An Awkward End To The Date | First Dates

[@firstdates]

Yikes, How Awkward! Who Do You Think Should Pay On The First Date ?

[@chrisoconnor8284]

First Dates both should pay.

[@chrisoconnor8284]

Fyn Alexander why should it be down to the guy?

[@harveylion1430]

Fyn Alexander So you want women to stay at home, raise the kids and do the cooking and cleaning too? Or do you pick and choose the old fashioned values?

[@harveylion1430]

Fyn Alexander Are you a guy or a girl? If someone picks and chooses which old fashioned values they want to believe around you, do you find it offensive/hyprocritical? If you don't, I suppose you have a dog eat dog attitude to life. Fair play - a lot of people are like that

[@jojobee42]

In 2017 it's unfair to automatically assume the man should pay - unless, of course, the man WANTS to pay, then he can. Otherwise half and half. And ESPECIALLY if a date knows there won't be a 2nd date, then it should be half and half.

[@cealabeala4367]

This woman is a class act. I really respect how honest she was with him without being mean about it.

[@HT.100]

Chloe Anna Given how fat she is, how can you be so sure she didn't try to eat him

[@XxC0dProsxX]

Yeah, he's fucking terrible for not wanting to waste money on her. She had literally zero complaints other than the fact he didn't want to pay for her and shouldn't have to pay for her. He's not her ATM and he's not her dad. She can pay and that doesn't make him mean.

[@lunalove9395]

Renee pretty sure she was annoyed at him not wanting to pay the service charge - not about him not wanting to pay for her. she seemed happy enough to split the bill, but calculating it is a bit extreme.

[@Peacecraft117]

I can see that she really really really likes to eat and doesn’t want to pay for it. She should act more like a human than a farm animal

[@Ofenomeno94]

I didn't see what the issue was with her. He asked to split the bill she then mentioned she isn't going halves because of the jagger bombs, then he did the same as she did and wanted to get a proper calculation to pay for their own meal. If she's turned off by splitting the bill then she's the one that's 'close minded', it's 2018 for crying out loud.

[@Incog2024]

Christ what an absolute tight arse. 'You had more of the brownie'. I was cringing watching that.

[@tueva-pw5pm]

Well she dd and so she has to pay her fair share

[@ninar1218]

RobJoness omg ikr holy shit she really handled it well

[@MaggieTheCat01]

tu4eva 007, I suspect that you, like the chap in the video, have no class.

[@pinkblush3774]

tu4eva 007 I don't know you, but I'm ashamed of you. In case you're wondering why no one would want to stay with you. Don't search long. Just look at your text again.

[@MaggieTheCat01]

MALVINDINHO that’s a sweeping statement. If you truly believe that, you have problems.

[@nutellalatte7522]

"You had more of the brownie" ffs😲😲😲

[@nutellalatte7522]

@Robin Mangala Thanks Robin! Hope your life is going well too x 😊

[@donloyal]

@Robin Mangala wholesome.

[@lewisroxar3948]

Omds I didn’t realise he said that. How can you have such little self awareness

[@Maverick-re3zp]

LMAOOOOOO me

[@marezaredzuan7747]

🤦🏻‍♀️

[@zararity]

"Have a good life, friend." And follow that with the most sarcastic pat on the back, ever. Good on ya!

[@moua0067]

this dude. wow. he will be single for life.

[@CannabrannaLammer]

Eh naw, this isn't America. We don't need to pay tips. Our servers get a living wage.

[@frizzlefry5904]

Top reply ;-)

[@kevintwine2315]

So will she

[@rorymclaughlin1609]

Me too then. Fuck the service bill.

