American Man Pays 20K For His Foreign Wife?

[@ionlyruntossdive]

20k is cheap we pay more than that for American women. It's just done indirectly so we don't notice it.

[@Jenni3p]

You have no idea how cheap a cow is in Wisconsin. I mean hello! I pay so much for milk and cheese! And it’s gotta hole too! What a bargain!

[@embracehorizons]

He pays for all the same shit we do. We don't drop 20k on a deposit though.

[@KDanie]

@@ionlyruntossdive sadly I hope he finds a woman that don’t make him buy her.

[@OnyxKami]

OnG. I definitely paid way over that in the dating stages.

[@KDanie]

@@OnyxKami avoid these gold diggers

[@easterlily6803]

I'm a Filipina myself and her English sounds very "call center" like she practiced that accent

[@thattonybaby]

I was thinking she sounds like she is actually from America. I think their story is totally BS

[@jordankilburn3758]

Bro her body language says she doesn't like him at ALLLLLL. He's one of those guys that's always like "I don't deserve you, your hair is like an ocean....", one of those incels. Keeps touching her and she keeps pulling away lol. Foh, this shit is so cringe

[@juliesong4123]

@@jordankilburn3758 yea the way she ran and threw her arms around him!

[@meep1mod554]

I'm hoping you guys are wrong... I'm rooting for him to succeed on this but if I'm wrong then damn...

[@KDanie]

@@meep1mod554 the power imbalance. I’m a woman and will say if you pay for a woman as if that’s all you have to offer, she will expect financial transactions

[@meep1mod554]

@@KDanie let's just hope that it's not the case for buddy in the video.

[@Franatomy]

Bro these chicks worship white men like they're jesus, way off here

[@brettlawrence9015]

The moment she has citizenship relationship over !

[@Fanniannie83]

Not true. I have fillipino friends and they have English husbands. They are happily married and some with children and they have had their citizenship for a few years. They are still together. The loveliest bunch of ladies I've ever met and glad to have as friends.

[@808kahulaa]

Only time will tell. If she decides to get pregnant, she will have decided to accept him as adequate. I know MANY filipinas that drop their husbands after ten years. Why ten? Collect the pension. Also, Filipinos are damn near required to send money back home. Her husband is responsible for them too

[@jennag3226]

​@808kahulaa fact...ik a dude that did exactly that and now he's so fckn unhappy 10 years later

[@KDanie]

To be fair, foreign women do require the man to be the sole provider in exchange of femininity.

[@bigbiafra5288]

Once a lame, always a lame

[@KDanie]

@@bigbiafra5288the guy in the vid the lame?

[@bigbiafra5288]

@@KDanie Any man that pays for 🐱

[@69Fabulosity]

Same thing American women expect provider yet yall rather be 50-50 men in America 😂😂😂 then yall go aboard and be passport bros have to do the same thing because yall are delusional and think they really in ❤ with u but in reality these foreign women just want and need u 4 a green card 😂💯

[@dcamz6875]

A lot of men would prefer that to each is own

[@myungwheeler7382]

Lol 😂my husband is white and older than me( 7years) I am from South Korea but I came as a child. I pretend NOT to speak English sometimes because I get tired of stupidity. Then I tease my husband and tell him to tell people her bought a mail order bride!! 😂😅

[@Ghostie-lovergirl]

That’s adorable 🥰

[@tiptop6906]

Yall love the white man lmao

[@Penelope416]

​@@tiptop6906 Many asian women have a "no dating asian" policy. So sure...

[@bloodnessx]

👮‍♂️

[@ronaldwilliams9635]

That's a completely different level of Desperation.

[@The_gothic_devil]

nah he shouldve moved to the philipines instead of bringing her to hell of a U.S.

[@WaynesWorld12]

Now that? I agree with

[@CommandoMaster]

Cuz the guy is inexperienced

[@fatkidwithfudge]

Exactly, folks look abroad to avoid the women influenced by the US. Mans brought her back to the heart of the issue.

[@Shadarian]

Philipines is dirty they eat food from the garbage.

[@Shadarian]

Philipines are dirty they eat garbage food. Don't believe me look up pagag.

