Analyzing the Magnetic Attractiveness of Tom Holland

[@jishafarookh3552]

Did I just watch a person compliment Tom Holland for 10 minutes? YES!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I hope you learned something through all that

[@juliamoscuzza71]

It has been proven that he is literal perfection!! 🤣🤣 lol i loved this video, so interesting!

[@cerysjones6240]

Everything about Tom is so attractive

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yeah he’s dope

[@bi_saster]

same thing with shawn mendes tbh

[@chloerose5999]

ikr

[@thomascarney4531]

Everything

[@ava_121]

Argreed

[@onlykismet]

I'm a hetero 35 yr old woman, and I can confirm, Tom is freaking charming AND him not being afraid to show his soft or "feminine" side is quite attractive. His lipsynch battle performing Umbrella is so damn sexy, why? Coz he did not pull back from doing a sexy performance on heels, a wig, and fishnet tights.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Exactly!

[@KP-zb1tr]

Brooke so?

[@edviza1935]

K P it’s creepy thats what

[@GeekyJasArts]

@@edviza1935 It's not like she is gonna date him, and they are both adults so what? if Tom was a minor then that would be creepy

[@KP-zb1tr]

​@Brooke I see your point when you imply they are in different life arenas. But then how do explain society embracing dudes like Leonardo Dicaprio, who never date women older than 25 no matter how old they get? Don't you think there is a double standard there (granted, I think Leo is creepy af)? And if you do agree that he is creepy, OP is only 35 (Leo is much older and dating an early twenty something). I still don't think that is too old. Not everyone has kids and gets married at 35. If he were 17, then I would see what you mean.

[@vianney7267]

his dad is a comedian so tom often went with his dad to events starting at a young age and his dad made tom look people in the eye and shake their hand which i think really built his social confidence

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Oh interesting!

[@lisa_vxng]

he also once said that his parents are the ones preventing him from "getting a big head" and getting back down to the reality of things, so that helped

[@erinbailey8792]

@@lisa_vxng yes, for example, he said that his father sometimes calls him "movie star". Like "Hey, movie star, wash the dishes!" It's so funny :)

[@hiitskatie4784]

When I watch Tom Holland Interviews, I just get the feeling that he was also raised really well. I think his parents just taught him manners.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

What are those?

[@annienayland45]

@@AnthonyRecenello five words his parents said their childen should use : hello, goodbye, thank you , please

[@youngroyals4350]

Swindongirl nayland that’s 4

[@annienayland45]

@@youngroyals4350 thank you = 2 words

[@GrafinVonHopper]

Não apenas boas maneiras (já que nota-se que o Tom é muito educado e um cavalheiro com as mulheres😍), mas também porque sua família soube ensinar autoconfiança e autoestima a ele, além de incentivá-lo em suas escolhas artísticas, consideradas "femininas" pela sociedade. O erro que muitas famílias cometem por aí, é ensinar o conceito idiota de masculinidade tóxica, que só serve para deixar os meninos inseguros, reservados e até cínicos. O tom é o que é sem a necessidade de precisar se encaixar com alguém ou com um grupo de amigos. Ele não foi bombardeado por essas regras idiotas. Ele é autêntico, sem medo de mostrar seus medos e admitir suas falhas em público, além do bom equilíbrio que ele possui com seu lado feminino. É justamente isso o que o torna tão atraente.

[@joeyxcx]

Tom is just so charming that sometimes it's overwhelming. Sometimes I find myself avoiding videos of his interviews because I know that if I do watch them, I'd just be bombarded by his ability to be so captivating when he talks. It's just something I'm not used to because I've never seen it in anyone else. I've never seen someone so comfortable with themselves and the people around them. And he's also physically insanely attractive so there's that

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Lol I agree Joey.

[@lilybean9585]

Same

[@riyadpatelwrites]

I thought i was the only one who felt this way

[@Emilyemiluemloy]

Like the puppy interview is overwhelmingly cute

[@riyadpatelwrites]

Emily for sure!! it’s just 💞💞💞💞

[@Wretchrot]

That's why I love Jake Gyllenhaal so much

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Me Tooooo!

[@Wretchrot]

Anthony Recenello please make a video about him 😍♥️

[@AnthonyRecenello]

@@Wretchrot He's on my list! Coming soon.

