American’s Shocks From Visiting Germany

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@hape3862
@hape3862 Жыл бұрын
Americans: You still use cash in Germany?!?! Germans: You still use checks in America?!?!?!
@madpuppet666
@madpuppet666 Жыл бұрын
Australians: Cash? Checks?
@robertmurray8763
@robertmurray8763 Жыл бұрын
In Australia, cheques are not excerpted by most businesses, and some don't accept cash. Post Script. In Australia 🇦🇺 as an English speaking country. We use English or French spelling and not American spelling. When spelling some of the words !!
@gregorygant4242
@gregorygant4242 Жыл бұрын
@@robertmurray8763 Well going totally cashless isn't avery smart way to go IMHO. By going full cashless or digital "they" , the govt. elites , can see everything you spend or consume and if they decide not to like your political, religious , enviromental views they can freeze your accounts and make you starve or dependent on them to just survive. Look what "they" did in Canada to those truckers . So still having cash is smart IMHO !
@bennybooboo6789
@bennybooboo6789 Жыл бұрын
@@robertmurray8763 what? cash is absolutely accepted here in australia.
@janerde6917
@janerde6917 Жыл бұрын
using cash in germany ist a generation thing...i would say, that "older" people using cash, and "younger" card, or smartphone. new EU (european union) law, limited cash paying to 7,000 euro maximum.
@JF-yk5mz
@JF-yk5mz Жыл бұрын
Fun fact: Cigarettes were actually made popular in Germany by...well, Americans. The GIs stationed in Germany tended to give their cigarettes to the locals, even kids, along with chocolate, candy, etc. The Marlboro cowboy and 1950's Hollywood movies contributed to this popularity of smoking tobacco too.
@DirtyHarry3
@DirtyHarry3 Жыл бұрын
Cigarettes were a thing in Germany way before ww2. The first cigarette factory in germany was founded in 1852 in Dresden and even the worlds first filter cigarette was invented and produced in Germany in 1934. So its not an American thing. Stop thinking you invented everything. Smoking was a thing in Germany since tabacco was brought to Europe in the 16th century. First it was smoked in pipes than in cigarres and in the 19th century cigarettes were invented and popular. And the thing with the marlboro man is a american thing but it was not the only cigarette brand in germany. The oldest cigarette brand that is still on the market in Germany today is Nil, its been selled since 1901. And until 2015 the cigarette brand called Eckstein was selled in Germany sinve 1854. So the story that american GIs made smoking popoular in Germany and brought the cigarette from America to Germany is just bullshit.
@DatsWhatHeSaid
@DatsWhatHeSaid Жыл бұрын
"Stop thinking you invented everything." ..Dude? You don't even know what nationality they (original comment) are. Stop reading into things ​@@DirtyHarry3 .. Edit: it's *sold, and OP _did not_ at any point say "the Americans BROUGHT the cigarette to Germany, which didn't know smoking before at all" -- that's the bullshit you interpreted out of thin air. They simply stated that GI's made smoking a lot more popular in the post-war time, which definitely is true. Super weird pissed-off flex comment you wrote there.
@DirtyHarry3
@DirtyHarry3 Жыл бұрын
@@DatsWhatHeSaid but it's a fact, that the first cigarette were invented and produced in Germany. And cigarettes were a huge thing way before WW2. It's just a fact. In the 1930s, Germany was the largest tobacco importer in the world, importing 100,000 tons per year (from Greece, Turkey and Bulgaria). 80% of all German men smoked (12.5 cigarettes per day) and twenty percent of all women (7.2 cigarettes per day).
@DatsWhatHeSaid
@DatsWhatHeSaid Жыл бұрын
@@DirtyHarry3 Sure, be a little bitch and don't acknowledge any of the bullshit/false accusations towards OP you hurled out before. It's also "just a fact" that American GI's made cigarettes _even more_ popular and even just _available_ in post-war Germany, when the whole country had god knows what else much higher up on their priority list, before producing cigarettes/cigars. Who, besides the UN/allied states, would even have been able to _import_ tobacco, after Germany lost the war? How delusional are you?
@69quato
@69quato Жыл бұрын
You had "Hamburg" right the first time - translation app actually pronounced it with an American accent 😂😂
@pikkozoikum8523
@pikkozoikum8523 Жыл бұрын
yes xD
@gehtsnoch7193
@gehtsnoch7193 Жыл бұрын
Hämburg
@hamburgersmmmmmm
@hamburgersmmmmmm 6 ай бұрын
Yeah, that kinda made me cringe a bit.
@LucaSitan
@LucaSitan Жыл бұрын
Just to put it into perspective: around 26% of Germans smoke and about 11% of Americans do. So it's not exactly "everyone" and "no one" but it can seem that way, especially since smoking is so shameful in the US, people probably only do it at home
@Anna-sn7zb
@Anna-sn7zb Жыл бұрын
I know a lot of Germans that only smoke sometimes for example on weekends when they are partying. I don't know if these people would count as somkers in the statistics. So maybe this could be one point that makes it seem like even more people some
@voyance4elle
@voyance4elle Жыл бұрын
I also don't know anyone who smokes cigarretes. That part really surprises me!
@joachimdorr6060
@joachimdorr6060 Жыл бұрын
@@Anna-sn7zb A smoker, is a smoker, is a smoker.... Some of us (like me for 35 years) no longer practice, but once you become addicted to nicotine, you remain a smoker for the rest of your life!
@Average_Bruh
@Average_Bruh Жыл бұрын
​@joachimdorr6060 you say you no long practice. Which means you once did? But then you said once you get addicted to nicotine, you remain a smoker for the rest of your life. People have been quitting smoking for so long. Any addiction can be broken.
@maddo7192
@maddo7192 Жыл бұрын
When we were little, my brother and I managed to hide toy caps from toy guns in one of my fathers cigaretts. He lit it while driving home from work. Gladly he survived and likes to tell this story to this day 😅 Smoking is disgusting!
@wildtrak6735
@wildtrak6735 Жыл бұрын
Our serious faces have a pretty simple reason: why smile if there is no reason to? I know it may sound weird, but i think you noticed it too: you can easily mind your own business simply because nobody is reacting to you (in the form of a smile). And this is actually relaxing. When i was in the US, i constantly felt somehow obligated to interact with people simply because of the "how are you?" -greetings. We germans do not expect a single word from others and neither do we say anything. We do smile a lot if we meet people we know, though. I hope i could explain it in a way that makes sense 🤣
@joaoalcideolenski4340
@joaoalcideolenski4340 6 ай бұрын
Boring
@pourquoi1-d2g
@pourquoi1-d2g 4 ай бұрын
@@joaoalcideolenski4340 You are boring.
@Born.Toulouse
@Born.Toulouse Жыл бұрын
Batman leading Catwoman on a leash in public transport is _not_ a common thing to see in most of Germany. 😀 Think you can do that in Berlin but good luck in rural areas in the east ...
@marcromain64
@marcromain64 Жыл бұрын
You're right, but I doubt the bandwidth of possible reactions in rural areas in the west and especially the south of Germany would be very different. Except Northern Germany. People would look, shrug their shoulders and continue with whatever they're doing. 😉
@alicemilne1444
@alicemilne1444 Жыл бұрын
I think it would raise eyebrows in Düsseldorf or Köln as well. Batman and Catwoman okay. But the leash? No way. Catwoman's no man's toy.
@marcromain64
@marcromain64 Жыл бұрын
@@alicemilne1444 It was Catwoman leading Batman on a leash, if I remember correctly.