[@chickengod9184]

She was wearing a lot of really heavy makeup in her dating app profile pic, and speaks extremely good english, compared to the average Filipina you might meet that comes from a traditional type of background. She could very possibly have been a bar girl. Now that he brought her to america, he's not going to be able to shift into Cruise control. He's going to have to hit the gym get ripped and make continuous Improvement in career path to prove his Worth to her. Because while she may be the average looking Filipino girl in the philippines, guys in the west kill for that type of girl because she is one of the​ few types of women in​ the​ u.s.​ that men consider to be like the girl next door.

[@PhyteByte]

MY BRO did this 16 years ago she'll sneak she'll find someone else and have a greencard

[@jakeross8020]

Exactly

[@PhyteByte]

@jakeross8020 I'm real serious dude spent his whole 18 to 25 in the Phillipines second she was over here she turns into a billboard

[@seeyounexttuesday3716]

He’s has his hands all over her, she does not have her hands all over him…….Im not convinced. I’ve seen men years back constantly clamped onto the women they brought back, just saying. The only difference being the men are younger now.

[@trenton227]

You'd be surprised that they could have some chemistry,like women who are abused.

[@YourBestFriendforToday]

6:28

[@adamamburgey5222]

he said hello in his own house to her lol. kinda weird, no babe or honey or even her name just hello lol

[@Amdecreations.]

It looks like she's been to America before, like her english is really good. Plus, he acts ike she's his first ever girlfriend.

[@HelianeVanDunem]

You know that English is not that hard to learn right?

[@Darkmage1000]

@@Amdecreations. bruh they get taught english every year of school. Every filipina can speak good english

[@angelika_munkastrap4634]

If you have to buy a girlfriend than I’d say she is

[@KDanie]

@@Darkmage1000 people assume foreign women are stupid fr. We’re not 😂

[@randombsgo4367]

first girlfriend who willingly slept with him

[@Jodi_Johnson]

I do all this for my husband and homeschool our daughter. He does most of the yard work, though. I will get on the zero turn and cut the yard. I do NOT have social media like that. I have KZbin and Instagram, and I do not post on the Gram at all hardly. There are plenty of us here in America like this lmao

[@mothegoat6865]

Thanks for all you do. Your husband must be proud.

[@spaulagain]

Def seems a little sketchy. My GF is Filipino but she put in the hard work and came here herself years ago, working on her own citizenship, etc. No fishing for a fiance visa.

[@HiPlayerProdigy]

20K Total to just head overseas and take care of other fees. Bruh. They clickbaited the hell outta us.

[@kenboyk7419]

Man they tripping at least she gives back in the relationship. A lot of people don’t even get a call back but they tripping about what he got going on 😂

[@mattycakes1161]

In the Philippines, they do gardening and yard work all the time, I'm sure sitting around really bothers people like that, they're really active and spend a lot of time outside instead of sitting on the couch. After they see the price of fruits and vegetables here, they'll be gardening for sure and think we're crazy for paying that much when we can grow it ourselves.

[@zia8188]

“We make fire manually, we fetch water…” she’s definitely from the province bc I don’t do that shit and I’m a filipino myself🤣. And to ppl commenting about her english speaking ability, i just want to let yall know that Philippines is in top 5 of english proficiency in Asia. Filipinos can speak english but don’t expect everyone to have the same level of fluency as a native english speaker. My grammar is actually bad but I can hold a conversation

[@Dead_Again1313]

Your English is better than some Americans I know.

[@benpack6676]

​@Dead_Again1313 This person's English is better than MOST of the Americans I know lol

[@Dead_Again1313]

@@benpack6676 Sad but true lol

[@zia8188]

@@Dead_Again1313thank u😅

[@biocaster777]

Neither is my Filipino friend. I told him I can do that because of my military training, he said that he wish he can, too. He's from Cavite.

[@warrenpeece9624]

Best friend of my younger brother brought a poor family girl from Thailland, dumb enough to build there a house she claimed will be theirs, ended being a house for her parents to live in. As soon as she got her resident permit she left him miserable for an older and richer guy 🙃. He was warned but didn't listen and paid a heavy price price.

[@alexrodriguez6152]

Before I even start watching the video, I just want to point out that in some Asian cultures it is custom to "buy" the daughter. It's a way of saying that she is now your responsibility, come what may. Your family is now her primary family. She will move in with you, etc. From what my friends have told me, it's a long held tradition and is more about familial ties as opposed to simple greed.