[@zen-ventzi-marinov]

@@AnthonyRecenello any updates after 6 months? I'd also like to be able to learn more about a story of a guy who makes such well thought out commentaries.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hey Zen, when Jake releases his next movie I’ll be making a video on him. He’s been a bit absent since Spider-Man

[@user-tk8kv3mq6z]

" "The people who I admire, they embrace and respect all sides of themselves-the masculine, the feminine, and the combination of the two. Who are some of those people? I would actually say Tom Holland, who I worked with [on Spider-Man], is really one of those people. There are so many stigmas that he just embraces-like, he’s this beautiful dancer, and he’s also Spider-Man. He’s incredibly sensitive, but he’s a bad ass. He’s strong in that way, and strong in a different way. " -Jake Gyllenhaal

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Great quote

[@Jen-wx1li]

Do u know what interview this is from?

[@mewchu]

jake gyllenhaal king

[@Jen-wx1li]

@@user-tk8kv3mq6z thank you!

[@youngroyals4350]

I would also says Harry Styles. He also embraces his feminine side

[@ericasilva9543]

7:37 as a woman I must say this is incredibly true but I must add that love of women also means respect and value of women as individuals and not as a concept

[@fabstems3388]

What about the simps on the internet? Paying for a girls attention? Are those guys masculine and attractive?

[@e_lise37]

@@fabstems3388 no

[@NicholasWarnertheFirst]

Yes I was disappointed he didn't pick up on Tom Holland that he's not frightened to Express his own femininity? That men should love their own feminine as visa versa we become more self aware, enlightened and better people.

[@amyholder593]

_no wonder why I obsess over Tom despite the fact there is literally no way I could date him unless he want to go to jail_

[@destielsimpala7738]

I just turned 18 in August and I was so happy when I realized that I could legally date Tom Holland. There is like a 99% chance that it will not happen, but I like that it theoretically could happen.

[@izzaw]

Fucking sammme lmao

[@TianaMay2001]

@@destielsimpala7738 The legal age in England is 16 so you're fine if you were to hook up with him while in the U.K

[@destielsimpala7738]

@@TianaMay2001 I started having a crush on him when I was 16. I wish I knew this information then.

[@lisa_vxng]

@@destielsimpala7738 a friend of mine got hit on by tom in a club sometime last year so... possibility's there :D

[@sevenstaramat]

I guess this is a channel for guys only, but I loved watching all the character studies and learned a lot. I suggest to do one of the old school hollywood charmers too

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hey! It’s not for guys only. It’s def guy focused tho! Yes I’d love to eventually old analyses. I have those in my paid products. But for right now I’m focused on growth and unfortunately Bogie isn’t going to get me any views 😂

[@sevenstaramat]

@@AnthonyRecenello I totally get that :D

[@lalmuankimichhakchhuak5424]

@@AnthonyRecenello can you do women too ♀️ I am one of the most socially awkward person ever

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Lalmuankimi Chhakchhuak coming soon!

[@livr1044]

Same... I mean the analysis was going great but when he said “There’s nothing more manly than loving a woman” I was like... oh honey... I really, like really, LOVE woman and I don’t feel masculine at all for that, I just feel gay.

[@Emilyemiluemloy]

I think one of the most attractive things about him is that he’s so normal. Like he’s Spider-Man, he’s in the highest grossing film of all time, he’s in a Pixar movie, he’s got a ton of money, and yet he’s so humble.

[@soparvaneh6706]

okay, so the thing about the private school thing was completely off. He went to a grammar school, then public school,then the brit school (due to how he is extremely talented). Him and his family are very down to earth his brothers still are attending public school (so i feel this is why he is so relatable and genuine).His accent isn't upper class definitely just normal middle class southern accent:)

[@lizardpoo8524]

I wouldn't say middle class. Just a standard southern accent.

[@soparvaneh6706]

@PurelyAfrican private schools and grammar schools r quite different

[@phoebe8579]

Scarlett Oliver he went to donhead prep school in edgehill which is an independent (aka private) grammar school xx his accent also does sound super middle / upper class to me!! he’s definitely very down to earth and seems lovely, but you can definitely tell he’s from a wealthy family and very well trained for the spotlight (something that probably stems from him being a child actor) xx

[@sophiabeesoup]

wait people there have different accents based on their class? also is grammar school just about grammar or does it teach all subjects

[@lizardpoo8524]

@@sophiabeesoup Grammar school is for smart people who passed their eleven plus (a test) in primary school. Yes it teaches all subjects otherwise it would be useless.

[@dawnharris3503]

Well said! Real men do not need to prove it. Tom’s behavior is so attractive. Women love that balance of vulnerability and confidence that Tom has. He speaks well and is so darn charming and there is a kind consideration that he gives to whomever he is conversing with. He was brought up right!

[@annablue2799]

He also has this positive energy , it just makes you happy watching him because he just seems happy and exited about his life right now. Wich is so holesome and heartwarming.