[@european-one]

Shouldn't be a service charge. It puts pressure on people to pay the extra rather than the business paying them a reasonable wage. I'm happy to give a tip of the service was good but that's for me to decide, not them

[@MYSTERDY]

A round of applause for her... she goes "you can have the greatest beard in the world but if you dont have the personality... 😂" I'm actually dead

[@amandaz9762]

She's amazing the way she handled that! Far more of a lady than I. Lol

[@colleenlamb5521]

I read your comment before I watched it and I thought she was going to actually say it to him 😂

[@theessenceofbeauty1g]

I love how elegant she was in handling this. Beautiful woman too

[@BroskiRIP]

Definitely worth kissing and taking for a picnic.

[@hellovanite]

@cartwork2013 shallow fark

[@salmaumar5750]

@Sweetpea ohh wow so you can't be beautiful and overweight? oK.

[@jamesfrench7299]

I like her.

[@Th3UprightMan]

@@salmaumar5750 Nope, you literally can't.

[@thomasessex7797]

What a bellend

[@chrismcadam8413]

Thomas Essex: i think the word bellend was invented for this guy

[@Headspace101]

Couldn't have said it better myself 🤣😂

[@kevinswackyworld]

Lol

[@akifameer]

@@chrismcadam8413 the LAND WHALE probably ate most of the food anyways

[@saywhaaaaat6464]

She deserves much better! Arsehole

[@matthew.wildsmith]

"Good luck with life friend" 😂😂😂😂

[@annmitchell4663]

He looks like a neanderthol..whats with the overhanging brow and pug face?

[@marjon37]

I'm your 2k liker!!good luck with life my friend

[@wintersalwayshereuk6792]

I died

[@kgatlw9134]

​@@dias17se She wont be lonely, she's actually got a down to earth personality and is based af.

[@akifameer]

@@annmitchell4663 the LAND WHALE probably ate most of the food anyways

[@BDTTK9]

He seems like the type of person to only look out for himself. He’s the type of person to use someone as a shield if he was going to be shot at

[@haydencooper_]

That made me laugh 😂

[@tipsycat27]

Christ he's utterly depressing.

[@Lydweena]

Run!!!!

[@TheReesi73]

I bet you'd date him 😂

[@christineangelafarmer4900]

He is 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@akifameer]

@@Lydweena the LAND WHALE probably ate most of the food anyways

[@crazygazz]

Using a calculator thats longg just split it and shes lame for spreading glitter like a disease

[@TwoPartyIllusion]

did he really tell her you ate more of the brownie?? LOL wow... That's certainly A Date to Remember! And not in a good way!

[@hannahlewis8834]

I didn't mind the splitting the bill / calculating, but not paying the service charge would embarrass me and saying she ate more of the brownie would of really annoyed me. She handled it well I thought for the situation.

[@Tassie85]

On my first date with this dude about six months ago, he not only hauled out his phone to calculate who pays for what, and made a huge fuss out of it,, but he said that, because I had one tiny bite of his steak (at his insistence), I owed 11% on his main course. I shit your not.

[@pennydesouza]

Wow. He will literally never get a girlfriend with that attitude.

[@MN-mc8ik]

Tassie G 11% for one bite does seem accurate tbf thats 9 bites of steak

[@utopistmsoc]

1) Don´t be unattractive. .. . . 4) PROFIT!!

[@swipeduk]

Damn you guys are fucked. Have some respect...

[@destinecassady5576]

Thats messed up. I wouldnt split the bill I would just pay for my meal and him pay for his.

[@MaggieTheCat01]

It’s classy if one person (either one) pays, and it’s perfectly acceptable to say “Shall we both cover this?” for a 50/50 split, but to get a calculator out to divvy the bill according to what you both consumed .... BAD form. 😳

[@WesT10109]

Dude, seriously? You're calculating how to split the bill right in front of your date?

[@artzz6025]

+1973PennyLane just because she's big doesn't miss he won't like her I mean she's a beautiful girl

[@jessb4648]

1973PennyLane that's disgusting and probs why I can guess you don't have a gf

[@judyreardenrearden9082]

lmfao even if i didnt like the bird on a date id pay for the bill respectfully ...the mans gotta learn to be a gent

[@emilymartin7116]

why shouldn't they split the bill? only seems fair for everyone to pay for what they ordered

[@imwaytoshort]

Emily Martin Exactly. She doesn't know him and she ate food so should pay for her share. There is nothing wrong with both people paying their way.