@Born.Toulouse
@Born.Toulouse Жыл бұрын
@@marcromain64 🤣
@jennyh4025
@jennyh4025 Жыл бұрын
@@marcromain64that might be acceptable in Cologne.
@Ramsi-Berlin
@Ramsi-Berlin Жыл бұрын
In Berlin a lot of guys staring you, because you're cute ❣️😂🤣 They tried to contact you... and you thought, they had a problem ❕ It's so funny to hear, for me as Berliner 😜 Love from Berlin 🇩🇪 Ramsi 😘
@TheAxel65
@TheAxel65 Жыл бұрын
The Staring-habit: It's mostly out of curiosity, Germans are always interested in the people around them. We even have a tradition that has developed around this habit, the "Sonntagsspaziergang" (sunday walk) - many go for a walk downtown on Sundays, even though most of the stores are closed, to meet and see the other residents of the city. When I visited Paris as a kid with my parents, I remember my mother saying that the best thing about Paris was the sidewalk bistros on the Champs Elysees because she could sit there for hours and just watch the passersby - she felt like in heaven 😂
@Pluggit1953
@Pluggit1953 Жыл бұрын
“People Watching” from a street side cafe is normal in Europe.
@irgendeinname9256
@irgendeinname9256 Жыл бұрын
Idk when it comes to meet and actually do small talk with random strangers that's much more of an american thing. We are actually much more reserved, we just do the staring.
@DramaQueenMalena
@DramaQueenMalena Жыл бұрын
We teach our children to look at and for people: 1. Learn from others. Watch how they behave, look at different styles, different ways of life. You need many role models so you can choose who you want to be. 2. Watch out. Intervene when someone is in trouble. Let them feel they are safe. Don't look away. If you want to feel safe, let other people feel safe. 3. Enjoy the diversity. Do not judge. Look how beautiful people are. Learn to appreciate every one, even if you do not like the style. You live in a country where everyone has the freedom to be who they want to be. Don't be afraid of people who are not like you. Be interested and don't judge. Fight against judgment - so you will not be judged. 4. You live in a society with all these people. You belong together even if you do not know each other.
@alexis.d.santos
@alexis.d.santos Жыл бұрын
That was Beautifully put
@melanief.204
@melanief.204 Жыл бұрын
I‘m a German and when I lived in Sweden for a year, the people there just drove me nuts for not interacting with each other the way I‘m used to from Germany. To me, looking at someone is almost always a positive thing. It‘s so important to feel connected with each other 😊 Once a Swede told me that when someone stumbles and falls on the street, the Swedes wouldn‘t help the person because they wouldn‘t want him to feel like everybody has just seen that he fell. To me that‘s totally horrible. When someone falls, you gotta help him, no matter what!! 🤷🏻‍♀️
@stef987
@stef987 Жыл бұрын
@@melanief.204 I don't know, I think I can understand why they want to avoid others to feel embarassed. Actually if I see others doing something that they may feel embarassed about, I usually look another direction, too. But I agree that you should help if necessary. I personally think the "staring" thing (aka looking at others) is about not ignoring the people around you. I think of that as a cultural thing. It's not only about being a nice person that regards others, but for example also about not seeming aggressive or even potentially dangerous when you don't look others in the eyes. It seems to be kind of contrary for example to American social norms, where you apparently seem aggressive when you do look at others.
@pupernickel
@pupernickel Жыл бұрын
ich geh mal davon aus das du dich meinst und nicht ganz Deutschland.
@DramaQueenMalena
@DramaQueenMalena Жыл бұрын
@@pupernickel Alle, die in Deutschland einen pädagogischen Beruf ausüben, alle, die sich mit Erziehung auseinandersetzen. Das ist Standard. Das gilt als Norm, als richtig und sehr viele machen das. Natürlich gibt es andere.
@zdenek75a
@zdenek75a Жыл бұрын
About cash - using cash is in fact VERY good for having material control over spending. Electronic payment has been developed specifically for the opposite reason.
@deires77
@deires77 Жыл бұрын
Correcting the correct German pronunciation of Hamburg to the American/English one 😂 Glad you enjoyed Germany ☺️
@Salzbuckel
@Salzbuckel Жыл бұрын
Yes, ridiculous, wanted to say that also. Is that the way, Americans learn about foreign languages are spoken? First ignore the original, then americanize it?
@Mr4dspecs
@Mr4dspecs Жыл бұрын
Joel, you had it right the first time😆😂 !
@TierchenF95
@TierchenF95 Жыл бұрын
1 of 4 was a quiet good guess
@lordhuebi
@lordhuebi Жыл бұрын
What's the big deal? Most languages have their own names and/or pronounciations for cities. For example, "Lisboa" is "Lisbon" in English and "Lissabon" in German. Nothing wrong with saying "Hamburg" the american way while he is talking american english to us.
@alexis.d.santos
@alexis.d.santos Жыл бұрын
Because he is talking in English, and when you are talking in English you pronounce things like they would be pronounced in English, even if it's a foreign city's name. When you talk to somebody in German, would you say Paris or Pari', Lisbon, Lisboa or Lisabon, München or Munic? You'd prolly choose the former, because the native pronunciation may not be understood by others since it's not pronounced that way in that language. People would think you are some extravagant stuck-up dude trying to prove that they're better than others if you would try to pronounce cities the way they are pronounced in their native country.
@martina6687
@martina6687 Жыл бұрын
All Americans complain about the staring. When I visited the US for the first time, I felt people were ignoring me because you never encountered a look that would let you know they realized you were there too. That felt kind of strange to me ... standoffish kinda, unwelcoming ... But then out of the blue they would help you without looking into your eyes which proofed - they did realize you were there and had concern for your situation also ... so that is the other side of it I guess 🙂 Love, that you liked it in Germany though I am not german but austrian.
@jans9439
@jans9439 Жыл бұрын
Nice first impressions. And I'm happy, that you enjoyed your time over here. Looking forward to see more of you! :)
@blaumupi
@blaumupi Жыл бұрын
Hello! I find your observations on smoking in Germany very interesting! I have noticed in my environment that smoking has decreased significantly (!). In the office, for example, we are about 80 people and only about 10 of them smoke. If you had visited Germany 10- 15 years earlier, you would probably have left right away! 😜
@itiswhatitis141
@itiswhatitis141 Жыл бұрын
There was a time where people smoked in the office and a non smoker had to tolerate it
@Herzschreiber
@Herzschreiber Жыл бұрын
@@itiswhatitis141 yes, and smoking was allowed in mostly all public places, restaurants, pubs, bars etc.! There were even some rare movie theatres where it was allowed.
@stef987
@stef987 Жыл бұрын
When I was a child the adults smoked around us. My grandparent's living room was always "foggy" back then.
@michaelmedlinger6399
@michaelmedlinger6399 Жыл бұрын
It has decreased a lot, but is still higher than other countries. Brits and Americans especially almost always comment on it. Wait until you go to France!!
@MattyEngland
@MattyEngland Жыл бұрын
It was the same here in England.
@ZerosWolf
@ZerosWolf Жыл бұрын
We Germans are so used to staring, we don't even realize that we stare or that others stare at us. We're just used to looking at each other.
@stef987
@stef987 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, "looking at each other". When I heard for the first time Germans would "stare", I really didn't know what that was supposed to be about. Who stares and when? Are there really people who are so rude to apparently stare at people from other countries/Americans? Then I understood that they just meant our way of looking at each other, because it might seem rude or even aggressive in our culture if we didn't.