[@RyuujinJakka-kt7pe]

Some cultures you technically pay the dad/mom for thier child. Certain. Parts of African culture did the same in goats and cows etc

[@julitakamaki4386]

That was painfully awkward and forced. I hope it works out for him but… yeah. God speed dude.

[@lwhite530]

That’s what people do with arrange marriages. 🤷‍♀️

[@AGirlNamedVan]

Here in South Africa we have a dowry system too called Labola.

[@oceanbeama992]

Lobola 😂❤ but yeah most westerners say girls are bought which is actually not the case

[@Alex-xz4im]

that sounds like it sucks

[@oceanbeama992]

@@Alex-xz4im no it doesn't, it's culture and a way the groom shows token of appreciation to the bride's parents for raising her as a good woman . And also it shows respect to the bride's culture.

[@Alex-xz4im]

@@oceanbeama992 I suppose I still think that sucks.

[@aidenmalan4151]

From SA here. It sucks to anyone outside of Africa but we understand the respect around labola. Some families do take advantage of it though. And many things go into the consideration of the price for labola

[@ChrisBarringer]

If thats happily married sitting next to each other looking awkward af you can keep it.

[@PoeticSonic]

also dude isn't a simp/incel he clearly works on himself and built a bit of muscle, although his barber is doing him terribly wrong

[@mrnegativepredictsthefuture]

He's clearly a simp

[@PoeticSonic]

@@mrnegativepredictsthefuture explain

[@malimal4972]

Did you not see the contrast in body language and how at beginning he went in for the kiss and she didn't

[@PoeticSonic]

@@malimal4972 out of one clip on a tv show he's a simp? nevermind the fact that if he truly was a simp he would have gotten here to America and not let her do any work just take his money meanwhile he has her doing not only the job of a stay at home wife but even yard work💀💀

[@AntonioRivera28]

@@malimal4972I’m married to an Indian. In Asian countries pda is a big social don’t. Save all of that for when people aren’t around. You will see happily married people that are in love and together 30 years but they will act like they are just friends when in public. Even I would pull away if that was done in front of others

[@chadhapps4805]

I was in the Army for 26 years and I saw quite a few guys that were socially awkward or strange or different who married foreign women when stationed overseas and just heard the stories about getting women citizenship and leaving the guy after staying in the marriage just long enough to get half of everything including his future retirement. Looks like it's hitting the civilians now

[@HistoryandConspiracies29]

Interesting info thanks!

[@mikej9932]

They have to be married for a certain amount of time before she gets full citizenship. After she gets her full citizenship bet anybody $10,000 she's gone.😂

[@darrensteele3365]

Put her to work while he can. Shes gone when citizenship arrives.

[@SUPATWIN1]

@Knight Talk, she probably seems westernized because she is. People in the Philippines or Filipino society is very westernized because they consume so much western media. They mostly consume American media even korean too, theh are basically Americanized. A lot of Filipinos also speak good English because its widely taught there.

[@rickyarme2317]

In America we pay our whole lives. This dude got off good

[@Better230]

Stevie you should see what's happening in south Africa 🇿🇦 you pay for a wife and she still gonna leave you 😂😂😂😂

[@CaseyBurnsInvesting]

20 grand is less than many of us paid. I don’t think she’ll see this here. 🤣

[@Callmeromain2016]

She will happily take that green card

[@thembp4sho]

I won't even pay 100 bucks. I'm sensitive about my money.

[@beerguy177]

mail order brides? no idea that was still a thing

[@adyday5447]

Buying humans at market stall ?

[@rybackfrankie8679]

Well, it's similar to a dowry which is a concept that still exists in many cultures around the world, which means that this woman become his responsability and he has authority upon her. To be fair, many western men pay way more for their western woman/wife and get woman who doesn't cook nor clean for them and even withold sex or doesn't mind show disrespect So, if we consider all that, this guy he's still winning 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@a1000island]

Bro just a young sugar daddy living his best life

[@axllomein7215]

In the end, the man always pays. This is an up-front down payment on their relationship.