[@hottea9546]

YES!!! The reason Tom is super Attractive even if his looks aren’t for you is that he DOESN’T care about showing emotion. Off course he’s not spewing out his feelings all the times but he isn’t afraid to be his genuine self in that moment. His confidence in himself and who he is just radiates a sort of warmth and security. If that makes sense.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Of course it does

[@allenm9]

This is a great video! I always realized how charming and witty Tom Holland always was and I wondered how he did it. Thanks!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks! Hope to see you back here commenting on my next vid!

[@allenm9]

@@AnthonyRecenello I will, thanks for responding though! Recently found your channel and I thought your videos were pretty sweet. keep it up homeslice

[@AnthonyRecenello]

@@allenm9 New vids coming starting this week! I had two months off while moving to LA.

[@belladupont6777]

@@AnthonyRecenello This is one of the freshest, most interesting and engaging takes I've seen on charm and likeability in forever. Glad to follow you immediately. 🤗❤👍

[@salome6505]

My KZbin recommendations: wanna hear a 10min video of how amazing tom is. Me: say no more

[@nightskyji]

6:01 - 6:27 omg that's truee!! I guess he's so discreet when he does that, that i had never noticed :0

[@AnthonyRecenello]

glad u enjoyed that. :-)

[@meaganhanson8054]

He’s so extraordinary, it really is something, in my dorm room a put a sticker on my bed that literally said “be more like Tom Holland” he is ridiculously solid in himself, it’s impressive

[@AnthonyRecenello]

awwww thats adorbs Meagan!

[@GrafinVonHopper]

Um homem confiante, humilde e divertido não se encontra muito por aí, né verdade?!😅❤ Ele realmente é um ser iluminado e uma inspiração para os jovens dessa geração.

[@DestinyC1020]

Omg thank you so MUCH for doing a video on Tom Holland! I've been wanting to put into words what exactly makes Tom so attractive and appealing to me, but could never really quite find the right words until now. Your video hits it spot on why sooo many people (men/women, young/old, straight/gay) find Tom so charming, and enjoyable to watch and be around. :) He has the right exact mix of EVERYTHING (charm, grace, cockiness, adorableness, innocence, humor, confidence, self-deprecation, seriousness, goofiness, sexiness, guy-next-door-ness, kindness, warmth, genuineness, dorkiness, cheekiness, sassiness, class, in touch w/his feminine side, yet still masculine, etc) that it's really hard to NOT like him. THAT is what makes a guy very very attractive to a woman. As a woman myself I can definitely confirm that this is true. It's not really about "looks" (although Tom is a good-looking guy imo), but more so about a guy's total PERSONALITY that makes a guy go from a 5 to a 9 on the scale for a woman. Tom definitely has "it". That je ne sais quoi star quality (as you call it) that makes him shine above a lot of the other young, talented actors in his generation imo. I sure hope he continues to stay grounded and remains a genuinely nice guy...esp in Hollywood where there are so many that are fake or just plain rude. :( But anyway, thank you for making this video! I can watch interviews w/Tom for hours. He's just that entertaining lol! ^_^

[@AnthonyRecenello]

🙏🏻

[@GrafinVonHopper]

Faço minhas as suas palavras 😁👏👏👏

[@semiramisblessed1981]

That Umbrella Lip Sync is where it all started like for real wearing that costume and that performance... He is so comfortable with femininity which makes a man attractive I think

[@hi-xp9re]

WE LOVE A FEMINIST KING

[@tinydreamerrr]

"No man becomes more manly by deciding that he needs to prove himself and others that he is more of a man. Real men just don't care about that. There's no one thing that makes a straight male more manly than strengthening your love to women." 🔥👏

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Awww thanks tinydreamer!

[@DianaStarPrincexx18]

I'd love to see these type of studies in woman's character

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Coming soon Diana

[@DianaStarPrincexx18]

Anthony Recenello nice!

[@kimdye4609]

I think he would say almost the same about Zendaya, that's why they get along so well! His comment about nothing makes a man more manly than the love of women may be 1 of the best things I have ever heard!!

[@LB-ih7hn]

Yeah…. everything about Tom just seems so real and loveable, even those things that may be considered imperfections are attractive due to this amazing balance of incredible characteristics.

[@mrugmairamteke8665]

Tom is perfect just way he is... i wont want him any other way he also inspires me to do better in my own way n he taught me not to be afraid of showing that yes u can do it... he also showed me that u dont have to do much for making ppl smile... the little things matters i am proud to be a hollander n m happy to have him as one of my idols

[@takemehome8097]

One of the few things that I have always thought about Tom is how he has never cared about coming off masculine or not, like that has always been my favorite thing about him and I am so glad that I'm not the only one thinking about it HAHA

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yes!!!!