[@munaahmed564]

I love how this show doesnt just bring all the good moments that make me very jealous but it also brings all the worst moments that make me feel a little better about being absolutely SINGLE 😂

[@huna5923]

Relatable

[@TheMaraMassacre]

I don't mind splitting bills or even him calculating it in front of her, just the things that come out of his mouth are horrendous.

[@con8200]

Splitting the bill is fine, calculating is a bit odd, but yea his comments were a no... "you had more of the brownie" wtf lool

[@jameshatfield8410]

Agree

[@HAIRHOLIC_1]

TheMaraMassacre I mean the guy is weird but I actually don’t mind splitting the bill on a first date, I have my own money and I’m not afraid to spend it, on top of it if we both didn’t fancy each other it will be like a date with your mates and my friends and I always split the bill and use the calculator for it 🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t get all the fuss about it really, not everyone has loads of money and eats at high end restaurants all the time.

[@vicconstruction9126]

To be fair, I think he's on the spectrum. i.e. Asperger's

[@johnballard6725]

The way he did it - not very classy.

[@mimakate]

I liked her honesty. He took it so badly, so butt hurt 😂 Cheap and rude, huge turn off but she handled it well. Hope she meets someone lovely.

[@DD-sc9bu]

He doesn't walk her to her car, hold a door for her, offer to help with her wrap. Completely self absorbed

[@elliest55]

Stingy is a MAJOR turn-off people keep that in mind. I don't even want stingy in a friend, lack of generosity with money usually means lack of generosity with feelings, moral support etc.

[@fujiwuji891]

If you're going to knock back loads of shots, don't be shocked if he expects you to pay for what you have had. It's not stingy, It's called taking the piss.

[@wade2bosh]

ya maybe SHE shouldnt have been stingy then and paid her FAIR share

[@hithere5768]

She did tho?

[@eddiebacon127]

elliest 55 fuck a bum ass friend. If you allow them to use you once. Then they will do it everytime

[@Phantom-ez4zv]

You can be stingy and graceful about it, like he could easily paid the pill and didnt tip without making a scene about it, if she asked him why he didnt tip he might tell her hes short on money and end it there, not hard is it. You can always be graceful about things, its about your capabilities at that moment , just be honest and stop running your mouth.

[@georgiamillis4218]

He seems like he might have some autistic traits

[@giselealexandrariascos1906]

Exactly

[@carinaseddon777]

I was thinking the same.

[@EpicReptile]

I was thinking more of a bellend tbh

[@emizerri]

Was thinking the same thing

[@Bun_Bun01]

I have autism, he's just a twat 😂

[@dmorri4902]

Her hair is so beautiful

[@ned2315]

D Morri And that's about it

[@networkservices3121]

Her dress looked like two pig fighting to get out.

[@beckysharper2889]

She's lovely. She will meet a gentleman.

[@zohaf]

she was great but what a waste

[@Dan-ky5es]

Hahahaha! Well said sir.

[@lavendercavern]

the smug little "well done me" as she took off in the taxi, absolute star that girl :')

[@chadywood]

hahahaha "Good luck with life... Friend." Brutal and exactly what he deserved. I love it. :'D

[@simonpersson328]

@Gunner Storm are you his soulmate?

[@sameercm3903]

Wall undefeated friend for man ♂️...

[@killboggins]

@Gunner Storm another icnel

[@ethanmcquat]

Naw seen how this works, man pays for woman alot all the time then woman controls working man pay more naw being cautious is important to survive then taking advantage of.

[@Khonnell66]

"You're quite close minded." "I'm okay with that."

[@aprilsspace3145]

Woah. he's so cynical.