[@phunkylemonade9279]

He just paid to skip the grind. 😂

[@raymondbufford9088]

My husband didn’t pay me yet I am still doing the house chores. As a Filipino woman, it is already embedded in us being traditional. We do the house chores while the husband is out working to provide for the family. I had a great career but I had to sacrifice my career because I am no longer single and this is the part that women now a days don’t understand…women sacrifice for the common goods. What is wrong y’all 😅 we don’t consider ourselves slaves because it is a mutual job and responsibility..my gosh!

[@ExecutionStyleInc]

Whatever you say “Raymond Buford”

[@bandile712]

Is there dowry in Filipino culture?

[@raymondbufford9088]

@@bandile712 no unless they are a member of some tribe..we do have more that 7000 islands but majority of the region doesn’t practice the dowry

[@karoshii_x_1229]

I have a similar situation. I no longer had an interest in American women due to their attitude and ridiculous expectations. I just happened to be introduced to a Filipino girl in the Philippines. However, my approach was not out of desperation, but love and understanding. We’ve been together going on eight years and have been married two of those years. The pandemic prolonged our marriage. We now have a kid on the way. Even though you find a wife from the Philippines, you still have to vet and figure out what their true Intentions are just as she was if she was down the street. where yet kind and upfront yet understanding. Some of these men are just desperate altogether you can’t become blind by your desperation.

[@mothegoat6865]

Do you still live in the Philippines

[@karoshii_x_1229]

@@mothegoat6865 no we are back in the states now…

[@Laoriginal718]

Your approach was out of desperation. You’re no different then the dude in the video no matter what you tell yourself 😂

[@mothegoat6865]

@@Laoriginal718 Who hurt you? 😂 Pressed for no reason. Let the man live his life

[@karoshii_x_1229]

@@Laoriginal718 that’s OK I’ll let you judge and think you’re somebody to be able to do so. At least my kids will know who her dad is and that their parents love each other. She will know about both her cultures and that people like you who have kids Don’t know their fathers, either because they left , in prison or Maybe you don’t even know who your multiple baby daddies are. Judgment is a Cynical thing.

[@GamePlay-qm6gx]

Yea... I don't know about this one. Getting major "6 o'clock news" vibes fam.

[@MitchMighty253]

Usually they be paying the guy/girl in America to marry the foreigner

[@pmanning431]

Its pretty normal here in Australia. Usually takes years and $$$ to get your foreign wife into here.

[@ACG-Koopah333]

Yard work is wild work😂

[@V0ltron]

Mail order brides..? What could go wrong? 🤷‍♂️

[@jjlatinopedia]

The same way you think it is utterly ridiculous to pay for a wife, I think it is absolutely *ludicrous* to be on your knee when asking a woman to be your wife.

[@Laoriginal718]

Agreed. You can stand up and ask her.

[@jjlatinopedia]

@@Laoriginal718 That's exactly what I did. lol

[@jjlatinopedia]

@foolserrand-lu7ym we've been married for 2 years. She also picked out her ring which cost less than $2K and we had a court wedding. We went to Dubai for our honeymoon at one of the luxurious hotels in front of the BK.

[@jjlatinopedia]

@foolserrand-lu7ym lmao Burj Khalifa.

[@Str8sErious]

Passport Bro’s winning, mom’s approval all in weird nothing from pops.

[@magichandsdownes]

“You Look Like A Foreigner” that comment was off the cuff

[@ShadzVibez]

Why he keep his arm around her like he ain’t tryna let go tho 😂

[@songs4polarbear]

She changed her location to America....I wonder why lol

[@CF.]

It’s funny because she said she wanted to work abroad but “not in America.” Lol that’s cap 🧢

[@ambz5195]

In United Arab Emirates we have this thing called " The Islamic Mahr “ it’s like dowry but paid by the husband to the wife.. For us it’s like between 30000 to 40000$

[@cegb551]

Something about this geezer is off…

[@zzzap5425]

He's too giddy, he reminds me of Superman vs Batman movie Lex Luthor. That smile will turn into a murder charge in 15min if things don't go his way.😂

[@Omen-id6xg]

Hallelujah 🙌🏻!!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻. I was owing a loan of $49,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery, Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $11,000 and got my payout of $290,500 every month…God bless Mrs Susan Jane Christy ❤️

[@Jackn-d8s]

Hello how do you make such monthly?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down🤦🏼of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God🙏.