[@cata.fuentes]

He was raised so good, Tom is attractive in EVERY way

[@nataliacortes6919]

He’s a Gemini! ❤️ You should’ve added the Rihanna Lip Sync video when you talked about feminism!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Oh that would’ve been perfect. Crap.

[@cryptidkai]

No way really?! Me and him are the same sign?! That's awesome.

[@sugaryheaven4089]

His moon sign is Sagittarius

[@Potatocheesebread]

I agree that he’s super genuine. He’s just that one simple, kind, and gentle guy that doesn’t have any other agenda

[@ulisuawesome]

*Let's be honest, most of us are only here to listen to someone put into words everything we already know and love about our smol bean*

[@darkunicorn1203]

I think Tom Holland is naturally adorable , he is genuine, charming ,talented young man ..I don't know him personally but I think his personality is good I think his parents raised him well and he's so soft low voice makes him more adorable I can't find any reason to not to like him .

[@jadehong6833]

Oooh he’s so true about manliness

[@Soldantae]

It's good to see a channel talking about masculinity in such a healthy and mature way. I may not be your intended audience but I'm happy there's a chance guys can learn good things like this.✨

[@AnthonyRecenello]

awww TAETAE you give me such happy feelings. dankeshun!

[@manthanjariwal8599]

Can wait to see explode this is nothing more than precious

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Awww thanks bud

[@kevincoyle8438]

Its like therapy hearing that I do not need to hold back my more feminine aspects. I would always have friends in high school and even now in college, who subscribe to the whole embracing our masculinity deal like you were talking about. Specifically one friend who would push me to be a "man of high status", when I really did not give a shit about any of it. I went along with it all because of my insecurities about success with women, until now, where I am embracing my natural self. So thank you for your words it truly makes an impact on young men like me.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Exactly. I have a big vid coming out this week on this exact topic.

[@yogawithdev448]

He didn't go to private school. The 'all boys school' was the Billy School for when he trained for Billy Eliot for 2 years.

[@chloerose5999]

actually he did go to private school because he has dyslexia

[@yogawithdev448]

@@chloerose5999 in the book his dad, Dominic Holland wrote, called Eclipsed, he states that Tom and his brothers all went to a Comprehensive (not private or posh) school.

[@chloerose5999]

@@yogawithdev448 boi did i say posh? nope. in an interview he did, he right out states that he had dyslexia. he says "yeah, and my parents sent me to a private school so i could get a bit more support around that issue." im really sorry i don't remember what the vid was called but if i find it i'll let you know. and that's weird that his dad said that because i swear to god i'm not lying

[@yogawithdev448]

@@chloerose5999 I dunno man, I'm just going off what his dad wrote, it's actually a really cool book, you should check it out it has a lot about Tom's life in it.

[@erinbailey8792]

@@chloerose5999 no way. I think i saw almost all of his interviews, including the earliest, and i don't remember such things. You probably confused him with someone unconsciously.

[@TianaMay2001]

Tom's dad is also a comedian which is why he knows how to be funny

[@AnthonyRecenello]

famous?

[@yogawithdev448]

@@AnthonyRecenello Yeah, his dad is Dominic Holland, a well-known comedian in the UK. He's also an author and does a podcast with one of Tom's brother's.

[@marlsberlin7716]

You are born with it. It comes naturally from the way your mind works. It requires wit, personal approach to humor, knowledge and speed of thought. It cannot be learned. It cannot be taught

[@unusualROX123]

I know this channel is geared towards men, but holy shit I don't care. I think we all can learn something from your vids. Good job!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Valentina that made me feel so good. I’m actually moving towards being coed as we squeak. You da bomb V

[@unusualROX123]

Anthony Recenello thats amazing! It would be super cool if you studied the charm of women in media too like Oprah, Zendaya, Margot Robbie, etc! I’d be super interested to see what you’ve observed while studying them.

[@evildoesnotsleep-x2b]

yo, i didn't know where you were going with it, but you delivered the point home really well in the last minutes. showing the full spectrum of one's emotions, including vunerability and love for people, must be the most attractive characteristic a man can have

[@AnthonyRecenello]

awww thanks my dude

[@jacquiemorataya248]

Tom Holland is just amazing in every sense and I cant die without getting to know him

[@AnthonyRecenello]

lol ok make it happen j!

