Engaged to Married in Three Days ft. Brittany Gold | Ep. 26

[@kristalliiite6408]

Just in the first 13 minutes, this has made me realize, I’m not ready to get married. I haven’t lived for me. I just turned 30 and I sort of feel behind because I’m just now realizing all of this. It’s eye opening but God’s timing is perfect. Everything will happen when it needs to.

[@nk7925]

You’ve probably lived a lot of your life for you , not a bad thing

[@bukkyonibokun8754]

Maybe focus on living for God. He has a way of restoring time

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

I'm a single mom to 2 kids. I want to live for me but also want to be married.

[@daughteroftheking01]

GIRL YOU AINT BEHIND! It’s not like you sat in one spot til you were 30! There were lessons you had to learn to even get to THIS point!!! Give yourself more credit. now you know it’s time to take time to yourself!

[@victorioussisters3307]

Girl you ain’t behind at all nor are you missing anything. Got married at 38 when all my friends were divorced.

[@mindthebusinessthatpaysyou9743]

Doing the work on yourself prior to being in a committed relationship is huge.

[@SweettoothMarie77]

It's everything !

[@wandalee5977]

Yes...

[@TheNyakaat]

My wife and I got engaged after 6 months. We got married after 1 year. We have been married for close to 9 years. To give you some context, I dated my ex for 6 years and it never felt right to take the next step.

[@kurrentevent]

Wooooo you said some then the 6 years and didn't feel right

[@unamujer360]

she waited for them 6 long and hard years

[@zulumama]

@@unamujer360 😂

[@gailainsley6939]

That’s why when I see women in the ‘waiting to wed’ forum on Reddit asking whether they should leave that man who won’t propose. Everyone tells them to leave. I advise most women to do the same also and they should never let it go past 2 years. A man almost always knows. 😅😴

[@Curly_Jay]

My husband and I have been married for a year now ❤️ We met, courted, and got married within 1 year and 6 months. 💍 So grateful. This was a great conversation!

[@Healthylifelex]

That is so similar to my story. We’ve been married for almost 9 months now.

[@Curly_Jay]

@@Healthylifelex Hey Queen ❤️ I love to hear it !! 😍 Congratulations to you, and prayers for an amazing and fruitful marriage for you both! 🔥💍

[@maherlynmorency2012]

It’s not accidental I fell upon this video. God is constantly watching over His children, constantly listening to our prayers and sees the desires of our hearts. We must now do our part in trusting in Him, learning His Voice, and following through in obedience. May God bless these two ladies, May the Lord continue to keep them. The Devil is not happy rn with the way they are equipping us w knowledge. Thank you Holy Spirit. To God be the Glory

[@kirbywiggins5643]

I just found your page. I'm 67 years old and single. Today, one of the brothers from my church called me and asked me to go to lunch. I was already eating so I said I would pick him up and he could come back and can have lunch with me. He said i don't want to eat what i was eating but he would like to eat me. This came from a man that is already living with a woman he claims that he's not sleeping with and that he doesn"t trust. Not that I care because he's not for. The only things we have in common is we are both military veterans and our income is comparable. I would love to be married but I'm no longer settling for anything in pants. I'm too old to deal with foolishness. I so much want to live for God and not be distracted.

[@emilykinya2147]

Great to honor God. May He connect you with your own husband as He pleases.

[@aprillowery3667]

Please remember to set your bar high. You teach a man how you want to be treated. Why do you offer to pick him up and bring him to your house? You have just lowered your standards when he asked you out to lunch. As a man, he's suppose to lead. Unfortunately, you set yourself up for that. I would want a healthy marriage for us all. Remember your worth and what God says about you.

[@danilaroche1156]

​Right..don't have a man over to your place alone. Plus this man is disgusting. Red flag alert.

[@ThakaneBereng]

So true, there are Christian women who worship a man, marriage, kids more than God. Great conversation

[@darylsmith7495]

God always comes first, our God. Our savior is not gonna want you to put your family in fourth place.