@ThomasKnip
@ThomasKnip Жыл бұрын
You did watch several videos stating "cash is king" in Germany. So you have been warned. ^^ But just yesterday I wanted to pay by card at an Indian fast food in Berlin. Their machine didn't work, I had no cash, meal already was in the making.I looked for a solution. The cashier then said "Relax, sit down, enjoy your meal. And come back with the cash later". Blew my mind after living 15 years in Berlin. 😄
@mehAudio
@mehAudio Жыл бұрын
Re: staring… if you replace it with ‚looking‘, it’s so much less of a problem. It doesn’t have anything to do with you or your looks. I personally couldn’t pick you out of a group of Germans your age. TBH, I get really frustrated when people only look at their phones and don’t dare looking each other in the eye anymore. No smiles for strangers, that’s the sad truth. Outside of cities, in a 2000 souls village, you say hello to every person you pass. Wether you know them or not.
@Struwwi
@Struwwi Жыл бұрын
Watching you react to all those videos about Germany and slowly falling in love with that little country in the middle of Europe just warms my heart so much. More people like you are needed in the world, because you are open to experience and engage in different cultures and are willing to share yours with us as we are willing to share ours with yours. Sure we have some things, that americans see as weird or bafflingly inefficient (like that cash stuff), but those are just some fun little quirks of our country that are slowly (german bureaucracy level slow) being replaced by more modern paying methods. But we use cash to easily teach children how to handle money. It's just easier to keep an eye on your finances and learn how to spend your money as a kid if you have it in cash, but I agree with you. Ideally as an Adult you should already be able to manage your money and be able to pay with a card everywhere. But we Germans think in a kind of "never change a running system" way about a lot of things here. We in Germany are sometimes very desperate to show how awesome this country is, but because of the history we can't really show how proud we are. So whenever someone like you comes along we bombard you with information, because we've been waiting to infodump our Lore onto someone who shows even the slightest bit of interest in our country :DD I bet you would like Austria as well.
@tanithrosenbaum
@tanithrosenbaum Жыл бұрын
Okay I have a question back to you as a German: You said someone dressed up as Batman or Catwoman would have gotten physically assaulted on the subway back home in the US. My question is: Why? What in American culture makes people assault (or think it's okay to assault) other people for dressing up as something or someone?
@tanithrosenbaum
@tanithrosenbaum Жыл бұрын
@username._.MRmorejps I admit I need a translation of that emoji string. I have no idea what you're saying. 😅
@zeikerd
@zeikerd 7 ай бұрын
because they're insane over there
@MissRed92837
@MissRed92837 6 ай бұрын
I’m a Swiss, currently living in the US. Americans have the mentality to be open for violence. That’s why they all have guns, some waiting for a situation they can shoot someone legally. Look what they did on January 6th. Also many Americans discipline their kids with spanking and even beating up their children. This is legal in the US and many Americans even say, only if you discipline your children with spanking them or beating them up, they will become successful and good people.
@panther7748
@panther7748 Жыл бұрын
Regarding the "two german characters": I think that's the difference between our "private mode" and "public mode". I never really thought about it this way, but it seems to be true. In general, we open up to people we are familiar with (basically the ones we call "du"), but in public, we raise this sort of professional/serious barrier around us. Sort of "don't interfere with my day and I will do the same". Most Americans seem to be friendly all the time, so our "public mode" might seem rude or cold to them, but this friendlyness too is more or less a barrier, just a different one. That's probably why Germans often say that Americans are superficial or their friendlyness is fake/dishonest.
@pippinmanc
@pippinmanc Жыл бұрын
I was over in Hamburg visiting from the UK earlier this year. And for the first time in many years I didn't take a single Euro with me, I paid for everything electronically; Food, cafes, restaurants, public transport and general shopping, nobody ever asked for cash. Maybe in your case Joel, the fact that you gave them the opportunity of payment in cash encouraged them to say 'yes please' , because it would save them card charges. 🙂
@DialecticDave
@DialecticDave Жыл бұрын
Same experience here, used my card for pretty much everything, seems very odd...
@stef987
@stef987 Жыл бұрын
Well, if you ask them if you can pay in cash, they will probably say yes. If you ask them if you SHOULD pay in cash, they will probably say that you CAN. The same probably goes for card payment. I can't imagine most restaurant staff or vendors would encourage anyone to use a certain payment method instead of another one, especially the one that person would actually prefer. Card payment has been a very common thing in my area for years now. I am not sure if you can pay by card everywhere here, but I wouldn't be surprised if some people don't have any cash on them anymore, or just some coins just in case.
@somersault4762
@somersault4762 Жыл бұрын
At most places you can pay either way. Besides family managed restaurants in rural areas or bakeries. But even for bakeries it has changed since the Corona pandamic.
@garryellis3085
@garryellis3085 Жыл бұрын
Your very mature for your age Bro. So refreshing to hear a sensible US citizen.Well done.
@Groffili
@Groffili Жыл бұрын
The thing that always gets me with the "smoking" observation is the lack of historical awareness. Yes, it's true that in todays Germany a larger percentage of the populations smokes than in the USA. But that is a rather recent development. Not recent enough for the younglings not old enough to legally buy alcohol in the USA to notice, but very noticable for us older folks. When I was a child, and long into my teenage years, smoking was still "normal". It was culturally accepted and promoted. A lot of entertainment in Germany came from the USA - shows, movies, music - and you couldn't watch for five minutes without seeing someone light a cigarette. And that was already at a time when smoking was on a downward trend. Go back further a few decades, and smoking was the epitome of being hip, cool and mature... and a lot of that image came from the USA. Anyone still remember James Dean? Anyone thinks of him without a cigarette hanging nonchalantly between his lips? No, it is that the U.S. governement put a lot of effort into reducing smoking... much more so than Germany or other countries, which took a more liberal approach to that topic. And by now, the public perception of people has changed, to the point where the people of "Marlborough Country" find it weird to see people smoking. I ran across an example in the opposite direction of that shifting perception just recently in another "German culture shocks" video, regarding car washing. In that vid, it was noted with surprise that washing your car privately at home was forbidden in Germany. Again, an older person like me remembers the time when that was perfectly normal, even considered a national pasttime. But at some point, ecological concerns were raised, about the impact on the ground water and water treatment facilities. So strict restrictions were put in place, and over time, it just became "normal". So normal that (young) Germans today wonder why other countries find it peculiar. Culture changes. Culture gets changed. Never assume that your current views are "the norm"... for all countries, or for all times.
@fionagray9319
@fionagray9319 Жыл бұрын
I think the worrying thing nowadays (& I can only talk about life in Berlin here) is the number of young people (teens) vaping. It's prolific at my kids school, and I think in a few years there will be an understanding that the chemicals in vapes are just as bad for your health. But for the moment nobody blinks an eye about this
@robertroberto7659
@robertroberto7659 Жыл бұрын
Yeah going back some centuries to see how things developed can be interesting pretty often. Go back a century and you learn that back in those times smoking was something men did. It was considered to be a real man to smoke. Then tobacco industry thought about how to double their customers and launched big campaigns about smoking women. Telling them that it was emancipation to start smoking. They even called cigarettes "Torches of Freedom". It's a great example how society is heavily influenced by government and companies but people quickly forget about that and just think it's the norm or how society "naturally" developed.
@MrTuxracer
@MrTuxracer Жыл бұрын
More liberal, you should better say more influenced by tobacco companies.