[@Williammercy-zt9ou]

She's a licensed broker here in the states🇺🇸 finance advisor.

[@Williammercy-zt9ou]

Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Susan Jane Christy

[@Jamesonjack-s8z]

After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸and also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.

[@Nah-ah]

It’s so bizarre that Americans don’t know how to take care of household duties. I do both the house and the yard! I do the yard too bc my man has to do FIFO - term we use here in Australia “fly in, fly out”. He manages megastructures in other parts of Australia.. but that’s besides the point - do most American women not do any chores? 🤔 Cooking/cleaning is as 2nd nature as wiping your a** and brushing your teeth! (Or it should be) I find this very bizarre!

[@valkyrievalhalla7458]

I promise you, she's doing that yard work because he ain't doing it the way she likes it 😂😂 Filipina women, hell most Asian women, like things done a certain way and if it ain't done that way, she will yell at you and make you sit in a corner until she calls you over to carry some heavy stuff lol

[@connyrad4204]

10k for a visa, 10k for lawyers to help it all happen. Passport bros is up

[@Doctor_Kroom]

That is not passport bro. Passport bros never come back to stay in America, they relocate and only visit family and friends.

[@jasonbeaver464]

I would have relocated to the Philippines. I would never bring any woman to the states she will be ideologically captured and as the great Eddie Murphy said "HALF!!"

[@tiquezgraham7963]

20k jesus christ is she the new model with built in vacuum and 100+ personality settings?

[@HITthegymwithjkhman]

14:37 that part!!!!!! BIG FACTS

[@AntonioRivera28]

Ngl he’s gonna have a far happier life than if he had married an American girl. And he’s not a bad looking guy so it’s not like he didn’t have options.

[@simisuperstar4794]

You capping to Knight! 😂

[@kariemallam3618]

It’s more common than people think. In so many parts of the world that would surprise you

[@jbk19xx57]

What I Wouldn’t do is, BRING HER BACK. Unless you give her kids

[@nene1651]

Stevie, "yall capping click-baiting ass!" just to turn around and do the same. 😂😂I agree with you about bringing her to America, but he thought, 'If I bring her here, she won’t know anyone, so she’ll need me!' And can we talk about how he always wanted to touch her, yet she only acted lovingly when the cameras were rolling? 😅 Did anyone else get the vibe that she’s been to America before? Her accent didn’t seem that thick to me! 🤔 Anyway, do what you gotta do, folks, but let’s keep it smart out there! 😄

[@raymondbufford9088]

After watching your video…yeah she is kinna liberated And please watch the body language..red flag! I came here in the US not because of my husband but I secured my own visa and my now husband was shocked. He asked me to get fiancé visa but since I had businesses back in the Philippines, I was able to secure my visa with flying colors. I don’t want people surround us to feel/think that I came here for green card or for my husband’s money like his ex which was from Japan. I always carry my dna being Filipino making sure that I know how to respect and carry myself and most specially being a wife. To bring her in the US is no question at all but to bring her here too early…come on!

[@kellybrown7671]

OF COURSE she was excited when she saw him! She was thinking, "AMERICA, AMERICA"!! 🤣Where she's from, white men are a sign of status. But, whatever works for them and to each his own.

[@marcomartinez8621]

Yall are knocking on this poor man but he did what we are all thinking 😂😂😂😂

[@CosmicBoom...]

For those that don't know, which seems to be many in these comments. English is the second language in the Philippines. So yes many Filipinas speak english.

[@hasanabdi7317]

That's true, but she has zero accent. She sounds like an American

[@raijin199]

That money could have been invested.

[@armada345]

Philippines does have a dowry. Bigay kaya is the name.

[@hendrixjoe555]

No respect for this man, if she already cooking and cleaning the house,the man should take care of the yard.😢

[@hasanabdi7317]

Id never bring my bride over here. That's inviting disaster. Her English is so good, zero Filipino accent, already westernized. But i hope things do actually work out for them.