[@gamoridlinajeanty7053]

Dated my husband for 10 months, got engaged on May 8th, 2022 and got married May 11th, 2022 we are about to celebrate our 2nd wedding anniversary this May! And we are excited for it! We had to let go of what our culture said about it , some people got upset and removed from our lives but we are happy and that’s all what matters ❤️ we pray together and keep it moving! There’s no need to date for x amount of years to be sure once you know you know! And keep God at the center of y’all marriage and y’all will thrive I promise ❤

[@gamoridlinajeanty7053]

And Yes we had a courthouse wedding ❤️ best decision ever ❤

[@moxiejae321]

❤❤❤

[@valerieI21]

I love this may God bless your marriage and family❤

[@cieraby]

Beautiful❤ May God continue to bless your marriage!

[@victoriamckay5885]

Oh wow. May 11 is my birthday. Congratulations and happy early anniversary.🎉

[@realtalkqueenie]

Met my husband in October married in December! Been married over a decade. From my experience, you need to get to know the man before marry. Marriage is hard!! Having a child right after marriage is crazy!

[@daughteroftheking01]

This was a really great and juicy interview 🤝🤍💐!!! Thank yalll Notes: - She did the work BEFORE her husband came so the courting was short - She got a relationship coach and realized she needed to do more work - Every good guy is not your husband - Standards and boundaries weed out the men who aren’t for you - Work at your pay grade: no wifely duties as a gf, period. - Slow to hire, quick to fire - As soon as you see he doesn’t operate godly, eliminate - He’s your brother in Christ until courting/moving toward marriage - Don’t goto church WITH him until you’re headed toward marriage - don’t date w/ in your church This plus more!

[@zyleymacruz333]

Wow I love the don’t date with in your church that’s a great one. Can I ask why though?

[@daughteroftheking01]

@@zyleymacruz333 Let me first say, many of people have found love in their church! On the flip-side, it can get really messy if things go left or make you look loose if you're dating them all lol. I also like my business to remain private when dating. I would like to think I'd be friends with the person if I find someone in my church interesting. The good part of dating in your church is the pastor can speak to his/your character (or lack their of) lol, you both are submitted to the same pastor and elders already, etc. Ultimately, GOD† makes our love story so.

[@daughteroftheking01]

@@zyleymacruz333 I responded with a nice message but my comment somehow deleted lol. Hmm.

[@kristalliiite6408]

You don’t get what deserve, you get what you require.

[@cyes1156]

You get what you earn

[@janellegregg5775]

I’m so happy you two connected!! This was an amazing episode. I remember my pastor specifically preaching that women are NOT to bring a man to Christ. It’s not our role and a man should be on his purpose on his own FIRST. So happy you spoke on this and on this beautiful journey. Beautiful women with a beautiful spirit! 💕🙏🏾

[@mindthebusinessthatpaysyou9743]

I’m glad she talked about seasons. We sometimes have to be different people in different seasons. Just like the Proverbs 31 woman. She wore many hats but she wasn’t all of those things in the same season.

[@LikeTheGarden2]

Amani, I remember seeing your story go viral and I understood your POV because I also had a good man whom I broke it off with and he treated me well and did everything right but I ended it due to our differences in faith/belief! This resonates even more for me knowing that you’ve experienced similar reasons as to why you’ve ended it with your ex! Love, love, love this new direction!

[@Ashley-og9ti]

How did you do it🥺 I think it gets harder the more history there is ..not to mention I battle with my own thoughts and doubts, wondering if I'm signing up for regret. I just don't trust myself. Leaving it all to God ..if He even wants the mess lol

[@IamJustJay]

@@Ashley-og9tibeloved trust me, He wants ALL your mess❤ “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding” - Proverbs 3 v 5 - 6 “Give all your worries and cares to God, *for he cares about you* “ - 1 Peter 5 v 7 “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” - Matthew 6 v 33 You have to let go and let God. I encourage you to pray about it. If that man is not the one for you or does not align with the purpose that God has for you and the trajectory of your life, than ask God to remove him for you if you cannot do it yourself. All the best and God bless❤️❤️❤️

[@kaliha.j]

@@Ashley-og9tiI was in the same situation and I had to be honest with myself on why I was in that relationship. I was comfortable and didn’t trust that God knew what was best for me. I thought that what I wanted wasn’t possible but nothing is too hard for the Lord. I’d rather be single and feel lonely sometimes than be in a relationship and have settled. History doesn’t mean anything, God will do a new thing!