@Groffili
@Groffili Жыл бұрын
@@MrTuxracer More indirect than direct. "Big Tobacco" doesn't have the influence in Germany as, say, the car industry has... but still, there are a few billion Euros gained from taxes each year... that certainly has some impact.
@MrTuxracer
@MrTuxracer Жыл бұрын
@@Groffili There was a big influence.
@cadeeja.
@cadeeja. Жыл бұрын
I would looking at someone for 2 to 3 seconds hardly call "staring".
@paulybarr
@paulybarr Жыл бұрын
Joel's point is that in America it is regarded as staring, which can be provocative to say the least, and that is the culture he lives in.
@scokeatia
@scokeatia Жыл бұрын
Joel, absolutely loved this video, I think you gave a very honest and informative account about what you experienced while you were there. I have always wanted to visit Germany and now you have made it seem even more appealing. Although at the beginning, I could tell by the way you were excusing yourself, that you have definitely been affected by certain things that you have experienced over the last few days. As I said then, you have no need to explain or apologise. Keep doing what you're doing Joel. Lyd xx
@mfhex1398
@mfhex1398 Жыл бұрын
Cash is nice and having the freedom to conduct transactions privately is one of the last real liberties humans can call their own. I enjoy knowing that my business and transactions are not totally subjected to governmental or any other oversight. Abandoning cash only helps centralized institutions and the banking system, and those already have more than enough control over all peoples lives as it is.
@BarrySuridge
@BarrySuridge Жыл бұрын
Hmmm ... The 'staring' bit; you're very tall and you're pointing a camera in every direction and seemingly talking to yourself when making these vlogs; that will get people curious. 😉 You need not fear.
@knitsforthesoulpodcast4186
@knitsforthesoulpodcast4186 Жыл бұрын
I just spent a couple of days in Berlin and never needed cash. I payed everything with my card. Cafes/reatsirants, shops, museums, public transport.... I rarely have cash with me at home either and i live in a small german town. It was probably a conincidence where you went to...
@danielkarlsson258
@danielkarlsson258 Жыл бұрын
This was a great video of your reactions to Germany! I also think you're highlighting some really accurate thing we do in Europe that you don't. Loved to see your trip in Germany! Keep up the good work! 👍
@memento81
@memento81 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting to hear your insights and perspective. And while listening I think I made a connection for the first time about the staring. I think Americans might react to it so strongly because of the tighter norm control among each others that you spoke about with the Batman couple. In the US when someone stares at you it might really mean that they are finding something wrong and objectionable about you, because the default mindset is to avoid sticking out and presenting vulnerable points for mockery or attacks. So longer looks will be perceived as being called out. In Germany it is more of a "you do you" attitude that allows observation a lot more, because we know it will only very rarely go beyond that and because the observation is less loaded with judgement. Attracting some looks might actually signal that people find you interesting, so we perceive this attention in a more positive light.
@TomRuthemann
@TomRuthemann Жыл бұрын
There is a huge difference between 'staring' and 'looking at people'. Germans look at you, that's all. For whatever reason. It's not staring, not offensive.
@Marcus_Oelschlegel
@Marcus_Oelschlegel Жыл бұрын
Sorry, but you do NOT need cigarettes for sozializing or getting jobs here in Germany!
@hartpuckern
@hartpuckern Жыл бұрын
It is not a german stare but a european. I saw at least one video making fun about the so called "german stare" and many from all over europe answered saying that is a american problem only since it is in their country the same as it is in Germany. Looking at people. Maybe someone you know. Greeting them.If you visit smaller towns you must endure greetings all the time. When I go on a walk. Each one will say hello, good morning, moin (depends) who passes by. If not you have the thought you describe about the stare. "Is something wrong?". So kindness and open to others shouldn't count as negative. You will see it in many european countries. Maybe switching the word from "stare" to "look" will help a lot. For the cash. I am not into nightlife anymore but maybe it is still like it was in the past. Paying the drink instantly cash. But well I live at the countryside and even at the farmer market I can pay with my card. Yes with phone is slowly. That has much to do with our history. Think about it. Didn't you "stare" as well. Or how did you notice the smoking (btw in my bubble/workplace no one smokes as well) or how serious faces are even in parks? You describe yourself observing and staring to figure that out. This staring often happens unknowing. And well how violent is a society who thinks looking at someone is bad enough to go into a fight? Instead of just saying hello or ignoring it.
@elzbieta_k
@elzbieta_k Жыл бұрын
In Germany, you pay €49 (about $55) a month for public transport and can go ANYwhere you want.
@MrSinclairn
@MrSinclairn Жыл бұрын
Great summary vid,Joel,and great to see you back,refreshed and revitalised ! 👌👍
@AchilleanTCP
@AchilleanTCP Жыл бұрын
it's so cool to seeing this evolution of you starting to dip your toes in learning about germany to getting invested in it to actually travelling there and now making one of those types of videos you had been watching about your experience there. keep it up
@sadtattz
@sadtattz Жыл бұрын
a lot of businesses don’t accept (credit)cards, because they get charged „a lot“ by the service behind it, especially if the amount you need to pay is small, like 10€ or less, the business owner need to give away like 1-2% for the service
@tic-tacdrin-drinn1505
@tic-tacdrin-drinn1505 Жыл бұрын
...and all credit card companies that charge fees are from the US
@maluell738
@maluell738 Жыл бұрын
Hi and glad your back to Vlogging. That was a nice summary of your stay in Germany. ❤ Though short,you were a keen observer of how we live in this part of the globe. May it be the first of your many trips to Germany and Europe.😊😊 🎉 Perhaps you would want to pursue your studies later here in Europe to know more of the Europeans. You are welcome!
@ScissorsAndSmiles
@ScissorsAndSmiles Жыл бұрын
German expat here. Re. what you called the German "seriousness". I think it's less seriousness and more "lack of lightness". Germans are definitely not good at small talk. We are direct in our conversations, we go straight to the point, we don't mess around with polite little anecdotes. I think that often makes us look serious (and possibly forceful or domineering - which is not really intended). This lack of lightness also manifests itself in a certain "purposefulness" - as in: a conversation is for bringing a point across, not for display of rhetorical brilliance. (I am overstating things a bit ;-)) Or we are purposeful in our actions, as in: when we walk somewhere, the goal is the destination - and not the journey (hence the grim faces of people walking?). Anyway, this is a sweeping statement, which of course is never quite accurate. But it may explain some of your impressions. BTW - totally with you on the whole "cash only is crazy" conundrum. Germany is quite hung up on data privacy, hence the resistance to cashless payment. And don't get me started on the lack of public wi-fi in Germany. I call it "wi-fi desert Germany". But very glad you seem to have had such a good time in my "fazerland". Also commending you on exploring not only big city Berlin and tourist-favourite Bavaria, but also Northern Germany (Hamburg).
@ane-louisestampe7939
@ane-louisestampe7939 Жыл бұрын
I think the Germans are very serious about being nice and friendly! I appreciate that! 🥰 My translation of a Danish poet: He who takes seriousness only seriously, and humour only humoristic, he has understood both things equally badly.
@TheBigMe0w
@TheBigMe0w 6 ай бұрын
Really been enjoying your content and journey. Particularly your perspective and how it may have changed. Experiencing differences, may it be good or bad or just different, is how you grow. Thank you for taking the time to share those with us! Hate all the overly critical, rude comments you get that don't allow for much discourse.