[@jamesdean4317]

Hi Anthony, I just came across your channel while searching about Harry Styles. You, my friend, are legendary. Your understanding of social dynamics and people is top notch. I read a LOT of stuff about all of this and I watched countless videos. But none came as close as your videos. I gave up and ended up watching videos of magnetic people like James Dean (who, after I watched your Harry Styles video, is magnetic because of his strong presence AND eye contact. I've been trying to crack his charm for years now.) Any video or article cracking attractive people's magnetism were so vague (saw this video about Marlon Brando, and it was a whole lot of "he's confident" with no substantial explanation). Your understanding penetrates past the superficial. Damn, I'm grateful to have come across your channel. Thank you sir. And, yes, the love of women is the ultimate path to manliness. This is something I somewhat figured out and you just put it in words in a way that is so clear and enlightening.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

thanks so much!

[@riyadpatelwrites]

He’s honestly my inspiration to just be a better person and nice to other people

[@flykeymikey4106]

suuuuper underrated channel bro. you deserve sooo much more subs. GREAT CHANNEL ,GREAT VIDS!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thabnkkkksjsjsjsjsjsjjsjsjsjsjsjs hope to see you comment on more vids. :-)

[@annablue2799]

Honestly I also sometimes wonder how Tom got this pure in a world like this. But when you watch his Dad it explains everything. His Dad is really kind and he obiossly would tech his sons to be kind but he also would be kind and understanding to them too , so I think if you grow up with a good relationship to your parents but also your parents teching you (but in a nice way) how to be a kind human being but also giving you love and suport you mith not be that afraid of being yourself.

[@GrafinVonHopper]

Exatamente.

[@MiaRose02]

This was an amazing video what the hell. That explains so well why I have all of these crushes on people that seemingly act the same. The charming traits I’m attracted to, you described all of them 😍

[@Hannah-ps2lr]

Tom is literally the sweetest person ever I love him so much🥺💕

[@silverstarlightproductions1292]

I'm three years older than Tom Holland, yet I can't help being completely enamored with him. And this video perfectly sums up why. ❤

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I'm glad lauren!

[@GrafinVonHopper]

Eu sou 5 anos mais velha que o Tom e para falar a verdade, eu não me importaria nem um pouco com isso, se ele resolvesse flertar comigo...hahaha!😆 No quesito idade, acredito que até 10 anos de diferença (sejam para mais ou para menos) não tem o poder de interferir brutalmente num relacionamento. OMG! Como gostaria de me casar com alguém assim...😍😍😍 Um sonho que peço a Deus para ser realizado.

[@bunniee333]

no one: me who is already obsessed with him trying to find a reason for my obsession: OH 👁️👄👁️

[@user-bd5nm9kx7q]

I could listen to him talk for hours and I wouldn't get bored, he is so endearing. I consider him a beautiful person inside and out. God, I love him too much. My favorite actor.

[@MrGlittergirl554]

I can see why a million of girls and fans love this guy

[@nileyfan1998]

Loved him since his role in the impossible. His a phenomenal actor... absolutely brilliant

[@zachtojo4343]

He’s so likeable, he’s hot, funny, humble, weird, talented. There’s literally nothing to not like

[@dawnharris3503]

Great, great analogy of Tom Holland, so right - real men just need to be balanced, strength and vulnerability are 2 qualities that’s so attractive in a man. Zendaya! Hang on to that young man. He is from a good family and he brings that real love to you! Don’t be blinded by the lights of Hollywood, it is just a mirage. Tom is a real friend and that certainly has the basis for being a great lover. Plus have you seen him with puppies he is so patient and interactive….you will get a great dad if you have kids with him. 🥰

[@GrafinVonHopper]

Sim. Quem me dera me casar com um homem virtuoso assim. Me inspiraria muito tê-lo como líder e sacerdote do lar. Creio que Deus está preparando alguém assim para minha vida.😄❤

[@swaglordstar]

Tom is just the best

[@rylie_thompson]

I’m glad I came across this video! So good 🙌🏼

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Heck yeah rylie! stick around

[@charmewithcem4830]

Great vid buddy. Real life hitch. I hope next time you choose Neal Caffrey. He might be the most charming fictional character ever

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Ok he’s def on my list

[@schaughtful]

It’s the ballet vibe paired with acting. Someone who goes through intense long-term physical training can be humble and empathetic, as it entails falling on your face often -especially when pursuing a non-macho art. Being exposed to years of multiple versions of stage-crafts “and again, do it again” resets, could be the basis of his charming (non-energy draining) pace of regularly returning to neutral. If you want to find more guys like this, check out ice skaters

[@roadman373]

homosexual female here but Tom is so perfect

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hell yeah!

[@ayeshaamjad9568]

I’ve been obessed with him for like 6 years now

[@miffi236]

bro i loved that ted talk at the end

[@AnthonyRecenello]

IM THE CEO

[@karling_j]

This is a video of a person explaining why all these girls are obsessed with Tom. Absolutely amazing!!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Wow, thank you!

