have to go threw a bunch of legal crap to prove paternity and maybe get visitation but because they started the process and want rights to the kid 100% will have to pay child support. Basically they'll do the hard work for you. Otherwise you add them to the birth certificate and then youre trying to track their ass down for child support or whatever and they can't be found and you keep having to file and pay and court date. Just do yourself the favor because I'd say at least half these men would just cut their losses and leave you tf alone.

[@TheresaWilliams-w1o]

Nope get a divorce

[@mariewilliams3524]

NTA if he cheated on you want he probably cheated on you many times that you probably don't know about the thing you can do is to leave him and probably just get child support

[@lindah3803]

Start consulting lawyers 1st. Then send a mass text/email to any of those "friends" who said you were wrong to divorce him. Don't contact me ever again. You have proven that you are not my friend. Then block them.

[@TJT602]

Girl run. Take your baby and go. You and the bay will have a life of heartache and pain. Take it from someone who knows.

[@kathyferguson8410]

Cheating on you is bad enough, but it's totally Cold Blooded to do it while you are giving birth 🤬🤬🤬!!! Thankfully he admitted it when you confronted him the first time about it, that's the only thing he got right 😡😡😡!!! He definitely needs to see the curb permanently.!!!

[@MeigetsuNoSeishin]

Those don't sound like very good friends, to basically think what that cheater did was Okay. Op is completely justified for feeling like this. If he's willing to cheat even that much while his wife is delivering his own offspring, he's not going to stop there later on.

[@givenkestrel4777]

No. And those friends telling you the forgive them drop them. They're not your friends they're okay with somebody cheating on their partner who was in labor.

[@Mia.is.delulu.]

No way- if he can cheat on you WHILE LEGIT GOVING LABOR TO HIS CHILD he can cheat on you after too.

[@SeraEMS]

From the title alone nta. If you have to ask a dumb question like that, as in really doubting yourself, don't doubt yourself. Drop the voices in your ear saying you are

[@allyssachamberlain1856]

No because if you stay it won’t be long before he starts calling you every time you leave the house to find out if he has time to cheat or he will start working more and you conveniently don’t see the extra money

[@belyndamaniez9703]

I'm sorry, OP was *giving birth to their child* and he dared to say he felt neglected? 🙃 The nerves.

[@candyabel5151]

How on earth could you possibly be TA??? get a divorce asap and get primary custody, obviously

[@kennedymays2045]

Don’t go back once a cheater always a cheater and also cut some of those friends off for saying get back with a cheater

[@strawberryeels]

is the husband trump 💀

[@ruthenns7333]

YOU HAVE BEEN BETRAYED. YOUR HUSBAND FEELS ENTITLED, BECAUSE HE IS IMMATURE YOUR 'FRIENDS' ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND. CONTACT THAT OTHER WOMAN. LET HER KNOW THESE FACTS, AND TELL HER THAT YOU ARE GIVING HIM TO HER.

[@marianaoliveira6731]

You know this story is fake because no friend or no people in their right mind would say she's in the wrong, principally because she was delivering his baby, like common

[@CoraErickson-cz3zp]

OP YTA when you get married, you make a promise to stay with him forever. Try marriage counseling FIRST. Your friends are right.

[@Fallbloom99]

Ayooo what. He cheated on her as she was giving birth, because he couldn’t keep his dick in his pants for about a month… I don’t know how you don’t think that seems justifiable for divorce. Baffling what women will take just just about anything from a man just because “it’s the right thing to do to keep the family together”. He probably wasn’t thinking that as the mistress was on top of him. 🙄

[@Fallbloom99]

lol your funny for deleting my comment 😂

[@hanayah2315]

When they got married the husband also promised to stay loyal but he obviously broke his vows first and had nothing but ridiculous excuses for her! So yeah, screw him!!!

[@LovesGaming37]

He made the vows to forsake all. why didn't he do that?