@michaelk.9408
@michaelk.9408 Жыл бұрын
Very differentiated and interesting views of our country! Hope to welcome you back soon! 😊
@robertgieseler1220
@robertgieseler1220 Жыл бұрын
Josh, your reflecions have been as good as always. Great you've been over here on "the old continent" -- and it will be great to have you come back one day.
@schiffelers3944
@schiffelers3944 Жыл бұрын
There are a couple of reasons that could be why there is this cash only aspect in Germany, especially in a restaurant or bar. 2. Privacy and anonymity 3. It's a luxury 1. It is easier to not report all the money made
@BananenbaumEY
@BananenbaumEY Жыл бұрын
Your idea of corruption is very wrong. Personal Information/Data is very big in germany (for historical reasons) - so cash will always be part of our society, no matter how far every other aspect trends towards the modern technology. Plus is just safer compared to electronic money in regards to debit fraud and stuff.
@schiffelers3944
@schiffelers3944 Жыл бұрын
@@BananenbaumEY One can not pay me without leaving a direct digital trace in the digital medium. In cash I can get paid, and not put it in the booking. Fraude. That is also the whole angle for the digital payments only angle mostly - maga francize stores. I personally don't agree with no cash push, but cash is getting used less and less, at least in other countries like mine. There are multiple down sides to not paying cash, or even worse contact free. But the push for this becoming the way, the only way, is very big. Most people now days pay with their phone or smart-watch.
@robertmurray8763
@robertmurray8763 Жыл бұрын
Ive been to Germany and liked what I saw. I didn't over analyse people to much ,but I felt really safe. Living in Australia Maximum price for public price is about US$7 all day travel anywhere in our state(size 88,000 square miles 227,500 square Kilometres) of train, light rail, or bus. I live in a small town population, 9,000 we travel to Melbourne 240km regularly because it's cheap. Australia cards (credit or debit) are king. Some banks have stopped cash, and it's rare for a business not to have a terminal. You can go to a restaurant, or supermarkets, and have no or little human contact, and I'm old, but this is how it's all changed .
@MYoung-mq2by
@MYoung-mq2by Жыл бұрын
Hi Joel, thanks for your reflections on your time in Germany. To give some perspective, I’m Dutch living in neighbouring Netherlands. I’ve been following you for a while, curious about your perspectives as a young guy looking outside the States borders. I have listed a few of my observations further on in this message. I have experience with both our neighbours, Germany and the UK. The Dutch aren’t dissimilar but there are definitely differences. What I’m saying is that all countries in Europe are in some ways similar but also very different. A visit to the Netherlands would give you a totally different experience from the one in Germany, which in turn will be totally different to the UK. An added bonus in NL is that the Dutch are known to speak English very well. The country is also known to be very liberal and laid-back, in a good way. It’s a tiny country with a LOT going on. A shame, in my opinion, that you were unable to squeeze in a day or two during your trip. It’s practically “in the middle”. Maybe next time. In NL most payment transactions are made electronically. I have some cash which I keep for “in case” but haven’t needed to use in months. Even the farmers’ markets use electronic payment. As far as the smoking goes, I have the impression that the Brits are also extremely fond of their cigs. The Dutch a lot less so. Many people only smoke in a social setting and it’s generally a lot less prevalent than it seems to be in Germany or the UK. Maybe the cycling/active lifestyle contributes to that. Being able to drink at an earlier age…. oof, Joel. It honestly pained me to see you walking the streets with a beer in hand. People drink a lot of beer, sure, but sitting down or within a social environment. Not walking the street. Please, please, don’t do that again. It’s very common and telling of either being foreign, of age, or of a super conservative background (and finally being allowed to go out and do things you would otherwise not be allowed to do)! The Germans being so serious-looking. Well, it would be strange to walk around with a smile almost constantly for no reason. Whether to be serious or easy-going depends on the situation and topic. The most important thing here, I think, is that the people are real. That applies to almost all Europeans 😉. Say what you mean and mean what you say. No one will judge you for that. Being honest will generally not get you into trouble because speaking your truth is exactly that. It’s your truth. Very few Europeans will take personal offense and are usually open for a discussion if needed. The weird and wonderful things you saw during your commutes are all able to exist because people respect the privacy and individuality of others. Whatever makes you happy, as long as you don’t harm others. I really hope you would consider visiting the Netherlands one day. It may be tiny but there's so much going on. Keep in mind to not restrict yourself to (the backstreets of) Amsterdam ;-). There is soooo much more to experience.
@MrsLynB
@MrsLynB Жыл бұрын
Hi just a quick one. Only 13% of people smoke in the UK. I’m an ex smoker. I’m 54. Back in the day we didn’t know how harmful it was. Today I’d say most of that 13% are younger people which astounds me! We all know the health implications so I don’t understand young people taking smoking up 🤦‍♀️ also baffles me how they afford to smoke as here now in the UK cigarettes are expensive! £12 to£17 per pack !!! I mean who can afford a 20 a day habit.
@stefansmith
@stefansmith Жыл бұрын
This may be a cultural difference between NL and DE... it's absolutely socially acceptable and no big deal at all to drink a beer in Germany walking down the street. We even have a specific word for it "Wegbier", literally the beer you drink whenon your way to somewhere. No one will assume you're a tourist, from a conservativd background, or anything. First off, no one will notice, and secondly if they did, they'd just think you're on your way home after work, or on your way to the park to meet friends, or just want to enjoy a beverage outside. Tbh, the vast majority of people will consider it no different to drinking a bottle of soda or whatever - we really don't have a strong social sense of "alcoholic" vs "non-alcoholic" drinks in DE, especially with regards to beer. Would people look at you strangely if you wandered about drinking wine or a Trappistenbier from the bottle? Sure, they'd probably be shocked that you're not enjoying your beverage sitting down at a table in a proper glass. But a bottle of simple Pils, Lager, or Helles? No problem.
@MYoung-mq2by
@MYoung-mq2by Жыл бұрын
@@MrsLynB Absolutely! I must admit that my observations are based mainly on seeing the younger people outside on the street. The booze culture is another thing I really don't get.
@MYoung-mq2by
@MYoung-mq2by Жыл бұрын
@@stefansmith That would then be a cultural difference. I can't really remember when last I saw that in NL. Drinking on the streets? No. Unless it's late at night outside some social or party venue. A lot of the Germany videos featured a bottle of beer. Definitely something I couldn't help noticing. Water doesn't count of course.
@mjwilliamsb2676
@mjwilliamsb2676 Жыл бұрын
​@@MYoung-mq2byGreat response above, I'm (shamefully) a Brit and I found it interesting, thanks. You're right. the drinking as you walk along is probably a cultural difference - when in Rome, do as the Romans do, as they say... Here, when I was young, it was not acceptable to smoke or eat walking along the street or even lean on a wall to eat your sandwich, or on a train or tube or bus - this has completely changed now of course in respect of food, but smoking in public seems now to be largely confined to vaping instead.
@1983simi
@1983simi Жыл бұрын
About the cigarettes, it's really a bit a matter of chance which circle of people you end up in. I never started smoking and all of my closer friend group of people I grew up with are non-smokers. Over the years I gained just two friends who are smokers - and I'll stand outside with them in solidarity while they are having their smoke. I'm not a militant non-smoker by any means. I just never started and thus naturally ended up hanging around more people who do not regularly have to get up to go outside and smoke. Just like many smokers by the very fact that they regularly are standing outside some establishment together smoking end up having more friends who are also smokers. What you're friend said about it being necessary for networking is also just his skewed perception. He networks with fellow-smokers, but he doesn't get to network with the majority of Germans who happen to be non-smokers via smoking. So if you run into one smoker and hang out with them, chances are within a short time you'll be hanging out with a whole bunch of smokers and it might appear to you that EVERYONE is smoking. If you were hanging around most people of my friend group you'd just as well get the opposite impression. I think factually just about a quarter of Germans smoke, but it's not as socially frowned upon as in the US, so you just see more smokers out and about. It's also not even been 20 years I think that smoking has at least been banned from clubs and restaurants. All my childhood it was normal for every single restaurant to have an ash tray on the table, and every evening at the club you'd come home reeking of smoke even as a non-smoker.