[@TambonghoFonji]

Bro got click baited so he decided to clickbait the hell out of us

[@silvias550]

The man Is a real man...I hope his relationship works.All other passport bros are jealous

[@jp.thecameraman]

There's an old song that goes like this......"If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife"

[@AbbyBazil]

Why pay for a wife? It's more like paying for a life. And honestly, we all pay.

[@visual_rev6192]

Actually most Filipino women you can actually bring back to America but she won't like it and you will have to move her back to the Philippines because all the good ones they never like being in America and they always want to move back there are some bad apples but most of them are pretty good and you have nothing to worry about

[@andrewbruss2173]

I have spent a lot of time in PI… never met a girl that has her accent there… she has spent time abroad or a lot of time with foreigners. Definitely not your typical filipina.

[@k9loversonly.]

Yall fool me 😂 like they fool yu😂😂😂😂

[@hvdiv17]

That's cheap compared to a divorce from a western woman😂

[@jbk19xx57]

Look up “Bride Price”.

[@LoveAngelBaby]

💯 get yur shit together bro..the wolves will come lol

[@graywa1017]

So she already knew English

[@UncleMichaelable]

Everyone pays to have a wife bro.

[@Ghostie-lovergirl]

She’s not into him at all don’t waste your money on fake love. That’s not real. SMH

[@marcomartinez8621]

Bro 20 k seems like a deal if she's a old school wife and won't ever talk back. That's a huge deal 😂😂😂😂

[@UNDWARUM37]

Doesnt every man need to pay for a wife in any variations 😂☕️

[@Dunno-h8r]

Western women want more on an engagement ring so spending 20k for a holiday to find a wife makes sense to me, just don’t bring her back, that’s dumb

[@Aj-qb3pr]

That's what I don't like about the Philippines. The Philippines has some of the most beautiful dark skinned women, but due to being made fun of growing up, they beach their skin.

[@TibiSemper]

Something about the way he is overly leaning into her on the chair looks uncomfortable lol like dude just move the chair closer

[@carrissamcwilliam5757]

Small price to pay for a decent woman. You do realise Africans and some Asian cultures pay a dowry

[@nicolecoleman2592]

There is nothing new under the sun.

[@russman74]

Come on Knight you know if you calculate the money you spend on dates, gifts, trips and stuff for a woman you are dating you will easily spend 20k in the first year or 2. Men always pay in one form or another and the longer you are with them the more you spend.

[@BlaqPacker]

20k atint that bad, if you do the math, you can spend 20k in dating over a two or 3 year period and end up with no wife.....ijs.

[@ChristianKellett]

I hope it works out for him. If she did in fact come for a green card that is awful. In fact I think it should be a felony to do that. If someone from another country comes here for a green card and can be proven without reasonable doubt that should be a year in prison only fair

[@angelika_munkastrap4634]

Say what??!! A woman shouldn’t cost you a dime!! I’ve been with my man two years and I’ve gotten one card - 2 bunches of flowers (not all roses - way too pricey so mixed flowers) - and some hand soap in bottles - Palmolive at that. - I’ve told him he doesn’t ever need to get me anything as he’s already my greatest gift I never wish to be his burden or his source of any cost - I want his money to be his and mine to be mine and we share what we have and do together. I want to be his greatest source of peace,- happiness, support and love. What a woman should be for her man. When we’re married it will be the cheapest way possible and we’ll spend most of our time going on dates that cost next to zero money He joked once that he’d get me a $20 engagement ring - I said make it $2 from the $2 shop - plastic if it has to be - or even a cheezel It’s him i want to marry not his money or his car

[@obibuaku]

I guess if that works for you then so be it. As long as you are happy. Some women like to be gifted by their husbands and it is done without us asking. Little things like that make me smile I also buy him gifts and his face lightning up make me wanna go out and do it again 😂😂

[@angelika_munkastrap4634]

@@obibuakulook I like gifts too - but my man is not a natural gift giver - to anyone in his life - so the fact he chooses to with me - though cheap gifts / is very special to me - makes me feel wanted and very special to him I’ve bought him gifts too but he doesn’t want them - tells me to keep my money for me

[@Jodi_Johnson]

I'm married. I'm a sahm and homeschool our daughter. To be fair, me and our daughter cost him money. Power is higher, groceries, gas in the car, water bill, etc. However, I take care of him for taking care of us