[@KateAnastasia]

I'm not sure what I just watched, but I loved every second of it

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yayyy Kate is great

[@imengharbi5865]

I think your videoes are very informative and really makes you learn how to read people. I personally enjoy them a lot. Specially since you talk about all my celeberty crushes in your classic charm serie hhhh. I like your personality too. Keep up the good work👍

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thank you IMEN! Will you be joining me for tonight’s release?

[@imengharbi5865]

@@AnthonyRecenello I think so hhh. By the way I am from tunisia north africa. Just wanted to let you know that you got a small fan base here. Good luck with everything you do in life!❤

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks so much!

[@isabellouis3833]

07:22 HE SAID WHAT HE SAID!!! 👏👏👏

[@jenniferlee9577]

i'm actually really enjoying these studies- i started off with the timothee one cause i love him but this is actually kind of helping me with how to present myself- i want to work at places where presenting yourself is important but i haven't quite got the hang of it yet, I either come off as too cold or too weird and I think Tom Holland is a perfect role model for things like this, genuine but also not too weird feeling

[@AnthonyRecenello]

:-) so glad u said this

[@dlp4462]

Thank you manly man. Absolutely natural respect.

[@ceciliacabrini]

They are both very different, but Tom Holland and Harry Styles come across so charming and genuine to me. They are both great storytellers which I love, but they’re also great listeners, and I think that has such an impact in a conversation/interaction, it just comes across so attractive to me for some reason.

[@dupree2830]

Well, Harry is not the same for a long time. And he is still young. Is he driking or even using?

[@Ash-ww8xg]

Love that Spidey theme in the background man! Totally see your love for the character. Also an absolutely wonderful video as always! Cheers :)

[@sparkleflames9648]

so now i know why i'm MADLY in LOVE with Tom!!

[@montana2198]

But do u find him hot ?

[@DT-ns1vl]

Tom Holland really reminds me and a lot of other people of the lead singer of The Vamps (Bradley Simpson), I think it would be cool if you’d do an analysis of him since I think he‘s also a little charmer :)

[@Kat-oz9sn]

Yesss!!!

[@emiliappn]

Agreeeeeee

[@rocha6702]

Yeahhhhhhh

[@Chrisopsful]

Thx Tony. Thats a great stylish video. I actually speak to woman regulary at the moment. You know asking for for locations and stuff to lose my approach anxiety. I would like to see a video about prince, since he was totally shy, but still succesful with the ladies. Greetings and love from germany.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hey Chrisopful! My girlfriend is in Germany at the moment. You lose approach anxiety by making very small approaches with women. Ask them the time, etc. Then next month, challenge yourself to a bigger convo. Then a bigger one. It's process you need to commit yourself to. You should be able to talk to women in ANY location.

[@Chrisopsful]

@@AnthonyRecenello I also try to give them a compliment each time. Do you have tipps for further steps?

[@Connny7]

Would love to see a video from you about Tom Hiddleston.

[@meganh9241]

I know I'm obviously YEARS late, but I agree with all of this. I prefer someone who can be vulnerable at times-scared, emotional, talking about their weaknesses-than someone who is all "oh, I'm so big and tough and manly all the time. I'm not scared of anything, and I don't cry even when dogs die in movies." Like, even just the thought train of how men get there seems so off because as you said, all of this "information" they're getting about what women "like" is not usually accurate. I'd find someone who stumbles over their words trying to speak to me more attractive than some big, "bad boy" that has all of these pick-up lines and sly glances. That's why I find Tom so attractive. He's confident, but not in some egotistical way that makes him seem like a jerk. He's funny and genuine, but also he isn't afraid to talk about emotions (he literally says in an interview after filming "Cherry" that he cries multiple times a week). He was confident enough to dress in full drag and dance for a lip-synch battle. As you said, he really is a nearly perfect balance. Tom understands that being open and honest is important, as well. Sorry, I know this is unnecessarily long, but overall, I really enjoyed this video and thought you did an extremely good job of both understanding and explaining.

[@SethShivang]

Dear God !! Please Give me the charm of Mr. Holland 😭

[@alis-anime5484]

Ill say it, it's okay for Tom to be emotionally vulnerable without having to worry about his masculinity due to the simple fact that he is 1, physically attractive 2, is well off financial all these other traits are an ofter thought, only relevant because facts 1 and 2 exist.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I agree!