@uwewilcke7789
@uwewilcke7789 Жыл бұрын
Glad you made it well back home and enjoyed the trip to Germany. It´s always awsome to hear foreigners talking about my home country. There are so many views on the same thing depending from where you come from. I hope your attitude and clear statements (about culture shocks) motivates other people to travel abroad to expand their mind and interest for different ways of life and culture. I myself lived in Iowa for one year when I was 18 and hell, it was one of the best experiences in my life! Keep on going!
@enrico8692
@enrico8692 Жыл бұрын
Paying in cash does allow restaurants to not record all and so prevent to pay taxes over all income. If you do by card payments can be verified…
@Showboat69
@Showboat69 Жыл бұрын
Every time you use card or epay the bank takes a cut, you pay cash it goes all to the retailer
@cdhagen
@cdhagen Жыл бұрын
Handling cash also costs the retailer money. Do you think the safeguarded cash truck (Geldtransporter) comes for free?
@simonekliemann5165
@simonekliemann5165 Жыл бұрын
Zu den öffentlichen Verkehrsmitteln: das mag in Städten so sein. Wenn man wie ich auf dem Land lebt, ist es schwer in einen nur 6 Kilometer entfernt Ort zu kommen. In den Ferien werden ganze Buslinien stillgelegt, weil sie überwiegend für Schüler eingesetzt werden.
@moboe7719
@moboe7719 Жыл бұрын
Das stimmt. Als Erwachsener auf dem Land hat man 1-3 Autos und allerhand andere Fahrzeuge, als Jugendlicher aber ein gewaltiges Problem. Mit 15 gibt's den Mofa-Führerschein...
@siriuspyramid7441
@siriuspyramid7441 Жыл бұрын
I glad you enjoyed your European trip in Germany 🇩🇪 and UK 🇬🇧 . I’m french and you are welcome (but don’t go to Paris it’s sucks exept for some museums).I can’t explain you France 🇫🇷 is so different in different was you can see beaches and be in the snow in a mountain 😊 in our country 😄
@ErikDeKoster-f2w
@ErikDeKoster-f2w 2 ай бұрын
Paris museums are exceptional. Besides of course the Louvre which is awesome, there is the Musée d’Orsay where I love the secxtion of the impressionists. And one must see the basement in the musée marmotan: Monet’s giant paintings of his garden and the lilies in his garden are exceptional.
@Silberling86
@Silberling86 Жыл бұрын
Loved your whole series how you learned about Germany and then went to Germany. Loved to see the culture clash and you dealing with it. I would hope to see you in Germany next time you’re here and show you the more quiet regions, not only big cities so you get a different idea of German life. Love to see more of your videos, you’re always welcome in Europe :-)
@Rob-yj9ew
@Rob-yj9ew Жыл бұрын
what you call "staring" is what we call having interest in people. here it is polite to seek eyecontact and people that to not meet your eyecontact have something to hide or are very insecure.
@Iamjames1985
@Iamjames1985 Жыл бұрын
Looking forward to the UK Brum video it is going to be interesting, you made our UK news.
@sethlievense8371
@sethlievense8371 Жыл бұрын
It could be that you had a credit card instead of a debit card linked up to the European IBAN/BIC system. We decline or surcharge the 2÷ of costs they charge the merchant on to the customer. Then stil, accepting credit requires a more expensive contract most of the time. Since very few use credit, most merchants just don't bother.
@lachlanmain6004
@lachlanmain6004 Жыл бұрын
A lovely post, really helped to flesh out the vlog posts and add that extra layer of experiences. I know what yu mean about the German reserve, though it's something we british are aften accused of as well. It's like a sense of "proper-ness" in the way you react and treat people. loking forwar to future posts!
@dave2052
@dave2052 Жыл бұрын
I‘m glad you enjoyed your trip and I‘m happy for your resume! To be very honest, some comments in your last videos weren‘t super appropriate, but I‘m happy the quality of your videos is still there, which can be seen in this video again. I agree that this smoking thing is bad, but so is beer! 😱 It‘s just more accepted for weird reasons. Interesting what you said about staring, but I can imagine that it might be a psychological phenomenon (self-fulfilling prophecy). I never experienced a difference between both countries in this regard. Thanks for your experiences and I hope you will continue travelling to Europe to share more of your experiences!
@JJ_6575
@JJ_6575 Жыл бұрын
There is another reason why a lot of germans (I'm also german) like to pay in cash. The physical use of money helps them keep track of their spendings so they don't overspend. However I rarely had problems paying by card, even before the pandemic. Nowadays I almost always pay by card. What I noticed though is that some places don't accept credit cards due to the nature of the system these cards work with. However an Electronic Cash Card (also known as EC or Girocard) are widely accepted since these draw the money directly from the card owners bank account.
@siriussolaris1499
@siriussolaris1499 Жыл бұрын
about being serious.... why the hell should i walk around all day smiling and grinning like a psychopath?
@MrSeedi76
@MrSeedi76 Жыл бұрын
True. How I hated the comment, "why are you looking so serious" when I was younger. "I'm not looking serious, that's just my face."
@stormdivision617
@stormdivision617 4 ай бұрын
@@MrSeedi76 So relatable. My reseting face is just naturally like a frown. Back in school I actually got into trouble with the janitor there cause he thought I was really pissed at him, when that was just my normal face lol.
@alansmithee8831
@alansmithee8831 Жыл бұрын
Hello Joel. I went to Germany a couple of years younger than you, so it was very familiar to watch your experiences. The main thing is you both learned from it and as I kept saying in comments, you enjoyed it. I later toured US, a couple of years older than you. Do not forget how big your country is, which gives rise to some of the differences.
@Darrkuable
@Darrkuable Жыл бұрын
On the Cash Issue: We germans like hard money over bits and bytes on a card. Guess you could say, that we are old-fashioned (which isn't untrue, considering our desperate need for more digitalization). But in generell nearly everyone has a debit card. If we use cards it'll almost always be a debit card and not a credit card (those have a bad image around here, rightfully so!) EDIT: Oh, and we also have the phone stuff for paying, although not many people are using it.
@mancuniangamecat8288
@mancuniangamecat8288 Жыл бұрын
I always carry somw cash when I am out, you don't want to be stranded and unable to use a card or electronic payments.
@Darrkuable
@Darrkuable Жыл бұрын
@@mancuniangamecat8288 Yeah, thats true. better safe than sorry
@kbittorf335
@kbittorf335 Жыл бұрын
It’s generational here in the US I believe. I am of the generation to pay up front and always keep a little cash on hand. When the web crashed in Canada last year plastic cards did not work for 24 hours. Something to think about about, especially while traveling.
@jennyh4025
@jennyh4025 Жыл бұрын
And some prefer cash for data protection. 😉
@moma515
@moma515 Жыл бұрын
It was the other way around when I visited the US : people avoided eye contact. I wondered if something is wrong with me and felt very uncomfortable.