[@oadnan5773]

Why, for wanting to split the bill? Feminist/women want equal rights, equal pay but when it comes to paying the bill they want the man to pay. #feminism is cancer

[@aprilsspace3145]

O Adnan i have no problem paying for the date...I make enough to take care of myself so I'm all for splitting the bill. so i ain't pulling on o'these feminism shit.. i kind of just get that vibe from him 😑😑

[@oadnan5773]

Fair enough.

[@Mclange]

O Adnan she didn’t seem to have an issue with splitting, more with him refusing to tip

[@junkoyaki5486]

Claire Lange-McPherson and calculating... thats showing that he's extremely calculative

[@pinkflamingo3908]

He seems like the kind of person who'd end up being narcissistic during a relationship

[@vicconstruction9126]

Asperger's my friend.

[@minn1386]

"Good luck with your life friend"

[@PeteRumley]

he's never gonna find anyone with that attitude

[@diomont8155]

He's so weird.

[@annmitchell4663]

maria m Is it just me or is his head really weird ?and he looks like a sort of troll.😯

[@hopebullard460]

I really wonder if he's ASD.

[@lightbulbsun]

@@hopebullard460 my guess is - yes, he does. I doubt he's a bad person, but he clearly can't understand social norms.

[@jjkoppens]

"You're quite close minded" "I'm okay with that" Mate...

[@nataliamoreno-succi1651]

Omg she deserves better lol

[@aminajay3707]

Natalia Moreno-Succi oh most definitely

[@ComeOnYouBoyzInBlue]

We deserve nothing in this world

[@Henry-kz4gn]

She deserves to go on a diet.

[@Endlesslove29]

we all do

[@cepellina]

Apart from the fact he did that with the bill, he still has an absolute horrendous personality.

[@iamlegend68]

There's a time and a place to want to save as much money as you can. On a date which is being shown to millions of people, probably isn't the place. Now the whole country knows why he's single and to make things worse, he started complaining about how expensive the meal was which made the woman so uncomfortable SMH..That BBW was hot too! What an idiot.

[@jaxcoss5790]

What a nasty comment!

[@mrshollyster]

maxxy paine I would bet my life that you're single.

[@networkservices3121]

I would bet half your stuff that you're heading to divorce.

[@soumiahouari2015]

Not only the country knows, even more! Im frome Algeria (north africa) and i know too! ✋

[@antwto8784]

maxxy paine we get it, you’re still single.

[@LisasLeven]

I’m sooo addicted to first dates. Please never stop making this series

[@emeliacasselventura7052]

not wanting to tip was embarrassing

[@fujiwuji891]

I only tip if i am satisfied with the service. If service has been outstanding, then i will tip generously.

[@davidh9833]

Those waiters are easily on at least 10 euro an hour , why should you be made to feel like you should give them extra for bringing you a plate from a kitchen.

[@TheSPazCORE]

Why should the customer be punished when a business won't pay their staff a decent wage...

[@attomicchicken]

Of course its embarrassing for you as you haven't lived anywhere outside the US. Every other server in the world gets paid a decent wage and customers don't need to supplement the owner / staff. We only leave tips if it was an exceptional service. I don't need the business telling me how much to tip or even to tip at all.

[@nardinit]

Fuji Wuji That's a fair point which I agree with, however they were talking about paying the service, which goes to all of the staff, chefs that cooked the food, bartenders that made drinks. If service is not up to par or satisfactory service should not be paid. A tip is somwthing extra if you feel that thr staff deserved it.

[@florenlebaron524]

So if a man doesn't pay he doesn't have manners? Get over yourself.

[@MKM23586]

worst guy to date!

[@joenicholls3131]

whenever I'm depressed about my flat lining love life I watch this and it cheers me up

[@underhero10]

Omg "alright, mr sarcastic". I love her ❤️ queen 👑👑

[@helenkimishis]

he is so annoying i dont know how she handled it so well

[@bearkinsbear8409]

Natural instinct to save money except Money is not exactly a natural thing you don't see a Bear saving up for a holiday.