[@sophiejones7727]

no, it's attractive-and in fact healthy-for any man to be that way. Neither money nor conventional beauty have anything to do with it. There is nothing more attractive to most people than someone who shows they are vulnerable. The word "vulnerable" literally means "able to be hurt". If you are willing to show that you can be hurt, then you must not need validation from other people. You must know that you are valid no matter what anyone else says. That's very attractive, because that confidence allows other people to relax even if they are not confident. They don't need to spend energy trying to guess what you want to hear or what your emotional needs are. They don't need to worry about not giving you the validation you're looking for, because you aren't looking for validation. As this video pointed out: Tom Holland is not attractive because he is financially well off. Tom Holland is financially well off because he is attractive. He's actually average looking, very forgettable, practically dorky in comparison to his MCU co-stars. But you don't forget him, because of how he *behaves*. He oozes confidence and zest for life. He easily shows enthusiasm for things, even things others might consider it shameful to show enthusiasm for. He gives the impression that he does not need the affection or enthusiasm of the crowd: that even if we were throwing rotten fruit at him, he'd be happy. That is an impression, it's probably not literally true, but that's not the point. That impression is why he gets leading roles and the money that comes with that. People like someone who gives that impression: women, casting directors, audiences. Anyone can give that impression, whether they are wealthy and successful for not.

[@infygaming5017]

@@sophiejones7727 ...Have you seen average men? He is conventionally VERY attractive and there's no going around that. But yes I agree that his personality has a lot to do with it.

[@sophiejones7727]

@@infygaming5017 Note where it says "in comparison". Attractive in comparison to your average guy? hell yes. Not in comparison to RDJ and co. That's why he works well as Spiderman. It would be wrong if Spiderman wasn't dorky *in comparison to those around him*. obviously, you gotta be good looking to be in a movie. duh.

[@GrafinVonHopper]

@@sophiejones7727 Você arrasou!😀👏👏👏 Faço minhas as suas palavras.

[@alaa6382]

It's been 4 years. I'd love to hear your opinion again about Tom Holland after all these years because he doesn't seem very much the same person now😂😂

[@itsameMaRiO2021]

Tom Holland attractiveness does not need analyzing.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

oh come on he deserves it tho

[@itsameMaRiO2021]

@@AnthonyRecenello I have to agree, I'm a very big fan of his. And I think he deserves it 1000 percent. So thank you and good luck!

[@misspriss2482]

I'm loving Tom's "WTF are you talking about?!?" facial expressions when Jake is spewing all of his BS about Benedict Cabbagepatch.

[@playanakobi4407]

That's why he's spidey. He's so charming.

[@oryza_citrus]

thank you for this!! I've been frustrated of how much Im attracted to him and not understand why

[@chrkrngl]

Came here to understand to Tom Holland phenomenom (I am an ENFP like him, but trapped in an INFP's body, life and environmental factors, haha!), but I stayed for 7:35 VERY VERY unexpected life advice! Thank you sincerely! I kinda "got" it somewhere in the back of my mind already, but you nailed it perfectly. Real men don't need to prove themselves, or to complain/victim role. Nobody (at least no woman, guys!) wants to hear a man complain or whine. That's how it is. And always have been. That's something "conservative" you can do. Right, sometimes things get crazy and you start to question society, at least partially. But NEVER let it define your being or how you act or your kindness, for example. Don't let "politics" make you a bitter person. Also: The macho and the söyböy/softie/yes-man both are dysfunctional roles, like left and right on a completely dysfunctional axis. (And using these terms makes you already play part in the whining game.) I *guess* a real man, it is like you said: 'you simply don't care'. 100% true. But about OTHER things other than yourself you *DO* care a lot as a real man. You care a lot actually. About your wife, girlfriend, family, friends, loved-ones and so on, and things you like to do or want to achieve. But NOT to prove yourself to others. And it's about what you give. Also to women! (Of course, including: be aware aware and don't be a fool or an idiot or a victim, that's like basic stuff) --35yo boomer here from Germany. Cheers, mate! *PS*: Another really great man: Brandon Flowers. I absolutely love The Killers and Brandon Flowers since Mr. Brightside in the first half of the 2000s. Lately I discovered Flowers' life story and his views on family and marriage and so on. He is also a really great man! (He is married to his wife since the band's very early huge successes, and she suffers PTSD and worse, but he always cares and stays true to her. IN THE MUSIC INDUSTRY. Imagine that!) He wrote (official) songs to her! ('Rut', 'Blowback', 'Dying Breed', 'Some kind of love', 'Caution'), while also keeping their private life and her struggle private. Which is like a very thin line, but he did very well. There is video from the Mormon's youtube channel, where he presents his family. WOW. And absolutely down to earth. The way how he writes about women in general also had quite an impact on me over the years. ('When You Were Young', 'Heart of A Girl', 'Miss Atomic Bomb', 'Here With Me'). Male role models help a lot to figure something in yourself out! If you don't really know who you are or how you are, e.g. nobody (no father) ever showed or told you. You can get much inspiration from male role models in the way they view themes and issues. NOT to "fake" yourself or copy those role models. But maybe there is a little bit Tom Holland or Brandon Flowers in your soul, too. If something or someone rings a bell inside you, look for what's the meaning of it! I wanted to keep this way shorter initially. My background is searching for male role models (from like 20 to 45), and to "understand" true maleness of different ages (I give Tom 100 points!) I had some stuff happening to me very early and I'm re-growing my personality and masculinity. And filling a personality/development deficit. Luckily it works pretty well with my therapy, which I very recently started, with 35 (traumatic therapy, EMDR, IRRT). To everyone else here with something like this: You are not alone! Male role models help me very much as an inspiration. As long as you don't want to 1:1 copy them. Inspiration, not replacement. Love yourself! (or try to start to!) Sometimes it does hurt. That's true also. My plan right now is: I want to become a father until I am 40. And to sort all the things out, which are in the way and prevent me from it, right now. (pro tip: financial situations are extremely overrated!) I read that you first get fully grown up, when you get children your own. And that there is like a chamber in your heart with power and courage (also for us males/fathers) ...and compensation for lack of sleep xD..., and that chamber in your heart opens up, as soon as you have a child. (haha, I stole that last line from Brandon Flowers)