@johnfrancismaglinchey4192
@johnfrancismaglinchey4192 Жыл бұрын
It’s people watching,,,,without the guilt,,,,, it’s usually because they like something about you .
@morbvsclz
@morbvsclz Жыл бұрын
Especially in restaurants Cash has some great advantages... No records for example and no records = no taxes. But in general I pay everything by card here and there is now hardly any place where you can't imho. Maybe it's different in some areas, but since the pandemic even my local bakeries and butcher shops offer electronic payments and they never used to before. The only place I know I regularly have to pay cash still are stalls at local markets and things like food trucks. So non-fixed, moveable locations basically. I usually carry 100€ around just in case, but that lasts ~3 months between trips to the ATM, whereas my credit card payments are like 1.5k per month.
@emiliajojo5703
@emiliajojo5703 Жыл бұрын
Yup.we stare.sue us!😂
@anita_R
@anita_R Жыл бұрын
Bars and small places have to pay for using the banks card machines. And if it's cash the staff get the tips the same night
@Zomerset
@Zomerset Жыл бұрын
I had never heard of the staring thing, until the vlog. Glad to know it is normal, because when I do go to Germany for the first time, I won’t be as paranoid.
@vast634
@vast634 Жыл бұрын
Smaller city shops and restaurants often only accept cash. Thats related to taxes, or a convenient way to cook the books to pay less of them by underreporting. Supermarkets and larger chains always accept cards however. Also, its the fault of banks by having a certain per-transaction fee, that makes small payments via card unattractive to the traders.
@dan438
@dan438 Жыл бұрын
It is good that you describe the punctuality of the public transport. It is a big topic in Germany and many people view it as not punctual, when that is rarely the case.
@plsdi111
@plsdi111 5 ай бұрын
I answer you the cash question: tax 😀 when you pay with cash, it does not go through the card terminal. If they see that you’re a tourist, there’s no chance that you’re an inspector, they don’t give you a formal bill, so they don’t have to pay taxes from the price you payed. In Hungary where I live, the government made a law, that you need to be able to pay with card in every restaurant, but sometimes the termilas is just “not working” 😅
@rqn1998
@rqn1998 Жыл бұрын
Im half german on dads side and although they are so expensive here in oz i dont want to throw them in. Been smoking for 27+ years now and i see it as have fun live life no guarantees in life no matter how you live!
@Niaulc-sx1nl
@Niaulc-sx1nl Жыл бұрын
18 mins of Joel passes in a flash. It just occurred...if you were to do a one-man stage show, just talked, you'd get full houses. What a phenomenon you are!
@john_smith1471
@john_smith1471 Жыл бұрын
He does the KZbin version of a one man show and makes an extremely good income from this, which enables him to travel but never wants to meet with any of the subs or patreon people.
@PhilipTait-oi2hm
@PhilipTait-oi2hm Жыл бұрын
Articulate and balanced, as always; informed as well as informative views of your Germany experienced. It’s clear this was a really educational - as well as enjoyable - visit for you. Well done; I’ve enjoyed all your reflections.
@MoreJps
@MoreJps Жыл бұрын
thank you!
@hah-vj7hc
@hah-vj7hc Жыл бұрын
Ok, about the staring. And this is coming from a village person. Here in the country-side, we greet each other even if we have never seen one another. We say moin, and we move on. (Moin is northern thing, you have surely heard it in Hamburg). But I also was living in hamburg for two years and once I decided to just greet people randomly for a day and they would look at me as if I was about to mooch or to try and sell them them something. So yeah, I have a very different perspective. And when I was in the US, I felt like people were much more open to randomly having small talks with a stranger. So in a way, it's just different. Idk, I guess it's just important to respect whatever culture you have entered. That's all.
@EnzReviews
@EnzReviews Жыл бұрын
in alot of restaurants in germany they will direkt you towards paying cash so the can illegaly avoid taxes. its quite common here especially in Berlin
@leajud1410
@leajud1410 Жыл бұрын
We probably have two sides in us. The sorrow about problems (job, family i.e) on one side and on the other side, the "private" side our plans for the weekend, our hobbies, family i.e. And if I "stare" at other persons, sometimes I don't see them. I look and think of completely other things than the person I look to. By the way, I watched your trip to u.k. as well. ONE question: Which beer was better? In general I would find it cool, if you would "compare" the two parts of your trip.
@siggim5681
@siggim5681 Жыл бұрын
Oh i would like that also
@Shiroikage98
@Shiroikage98 Жыл бұрын
also this was probably the best video to get a glimps at how the rest of the world sees us. You have said a lot of things about my culture i've never noticed before (because its just every day life for me) but were obvious after you pointed them out.
@sushi777300
@sushi777300 Жыл бұрын
It's a bit odd how you enjoy the relaxed approach to alcohol but are shocked it's similar for tobacco. Being a paranoid society is exhausting so I'm glad we're not extreme (yet)
@Christian-lh7ux
@Christian-lh7ux Жыл бұрын
Yet... it is being worked on, unfortunately!
@michaelgoetze2103
@michaelgoetze2103 Жыл бұрын
I think it's because smoking can directly affect other people around you whereas having a drink doesn't.
@pendorran
@pendorran Жыл бұрын
Cancer isn't usually a side-effect of casual drinking.
@voxdraconia4035
@voxdraconia4035 Жыл бұрын
@@michaelgoetze2103 Well, tell that to all the families of alcoholics as well as car accident victims, victims of drunken brawls etc...
@stef987
@stef987 Жыл бұрын
@@michaelgoetze2103 if it's just one drink it probably won't in most cases (in some it might). I didn't see them having just one drink in the vlog, though. But I don't want to start the alcohol thing here again. Just saying. I wondered about that, too, shocked by smoking but extremely relaxed when it came to drinking.
@Rick2010100
@Rick2010100 Жыл бұрын
I think there is a difference between starring or checking, many people check for 2-3 seconds if a aproaching person is harmless or possibly a threat. A friendly eye contact is also considered a polite gesture, to which it is signaled - I am friendly minded and you? In some locations is also the "to see and to be seen" the program, like in some cafes or bars. Usually German parents teach the kids to not stare at other people. Kids is also told to not point with the finger on other people. There is also a idiom for teaching kids this: "Don't point your naked finger at dressed people".
@j.p.1859
@j.p.1859 Жыл бұрын
But illegal drug use is way higher in the U.S. and so is unhealthy eating, I’m a German living in the U.S. and I’ve never seen so many morbidly obese people like in Northern America.
@keithheathcote8284
@keithheathcote8284 Жыл бұрын
Cash payment can be a way of avoid tax. Lower turn over means lower VAT/GST payments
@spfisterer3651
@spfisterer3651 Жыл бұрын
Loved the video... I've always wondered how much of the staring is just because you're not speaking German. I know if I'm out shopping and someone next to me talks in Italian, English, Spanish whatever... I'm looking at them. Not in a bad way. Just coz it's an unusual sound....