[@kateg7298]

She dodged a bullet. Can you imagine being around his whole family if they're like him? Nightmare.

[@BriRog68]

"Good luck with life friend" Best line in the show!

[@ragerenegade]

The guy probably splits the costs on condoms....... wait correction he wants to split it on condoms but won't really ever get a chance to buy one😂😂😂😂😂

[@Myview246]

Honestly the problem isn't even him asking her to split, it's how uptight he was about getting the precise amount. I'm more than happy to go halves especially if it's too much but I cannot stand extremely stingy people who don't want to pay a penny more. I mean who the fuck doesn't pay the service charge after all the wonderful service you got there. And then whipping out a calculator in front of your date. If this is the first date, it shows how annoying he'll be if you got together with him long term. There's saving money and then there's a extreme cheapskates and extreme chespskates really need to get a life. No wonder he's still single.

[@ethanmcquat]

Well 2023 so are we all now

[@Maverick-re3zp]

“Good luck with life friend” lmaoooo

[@RealtorArbutus]

I'm pretty sure food, shelter, companionship, protecting yourself... are natural instincts not saving $ by stiffing the server.

[@eastbelfastno1]

Woah, when he got out the calculator, the wankometer went off the rail!!

[@twinkletoes1158]

She’s so lovely , really nice girl

[@tracey-anne53]

I hope this beautiful woman found a partner that appreciates her 🙏✨💜

[@sagalmibagal]

He's childish

[@someone3187]

I like the way she told him that a few things were "not first date appropriate". She didn't mind splitting the bill (which already wasn't very chivalrous), but being cheap about the service charge and then taking out the calculator was a complete turn off. It just looks very non classy and rude. Nobody likes to waste money, but first impressions do count. Unless you plan on not seeing that person ever again... 😆

[@jojobee42]

This guy is an embarrassment. Even though, there's probably the right girl for him too out there - one who loves to calculate how to split a bill and save on the service charge!

[@tripledigit4835]

Capitalism > Socialism

[@andrewbas5720]

that beluga whale of a woman is absolutely disgusting, clearly he didn;t want to have anything to do with such a morbidly obese beast

[@antwto8784]

andrew bas well she’s free for you to date her then, it’s not like any better offers are coming your way (here come the lies...)

[@NibberKSmooth]

He sounds like Russell Brand, acts like Stephen Merchant and looks like Harold Shipman.

[@curlwhurl8054]

Mist_ warrir Dead! Best comment ever! 😅😅

[@turnitcolorful]

secondhand embarrassment at its finest

[@Chris-eb6yd]

Ah the old good luck with life and pat on the back combo.

[@littlefrog9553]

Gross. I don't trust cheap people. If you can't afford it, don't fucking go fine dining. Have a chicken shop date. Genuinely poor people wouldn't behave like this. He's entitled and cheap. I would have split the bill evenly and peaced out. I always pay for myself because otherwise it can feel like a transaction and at least they don't expect me to sleep with them if I pay my own, but his behaviour is gross.

[@LaLaBlahBlahh]

Wow... it’s the way he went about it. I have no issues going Dutch or even paying if I asked the guy out but the “oh you had more of the brownie so...” part and not wanting to pay service charge?! Boy BYE

[@user-wq6hr9xi2n]

'Shitted on your day' made me laugh haha

[@danhanley1313]

Fair play for her keeping calm telling him the truth

[@anonymous-du7ov]

He Didn't even pay for the Whole thing. Why is he Still moaning lol

[@paulaangelina7750]

No way could I be with a man like that.. rather be single.

[@1cameronjk]

“ good luck with life friend “ 😂😂😂

[@fujiwuji891]

I'll pay for the meal, but if you are knocking back expensive drinks expecting me to pay for it, think again.