[@Ashley-og9ti]

@kaliha.j very true ..❣️thank you for this encouraging reminder 🙏🏾

[@okolitracy5283]

Oh my God! Im literally just 10 mins in and im getting answers to questions ive had.God is really good. Well done guys more grace and love♥️

[@moxiejae321]

Amani, keep being self aware. It’s an amazing trait to have. You will improve daily.

[@girlmeetskingdom]

Got married after two months of meeting.

[@nered7522]

This will be my story in Jesus name 🙌

[@hellohi123ist]

​@@nered7522 Amen for me and you both

[@Cheque17]

Amen. I receive this even within a month❤

[@RepentImmediately]

​@@nered7522what is the rush?

[@kurrentevent]

That's me now!👏🏿👏🏿

[@mama-nono3652]

So she did "date", just not getting intimate. Plus, she had lived a full life in the world and had gained an insight into human nature and how the world functions. Therefore, she had reference points, life skills garnered through her life experiences, to help her make an "informed" decision, not just waiting on God. Nor was she a clueless18 year old ingénue, she was a fully realized adult.

[@ravenvdukes]

You made some good points ma’am!!!!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@digthewarmth]

True! This "don't date" advice is great for fully realized adults. This is not for 21 year olds. If you're young, please date for a while, maybe a year, before engagement, and then do couples therapy after engagement, cause you need to learn more about how people work before you get married. We understand people and ourselves more in our 30s.

[@andraroselondon]

This is such a great advice- there is a place for dating and a place where dating is not needed.. Two very mature adults can meet each other & bypass the dating phase cause they are fully mentally mature & aware. If you lack this, pls date!

[@cameronsmith5634]

yeah i ain't want to seem like a hater but i was definitely thinking now you know you was dating you just ain't sleep with that man lol

[@emmylewis2164]

So that begs the question, Is dating and courting different things? In my mind when I hear dating I think of people going out on dates (obviously), possible boyfriend/girlfriend lables, sometimes involving sex But when I think of courtship I think of ppl who still go on these dates only the dates aren't AS romantic,they're mainly just getting to know someone, there are no bf/of lables, and there is no sex or kissing even I think they're more or so the same. The big factor between the two it seems is the sex part. But even so, some ppl will say they're dating but they'll do so as if they are in a courtship

[@kinettemoore6031]

Awww Brittany look beautiful! Omg so gorgeous! She is glowing with Love 🥰❤️ I’m here first.😂

[@MrsBrittanyGold]

Thank you Ms. Beautiful!

[@4LADYSWEET]

Amani, continue to allow God to lead and guide you. You have elevated your platform in such a manner that creates better results for young ladies, in regards to life and dating ❤❤ Baby momma culture is coming to an end, women are realizing that this type of lifestyle leads to a destructive unstable environment for everyone involved, MAINLY the children

[@berlinmarie6457]

I believe that you should “date” someone for all 4 seasons and go thru premartial counseling before rushing down the altar. So happy for this woman though.

[@starrjohnson1327]

I agree. Premarital counseling is important. I know someone who stopped going to her premarital counseling because the pastor spotted some red flags. She married the man anyway. They got divorced a year later.

[@amariematthews4888]

A good guy is not your husband....I had good relationships... ended simply because no future. Im thankful for them. Acknowledging that is the big come up.

[@bakangmatabane711]

So who is your husband?

[@edinahowembabazi8652]

i love the honesty in the guest's conversation

[@Everybody_Loves_Mela]

I am mid fast, 39 years old, in the space wondering about marriage & being intentional. This is one of the first shorts to pop up, and I had to watch the full video. I am so fed by seeing sister’s experience the exact same things & openly discuss & share! Thank you keep going! New subbie!