@janine2637
@janine2637 Жыл бұрын
Too bad I've only just come across your channel and thus missed you being over here in Munich... Whenever you're in Germany again, you're welcome to reach out and maybe some locals and I can show you around some of Munich or whatever other city I'll be around by then, maybe even some of rural Germany which is tougher to experience as a tourist. I'm glad you enjoyed your time here :)
@Herzschreiber
@Herzschreiber Жыл бұрын
- I am glad to hear you liked our public transportation system so much. In the bigger cities it is way better than in rural areas - though these are the areas which would need it most. - smoking cigarettes: Well Joel, I agree with you. But believe me, it was worse in the nearer past! If you had visited Germany ... let's say..... 20 years ago you'd have noticed much more smoking people than today. What I want to say is: Yes it is still an issue but it is becoming better and better. Slowly. Me personally (as you know I am the 'Grumpy Granny') .. well I am always happy to realize that "only a few young people do smoke cigarettes" compared to my own youth! So it is always a matter of the own experiences with a certain topic. And I can well understand that it shocked you because your experiences from the US are that less people are smoking. - I love your thoughts about your trip to Germany and how you reflect your time here. And it shows that "having read a lot about a country" is still different from "experiencing the issues one read about before". Like the directness, "staring" or the cash is king thingy. You did read about it but when you experienced it, it felt much more intense and different than you expected it, right? Last not least: I am glad to hear that your overall experiences were good ones. And I hope that - some day in future - we can welcome you on your next trip to our "much too serious - but then again not so serious" country again! (and I loved to see your UK videos too! I guess, even if you were able to perfectly speak German, there wouldn't be any radio station invite in our much too serious Germany, and that is indeed a pity! 😉)
@Mr4dspecs
@Mr4dspecs Жыл бұрын
I was in Germany 30 years ago, and I had the best time of my life. Everyone was friendly, helpful, generous, and had a great sense of humour! I was made to feel very welcome. Wunderschön! Ausgezeichnet!
@somersaultcurse
@somersaultcurse Жыл бұрын
12:21 the stare thing was pretty good captured by some US couples living in germany for a few years now. ofc there are a few ppl staring bcs they wanna get into (negative) action. but the most time it's just curiosity or (in rural areas) it's more like watching out if something bad happens. for example, your kids riding their bikes on the street and some creepy person is approaching them, there will be at least 2-3 people coming to the kids help. thats one reason why i as a kid could go to friends, playgrounds, school, etc. without having my parents around all the times.
@brabusta
@brabusta Жыл бұрын
Joel, can I preface this comment that this is just my view of this video, from a personal perspective, other people may have different views and I appreciate that they are entitled to that. Anyway, with that out of the way….. ….I loved it !!! I’ve done a whole grocery shop near the Nurburgring only to be told it was cash only at the till. You live and learn! Oh, and yes, it’s a Brit here, taking the mickey with my opening comment, although I appreciate that you have to 😁
@jupiter2668
@jupiter2668 Жыл бұрын
I hear Americans say the thing about only being able to pay in cash over and over again but I'm left scratching my head... I don't know of any place or restaurant that wouldn't accept cards... And I'm from a small town, not Hamburg or Berlin.... I went to Hamburg just last year and paid with card everywhere 🤔...
@birterasmussen8133
@birterasmussen8133 Жыл бұрын
I think the cash thing is a German thing. We have also had the problem that shops, restaurants only would receive cash. In Denmark - just north of Germany - we rarely use cash anymore.
@Kullioking
@Kullioking Жыл бұрын
Cash is King, greatings from austria.
@leidenlocal
@leidenlocal Жыл бұрын
In Holland it is also mainly (debit)card
@paulbooth6350
@paulbooth6350 Жыл бұрын
Well said. Great video.
@BlissLovePeace
@BlissLovePeace Жыл бұрын
staring ... well ... obviously we are conditioned differently ... and that is all there is to it. What you call staring, we call looking curiously at somebody or something. But having lived in the States for some time, I can relate to that conditioning as well ...
@petercramer5616
@petercramer5616 Жыл бұрын
No government or company like visa or Mastercard should have all information about your payments. That's why cash is important. But that also means, that some shops won't pay for a card system, when everyone has cash anyway. And to the staring part: I still have to figure that one out :D
@ravanpee1325
@ravanpee1325 Жыл бұрын
Also wait until he complain about credit card debt
@MechmanGetrieb
@MechmanGetrieb Жыл бұрын
If you have a EC card you can pay by card in most places. Credit card´s are not so much a thing in Germany.
@martinbaumgart4570
@martinbaumgart4570 Жыл бұрын
In Germany until 2007 it was even allowed to smoke publicly indoors, i.e. in Clubs or Restaurants (i think trains used to have smoking/non smoking cabins, but i don“t really remember if they had been abolished before 2007).
@andreadee1567
@andreadee1567 Жыл бұрын
Nice to hear that you felt welcome in Germany. I can relate to everything you said. Good that you showed, how stupid smoking is and that it is not necessary for being a accepted. There is no point where smoking is necessary in Germany. They told you, you have to smoke and ruin your health for getting a job or socialize? That is ridiculous. More and more people stopped smoking here. I know only two people out of perhaps 50 friends and relatives of mine who are smoking. It has changed a lot in the last 20 years. Hopefully the youth don’t start smoking again! Staring: If you have good german parents they also tell you not to stare at people. But looking at s.o. for two or three seconds is not called staring here. I personnally think it is unfriendly to cross so’s way and not even look for a few seconds as if he doesn’t exist. Even smiling is allowed 🙂But with what you said about the American perspective, I can imaging how strange it is for you. Cash: I can pay without cash even in my bakery next door. It is not uncommon. I use my normal bank card. The problem is, that allowing credit cards is more expensive for the restaurant and shops. Why should they use it when everybody has a bank card. It is just a little unfriendly to tourists and visitors. But you are right. Many little places don’t take cards at all. Hope, you will be back soon.
@kellybittner1561
@kellybittner1561 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂I pay everywhere with a card I have no idea in which shed you were eating
@t.a.k.palfrey3882
@t.a.k.palfrey3882 Жыл бұрын
I agree. Since retirement, I spend two months each year in Bayern. I think I've only used cash two or three times since the beginning of the year. The speed and reliability of the Internet is much poorer than in many countries, however.
@beek7292
@beek7292 Жыл бұрын
I guess it's harder for foreigners to pay with a Creditcard (Visa/Mastercard). But as a local it's easy to pay with your EC-Card.
@kellybittner1561
@kellybittner1561 Жыл бұрын
@@beek7292 I always pay with Mastercard
@heikoindenbirken819
@heikoindenbirken819 Жыл бұрын
You don't smoke because it is not healthy. But alcohol is not healthy too.
@guinessdraught2758
@guinessdraught2758 Жыл бұрын
With a cash payment it is much easier to hide the turnover than with electronic payments and accordingly the sales tax payments are lower. For example, if you buy a roll from a bakery, you are entitled to a receipt, if you don't ask for it, you won't get one.
@zaldarion
@zaldarion Жыл бұрын
about the smoking, I think the discussion about it is as double standards as mj. is smoking bad? sure, does everyone gets cancer? no. is second hand smoking bad? absolutly. alcohol is dangerous too, I worked at club decades ago and I saw every night the "second hand drinking" when a bunch of ... got so drunk starting fights and teeth flying around, broken bones or someone thought in drunken state it was a good idea to grab a knife (octoberfest and places similar to that). I would rather sit in a group of smokers than in tent full of drunken indiviuals where you never know what they are going to do next. and no, I do not smoke.
@Xalinai
@Xalinai Жыл бұрын
In some cases, some transactions in cash are not registered in the cash register (pun intended). That way the owner of the restaurant has "black" money to pay unregistered employees.
@trevorjackson4157
@trevorjackson4157 Жыл бұрын
Morning Joel, it's good to see you looking well rested, and enthusiastic again. This was well thought out vlog, with plenty of interesting observations. Hopefully you will make one on the UK soon. Best Wishes, T
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