[@RadagonTheRed]

My girl just put it right - she said “That guy will have plenty of money to spend in his retirement, in his lovely big house - alone.”

[@L212-o7z]

Mega stingy him

[@jsc2148]

"Instinct is a marvelous thing. It can neither be explained nor ignored." - Agatha Christie This guy - *Saving money*

[@smmusicplus96]

Still lives in mum's cellar.

[@shoot_the_glass5654]

What makes me laugh is, how this guy will struggle to find another date after every single woman in Britain sees this clip. Remember what happened to the motor home guys in Borat?

[@Anna133199]

No. What happened to the motor home guys?

[@shoot_the_glass5654]

@@Anna133199 they struggled to find job oppurtunities when people recognized them.

[@samarobeida2610]

i hated him so much that i disliked the video

[@rapidmeatsh]

He's like my son. I feel bad for them both.

[@yuseiilyas701]

Why he look like someone stuck an adult head on a kid body ffs 😂

[@geraldbumblepop7582]

£140? I don’t blame him....

[@leftbillzathome]

Lol, this was hard to watch.

[@harryvanderveen773]

"good luck with life friend" the ultimate beyond the friend zone line

[@ashleelmb]

I insist on sharing the bill depending on what we ate and drank too so I agree with him on that. But 'you had more of the brownie'...that's going a bit far 😂

[@vinhtran123]

Sorry mate, even if the date went bad, I still pay for the dinner...with tip.

[@CrackerXZ]

I love the guy, he doesn't give a shit about social norms and just does as he sees fit instead, haha.

[@mattneillninasmom]

Anyone who would stiff waitstaff who had just served them, is a true Lowlife! Also, splitting the check on a first date is really low class and an indicator of how mean and stingy a person really is. So glad she had the integrity to call him on it. Example of a True Loser, that one!

[@clairevictoria4707]

She deserves to be treated so much better on a date

[@lizziebeggimbo]

She handled that sooo well

[@HemaFTW]

140 for a meal for 2? Wtf?

[@miguelalves7333]

That was awkard . " good luck with life friend " lmao

[@KaleemKhan-cp1ge]

She’s so lovely!! He’s a muppet lol

[@cbeautifulworld11]

is that Russell Brand?😂 She was wonderful. He was so terrible I thought/hoped it was a joke.

[@Mattnozz]

If you pay £140 to eat there then you're a mug 😅

[@jimandali0]

She summed him up very politely. The earths poles could not be further apart, then him and etiquette.

[@littlemisssunshine874]

I agree with not paying a service charge. I much prefer tipping the waiter/waitress directly. .. at least I know it's going into their pocket!

[@GKang93]

"everyone? Oh what have you been doing" 😂😂

[@ramutej]

Disgusting attitude

[@J-jx3lq]

"you did have more brownie" 😂🤣

[@shellomello]

He did this purposely because he doesn't fancy her as a way to turn her off him PS. He's the aldi version of Jason Momoa

[@simonafurtuna5276]

Who on earth will ever even want to date this specimen regardless of their looks??? 😂

[@Khonnell66]

Jason Momoa?! 😂

[@elzorronegro3025]

I thought the Jason Momoa thing too. (Face and hair. Obviously not the physique). A shame his personality didn’t live up to his looks

[@rapidmeatsh]

His head is so..oOo...Large

[@lenalarina59]

Yea, thought he would be very tall with that head, but no😅

[@anlu3365]

I would run for my life as fast and far through the door 😱😱

[@tonewaf]

"Mr sarcastic." 😂😂😂😂

[@silencassin6502]

She had more of the brownie? Shocker.

[@stefaniamalatesta8076]

What a horrible man.

[@djfhfh]

I wouldnt personally expect a man to pay a 140 pound bill by himself

[@annadziura]

Emma M I agree. But the tip thing was just absolutely ridiculous

[@betheroo2397]

His natural instinct is being cheap.