[@GrafinVonHopper]

Que coisa linda o seu texto.😄 Eu sou mulher INFJ e não pude deixar de me sentir tocada por suas palavras. Penso que quanto mais conheço os homens ENFPs, mais eu me sinto atraída por eles. Que Deus te abençoe e te desejo sucesso em sua jornada. Abraços.

[@psychic_panda]

Hell. I'm just a kid and I love him already!!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

He’s Spider-Man why wouldn’t you?

[@psychic_panda]

@@AnthonyRecenello Well he's more than spiderman. He's a wonderful human being who can be hot and cute both at the same time!

[@rachelsh_yn]

"[...] cool guy that not at all cares abt coming off macho or masculine. it's unfortunately these days that ton of men are suffering from depression and deep feelings of insecurity from not feeling really good enough and a lot of these men are looking at deep dark crevices of the internet with gurus telling them that it's bc feminism is keeping them from being true masculine men" 👏👏

[@genevievemonk1108]

6:05 see, my dude, it's a gemini trait

[@Lowkeyririi]

Do one for Louis Tomlinson please!:)

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Mayyyyybe

[@shab2586]

yeah he always make the interviewer fall in love lol

[@jasonyuson8394]

Even I'm straight guy, I'm gay over Tom

[@alyssiasharon6635]

These videos are so absolutely interesting. I love understanding people and their actions. 👏

[@54n413]

BROOOO I LIVE FOR THIS VIDEO

[@yasminekaram6390]

Next time someone asks me why I love tom holland so much imma show them this video

[@dawnharris3503]

Well said! Tom is the full package. Women just want to be listened to..it is not a secret but only a few men understand that!

[@Kathryn721]

Yes to this whole video!

[@chrkrngl]

suggestion: Do Brandon Flowers from The Killers.

[@veriasmr7567]

Please do an analysis on Jennifer Lawrence

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Soon!

[@carahanley5896]

Moral of the story toms perfect

[@marvelous.880]

Tom Holland is very hot

[@impastabowl2328]

I feel like I enjoyed interviews with Tom Holland a lot more when he didn’t try to act exactly like he was supposed to, it made him feel more relatable

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yah

[@yogawithdev448]

He still seems pretty genuine to me... Do you mean like, you've noticed this recently?

[@impastabowl2328]

Devyn I was saying like before when he first started in his bigger roles like Spider-Man he seemed to be less accustomed to everything and how he should act according to the public and it made him feel a bit more relatable compared to his later interviews for things like Onward and Spies in Disguise where he seemed to act more like a, as Anthony put it, “movie star”, which of course he is but it made it harder to relate to him when he did every perfectly. I’m a fan and I’m not saying it’s a fault, just something I’ve personally noticed. ☺️

[@yogawithdev448]

@@impastabowl2328 Ohh Ok, Thanks For explaining. That makes sense. I really hope he stays himself, and doesn't develop an ego like some celebs or start acting a certain way. I like him best when he's being genuine and just himself, like when he's goofing off with zendaya and Jacob. Some of their interviews together are just hilarious.

[@karaokeforyou4]

The spider man background music makes this video so much cooler

[@Velociraptor449]

Jake Gyllenhaal’s roles in Enemy and Prisoner were downright spooky.