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

This episode blessed me. I’m fresh into an apartment of my own with my 21 month old daughter after leaving the home I shared and helped purchase with the father of my child. We’ve been separated and at odds for the past 9 months and I finally decided to officially separate myself from him 2 weeks ago after having enough!! Being that I’m on this walk with Christ and he simply is a non believer we were unequally yolked. Last month he went to Jamaica for his birthday for an alleged “solo trip” but when he came back home he went bragging to the neighbors about having group smex with complete random women out there. That completely hurt me and still does till this day, to the point I want revenge, but after looking at this video it humbled me into realizing that although I may have a child out of wedlock there’s still a potential change for me to find a God fearing kingdom spouse and to be married and finally in a healthy relationship/ marriage. I know my chances maybe impacted because I gave a man who isn’t my husband a child, but I have hope that if I do the work and wait on God’s divine timing I will be able to experience marriage!

[@alejandradiez8388]

Amen sis ❣️

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

@@alejandradiez8388 ❤️❤️❤️🙌🙌

[@cassandrasmith8346]

Be encouraged. As you walk with Jesus, He will fill you and satisfy you.

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

@@cassandrasmith8346 thank you so very much 🙏❤️🙌🙌

[@ShamekaColeman]

This is sooooo good! Thank you to the both of you ladies!! It’s so easy to get distracted by the worlds way of doing things. I’d encourage us to redirect our focus back on The Bridegroom. Our first true love! The biblical way isn’t always the easiest but it is the most rewarding. May God give you and I continued grace on your journey of doing it His Way!

[@Stephaniealicianaturalhair]

I love the part where you talk about the difference between a good guy and your husband.

[@MzClassy22]

I’m so glad God has called you, bcuz I love your podcast and I just started my journey also. I love this for you.

[@JacquesChevon]

Brittany Gold is truly Golden. Thank y’all for the gems ❤

[@Lia_Sha]

Brittany got KZbin omg 🥹I deleted TikTok I miss seeing her lives .she is glowing YALL are GLOWING TOGETHER 😍⭐️🥰🙏🏾

[@eternitysafro1083]

AHHHH! So happy to watch this, when I saw Brittney in the title & the thumbnail I literally screamed. I love your channel, and I love this new pivot especially to focusing on Godly marriages. As a Christian girl myself, we are seeing your growth and proud of you.🤍

[@denisselee6544]

Thank you for this amazing interview. Her testimony resonates with me deeply. I’m currently working on myself after a devastating breakup, like her I decided to work on myself and I feel amazing. Waiting patiently for my husband while I’m living a healthy single season 😁

[@nenajay3174]

Love this! So happy for both of you. It’s important to be true to yourself and let spirit lead you despite what anyone else says. When you posted the video with the story about your ex, I thought it was weird that so many people had an issue with it. When it comes to relationships, especially marriage, it’s about who aligns with your soul. Being nice is great, but it’s only part of the qualifications, like you said. Staying with someone when your heart isn’t in it is only doing a disservice to them and you. Why should you settle? And who wants someone to be with them because they settled? Eventually it would’ve all crumbled anyway and then it would’ve just been time wasted when both of you could’ve found the love that was truly for you.

[@therealjakande]

We need more of these conversations!!! You ladies need to be interviewed on @HardlyInitiated

[@kamimatthews2699]

Love this ! I literally was just telling myself this . I’m done playing girlfriend

[@shakitamoorer2053]

Wow, this is for me. I literally prayed to God multiple times and said I do not want to date. I desire to meet, God speak, engaged, married. #OneAccord

[@crystala5033]

I really think that soulmates exist not in the sense that they are half a person until they find each other, but some people are destined to marry some specific person who is suitable to them. Joseph was told to take Mary as his wife. Esther was set up by God to be chosen by King Xerxes for such a time as that. Eve was designed to be suitable for no other man but Adam. I think it's important to realize that in each of these scenarios, God has a plan for these people to support each other in a purpose that went beyond the marriage itself... something that became a blessing or was meant to be a blessing for the surrounding society or even the world. But the vast majority of people are not necessarily meant for marrying a soulmate. They just need to find someone compatible, with similar values, and a similar level of integrity.

[@favourobasiolu4512]

Oh wow interesting. I like this perspective. So do you think that God picks who he wants to have a designed soulmate for? Like if there’s a purpose he wants to accomplish then he creates people with their soul mates? Idk I have so many questions lol

[@crystala5033]

@@favourobasiolu4512 Great questions. I'm not really an expert, but I expect that since God knows everything from the beginning, He already knows who will fulfill what purpose and how and what is best from the beginning. It sounds like you are asking the order in which God thinks of soulmates verses the purpose he sets for them, but God probably just knows everything all at once.

[@favourobasiolu4512]

@@crystala5033Yeah that makes sense. Thank you for responding!

[@nursed.porchae990]

Awe I went to school with Brittany. She still looks the same. Beautiful as ever! Congratulations Brittany 🙏🏽🎉👏🏾

[@Mindsetolympics]

23:30 SHE brought up some valid points about the race thing. But no one can really say… but the black church vs predominantly white church discussion I have never heard on a podcast before thanks for bringing that up 🔥🔥🔥 35:06 100%

[@Kenesha_]

Such a great conversation!! First time watching the podcast and I agree we need more conversations like this. It is possible to do it Gods way!

[@_papama_]

Love this rebrand amani❤ To greater heights and influence

[@Lady.Ephraim]

This was a GREAT conversation. Thank you ladies. Thank you very much. 🙏

[@TheCHERRELLShow]

I Loved This Episode ❤❤❤ Omg your Growth is really showing God is Growing you I Love To See It

[@yungjazmine]

This was such a great listen. Very motivating and you guys def put a lot of things in perspective for me. I shared this with some of my girlfriends too!

[@Nomkhithakazi]

I honestly feel like this episode was just made for me 😢… I literally prayed earlier on today and you ladies definitely were sent by the Man above 😢I’m so touched ❤

[@rohneshamhorne]

This was soooo good! Thank you for this conversation.

[@Mrs.JasmineJane]

I love seeing this narrative shared & expounded upon! Let’s keep finding forever through friendship 🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@PreferenceIsWealth]

WE HERE IN FULL SUPPORT OF BRITTANY AAYYYEEE 🎉❤

[@MrsBrittanyGold]

Thank you 💕🙏🏽

[@angiecud9744]

So glad I found this cos I've been conflicted but also convicted and cannot deny THE truth (God's commandments in the Bible). So finding your podcast and her testimonial gives me peace of mind and I can pull away even more from the hypergamy tik tok videos that pop on my fyp.

[@HummingbirdQueen]

What a refreshing conversation! I'm glad I saw the short clip of your conversation and decided to watch the full episode! This was very encouraging and a wonderful reminder to go into marriage and date God's Way (Courting). Thank you and God bless you both.

[@alexandradumitru04]

Great video. Thank you so much! God bless you both 🙏❤️

[@tomiwafaith]

Wow. God really wanted me to watch this video & i believe that I have gotten the confirmation that i been praying for🤍. Hallelujah

[@Chevonne8]

This was a great, inspiring episode. I’m happy you mentioned it’s okay to be a lover girl but a lot of these women will have you out here thinking being mean and doing transactions is the way to go. I’m just naturally chill and loving at heart but I do have standards. I definitely want to date God’s way. But I do understand that you have to lay down every idol

[@Iam_Blossomqueen]

This was soo good ! Thanks Ladies for yall wisdom!!💕💕💕

[@chaquiseedwards]

Fasting and Praying will cha be your life …. God be revealing fast

[@tylerdenae11]

So good! Always loved you, but love you even more showing up as a woman of God! The girlies need this ❤

[@Nutralook]

Thank you ladies for sharing your stories, what an eye-opening convo. ✨

[@jahzyjase]

Love this so much lot of things was related to me...I know God's talking to me. I needed those words right now. Thanks God for that🙏🏽. Nice podcast👌🏽

[@Iam_Blossomqueen]

Yall betta speak Life I love this new Subscriber!!🥳🥳🥳

[@chaquiseedwards]

Say it girl these Pastors and Christian man something else that’s why I’m waiting on God …. His Will His way ordained marriage only 🙌🏽🙌🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@Anti-democratChick]

Yes mamn, people need to be honest. It's hard to find a man who is serious about God! A lot of them are wolves in sheep's clothing. Lacking self control forreal

[@Generationalfaithbuilder]

I think has a women we should stop stressing ourselves about being behind in getting married in God no such as “delay” allow God to prepare you first ,have a prayer life because in marriage you will need to be spiritual disciplined for a kingdom marriage,build your relationship with God and build a Godly character , live the life of Christ so our Heavenly Father can trust you with his beloved Son🙏🏾🙏🏾 GOD has to trust u to give u his good son who will be your king 👑 sis GODLY MEN ARE GIVEN TO GODLY WOMEN Our God is a Jealous GOD..

[@deondrad9121]

This blessed me! So many nuggets dropped ✨

[@ashlee_rayye473]

Was really blessed by this interview

[@danilaroche1156]

Incredible video. Love the candor .

[@chaquiseedwards]

This so good…. So needed!!!

[@mariakala7089]

I love this: « I’m not in the business to change anybody » 😌😌😌

[@malungayesemusic]

Very insightful conversation! Thank you 🙏🏾 💗

[@deborakamitanji8602]

Love this! you both were talking fast and going straight to the point🎯

[@TheeFireOfGod]

This IS God’s message! That’s why I’m here! God has been telling me that I’m going from single to engaged since 2020! I’m 34 right now and God just had me share the message that others will be too because we are not a girl or a boy! So we will not be girlfriends and boyfriends!

[@chaquiseedwards]

This podcast was so good yesss🔥🔥💃🏽💃🏽

[@Abbas_Daughters]

I absolutely loved this episode! 👏🏾& This couple is amazing 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤

[@Naudybynature1]

This was a great conversation and good insight!

[@BrionneSymone]

Great job ladies. Very informative

[@tashoyadickson6706]

Wow !! A good guy and a husband is two different thing

[@m.a.r.c.i.a.]

Great conversation ladies ❤

[@shamekajackson3009]

Thank you so much my beautiful sisters we as women really needed to hear your both you guys so inspirational your beautiful and Love God first and foremost thank you appreciate this Podcast episode ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Vavavoum-gr8]

My story is very similar to this lady I am 32 now never been in a relationship just situation I had daddy issues, mummy issues, abandonment issues and relationship baggages But am in a good place now and ready. Been set apart for about a year and I have met ready men now and very optimistic about this year being the year for me. My last situation that almost became a relationship was with a good guy but not ready. That woke me up to stop just breezing through these things but date ready men cos am ready woman Let’s also deal with generational curses too cos they feed into delayed marriages

[@KeepTheFaith00]

Great episode!!! Blessings to you Amani ❤

[@quinn433]

Loved this interview

[@ChristinaDejene]

This was a great episode ❤

[@danilaroche1156]

I tried to inspire 2 exes to serve Christ. Didn't work. No more of that. The man I like today is a prayer warrior. A man of integrity. He's prayed over me and he's not flirting or getting sexual. We shall see....pray 4 us!

[@taneshalashai]

Exactly you have to have the hard conversation in the beginning. I was ready when I was in my 20’s… but hey.

[@msnikmic]

Great topic! Soooo timely ❤

[@scorpiondesiles67R7]

That was a beautiful conversation ! ❤

[@UnapologeticallyAshley]

I love KS don’t play about him he started a very important work!

[@asiakg]

Oh this was good, really good

[@itsxandyy]

Love love love this new content.

[@ashleyhutchinson8358]

Great episode definitely learned a lot ❤

[@kejuanlynette8531]

Congratulations on renewing your walk with Christ Amani! I’m a new subscriber ❤ Hey Mrs. Gold! You look so beautiful carrying your baby! Congratulations to you both 🎊 🎉❤

[@Lifestyleofcjones]

This was good !

[@lara8139]

This is a really good episode, I just wished Amani would have gave more time to Brittany to talk and share her thoughts

[@MrsBrittanyGold]

I have a KZbin Channel & Podcast with so much content 💕

[@noksify]

I thank God for waking me up from the greatest earthly slumber. It hurt, but I’m better for it ❤

[@chaquiseedwards]

Deliverance is Everything!!Yes put it to the Altar …. Say it

[@moxiejae321]

Great episode

[@laurens7184]

Great episode!

[@wandalee5977]

It's about being the right one and marrying the right one

[@tammisummers]

Love this video!❤❤❤

[@SweettoothMarie77]

This was so edifying 😊

[@ilaray4513]

Love this episode! ❤

[@C_Pope]

Yessss...👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 A good conversation